I think this only works if you already have a history of being high value and feminine. He will listen but if you were low value talking is the last thing to do. Lean back, lean way back if you have been low value girls. Don't say anything until he addresses his own behavior. He knows. He knows. If he doesn't, notice his efforts to be on your good side... pull back till he puts in effort. Just let him be. Be feminine, be radiant. Go into your body. Feel the love for him. Radiate in your heart. If your connection is still there, he will feel it and he will come. Enjoy your life.
Oh I disagree. Your value starts now. Be sure to note it’s not just “talking” this is an honest open hearted conversation. Give your man the space to open up.
@@AdrienneEverheart I agree that you need to have the open hearted conversation and give your boundaries. But that should come from a place of love, self-worth, and confidence in yourself and detachment from any outcome. Many of the girls here, including myself were likely doing the opposite, nagging, crying, investing too much, talking too much, trying to fix and figure things out. Any attempt at conversation if he has this image of you will only be met with resistance. You need inner work. Forget trying to find out what is happening. The universe will take care of it. If he is stepping out you will eventually find out. You don't need to ask. Loving yourself and focusing on your own emotional stability and your own dreams and leaving him to it will show him you are taking those first steps. Let him come to you, he will eventually address it like you said he won't tell you till HE is ready.
@@AdrienneEverheart Though don't get me wrong your scripts work magically when you are coming from a place of self worth and self love🥰 You have helped me tremendously ♥️ But I do think many of us girls are lacking in that department and should be working on inner healing before we can address those issues with the man. Ofcourse our value is already high, but our actions usually were not.
@@Xxryztal Exactly! If you have a history of crying, questioning, arguing, nagging, etc silence is key. Not passive aggressive silence but meditative silence. Give yourself the love you are missing. He will come back to you if he loves you. He needs time. I learned to avoid emotional talk if he is not in that mindset. He will come back around and you can argue than. But this time you will BOTH be present.
I actually listen to you for hours when I'm feeling anxious , sometimes i forget to pay attention to what you're saying I just enjoy this soothing quality in your voice , you're really helping me and I couldn't thank you enough ❤
i dont mean to be so offtopic but does anybody know of a trick to get back into an instagram account? I stupidly lost the account password. I would appreciate any help you can offer me
Wow. I believed that once. But when I felt and found true that he was distant and seeing another and tried to come back and see me too. It made that statement not so true. It got really. He really disreapected me and what we had and failed me. Update: Two years he is still seeing her. Around Christmas We've been talking, getting things out, laughing and enjoying the time. And NOW...with all what's going on. What hurts the most is we've been REALLY communicating. I'VE heard him. And I believe he's heard me. BUT I know I HAVE to walk away. And he feels that. He's doing the, "Telling me do what's best for me, that he wants me to be happy" but yet, doesn't want me to go. These Men I tell you. But he won't ask me to stay. Becauze of what he's doing. Awwww... how honorable. So he says he subtly. Pulls me in. Manipulate here and there. I'm not getting anything but frustration inside. Turmoil. Not sleeping. It feels like a married Man. My heart has been through enough these past two years. It needs Peace and Love. And to start thinking and wondering if we'll ever be while he's with another. Is beneath me. I told him he's not worth it.
I have had history of confronting, nagging, asking when I observe something he does which I find inconsistent. I've always felt he deflected and it frustrated me. We broke up. During the time we were broken up, I went into meditative silence. Just taking care of myself and giving love and kindness to myself which I was seeking from him. And I let go of him. The night I let go, I didn't know it but he txted me (I uninstalled the app lol) but he has my number. He probably thought I was ignoring him 😅 but now we are talking again, and when I said sure meeting up and maybe we can have coffee sounds good, we are friends now. He seem upset. But this time around I'm not chasing, I take my time to reply to him so that my replies are coming from my heart instead of my brain. I think he can sense the change in my energy. I've always been more masculine because of what I've gone through in life but now I'm wise enough to know that it is tiring because i'm fighting my feminine energy. I'm embracing it.
