Thanks for your enlightening videos. I would like to send you an email about an I idea I have. Could I get your email contact? Thanks in advance. Cheers! Brody
All the things listed in this video is what being a man is all about. I have always been this way and I raised all three of my son's this way. We call it being a gentleman.
I love this lifestyle. I love how it has finally been defined and explained, because for so many years, I always felt strange or that I didn't fit in. Other men hated or resented me because things came easily and naturally to me, and I couldn't understand why they didn't want that for themselves.
when i speak other men get intimidated....am often under-estimated till i speak... even in my current course in masters, my course mates thought i was the dummy of the class till a tutor took the mockery too far....i had to answer his seemingly difficult questions...this shocked the class till date they still gaze at me in awe...and i see the red hot envy in the guys eyes....hence my wanting to avoid limelight initially....
This video speaks to me in every way. Says everything that really grabs my attention about a Sigma,from that close fitting T shirt that shows what he is working with to his leadership qualities. His mysterious, confident personality to even that intimidating fixed gaze. And even though he is not a master of all, the fact that he is able to fix almost every little thing in the home BECAUSE of that brilliant mind makes him highly attractive. As a woman you just love it when you you can depend on that masculine.
@@RobertMorgan I'm confused why you even ask that question. It's not about you. You don't need an answer. Doing things for others is just the right thing to do. It has nothing to do with gender or validating your ego. Just pay it forward. It doesn't require any reward for treating people with respect. Nor does it require any obligation or conversation.
This is what real man is all about. Competent but cares for others. He knows when to enter, when to leave, and when to give others what they deserve. He doesn't want to be a jerk who wants all eyes on him only.
This isn't even about sigmas, this is just called being a gentleman. This isn't about being an alpha or sigma or whatever else, it's just called being a man or not. I'm glad the internet is teaching this generation these nearly forgotten rules.
In my youth I tried to be like my peers, tried to be "popular". I wasn't popular and felt very uncomfortable trying. Life experience has made me a Sigma as far as it comes to enjoying being alone, avoiding small talk and loudmouths. In group gatherings I always stand aside. Other people are just a nuisance, except the few I am befriended with. I'm happy to be able to work alone and at home! I've wondered, if I'm not right somehow, but this series has helped me to understand myself better. 👍
@@HandleDeezNutzVoluntarily Probably. I've *always* hated when people take up more space than their share in public (i. e. two seats in a crowded subway). Today I confront such people. Have no urge to be popular anymore.
I was so comfortable being alone that in my vey early 20s I was completely fine going to the movie theater all by myself. My brother never understood it. He had to always go everywhere with a small entourage. I never needed them. I didn't shun going with others, but it was never a necessity which is the way he saw it.
Likewise, I'm there and have been for most of my life. I'm thankful for these videos which explained nicely what I've suspected for many years but couldn't describe to anyone else.
Keanu Reeves is a sigma too, come to think of it...Being a sigma myself, I think I just naturally do the things other sigmas do. Being an army veteran reminds me of the values and standards that we have which are reinforced in service. Things like Loyalty, Duty, Respect, Selfless service, Honesty, Integrity, and Personal courage are the principles that the army tries to drive home into every basic trainee. I am aware that it's attractive but unless she's intelligent i'll swerve! It's nice to see a list of unique things we do that make us look more attractive. This was a good video!
Keanu Reeves is a good example of a Sigma. A even better example is the knight Tristan in the movie King Arthur (2004) who hasn't watch it, should. Also a very important fact although they are (very) attractive, they are not perfect which in itself is a plus because it doesn't make the women feel insecure or the men appear to be very demanding, and they love to work with this "imprefection" with potential. It's the lack of being always driven by the newest fashion or newest stuff which makes them "imperfectly" interesting, because they have the confidence to not follow everything new just for the sake of it.
I know society has pictured him being a Sigma but he comes off more as a Delta or Gamma. He’s a bit eccentric & odd in their own way. Keanu fits that category
Sigma males are assertive enough in a smart way, without tryharding because it's better like this, smarter, but with strategy to make it good and not chase women, but rather create the perfect balance between actions and being chased by women, planting seeds into their emotions to grow attraction.
Only thing I don't agree with is #6, only a simp will always stand up when a woman comes along. Sitting down and making sure her presence is known does the same thing.
#8 March 2023 Paris France on the RER commuter train my head was on a swivel to give my seat to old women & young at least 5 times & in French. Only one older lady took my seat. Once I think my gesture was infectious because a man near us motioned to give his seat up as well, but the lady said "non merci".🤷♂
I guess that's why I have the wife I've got. I wasn't looking for a woman when she found me. But because of who I am she was attracted to me. After we talked for quite a while she was super attached to me and me to her. We've been married for almost 15 years now and have no desire to find a replacement should one of us die. We are totally committed to each other.
