Reacting to ALPHA M | 7 Psychological TRICKS to Get a Girl to Chase You!

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  • Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 6 тыс.

  • @CourtneyRyan
    @CourtneyRyan  4 года назад +882

    Hey guys! Hope you’re all enjoying the video. I wanted to quickly mention here that sure, these “tricks” might work on a certain type of girl that let’s be honest.. you probably won’t want anything to do with after a couple months because she’s probably crazy. If you’re a one night stand type of guy then the Alpha M video could be beneficial to you and maybe my channel isn’t your cup of tea which is totally okay! That’s what I love about RUclips - there’s content out there suited for everyone. I think my approach is a bit different because tricks like these are not how you keep a girl around or start a healthy relationship so I wanted to make sure you guys knew the difference. Again, thanks so much for watching and for all of your comments! I appreciate every single one regardless of if you agree with me or not 😊

    • @diegov.v2882
      @diegov.v2882 4 года назад +133

      Ok so i will follow Courtney's advice when i find a girl AS PERFECT as the one she describes. I don't mean we should be a*holes with other girls, it's good advice really, but it should only be used for that PERFECT girl when you find her, if you want to mess around, be clear, don't be a d*ck, and just be respectful, but don't go all-in with every girl who attracts you, because we live on a Facebook, Tinder, Instagram world, we're being bombarded 24/7 with pictures, and videos of beautiful beautiful women all the time...there are and will be a LOT of women who attract us. And maybe it's just my case, but 8/10 of the girls(just friends) i know are players, maybe they keep it quiet, under the table (unlike most men), but they are real players, which is fine with me btw.
      On another note i would advice you to not take Alpha's tone/words all that literally. We dudes speak that way, so we're wired to automatically tone down what we hear, and get the real message behind the words. When Alpha implied that we men should "friendzone" a girl by treating her like another dude, Alpha M viewers such as myself understand that in Aaron's words that means to be cool, have a normal conversation with her, as if you're talking to another HUMAN, because for most of us it's a bit tough to stay all smooth and chill when we meet a girl we like.
      On another tip, he says us men should ask the girl we like about one of her friends. Well, psychologically speaking, when someone is used to a certain level of attention, whoever gives them less attention automatically becomes more visible, i'm not saying more attractive, just more visible. So that''s just a tip to put men on the map, and when we get there, it's up to us to keep working our way up. We're not being told to attack women, we are given tips on how to stand a bit out of the crowd(which is massive) in certain situations, because the competition is so fierce between us men, that some of us are even betrayed by or betray our main dudes for girls.
      I believe you might not be getting him completely because you're looking at it defensively, checking these tips to "mess with your heads" when in reality is not like that at all, so i would suggest you try looking at it a bit more objectively. I further suggest you keep on watching more of Aaron's videos, so you realize that in most of them he talks about being a real man, not cheating on your girl, to be respectful, to be a gentleman, and all that kind of stuff. Only a disrespectful man-child would encourage his followers to treat girls like crap, and Aaron is not that at all, he's a good guy.
      Now, even if we don't agree completely, i would like to say i really enjoyed your video, and thank you a lot for the time and hard work you put on it, i look forward to seeing more of your opinions! Sorry if there are some grammar mistakes, english is not my mother tongue. Saludos y abrazos!

    • @kristofkelemen721
      @kristofkelemen721 4 года назад +20

      Check out AlphaM project series!

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 года назад +30

      RHINOTIME117 agreed!

    • @stephenferdinands9470
      @stephenferdinands9470 4 года назад +11

      @@diegov.v2882 well said

    • @mallunoobzzz9085
      @mallunoobzzz9085 4 года назад +5

      @@diegov.v2882 common dear lady... This is the bad boys way of talking...

  • @BXD84
    @BXD84 4 года назад +719

    Been w/ my gf for six years. Didn't get her by simping.

    • @leoclips2179
      @leoclips2179 4 года назад +29

      My friend would like to know how you got a girlfriend

    • @neft5449
      @neft5449 4 года назад +35

      Amen to the no simp 🙏

    • @jorgenvonstrangle000
      @jorgenvonstrangle000 4 года назад +5

      thats awesome man, goals imo

    • @BXD84
      @BXD84 4 года назад +17

      @@leoclips2179 I found a single girl and proceeded by asking her out.

    • @husseyn3268
      @husseyn3268 4 года назад +3

      @@leoclips2179 make her fall for you and act like 'meh' it works, try it

  • @lincolnfromct34
    @lincolnfromct34 4 года назад +1895

    Funny how the women RUclipsrs all say, “just be yourself, be genuine, be honest, tell her how truly you feel, etc.”. If this really worked, then guys like Alpha M. would not have over 6 million subscribers.

    • @salmanzain3568
      @salmanzain3568 4 года назад +81

      They say be yourself, genuine cause they want to see your those weak site so they can dismiss you.

    • @Slainsmasher
      @Slainsmasher 4 года назад +54

      If that really worked, 1/3 of all teens would not be depressed and insecure

    • @salmanzain3568
      @salmanzain3568 4 года назад

      @nahkxxx 👍

    • @duckgod7370
      @duckgod7370 4 года назад +25

      Lost a woman when i told her how i felt, knew she was fucking around with other guys too, (dating around). This does not work for almost every woman these days.

    • @wblacklock95
      @wblacklock95 4 года назад +55

      Sorry to say but being yourself worked for me. But it does take personality and charisma plain and simple. That can be developed. But alpha goes for players she's talking about finding the one. Personally hate the whole player thing because when you do find the one your gonna have to go over your past. The longer your sex history the worse you look. Just stupid...

  • @cheshirecat6498
    @cheshirecat6498 4 года назад +467

    When alpha says nice guys, he means simps, not actual decent and kind guys

    • @bigyetee2592
      @bigyetee2592 4 года назад +22

      Finally someone knows

    • @alexik7356
      @alexik7356 4 года назад +8

      Honestly

    • @frankxoxo8653
      @frankxoxo8653 4 года назад +16

      Just so you know there 2 types of 'nice guys'
      1 is a SIMP
      2 is a good person in general
      But on yt a nice guy is almost always meant a Simp

    • @giantenemycrab1192
      @giantenemycrab1192 4 года назад +12

      @@frankxoxo8653 simp is used out of place so much and it annoys me.

    • @nandanapalchowdhury4588
      @nandanapalchowdhury4588 4 года назад +2

      @@frankxoxo8653 not always though

  • @kareemprice1046
    @kareemprice1046 2 года назад +111

    Courtney is a good woman. She’s trying to keep men from falling into a bad cycle with women. But honestly not every woman is like Courtney. The ones that Alpha is targeting are the typical instagram females. Alpha makes me feel better while Courtney makes me not give up on hope

  • @selomdoke5687
    @selomdoke5687 4 года назад +864

    Why would I get advice from a women on how to attract a women? Don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish ask the fisherman 👍

  • @hudeifadahir9043
    @hudeifadahir9043 4 года назад +801

    Alpha lifted me from a boy to a gentleman

  • @QuinZcoco
    @QuinZcoco 4 года назад +3080

    Courtney: "he's so intense"
    Alpha m viewers: first time?

  • @LordHolley
    @LordHolley 3 года назад +107

    Courtney is looking at this like a normal healthy minded female, in that case she's right. Unfortunately healthy normal females are far and few between (men too for that matter). Many times you have to play these kid games......

    • @del7920
      @del7920 3 года назад +17

      If you play games you’re going to attract the wrong people
      It’s better to not get the girl that only wants you because you put her in the friend zone
      When you do actually show interest/want to date she’s gonna leave 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @marc416
      @marc416 3 года назад

      @EJRK 99 Ok Karen

    • @tonii5690
      @tonii5690 2 года назад

      @Vicar Amelia This is how men think. You may not like it but that is reality. Don't believe me, ask your male friends.

  • @chiadikajoe-adigwe190
    @chiadikajoe-adigwe190 4 года назад +1088

    I put a girl in the friendzone for like a year. She’s my girlfriend now.

    • @mrt4560
      @mrt4560 4 года назад +13

      😆

    • @JesusChristIsLord777.
      @JesusChristIsLord777. 4 года назад +85

      Put a bad bitch in the endzone

    • @lovepreet_bajwa
      @lovepreet_bajwa 4 года назад +28

      Thats a spirit ma boy... This chick is faking

    • @point-bl4nk
      @point-bl4nk 4 года назад +7

      @@sigurdkay6736 nah, it works every time, like putting a locked box full of chocolate at the center of the table: they won't stop looking at it.