@Tiffany M @Tiffany M I slipped sometimes and talked to him with the analytical mindset lol but I have actually stopped pursuing him ie. Not reach out to him after he hasn't replied to my msg. We are not back together yet but that's okay. I believe we will eventually. Generally though, I find it is more peaceful to sit back and be in my feminine energy when not just dealing with him but with others. There's no sense inside me which feels desperate and needy for him. I am good by ownself and when I am in tune with my feelings and calm about expressing it, he usually reciprocate receptively.
Let him go his own way. He likes someone else, or he’s bored and you’re not compatible. Just let him go.. ignore his calls, don’t call him and don’t smother him. Really don’t change and act his way or the way he wants you to be. It may work for a while but your differences will crop up again. If he’s not calling or barely talking just go with it and again let it go. Find something that interests you. Learn a foreign language, do yoga, Go to the gym.. lose weight, get in shape and you’ll find another man. One of my nieces did that and she’s happily with someone else now. Sometimes it is what it is. He has a new girlfriend and he’s moved on.
Lee Kaybee “just key him go” is so easily said and one learns nothing about problem solving in a relationship. Also people and hearts are not disposable and abandoned in lieu of what may be temporary distance. Staying busy is a great ideas yet many women do not want to leave their husbands or relationship so easily. Statistically marriage therapists note there are conversations that need to happen that don’t and couples head for divorce/separation. 👉🏼👉🏼I’m encouraging a heart centered conversation that builds intimacy and connection. More work that “next” and you’re learning skills you’ll need in all parts of life. ❤️
@@AdrienneEverheart I wasn’t thinking that maybe it’s a marriage situation, where your husband has got something on his mind and it’s an “off” day.. I was thinking that it’s a relationship or a dating thing where you never hear from him anymore and he’s breadcrumbing you. He really is on his way out anyway, and he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings, so he’s letting you down easy. That’s not disposing of someone. That’s being smart and getting out and making it easier on both of you. That’s where I’m coming from on this.
@@AdrienneEverheart I feel awful because I "let it go"I would have rather had a conversation then feeling sick every time I think of him and wondering what the hell happened ?And yes I think he moved on it makes me feel so taken for granted.
I have a problem with being patient to give him space and using this time to focus on myself. I start to worry and feel insecure when he and I don't talk which only sabotages the relationship more... but I'm getting better in it thanks to you. I don't want to be so dependent on him. I'm doing my best to become stronger. Thanks for your help!!!
You are an absolute LEGEND. I cannot even express to you how life changing. I share your videos with my friends all the time! Thank you thank you thank you
I have a SP that I'm in no contact with. Realistically that relationship is over. I had a dream I met a new man I hugged.I am taking it as a good sign. I do miss the other man, that I choose to be in no contact with, but I am proud I kept my dignity.
I wish I would have watched this sooner. I pulled the plug on a guy I was dating because he was messaging less and wouldn't call when he said. I can't deal with inconsistency - it makes me overthink and become nervous so I told him to basically kick rocks. I'm not there to be on the sidelines waiting for him to put in effort. So the only thing I could do was cut off access to my time and energy even though I REALLY liked him. He wasn't even the most handsome or fit guy but sometimes when guys like that know an attractive woman is interested in them it goes to their heads and they think they can drop the ball. Maybe I overreacted but I'm not comfortable with that behavior.
Emily Landry yes even the most nebbish of guys can turn us feeling needy when they pull back. Are we responding to the pulling back or do we really miss the guy? Learn more here bit.ly/500waysbook
I am so anxious right now. Every day this week my crush has been touching me or hugging me...spending some time talking...then today, nothing. Super rushed, no hugs, no touch, nothing. Just gone. So of course I suddenly feel rejected o and ignored....makes me want to text him and ask him what's going on....but thanks to you, I know better. I know I have to drop down into my body and really connect with what I'm feeling. I have to just relax. Thank you for helping me not be such a desperate energy. I really need this!