@@richardperez5779 because she has a fulltime job that makes her highly visible to the public and comes straight home after her work time. When she's not at work, she's home with me.
That's what I say, let the woman find/pursue, catch up, and keep up with you; you're the prize. SSM warms about women looking for free meals and such, but a woman who gives it her all in chasing you is ready to commit.
I feel that way about someone I like. Although some days it feels like we're a million miles apart. She's a sigma so it might take 15 years for her to finally see it.
@@mikemcgown6362 It is a blessing to have a wife in which you can entrust your heart without reservation and she deserves the same blessing from you. There is nothing better.
I wonder why I almost never hear mention of the fact that Sigmas, with their vast store of knowledge of human nature, can achieve so much by way of their brilliant sense of humor and timing, often downplaying themselves and highlighting others. Women love to laugh.
You didn't even mention honestly one of the main reasons... Sigma males act like they aren't interested in women or dating because honestly we usually don't. A true Sigma values their Independence over being tied down to a relationship. Women always want what they can't have! Women flirt with and come on to me all the time and friends tell me this girl or that one has a crush on me, but honestly I prefer bring single and living alone. There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely!! I am 43 have no wife or girlfriend, no kids, own my own house and live alone and I wouldn't change it for anything or anyone!
Actions are powerful, they are real. Even the simplest of gestures such as giving your coat makes a statement in actions. Also goes to show how much we consider others.
I have a system in my bedroom for organizing shirts. I have a stack on top the dresser with regular shirts on top. Beneath that I have undershirts all in one cluster so I can find one in the dark when my wife is sleeping. A little prep work when folding shirts and I'm good to go 24/7.
I love fixing things Did it for a living! Women really do like a Man that can fix things! Sharpening knives by hand too. When people get used to using sharp knives they can't stand a dull one.
I believe any true sigma has experienced at least one stalker in their lifestyle 💯 true sigma men are rare as f#@# and getting into their life isn't easy and once they decide the relationship is finished it's even harder to get back in which leads to infatuation and stalking.
I didn't know what a Sigma male was until I watched some videos on it. Most of my traits are Sigma with some Alpha traits mixed in for good measure. From what I understand, that's not too uncommon. Most of the things mentioned here apply to me but not all. The one that struck me funny was the black t-shirts. If you look in my closet, the only kind of t-shirt you will find is black pocket t-shirts. I'm wearing one now. Some of my other shirts are more colorful. But I wear the black t-shirts and black clothing, in general, a lot.
I also to like the plain dark grey tshirt. Breaking things down down to basics also aids me in my slight mockery of dumb ideas Though I prefer the big cat as the image vs the Lone wolf
I was explaining something to a new co-worker at work. She was young and quite beautiful and she looked at me happy I took the time to explain something and help her understand. Once I bought flowers for someone I had a crush on for Valentines Day. I wasn't sure what would happen but just to be nice. I stared down the deacon at Church who was staring at a woman I know during Mass. He was making her uncomfortable and I wasn't going to tolerate it. A real man has to take charge and do the little things other men don't even realize is happening.
I identify with all of it except being introverted and confused with shy. I actually try to be more reserved in discussions, which I am not at all. I do cherish being very expressive at the right times, though.
I have lived more or less Sigma for nearly a decade but I am but no means passive and gentle. 3 decade Veteran, work Timber, and n fantastic shape. In my personal opinion any man that SIMPS to any woman not meeting near 100% of his expectations isn't Sigma, nor is any man seeking/desiring female validation. Most men believing they are Sigma havent had the option of turning down female validation once in their life let alone ever have. That's when a man can only truly know if he is Sigma
If a man NEEDS a woman and settles for one below his standards, he isn't a Sigma. If a man WANTS a woman only if she meets his high standards, is a Sigma.
Giving a seat to a woman in train? Someone with ulterior motives (even if it's only in their mind) will do that. With proper manners you'll offer your seat to women, children, the elderly and the sick/disabled, or actually anyone who looks like they need it more.
I will take art on a t-shirt before a plain shirt and that is not to impress anyone. I like style and the feeling of wearing something that defines me for that particular day. It is really about originality rather than plain shirts and not following the crowd for approval, even if it something as dismal as a t-shirt.
