Don't kid your self.. women like Courteney are 5% when they are teens and women generally don't think of relationship like Courteney until they are 33 years and why would you need her at that point when she starts to slide . She speaks of society 50 years ago.
_"If I have to play all those games, and be immature and insecure like that, I don't want it."_ That about sums it up. Such calculated, premeditated behavior requires apathy and detachment and that's the opposite of having genuine feelings.
100% agree, this is why I removed myself from the dating game a decade ago. I don't have the time or desire to play these ridiculous games. A relationship should be two people lifting each other up, not two people trying consistently to get a leg up
@Olly Sombrero If You focus more on yourself, building your business and You truly do see a relationship not as a necessity, but instead put this far down your list, you automatically become this Guy. Have fun, do not take it all so seriously. For Example (since you truly do not want a relationship), why not go and talk to the hottest Girl in the Club? Flirt a bit, get rejected, no big deal. Many Guys these days do not know, how to flirt.
@@yvesgysel9834 Dude you almost explained how I feel. I honestly don’t feel like dating right now (I’m 24). I’m currently doing my own hobbies and some personal projects. But the reason why I’m pushing myself to date, is to honestly get over a girl that I really liked but never reciprocated any interest. I was hoping that maybe seeing that I have options, then maybe it’d help get over her. I currently do get likes and stuff, but I honestly don’t feel like pursuing them. What’s your advice on this?
Men don't be simps!! Women don't be queens!! Just live life!! Go after your goals and interest and stop worrying about if your gonna be in a relationship. Let it happen naturally. (Nothing will change lol)
If a guy has to follow these rules on purpose and not naturally, then eventually when you get her, she’s going to realize you’re not really that mysterious/busy/charismatic of a guy. Just focus on building your life fellas…
When you reach the point where she realizes you are not that busy/mysterious, she will have already have bonded with you. At that point the sheer amount of time you spent with her will keep her close to you.
I don't think Appoloni is manipulative at all. Watch more of her videos to get a bigger sample size of how she communicates with her topics. Appoloni is one of the best on RUclips.
Guy she just wants to takeover the game by the weakest way. Normally you beat someone because you are better. But this girl ... Man i hâte this kind of weak mindset
You are spot on. I love your content. I educate my son on how someone can use rigid gender roles to manipulate you. When ever I hear, “The man is supposed to…”, I am out. In my 30 year career as a mental health professional, that is the most common manipulative tactics. Using rigid gender roles to get compliance. That is why I educate young men to always ask about the gender roles in their household as a child before you date anyone.
Gotta say, I'm very impressed with Mrs. Ryan. Her advice is a heck of a lot better and more level-headed than the stuff coming out of the manosphere and the PUA's. I agree with her that most of that stuff seems to be about manipulating women or how women are trying to manipulate men. I can see why they have so much trouble with women and why they seem to always end up with the wrong ones--if you're always deceitful and manipulative with women, you're only going to attract deceitful manipulative women.
Courtney understands men. She understands her role as a woman. Wow, I did not think ladies with her qualities existed in this world anymore. Outstanding effort Courtney, keep it up! You are definitely a high value woman. Young ladies could learn a lot from you.
I watch these channels to both give my teenaged boy advice and to adjust how I interact with my wife. As I like both creators, I think this was a gracious and meaningful reaction video.
If there has to be a video or tips on how to make a girl think about you, it's manipulative. Here's a tip. Don't think about it. Just be you and be indifferent and not think about women. Women will come to you when you don't try. Then it's just recognizing the signs that she's into you and you can really break that down to just people text or hangout with the people they want to hangout with. So if she's doing that with you, she likes you.
I would Auto like Courtney's content if i could! Nah lie. Such calm, collected delivery. Without tearing someone else's content down. Well presented. Greetings from Jamaica
I am happily married but always watch Courtney to keep it fresh. I even bought all white sneakers. Keep it up Courtney, you are a breath of fresh air and give such great advice.
Lmao I think my dad sent me one of Apollonia’s videos a while back out of nowhere. For some reason he really wants to me get a girlfriend lately. Like yeah it’d be nice to have a partner, but feel like I have A LOT of work to do on myself physically and mentally.
