Coping Positively with Parental Alienation for Bubbles of Love Day Alienated Children First

This video was created by Alienated Children First - written by well known Irish holistic therapist Aoife Griffin and spoken by Jan.
We hope it helps you a little bit and to those who don't know about the trauma caused by Parental Alienation to gain an insight to the pain and trauma that parents are enduring needlessly and that needs to be sorted as soon as possible not only for themselves but their children too. Please do not allow anyone to say that Parental Alienation is not real or that it is gender based abuse as it affects girls, boys, mothers, fathers, grandmothers and grandparents in Ireland and worldwide and needs to be stopped like all other forms of abuse do. Thankfully the Irish Government are soon publishing a report on Parental Alienation and will be consulting the public about this issue see www.oireachtas...
The video is aimed to positively help alienated mothers and fathers everywhere. We hope you find it useful and please visit our site at alienated.ie
Parental Alienation has been described by the Present Irish Minister of Justice Helen McEntee as “a situation when a child’s resistance or hostility towards one parent is not justified and is the result of psychological manipulation by the other parent.” Previously no Irish Minister even acknowledged that Parental Alienation even existed yet the problems caused by its existance continue climbing. Lifelong trauma for alienated children (and parents) is well known and researched yet no legislation or social services are in place to address this awful form of child abuse & coercive control. Alienated Children First are a parent's led NGO who hope to change this and influence Ireland to intervene and stop parental alienation through legislation, effective services, education and awareness.

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There is a better way. Parental custody of children is actually a very simple matter to solve given the true desire of “What is best for the child”.
We need to separate and discard marriage from family law as they no longer seem to be connected.
We can develop protocols that confer (over time) equal parental rights and responsibilities,…..once parentage is proven.
Children’s natural maturation process has 3 essential stages of need.
A.The unconditional love of the mother from birth until about 7 years of age. The mother to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance.
B.The conditional love of the father, who takes his children out into the world, gives security and teaches social boundaries from 7 until about 13 years of age. The father to have “thefinalsay” and to receive child allowance.
C.The friendship and respect of peers from 13 until 18 years of age. The child to have “thefinalsay”.
If these 3 stages are not gone through in order, maturation is unlikely to be satisfactorily achieved and mental resilience reduced. This has now become generational.
Such a regime of equal parenting rights (over time) would bind parents into a co-operative relationship, because (over time) each will hold the power of “thefinalsay” sequentially when they are best favoured to use it.
Such family protocols would be the default position, (allowing love, courtesy and humour to prevail) but could in exceptional cases be varied by the court.
Buckminster Fuller said:-
“You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete”.
To alleviate suffering is worthy. To prevent it is divine, but thankless.