How we saved our relationship

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024

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  • @uyenninh
    @uyenninh  8 месяцев назад +17709

    Heyy I made a long video talking about our relationship, careers and lessons I learnt in 2023, if you can check it out it would help me a lot, it’s linked to the short and you can see it on the screen! thank you a thousand times 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @ArianaTheGreatestOfAllTime
      @ArianaTheGreatestOfAllTime 8 месяцев назад +29

      Hiii, im the first reply lol, I really like your videos

    • @heididahl439
      @heididahl439 8 месяцев назад +29

      Denmark calling to say happy new year to you and the clam🎉❤

    • @realcatxolotl
      @realcatxolotl 8 месяцев назад +12

      when the boyfriend face reveal?
      10M subs or 100M subs?

    • @shawnholbrook7278
      @shawnholbrook7278 8 месяцев назад +94

      Do not face reveal, ever, protect your family!😊 keep your little clam happy. 😄 The lone ranger never took off his mask, and people adored him. Also, two different youtubers that I watch, never reveal their faces. It's fine. I love watching your happy videos and seeing how you both love and care for each other. 💖

    • @Loulizabeth
      @Loulizabeth 8 месяцев назад +23

      Watched the longer video last night, was really good to hear all your news. And again so well done on accomplishing everything you've done, especially graduating university.

  • @archonmagosaugustus
    @archonmagosaugustus 8 месяцев назад +28109

    "YOU ARE FIRED!"
    "THANK YOU , SWEETIE !"

    • @humaneleaguelancPA
      @humaneleaguelancPA 7 месяцев назад +142

      You got that Right, we know you been watching!

    • @ariellealexander1534
      @ariellealexander1534 7 месяцев назад +246

      Aww I heard it on their voices.

    • @kimicappiello5480
      @kimicappiello5480 7 месяцев назад +37

      ​@@ariellealexander1534😂 same!

    • @saumyarawat190
      @saumyarawat190 7 месяцев назад +14

      @augustofioretti6938 this is so cute.. Got that right🤣💜

    • @blupinkyellogreen
      @blupinkyellogreen 7 месяцев назад

      Her name is *sweet tea 😂

  • @thespectator901
    @thespectator901 8 месяцев назад +7716

    Uyen: I'm sorry, but you're fired
    German Boyfriend: I'M FREEEE!!!!!

  • @therainbowagenda1622
    @therainbowagenda1622 8 месяцев назад +24052

    That's what we call boundaries. I love them so much.

    • @greenspitfire17
      @greenspitfire17 8 месяцев назад +70

      So smart of you to do this & really wonderful for both of you.

    • @suvireijo
      @suvireijo 8 месяцев назад +74

      Better to say "there are agreements". "Boundary" as a word has less positive meaning as a "agreement" would sound. It's better way to say things on FPFD (Family positive feedback day).😊

    • @A_itsar
      @A_itsar 8 месяцев назад +50

      ​@@suvireijo Agreement feels too formal tbh

    • @StinkyCatFarts
      @StinkyCatFarts 8 месяцев назад +155

      @@suvireijo Boundaries is a perfectly fine word to use in relationships. People forget relationships is about respecting each other and includes their boundaries, if one or both has no respect, the relationship is practically non existent.

    • @confushisushi
      @confushisushi 8 месяцев назад +91

      @@suvireijo Boundary only has a less positive meaning if you yourself do not have a positive relationship with boundaries.

  • @jeb284
    @jeb284 5 месяцев назад +3092

    To recognize each other’s needs and make their needs important to each other . I’m about to cry to see such beautiful relationships

    • @pau5772
      @pau5772 29 дней назад +2

      no replies?? that’s crazy let me change that bc this is the best comment on this short 🫡🫡🫡❤️

  • @aldenbarnes2179
    @aldenbarnes2179 8 месяцев назад +14444

    I love that you were able to recognize and correct a problem before it really became a problem. I admire your guys’ relationship

    • @lorifintel9784
      @lorifintel9784 8 месяцев назад +126

      Yes! She seems as considerate as he is . This was a very sweet and smart move.

    • @nickaylah.671
      @nickaylah.671 8 месяцев назад +18

      THIS!

