Had a question. You said attachment is unnecessary but can you say you truly love somebody without being attached to them? Can a child feel the connection to his parents without being attached?
@@animenmusic16 Great question! In my view you can love someone deeply and show compassion, but learning detachment is challenging because it’s part of being human. While it may not be what everyone wants to hear I believe that keeping the end in mind allows us to live more meaningfully. It’s not about stopping love but rather about being at peace with letting go-leaving the world and the people in it to follow their own paths, without clinging or control.
@@kristinethevideo but does attachment mean always to control? Do you believe that your view on this might change in the future in order to keep growing as a person and seek the truth a/c to you at the end or is this your final view limit?
RUclips is really weird, yesterday I was just watching a programming tutorial and now I am listening to a woman about her opinions in life and being captivated by her
Romans 10:9-10 “If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.” 😊👍 James 4:8 “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.” Repent of your sins to God, my friend! ❤😊
@@_Siloam_ Why are we sinful just because we exist? What makes us so horrible, according to you? Everything good is God, and everything bad is me? What makes Christianity so different from any other religion? It's all blind faith.
@@Gaafet I interpret it more so that people will always have themselves for their entire life. People will come into your life and you can connect with them. But, ultimately people will come and go and the only person that can support you your entire life is you.
@@Gaafet it means you come into this life alone and you dead alone.. so basically, everyone is living their own life and nobody live for someone or dead for someone.
i ABSOLUTELY ADORE this video. it gave me some consolation in this dark, scary world. "we come alone and leave alone" is something I needed to hear. Death constantly haunts me, and what scares me more is having to do it alone. be it myself or family. the fact that death is something so inherently unknown to us, and it is yet something all of us are forced to go through. Life is beautiful, and I'm extremely grateful to God that I was given a chance to even take a single breath and experience living. all in all, I love this video and hope you continue.
What if I create a tulpa(for anyone unfamiliar - a fully conscious thoughtform very similar to an imaginary friend)? Will that count as not leaving alone?
@@thwartificer I wouldn't recommend it good chance you'll be inviting something very dark into your life, that's just my view as a Christian, and it's also what God would tell you. Anything spiritual that is outside of God's divine authority that you conjure up, it's probably gonna backfire really, really badly.
I don't think you want, as a singlet person, to create other forms of consciousness in your brain purposefully. Being plural isn't all fun and flowers, and I would strongly advise you to stay away from plurality. It's not marked as a mental ILLNESS for nothing ToT Some communities have religious forms of plurality, but that would also be cultural appropriation... So if you are singlet, best that you stay that way, because living with other people in your brain doesn't come with just pure happiness, FAR from it @@thwartificer
That was absolutely breathtaking, truly a breath of realism blown in my face. I find myself often realizing what my lotus is, telling myself I will water it later. Only to realize my lotus is the very essence of "later". Waiting to take action on things I know I need to do now. Thank you for your words I will do my best to carry them forward with me every second from now to grow my lotus into a tree.
If you obsess over making the ‘right’ decision, you are basically assuming that the universe will reward you for one thing and punish you for another. The universe has no fixed agenda. Once you make any decision, it works around that decision; there is no right or wrong, only a series of possibilities that shift with each thought, feeling, and action that you experience.
Life is not a problem to be solved but a mystery to be experienced- Carl Jung I agree with you, whatever we choose to do, we learn from it and realise if it was what we wanted
This video looks like one of a movie scenes where the protagonist records herself in laptop camera talking some deep shit. Before the movie turns into most traumatic suspense thriller.
This is probably one of the best simple videos ive ever come across. Glad to see this format making a return and this is one really good advice and a healthy outlook to have in life
Quite possibly one of the most human videos I’ve seen in a while. Thank you for sharing and creating community in this warm corner of the internet. Have a good one :)
You literally came as an angel to me rn. I needed to hear this like you dont want to know! I have been asking God for signs and i randomly get this video. I have been liking this guy since high school and i never got the courage to ask him out.. lord i had regrets! He is my dream guy.. I graduated and to my surprise he attends the same college as me. it’s my first year of college, but he is completely ignoring me and not letting me talk to him after i finally got the courage to talk to him as i am no longer a teenager.. it’s hard to move on from somebody, even though they aren’t worth your time. Sometimes it’s in your own hands if you want to spend your time crying and blaming yourself and who you choose to be with, is also up to you. Praying God is keeping you safe❤❤
idk who you are, but the youtube algorithm working in your favor lol. thank you for this message, being courageous enough to shed old beliefs and sharing your growth progress with the world to learn from. it’s people like you that are a beacon of light and inspire hope for others to learn from. congrats on your journey! 🎉🫂
this made me move over my cat. he ran a way nearly 3 years ago, and i still kept myself attached to him. i no longer feel upset that he's not here, but i feel upset that i can't get myself upset anymore when i think of him. i don't feel like that anymore. maybe it's okay to move on. he'll still be very special to me, i love him very much, where ever he is now.