Fellow Sigmas. Do you guys find yourself over thinking things. Almost to the point of insanity? Sometimes I over think so much my thoughts contradict each other 4 times over. Lemme know
I am the only one in the family that is a mostly Sigma, with some Alpha mixed in there too. Nobody else in the household is a Sigma, it seems I'm the unique one, but I am fine with that.
6:15 I was born in Seattle in 1973, where I grew up. Japanese-American. Male. A total Sigma Male. WHY is it, whether they are a real life couple, or "playing as a couple in a movie, video, or a photo picture in a book or even a modeling magazine," I find it SUCH a huge turn-ON, when an attractive Black woman, is paired with a White or Asian man! I remember a Nordstrom catalog many years ago, had a HOT Black Canadian woman, with a good-looking Japanese-Canadian man, and I found that to be HOT, even if they weren't a real couple! Anne Hooper's sex books had TWO couples in those pictures, with a HOT Black woman, with a handsome White man. I love that SO much!!
Long story short: Each woman has her own set of experiences, beliefs, and values, which means that how each woman is impacted by Sigma males behavior will be unique. Some women may find it empowering while others may feel disrespected or uncomfortable; ultimately, understanding the individual response is key in determining how a Sigma male's actions will affect various women.
On the flip side, it's interesting-to say the least-how often a woman will be cavalier or unappreciative when the door is opened/held open or a seat is relinquished for her. They just don't get it.
I always wear black tshirt even when I was a child. I dunno, I just feel comfortable wearing black or dark colors. People always telling me that I look like someone who is mourning everyday. I fix that habit during my early 20s but now I'm on my 30s I stop caring about what other people thinks about me.
Going to give you guys more knowledge instead of dinner dates , going out for ice cream accomplish the same goal as dinner date. more relaxing and fun ice breaking and short . I hate ice cream and love my teeth but it’s a day date that doesn’t put you in a friend zone. Plus it’s cheaperand less time consuming. Get same results without calling it a date. Results I mean by getting to know someone or getting comfortable, not sexually but but I guess it could . Entire point is fun and breaks ice of proper or formal
Couple being this with a lack of seeing attraction to you, and you get me, 39, alone, childless, never married. Women, speak up I guess. I'm literally oblivious. Once I'm clued in I'm Mr perfect, but it's on YOU to get there.
You may need to go out and find one. Just a hunch - take up a hobby where you don't know the subject but there are guys around who do. See if you can spot the sigma. For instance if you are good at cooking and he's good at electrical work. Let him know that you would appreciate him taking a look at your home wiring and you'd be willing to cook him a meal. Then if he's bad at cooking he might see the symbiotic logic for the two of you getting together. That way you compliment each other. Sigmas understand that. Just one example out of a million. See if you can line something up. And good luck.
Agreed. Especially in this age of MeToo there's never a good time to start grabbing her back to sit down. It seems like this is something that should have been established earlier on in the dating process. It's creepy when a guy is too handsy but it's also creepy when a guy doesn't touch a woman enough. Until some valid reliable metrics are provided for the right amount of touching, the guy is destined to be perceived as a creep. Only touching a girl not enough won't land you before a judge.
@@protorhinocerator142 For #3 general speaking an Alpha makes the gesture for reassurance/dominance, for Betas its insecurity/desperation like the nice guy, and for narcissist it's a gesture ownership and submission.... in my opinion. Me personally I don't like showing affection in public, don't like holding hands while walking.... it throws off my gait and would slow down my reaction in a defensive scenario.... that's if you carry and restricts situational awareness. I save the hand holding and affection for the bedroom.
@@driftset562 Thank you very much for pointing out the need to be ready at any time for an attack. You don't always have 20 seconds to convince the girl that right now might not be the best time to restrict my movement. Preparing for a sudden attack can't be a decision by committee.
My whole approach to life was influenced by the book Mort D'Arthur be a noble and honourable person be kind do not tolerate in justice protect women and the weak . And do what's required to take down the bad guys.
I had to stop at no 8. This is because of my age and iQ (which is biology not something I did, just to be clear ). This is the 2nd so called sigma sign that I can say is just being a gentleman. I may not fit alpha or beta, but I’d never say sigma , I say it’s far more complex. Yes I prefer solo , don’t follow or want people , had one close friend (he died). BUT I have a wife of 34 years (this just stopped me). She said her friends hit on me because I was nice. I was just being a gentleman (it was late 80s early 90s).
The stare in the eyes thing is absolutely wrong. As a SIGMA I prefer not to look at a persons eyes as I want to intensely hear what they’re saying.not be distracted by non body gestures.