    • @alibahali3671
      @alibahali3671 7 месяцев назад +5

      First help me to build a Community and then Fire him for Long Term if They breakup 😂 poor boyfriend

    • @nena.swritings
      @nena.swritings 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@alibahali3671 He helped her with the administrative work and legal stuff... This is sooo different from what you're claiming.
      As she has the money to hire someone to do all the legal stuff, he's free from all that stuff and he can go to his own work then just chill in the evening with her. It's all for the benefit of their couple.
      Also, as she said, he can appear when he wants in her videos. So... Nothing wrong there.
      I think using "Fired" was a little joke, before explaining the situation.

    • @nsfurheart
      @nsfurheart 6 месяцев назад

      @@alibahali3671here comes the lonely clown

  • @paulmorgan1009
    @paulmorgan1009 4 месяца назад +1149

    This is a really mature and caring decision. I imagine of many past and many to come. Yall looking out for each other is so great.

    • @TheNoiseySpectator
      @TheNoiseySpectator 2 месяца назад

      It is both wise as a way of coping with their personal life, and prudent as the manager of a small business☝🏽.
      I Guess when a Vietnamese person is wearing reindeer antlers, it is not a reason to dismiss what they have to say as being childish and silly.

  • @WhaleShark987
    @WhaleShark987 8 месяцев назад +35483

    Love the description of German boyfriend as a “happy little clam” he comes across very much that way

    • @tomacado2209
      @tomacado2209 8 месяцев назад +317

      when she said that i evisioned a person with a clam head and a beard

    • @yudeok413
      @yudeok413 8 месяцев назад +194

      ​@@tomacado2209I envisioned a man inside a giant clam with a mini fridge at proboscis range

    • @hughmann7785
      @hughmann7785 8 месяцев назад +3

      she meant clown I think

    • @User_is_here_to_stay
      @User_is_here_to_stay 8 месяцев назад +110

      ​@@hughmann7785Happy little clam is a common saying. Or at least to me it is 😅

    • @smurphul23
      @smurphul23 8 месяцев назад +65

      Happy as a clam is the saying, so yes I think she meant clam lol

  • @renwhit100
    @renwhit100 7 месяцев назад +137

    I've only seen your content in passing, but everything I've seen has had a lot of genuine charm many other relationship-based content lacks. it's always nice when creators make it clear that their relationships aren't just magically perfect all the time -- they take as much work as anything else, even when all the viewer sees is the polished videos. best of luck to you both!!

  • @NeeratiKanishk
    @NeeratiKanishk 8 месяцев назад +44198

    German boyfriend deserves a break too

    • @Whaddif_
      @Whaddif_ 8 месяцев назад +28

      so i feel like u shud know there were a few people who liked this comment in the 8 hours since you’ve left it here.

    • @xzjayq
      @xzjayq 8 месяцев назад +20

      Omd, have you watched the video?

    • @Takapon218
      @Takapon218 8 месяцев назад +16

      @@xzjayqtheir comment was literally agreeing with the video.

    • @user-iz9jo7yg4w
      @user-iz9jo7yg4w 8 месяцев назад +5

      And he will never ask for it apparently! She has to decide for him hey it's time to having break😂

    • @xzjayq
      @xzjayq 7 месяцев назад

      @@Takapon218 well, no shit

  • @IjeomaThePlantMama
    @IjeomaThePlantMama 7 месяцев назад +44

    You're setting your relationship, and future marrige, up for success. Ive seen many creators end up breaking up for one reason or another, but lots of underlying reasons ive heard were due to the RUclips stressors creeping into their relationship in one way or another. Very smart to keep things seperate!

  • @JustMeDidii
    @JustMeDidii 8 месяцев назад +7633

    I admire your decision! I’ve seen often that couples break up for this exact reason and you guys are too wholesome for that

    • @I.am.hooked
      @I.am.hooked 8 месяцев назад

      @AustinWilliam2307fine, and you?

    • @yana4310
      @yana4310 8 месяцев назад +64

      ​@AustinWilliam2307 bro are you trying rizz someone up on a RUclips comment section???

    • @HarryKaneIsGoated
      @HarryKaneIsGoated 8 месяцев назад

      His rizz level is over 9000​@@yana4310

    • @ronalda1000
      @ronalda1000 8 месяцев назад +9

      @AustinWilliam2307
      It's: how you doin
      Joey is so mad at you right now

    • @sarahsudheer296
      @sarahsudheer296 8 месяцев назад +15

      @@yana4310no it’s a spam bot account.. it has commented the same thing on other comments

  • @ruthiewitter569
    @ruthiewitter569 Месяц назад +23

    Huge advice for anyone watching this:
    Do NOT, EVER, hire family/close friends for ANYTHING official. A working relationship is not easy to balance with a personal relationship. It’s definitely possible, but it requires a type of compartmentalization of your feelings. It can damage your personal relationship, or vice versa. Both relationships thriving is very rare. Learn from this wise woman, she has some great insight on life!