These are the lessons i've learned from 25 to 29 in my self love journey after a 7 year relationship ended. I also have a tattoo of the lotus flower that blossomed from the mud I went through. The newest lesson i've learend is that, Sacrifice can lead to Love or Suffering and Joy is what sets them apart.
Wow everything you said is so true, feels like this is just for me. Especially when you said: "Unlearning is difficult, but it's essential for growth." My mind blew up. Its hard, and going through that time was rough, still going through it but way better, and I've genuinely became so much more knowledgeable about the world around me.
i love this, its everything ive been learning said upfront. i finally let go of toxic connections i made myself and now im learning to forgive what ive done and just move on.
This is really , like ur talk was magnetic and before i could have a thought i JUST STUNTED BY THE POINTS U DESCRIBED IN THE WHOLE VIDEO, AND yes “THE ONLY THING WHICH DOESNT CHANGE, IS CHANGE ITSELF””
w video, only one thing for me, the possibility of having that attachment is what's keeping me here, and I'm more than willing to change with that one person, everything else was so nice, thank you for uploading this
I love this!! I think it's a great thing to normalize reflecting on how our views change and the reasons for that change. Too often people get stuck into the idea that you form a belief/opinion and that's it. You stick with it and it never changes and it should never change. However, for most beliefs this isn't how things happen generally. Thank you for sharing your changes with us!!
While watching this I truly felt your love through the screen and I could just sense the powerful contentment and peace in your demeanor. It's captivating. Thank you endlessly for your beautiful and encouraging words!!
This is so true and it stems from buddhist and hindu philosophy tbh, i remember that everything here is temporary whenever i read the sutras and books like bg, thanks for this video on detachment
The belief in a Creator summarises all the truths she mentioned in her video, as it leaves you with a mindset free from materialistic thinking and clinging to problems and bitterness. I'd add the Quran as an example.
@@thyroft6448 yeah, that works as well, most religious and philosophical concepts always work towards removing oneself from materialism and hedonism tbf
@@pioneer7855 It is not the matter of agreeing that all religions supports this idea, it is on if it speaks the TRUTH. The GENUINE truth. And I wonder, you did not bring on the fact that the other person was "trying to proselytize" after they recommended the Quran. Why are you on a defeat mode with the Bible? I simply asked a question and your instinct interpreted thus. Why?
There are many takeaways in this video. Every perspective inspires me a lot. As someone said, when you look back at this video in retrospect in the future, you must feel proud and your higher self feels a sense of accomplishment.