Having a distraction thats true to yourself is the best way to go about things. In general. You dont need to plan out how she'll react, you dont need to force out a response. You can surprise her with flirting, then with a deep question about the things in the world you admire and worry about, and see how she engages. If she is invested in wondering about the mysteries, she's more likely to be open for playfulness and dreaming too in general. Me as a person, Im a dreamer, I love philosphy and when people leave impressions of me, I think of them at times deeply. Id be brushing my teeth and get flustered cos a woman made deep eye contact and smiled warmly, but then kindly walks away cos she has to go somewhere. Makes me wonder when she'll come back and if I really like her, id text her at times. Its this natural pull and push both people do when they like each other. A cute poke almost to surprise someone with 'hey, youre cute' . and eventually extending it a bit and seeing how it goes. Makes a person blush and even more curious, and its usually paced so well its natural and you have time to process what happened each time you met.
Courtney, what makes your approach stand above others is your general avoidance of manipulation tactics, and that comes through clearly in this video. (IMO, you were actually too generous in your review of Pont's advice, but that speaks to your efforts to show respect.) In the end, if manipulation is required to attract a particular woman, you can be sure that conscious and regular manipulation is what you'll need to keep her. And if you have to do that, is it really you who's in the relationship? A better mentality is to aspire to be the kind of person that you would want to date.
Great job highlighting her points and putting your spin on them. Even when (I'm assuming) u didn't totally agree with her take, you assumed her intent to be positive and reframed it in a healthy way. I have watched a lot of her stuff (I mostly like it) and like seeing it from another angle.
The key word is "balance." Allocate your time for you, but also pop in and talk to the individual you are trying to build a relationship with. It should not be that complex nor should their be 5-steps to make x, y ,and z do 1, 2 and 3.
Coach Corey Wayne did say the same as Apollonia Ponti. "Women are more attracted to men whos feelings are unclear, women want a guy who will make them work for it, rescuing yourself and being self sufficient". WHat they are implying is dont spoil your surprises and just give everything away. Which is true. You do have To keep the attraction level high everything has to be nice and easy free flowing and reciprocated.
In the end its about "go with to the flow" you dont need to memorize things like dont message her in 2 hours because thats bs just focus on your life, purpose and improvement in the end its all about having fun in life not stressing if she like me or not just go with the flow and have a healthy relationship.
Honestly, being somewhat unpredictable works not only with relationships, but with life in general. You see, our brain does not notice things that we can predict. And because of that, as we age, learn more about life and make a stable lifestyle - our life seems to be flying so fast, unlike in childhood. And it's not that the time itself accelerates, but we do the same things over and over, our lives are precisely planned, and you can approximately predict what every day would look like. So there is no perceived difference, nothing fresh to learn and experience. This way even good relationships could become invisible, and would be noticed only after, say, a breakup. And they would say, "why did I leave him\her? We had such a good relationship".
Right on! I would state it your way! And I do not think you can get her think about you! You can not force things! You just have to play your cards right, but there is no guarantee!
what Apollina says is right...Women with alot of options aren't going to focus on guys whom are always texting her. she will have to wonder about the guy she hand an emotional spark with. Most women want mystery and a challenge. This isn't just for "hook up", its not a "scheme" its building and keeping Attraction.
Having her think about you nonstop like my last gf did can be very exhausting! I got tired of her freaking out when I didn't text back fast enough. A bit of apathy isn't so bad.
Exactly being the man doesn't mean you need to carry the weight forever. I had a significant other like this. It was me putting all the effort from day one and year after year. Just simply exhausting.
Genie: "master any wish I will grant for you...any! " Master: "I want a highway to Hawaii, I am afraid of flying and boats but I want to go." Genie: "master, that is too difficult even for me...all that concrete and steel...impossible ...give me another wish to grant! anything!" Master: "I want to understand the mind of women." Genie: "you want that highway two lanes? "
Be yourself first, and then evaluate yourself later. Don't pose. Don't just "decide" that you like a person...or anything else for that matter. Observe your own impulses, and see where they are leading you. If that place is good and healthy, then by all means go there. If it's not then a) discipline yourself not to go there, and b) ask yourself why you feel an impulse to go there, and can you get the same benefits in a safer and healthier way?
1)Establish Attraction - "The Vibe" 2)Establish Comfort - "The Safety" 3)Establish Arousal - "The Dominance" These three things are a recipe for imprint. The Security - "The Lifestyle" and the Character - "The Personality" are secondary. Lotta betas come to the table with just these two things and then wonder why they get cheated on with a guy who has the first 3 things. It is what it is.