  • @peachesandblues
    @peachesandblues 8 месяцев назад +7264

    This is the kind of relationship I want ❤

  • @Minsk-onions
    @Minsk-onions 5 дней назад +1

    “Happy little clam” that’s soo cute, i’m dying😭

  • @michellete8545
    @michellete8545 8 месяцев назад +2766

    What a healthy and beautiful relationship you both have. You’re not perfect but you address problems earnestly and with empathy. That’s all we can really hope for with our relationships. God bless you both and have an even more prosperous and successful 2024. ❤

    • @CorwinFound
      @CorwinFound 8 месяцев назад +37

      Their communication seems really outstanding. Between culture and interests there is a lot of room for conflict, but they always seem to be able to navigate it.

    • @stephanieg4350
      @stephanieg4350 7 месяцев назад +8

      🎉 I agree such a beautiful relationship I'm more amazed about how lovely they are to one another. There are so many difficult ppl out there who are just garbage to others. I love these guys.

  • @li_tsz_fung
    @li_tsz_fung 6 месяцев назад +20

    You're a good person. I initially want to ignore this video and just think "I don't care about your life", although I watched quite a few of your videos. But this is actually a good example for a lot of people.
    One of my parent has a part-time job, take freelance work and sell stuff online. But my another parent has full time work. But still need to help a lot, delivering things that's sold, help picking up new products. People coming over to our home and trying out products. I think it's wrong and business should be separate from other family member. If it works only work with your family helping, it's not working.

  • @solitarelee6200
    @solitarelee6200 8 месяцев назад +1211

    This is such a smart move. One thing I had to learn as my online success grew was that after a bit you do need to release the people who helped you grow, often for nothing but their desire to see you succeed, and hire real professionals to do their job. Once you get to a certain level, it is far too much to ask someone to continue doing when it's not their job. Sometimes they want to continue doing it and you hire them (which is how I got one job I really enjoy), but most of the time it's just about setting them free and giving them a big thanks for all their help!

    • @Marvin-ii7bh
      @Marvin-ii7bh 8 месяцев назад +8

      What online success are you talking about? You uploaded your last video 6 months ago and it only has about 40 views...

    • @eggbo1
      @eggbo1 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@Marvin-ii7bhfr💀💀💀

    • @redleeks6253
      @redleeks6253 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@Marvin-ii7bh there are other online platforms. Can be successful on instagram and tiktok

    • @HNCS2006
      @HNCS2006 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@Marvin-ii7bhit may be elsewhere you know. There are many different online platforms

    • @starbucksmocha88
      @starbucksmocha88 8 месяцев назад +72

      ​@@Marvin-ii7bhI'm assuming RUclips is not their platform then. They could be on IG or own an online business etc

  • @trwn87
    @trwn87 6 дней назад +1

    I never imagined this HUMANly possible... Thank you for having decency, something which HUMANs tend to lack...

  • @sumairaasim4821
    @sumairaasim4821 8 месяцев назад +2125

    The most wholesome couple on the Internet!❤

    • @MsTachke
      @MsTachke 8 месяцев назад +16

      They are indeed the most awesome couple on the internet.

    • @conehero2941
      @conehero2941 8 месяцев назад +12

      For real!! I hope they don't feel pressured for all this praise though. No need.

  • @sherhussainrajabali6718
    @sherhussainrajabali6718 День назад

    Honest opinion :you seem to be very kind ,I get that warm feeling watching your videos 😢

  • @JamieLBW
    @JamieLBW 8 месяцев назад +235

    You are a great example of how to have a successful career where you talk about your home life, but still respect your partners boundary and privacy. It's really lovely to see. I always enjoy your videos

  • @skefsongames
    @skefsongames 10 дней назад

    Its very nice of you to just do this without being asked to, sign of a healthy relationship

  • @wannabetrucker7475
    @wannabetrucker7475 8 месяцев назад +693

    that was a good idea 👍🏼. now he can be a happy clam as well as the silly goose. I am glad he was able to help you at the beginning.