This is so true. Thanks for sharing. I feel like we all have things that we once believed in that really dont serve us anymore, and this video is a great reminder for me to keep doing that. Thank you 🥰
This video is oddly comforting. Its like a friend reminding you that change is okay and embrace it. It feels intimite and raw. I like how its mostly unedited! Keep up the good work ❤
i loved your previous video and now this one, the ambience, the lighting, the music and your voice. it's all so perfect and the way you articulate yourself/words is incredibly moving, thank you for sharing this ! :) im glad youtube recommended me your previous video & now this one
This is so inspiring. Not only the visuals are so warm but also the words you gave us are pure healing❤. I've always dreamed of making videos just like this. Thank you for making this! You earned yourself a new subscriber😋
Yes! Totally agree and love that you're aware of it and intentional about how you live. And, reminder to also not be attached to these things you no longer believe in, because it's okay if one day you believe in them again though it may be brief❤
I really appreciate that you took the time to create and share this! It really resonated with me! I've realized very similar things about life lately, and am happy that others are also on the same path. I would rather work hard and endure the pain of letting go of bad habits or admitting and fixing my flaws for example, than endure a pain caused by refusing to change, and live out the rest of my life letting the struggles I've always dealt with continue to increasingly negatively impact my life. It can be even harder when the things keeping us from progressing weren't our faults, yet it is our responsibility to fix the damage. That could be another example of a perspective I held onto for so long because I felt wronged and it felt unfair, but was actually a very unhelpful way to view my situation, it kept me in a negative headspace when trying to resolve it. I'm starting to see it in a different way now, I want to make sure that I as a person have a good foundation as I advance through life. I want to create a meaningful, comfortable, and expressive life for myself, and I believe that's worth the brief uncomfortableness of how life feels right now. In fact stepping outside of my old "comfort zones" has actually been really fun and encouraging!! Ahhhh haha I'm probably just yapping at this point, but I hope i made some sense! :)
some of these lessons i've learned (or unlearned) already, some of these i still have yet to learn. thanks for the wisdom drop, and i also just wanted to say that you have a beautiful smile :)
Hey. I wanted to tell you that this video has hit me with particular importance. I'm living a particular time of my life and I rarely encounter someone that shares the same perspective on things as I do. This video made me cry, completely wetting my face already from the few lines, because you've basically said everything I needed to hear and that I probably wouldn't have found elsewhere if not from inside me. Thanks for making me resonate with you for 3 minutes.
Timestamp of... What she believes, and something that I've realized, thanks to her :) 0:26 She no longer believes in certain ideas that keep her in unhealthy patterns 0:39 ''I no longer believe in talking poorly about your previous partner''
Know that you help others by these kind of videos. It gives perspective and food for thought in a world where WE are scrambling to find fulfillment and purpose. Keep at it ya mentor ! x
I was just crying about something personal that happened to me, I came across this video while trying to find shorts of other people being happy to distract myself. I just want to say, thank you so so so much for helping, your voice is so soothing that the moment I heard it, I stopped crying immediately. I felt like you were my older sister comforting me. I have a fresher perspective now, and I'm going to wake up with a fresh perspective tommorow. Thank you so much for healing me
I don't agree with everything said in this video but I can appreciate some of the thoughts. I like to think in life that when we go through these painful experiences, its equivalent to running enough red lights that eventually we get pulled over. It's like life saying, you've had this unhealthy behaviour for long enough, now its time to pay the price a little. That's not to say we deserve when bad things happen to us, I think the cruelest lessons are the ones that didn't have to happen, and yet they did. I do also think, as sad as it is, these experiences make us better versions of ourselves. I used to people a people pleaser and now I feel more than comfortable telling people to fuck off. I think those around me actually appreciate this more genuine version of myself that stands up for what I believe in and others I care about, rather than just saying what I think people will want to hear. It also helps that I was able to move away from home completely and essentially start a new life in a new city. I feel so at peace now and I wonder if I would have had the strength to do this move without the world ending misery that I experienced beforehand. After going through the start of 2024, I don't feel anything in my life will be harder to overcome.
happy for you, environment can play such a big role in our mental wellbeing and growth. it's amazing you've learned to become a better version of yourself through, (what it sounds like), hardship.
You are say the same things I’ve learned over the last year. I love the messages you’re putting out here because this is the kind of mentality we all need to have. I’m proud of you and I thank you for inspiring me.
You wrote this so beautifully, and it made me reflect on things from a bird's eye perspective. Thank you for these words and I hope they will get even more recognized and appreciated!!
I just discovered this channel last night, your content is really amazing it really helped me mentally and emotionally im really thankful and grateful to you.
I'm very grateful to have come across this video. Thank you for sharing these thoughts. I'm very thankful that you used your freedom of speech on this kind of thing. Luv u, girlie.
Thank you for sharing this, it truly is beautiful. The way you word things, and I’ve also learned the same lessons you’re saying. Shedding your old-self allows for new growth and opportunities to come. I no longer hold onto things that don’t serve me. I’ve learned not to be bitter from old situations, nor talk badly about people who have been disrespectful from the past. Change is so difficult, like you said near the end. But I’ve grown fond of change. Thanks for sharing! :)
I love this video. My journey is quite the opposite of yours. I no longer believe in doing everything by myself, in only depending on myself. I want to depend on other people. I want attachment. "We are born alone and we die alone" has been ingrained in me since I was a girl because my parents wanted me to be independent. There were times when I needed them but it felt like they were only focused on making sure I was okay being without them. They were trying to survive. They were working. I've connected the dots for why I'm like this and now I want to fix it. It's so easy for me to detach and leave but it's not always a good thing because you end up hurting people along the way.