Alpha men are often all talk and little substance. Sigmas are all substance and little talk. I spent twenty-five years explaining highly technical, cutting edge technology to people from all levels of society. My whole life I've been the one people come to for answers. One friend said I have an answer for everything. I disagreed. So she asked, "what killed the dinosaurs", (this was thirty- years ago when the cause was newly made public), I had to concede she was right. :)
I love this... A sigma man would stand up to give a woman his seat on a train instead of letting her stand up for the whole ride, and expects nothing in return!
Well, many of the subtleties of the described sigma male type are in themselves admirable. Upon hearing the litany of supposedly sigma male qualities, I can't get rid of the nagging suspicion that this is a very synthetic category in which to hopefully validate various male tendencies such as silence or stoicism or independence as a way to establish a platform of male qualities that exist separate and apart from females or female. Opinion. In any case, let's hope that there is a growing population of sigma males, because the alpha have become intolerable and embarrassing in the extreme.
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Thanks for your enlightening videos.
I would like to send you an email about an I idea I have. Could I get your email contact?
Thanks in advance.
Cheers!
Brody
Can you do a video on sigman female and how to know them?
Thanks, Brody! Sure, you can find it on my channel in the "about" section.
I have a few of them. Just search "sigma female" on my channel👍
@@Wise.Thinker cheers mate.
I have sent you an email.
All the things listed in this video is what being a man is all about. I have always been this way and I raised all three of my son's this way. We call it being a gentleman.
But being a gentleman doesn't mean being a simp or doormat, there are boundaries.
@@kentjensen4939 in my opinion Any man seeking female validation, attention, or relationship isn't Sigma in my opinion.
Phil, you’ve raised beta bucks my guy…
We are all an combination of alpha beta and stigmas. Why these Chanelle do this beyond clicks I didn't know. His like to feel special.
@@HandleDeezNutzVoluntarily Haha. Sure. being polite and kind is beta, right. You need to move on.
I love this lifestyle. I love how it has finally been defined and explained, because for so many years, I always felt strange or that I didn't fit in. Other men hated or resented me because things came easily and naturally to me, and I couldn't understand why they didn't want that for themselves.
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People don’t like you because you’re weird and identify as a “sigma male”
U sound like a beta mangina.
i always felt attacked and envied by other men
when i speak other men get intimidated....am often under-estimated till i speak... even in my current course in masters, my course mates thought i was the dummy of the class till a tutor took the mockery too far....i had to answer his seemingly difficult questions...this shocked the class till date they still gaze at me in awe...and i see the red hot envy in the guys eyes....hence my wanting to avoid limelight initially....
Point 9: Sigmas are all so acutely aware of where they DON’T wanna be in life,…
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This is so me. I KNOW I'm not where I want to be yet.
This video speaks to me in every way. Says everything that really grabs my attention about a Sigma,from that close fitting T shirt that shows what he is working with to his leadership qualities. His mysterious, confident personality to even that intimidating fixed gaze. And even though he is not a master of all, the fact that he is able to fix almost every little thing in the home BECAUSE of that brilliant mind makes him highly attractive. As a woman you just love it when you you can depend on that masculine.
Then SAY that. I literally will have no clue unless you SAY IT.
Act and deed are too easy to mistake as kindness rather than desire or want.
but we're sharp enough to realize that attracting these today is bad for your health
@@last7509 Didn't specify if you mean attracting a woman or a MAN
sigma don't 🌈. makes no sense
@@RobertMorgan I'm confused why you even ask that question. It's not about you. You don't need an answer. Doing things for others is just the right thing to do. It has nothing to do with gender or validating your ego. Just pay it forward. It doesn't require any reward for treating people with respect. Nor does it require any obligation or conversation.
Active listening, one of my favorites, is another way to demonstrate that one is listening to what one is being told.
This is what real man is all about. Competent but cares for others. He knows when to enter, when to leave, and when to give others what they deserve. He doesn't want to be a jerk who wants all eyes on him only.
Just want to say thank you for the videos. They have helped me to understand more about myself and not feel alone. Stay awesome.
I'm so glad to hear that! Your kind words mean a lot to me! I'll keep doing my best to create content that is helpful and inspiring.
Bragging is uncool , intelligence is cool. Listening is an important trait .
This isn't even about sigmas, this is just called being a gentleman. This isn't about being an alpha or sigma or whatever else, it's just called being a man or not. I'm glad the internet is teaching this generation these nearly forgotten rules.