    • @christopherjohn5575
      @christopherjohn5575 4 года назад +3

      You're the man!

  • @AjayKumar-hj6xt
    @AjayKumar-hj6xt 4 года назад +856

    To get a girlfriend follow him
    To get a sister follow her
    Choice is yours

  • @markc7587
    @markc7587 4 года назад +2350

    When I want to learn to fish I ask the fisherman, not the trout

  • @valorandstrength2829
    @valorandstrength2829 3 года назад +88

    “You ask the fishermen not the fish.”
    Sir, I’m not a fish to be caught-I’m a person that wants respect just like you.

    • @adeeshaakalanka5659
      @adeeshaakalanka5659 3 года назад +2

      @Vicar Amelia But still |works

    • @Straga_Severa
      @Straga_Severa 3 года назад +3

      How many girls did you date? Or did you only extrapolate from anecdotic evidence like your personal dating life or the virtue-signaling stories that your girlfriends tell?
      There are extremely few women who do not fall for cognitive biases when analyzing their gender dynamics. And it works for men too - I would certainly say that my advices to women are not as reliable as the advices of a woman who dated many guys.

    • @binarioochentaycinco4791
      @binarioochentaycinco4791 2 года назад +2

      you take phrases to literally, instead of getting the message

    • @MrBalzJohnson
      @MrBalzJohnson 7 месяцев назад

      @@binarioochentaycinco4791but the message is shit, fish don’t want to be caught, why would a woman intentionally give you bad advice, they know what they want to see in a man

    • @JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd
      @JohnPickup-CDHS-ze6qd 7 месяцев назад

      That phrase is dumb anyway, because women want to be caught.
      They're just not very good at explaining themselves. They know how they want you to make them feel, but they can't explain how to do it.
      But they're not lying

  • @prodx468
    @prodx468 4 года назад +2551

    We're not talking about nice girls, we talking about Spicy Senoritas 💀

  • @kianerakat7741
    @kianerakat7741 4 года назад +756

    Right off the bat she’s trying to tell us to simp, boys that is not the move

    • @desire2143
      @desire2143 4 года назад +21

      Kian Erakat *retreat retreat*

    • @tahlon8200
      @tahlon8200 4 года назад +19

      abort mission!!

    • @jonnyp.5809
      @jonnyp.5809 4 года назад +53

      We don’t simp to get them spicy señoritas!

    • @a.m7874
      @a.m7874 4 года назад +5

      She dont get wut he means😂

    • @lzi9452
      @lzi9452 4 года назад +14

      So being forward about your attraction and not pretending to be something you’re not is simping?

  • @colinheller6701
    @colinheller6701 4 года назад +792

    Don't take advice about fishing, from a fish.
    Take advice from the fisherman.

  • @joelriva5424
    @joelriva5424 2 года назад +150

    It's cute how Courtney thinks that other women/girls are moraly, emotionaly stable and kind as shes is. Quite a lot of alpha's "strategies" actually work on a lot of girls addicted to attention and emotions.

    • @DeezynerX
      @DeezynerX 2 года назад +5

      Exactly

    • @on99kim11
      @on99kim11 2 года назад

      when a woman said she wants a guy xxx xxx but in reality if you do xxx xxx to her, she loses interest.

    • @Cantetinza17
      @Cantetinza17 2 года назад +20

      Believe it or not they exist just like there are mature men that aren't trying to date you just to fuck you. Unfortunately there are far too many toxic people handing out advice to far too many lonely and hurt people and it seems easier to go the trash way then the right way. If you like insecure toxic chics then do his way. If you truly want something different do it Courtney's way.

    • @austinbergen2409
      @austinbergen2409 2 года назад +16

      Which are NOT the type of girls you would want in a SERIOUS relationship!

    • @yoshi7673
      @yoshi7673 2 года назад +4

      Do you really want to chase that quality of women

  • @pieinthesky5828
    @pieinthesky5828 4 года назад +805

    "Why is he being so nice to me ? I must be too good for him"
    - Female Logic

    • @kwadwoasamoah4668
      @kwadwoasamoah4668 4 года назад +44

      This is too good to be true

    • @BeastlyBadWolf
      @BeastlyBadWolf 4 года назад +18

      Spot on

    • @112233JORDAN
      @112233JORDAN 4 года назад +13

      💯 either yeah he's low value or manipulative. Then some will say chilvary is dead. Uh women, you have a role in that.

    • @SuperMeesh20
      @SuperMeesh20 4 года назад +2

      Unfortunately what u have said is true my friend .. I have been with women who think like that ..

    • @danyo5509
      @danyo5509 4 года назад +4

      Which leads to “he’s not my type” but women really want the best of both worlds. A nice/attractive/bad boy/simp

  • @dawsonthecreative
    @dawsonthecreative 4 года назад +322

    Knowing Alpha, he’ll appreciate this video

  • @mauriciovillalba939
    @mauriciovillalba939 4 года назад +1002

    I like how she says “dont play games” but thats all women do

    • @ernestpratgarriga9879
      @ernestpratgarriga9879 4 года назад +52

      Women play the dating game on easy mode

    • @TopFlightSecurity415
      @TopFlightSecurity415 4 года назад +52

      thats all they do 24/7 lol all they do is plays games, be passive aggressive and flake ..obviously they dont like it when it thrown back in there face smh

    • @Noe-ci4ys
      @Noe-ci4ys 4 года назад +12

      Just stop..... truth hurts 😂

    • @naturalriseofme
      @naturalriseofme 4 года назад +2

      BIG FAXX

    • @anonymoususer4500
      @anonymoususer4500 4 года назад +1

      @@Noe-ci4ys 😂😂

  • @ABCDE710
    @ABCDE710 3 года назад +50

    3:39 "Guys...👀...why is he speaking like this?" 😂😂😂

  • @justindarling3617
    @justindarling3617 4 года назад +2565

    She's living in a fantasy world, alpha living in reality.

  • @k-dizzle245
    @k-dizzle245 4 года назад +707

    "Playing games is unattractive" then why do girls always play 😂

    • @k-dizzle245
      @k-dizzle245 3 года назад +1

      @@kat68ps6 Sammy I'm sorry but you're the reason girls are confusing 🤣

    • @roy_for_real2674
      @roy_for_real2674 3 года назад +7

      They don't much, just some and they're mostly not the best, I think.

    • @inconnu4961
      @inconnu4961 3 года назад +10

      Exactly! They always play games. Games are acceptable to the people who are winning the games, and they are manipulative to the ones who are losing the games. keep this in mind the next time some one down plays 'games'!

    • @elduce2942
      @elduce2942 3 года назад +1

      @@inconnu4961 man Ima move to the Midwest

    • @shadowmomochiuchiha6839
      @shadowmomochiuchiha6839 3 года назад +1

      bcs there girls and they do that. They don't wanna make it obvious I guess

  • @JacketsOnFire
    @JacketsOnFire 3 года назад +456

    I love how opposite you both are
    Courtney: soft spoken, calm, reserved
    Aaron: loud, over the top, energetic, confident
    I love both these channels and their different perspectives

    • @drmatt357
      @drmatt357 3 года назад +7

      These are my feelings exactly. I thought Court handled it professionally!

    • @jameswiiliams6506
      @jameswiiliams6506 3 года назад +18

      Aaron is a scared little boy

    • @hugoaalfaro
      @hugoaalfaro 3 года назад +22

      Aaron Confident? Loud junkies like him don't have any confidence, he is big mouthed to attract subscribers.