Thank you stranger. That I just came across to, I don't usually comment. But this message had gain me 'new' perspective. Time to time I really need to be reminded that everything happens for a reason. Solely for happiness. no matter how many flower withers, they will eventually blooms.
“I no longer believe in talking poorly abt your previous partner” This is so important for others to realize imo. It never made sense to me how you can go from someone being your everything to hating that person 😂 I understand the relationship didn’t work for a certain reason, but that doesn’t mean that person is now a living incarnation of the devil
Hope you get through whatever it is you are going through ❤️ The cracks in your voice as you speak remind me of the pain I went through during the end of my relationship. I was grieving hard with that loss. Well whatever it is.. I promise it gets better.
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1:22 typo: instead of “a necessary” read as “unnecessary”
You smart, you sophisticated, you... get it
Believe in Jesus Christ not the Antichrist (666)!
Had a question. You said attachment is unnecessary but can you say you truly love somebody without being attached to them? Can a child feel the connection to his parents without being attached?
are you a vietnamese by any chance?
@@animenmusic16 Great question! In my view you can love someone deeply and show compassion, but learning detachment is challenging because it’s part of being human. While it may not be what everyone wants to hear I believe that keeping the end in mind allows us to live more meaningfully. It’s not about stopping love but rather about being at peace with letting go-leaving the world and the people in it to follow their own paths, without clinging or control.
@@kristinethevideo but does attachment mean always to control? Do you believe that your view on this might change in the future in order to keep growing as a person and seek the truth a/c to you at the end or is this your final view limit?
RUclips is really weird, yesterday I was just watching a programming tutorial and now I am listening to a woman about her opinions in life and being captivated by her
bro no way, me too 😂 😂
You're not alone brother😂
bruh fr 🤣 they be recommending outta pocket videos
Fr😂😂😂😂😂
And you know what..... I'm all here for it, guess RUclips knows how to take care of my Psyche
From the depth of the self-hating “it’s so over” I’ve pulled myself into the inner-peace of “we’re so back”
Real.
🤓🤓🤓🤓🤓
YES REAL
AHAHAHAH one of the best comments i've ever read
underrated comment
this part of RUclips feels like a safe place
Romans 10:9-10 “If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.” 😊👍
James 4:8 “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded.” Repent of your sins to God, my friend! ❤😊
@@_Siloam_ no
@@_Siloam_ Why are we sinful just because we exist? What makes us so horrible, according to you? Everything good is God, and everything bad is me?
What makes Christianity so different from any other religion? It's all blind faith.
@@_Siloam_amen
Why does every comment section turn into a religious debate 😭
“we come into this world alone and we leave alone.” i felt dat one😞
I don't understand, Does it mean that people can't connect to each other? Or is about dependence?
@@Gaafet I interpret it more so that people will always have themselves for their entire life. People will come into your life and you can connect with them. But, ultimately people will come and go and the only person that can support you your entire life is you.
@@Gaafet it means that when you become conscious you are a singular being and when you die, it will be singular death.
@@Gaafet it means you come into this life alone and you dead alone.. so basically, everyone is living their own life and nobody live for someone or dead for someone.
Thank you all
This is the kind of media I pay my internet bills for
since no one replied to this one - i will.
Dat part!!!🫰🏾🫰🏾
@@differentone_p thank you! I have never gotten this much like too.
This is valuable content
@@realvxx yes
“the only thing that doesnt change is change itself” let me cry 😭
same 😭
@@L0TUS_FLXWERomg it’s a lotus flower
Unlearning is difficult but it’s essential for growth.
I scrolled on this comment just as she said it lmao
@@m3m3lord61 Same
@@m3m3lord61me too
bro something about the quality makes me feel warm and comfortable
yess its so aesthetic
mythical fyp pull
Once in a year typa thing
On my soul🙏🙏🙏
Who tf calls the recommended page "fyp"?