I love how you are only about the facts. You have no idea how destructive these click bait videos / tips are for many, many guys. These people say this crap just because it's just the popular thing to say and doesn't require any thought
Dear Courtney Ryan.... Thinking about someone non-stop.... Is no doubt a train-wreck waiting to happen for both parties.... Be Kind and realize Non-Stop thinking is actually immature... Always in Good Taste... CHEERS!!... Courtney is so Cool....
Just watched Teddy's video on his grandfather, grandmother and father about his grandfather's, now Teddy's, watch. A boyfriend like Teddy is pretty good evidence that you are a very good young lady from whom to take relationship advice.
Courtney is right, rather than “manipulation” It’s a fundamental difference of viewpoint to simply fill your own life with studies or career, plus friend groups, pastimes and hobbies to the point that YOU, not the girl, are your own “mental point of origin”. That way when you engage with the girl you are inviting her into your FRAME, not vice versa. If you are actively gaming her by manipulation then to a degree you are being reactive and making her and not you your “mental point”. You are mentally prioritizing her and that’s not good. This is the very basis of the high value man. He’s living his own full life and on his purpose to the point where his time is so valuable that when he chooses to spend it with a girl she can sense the value of that and is glad to enter his frame and just enjoy that. Because he’s not chasing, texting or whatever and simply makes dates with her when he can. In this way, HE’S THE PRIZE. He’s got the higher value to which her hypergamy responds positively and he’s projecting that organically. He doesn’t have to manipulate, and that is VERY attractive for the girl.
Love you like the little sister I never had, Courtney. Your videos change my life. Dealt with a PUA before and they damage your soul, change who you are at the core. Never change for women, nor to get with them. Adjust yourself, don't change. They often hire girls to make it look like they got superhuman level game but it's all a schtick, a confidence game; If women preferred self-esteem over confidence, chads would not exist and short guys would be in demand.
I don't want a woman thinking about me nonstop. Here are the four things I want from a woman: 1) Quiet; 2) Sex; 3) Complete independence when I'm not around; 4) Complete obedience when I am.
I don't want any woman thinking about me nonstop, it sounds flattering, it also sounds very stalkery. I definitely wanna be present in her life, and I want her to be interested and contributing to building the relationship, but she needs her own interests and things to do too.
Trying to word differently what Courtney said, low quality women are often repulsed by many actions, which are found attractive by high quality women. The difference is primarily in their goals: short-term hookup for low quality women and long term relationships for high quality women.
Thank you so much for your videos, Courtney! They have helped me tremendously. Wish you had been around 10 years ago before I went through hell and back! Lol! Keep up the great work!
Sooo just wanted to say: I think it may be a good idea to reconsider the ideas she's giving of men planning out how to act or what to say at certain parts of the dating game. Many men fail with women because they don't have a plan of action on how to attract women. Women are the reactors to what it is men do during the courting stage, and many men turn women off because they don't know these things. When Apollonia says something like "let her wonder what you are doing" or "don't respond too early to her text," while the advice may seem "manipulative," the reality is those things actually DO work better, but a man that's "just being his natural self" may not have this knowledge and need to know that it's ok to do it. Thus, him doing it would not be his "natural" inclination, but just because he has to THINK about doing it vs. naturally doing it doesn't make him a manipulative person. As a man, I can attest to a lot of the things she's talking about - I've been the one to "not play games" and text all the time, and 99 times out of 99 times women didn't find it attractive; I've been the one who let a woman always know what I was doing, where I was going, etc. and 99 times out of 99 times, it turns women off. Knowing these things being actively conscious of doing them has made all the difference in being able to attract women. Just something to consider. I think men and women go about dating differently, and it only helps men to be a bit more calculated in their moves, albeit not in a malicious way.
I think the thing I dont agree with in this advice is that if by playing the mystery card is what gets you your foot into the door or gets the ball rolling for a potentially deeper connection and relationship down the road, then I say its a perfectly viable strategy to employ. I think unless you're a man who has experienced the opposite gender to see this in motion, it might be harder to relate.
I was clingy with this one girl because she didn't seem into me, but at the same time she was. That threw me off, but if I had given her space then it may have been clearer whether she was into me or not. My clingy behavior was actually the cause of my uncertainty.
How about…. Who cares if she’s thinking about you? You men need to stop concerning yourself if ANYONE is thinking about you, especially a women. Chase excellence and your purpose. You’re the prize, stop concerning yourself about “HER”.
Courtney's you're my absolutely favorite I've jump ship from Appolonia's to your ship a couple of months ago I just like the way you roll and how you break down the pieces you're a master at that's Have a good weekend
I recently discovered Courtney's videos...I really enjoy them!!! She's gorgeous, has a sweet, sexy voice, & just offers such great advice on a wide range of topics. Thanx, I sooo appreciate that & after several videos, I became a subscriber.