  • @zigmundspeller
    @zigmundspeller 8 месяцев назад +4

    It is very clear that your relationship works well because you both focus on communication and respecting each other's needs. I aspire to be in a relationship like that. Be kind to each other.

  • @amberbowen8408
    @amberbowen8408 8 месяцев назад +841

    Aww that’s great. Congrats to you both! Relationships are hard enough so I’m sure having a firmer separation between work and personal relationship will be welcome for both of you. We love your videos and wish you good things in 2024!

  • @LucaAnamaria
    @LucaAnamaria 7 месяцев назад +14

    You two are so incredibly adorable. ❤️

  • @sonias9722
    @sonias9722 8 месяцев назад +147

    Ngl my heart dropped at "released him from misery" 💀

    • @kay-jay1581
      @kay-jay1581 26 дней назад +2

      Taxes are miserable 😂 I hate doing that it scares me so I also pay someone else to do it 😅

  • @creestee08
    @creestee08 2 месяца назад +1

    Hes doing this for you not because he is nice, its because he loves you. With german bureaucracy, youre on your own. You owe him lots!

  • @elsvaughn7959
    @elsvaughn7959 8 месяцев назад +435

    Gosh I love her. She's so real and deserves this success completely ❤

  • @giovannao.p.7591
    @giovannao.p.7591 6 месяцев назад +2

    That shows how much you care for each other. Him by being supportive and you by being understanding. This mutual care leads to a long happy relationship ❤❤❤

  • @sukamayoutube2323
    @sukamayoutube2323 8 месяцев назад +189

    I don't usually like couples content but you two are the only people I can watch and actually enjoy. You're a sweetheart and your boyfriend is a real find ❤

  • @Broeckchen
    @Broeckchen 5 дней назад

    Yeah, not being work partners can really relax a relationship. Especially when you were indepents (selbstständig). My parents had an independent company together and it constantly put strain on their relationship.
    They now work as employees at two different places and their relationship has gotten so much happier! Because now they don't both feel the pressure of keeping a company running.

  • @Daphattack
    @Daphattack 8 месяцев назад +192

    Im so glad you got to the point where you can pay someone to take on the tasks. Great job!

  • @joylean1225
    @joylean1225 9 часов назад

    You both are an excellent couple because besides being hubby and wife, you two are best buddies too. The last one is what totally cements a relationship. Love you both and thx for sharing happy energy with us. Thx❤❤❤

  • @_kitsunea
    @_kitsunea 8 месяцев назад +195

    Happy little clam is the cutest thing ive ever heard

  • @Frostydog1793
    @Frostydog1793 8 месяцев назад +1

    I couldn’t have been the only one scared when I saw the first few seconds

  • @00mpa1oomp4
    @00mpa1oomp4 8 месяцев назад +150

    The German boyfriend is going to break the internet the day he decides to show his face...

    • @adavanja5682
      @adavanja5682 8 месяцев назад +2

      Word!!!

    • @PredictableEnigma
      @PredictableEnigma 8 месяцев назад +3

      Never

    • @Call-me-Al
      @Call-me-Al 8 месяцев назад +23

      He already did and decided it made him too uncomfortable. Please respect his wishes and don't keep pressing them to do "face reveals" and all that nonsense. No means no.

    • @mariam6799
      @mariam6799 8 месяцев назад +5

      Then there would be no mystery element..
      I like it this way tbh

    • @Niky_Hazm
      @Niky_Hazm 8 месяцев назад +10

      He doesn’t need to reveal his face. He has awesome image even without showing his face and we all know he’s beautiful human being inside and outside. ❤

  • @AvieMare
    @AvieMare 5 дней назад

    Very good idea! My son is a blonde, 6’3 Nordic guy who married a 100% Chinese woman raised in America. They brought two little egg rolls into the world, now ages 1 and 3, my 10th and 11th grandchildren respectively. You remind me so much of her and it makes me laugh so much. One word of advice from an old Oma: when die kinder start arriving, be careful of parental interference from both sides. I have always kept my mouth shut and my heart and mind open, thus my children’s doors are open to me any time. Peace, Avie

  • @myblueheather8240
    @myblueheather8240 8 месяцев назад +77

    Now he's just being a happy little clam. 😊❤❤

  • @lrvdo
    @lrvdo 8 месяцев назад

    He has worked hard to build the empire. Now he deserved to sit back on the throne and relax. 👑🤴

  • @Nishala8
    @Nishala8 8 месяцев назад +33

    I appreciate you looking out for your fiancé and not wanting to overburden him (even though he loves you and didn't complain). Y'all are the cutest couple and I wish you much happiness and success in 2024!