@@YehudiNimolpeople who use instagram
@@YehudiNimol Tiktok addicted people
“The only thing doesn’t change is change itself” girl you are so wise.💕
in africa every 60 seconds, a minute passes
she is just quoting buddhist wisdom
@@iluvcat no really?! 😨
@@Obv1tzNahla I’m so wise 💕💕
This quote reminded me of entropy and that I have a physics exam after 3 days
Legendary 2am algorithm pull. I fw this heavy. Keep making this type of video
My time is 1:50 am HAHAH
I pulled this literally at 4pm am i cooked?
its literally 2AM rn. WTF
3:45 actually
2:20 am bro😎😎
1:58 the light from your display was like "I'm temporary too!" :DDD loved the video thank you for posting your voice is so soothing
this is how i was when i was trying to be positive after breakup.
😅 when you know, you know…
Me at 2am self talking into the mirror after crying from breakup few days ago be like
Damn yall are lucky someone ever wanted to date you
@@Kiara_kh you'll get there. time will take you there, just wait
Literally lol video is fake af. Happy music. Nothingness phrases and belief changes. All censored.
She said “Hello” and it felt like I could listen to her talk forever.
For some weird reason, this video showed up in my recommended when I needed it. Thanks for these wise words.
There's something magical about the way she speaks.
I'm actually gonna cry. I'm so happy this video exists.
this video feels like a warm hug
i ABSOLUTELY ADORE this video. it gave me some consolation in this dark, scary world. "we come alone and leave alone" is something I needed to hear. Death constantly haunts me, and what scares me more is having to do it alone. be it myself or family. the fact that death is something so inherently unknown to us, and it is yet something all of us are forced to go through.
Life is beautiful, and I'm extremely grateful to God that I was given a chance to even take a single breath and experience living.
all in all, I love this video and hope you continue.
We are scared of death because we exist but if you really think about it theres nothing to be scared of once we do not exist.
What if I create a tulpa(for anyone unfamiliar - a fully conscious thoughtform very similar to an imaginary friend)? Will that count as not leaving alone?
@@thwartificer I wouldn't recommend it good chance you'll be inviting something very dark into your life, that's just my view as a Christian, and it's also what God would tell you. Anything spiritual that is outside of God's divine authority that you conjure up, it's probably gonna backfire really, really badly.
@@noxplay4906 Uhh, just to make sure we're on the same wave, do you know what a tulpa is?
I don't think you want, as a singlet person, to create other forms of consciousness in your brain purposefully. Being plural isn't all fun and flowers, and I would strongly advise you to stay away from plurality. It's not marked as a mental ILLNESS for nothing ToT
Some communities have religious forms of plurality, but that would also be cultural appropriation...
So if you are singlet, best that you stay that way, because living with other people in your brain doesn't come with just pure happiness, FAR from it @@thwartificer
The soft warmth in her voice is so calming and relaxing
Who else randomly found this?
I was watching a lot of meme videos and then suddenly being recommended by RUclips lol
It's so random I love it, ❤
The lighting, the music, the voice, the aspect ratio... the vibes are just immaculate
when you said “in the end you’ll find a way” and smiled that made me smile too ❤ thanks for the video
Her voice is so comforting
RUclips isn't even giving me related videos on this. Its my first time seeing this.
That was absolutely breathtaking, truly a breath of realism blown in my face. I find myself often realizing what my lotus is, telling myself I will water it later. Only to realize my lotus is the very essence of "later". Waiting to take action on things I know I need to do now. Thank you for your words I will do my best to carry them forward with me every second from now to grow my lotus into a tree.
If you obsess over making the ‘right’ decision, you are basically assuming that the universe will reward you for one thing and punish you for another.
The universe has no fixed agenda. Once you make any decision, it works around that decision; there is no right or wrong, only a series of possibilities that shift with each thought, feeling, and action that you experience.
Life is not a problem to be solved but a mystery to be experienced- Carl Jung
I agree with you, whatever we choose to do, we learn from it and realise if it was what we wanted
Life is full of suffering because we get so attached to things when everything is temporary.
This video looks like one of a movie scenes where the protagonist records herself in laptop camera talking some deep shit. Before the movie turns into most traumatic suspense thriller.
LOL
true🤣🤣
Girl ure the cutest lil bean!! And the way you worded everything was so true and beautiful
This is probably one of the best simple videos ive ever come across. Glad to see this format making a return and this is one really good advice and a healthy outlook to have in life
This is unironically one of the best fyp I’ve ever had.