    • @humblewiz4953
      @humblewiz4953 3 года назад +5

      @@hugoaalfaro ya nerd

    • @lytnin88
      @lytnin88 3 года назад +1

      Courtney is also confident

  • @twitchydom8689
    @twitchydom8689 3 года назад +309

    Putting girls in the friend zone absolutely works haha. Whenever I only see a girl as a friend she usually tries a lot harder

    • @brians1793
      @brians1793 3 года назад +18

      Girls/women have generally considered my physically attractive enough to get attention right off the bat, and I've unintentionally led so many girls on lol. They'd initiate the conversation and something would 'click' because I just naturally have a great personality with women, we could talk non-stop for an hour at a time easy. But I was genuinely only interested in being 'friends', they'd start to fall for me and ask me to be their bf, I'd friend-zone them and we'd eventually stop talking. A lot would persist for a month or 2 asking me why and all that. My self-esteem was so low in 6th grade I would have said no to my crush TBH lol, even my senior year of high school it wasn't so much my self-esteem, but if I asked a crush out it would be more for closure than anything, but I'd actually hope to say no so I could move on.
      I'm 35 and I've never even asked anyone out before, still a virgin, but I did have a 'gf' for a week when I was 15 because I just couldn't say no that time, and went to senior prom as 'friends' because I was asked. Looking back I definitely think I'm a sigma male, because even at my best I'm just not interested in sex like alphas are, I think about it and desire it, but not like an alpha at all. I'm very selective about romantic interests and was practically made for MGTOW. It sucks because past 30 I've really been wanting to find someone to settle down with and have a family, but I get the reality, even if things aren't nearly as bad living in the country outside a town of 10k as some of the more liberal cities which I'm guessing is where by far the most problems are between men and women.
      It's not so much the lack of intimacy, it's the lack of romantic relationships but especially the prospect of settling down and having a family, I just need to accept the prospect of being a bachelor for life at this point, which I am and it's going well, I'll get there. I even gave up dirty movies/pics 6 years ago and was on a 2+ year nof-p streak, my libido is actually WAY better than my 20's because of it, but it's in a good way, doesn't feel out of control or anything. It's not so much that it's 'lower', I just think being older it's a lot easier to control.

    • @brians1793
      @brians1793 3 года назад +10

      And honestly as for this working, you HAVE to be an attractive enough guy for women to want to chase in the first place, it'll probably help to have a strong masculine energy which most men these days lack. I think it'd make more sense to treat them like you want to be friends without actually saying you only want to be friends, it's true that often times when a woman knows you're into them they lose interest, that much is true, unless you're really a top attractive guy. This is probably more for guys that are JUST attractive enough for women to want validation, but that might be all they want so as soon as they get it, they're like "oh so Chad might find me attractive!" but they probably won't tell you that. In reality they might be attractive enough to get in bed with Chad, but not secure him, and most women don't seem to realize what they're giving up, sometimes the most valuable thing they have to give up.
      TBH sometimes I wish I wasn't attractive because I hate that I have to worry about unintentionally leading women on and sometimes hurting them, I recently realized that when men don't pick up on women's flirting and reciprocate, they take that as rejection, whether or not the guy is noticing. I take notice of signs but ignore them, I kinda hate being a guy where just by not showing interest I might have women wondering what's 'wrong' with them when it's honestly not them lol, and it's almost impossible to get men OR women to understand why a guy like me at my age would be a virgin, it's really the only reason I don't let people know IRL, because I don't want to deal with people's assumptions, it's not because I'm insecure about it.

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 3 года назад +3

      Agreed. But it's an art to do it, this is what she means. Not every man can easily pull this off because she has badass character radar and feels our attitude. I mean when we talk about ladies like Courtney. I dont go for others than her, so I am not able to evaluate other girls in this respect.

    • @izday3668
      @izday3668 3 года назад +13

      Idk, if a guy puts me in the friend zone i assume he just wants to be mates 🤷

    • @twitchydom8689
      @twitchydom8689 3 года назад +1

      @@izday3668 obviously it isn’t the case for all women haha. But I’m my experience, if a girl likes you a lot and you treat her as a friend, they will put a whole lot of effort in

  • @pieinthesky5828
    @pieinthesky5828 4 года назад +474

    "Why is he ignoring me ? He musk have a hotter girl"
    - Female Logic

    • @threshold9700
      @threshold9700 4 года назад +25

      That's what he meant by "go crazy"

    • @itsbiju
      @itsbiju 3 года назад +10

      "I don't want him. Wait, what do you mean he doesn't want me?"

    • @pa4760
      @pa4760 3 года назад +12

      "Why is she ignoring me? She must have got some high value man"
      Male logic

    • @beautifulspirit7420
      @beautifulspirit7420 3 года назад +1

      I have been happily married 25 yrs but if a guy was ignoring me when I was single that never made me want to be with him. This is bizarre. Why would I want a guy who is sending signs that he's not interested? I always liked the funny flirty guys that made me laugh. If a guy was ignoring me I probably wouldn't even notice him.

    • @Andysceptre
      @Andysceptre 2 года назад

      @@pa4760 nope, it's because she thinks she's cute

  • @ThatGuyFerny
    @ThatGuyFerny 4 года назад +331

    Bro literally no one in the comments is taking this advice😂

    • @shyshotcaller27
      @shyshotcaller27 4 года назад +9

      Absolutely not.😂😂😂😂💨💨💨💨

    • @ThatGuyFerny
      @ThatGuyFerny 4 года назад

      Rebel_without_ a_cause nice guy?

    • @morningglory.213
      @morningglory.213 4 года назад +7

      CUZ THE TOXIC MASCULINES WHO THINK THEYRE ALPHA WHEN THEYRE JUST JERK ARE IN THE CHAT OFFENDED AF 😂💀

    • @yuvarajbasu9100
      @yuvarajbasu9100 4 года назад +1

      Exactly 😂😂

    • @alexbeale3777
      @alexbeale3777 4 года назад +5

      @@morningglory.213 but that’s the thing, alpha doesn’t teach guys to be jerks , he’s actually helped a lot of guys including myself be able to actually talk to girls and I’ve made a lot of friends and had a few girlfriends because of his advice and I was never and asshole or a jerk to any of them to get a connection between me and them

  • @SadoHaymour
    @SadoHaymour 4 года назад +1053

    I got a girlfriend just by listening to this man, he's realistic , you're in a fairy tale world

    • @DannyBoy443
      @DannyBoy443 4 года назад +38

      And she's stable and quality?

    • @davidofalza3769
      @davidofalza3769 4 года назад +30

      This girl don't know psychology haha

    • @israelmakinde5546
      @israelmakinde5546 4 года назад +33

      @@DannyBoy443 Either quality or not, you won't get any kind of woman with her tips

    • @DannyBoy443
      @DannyBoy443 4 года назад +44

      @@israelmakinde5546 She isn't giving tips. She's verifying (from a womans POV) whether or not Aarons/Alphas advice is good for guys to follow. And who uses tricks on girls man? lol. Who are you going after? High schoolers? Those don't work on actual grown ass women. You have to play games a little sure but tricks like he's talking about? No thank you.

    • @israelmakinde5546
      @israelmakinde5546 4 года назад +28

      @@DannyBoy443 if you're a female, you probably won't know tricks are being played on you

  • @stackmanification
    @stackmanification 3 года назад +36

    I’ve watched some of his videos before. His energy is reminiscent of a charismatic manager at a cold call center, or someone who has success selling pyramid scheme stuff

    • @brocksamson4245
      @brocksamson4245 3 года назад

      Yea, a straight up salesman G! 😅

    • @alb12345672
      @alb12345672 3 года назад +1

      @@brocksamson4245 He is basically an infomercial salesman. Everything he does is to try to sell you shit.

    • @amarson2322
      @amarson2322 3 года назад

      @@alb12345672 u mad

  • @Silent_Xclamation
    @Silent_Xclamation 4 года назад +441

    Putting girls in the friends zone has actually helped me get more girls

    • @Silent_Xclamation
      @Silent_Xclamation 4 года назад +35

      @Austin Harp I don't know, but I think it's because girls like attention and they get it from a lot of guys, so when you treat them like you treat your pals, it makes them want more

    • @marcokuhner2445
      @marcokuhner2445 4 года назад +4

      @Austin Harp makes your friends circle bigger and you get to know more girls

    • @nadim2911
      @nadim2911 4 года назад +3

      @Austin Harp
      No, just act like she's a male friend. Don't flirt or do anything that you don't do to a male friend.

    • @bharatramrakhiani3563
      @bharatramrakhiani3563 4 года назад +3

      @Austin Harp they just want what they can't have.

    • @yoonyo8751
      @yoonyo8751 4 года назад +6

      mate I'm sorry to say u have entered the gay best friend zone that's why u think ur getting more girls i swear ask any of them on a date or even try to get to know them better u will get friend zoned by all of them

  • @dante340
    @dante340 3 года назад +731

    If "being yourself" worked, then dating coaches wouldn't exist.

    • @Cookie20244
      @Cookie20244 3 года назад +14

      Then act as someone you’re not 😂

    • @arpanheimer
      @arpanheimer 3 года назад +22

      dating coaches arent always right...also like do they have a degree in dating or whatt

    • @inconnu4961
      @inconnu4961 3 года назад +8

      @@arpanheimer Some people have drivers licenses but drive like crap! What does that have to do with the price of rice in china? The proof is in the pudding . . . .good coaches will get good results for good students.

    • @arpanheimer
      @arpanheimer 3 года назад +2

      @@inconnu4961 ohh realllyy how hard is it for people to dateeee!!