Sigma males ARE gentlemen, but yes, I agree with u 👍🏽
In my youth I tried to be like my peers, tried to be "popular". I wasn't popular and felt very uncomfortable trying. Life experience has made me a Sigma as far as it comes to enjoying being alone, avoiding small talk and loudmouths. In group gatherings I always stand aside. Other people are just a nuisance, except the few I am befriended with. I'm happy to be able to work alone and at home! I've wondered, if I'm not right somehow, but this series has helped me to understand myself better. 👍
You’re born sigma…
@@HandleDeezNutzVoluntarily Probably. I've *always* hated when people take up more space than their share in public (i. e. two seats in a crowded subway). Today I confront such people. Have no urge to be popular anymore.
It’s simple …….just be one’s self.
I was so comfortable being alone that in my vey early 20s I was completely fine going to the movie theater all by myself. My brother never understood it. He had to always go everywhere with a small entourage. I never needed them. I didn't shun going with others, but it was never a necessity which is the way he saw it.
Likewise, I'm there and have been for most of my life. I'm thankful for these videos which explained nicely what I've suspected for many years but couldn't describe to anyone else.
Keanu Reeves is a sigma too, come to think of it...Being a sigma myself, I think I just naturally do the things other sigmas do. Being an army veteran reminds me of the values and standards that we have which are reinforced in service. Things like Loyalty, Duty, Respect, Selfless service, Honesty, Integrity, and Personal courage are the principles that the army tries to drive home into every basic trainee. I am aware that it's attractive but unless she's intelligent i'll swerve! It's nice to see a list of unique things we do that make us look more attractive. This was a good video!
Keanu Reeves is a good example of a Sigma. A even better example is the knight Tristan in the movie King Arthur (2004) who hasn't watch it, should. Also a very important fact although they are (very) attractive, they are not perfect which in itself is a plus because it doesn't make the women feel insecure or the men appear to be very demanding, and they love to work with this "imprefection" with potential. It's the lack of being always driven by the newest fashion or newest stuff which makes them "imperfectly" interesting, because they have the confidence to not follow everything new just for the sake of it.
I know society has pictured him being a Sigma but he comes off more as a Delta or Gamma. He’s a bit eccentric & odd in their own way. Keanu fits that category
You're speaking my language. Is there a hashtag team sigma? Great video.
Sigma males are assertive enough in a smart way, without tryharding because it's better like this, smarter, but with strategy to make it good and not chase women, but rather create the perfect balance between actions and being chased by women, planting seeds into their emotions to grow attraction.
Preach fellow Sigma. Godspeed brother
Yet another 100% bang on point, in my experience.
Only thing I don't agree with is #6, only a simp will always stand up when a woman comes along.
Sitting down and making sure her presence is known does the same thing.
#8 March 2023 Paris France on the RER commuter train my head was on a swivel to give my seat to old women & young at least 5 times & in French. Only one older lady took my seat. Once I think my gesture was infectious because a man near us motioned to give his seat up as well, but the lady said "non merci".🤷♂
I guess that's why I have the wife I've got. I wasn't looking for a woman when she found me. But because of who I am she was attracted to me. After we talked for quite a while she was super attached to me and me to her. We've been married for almost 15 years now and have no desire to find a replacement should one of us die. We are totally committed to each other.
She maybe all that your speak of her. But what makes you think that she doesn't have a boy toy(s)on the side, that your not aware of.
@@richardperez5779 because she has a fulltime job that makes her highly visible to the public and comes straight home after her work time. When she's not at work, she's home with me.
That's what I say, let the woman find/pursue, catch up, and keep up with you; you're the prize. SSM warms about women looking for free meals and such, but a woman who gives it her all in chasing you is ready to commit.
I feel that way about someone I like. Although some days it feels like we're a million miles apart. She's a sigma so it might take 15 years for her to finally see it.
@@mikemcgown6362 It is a blessing to have a wife in which you can entrust your heart without reservation and she deserves the same blessing from you. There is nothing better.
I wonder why I almost never hear mention of the fact that Sigmas, with their vast store of knowledge of human nature, can achieve so much by way of their brilliant sense of humor and timing, often downplaying themselves and highlighting others. Women love to laugh.
I feel like the narrator been stalking me. This is a great video.
You didn't even mention honestly one of the main reasons...
Sigma males act like they aren't interested in women or dating because honestly we usually don't. A true Sigma values their Independence over being tied down to a relationship. Women always want what they can't have!
Women flirt with and come on to me all the time and friends tell me this girl or that one has a crush on me, but honestly I prefer bring single and living alone. There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely!! I am 43 have no wife or girlfriend, no kids, own my own house and live alone and I wouldn't change it for anything or anyone!
Actions are powerful, they are real. Even the simplest of gestures such as giving your coat makes a statement in actions. Also goes to show how much we consider others.
