Our own definition of beauty, womanhood and success: Shudufhadzo Musida,Vongai Mapho & Anarzade Omar

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  • Опубликовано: 13 дек 2024

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  • @thatoisaacs4030
    @thatoisaacs4030 Год назад +239

    Mpoomy listening skills are impeccable. Her ability to listen through, pick important aspects and share her insightful wisdom whilst still ensuring that the speakers shine through their stories. Is AMAZING.

    • @MpoomyLedwaba
      @MpoomyLedwaba  Год назад +36

      🥺🥺🥺this means a lot

    • @Chidzy.M
      @Chidzy.M Год назад +2

      This!!!🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️

    • @Sambulo-biyela
      @Sambulo-biyela Год назад +6

      Listen, she is impeccable🥹❤️, a complete pleasure to watch every single time. So much so that i have to watch all her episodes on my TV screen at home, the aura almost feels my home! I could go on but yoh!❤️

    • @anamgwenn
      @anamgwenn Год назад +5

      I totally agree,she is seasoned.I’m like wow the growth🤎oh Mashudu when she opens her mouth👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼

    • @Backroom_living
      @Backroom_living Год назад +2

      Yes yes yes!!❤

  • @Poome_M
    @Poome_M Год назад +201

    Mpoomy is such a great interviewer/host. She lets her guests finish telling a story without them feeling rushed🤍 love this so much about her podcast ❤️❤️❤️

    • @maps_t6059
      @maps_t6059 Год назад +3

      My exact thoughts as I was watching this !

  • @vickiesifundza853
    @vickiesifundza853 Год назад +95

    Shudu speaks with so much grace 🤍❤️

  • @mutshidzitshinavhe6867
    @mutshidzitshinavhe6867 Год назад +81

    I feel like Shudu must come back, she has a lot to share and she speaks with so much eloquence😍😍

  • @asandamagwede4361
    @asandamagwede4361 Год назад +92

    Shudu is so well spoken🙌🏾🙌🏾she is so calm, wise, kind and poised. I loved everything about this insert. You ladies are Amazing🥰🥰🥰

  • @portiasibandar4067
    @portiasibandar4067 Год назад +125

    We honestly need more of Shudu ❤( really enjoyed how she unpacked)

    • @shadey_b
      @shadey_b Год назад +4

      Couldn't agree more with you. We need more of Shudu. 🤍🤍

    • @ladyqngomane
      @ladyqngomane Год назад +1

      Agreed🙌

    • @lindiswamantyi6263
      @lindiswamantyi6263 Год назад +1

      Yhuu hayi Sis, the lady is amazing yhuu bethuna. Thanks mani for such opportunity that are opened

  • @makhale1204
    @makhale1204 Год назад +66

    Shudu is a powerhouse ❤ enjoyed this interview 👌

  • @PalesaVictorious
    @PalesaVictorious Год назад +65

    I always felt that Shudu was a bit closed off and this interview has really made everything clear. I love how passionate she is about protecting her mental well-being, reminds me so much of myself ❤

  • @LK_PETERS
    @LK_PETERS Год назад +47

    We honestly were robbed to experience Shudu fully during a reign because of bullying what a phenomenal lady

  • @babalwapatronnela3156
    @babalwapatronnela3156 Год назад +32

    Shudu’s humility is everything ❤❤I honestly didn’t want this conversation to end, it’s soo impactful, thank you Mrs Mom

  • @lifewithtendresse
    @lifewithtendresse Год назад +19

    Hearing Shudu speak for the first time, I can see why she won because she's extremely intelligent and we'll spoken. Very poised and graceful and absolutely gorgeous😍

  • @tshegofatsokwenda204
    @tshegofatsokwenda204 Год назад +42

    The one thing that stood out for me in this episode/ video is when Vongai is said she is so self-aware. I think being self-aware is something that is not spoken of a lot, being self aware will save you from so much pain, judging yourself and not trusting yourself. Its so important that in all seasons you remain so self-aware that you know where your journey is going. If i was asked to say something to a woman out there today is forever be self-aware, it's going to help you understand the journey. It's going to help you forgive yourself and moreover anything it's going to keep you resilient. ❤Happy Womens Month Queens

    • @nomcebontuli8748
      @nomcebontuli8748 Год назад

      Vongai is a horrible person hiding pretending to be something she is not. She is really horrible that is why she can’t keep any friends. A moster.