    • @inconnu4961
      @inconnu4961 3 года назад +14

      @@arpanheimer You must be a woman, right? it aint hard for the ladies. its tough for the men, though. Why would she need to have a channel devoted to dating if it was Sooo easy? Why would you and i be watching them if it was so easy? Give us your profound advice, oh wise one!

  • @chriskhadij2943
    @chriskhadij2943 4 года назад +1508

    I love how we all came at her to defend our boy Alpha 😂

  • @merabsturua7379
    @merabsturua7379 3 года назад +141

    Courtney! You're too innocent for my man Alpha!😂😂😂

  • @JACK_ZEN
    @JACK_ZEN 4 года назад +296

    Brace yourself Gentleman! She's getting you ready to be "BRO" zoned!!

    • @Soul_stylle
      @Soul_stylle 4 года назад +2

      😂

    • @stephenvictor1919
      @stephenvictor1919 4 года назад +9

      Very true. She's very ignorant 😂😂😂😂

    • @MsVictoriousrocks
      @MsVictoriousrocks 3 года назад +8

      women themselves don't know what they want. So I see no reason for people to take her tips

    • @fishing4happiness610
      @fishing4happiness610 3 года назад +1

      Yep... you'll have an empty bullpen so get used to eating veggies.

    • @MrCjchamp2001
      @MrCjchamp2001 2 года назад +1

      @@MsVictoriousrocks so no women know what they want? Only men do? Why are you here?

  • @mortezarostami8147
    @mortezarostami8147 4 года назад +171

    Just reverse everything she just said and you'll be fine. Remember... No girl or woman gives you THE secret of how you can get to her.

    • @cqualif
      @cqualif 4 года назад +2

      factuals!

    • @abdullahmorad7117
      @abdullahmorad7117 4 года назад +1

      Who told you that? Many girls actually do tell you frankly what they want!!

    • @dariusbrock2713
      @dariusbrock2713 4 года назад +3

      @@abdullahmorad7117 bruh, whatever they say will be shit you cant do anything about. for example: "you're too short for me" etc. if they do reject you, its literally cause of the fact that they aren't interested in who you are...

    • @NgocAnh-ef5gr
      @NgocAnh-ef5gr 4 года назад +1

      Morteza Rostami actually some do, if they take you seriously not a game for fun

    • @NgocAnh-ef5gr
      @NgocAnh-ef5gr 4 года назад

      nahkxxx I don’t mean I agree that she’ll reveal all her secrets just because she’s into you, but like she gives you chance to know her by talking to you more and more, isn’t that what people do in dating tho? I agree majority of girls nowadays are terrible to date but just don’t act like all guys are innocent saints

  • @Chewybar90
    @Chewybar90 4 года назад +401

    Her: “If you like me, come tell me. If you think I’m attractive tell me.”
    Me: * tells her
    Her: “I’ve gotten some really creepy DM’s. Don’t be creepy.”

    • @mcwizar1
      @mcwizar1 4 года назад +11

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @famousxji1852
      @famousxji1852 4 года назад +32

      Girls never really mean what they say😂😂💀💀

    • @viraj9448
      @viraj9448 4 года назад +1

      @@mcwizar1 7

    • @israelmakinde5546
      @israelmakinde5546 4 года назад +8

      I learnt this the hard way😂😂, it's good I learnt it at a young age though, so now I can see through the guise

    • @anushbhattarai8849
      @anushbhattarai8849 4 года назад

      bro that's their psychology trick😂😂😂

  • @emoboi311
    @emoboi311 3 года назад +72

    “Don’t put a girl in a friend zone” but a girl can put a guy in a “friend zone”. Yeah makes sense

    • @Cannon555
      @Cannon555 3 года назад +34

      Yeah I think you might’ve completely missed the point she was making. Her point isn’t don’t ever put a girl in the friend zone, just don’t put a girl in the friend zone thinking it will make her like you more.

    • @1_chilled_guy595
      @1_chilled_guy595 3 года назад +1

      I think Alpha M worded it incorrectly, I think he meant to say don't drool over a girl as soon as she starts talking to you. Just treat her with like one of your other female friends , until you get to a certain point, then you make your move. I think putting a girl in the friend zone is a bit extreme

    • @brainrich1358
      @brainrich1358 3 года назад +1

      @@1_chilled_guy595 Yes. Relationships are built on trust, use this time to build trust, get comfortable, get to know them, etc. don't think of it as "friendzoning" just treat them like a normal person. Let the relationship build naturally.

    • @1_chilled_guy595
      @1_chilled_guy595 3 года назад +1

      @@brainrich1358 Well said, I think Alpha M may have miss spoke in the video but I know he didn't mean it in the way Courtney is making it seem.

    • @Amctothemoon
      @Amctothemoon 3 года назад +1

      Don’t be friend-zoned ever ever ever you will not get out of it
      You cannot be friends with anyone she there is attraction

  • @abishifanct3106
    @abishifanct3106 4 года назад +198

    She: why is his language so intense..
    Fact:the video was made for men..
    Simple

    • @Nathan_123
      @Nathan_123 4 года назад +5

      Exactly

    • @ImLiterallySoup
      @ImLiterallySoup 4 года назад

      can you explain please???

    • @huzayfakhan9222
      @huzayfakhan9222 4 года назад

      Facts

    • @pedromeneses5661
      @pedromeneses5661 4 года назад +5

      @@ImLiterallySoup the methods for attracting a male audience are different from those to attract a female audience. Alpha M gives men the no bullshit vibe, which I also prefer

    • @hamzareeza4029
      @hamzareeza4029 4 года назад

      @@ImLiterallySoup well most men don't get the message if u give it to them calmly and sweetly. But if ur full of adrenaline and prove ur point, u might get to a guy. (This applies from guy to guy, if a girl did that to a guy it most probably wouldn't work)

  • @brothercaptainboris6870
    @brothercaptainboris6870 4 года назад +266

    Gee I wonder why every girl tells us not to do things like this and yet goes for dudes who do this...

    • @sethaustin4500
      @sethaustin4500 3 года назад +20

      True. Interesting how she says girls don't like players, but if that were true "players" wouldn't exist.

    • @sethaustin4500
      @sethaustin4500 3 года назад +2

      I'm not disagreeing with that. I'm simply saying that if girls didn't like players, they wouldn't exist.
      edit: I should rephrase my statement. I'm not saying that girls only like "players" , I'm simply that enough girls DO like them for them to exist.

    • @hititdj
      @hititdj 3 года назад +13

      I think the best way to clear this whole thing is by saying "If you want to catch fish, dont ask the fish how they like to be caught, ask the best fisherman how to catch them like a pro" ;)

    • @sanjayraju988
      @sanjayraju988 3 года назад +6

      With all these conflicting messages, I honestly think theoretical physics is less complicated than dating.

    • @hemispace641
      @hemispace641 3 года назад +1

      They genuinely may not like it, but they're powerless to resist...

  • @danieljohnsopardenilla997
    @danieljohnsopardenilla997 4 года назад +118

    The "nice guy" that he's talking about isn't a literal "nice" guy, but rather more of a pushover and lack of self respect

    • @desire2143
      @desire2143 4 года назад +1

      daniel pardenilla oof

  • @jacknorton3771
    @jacknorton3771 2 года назад +3

    He is just helping out the simps. Try being a gentleman know what you want,and don't be afraid to walk away.

  • @MetalManiaAllTheWay
    @MetalManiaAllTheWay 3 года назад +142

    Alpha teaches you how to get laid. Courtney teaches you how to get a wife. Depends on what you want. Side note: the contrast of personalities here is hilarious 😂

    • @stevecinneide8183
      @stevecinneide8183 2 года назад

      False, Alpha M teaches you how to look like a greasy goblin with a New York accent who sends "u up" texts at 3am.

    • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk
      @TravisAndrews-lb1kk Год назад +2

      I rather watch 2 videos so i can be in a relationship and get laid lmao 🤣 😂

  • @silver933
    @silver933 4 года назад +184

    Girl you still have a lot to learn! And this is your opinion only, he’s talking about the majority of girls out there. Also is a lot about reverse psychology, which works in most life scenarios.
    And humping legs, is a way of joking between dudes, that you wouldn’t get. Aaron is a funny cool guy, helping out a lot of youngsters out there, you should pick up on someone else...

    • @santiagooliva39
      @santiagooliva39 4 года назад +10

      Yea I agree, Alpha is generalizing when he's talking about how to get women. Where as she is talking about herself personally. Which doesn't make too much sense. How are you going help men out if you're talking about what you like personally?