I received so much from this video...thank you Adrienne, my feminine heart listens and leaps and smiles at this wisdom. I am slowing down and my feelings are registering in my calmer mind more and more. Feels so good!
I used to reply like that to my guy asking "how's your day, what you;re doing" I always share sth like "having a coffee with a cinamon and Luna (cat) is purring next to me. How are you?" and he's always like "tired, problems and problems" etc., finally I felt like I am entertaining him, while he is using me like an audience for day trouble news. It's no fun to share my most pleasant things with someone sharing his complaints. Does it make any sense?
tbh yeah. i like guys that handle their problems on their own. everytime i ask a guy how he’s doing, and he says something negative every time, i cannot connect with him in that way.
I got a lot from this video content! Thank you so much for making it. I really like when you provide specific examples it helps me and probably others relate to our real lives. I’ve been watching your videos the past couple of weeks and I’ve applied some of the changes in my long-term monogamous relationship. What a difference! His behavior is like when we first got together, wanting to spend more time with me; saying sweet things, it’s been so great.
Dear Adrienne, Thank you so much for your helpful advice. Since I started watching your videos, I've experienced feeling really feminine and desired by men like never before. Although I also feel there is so much to learn for me and get better at feminine energy, I can already see the difference. I'm so grateful that you make these videos and help women! I'd like to ask a question. What would you recommend to do while giving the man some space? I sometimes experience too much worrying and overthinking when he doesn't reach out in the time limits comfortable for me... I understand that men need this time, but what to do to distract yourself from thoughts and unnecessary suppositions? Thank you for your attention!
But after he started wearing the mask to sleep everything changed, today we live apart but still eke sometimes seeks me out without absolutely no sex anymore
My boyfriend told me last night that I'm being too clingy and taking up too much of his time after I talked to him about him pulling away. It hurt me really bad. 😭😭😭
Laura Logue Bayird I’m so sorry honey yet listen to him. Where is your life empty? Is any of his words true? You need not “talk to him” about pulling away, you silently begin living your own life and allow him to naturally miss you. Learn more here: bit.ly/500waysbook
Adrian thank you ! Going to purchase your book just watching your videos and following your advise has helped me immensely in just these few weeks you have no idea
You are so wonderful, Adrienne! Thank you for your wit and wisdom and your beautiful commitment to being authentic, never manipulative. Your videos are so enlightening and so humble and so truthful. Blessings on you path! Helen
@adrienneevedheart, another video I saw said to say this, “I’m feeling some confusion from you which is totally fine, so I am going to take some space because I don’t want to get closer to someone who doesn’t know what they want. “ but clearly this is masculine energy and would make him want to say ok well bye then, right?!
I would ask if there's anything I should know... you want to open your heart chakra for communicating openly and honestly. The key is showing interest, listening and you may find this alone ties up a mans heart.
When I asked if there was someone else he said no. They're not going.to admit that. I asked If he was single he said yes..according to him the answer was no. But he was ghosting and so on and returning which led me to leave. I deserve better. Your advice is gold for sure. Also he was delaying committment. When the time is right or if I am still around despite him being distant. 🤨🤔
I'm enjoying learning to dive into my feminine. I feel like I was forced into the masculine alot these last several years. It didn't feel natural in my relationship, but you don't realize it until you start feeling again. I dress feminine, I tap into my feelings while I'm experiencing life.