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 Год назад +24

    Mpoomy is an expert at this. Give her flowers 💐 for beautiful interview ❤ she gives all 3 of these very different ladies a fair chance. Beautiful episode

  • @AyandaAyoMbatha
    @AyandaAyoMbatha Год назад +31

    Shudu is so well spoken 👏👏

  • @mangtshuhlamolefe1460
    @mangtshuhlamolefe1460 Год назад +40

    Shudufhadzo should come back alone, I think she has more to say. ❤

  • @sphiwehlophe6840
    @sphiwehlophe6840 Год назад +16

    May we please have Shudu back, she’s so well spoken ❤
    Thank you for giving us such incredible women.

    • @jesss8060
      @jesss8060 Год назад

      South Africa took her for granted even 😭

  • @mbalimasekela669
    @mbalimasekela669 Год назад +25

    Shudufhadzo is honestly such a gem 🤍

  • @gugulethumoyo5960
    @gugulethumoyo5960 Год назад +95

    “Give yourself a chance ….Fail forward “ - Shudu❤❤❤❤

    • @PE.COOOKS
      @PE.COOOKS Год назад

      That word resonated with me

  • @lindiswamantyi6263
    @lindiswamantyi6263 Год назад +2

    Yhuuu Shudu bethunana, I didn't not know this lady is this intelligent. Thanks ladies, that was very very good interview from all of you.

  • @senamilekhumalo1651
    @senamilekhumalo1651 Год назад +10

    I shed a few tears when Shudu spoke... "having the courage to try"❤

  • @lesegoyv
    @lesegoyv Год назад +11

    Loved it when Mpoomy takes us back to her and Vongai moments, its important to acknowledge where you come from and those who held your hands.

  • @anitacakana747
    @anitacakana747 Год назад +5

    Shudu is poised and speaks with Grace please bring her back. God has blessed her with so much that she can pour out to other

  • @buyisilezulu4782
    @buyisilezulu4782 Год назад +13

    Absolutely love hearing Shudu speak, so eloquent, humble, open and just gracious. So sorry to hear she had hard time growing up. Thanks Mpoomy.

  • @beckyphala5436
    @beckyphala5436 Год назад +8

    I agree with everyone, Shudu's life story is testament to an ordained path. We need more of her.

  • @anabelleshai
    @anabelleshai Год назад +27

    My God such beautiful conversations, feeling super lucky to have all this great women in one room😭💖🤩

  • @tshegoragabane2557
    @tshegoragabane2557 Год назад +15

    That woman who y’all are taking about, who you want to inspire to be free willed and aware, resilient and assertive is me. You are positively impacting me at the moment. I am moving and never looking back

  • @mirandamthimunye9727
    @mirandamthimunye9727 Год назад +7

    Mpoomy is such a great host man❤, she does it flawlessly. And I would like to see more of Shudu, what a phenomenal young woman🌟

  • @Tleho
    @Tleho Год назад +11

    A Thousand Splendid Suns is by Khaled Hosseini. A beautiful story, narrated by a great author. I loved every moment of this interview. ❤

  • @The-truth-about-the-truth
    @The-truth-about-the-truth Год назад +21

    Theres something about Shudu ❤
    Please bring her back. Im so inspired.

  • @khanyisagura4377
    @khanyisagura4377 Год назад +8

    "Motherhood has made me lonely", Vongai. Shuuuu that hit me in my gut, But I know for Vongai and myself I wouldn't change the opportunity of being a Mother for anything ❤
    Love to these woman

  • @ghezillekaonga1678
    @ghezillekaonga1678 Год назад +3

    Her words "education is important but access to opportunities..." Woooow the words are so profound

  • @tintswalochabalala4672
    @tintswalochabalala4672 Год назад +30

    I keep chocking on this conversation. The Holy spirit has me going back to scriptures, confirming some of the things you've touched. The holy spirit agreeing with how we all cannot be at forefront of Some of us have to be in production, some on set, some on wardrobe for his purpose to come together and manifest. Phillipians 2:25, Paul mentions Epaphroditus as a true brother, co-worker and fellow soldier . He did all these great things behind the scenes scenes. We only get to hear of them in just one verse. I'm so grateful for this Installment.❤

    • @NomsLoots
      @NomsLoots Год назад +2

      Absolutely love this comment 🥹♥️… We’re each parts making up the body of Christ. The head may not be as good important as (just an example) the foot but each one is important in its own way. Without one, the body is affected in a great way.