    • @damienbell7412
      @damienbell7412 4 года назад +6

      She’s only making this video in hope to grow. She knows Alpha has the biggest audience. Disagreeing with him creates reaction from fans, etc. She’s ugly, so hopefully she doesn’t grow too much and spread her bullshit everywhere.

    • @stephenvictor1919
      @stephenvictor1919 4 года назад +1

      Exactly what I told her before... She's a novice who's talking based on her own perception and experience. He's the man bringing in the game so she should shut up 😂😂🤣😂

    • @MsVictoriousrocks
      @MsVictoriousrocks 3 года назад +1

      @@santiagooliva39 she is not speaking for herself. This whole act she is pulling off is targetted towards male audience. How can you not read through that? You've got blue-pilled by her

  • @nickg3794
    @nickg3794 3 года назад +553

    This chic just said " let her know how you feel" 😂. About 100 million men who made this mistake at least once... will let you know how that works out...

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 3 года назад +19

      Agreed. In the art of war this tactic would lead to losing the war, so it cannot he attractive

    • @fathuman
      @fathuman 3 года назад +28

      Yeah "Let her know how you feel", especially if you just met her...g'luck with that buddy.

    • @diegocruz530
      @diegocruz530 3 года назад +2

      But you don't just give up, that's just a loser mentality

    • @chefboyardeesnuts277
      @chefboyardeesnuts277 3 года назад +12

      @@fathuman with anyone, regardless of sex, starting off with “I like you” can be intense. I definitely think it’s how you say it and your ability to read the room. If you like someone and don’t sense a connection, you’re probably going to get rejected. If you jump the gun and say I like you without much time to build rapport, it will come off as needy. Hope that helps

    • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
      @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 3 года назад +1

      Works for me a lot my g

  • @dingtape6661
    @dingtape6661 3 года назад +22

    "Ironically" every single time I asked genuinely "Hey I like your friend, etc" - The friend never responded but the girl I asked started to really like me? What I should have is the reverse

    • @JohnPaul-jn1fo
      @JohnPaul-jn1fo 3 года назад +1

      tell the girl you like that you really like her friend.

    • @kingryan2001
      @kingryan2001 3 года назад +1

      @@JohnPaul-jn1fo that's what I should've done 🤦‍♂️ was like a year ago her friend was weird but I was kinda interested in the one that didn't like me

  • @Waleed-zx4pf
    @Waleed-zx4pf 4 года назад +504

    “Psychological games and tricks are so unattractive” To hear that coming from a woman is really hilarious, considering all the shit tests, personality tests, needy tests, sexual tests the women put men through and not to mention that there could be a branch of psychology that teaches about the perplexity, ‘women nature’.

    • @therealdeal7468
      @therealdeal7468 4 года назад +57

      Dude I almost died laughing when she said that. The irony is quite something.

    • @cubbwatch
      @cubbwatch 4 года назад +38

      Older women get tired of that shit fast, the younger woman are into the psychological games for sure.

    • @doomedspartan3608
      @doomedspartan3608 4 года назад +15

      I agree almost no guy plays hard to get basically the mayority of women do this

    • @qarhsi
      @qarhsi 4 года назад

      HAHAHAHA

    • @joshuaurcia1021
      @joshuaurcia1021 4 года назад

      damn so true.

  • @FrozenWaterInfants
    @FrozenWaterInfants 4 года назад +1417

    Courtney-"Why's he talking about humping legs im so confused"
    Alpha Viewers-"First Time Here"
    Edit:Thanks everyone never got this many likes before Wow!

  • @calebmartinez4110
    @calebmartinez4110 4 года назад +187

    She's the kind of girl that says "no" but is the first one unconsciously fall into Alpha tricks😂

    • @merlinquezada7570
      @merlinquezada7570 4 года назад +7

      😂😂😂😂 made me crack!

    • @abhishekik839
      @abhishekik839 4 года назад +4

      THAT IS SOO DAMN TRUEEEEE !!!!

    • @alexandermartinez3359
      @alexandermartinez3359 4 года назад +4

      Hahhahahha u made her day

    • @MsVictoriousrocks
      @MsVictoriousrocks 3 года назад +5

      She clearly wet herself when she sees alpha but is hiding that with a masked expression and pulling out an act just for the views, and to so call "prove" to guys that alpha's teachings doesn't work.

    • @howmathematicianscreatemat9226
      @howmathematicianscreatemat9226 3 года назад +3

      Yeah, kind of true :)

  • @kumbi8368
    @kumbi8368 3 года назад +45

    Lol, This man’s great. I never realized how intense he was until now.

  • @rohancharak
    @rohancharak 4 года назад +213

    My girlfriend liked this video now she is my ex

  • @DipankarMadaan
    @DipankarMadaan 4 года назад +435

    I definitely know what men like : TIEGE HANLEY :P

  • @voodoodiecast
    @voodoodiecast 4 года назад +264

    To the guys commenting "well done Courtney" pfff those guys are just trying to be the "nice guy " lol

    • @CursedWheelieBin
      @CursedWheelieBin 4 года назад

      @Venaci The same limp-dicks who used to join a band back in the late 90s and early 00s when I was a teen.
      Meanwhile I was out actually talking to women, actually engaging with them. To this day, it makes me chuckle how the answer can be right there in front of people, like s hamster on a wheel

    • @jaybisukul9540
      @jaybisukul9540 4 года назад +1

      Badboy spotted😍

    • @paulhk2727
      @paulhk2727 4 года назад +2

      Lol she doesn't get that what she's saying is total BS
      Like yeah you're attracted to nice guys... Of course

    • @anthonyzepeda31
      @anthonyzepeda31 4 года назад +2

      That would be brian that alpha speaks of.. haha

    • @cqualif
      @cqualif 4 года назад +1

      simps lol

  • @cbrown6848
    @cbrown6848 3 года назад +29

    Love how females don't want mind games or friend zoned but feel free to do both all the time

    • @proudtobeme1ashkente
      @proudtobeme1ashkente 3 года назад +2

      Women won't friendzone someone they're interested in and won't take being friendzoned as a sign of interest. Likewise, women won't mind being in the friendzone when they aren't interested in you and will think the same goes for men in their friendzone.
      I don't see the problem, only that women and men think differently, as is often the case.

    • @adammonks591
      @adammonks591 2 года назад

      @@proudtobeme1ashkente BS.
      I friendzoned someone and it worked a treat.
      Try it...

  • @GBP-jn2rs
    @GBP-jn2rs 4 года назад +130

    Man alpha teaches to get the girl u want and she is saying about waiting for the girl who is waiting for you... Isn't it a girlly thing😂😂

    • @SurajMagar126
      @SurajMagar126 4 года назад +2

      😂😂

    • @almark6548
      @almark6548 4 года назад +10

      Yeah, she is a bit naive and has also taken his video out of context to misrepresent him. He does many videos... This particular one was specifically about psychological tricks. He's not saying you should do psychological tricks. He's saying, if you're going to do them, these are the ones you should do (and here's why).

    • @footballingnostalgia
      @footballingnostalgia 4 года назад

      lol

    • @rahulmishra3388
      @rahulmishra3388 4 года назад

      Guess what...she is one 😂

  • @evan191919
    @evan191919 4 года назад +351

    By the end of this video it’s clear that Alpha is describing how to get a hookup, and this girl is describing how to get a long term girlfriend.

    • @nickh4280
      @nickh4280 4 года назад +29

      fk you want a long term gf for? ppl want marriage not 2 years of your life wasted 😂

    • @elikemazingo122
      @elikemazingo122 4 года назад

      Very True

    • @baseerkaleem6878
      @baseerkaleem6878 4 года назад

      Yea facts

    • @BobRoss-wm3lc
      @BobRoss-wm3lc 4 года назад +1

      Abdiel Neris yes they’ll get cheated on by girls like this girl 😂, and her stupid ass doesn’t even realize that

    • @StoicOutlaw17
      @StoicOutlaw17 4 года назад

      Not really.

  • @dragonicblade2776
    @dragonicblade2776 4 года назад +55

    4:00 you say don't play games but literally almost EVERY single woman on the planet does it to dudes

    • @doomedspartan3608
      @doomedspartan3608 4 года назад +5

      Dragonic Blade I agree You don’t see Guys playing hard to get.And these mind games makes us guys oblivious to actual hints to see them as friendly.Whos fault is it?

    • @abcdef_101
      @abcdef_101 4 года назад +1

      Louder gentlemen, LOUDER!