Adrienne, I’ve been very encouraged and grateful for this channel. Thank you for sharing these amazing tips and scripts. I’m very conflicted. I’m in business with my significant man. We are around each other everyday, 95% of all our time. I am not sure what script to use to to let him know that I’m feeling like we are friends and roommates, not in love. I’m worn out emotionally to be about him and feeling statements, when he is very self-centered and thinks we are okay he never wants to spend even 5 minutes for me to express how I’m feeling and ask him what does he think? Or what would he suggest to move forward? All he does when we’ve had these conversations is make it about the list of things I need to do to get what I feel I need. I won’t lie it’s happened to often that now I just don’t bring how I feel into it, he makes it about himself. What can I do now? It’s hard because we work together I don’t know how to get space when honestly there’s not space to be made during this season of things. Can you help me?
I am so sorry that you are going through a frustrating situation. I think that the ABC’s will really help you out in your situation! Much love to you! bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
Hi Adrienne. You look lovely, adoring the curls :). Very soft and feminine look ;). I commented on one of your videos of late. About my spouse who had a difficult time compromising. I've tried out your advice about the feeling statement, sans blame ;) and it's been working wonders. We had the day off today and have been cleaning and redecorating because I was stressed with the state of our household and he is preparing for a renovation with minimum taring down and maximum rebuilding because I'm a mom of a 20 month old and I like my "nest" to be clean and cosy whereas until very recently he was a "just tare it all down" kind of guy. Thank you so much, I'm feeling much more at ease and safe in my home and relationship. Btw, English is not my native tongue so be sure to ask if there are parts of the comment that are unclear :) ;). Have nice day!
annelievallaeys you’re doing great. You just let him know, “I feel so impressed by your motivation yet I feel anxious with baby arriving soon. What can we do?”
I've been married for 26 years and the last few months my life has been turned upside down. He had been going to a local diner and He said Talking about a bunch of nothing with a waitress. But thanks to you I have my husband back I still fall back down it hard to break bad habits but the main thing is I'm trying and not just when things dont go my way. I would Love for Me and Him to go to a marriage retreat or something what do you think and where. Thank You So Much And I send my Love for all your Help.
I’m happy you’re getting relief. Men need to feel like men. Keep that in mind. Let him be the man as much as you can. Let him know how wonderful YOU feel when he’s good to you. Build upon that. I’m not into retreats instead go to a concert with him, men bond to us with concerts and movies. Xoxo!🥰
Thank you. I'm researching all your info as quickly as possible and hope to be able to in touch with you for a one on one about a married man situation. Your words and expressions have touched my heart during my darkest hours lately.
Linda R. I so understand. I’ve certainly been there. You can turn this all around and feel better than imagined. Sending you love and warm healing vibes 🥰
We live together. I feel he's been pulling away for months because I threatened to leave him (because I felt hurt by his behaviour). He says he doesn't want to invest because he's lost his trust. So I just go upstairs and do my thing. Maybe he thinks I am playing a game but I don't see him coming closer to me and we haven't had a heart to heart talk for months. My problem is that I cannot be warm and available to him (yes I ruminate).
Great video! I've been bingewatching some videos I missed so you will see more comments from me! Is leaning back similar to no-contact? Or is leaning back more about stepping away and leaving the door open to stay warm? When a guy finally reaches back out, should we respond with our feelings right away or continue to lean back?
Adrienne help me. I've known each other for nine months with this man. he said he really liked me but he didn't know what he should do, he still felt scared because of the failure of his relationship with his ex-girlfriend two years ago. We are also different countries, and different beliefs. he was worried that he could not fight for me. he had cried and asked me to find a man who was better than him. but I kept trying to convince him, until a few days ago he said this was difficult. and now he has no news, I tried to contact him also not responded. What should I do?
And this situation never ends because he still seeks me and I have no desire to have men around me, I can not stand it anymore. I still dream of a marriage
Thank you Adrienne, you give me much hope. I started in on him about how I want faithfulness. I think he cheated. He kept naming things he.s busy with. He wouldn.t deny it, so I kept it up. He said ok, we,ll be friends. Now what?