Every time i watch Courtney’s videos i always think to myself that rather than seeking ways to get women i should really be focusing on fixing myself first. That rather than pretending to be busy, i should be genuinely busy and productive while having a healthy relationship with someone.
Would like watch a conversation b/t Ponti and Ryan. Older vs younger female energy. Could be a good observation of where they both are in life and experiences. Ponti is married and Ryan has a live in bf. Just an idea.
People used to say "be clear about what you want" and "don't smother the other person", but now everything is a technique. Imagine a marrying a person through manipulation.
Apollonia's videos provide a unique insight into the female brain and are generally VERY helpful. I am surprised that you have referred to her advice as 'diabolical', 'manipulative', 'unhealthy', and likened her content based on just one video to the tiktok videos that you have obviously watched a lot of. They were really toxic.
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Don't prioritize someone that treats you like an option.. this applies to both men and women
Yup. Sadly it seems like the person that cares the most has the least power in a relationship.
@@te9591 take the power back by walking away and prioritizing yourself
@@janpauledwarddedios5366 yup, exactly.
@@te9591 someone told me that chose someone to walk beside you not behind or in front.. be true partners in a relationship.
@@janpauledwarddedios5366 wise.
“We only have time for healthy and secure relationships here” ☝️😂
Totally agree.
Hello there
Don't kid your self.. women like Courteney are 5% when they are teens and women generally don't think of relationship like Courteney until they are 33 years and why would you need her at that point when she starts to slide . She speaks of society 50 years ago.
@@bloodcarnage8285 she is 25
@@oleadevun4108 yes I think knows I think he says she more mature then most 90s kids.
_"If I have to play all those games, and be immature and insecure like that, I don't want it."_
That about sums it up.
Such calculated, premeditated behavior requires apathy and detachment and that's the opposite of having genuine feelings.
Spot on!
other than a few gems like courtney, too many women are all about those games they play...
its sooo difficult to date them.
100% agree, this is why I removed myself from the dating game a decade ago. I don't have the time or desire to play these ridiculous games. A relationship should be two people lifting each other up, not two people trying consistently to get a leg up
@Olly Sombrero If You focus more on yourself, building your business and You truly do see a relationship not as a necessity, but instead put this far down your list, you automatically become this Guy. Have fun, do not take it all so seriously. For Example (since you truly do not want a relationship), why not go and talk to the hottest Girl in the Club? Flirt a bit, get rejected, no big deal. Many Guys these days do not know, how to flirt.
@@yvesgysel9834 Dude you almost explained how I feel. I honestly don’t feel like dating right now (I’m 24). I’m currently doing my own hobbies and some personal projects.
But the reason why I’m pushing myself to date, is to honestly get over a girl that I really liked but never reciprocated any interest. I was hoping that maybe seeing that I have options, then maybe it’d help get over her. I currently do get likes and stuff, but I honestly don’t feel like pursuing them. What’s your advice on this?
Men don't be simps!! Women don't be queens!! Just live life!! Go after your goals and interest and stop worrying about if your gonna be in a relationship. Let it happen naturally. (Nothing will change lol)
thank you for the advice it rlly helped LMAO
You have a great way of bringing out good points from these videos, even when they are coming from a ‘less classy’ point of view.
Thank you, Steve! ❤️
Give her the gift of missing you. You don’t always need to be attached to her everyday. Few days space works wonder.
Bro even my friends and family don't miss me xd.
Law of Scarcity
Thanks, Corey.
@@raxevonapbwd8769Ouch!
Don't lose your goals for a hole.
🗣SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE DUDES IN THE BACK!
@@NorrisCFuhReal 😂 THEY'RE NOT HEARING LOUD ENOUGH
GOALS B4 HOLES 😂
Exactly, only ass-holes think about holes before goals.
Glory hole 👌
Courtney reframes these concepts in a very graceful and respectful, to both people’s, way
If a woman is thinking about you literally non-stop, then she’s probably a stalker…
Yup lol
Yes, it’s not a good sign. Massive red flag actually.
And a psychopath. lol
Who says that is bad; along as she is hot.
Yes or you are Christiano Ronaldo…
I wish there were more women like Courtney, astute, grounded and emotionally healthy. So refreshing and with amazing grace!
I can say this for a fact. You and Apollonia are the top two people I listen to when it comes to dating woman and keeping this fresh.