Quite possibly one of the most human videos I’ve seen in a while.
Thank you for sharing and creating community in this warm corner of the internet.
Have a good one :)
You literally came as an angel to me rn. I needed to hear this like you dont want to know! I have been asking God for signs and i randomly get this video. I have been liking this guy since high school and i never got the courage to ask him out.. lord i had regrets! He is my dream guy.. I graduated and to my surprise he attends the same college as me. it’s my first year of college, but he is completely ignoring me and not letting me talk to him after i finally got the courage to talk to him as i am no longer a teenager.. it’s hard to move on from somebody, even though they aren’t worth your time. Sometimes it’s in your own hands if you want to spend your time crying and blaming yourself and who you choose to be with, is also up to you.
Praying God is keeping you safe❤❤
your voice sounds so calming it’s UNREAL. like I’m listening to an old cassette tape it’s so..nostalgic
"we come to this world alone and we leave alone" that's been my favorite affirmation for so long now!❤
I don't know what corner of youtube this is, but it feels like 1999.
idk who you are, but the youtube algorithm working in your favor lol. thank you for this message, being courageous enough to shed old beliefs and sharing your growth progress with the world to learn from. it’s people like you that are a beacon of light and inspire hope for others to learn from.
congrats on your journey! 🎉🫂
I am so glad I didn’t refresh my page, this video is probably the best thing I’ve seen today ❤
this made me move over my cat. he ran a way nearly 3 years ago, and i still kept myself attached to him. i no longer feel upset that he's not here, but i feel upset that i can't get myself upset anymore when i think of him. i don't feel like that anymore. maybe it's okay to move on. he'll still be very special to me, i love him very much, where ever he is now.
These are the lessons i've learned from 25 to 29 in my self love journey after a 7 year relationship ended. I also have a tattoo of the lotus flower that blossomed from the mud I went through. The newest lesson i've learend is that, Sacrifice can lead to Love or Suffering and Joy is what sets them apart.
I don’t understand the last part
Wow everything you said is so true, feels like this is just for me. Especially when you said: "Unlearning is difficult, but it's essential for growth." My mind blew up. Its hard, and going through that time was rough, still going through it but way better, and I've genuinely became so much more knowledgeable about the world around me.
I will continue to hate the person who I once loved until my dying breath
i love this, its everything ive been learning said upfront. i finally let go of toxic connections i made myself and now im learning to forgive what ive done and just move on.
You speak and smile with the utmost sincerity. Thanks for sharing!
This is really , like ur talk was magnetic and before i could have a thought i JUST STUNTED BY THE POINTS U DESCRIBED IN THE WHOLE VIDEO, AND yes “THE ONLY THING WHICH DOESNT CHANGE, IS CHANGE ITSELF””
w video, only one thing for me, the possibility of having that attachment is what's keeping me here, and I'm more than willing to change with that one person, everything else was so nice, thank you for uploading this
listening to this video as i downloaded music to my ipod at 3am was an experience.
I love this!! I think it's a great thing to normalize reflecting on how our views change and the reasons for that change. Too often people get stuck into the idea that you form a belief/opinion and that's it. You stick with it and it never changes and it should never change. However, for most beliefs this isn't how things happen generally. Thank you for sharing your changes with us!!
it's always the humble looking nobodys that spit the best wisdom
instead of some loud-speaking confident-looking person under the spotlight
This video feels like a message sent on perfect timing, it’s just right
i love your voice, and your words of course! it felt like a hug. tysm 💗
How timely. I’ve been going through so much lately. I needed this.
1:57 "Everthing in life is temporary" like that light source 😂
While watching this I truly felt your love through the screen and I could just sense the powerful contentment and peace in your demeanor. It's captivating. Thank you endlessly for your beautiful and encouraging words!!
Living is realizing everything is temporary and in the end you inevitably leave everything.
It's only about the journey and living with Christ.
Her smile and subtle enthusiasm is so endearing and cute
This is so true and it stems from buddhist and hindu philosophy tbh, i remember that everything here is temporary whenever i read the sutras and books like bg, thanks for this video on detachment
The belief in a Creator summarises all the truths she mentioned in her video, as it leaves you with a mindset free from materialistic thinking and clinging to problems and bitterness. I'd add the Quran as an example.