  • @bongimthimunye1233
    @bongimthimunye1233 Год назад +4

    Shudu is such an incredible woman, listening to her narrate her journey is really empowering 🥺❤️

  • @oleratosempe8731
    @oleratosempe8731 Год назад +8

    Could listen to Shudu 24/7 🥺🥺 great conversation overall! So inspiring! Mpoomy you are an amazing host! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @tshilidzinekhumbe6340
    @tshilidzinekhumbe6340 Год назад +6

    Thank you for this amazing podcast ladies. I can relate to most of the things mentioned and I used to think I was alone in my struggles. I grew up in a small town and there weren't that many tall people, I was name called and shamed, and my whole life I thought I was just a weirdo, I don't belong, God should have made me shorter like all the girls and boys my age. I remember being heartbroken when my crush thought I was good-looking but couldn't date me cause I'm taller than him- What a wow!😂😂 Most of my childhood I kept to myself, I stopped playing outside with other kids. I'm now 27 years and I still don't like to be looked at. I hide under the mask I have learned to put on, that I'm strong and I don't care who's looking, but inside I'm trembling. I dealt with my struggles alone and I could not discuss them with my family or my mom. I moved to Jozi (Gauteng) and found more tall people, and I felt better. Almost everyone thinks I should be a model but I still don't like attention, I would rather bury myself in books😂😂 I'm learning to live a little and not care who is watching for real vs acting like I don't really care, go wherever without feeling like people will think I'm a weirdo. Thank you for this platform @Mpoomy🙏🙏

  • @hhtvbdb
    @hhtvbdb Год назад +71

    Omw, please bring Shudu back, alone🥺❤️❤️❤️ I relate to her bullying story sooo much. And seeing where she is rn!! She is so amazing please. I'm so inspired. I just love her 🥰

    • @doreengontse7913
      @doreengontse7913 Год назад +4

      very true,,we need her back,,that time alone

    • @bafedilemokoena7950
      @bafedilemokoena7950 Год назад +4

      Yes please bring Shudu back 🙏🏽

    • @kebafentse
      @kebafentse Год назад +2

      Where to we sign the petition to bring her back because i need her to pour herself onto me more❤

    • @shadey_b
      @shadey_b Год назад +2

      Yes please 😫😫

  • @nonhlebixa2928
    @nonhlebixa2928 Год назад +20

    My favorite potcast is yours mpoomy, you inspire us alot, some might not give you flowers because that's how we are as black people we wait for people to die then we start realizing and recognizing the impact they made,,,, you are absolutely amazing at what you do sis.. Keep up the good work, and never listen to haters who keep criticizing you, they are just hurt and they envy your work.. We love you ❤️

  • @cwayitagcilitshana7982
    @cwayitagcilitshana7982 Год назад +8

    Liesal Mthombeni up next Mrs Moms please! 🙏

  • @CWMNation
    @CWMNation Год назад +4

    Shudu had me choking on tears 😢...sad about what she went through for 7 whole years.

  • @sivuyisiwemntwana1227
    @sivuyisiwemntwana1227 Год назад +2

    I saw shudu and I knew she would win. She had a light about her plus she is gorgeous

  • @phumelelehsikhosanah847
    @phumelelehsikhosanah847 Год назад +5

    A wise woman once said to me " Khuleka mtanami, ukube uyaz ukuthi makukhuleka wena nami ngyathuka, so Khuleka mtanami"
    That was my maternal grandmother in my university years. That's when I realised my gift of praying because I didn't notice it before she mentioned it. It always happened organically and I took no notice in its power. From there I grew as a woman🥺. So grateful for that moment and every other moment from then🙏💚

  • @xolileradebe2498
    @xolileradebe2498 Год назад +1

    Honestly fell in love with Shudu. I saw a side of her that I have not see before. Mpoomy you will forever have my heart, this talk was so impactful. i have great respect for the other ladies too. Loved everything about this.