If a guy has to follow these rules on purpose and not naturally, then eventually when you get her, she’s going to realize you’re not really that mysterious/busy/charismatic of a guy. Just focus on building your life fellas…
Good advice
When you reach the point where she realizes you are not that busy/mysterious, she will have already have bonded with you. At that point the sheer amount of time you spent with her will keep her close to you.
Im ignoring my girlfriend a month, for not answering me 6 weeks
@@coopsnz1 is it working?...
I don't think Appoloni is manipulative at all. Watch more of her videos to get a bigger sample size of how she communicates with her topics. Appoloni is one of the best on RUclips.
Guy she just wants to takeover the game by the weakest way. Normally you beat someone because you are better. But this girl ... Man i hâte this kind of weak mindset
You are spot on. I love your content. I educate my son on how someone can use rigid gender roles to manipulate you. When ever I hear, “The man is supposed to…”, I am out. In my 30 year career as a mental health professional, that is the most common manipulative tactics. Using rigid gender roles to get compliance. That is why I educate young men to always ask about the gender roles in their household as a child before you date anyone.
Gotta say, I'm very impressed with Mrs. Ryan. Her advice is a heck of a lot better and more level-headed than the stuff coming out of the manosphere and the PUA's. I agree with her that most of that stuff seems to be about manipulating women or how women are trying to manipulate men. I can see why they have so much trouble with women and why they seem to always end up with the wrong ones--if you're always deceitful and manipulative with women, you're only going to attract deceitful manipulative women.
👆🏾 This guy gets it!!
Courtney understands men. She understands her role as a woman. Wow, I did not think ladies with her qualities existed in this world anymore. Outstanding effort Courtney, keep it up! You are definitely a high value woman. Young ladies could learn a lot from you.
I watch these channels to both give my teenaged boy advice and to adjust how I interact with my wife. As I like both creators, I think this was a gracious and meaningful reaction video.
yes.
If there has to be a video or tips on how to make a girl think about you, it's manipulative.
Here's a tip. Don't think about it. Just be you and be indifferent and not think about women. Women will come to you when you don't try. Then it's just recognizing the signs that she's into you and you can really break that down to just people text or hangout with the people they want to hangout with. So if she's doing that with you, she likes you.
I would Auto like Courtney's content if i could! Nah lie. Such calm, collected delivery. Without tearing someone else's content down.
Well presented.
Greetings from Jamaica
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Subscribed you since you had 8.9k subs and I appreciate your content and growth ❤️
Thank you! 🥰
I am happily married but always watch Courtney to keep it fresh. I even bought all white sneakers. Keep it up Courtney, you are a breath of fresh air and give such great advice.
Lmao I think my dad sent me one of Apollonia’s videos a while back out of nowhere. For some reason he really wants to me get a girlfriend lately. Like yeah it’d be nice to have a partner, but feel like I have A LOT of work to do on myself physically and mentally.
Well then good luck
Good luck.. 1 month ago
Having a distraction thats true to yourself is the best way to go about things. In general. You dont need to plan out how she'll react, you dont need to force out a response. You can surprise her with flirting, then with a deep question about the things in the world you admire and worry about, and see how she engages. If she is invested in wondering about the mysteries, she's more likely to be open for playfulness and dreaming too in general. Me as a person, Im a dreamer, I love philosphy and when people leave impressions of me, I think of them at times deeply. Id be brushing my teeth and get flustered cos a woman made deep eye contact and smiled warmly, but then kindly walks away cos she has to go somewhere. Makes me wonder when she'll come back and if I really like her, id text her at times. Its this natural pull and push both people do when they like each other. A cute poke almost to surprise someone with 'hey, youre cute' . and eventually extending it a bit and seeing how it goes. Makes a person blush and even more curious, and its usually paced so well its natural and you have time to process what happened each time you met.
Courtney, what makes your approach stand above others is your general avoidance of manipulation tactics, and that comes through clearly in this video. (IMO, you were actually too generous in your review of Pont's advice, but that speaks to your efforts to show respect.) In the end, if manipulation is required to attract a particular woman, you can be sure that conscious and regular manipulation is what you'll need to keep her. And if you have to do that, is it really you who's in the relationship? A better mentality is to aspire to be the kind of person that you would want to date.
Good content Courtney. Apollonia Ponti comes from a dating point of view. Also, Jessica J another dating coach similar to Apollonia.