That's so funny. I wear either plain black or plain white t-shirts to cut down on the time needed to pick an outfit
Same
Yessirrrrrrr
I have a system in my bedroom for organizing shirts.
I have a stack on top the dresser with regular shirts on top. Beneath that I have undershirts all in one cluster so I can find one in the dark when my wife is sleeping.
A little prep work when folding shirts and I'm good to go 24/7.
@@protorhinocerator142if you fail to plan, you plan to fail. A little prep work never hurt anyone lol
If I spend more than two minutes selecting clothes in my closet, I've wasted time.
My wife made me aware of the whole sigma thing. Pretty spot on.
She's constantly making me aware when she admires, when I do the fixing, solving a "problem" or explaining stuff thingie. I love her to my death
I like the standing up thing 👍🏿
I had a work colleague ask how I always managed to land on my feet! Magic!
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I laughed because I also wear only plain black and blue t-shirts 🤣
I wear colored shirts (black, blue, white, beige, yellow) whatever but they are plain. I hate t-shirts with big messages on them.
black is my favorite color
Im glad u clarified number 10. Caz i was about 2 pounce😊. Good job brother 👍
I love fixing things Did it for a living! Women really do like a Man that can fix things! Sharpening knives by hand too. When people get used to using sharp knives they can't stand a dull one.
I believe any true sigma has experienced at least one stalker in their lifestyle 💯 true sigma men are rare as f#@# and getting into their life isn't easy and once they decide the relationship is finished it's even harder to get back in which leads to infatuation and stalking.
I have had one, at work. She went crazy and was ultimately fired.
@@ratoneJRFirst mistake: NEVER date a coworker.
@@peterbrenner9342 I did not date her, she was a stalker
I don't get the offering the code thing. What is it about?
Filmed in Oxfordshire?
I didn't know what a Sigma male was until I watched some videos on it. Most of my traits are Sigma with some Alpha traits mixed in for good measure. From what I understand, that's not too uncommon. Most of the things mentioned here apply to me but not all. The one that struck me funny was the black t-shirts. If you look in my closet, the only kind of t-shirt you will find is black pocket t-shirts. I'm wearing one now. Some of my other shirts are more colorful. But I wear the black t-shirts and black clothing, in general, a lot.
Me too. All dark colors with only few seldom worn broghter colors, and a tone of black T-shirts.
if only i could wear black Kandura
I also to like the plain dark grey tshirt. Breaking things down down to basics also aids me in my slight mockery of dumb ideas Though I prefer the big cat as the image vs the Lone wolf
Wise thinker always 💯am new but can't miss this content
WOW - Yes... Introspection and knowledge seeking nature, this helps their imagination to soar as well as their vision to create something great!!!
Hey sir you must be making these videos everyday 😊
I just love you and your truth ❤️ 🎉
Self confidence grows with maturity, tempered with modesty. kind of like the James Bond persona...Just be yourself.
I failed everyone on the list. But yet they love me. Guess I'm a lost dog in their eyes
I was explaining something to a new co-worker at work. She was young and quite beautiful and she looked at me happy I took the time to explain something and help her understand. Once I bought flowers for someone I had a crush on for Valentines Day. I wasn't sure what would happen but just to be nice. I stared down the deacon at Church who was staring at a woman I know during Mass. He was making her uncomfortable and I wasn't going to tolerate it. A real man has to take charge and do the little things other men don't even realize is happening.
That woul;d be weird."we need to stand up" "why" "so we can have a conversation"
I find my self doing this sometimes.
It's so funny when I hear this stuff. It's so accurate, its scary....
No trains in Uruguay .. gov too corrupt
I identify with all of it except being introverted and confused with shy. I actually try to be more reserved in discussions, which I am not at all. I do cherish being very expressive at the right times, though.
have you considered that maybe you live two lifestyles? or are a hybrid between alpha and sigma? Because I feel I am a mix of at least three.
@@pablosanhueza5290 I think the types are mostly generalizations and highly imperfect.
@@CarbageMan I agree. Fair assessment on your end!
Wow this describes me to everything single point.
Thank you.
I have lived more or less Sigma for nearly a decade but I am but no means passive and gentle. 3 decade Veteran, work Timber, and n fantastic shape.
In my personal opinion any man that SIMPS to any woman not meeting near 100% of his expectations isn't Sigma, nor is any man seeking/desiring female validation. Most men believing they are Sigma havent had the option of turning down female validation once in their life let alone ever have.