  • @anelemakhoba300
    @anelemakhoba300 Год назад +6

    Shudu speaks with so much power and grace ❤

  • @palesalotlhare6201
    @palesalotlhare6201 Год назад +7

    The way I smiled through all of it, and almost cried at some points. So beautiful.

  • @achatwithgoitse
    @achatwithgoitse Год назад +17

    Struck by Shudu’s kindness and humility. ❤

  • @thembelihlenhlalonhlenkosi2172
    @thembelihlenhlalonhlenkosi2172 Год назад +5

    My new favorite thing to do is listening to your podcast. Thank you for asking the right questions. Posted on my WhatsApp status today "what are you reading or which book would you recommend" no one replied 🥴 now I've picked up 5 books from this conversation. Modimo ke star 😁.

  • @siphelelefumbata
    @siphelelefumbata Год назад +4

    I haven't even watched but this takes me back to the "excellence is my brand" video with ANENO! You've come so far Mama!!!

  • @pfanomukhodobwane1666
    @pfanomukhodobwane1666 Год назад +3

    Please bring Shudufhadzo back, she is such a phenomenal woman ❤

  • @Diana_Nzisar
    @Diana_Nzisar Год назад +13

    I live for such worthwhile conversations !
    Thank you beauty squad❤

  • @WeWelcomeYouHome
    @WeWelcomeYouHome Год назад +6

    I have no words for this episode. Wow. So heartfelt. So intentional. Thank you Ladies 💕🤞🏾 Life Changing!

  • @rutendomahowa715
    @rutendomahowa715 Год назад +4

    Mpoomy you have created such a great platform. It was such a great conversation to listen to. I loved the snippet where Vongai realised that she was in fact bullied but how a strong home environment can counteract the effects that bullying can have. It leaves us with such a huge responsibility within the context of a family ❤

  • @lulufierce01
    @lulufierce01 Год назад +4

    The Alchemist *
    Tuesday with Morry( sp)
    There's grace for today!
    Jeremiah 29v11 -For I know the plans I have for you.....
    This podcast was the medicine I needed. Thank you♥️

  • @lolo_nem
    @lolo_nem Год назад +6

    Loved loved this conversation. I like Mrs mom's words "there is grace for everyday" what a beautiful reminder

  • @Sisakes
    @Sisakes Год назад +10

    This is such a powerful interview, thank you ladies for these inspiring conversations

  • @pfunzorambauli3674
    @pfunzorambauli3674 Год назад +11

    I didn’t want this conversation to end, this was so beautiful ❤️👏🏾

  • @mmtn9043
    @mmtn9043 Год назад +1

    Mpoomy am so Inspired about how you are so proactive or well established with reading, you always have a clue on the books

  • @optical.7973
    @optical.7973 Год назад +3

    Mpoomy Ledwaba, they tried but the hand of God keeps you strong, you're still smiling after all you went through. I'm learning a lot from you💞

  • @nonkululekosibiya2854
    @nonkululekosibiya2854 Год назад +11

    You’re doing super great Mpooms🌸what a refreshing insightful channel 🤍🍃.Thank you 🙏

  • @kebafentse
    @kebafentse Год назад +1

    When Shudu asked Mpoomy whats yours that was it for me guys Shudu is my soulmate she was actually asking Mpoomy to fill she cup to because she can see its overflowing with wisdom.Beautiful❤

  • @johannafrieda7229
    @johannafrieda7229 Год назад +7

    I honestly didn't want this to end.