Yeah some people might find Jessica J annoying but I think she's actually pretty funny
Her "Hi everyone welcome back to my channel, if you're new here I'm Courtney Ryan" in every video is so damn warm and sweet!!
And the fact she isn't a therapist, counselor, dating coach or otherwise speaks volumes. She's just a lady.
But if I’m not new here, who is she?
Great job highlighting her points and putting your spin on them. Even when (I'm assuming) u didn't totally agree with her take, you assumed her intent to be positive and reframed it in a healthy way. I have watched a lot of her stuff (I mostly like it) and like seeing it from another angle.
The key word is "balance." Allocate your time for you, but also pop in and talk to the individual you are trying to build a relationship with. It should not be that complex nor should their be 5-steps to make x, y ,and z do 1, 2 and 3.
Apolonia's advice is awesome, as much as yours, Ms Courtney.
Loving the awesome content! Keep up the good work Courtney your the best❤️❤️
Thank you so much! ❤️
I actually like and enjoy both Apollonia's channels and yours, both give great advice in your own ways.
Jajaja this girl is such an angel and healthy and mature way of think girls like this are the 1% honestly
Courtney reacts to Apollonia... The multiverse continues to break on a daily basis 😂😂😂😂
Coach Corey Wayne did say the same as Apollonia Ponti. "Women are more attracted to men whos feelings are unclear, women want a guy who will make them work for it, rescuing yourself and being self sufficient". WHat they are implying is dont spoil your surprises and just give everything away. Which is true. You do have
To keep the attraction level high everything has to be nice and easy free flowing and reciprocated.
I saw a lot of videos about that on RUclips, but your the best , keep doing more videos please, u have something special
In the end its about "go with to the flow" you dont need to memorize things like dont message her in 2 hours because thats bs just focus on your life, purpose and improvement in the end its all about having fun in life not stressing if she like me or not just go with the flow and have a healthy relationship.
Hi Courtney. I'm a Pickup Artist and agree with everything you said. It depends on what kind of relationship you want 🔥🔥
Love your videos! Keep up the good work!
Thank you! ❤️
Honestly, being somewhat unpredictable works not only with relationships, but with life in general. You see, our brain does not notice things that we can predict. And because of that, as we age, learn more about life and make a stable lifestyle - our life seems to be flying so fast, unlike in childhood. And it's not that the time itself accelerates, but we do the same things over and over, our lives are precisely planned, and you can approximately predict what every day would look like. So there is no perceived difference, nothing fresh to learn and experience. This way even good relationships could become invisible, and would be noticed only after, say, a breakup. And they would say, "why did I leave him\her? We had such a good relationship".
Right on! I would state it your way! And I do not think you can get her think about you! You can not force things! You just have to play your cards right, but there is no guarantee!
what Apollina says is right...Women with alot of options aren't going to focus on guys whom are always texting her. she will have to wonder about the guy she hand an emotional spark with. Most women want mystery and a challenge. This isn't just for "hook up", its not a "scheme" its building and keeping Attraction.
Having her think about you nonstop like my last gf did can be very exhausting! I got tired of her freaking out when I didn't text back fast enough. A bit of apathy isn't so bad.
Exactly being the man doesn't mean you need to carry the weight forever. I had a significant other like this. It was me putting all the effort from day one and year after year. Just simply exhausting.
I like this advice honestly I like it that I always love your advice you help us with women and We’re grateful for that 💯
❤️🥰
tip number one was great advice.to add ghosting a little sometimes on the lady works well .
This is the best... I was only recently the "texting buddy", it killed anything we had going!
Genie: "master any wish I will grant for you...any! " Master: "I want a highway to Hawaii, I am afraid of flying and boats but I want to go." Genie: "master, that is too difficult even for me...all that concrete and steel...impossible ...give me another wish to grant! anything!" Master: "I want to understand the mind of women." Genie: "you want that highway two lanes? "
Be yourself first, and then evaluate yourself later. Don't pose. Don't just "decide" that you like a person...or anything else for that matter. Observe your own impulses, and see where they are leading you. If that place is good and healthy, then by all means go there. If it's not then a) discipline yourself not to go there, and b) ask yourself why you feel an impulse to go there, and can you get the same benefits in a safer and healthier way?
I forgot to watch this yesterday. Keep climbing to a million subs! Tell the people to share your videos 😁
Your content is gold, it's genuine and definitely for people looking for healthy, good and deep relationships ..