Omg! Well-said! My bf and I broke up 3 weeks ago, and i tried to contact him few times. He said I triggered him many times in short time we know each other, in which I never meant to do so. My friend who just started to be a coach told me to say good bye that turned out to be a huge mistake. I regret that. He blocked me on whatsapp. Now I just sent him many messages in other apps, which he ignores and doesn't read them yet. I can't just let him go and let him be with his misunderstanding. I need your help and really would like to work with you. Cherisse
Hugs to you!!! Start by leaning back and pulling your energy off of him. Don’t reach out to him & give him space. The ABC program would be a great start for you. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
After years and years of off and on, he tells me I am just a friend...I am heart broken... we have been together daily for the last 6 months... I think he either thinks he can find someone better or is still in love with his ex wife.
The problem is you let him keep you for years without 💍. I am so so sorry he’s not moving forward. Consider joining my coaching group. I answer post and teach classes. Join my private ⭐️ Coaching Community⭐️ iHeartLoveAcademy 👉🏼diamondgirl.me/group
I did this. I spoke about a certain event I was at and how nice it was. He STILL didn't reply. Tried this many times. That confirms he wasn't the one for me. I'd open up to him and say what would hurt and he would tell me "I could never care." Wow. Thanks. 🙄 Another time he told me to deal with his attitude. Uh, no! Wasn't worth it. Whenever I'd try to connect he created distance. He would say I was cussing him out when I was expressing myself without foul language. He didnt want to deal with it and I didnt want to stay. It was better being single than with him.
Hi Adrienne, I was seeing this guy for 9 months and it started off with dates here and there, and not texting everyday. Initially that was fine by me, as I was seeing other guys at that time who I was quite interested in as well. Fast forward Oct-Nov, he started acting differently. He started texting me EVERY SINGLE day, he wanted to see me more often and he started doing sweet nothings for me and I was super happy. I drifted away from the other guys, as this guy and I started spending more and more time together. He would make me breakfast in the mornings I slept over (I'm vegan, so he never had the ingredients to make me vegan pancakes when he'd ask me what I wanted for breakfast), he GOT me a set of NEW pyjamas I can sleep in so I didn't have to carry too much stuff to work, he would drop me off work even though it was inconvenient for him, pick me up by car even if it was 2 hours away from him... So much more I can explain here, but these are just a few of the sweet things he'd do for me. He'd also ask a lot about me and my life, and he shared so much more about him in Oct/Nov compared to the previous months we've known each other for. My mistake was, I think I pushed him away. One day, I asked if he was seeing other women and he said yes. I got so upset I didn't want to talk to him, I don't know why I got so hurt and reacted the way I did when I was seeing other guys not too long ago - anyways, it is done. I was so upset I had to leave, I didn't want him to see me cry. He told me to text him and he wanted to talk about this. I couldn't bear myself to text him until a week later, decided it would be something fun so I sent a video of my office dog and me scratching his belly. He then replied with "How come you never give my tummy scratches? What a lucky dog.. I'd like some tummy scratches from you." I then asked him if he wanted to meet up soon cause I'll be away for Christmas, and he told me to cancel my holiday and spend it with him instead. He's also not usually this sweet/cheeky but I was pretty cold with my reply. I told him my holiday is much more important than him and I wouldn't cancel it for anything, but if he wanted to see me again, he'd need to take me out on a real date that's not always his place (stupid me realising he HAS taken me out on real dates...) After that text I haven't heard from him since (been almost 2 weeks now?). I don't know what to do, I've never been in a serious relationship before, bu I adore him so much. Did I mess things up? I'm 24 and he's 26 btw.
The problem in my case were both LDR. Only 4 days ago I called him and told him that I give him space and privacy because I noticed that he didn't txt back to me even I txt him once a day and though he saw never get reply from him. How to handle this to check him out? Now, since I gave him space and privacy i didn't send message to him for 5 days already.