  • @yaiyoiyui2575
    @yaiyoiyui2575 2 месяца назад +1

    Wait that’s actually such a cute story😢

  • @ChrysinaStevens
    @ChrysinaStevens 8 месяцев назад +62

    Very wise for both of you. May you continue to have a beautiful relationship and much success in your respective careers.

  • @katie18976
    @katie18976 2 месяца назад +1

    That is a great decision 😊 I love your sweater by the way 🤗 ❤️

  • @GrumpetteJV
    @GrumpetteJV 8 месяцев назад +18

    You made an excellent choice!
    And it shows how much you care about him.
    Love this! 🖤

  • @andreamolnar5333
    @andreamolnar5333 6 месяцев назад +1

    Here's a funny thing for you guys: I'm a Hungarian living in the US now, and I volunteer for Meals On Wheels. I met an American lady who, on hearing that I was from Europe, told me she was a huge fan of Uyen and the German bf, and you turned out to be something we kinda bonded over 😅😅😅

    • @amywu971
      @amywu971 5 месяцев назад

      Aw.. That's cute!

  • @annieteix338
    @annieteix338 8 месяцев назад +28

    I agree with you, long run it will be healthy for the relationship

  • @NotTacoBandit
    @NotTacoBandit День назад

    Bro this is so wholesome I love your guys channel 🤙🏽

  • @hingkaitlyn8290
    @hingkaitlyn8290 8 месяцев назад +59

    I love your youtube channel and it always, always makes my day. Thanks for being so funny and always so genuine in your videos! As an asian, i relate with so much of the stuff that you mention in your videos.
    It really is nice for you to think about your bf! This is the greenest flag relationship i have ever seen. Thank you for being such a joy!! ❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @user-qz2sb9yq3b
    @user-qz2sb9yq3b 5 месяцев назад +1

    "So I decide to release him from his misery" that sounded like you wanted to eutanhise him 😂

  • @kathi2646
    @kathi2646 8 месяцев назад +13

    Very considerate and cute for you to see EVERYTHING, your goals and work and his work and the impact everything has on your relationship. 😊 You did the right thing to keep your relationship and each of you happy. 😀😊

  • @RoundSwan
    @RoundSwan 7 месяцев назад

    One of the most amazing things about you is how respectful you are of your relationship. You joke and talk and understand each other in such a beautiful way. I’m so impressed that you were mindful of the extra emotional labour that your boyfriend was so willing to support you with, and decided to make it a non-issue before it became one. Such a healthy relationship. It’s so beautiful that you can love and support each other in this way and prioritise your relationship over everything including work, money and social media.
    One of the reasons I continue to follow you is for how “real” and down to earth you have always been. You’re intelligent, insightful, honest, kind and humble ❤

  • @chedderspinner414
    @chedderspinner414 8 месяцев назад +45

    This adorable and smartest decision wish you the best love your videos ❤️❤️❤️

  • @rhiannonstanton9184
    @rhiannonstanton9184 15 дней назад

    You both are so sweet. I love that you were able to fire him!

  • @anahill2366
    @anahill2366 8 месяцев назад +78

    wonderful to hear, a happy new year to you 2

  • @ColdIce1977
    @ColdIce1977 8 месяцев назад +18

    Ach ihr beide seit so klasse! Grüße an den German boyfriend! Ihr macht das alles schon genau richtig 👍 weiter so, hoffe noch viel von euch zu sehen!

  • @QueensGambit9876
    @QueensGambit9876 7 месяцев назад

    As a wife of a businessman I couldn't agree with you more on this. I used to help my hubby in administrative and accounts work.. and I realized that, our only conversations revolved around his work and his business even on weekends. We decided to hire staffs to manage these things. Our conversations covers more interesting topics now that I'm no longer doing these job for him. He would still get my advice every once in a while, but our life no longer revolves around his business. It really helped our marriage a lot. Wise woman.. ❤❤

  • @marianac715
    @marianac715 8 месяцев назад +9

    I really enjoy seeing your "happy little clam" in your videos as he has a very endearing personality and you are so cute together. Happy New Year!

  • @trudilm3864
    @trudilm3864 8 месяцев назад

    Marraige/relationships are about sharing. It wasn't just you that 'gave up' for this relationship, he deserves equal respect and understanding.