1)Establish Attraction - "The Vibe"
2)Establish Comfort - "The Safety"
3)Establish Arousal - "The Dominance"
These three things are a recipe for imprint. The Security - "The Lifestyle" and the Character - "The Personality" are secondary. Lotta betas come to the table with just these two things and then wonder why they get cheated on with a guy who has the first 3 things.
It is what it is.
True, but a girl that would cheat is garbage human being anyways
I've seen some of her videos. She does explain things in a proper way, at least that's what I thought.
She seems great!
@@CourtneyRyan had a feeling that, you would like her.
I am still waiting for Courtney Ryan's reaction to Kevin Samuel's content.
I highly recommend this for a future video!
Oh boy. I've been waiting for this video. It's gonna be good.
I do enjoy this kind of video courtney, you are doing a very good job reacting to other you tubers, you always fill blank.
Thank you so much! ❤️
I love how you are only about the facts. You have no idea how destructive these click bait videos / tips are for many, many guys. These people say this crap just because it's just the popular thing to say and doesn't require any thought
Great vid💯
Dear Courtney Ryan.... Thinking about someone non-stop.... Is no doubt a train-wreck waiting to happen for both parties.... Be Kind and realize Non-Stop thinking is actually immature... Always in Good Taste... CHEERS!!... Courtney is so Cool....
Hang out, have fun, and hook up. Dont complicate things. - Corey Wayne
Glad you did this,, great job!
You are very genuine, and I appreciate that.
Again!! We appreciate you Courtney ♥️
Can you please do a video on how to go from dating to a relationship?
Just watched Teddy's video on his grandfather, grandmother and father about his grandfather's, now Teddy's, watch. A boyfriend like Teddy is pretty good evidence that you are a very good young lady from whom to take relationship advice.
Courtney’s facial expressions are why emojis exist.
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I love both Apolonia and Courtney. Your both wonderfull women.
Thanks Courtney. I just realized I'm often the "texting buddy" and I respond too soon to texts.
Courtney is right, rather than “manipulation” It’s a fundamental difference of viewpoint to simply fill your own life with studies or career, plus friend groups, pastimes and hobbies to the point that YOU, not the girl, are your own “mental point of origin”. That way when you engage with the girl you are inviting her into your FRAME, not vice versa.
If you are actively gaming her by manipulation then to a degree you are being reactive and making her and not you your “mental point”. You are mentally prioritizing her and that’s not good.
This is the very basis of the high value man. He’s living his own full life and on his purpose to the point where his time is so valuable that when he chooses to spend it with a girl she can sense the value of that and is glad to enter his frame and just enjoy that. Because he’s not chasing, texting or whatever and simply makes dates with her when he can. In this way, HE’S THE PRIZE. He’s got the higher value to which her hypergamy responds positively and he’s projecting that organically. He doesn’t have to manipulate, and that is VERY attractive for the girl.
This works both ways (most of your videos are!). Thanks
You are a wonderful lady! Beautiful and convincing
Thank you! ❤️
How to get your girl to leave you for a man that will pay more attention to her. Unless you actually are Gods gift to all women.
Love you like the little sister I never had, Courtney. Your videos change my life. Dealt with a PUA before and they damage your soul, change who you are at the core. Never change for women, nor to get with them. Adjust yourself, don't change. They often hire girls to make it look like they got superhuman level game but it's all a schtick, a confidence game; If women preferred self-esteem over confidence, chads would not exist and short guys would be in demand.
I don't want a woman thinking about me nonstop. Here are the four things I want from a woman:
1) Quiet;
2) Sex;
3) Complete independence when I'm not around;
4) Complete obedience when I am.
Complete obedience lol
@@te9591 Better chance of getting complete obedience than getting quiet.
I don't want any woman thinking about me nonstop, it sounds flattering, it also sounds very stalkery. I definitely wanna be present in her life, and I want her to be interested and contributing to building the relationship, but she needs her own interests and things to do too.
Been here for a long time and you have helped me with women
Trying to word differently what Courtney said, low quality women are often repulsed by many actions, which are found attractive by high quality women. The difference is primarily in their goals: short-term hookup for low quality women and long term relationships for high quality women.
Oh ya Courtney spittin facts
Thank you so much for your videos, Courtney! They have helped me tremendously. Wish you had been around 10 years ago before I went through hell and back! Lol! Keep up the great work!
I watch her channel, she has very good videos, I’ve used her tips personally and had success.
U and her should collab.