    • @danyo5509
      @danyo5509 4 года назад +1

      She’s also a “basic girl”, probably why she don’t like games and is boring. where’s the fun without games 😂

  • @jamx97
    @jamx97 3 года назад +8

    I tried these psychological tricks on a few women during my dating spree and they seem to work. I'm in my late 40's now and in a committed relationship and no longer need to play mind games.

    • @fishing4happiness610
      @fishing4happiness610 3 года назад +3

      Truth... it works and it's fun, but I agree it should be a stage in life... not a principle. I enjoyed the dating game but found myself a keeper as well...ironically we both knew we were playing each other at the highest level... CHECKMATE!

    • @hannahstriker
      @hannahstriker Год назад +1

      Of course, because the types of women that "fall" for all these psychological mind games and tricks are obviously not the kind of women ones wants around anyway.
      And as you can see for yourself, no relationship with the women that you mentioned was everlasting.
      Because they are simply not supposed to.
      Immaturity is never the blueprint for success and happiness.

  • @iamnemexis
    @iamnemexis 4 года назад +165

    Corrected title: Evaluating 7 Psychological TRICKS to get Courtney Ryan Chase You

  • @AznJsn82091
    @AznJsn82091 4 года назад +236

    I'm gonna tell Alpha to react to this video of you reacting to his video

  • @tabibsubhan7002
    @tabibsubhan7002 4 года назад +311

    Whole story in a nutshell
    This video was created for men and men only. If any girl sees the video her reaction will be like her.

    • @yuvarajbasu9100
      @yuvarajbasu9100 4 года назад +7

      Exactly

    • @Yash-ix5sh
      @Yash-ix5sh 4 года назад

      EXACTLY .....

    • @hmhm4197
      @hmhm4197 4 года назад +3

      A dunno I watched it and it didn’t bother me actually agreed with it🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @frankcolalillo1967
      @frankcolalillo1967 3 года назад +1

      if a fish could talk, it would tell you the exact bait it likes .... aka what shes doing

    • @arpanheimer
      @arpanheimer 3 года назад +1

      alpha is for guys looking for sex not love

  • @TheNightKing22
    @TheNightKing22 2 года назад +41

    I gotta admit man... Courtney is like the all time absolutely 💯% sought after woman that we all want. Just a great female who is sweet, kind, and caring. And THEN Alpha M's video is actual reality hahaha.

    • @juanarocha8629
      @juanarocha8629 2 года назад +3

      He is over the top so I take his dating advice with a grain of salt

    • @arcturuszero9242
      @arcturuszero9242 2 года назад +5

      This is exactly correct from my point of view as well. Courtney offers a perspective of what SHOULD be, but alpha offers insight into what actually IS in many cases. Of course, that’s only if you are interested in playing mind games with a female who also likes to play mind games. I personally do not, so I did not employ any of Alpha’s methods at the beginning of my current relationship. It just depends on what you want. If you want to meet a quality girl to have a long-term relationship with, then Courtney‘s Way of thinking is infinitely superior. If you are just trying to pick up girls for casual flings or you don’t mind dealing with mind games, then Alpha‘s advice here is solid.

    • @aakarshdhurve785
      @aakarshdhurve785 2 года назад +1

      @@arcturuszero9242 exactly

    • @tacoswelding8411
      @tacoswelding8411 Год назад

      😂 no way

    • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk
      @TravisAndrews-lb1kk Год назад

      She is 100% right

  • @jamalwashington6761
    @jamalwashington6761 3 года назад +761

    A wise man once said: “Don’t let a fish teach you how to fish”

    • @gottkomplex9211
      @gottkomplex9211 3 года назад +12

      exactly!

    • @atropos2901
      @atropos2901 3 года назад +40

      also Warren Buffet said don't ask your barber if you need a haircut

    • @matinvafaii3860
      @matinvafaii3860 3 года назад +5

      Sheesh

    • @joonalehtinen5462
      @joonalehtinen5462 3 года назад +22

      yeah if you are gonna bring the best equipment for fishing. the fish be like "yeah don't even try it won't work", while sweating nervously

    • @4034miguel
      @4034miguel 3 года назад +42

      Bad analogy. In this case, we are talking about women, that eventually may be in the disposition to be attracted, or in your terms "to be caught". Your phase applies to anything that really do not want to be caught, or defeated, so it is about real antagonists. That is the nuance. Be wise and take advise from a wise insider. :-)

  • @riccardosartori3822
    @riccardosartori3822 4 года назад +111

    "that's just really confusing and unnecessary" welcome to being a man trying to understand women

    • @roy_for_real2674
      @roy_for_real2674 3 года назад

      She's talking about that dude.

    • @arpanheimer
      @arpanheimer 3 года назад

      like guys arent confusing

    • @inconnu4961
      @inconnu4961 3 года назад

      @@arpanheimer How are guys confusing? We are very simple creatures. We use 1 hemisphere of the brain!

  • @skategawd9324
    @skategawd9324 4 года назад +269

    Alpha has been in the game longer, she just mad he probably used these tricks on her mom

  • @rayn5991
    @rayn5991 3 года назад +70

    Alpha is the reason I am a better man, His tips sound absolutely ridiculous like something that's NEVER going to work but somehow, It goddamn works. This guy is like a father that I never had 😂

    • @StarAllKungfu
      @StarAllKungfu 3 года назад +1

      He's over the top on purpose. It's part of the showmanship for sure. Fun to watch. The whole 5 shoes every guy needs to own was funny. I'm like where the boots? Live in Canada and every shoe he was "must have" would have you clean your head off the pavement after a snow.

    • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
      @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 3 года назад

      He made a apology about him doing these videos

    • @arpandas1290
      @arpandas1290 3 года назад +1

      So fucking true

    • @moonishkalicheran3470
      @moonishkalicheran3470 3 года назад +1

      Indeed

  • @Mdmd-h9y7u
    @Mdmd-h9y7u 4 года назад +135

    Every piece of advice this chick pointed out left me in the friendzone in the past

  • @rishibarapatre5339
    @rishibarapatre5339 4 года назад +204

    This man has transformed more boys into men than her subscribers😂😂
    Alpha is legend and almost always right.

    • @misbahailia3345
      @misbahailia3345 4 года назад +8

      Transforming them into single men, then yeah 😂😂. But whatever makes you guys happy and feel confident.

    • @a.f6435
      @a.f6435 4 года назад +1

      Her channel is for men?

    • @apokolipslord6403
      @apokolipslord6403 4 года назад +6

      men? all his followers are little insecure bitches. i would make alpha m my bitch.

    • @wowthatsamazingjoe9379
      @wowthatsamazingjoe9379 4 года назад

      @@apokolipslord6403 so why are you watching this video?

    • @apokolipslord6403
      @apokolipslord6403 4 года назад +1

      @@wowthatsamazingjoe9379 look at alpha m’s little doggy bitch coming to protect him. You sheep are fucking embarrassing.

  • @theletimenoeffect2160
    @theletimenoeffect2160 4 года назад +312

    Sounds like she's giving advice a mom would give lol she's funny

    • @sirdazthe1st297
      @sirdazthe1st297 4 года назад +14

      Nah she is worse

    • @morningglory.213
      @morningglory.213 4 года назад +18

      wow its cool how alpha men dont take advice from their moms i like how masculine they are by not appreciating the person who gave birth to them
      damnnn thats so hot omg im turned on 🙄

    • @sirdazthe1st297
      @sirdazthe1st297 4 года назад +11

      @@morningglory.213 shut up we don't use these beta ways

    • @xolo1100
      @xolo1100 3 года назад +1

      @@morningglory.213 yo stfu

    • @sollysuliman2357
      @sollysuliman2357 3 года назад +3

      Again.. same question: how many times have you approached a girl that you like in the past 2 years? Just be honest about it.

  • @derekc8974
    @derekc8974 3 года назад +115

    Alpha M is awesome. Nobody is perfect but he is always hilarious and sometimes has good advice 😎

    • @Onmysheet
      @Onmysheet 3 года назад +13

      Nah he's overrated. All he does is shout.

    • @Omniryu
      @Omniryu 3 года назад +2

      That's the problem, SOMETIMES. People already don't know how to take and use GOOD dating advice. This guy is telling too many dude's so much bad advice, that the few good advices he gives basically don't matter.

    • @derekc8974
      @derekc8974 3 года назад +2

      Ok, advice number #1 chase goals and have a purpose. Advice #2 be ok with rejection and move on. Advice #3 you are the center of your universe and never change that. You will be tested by people.