  • @The_gremlin_god
    @The_gremlin_god 8 месяцев назад +5

    I was very surprised this wasn't a "german bf kidnapped" video but this actually really great relationship advice. Wishing you both a great new year❤

  • @totally3totally
    @totally3totally Месяц назад

    I've always come across your content on shorts and I genuinely love your personality 😊

  • @Yuri-ke6sz
    @Yuri-ke6sz 8 месяцев назад +15

    😭👍I love this couple. Can't wait for a couple of years when they are getting married 🤭prays for y'all happiness forever

  • @hiteshpunjabi9413
    @hiteshpunjabi9413 8 месяцев назад

    Men do so much for their wives, gfs without complaining. You did a great job of realising that

  • @divyanshutrivedi7419
    @divyanshutrivedi7419 8 месяцев назад +9

    And.... That's called a healthy relationship❤❤

  • @user-pt3rc3zv2y
    @user-pt3rc3zv2y Месяц назад

    It's beautiful that you found a way to keep your job seperate ❤ He's been a good provider...even emotionally! You prioritized your relationship by communicating and both of you worked it out saving your relationship ❤❤ Men do love to protect and help. You listened to him and made him happier ... 🎉🎉

  • @world__2264
    @world__2264 8 месяцев назад +4

    Smart girl👏 pressure will ruin things good for you❤

  • @pandapaws6174
    @pandapaws6174 17 дней назад

    Uyen and German boyfriend are honestly couple goals. I'm so glad he helped you but also that he now has the freedom to just do what he wants whilst you get to do what you love too. This was such a nice clip

  • @Glitchiboo
    @Glitchiboo 8 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you German Boyfriend for all your hard work! 🥰

  • @karinaasvolinsque5239
    @karinaasvolinsque5239 7 месяцев назад

    It’s so wholesome that you respect him as a person and doesn’t demand that he helps you 🥰 I know it seems common sense, but I already saw many relationships where this boundary was non-existent, so seeing this is so refreshing!

  • @Evara-t9f
    @Evara-t9f 8 месяцев назад +10

    U r the best❤
    Love from India ❤❤❤

  • @maix139
    @maix139 6 месяцев назад

    Thats actually a healthier thing to do ❤ he help you bc he loves u but he needs to do his own thing too.

  • @voluptuousvince6522
    @voluptuousvince6522 8 месяцев назад +4

    Happy New Year to you both!!

  • @Patrick-pt2yd
    @Patrick-pt2yd 8 месяцев назад

    I did the same thing in my business... partners are awesome for helping (even when compensated) but we all have our own dreams, pastimes, passions etc. and nice when each person in the relationship feels fulfilled and happy like clams ❤

  • @harmanjeetsingh4931
    @harmanjeetsingh4931 4 дня назад

    This is what a happy relationship looks like ❤

  • @gallagjg
    @gallagjg 2 месяца назад

    I’ve spent years in academia, studying relationships- based off of the data I think this is a very wise move.
    If he wants to be involved as a hobby, great- but focus on doing maintenance tasks like doing the dishes- most days you guys can split that up like he cooks you clean or vice versa- but a few times a week you guys could do the cleaning and the cooking together (as an example).
    I’m also an Expat abroad in a mixed relationship- and I love the content. Keep it growing!

  • @Samsqautch
    @Samsqautch 6 месяцев назад

    Y'know I think I can actually tell the difference. Before he seemed happy to be in the videos, happy to help, but now when I see him pop up in your videos I feel it is more in a carefree way. I wish you both the best of all luck in all your ventures, such very wonderful people you are.

  • @RebeccaTJM
    @RebeccaTJM 6 месяцев назад +1

    Prioritizing your relationship above your job speaks volumes about how much you love German bf. Keep jobs and private life separate is an excellent idea.

  • @raysacastro8942
    @raysacastro8942 8 месяцев назад

    If that keeps you being the most adorable couple in SM, then I think you did the right thing.

  • @Delicate_Disaster
    @Delicate_Disaster 8 месяцев назад

    I love that she pays enough attention to see that it was a bit much for him and just made the necessary changes rather than continue stressing him out so she could succeed. I love their relationship.