Sooo just wanted to say: I think it may be a good idea to reconsider the ideas she's giving of men planning out how to act or what to say at certain parts of the dating game. Many men fail with women because they don't have a plan of action on how to attract women. Women are the reactors to what it is men do during the courting stage, and many men turn women off because they don't know these things. When Apollonia says something like "let her wonder what you are doing" or "don't respond too early to her text," while the advice may seem "manipulative," the reality is those things actually DO work better, but a man that's "just being his natural self" may not have this knowledge and need to know that it's ok to do it. Thus, him doing it would not be his "natural" inclination, but just because he has to THINK about doing it vs. naturally doing it doesn't make him a manipulative person. As a man, I can attest to a lot of the things she's talking about - I've been the one to "not play games" and text all the time, and 99 times out of 99 times women didn't find it attractive; I've been the one who let a woman always know what I was doing, where I was going, etc. and 99 times out of 99 times, it turns women off. Knowing these things being actively conscious of doing them has made all the difference in being able to attract women. Just something to consider. I think men and women go about dating differently, and it only helps men to be a bit more calculated in their moves, albeit not in a malicious way.
Impressive per usual, Courtney. You present with the wisdom of someone 2 to 3 times your age.
Thank you ❤️
she is the 1st that I started watching... that is how I found out about you
I think the thing I dont agree with in this advice is that if by playing the mystery card is what gets you your foot into the door or gets the ball rolling for a potentially deeper connection and relationship down the road, then I say its a perfectly viable strategy to employ. I think unless you're a man who has experienced the opposite gender to see this in motion, it might be harder to relate.
I was clingy with this one girl because she didn't seem into me, but at the same time she was. That threw me off, but if I had given her space then it may have been clearer whether she was into me or not. My clingy behavior was actually the cause of my uncertainty.
If you treat her like a queen. She will treat u like a peasant
This might be far beyond my pay grade but hey I'll watch it for Courtney
Haha I appreciate you 😂
Thanks you so much Courtney for for help this really helped me
The only game you should be playing in dating is Schedule Tetris. Fill your schedule, and BE busy so you don’t have to pretend
I like how Cortney is realistic about these matters vs those who expect only rainbows, pink unicorns and money shower from the guy.
Love your videos, and I got to say you are one beautiful woman 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
For the first point, Idk my girlfriend was complaining to me that I'm never cute and never text her good morning, so I'm not sure about that one.
I think a good morning text is sweet. You don’t need to do it all the time but every now and then is sweet! ❤️
@@CourtneyRyan yeah true, moderation is key
haha thats a good sign actually.
She has to work for your attention dude, dont give it away for free.
How about…. Who cares if she’s thinking about you? You men need to stop concerning yourself if ANYONE is thinking about you, especially a women. Chase excellence and your purpose. You’re the prize, stop concerning yourself about “HER”.
Great response!
Courtney's you're my absolutely favorite I've jump ship from Appolonia's to your ship a couple of months ago I just like the way you roll and how you break down the pieces you're a master at that's Have a good weekend
I recently discovered Courtney's videos...I really enjoy them!!! She's gorgeous, has a sweet, sexy voice, & just offers such great advice on a wide range of topics. Thanx, I sooo appreciate that & after several videos, I became a subscriber.
Every time i watch Courtney’s videos i always think to myself that rather than seeking ways to get women i should really be focusing on fixing myself first. That rather than pretending to be busy, i should be genuinely busy and productive while having a healthy relationship with someone.
That’s the key! Fringe benefit is making YOURSELF the priority makes you more attractive to women.
Yup. Pick up a new project or rediscover yourself. Maybe something new will come out of it and make yourself genuinely busy again.
Would like watch a conversation b/t Ponti and Ryan. Older vs younger female energy. Could be a good observation of where they both are in life and experiences. Ponti is married and Ryan has a live in bf. Just an idea.
People used to say "be clear about what you want" and "don't smother the other person", but now everything is a technique. Imagine a marrying a person through manipulation.
Basically, genuinely be the man a woman is most attracted to. Don't fake it. Become it.
Apollonia's videos provide a unique insight into the female brain and are generally VERY helpful. I am surprised that you have referred to her advice as 'diabolical', 'manipulative', 'unhealthy', and likened her content based on just one video to the tiktok videos that you have obviously watched a lot of. They were really toxic.
That’s not what I think at all! I just helped further explain some of her points in this one. I think she’s great!
A hole 🕳️ can give you trouble from both sides, LoL 😸😆🤣.
Ooo I've been hoping for a reaction to her! 👍 Thanks! 😊
Enjoy! ❤️