  • @Thisis_rea
    @Thisis_rea Год назад +3

    Watching and listening to this interview just made my heart smile, I rarely comment however listening to Vongai just made me love her personality a little more. Thanks again Mrs mom for another wonderful conversation 🫶🏾

  • @Asemahlenyengane4
    @Asemahlenyengane4 Год назад +1

    Mpoomy thank you for changing my life consistently without even realising ngiyabonga kakhulu ❤️❤️❤️ I love you
    What a beautiful conversation ❤️

  • @dollientmashapa5366
    @dollientmashapa5366 Год назад +3

    Such a beautiful conversation. Please bring Shudu back😍

  • @humxnly
    @humxnly Год назад +4

    Incredible!. this was wholesome, one other thing that stood out for me was when the ladies spoke about showing up. I am so grateful for this conversation. Thank you everyone.

  • @mihlaliskeyi7180
    @mihlaliskeyi7180 Год назад +4

    Yho this is such a special episode for me because when Mpoomy shared her story about being sexually assaulted I remembered the sexual abuse I had repressed for so many years. These conversations are so important. Thank you ladies for sharing your stories ❤

  • @nombulelondlovu7035
    @nombulelondlovu7035 Год назад +3

    Shudu ❤❤❤❤.. this is absolutely beautiful and eye-opening, love it💥💫

  • @Keletso_Senne
    @Keletso_Senne Год назад +3

    Shudufadzo is such a well spoken woman🥹🥹

  • @mazvitamus
    @mazvitamus Год назад +4

    Thank you ladies, you guys are so well spoken and the topics you touched were amazing ❤
    And vongai l really appreciate the representation 🇿🇼

  • @sibongilemncube5374
    @sibongilemncube5374 Год назад +12

    Thank you Mpoomy , loved this thorougly ❤. Such a good way to start August from Ayanda to this podcast. God bless you and enlarge your territory.

  • @ReignTravel-o4e
    @ReignTravel-o4e Год назад +2

    Yes I love this narrative for Muslim women

  • @luciamoshoeshoe8145
    @luciamoshoeshoe8145 Год назад +3

    What a Motivation you'all are amazingly incredible. I really enjoyed, I cried, I smiled, but most important part of this gathering was making me aware that there is nothing wrong with me.

  • @tanakamudzamiri3245
    @tanakamudzamiri3245 5 месяцев назад

    This is so empowering seeking out opportunities does really matter. It’s so heart warming to see that they are woman who are who are doing things for the good of others with genuine intentions

  • @letjanelindokuhle9189
    @letjanelindokuhle9189 Год назад +4

    I didn't know how much I needed a conversation like this one until I actually listened to it. Thank you so much ladies🧡🧡

  • @tumiedyakopu8370
    @tumiedyakopu8370 Год назад +1

    Shudu is calm and collected.. Mpoomy you honestly fought I mean you brought us so powerful women.. Thank you sis this was so powerful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @arinahosharon6354
    @arinahosharon6354 Год назад +2

    This was soo beautiful....Mpoomy your such a power house the quote il live by from today is " to detach from how i want things to be like" thank you soo much

  • @leratomakunyane8475
    @leratomakunyane8475 Год назад +3

    I am always inspired by Mpoomy's wisdom every time I watch and listen to her work. You are a pro Girl💐💐💐

  • @summerme4559
    @summerme4559 Год назад +2

    Absolutely adore Shudu

  • @alungilegxabu8618
    @alungilegxabu8618 Год назад +2

    Shudu is so well spoken, it's inspiring. ❤

  • @Rethabile_Jeane
    @Rethabile_Jeane 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much for this. As someone who crew up being told everything that was wrong with me. This contributed a fraction to the healing and wholeness that God is currently doing in me. 1 Corinthians 10:13 realizing that every temptation I struggled with my brothers and sisters around the world have also struggled with the same.
    Jeremiah 29:11 (And I just put this second scriptures here). God all works out for good at the end. ❤

  • @Theincredibleme-98
    @Theincredibleme-98 Год назад +1

    It must be soo nice for people who learned from their mothers and have such great connections with them..There are some of us who are not orphans but have no such connections to say my mom inspired me

  • @phemopatience
    @phemopatience Год назад +3

    You guys keep reminding me that I don’t belong in corporate

  • @zinniamoti2732
    @zinniamoti2732 9 месяцев назад

    I love this so much, I feel so proud of women and the amazing things we’re doing together