  • @wtx23j
    @wtx23j 2 месяца назад

    Keeping work life and private life balance is the key to happiness 🤝

  • @korinshorts3121
    @korinshorts3121 8 месяцев назад

    Its such a good sign when the couple helps each other even before needing to be asked

  • @Winterborne.
    @Winterborne. 4 месяца назад

    This was played before a concert I went to yesterday, it certainly got everyone in the mood for some headbanging

  • @stanksalvala
    @stanksalvala Месяц назад

    This is the epitome of a mutually giving relationship. ❤

  • @thaba3773
    @thaba3773 8 месяцев назад +2

    Ok, but his participations and solo vids was always awsome, so he still deserves a lot credit on the channel, i guess!!
    He needs to creat vids too for this channel in my opnion.

  • @arcadius2569
    @arcadius2569 Месяц назад

    Very wise. Separating jobs, lives, hobbies, it's not always a bad thing. Glad it works for you two!

  • @JoTheAnomaly
    @JoTheAnomaly Месяц назад

    I adore that he helped you get on your feet and let you fly! Dealing with government paperwork is tedious, so give him a big hug from us for making it possible for you to make content.

  • @landhausidyll3185
    @landhausidyll3185 2 месяца назад

    It also helps in a relationship when both people are emotionally mature to support each other and set healthy boundaries together. Your bf is a good man too, so that's a plus!

  • @Kazner0h
    @Kazner0h 4 месяца назад

    Aw, that's such a good observation from you. The fact that you recognized the situation and responded in a way that prioritized your relationship is very admirable.
    Now he's like a celebrity guest haha

  • @naturalnaiad
    @naturalnaiad 8 месяцев назад

    He deserves it, and you deserve it. It's a mark of success in career and relationship. All the best to you.

  • @kyrylosovailo1690
    @kyrylosovailo1690 8 месяцев назад

    Actually healthy decision a lot of youtubers couldn't have done. Respect.

  • @lhakuma
    @lhakuma 8 месяцев назад +1

    This screams love and communication in your relationship and damn I'm so here for that. The two of you are amazing and I wish you all the love and happiness in the world ❤🤭

  • @blackberriee
    @blackberriee 8 месяцев назад

    content creation being a job can take the magic out of making art that artists and audiences relate to in a lot of ways which is unfortunate & not talked about enough!! i love tiktok a lot not bashing it we needed it, & your channel is so lovely!! only saying i’m so glad you’re taking care of your relationship by limiting the effect of social media on it :’) that’s not easy !!

  • @lisadoyle2284
    @lisadoyle2284 7 месяцев назад

    I'm so happy that you've become successful as a content creator. I love your channel. No fake pranks, no fake drama, not using a child to boost your channel, always positive and fun, German boyfriend mystique, and a genuinely creative person being themselves.

  • @Janlid
    @Janlid 5 месяцев назад +1

    Sounds like you guys are going to be happier 👏🏻✨

  • @MariaBareiss
    @MariaBareiss 5 месяцев назад

    I think you are so smart! I'm happy for you both, as it can be awkward to separate professional/private conversations.

  • @christineparis5607
    @christineparis5607 8 месяцев назад

    I admire you both so much! I grew up in Palo Alto, California in a neighborhood that was a mix of Vietnamese, Japanese and Chinese, it was so fantastic because we all learned each others "slang" and could tease each other in 4 or 7 languages! The best friends I ever had. I miss them so much. When i moved to Texas i moved into a old neighborhood that was all Mexican and Spanish. My mom was half native American Indian and my dad was French Canadian! It was a massive melting pot that taught me so much about life, traditions, kindness and humor, I feel endlessly fortunate and I think you are too, because you were brave enough to take chances on another life, and explore your talents. You are extremely gifted on camera, with a natural humor, wise words and a gift for connecting with your audience. I'm so happy to watch your continuing success, never be discouraged! You have what it takes to go all the way to the top of whatever mountain you wish to climb. Happy New Year❤!!!

  • @WigglyTuffStuff
    @WigglyTuffStuff 8 месяцев назад

    This is so important. It's very easy to overstep boundaries when you get a significant other involved in monetary pursuits. Happy for you both ❤

  • @BrideofJesuChristo2
    @BrideofJesuChristo2 4 месяца назад

    God has highlighted my smile- ❤
    I think my husband will love my smile a lot, so God encourages me to take good care of my mouth while in Preparation season

  • @irenelopezmartin2246
    @irenelopezmartin2246 7 месяцев назад

    Sounds much better to spend your time together doing whatever you feel like instead of working ✨