That's when a man can only truly know if he is Sigma
If a man NEEDS a woman and settles for one below his standards, he isn't a Sigma. If a man WANTS a woman only if she meets his high standards, is a Sigma.
a great point is at the end of the show. difference between materialistic ladies or gold diggers and honest women is very much
Now we got every guy who wears a black t-shirt thinking he is sigma
Giving a seat to a woman in train? Someone with ulterior motives (even if it's only in their mind) will do that. With proper manners you'll offer your seat to women, children, the elderly and the sick/disabled, or actually anyone who looks like they need it more.
I will take art on a t-shirt before a plain shirt and that is not to impress anyone. I like style and the feeling of wearing something that defines me for that particular day. It is really about originality rather than plain shirts and not following the crowd for approval, even if it something as dismal as a t-shirt.
Fellow Sigmas. Do you guys find yourself over thinking things. Almost to the point of insanity? Sometimes I over think so much my thoughts contradict each other 4 times over. Lemme know
Yes I do. Overly analytical in almost everything I do.
How about a plain grey t-shirt? That's all I ever wear. I feel good in it.. I guess I'm okay
We’re good in bed, because we’ve done the research……..
Sigma's keep the world going when everything starts falling to the ground
The more I learn about Sigma males,the more I realize how much more like my father I am.
Actually, I am a Sigma and nothing like my father. But, I am like my grandfather, who passed a few years ago.
I am the only one in the family that is a mostly Sigma, with some Alpha mixed in there too.
Nobody else in the household is a Sigma, it seems I'm the unique one, but I am fine with that.
Check out Meyers Briggs and INFJ men.
6:15 I was born in Seattle in 1973, where I grew up. Japanese-American. Male. A total Sigma Male. WHY is it, whether they are a real life couple, or "playing as a couple in a movie, video, or a photo picture in a book or even a modeling magazine," I find it SUCH a huge turn-ON, when an attractive Black woman, is paired with a White or Asian man! I remember a Nordstrom catalog many years ago, had a HOT Black Canadian woman, with a good-looking Japanese-Canadian man, and I found that to be HOT, even if they weren't a real couple! Anne Hooper's sex books had TWO couples in those pictures, with a HOT Black woman, with a handsome White man. I love that SO much!!
Since Women are also
Alpha/Beta/Sigma;
How does this affect different Women ?
Bro this is the question I was about to ask
Alpha women are red flags. They are narcissistic types of women. Beta women are red flags too. Their mindset will try to pull a sigma down.
Long story short: Each woman has her own set of experiences, beliefs, and values, which means that how each woman is impacted by Sigma males behavior will be unique. Some women may find it empowering while others may feel disrespected or uncomfortable; ultimately, understanding the individual response is key in determining how a Sigma male's actions will affect various women.
On the flip side, it's interesting-to say the least-how often a woman will be cavalier or unappreciative when the door is opened/held open or a seat is relinquished for her. They just don't get it.
They don't do nice things because of the goodness of their heart. You do the right thing because it's the right thing to do not to expect a reward.
I always wear black tshirt even when I was a child. I dunno, I just feel comfortable wearing black or dark colors. People always telling me that I look like someone who is mourning everyday. I fix that habit during my early 20s but now I'm on my 30s I stop caring about what other people thinks about me.
It's great that you've stopped caring what other people think and instead focus on feeling good with what makes you comfortable.
I get a lot of free t-shirts at conventions. Whichever one is clean is good enough.
I do have some plain black ones though.
Going to give you guys more knowledge instead of dinner dates , going out for ice cream accomplish the same goal as dinner date. more relaxing and fun ice breaking and short . I hate ice cream and love my teeth but it’s a day date that doesn’t put you in a friend zone. Plus it’s cheaperand less time consuming. Get same results without calling it a date. Results I mean by getting to know someone or getting comfortable, not sexually but but I guess it could . Entire point is fun and breaks ice of proper or formal
Couple being this with a lack of seeing attraction to you, and you get me, 39, alone, childless, never married.
Women, speak up I guess. I'm literally oblivious. Once I'm clued in I'm Mr perfect, but it's on YOU to get there.
That is my favorite clothes a plan black t-shirt 😆
That sounds exactly like me.
Sigma male here. In a plain black Tshirt. Lol
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Does the shirt have to be 'black' …? Why? Can I just wear plain 'any color'? Maybe a V-neck or with a pocket?
universe.. please send me one
You may need to go out and find one. Just a hunch - take up a hobby where you don't know the subject but there are guys around who do. See if you can spot the sigma.
For instance if you are good at cooking and he's good at electrical work. Let him know that you would appreciate him taking a look at your home wiring and you'd be willing to cook him a meal. Then if he's bad at cooking he might see the symbiotic logic for the two of you getting together. That way you compliment each other. Sigmas understand that.