    • @aloysiustomi8023
      @aloysiustomi8023 3 года назад

      @@derekc8974 bro that's such terrible advice. How could he say something like that. And why do people still listen to him?

    • @stephanx2384
      @stephanx2384 3 года назад

      Even a broken clock is right twice a day...

  • @ifollowjesus1667
    @ifollowjesus1667 4 года назад +324

    It’s cute how she pretends she doesn’t like bad boys!!!

    • @stephenvictor1919
      @stephenvictor1919 4 года назад +26

      She's just talking traaaaaashhhhhhh

    • @alnotbiggaytho7124
      @alnotbiggaytho7124 4 года назад +5

      She's not doing that but Aaron's advice is terrible.

    • @alisafeerhyder1994
      @alisafeerhyder1994 4 года назад +7

      @@alnotbiggaytho7124 how exactly tho
      A detailed explanation would be better btw

    • @LetEmCoook
      @LetEmCoook 4 года назад +5

      thats good, shes a normal women

    • @morningglory.213
      @morningglory.213 4 года назад +6

      @A loud Italian yea its crazy right? these men here be appreciating their toxic jerkness then calling it being alpha or bad boy 💀

  • @notjashanbains4439
    @notjashanbains4439 4 года назад +133

    Just a random girl telling what type of guy she likes

  • @karunasharma8315
    @karunasharma8315 4 года назад +122

    "The right girl will accept you the way you are" kind of not true.

    • @savagegang611
      @savagegang611 4 года назад +5

      It kinda is

    • @paulhk2727
      @paulhk2727 4 года назад +3

      It's not just kinda not true...
      It ain't true
      Alpha is right

    • @karunasharma8315
      @karunasharma8315 4 года назад +1

      @@paulhk2727 Alpha never said anything like that...it's just my opinion.

    • @savagegang611
      @savagegang611 4 года назад

      nahkxxx y then

    • @paulhk2727
      @paulhk2727 4 года назад

      @nahkxxx Well said

  • @swifty5098
    @swifty5098 3 года назад +6

    you are one of the few.. no , the only one on youtube i feel brings more 'mature' advice about dating. there are many youtubers bringing info that works to a certain level, but fails to take into account that people grow and learn, and understand to find the deeper values within people.

  • @johnmarchello1410
    @johnmarchello1410 3 года назад +98

    I love Courtney's soothing voice, intelligence, and objectivity.

    • @roseforeuropa
      @roseforeuropa 2 года назад

      She's definitely a quality catch. Good for Teddy, the ultimate timepiece alpha. Also, good for Courtney as well; he's incredibly likable.

    • @TravisAndrews-lb1kk
      @TravisAndrews-lb1kk Год назад

      So do i

    • @chocolatecookie8571
      @chocolatecookie8571 11 месяцев назад

      She has class.

  • @utkarshsingh-kp1jx
    @utkarshsingh-kp1jx 4 года назад +128

    And one more thing, he is talking, giving advices to attract girls not to choose one for marrying.... While you are talking about right\wrong girls this that.... 😑🤗

    • @fonyterguson9894
      @fonyterguson9894 4 года назад +3

      Whats your point

    • @gloriousy8832
      @gloriousy8832 4 года назад +4

      @@fonyterguson9894 she want's to get married

    • @Teresa-pe4yg
      @Teresa-pe4yg 4 года назад +1

      I am a girl and let me tell u something,the tips he's giving won't make a girl "chase" u

    • @fonyterguson9894
      @fonyterguson9894 4 года назад

      @@Teresa-pe4yg what makes them chase

    • @Teresa-pe4yg
      @Teresa-pe4yg 4 года назад +1

      @@fonyterguson9894 try to be kind, funny and confident

  • @rubham3941
    @rubham3941 3 года назад +443

    I am exactly like this and I'm still single. Guess it's time to join the AlphaGang

    • @sollysuliman2357
      @sollysuliman2357 3 года назад +10

      Let me ask you a question:
      How many girls have you approached in the last 2 years? Just be honest.

    • @rubham3941
      @rubham3941 3 года назад +4

      @@sollysuliman2357 like 2-3

    • @theknightxzone2003
      @theknightxzone2003 3 года назад +26

      @@rubham3941 what the fuck 🤣 2-3 girls in the last two years 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @arpanheimer
      @arpanheimer 3 года назад +15

      @@rubham3941 😂😂😂😂😂😂 you are crazy that's your prob don't blame the girl 😂😂😂 damn XD

    • @Ravenovskii
      @Ravenovskii 3 года назад +9

      @@rubham3941 these guys are right bro when I've been struggled with Oneitis or obsession problem I've never approached any girl and that was my mistake. Secondly don't be sensitive about a girl it makes her to feel like she is the queen and it's our pleasure to see you in our testosterone flavored community bro go and grab your seat here we goooooooo

  • @kiruagon1839
    @kiruagon1839 3 года назад +25

    Courtney i just want to say that, i really admire how elegant yet down to earth you are. Feminine yet assertive. Very polite and respectful. It is rare to see this composition. I am impressed. (I have seen about 10 videos now and i am a guy who says when he finds something admirable). From what i have seen till now, what a lucky boyfriend you have ! Have a great life courtney :)

    • @sandeeprana-yo3wm
      @sandeeprana-yo3wm 3 года назад +3

      😂 you are the dude meant for the friend zone. Allah will never forgive you for being a simp.

    • @da45r
      @da45r 3 года назад

      @@sandeeprana-yo3wm omg

  • @ebukanwonah1788
    @ebukanwonah1788 4 года назад +317

    She's literally advising us to be simps..

    • @neft5449
      @neft5449 4 года назад +2

      Literally.

    • @Midclimb
      @Midclimb 4 года назад +9

      Don’t u won’t get pussy being a simp

    • @hetalmistry7416
      @hetalmistry7416 4 года назад

      yeah

    • @geminichild1683
      @geminichild1683 4 года назад +9

      @@Midclimb being a bad boy isnt going to make it either

    • @Midclimb
      @Midclimb 4 года назад +3

      @@geminichild1683 ay yo bitch stfu

  • @sumantaroy9379
    @sumantaroy9379 4 года назад +106

    5:13 The face you make when Alpha M. reveals all the secrets that you want to hide.

  • @karunasharma8315
    @karunasharma8315 4 года назад +30

    Courtney i just gotta say when alpha says a bad boy he doesn't actually mean a "BAD BOY", it's just how he communicates and it's just how almost every dude does. Love 😊

  • @Theafire
    @Theafire 2 года назад +3

    As a guy I agree 💯 percent with Courtney. Guys need to be who they are and respect them, also goes the other way round too. Point being that there is no need to pretend to be a bad boy when you are not.

  • @sushan5479
    @sushan5479 4 года назад +156

    Act like a bad boy? Really?
    Listen woman, alpha has always taught us to respect women.
    There's a difference between just looking like a bad and acting like a bad boy.
    It's true that at the end of the day every woman wants a good guy to hold her hand till the rest of her life, but it's also true that most woman wish their good guy to atleast look like a bad guy.
    If this video happens to be just about your own perspective, there's no point in existence of this video on RUclips.

    • @rafaelbordignon271
      @rafaelbordignon271 4 года назад +5

      Dude literally most underated comment, deserves more likes and repercussion!

    • @rafaelbordignon271
      @rafaelbordignon271 4 года назад +2

      So true

    • @ikram8333
      @ikram8333 4 года назад +4

      U need one of these 👍

    • @dabutchaistoxic
      @dabutchaistoxic 4 года назад +3

      Depends on the time of the month.

    • @rayna6440
      @rayna6440 4 года назад +4

      You call yourself respectful then immediately “listen, woman” lol. the delusion.

  • @takamjob8385
    @takamjob8385 4 года назад +251

    "The best way to get a girl is to
    Friend zone her."
    It's a reality
    Alpha m is the dad figure that made me a man
    Not a Simp

    • @Ilykillll
      @Ilykillll 4 года назад +11

      It’s the toxic masculinity for me 😗😒

    • @lSeKToRl
      @lSeKToRl 4 года назад +3

      This absolutely worked with multiple gfs.

    • @Ilykillll
      @Ilykillll 4 года назад +6

      @ the concept of “oh yea I’m and alpha I don’t simp over these girls I’m a big strong man yes haha “ is like so dumb treating girls like shit don’t make u an alpha male just like she said

    • @ImJustREVENGE
      @ImJustREVENGE 4 года назад +12

      @@Ilykillll the other day a guy went in my girlfriends dms after seeing a pic of her on her story and said “you’re really fat but your still kinda cute, my names is Kyle.” Then when she called him a dick he went off on her saying he was being a alpha then called her a slut and blocked her lmao I’ll never take alpha tutorials or people who claim their alphas seriously, if u need to look up on RUclips advice to get a female chances are u weren’t even a alpha or had game to begin with

    • @zainbunga3002
      @zainbunga3002 4 года назад +2

      @@ImJustREVENGE he didn't played the game well. Calling a girl fat right at the start is totally dead end right there. No one can come back from it.