  • @florencephoebe
    @florencephoebe Год назад +1

    1. Viola Davis
    2. Dr. Phumzile
    3. Sarah Jakes book
    4. What happened to you? By Orphrah Whitney.
    5.Dr. TED Jakes stop trying to fit in
    6. Rising strong.. Britney Brown
    7. Britney Brown podcast
    8. Your highest self... Hellen Rose
    9. Thousand splendid sun... Paul Coello.
    10. Alchemist

  • @londiwehlophe8139
    @londiwehlophe8139 Год назад

    Wow!!! it's so lovely to see and listen to women giving each other the energy and motivation to be a woman. Thank you, Lady, ❤❤❤

  • @mantsolefa7608
    @mantsolefa7608 Год назад +12

    Hello Mpoomy, I want to take this moment to express my appreciation for this amazing content you have shared. The insights shared were incredibly thought-provoking and eye opening. I resonated with the bullying aspect of it.

  • @winniemodise1713
    @winniemodise1713 Год назад

    "If you don't have the courage, you will never know what's on the other side"
    So profound

  • @basadimasitha822
    @basadimasitha822 11 месяцев назад

    I enjoyed every minute of it. The host is GREAT, the ladies are amazing.. SHUDU, girl you are a star ⭐❤️❤️

  • @nonzengluphoni9289
    @nonzengluphoni9289 Год назад +4

    Can we have an all Shudu interview, just her 💚

  • @mogomanemichell7879
    @mogomanemichell7879 Год назад +1

    Oh wow, i really loved every single moment of this talk. Seeing all my favourites together in one space. Beautiful ladies doing great things. We are inspired by you,what you do and your journies. i learned alot from all of you. i didnt know that Shudufhadzo speaks like she did on this podcast, yay i loved it so much. it says alot about what Anarzade said about us claiming that we know people by just seeing them and engaging them on social media.Thank you so Mpoomy #we are radiant and beautiful

  • @melissaoshea3262
    @melissaoshea3262 Год назад +1

    This is everything! .. I loved how Shudu complemented Anarzade ✨✨🧡🧡 reminds me of the quote "We rise by lifting others" .. @Mpoomy thanks for creating the space for upliftment

  • @lucymoraba1799
    @lucymoraba1799 Год назад +4

    This is sooo beautiful... Thank you ladies this was a beautiful one for the soul

  • @Nokwazi.
    @Nokwazi. Год назад +1

    An amazing conversation and as a young lady I'm inspired by these wonderful beautiful women 😊 so much wisdom

  • @rendanimdluli2687
    @rendanimdluli2687 Год назад +1

    @Mpoomy you deserve a standing ovation for all your contents. God gave you so much wisdom. The way you conduct your interviews always bring out the best in people. 🤗❤️💐, we are grateful to have you in our generation. May you never get weary.
    Enjoyed this conversation ❤

  • @asivelandu9864
    @asivelandu9864 Год назад +2

    Loved this.♥️ We need Shudu back though!🥹

  • @holly_kalonji
    @holly_kalonji 10 месяцев назад

    This was SO, SO BEAUTIFUL to watch!🥹🤎 Also, I absolutely love Shudu! There's just such a serene aura about her and I also absolutely love just how eloquent and intelligent she is! 😻❤️

  • @latimahlasela
    @latimahlasela Год назад +1

    Shudu wooow😍😍 So much grace and eloquence!

  • @Kelesitse.m
    @Kelesitse.m Год назад +2

    Before i even press play, i am loving it. The guests are amazing ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @sithokozilekayumba28
    @sithokozilekayumba28 Год назад +1

    Grace for today. Yes yes yes. There is ALOT going on, but i too believe its important to give yourself grace for your present to actually get through now before you have to get through tomorrow. Loved this Podcast and Ms SA is so well spoken I feel like I can listen to her all day. I love her social skills.

  • @PeloKwapeng
    @PeloKwapeng Год назад +1

    Shudu speaks so well my goodness ❤️🥹

  • @yonelagamnca285
    @yonelagamnca285 Год назад +1

    Wow. So good to hear Shudu’s story🙆🏻‍♀️👏👏👏👏