Just one example out of a million. See if you can line something up. And good luck.
The answer to the question in the opening screen is "Yes". "Need Help"? "Why yes, yes I do".
I'm sorry but, #3's is a no...... I respect personal space and need permission.
#7.... 😂Wtf, im dead🤣
It's just a courtesy bro. You don't want to do that to every girl.
Agreed. Especially in this age of MeToo there's never a good time to start grabbing her back to sit down.
It seems like this is something that should have been established earlier on in the dating process. It's creepy when a guy is too handsy but it's also creepy when a guy doesn't touch a woman enough. Until some valid reliable metrics are provided for the right amount of touching, the guy is destined to be perceived as a creep.
Only touching a girl not enough won't land you before a judge.
@@protorhinocerator142 For #3 general speaking an Alpha makes the gesture for reassurance/dominance, for Betas its insecurity/desperation like the nice guy, and for narcissist it's a gesture ownership and submission.... in my opinion.
Me personally I don't like showing affection in public, don't like holding hands while walking.... it throws off my gait and would slow down my reaction in a defensive scenario.... that's if you carry and restricts situational awareness. I save the hand holding and affection for the bedroom.
@@driftset562 Thank you very much for pointing out the need to be ready at any time for an attack. You don't always have 20 seconds to convince the girl that right now might not be the best time to restrict my movement.
Preparing for a sudden attack can't be a decision by committee.
My whole approach to life was influenced by the book Mort D'Arthur be a noble and honourable person be kind do not tolerate in justice protect women and the weak .
And do what's required to take down the bad guys.
first time i saw a video on sigma...i was like....how could this person know me so well?
I identify as a Sigma male.
I can't wear a plain black T-shirt. I have 3 cats. 😸
1:08 dammmn, she’s 110% stimulated for YOU dude, wife quality right there.
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They are very empathetic…why we can read people so well…we can sense the energy of a person……
So who proposed first?
3:12 Dude must be nervous
I watch these sigma videos when I'm in need of a good laugh. Sigma aren't the ONLY ones that do these things ♿
I had to stop at no 8. This is because of my age and iQ (which is biology not something I did, just to be clear ). This is the 2nd so called sigma sign that I can say is just being a gentleman. I may not fit alpha or beta, but I’d never say sigma , I say it’s far more complex. Yes I prefer solo , don’t follow or want people , had one close friend (he died). BUT I have a wife of 34 years (this just stopped me). She said her friends hit on me because I was nice. I was just being a gentleman (it was late 80s early 90s).
The stare in the eyes thing is absolutely wrong. As a SIGMA I prefer not to look at a persons eyes as I want to intensely hear what they’re saying.not be distracted by non body gestures.
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Ive slept with quite a few women and not once had to make much effort. There are perks to being a sigma.
It’s called being a gentleman and a human being!!!!
Amen and Amen
Alpha men are often all talk and little substance. Sigmas are all substance and little talk. I spent twenty-five years explaining highly technical, cutting edge technology to people from all levels of society. My whole life I've been the one people come to for answers. One friend said I have an answer for everything. I disagreed. So she asked, "what killed the dinosaurs", (this was thirty- years ago when the cause was newly made public), I had to concede she was right. :)
I love this... A sigma man would stand up to give a woman his seat on a train instead of letting her stand up for the whole ride, and expects nothing in return!
Years ago, that was called gentlemanly and expected. Today, it is unusual.
Cool. Someone made a documentary about me. Hail to all Sigmas
I've worn all black since 2011
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2 of my 3 sons are Sigmas. Thank you, Lord!
Not black, everything i have is shades of grey... not 50, just like 4. Even my Timberlands are grey.
Tech Sigmas potential one man army
Well, many of the subtleties of the described sigma male type are in themselves admirable. Upon hearing the litany of supposedly sigma male qualities, I can't get rid of the nagging suspicion that this is a very synthetic category in which to hopefully validate various male tendencies such as silence or stoicism or independence as a way to establish a platform of male qualities that exist separate and apart from females or female. Opinion.
In any case, let's hope that there is a growing population of sigma males, because the alpha have become intolerable and embarrassing in the extreme.
In my parents day, they had another name for this. It was called being a gentleman.
Today's princesses' ay ? , yeah it's gotten much harder to clear that dirt from my eyes, cuz it's everywhere, but the mountains.
I'm astounded how accurately this describes me... according to this, I'm a 100% sigma male.
There is no expectation date on chivelry! As respect for one self,means you respect others.