  • @thatdudekyle5690
    @thatdudekyle5690 4 года назад +44

    I think when he said to put her in the friend zone, he meant don’t be too clingy. Which I totally agree with. Its really unattractive when someone makes you their entire world. Is always calling you, getting jealous of other people ect.

  • @marcusgarcia2841
    @marcusgarcia2841 3 года назад +2

    With all do respect. When I took alfa m advice it worked. Most girls are not good girls. It works. If you are a nice classy women then this may not work. Yet, how many confident classy women are left ?

  • @charlie23295
    @charlie23295 3 года назад +344

    Telling the girl that you like her too early kills the mystery and she doesn't have to chase you.

    • @illegalhunter7
      @illegalhunter7 3 года назад +23

      it's personality and connection that matters. If not that, after that excitement you will be left with a relation comparable to a flaccid dick.

    • @buffpixel4521
      @buffpixel4521 3 года назад +16

      Oh, so that's why she didn't reply

    • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
      @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 3 года назад +23

      @Penderyn Lewsyn pursue not chase

    • @Orgizo08
      @Orgizo08 3 года назад +4

      Yup! Women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear.

    • @evannasong8356
      @evannasong8356 3 года назад +15

      @@Orgizo08 it depends on her age. If she’s in her 20’s or younger, it’s most likely the case. If she’s in her late 20’s and older, she’ll most likely skip over any man who takes too much time deciding whether he likes her or not.

  • @juanvillota9097
    @juanvillota9097 3 года назад +93

    I never realized how intense Aaron is until I saw you two speaking in the same video

  • @shamballilokeshdhiraj6048
    @shamballilokeshdhiraj6048 4 года назад +191

    1:43
    HE'S VERY INTENSE
    Gentlemen drop one of those 👍
    (She just felt the alpha male's energy)

    • @RaZoR7i7
      @RaZoR7i7 3 года назад +1

      @@kat68ps6 STFU
      Alpha is great

    • @Franco_M_1
      @Franco_M_1 3 года назад +1

      Let it out “AAAAAHHHHHH” I am STRONG

    • @vegasprogambler5336
      @vegasprogambler5336 3 года назад +1

      YUP...she got moist in her girl parts right there. chicks are soooooooo dumb.

  • @nebulasupreme2009
    @nebulasupreme2009 3 года назад +2

    courtney ryan what you teach works and it works for a small community here in the united states. i’m from the middle east and what you teach resonates deeply with middle eastern girls. but even middle eastern girls who have adopted an American mindset trend in the other category

  • @pushpenderrathee3508
    @pushpenderrathee3508 4 года назад +64

    I put a girl into friend zone now she has proposed me 3 times

  • @addsr1213
    @addsr1213 4 года назад +54

    You asked why he’s speaking like that. Simple. The video is addressed to a male audience.

    • @naughtiasteffano9885
      @naughtiasteffano9885 4 года назад

      And ur trying to prove? So men scream at each other?

    • @pedromeneses5661
      @pedromeneses5661 4 года назад +1

      @@naughtiasteffano9885 Meaning men prefer the No Bullshit kind of vibe, and an intense direct approach is the style of Alpha M, if you like less intenseness, go watch Teaching Men's Fashion.

  • @Clozarov
    @Clozarov 4 года назад +96

    Courtney: "If you like me come tell me"
    Me: "I like you Courtney"
    Ok guys I'll give you an update later on where this goes.

    • @oceandreams9625
      @oceandreams9625 4 года назад +1

      Lul

    • @michaelj2711
      @michaelj2711 4 года назад +1

      Nice try dude, lol

    • @michaelj2711
      @michaelj2711 4 года назад +7

      @J Will I think he got stranger zoned, to be more precise.

    • @grapograc
      @grapograc 4 года назад

      Hahahah this was actually hilarious.

    • @rs-connects2303
      @rs-connects2303 4 года назад +1

      Any update bruh??? I'm literally waiting...

  • @JoMaisBure10
    @JoMaisBure10 3 года назад +4

    Do not let her know how you feel. It took me 2 months to recover from that one slip of frame and I'm still getting shit tests more frequently than before. DO NOT let her know how you feel

  • @anthonydrexeljoseph2397
    @anthonydrexeljoseph2397 4 года назад +84

    This is why Alpha M’s videos are supposed to be exclusively for men 😂

    • @Andysceptre
      @Andysceptre 2 года назад +1

      Courtney hates you 😢boo

  • @jacobmapait6603
    @jacobmapait6603 4 года назад +16

    the first trick actually works, i tried it just for fun im shocked about the result, thanks
    ALPHA M

  • @1111neelesh
    @1111neelesh 4 года назад +88

    She’s being a saint and alpham is being a god and living in the present

    • @nextlevelnonce8884
      @nextlevelnonce8884 4 года назад

      K

    • @ImLiterallySoup
      @ImLiterallySoup 4 года назад

      from a man of course lmao

    • @pete3198
      @pete3198 4 года назад +1

      So you're saying that being a decent, honest, civilised person is unrealistic and being a try-hard deuchbag is godly?

    • @ImLiterallySoup
      @ImLiterallySoup 4 года назад

      @@pete3198 true lol these people are so ridiculous all their coments are litteraly saying "she's wrong because alpha m said so." they don't have any points they just want to project their weird toxic insecurities onto everyone to feel better about themselves smh

    • @pete3198
      @pete3198 4 года назад

      @Damian.
      We so live in an overly fake world today, where everybody is obsessed by how they are percieved by others and where so many people live fake lives on social media under the guise of the godly alter-egos they create for the world to see in place of the person they REALLY are.
      So in not going to lie - when i saw this video with this subject posted by a young, attractive female content creator with a background in fashion, I expected a lot of cringe would follow.
      It judged wrong, and i have to say I was pleasantly surprised by how reasonable and logical the response actually was - so credit where it's due. On the other hand my reaction to almost everything Alpham said can only be summed up as sad disappointment - mainly because i know for a fact thay so many other men think the way he seemingly does.
      To Courtney - I really must apologise to Courtmey for being so hasty in my judgement. That wasn't fair at all, and was horribly shallow of me. Please, keep being you and don't allow the naysauers to dissuade or demotivate you!

  • @active4delta
    @active4delta 3 года назад +19

    “Why is he speaking like this?!”
    - referring to Alpha M. 😂 instantly invalidated millions of dudes’ approaches to life

  • @SolitarySoldier
    @SolitarySoldier 3 года назад +32

    Honestly I wish a lot of girls had your mindset. You’re mature unlike most of them and you’re personable. Our generation is so bad with all the lying, games, and manipulation. We want to be honest with women yet it seems so difficult to find in them. Dating apps are so flawed and even connecting with people in person csn be problematic. Theres always more to someone than meets the eye

  • @kentsou399
    @kentsou399 4 года назад +181

    I need Teddy's advice on dating. He did everything right.

    • @CourtneyRyan
      @CourtneyRyan  4 года назад +19

      🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @YuanMizzle
      @YuanMizzle 4 года назад +18

      Haha, I just want to know which watch he picked for their first date. And how long it took him to decide hahahaha

    • @JohnnyVichi
      @JohnnyVichi 4 года назад +3

      yes he did

    • @pauldorsi109
      @pauldorsi109 4 года назад +3

      Ha! Say it like it is!

    • @its_clean
      @its_clean 4 года назад +6

      1. Be handsome and charming
      2. Don't be unhandsome and uncharming
      3. Set your Tinder location to wherever Courtney happens to be at the moment 😅

  • @lionelmax2953
    @lionelmax2953 4 года назад +31

    Your tips gets me nothing, but getting called the “nice guy”. Alpha actually got me laid 😂. You know what they say, a fisherman would know how to catch fish better than fishes.

    • @miahuge478
      @miahuge478 3 года назад

      ur the goat dude😂😂😂

    • @Franco_M_1
      @Franco_M_1 3 года назад +3

      Bro it is legitimate. Being the nice guy will get you a good woman who will probably treat you like she treats nice guys. Basiacly being the guy she wishes she could find... but is not you. (Thats just a pile of dudu)