@@thyroft6448 yeah, that works as well, most religious and philosophical concepts always work towards removing oneself from materialism and hedonism tbf
Hmm. How about reading the Bible?
@@Neyduu if you're going to suddenly proselytise me that's not going to work, I've agreed all books can be attributed to this way of thinking
@@pioneer7855
It is not the matter of agreeing that all religions supports this idea, it is on if it speaks the TRUTH. The GENUINE truth.
And I wonder, you did not bring on the fact that the other person was "trying to proselytize" after they recommended the Quran. Why are you on a defeat mode with the Bible? I simply asked a question and your instinct interpreted thus. Why?
There are many takeaways in this video. Every perspective inspires me a lot. As someone said, when you look back at this video in retrospect in the future, you must feel proud and your higher self feels a sense of accomplishment.
This is so true. Thanks for sharing. I feel like we all have things that we once believed in that really dont serve us anymore, and this video is a great reminder for me to keep doing that. Thank you 🥰
Her voice🧘♀️
This video is oddly comforting. Its like a friend reminding you that change is okay and embrace it. It feels intimite and raw. I like how its mostly unedited! Keep up the good work ❤
i loved your previous video and now this one, the ambience, the lighting, the music and your voice. it's all so perfect and the way you articulate yourself/words is incredibly moving, thank you for sharing this ! :) im glad youtube recommended me your previous video & now this one
This is so inspiring. Not only the visuals are so warm but also the words you gave us are pure healing❤. I've always dreamed of making videos just like this. Thank you for making this! You earned yourself a new subscriber😋
I no longer believe in fearing to be in solitude. Almost killed myself trying to be with people, I'm learning who I am now.
ur voice is so peaceful and comforting
Yes! Totally agree and love that you're aware of it and intentional about how you live. And, reminder to also not be attached to these things you no longer believe in, because it's okay if one day you believe in them again though it may be brief❤
Thank you for teaching me a thing or two about compassion and forgiveness.
I really appreciate that you took the time to create and share this! It really resonated with me! I've realized very similar things about life lately, and am happy that others are also on the same path. I would rather work hard and endure the pain of letting go of bad habits or admitting and fixing my flaws for example, than endure a pain caused by refusing to change, and live out the rest of my life letting the struggles I've always dealt with continue to increasingly negatively impact my life. It can be even harder when the things keeping us from progressing weren't our faults, yet it is our responsibility to fix the damage. That could be another example of a perspective I held onto for so long because I felt wronged and it felt unfair, but was actually a very unhelpful way to view my situation, it kept me in a negative headspace when trying to resolve it. I'm starting to see it in a different way now, I want to make sure that I as a person have a good foundation as I advance through life. I want to create a meaningful, comfortable, and expressive life for myself, and I believe that's worth the brief uncomfortableness of how life feels right now. In fact stepping outside of my old "comfort zones" has actually been really fun and encouraging!! Ahhhh haha I'm probably just yapping at this point, but I hope i made some sense! :)
A skillful way of getting across wisdom and right views in this modern age. 🙏🏼❤️
The root of suffering is attachment
Honestly crazy being recommended this having a break up 6 days ago. But alot of things she says I resonate with, thank you 🙏
some of these lessons i've learned (or unlearned) already, some of these i still have yet to learn. thanks for the wisdom drop, and i also just wanted to say that you have a beautiful smile :)
Temporary until she has child custody and you’re stuck with child support while she raises the child to be whatever she wants.
Hey. I wanted to tell you that this video has hit me with particular importance. I'm living a particular time of my life and I rarely encounter someone that shares the same perspective on things as I do. This video made me cry, completely wetting my face already from the few lines, because you've basically said everything I needed to hear and that I probably wouldn't have found elsewhere if not from inside me. Thanks for making me resonate with you for 3 minutes.
I am thankful, for this video being recommended to me.
ThankYou for sharing Kristine.
Timestamp of...
What she believes, and something that I've realized, thanks to her :)
0:26 She no longer believes in certain ideas that keep her in unhealthy patterns
0:39 ''I no longer believe in talking poorly about your previous partner''
Thanks for bringing this to my fyp,really needed this😢
Know that you help others by these kind of videos. It gives perspective and food for thought in a world where WE are scrambling to find fulfillment and purpose. Keep at it ya mentor ! x
I was just crying about something personal that happened to me, I came across this video while trying to find shorts of other people being happy to distract myself.
I just want to say, thank you so so so much for helping, your voice is so soothing that the moment I heard it, I stopped crying immediately.
I felt like you were my older sister comforting me. I have a fresher perspective now, and I'm going to wake up with a fresh perspective tommorow. Thank you so much for healing me
I feel like if I had people like you around i’d feel waaay less lonely.
I really loved every single word that you said
A video that I didn't search for but needed the most. thank you for this
I don't agree with everything said in this video but I can appreciate some of the thoughts.
I like to think in life that when we go through these painful experiences, its equivalent to running enough red lights that eventually we get pulled over.
It's like life saying, you've had this unhealthy behaviour for long enough, now its time to pay the price a little.
That's not to say we deserve when bad things happen to us, I think the cruelest lessons are the ones that didn't have to happen, and yet they did.
I do also think, as sad as it is, these experiences make us better versions of ourselves. I used to people a people pleaser and now I feel more than comfortable telling people to fuck off. I think those around me actually appreciate this more genuine version of myself that stands up for what I believe in and others I care about, rather than just saying what I think people will want to hear.
It also helps that I was able to move away from home completely and essentially start a new life in a new city. I feel so at peace now and I wonder if I would have had the strength to do this move without the world ending misery that I experienced beforehand. After going through the start of 2024, I don't feel anything in my life will be harder to overcome.
happy for you, environment can play such a big role in our mental wellbeing and growth. it's amazing you've learned to become a better version of yourself through, (what it sounds like), hardship.
You are say the same things I’ve learned over the last year. I love the messages you’re putting out here because this is the kind of mentality we all need to have. I’m proud of you and I thank you for inspiring me.
Thank you for this video, I'm going through grief right now
You've embodied the Goddess! We are truly in the Golden Age when it's this simple, and everyone understands it, too. Thank you 💛
feels like I just went to the church and the priest gave a wholesome christmas speech
You wrote this so beautifully, and it made me reflect on things from a bird's eye perspective. Thank you for these words and I hope they will get even more recognized and appreciated!!
I just discovered this channel last night, your content is really amazing it really helped me mentally and emotionally im really thankful and grateful to you.
I'm very grateful to have come across this video. Thank you for sharing these thoughts. I'm very thankful that you used your freedom of speech on this kind of thing. Luv u, girlie.
I feel like ive entered a garden and im being greeted by a fairy🧍🏽♀️
Thank you for sharing this, it truly is beautiful. The way you word things, and I’ve also learned the same lessons you’re saying. Shedding your old-self allows for new growth and opportunities to come. I no longer hold onto things that don’t serve me. I’ve learned not to be bitter from old situations, nor talk badly about people who have been disrespectful from the past.
Change is so difficult, like you said near the end.
But I’ve grown fond of change. Thanks for sharing! :)
I love this video. My journey is quite the opposite of yours. I no longer believe in doing everything by myself, in only depending on myself. I want to depend on other people. I want attachment. "We are born alone and we die alone" has been ingrained in me since I was a girl because my parents wanted me to be independent. There were times when I needed them but it felt like they were only focused on making sure I was okay being without them. They were trying to survive. They were working. I've connected the dots for why I'm like this and now I want to fix it. It's so easy for me to detach and leave but it's not always a good thing because you end up hurting people along the way.
that's why balance is everything
You should make more videos like this. I feel like many people need these relaxing short reminders and guides in life.
I will love myself and create a beautiful life for myself.
Thank you stranger. That I just came across to, I don't usually comment. But this message had gain me 'new' perspective.
Time to time I really need to be reminded that everything happens for a reason. Solely for happiness.
no matter how many flower withers, they will eventually blooms.
“I no longer believe in talking poorly abt your previous partner”
This is so important for others to realize imo. It never made sense to me how you can go from someone being your everything to hating that person 😂 I understand the relationship didn’t work for a certain reason, but that doesn’t mean that person is now a living incarnation of the devil
Unless that person is an abusive or toxic pr*ck.
Depends on that they did honestly.
Hope you get through whatever it is you are going through ❤️ The cracks in your voice as you speak remind me of the pain I went through during the end of my relationship. I was grieving hard with that loss. Well whatever it is.. I promise it gets better.
Love your voice. It's so calming. Thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