Hugs to you, honey. 💕 LDR are very difficult to maintain. You really need the proximity to make a relationship work. It’s best to lean back and let the man initiate. I would start quantum dating some other men. Learn more here. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
same situation right now... we are in LDR and he is always busy.... I went off for some hours and he got mad at Mr... then told me to take my time... really
@@DianaMutheu yah not easy... This passed few days too, i saw him online but I tried not to put my attention to him, I made my self busy as I took some online lesson and planning to go gym or make myself fit. I invested too much effort and time to him already and he even don't care my personal matter bcoz i put him on pedestal. So I lean back a bit. I tried as much as what the advised said but not making any agenda to get his attention. If he treasured our time together then he will initiate for this relationship. I want him to be a leader in this relationship. As of now given him space and privacy is better for both of us.
@@tintinpenaredondo6531 I also sent him a text and I saw clearly that he was online and he read the message and didn't reply them... I called my bestfriend and she told me the same thing that I should give him space and I try not to think about it so much I had even pinned him in whatsApp, she told me to unpin so that I won't see his name in my phone when I open it.... I don't want to loose because I love him so much... but I'll give him space today is the 2nd day he hasn't talked to me.... how many days should I wait?
@@DianaMutheu I also don't know until when, but Adrienne had a lot of videos about this issue, the different is we are in LDR situation. My situation is different from you I think. I have a strong relationship to my bf and about 5 years and both We met our family and clans already. We already prepared everything for the future. But only this few month we had urgued but cleared to me that he is contented to our relatiinship..He just need peace of mind he said, so I gave him space and privacy. No message or call for time being. For me I can give him a month.
What about when you live with him??? I feel like I do all the conversations and he gets mad if I want to talk about us and just thinks I'm not happy ...I just sense a change and hate asking a million questions
My man has neglected me for a month and we decide to have a break time of our relationship. But it keeps confusing with what he is doing. He sometimes text me but not asking about my day but like how’s it going? Not how’s my day. Then sometimes he is gone no texting. and then after no communication after couple of days, I wrote a letter telling how great we were. Then he left me good night and kiss for couple of days but then he became cold again. It’s very frustrating. What should I do?
It sounds like he’s checking out of the relationship but still wants to keep one foot in the door. That way you won’t be too eager to move on. It sounds like lowkey breadcrumbing. He’s giving you something but not what you want. Perhaps it’s time to make peace with it the relationship ending and explore your options. Not from a place of anger though because that will only attract more frustration.
I just found this.. but how do I do this over quarantine? I've havent seen my man in 4 months and we are hopefully going to see each other on wednesday..
Hugs to you, honey! 💕 these times that we are going through are definitely making things so much more difficult now. It’s still very important to lean back and stay warm even if you are feeling lonely and frustrated. Learning to be in your feminine energy will help you stay grounded and feel calmer. bit.ly/femmtools
My man is stuck in his "own way." Kinda how old people get "stuck in their ways..." He doesn't want me to dress how I please because he calls it "having respect for myself." I'm the type of woman who wants to be told shes beautiful but very rarely does he do this anymore. He just says " i think it all the time, I just never say it."... what's going on....
I have been binge watching you the last week. I have been texting and talking to a guy for over a month. It was great conversation and connection Fun bantering and shared sense of humor We finally met up Sunday and I completely messed everything up. I unloaded how I had 3 people show back up in my life and which brought up bad memories I let it consume my thoughts. Which of course o blurted out and messed up everything up. Do I reach out or let it go?
I told him I was going to wait for him to make an initiative, when he felt he was open to spend a little time. I have given him space for two weeks as of now (wanting to wait three weeks) but even after three weeks, should I contact him before he contacts me?
Thanks for this. I have a question, you say start all about how you feel about you and your life outside him. I guess it has to be a positive feeling, to sound hubbely bubbely which is attractive. What if you feel down, not only about him loosing interest but also generally in life? The pandemic has a toll on my life and how I feel after being isolated for over 9 months (home working) social activities back to zero and winter being dark and cold. It becomes really hard to be light hearted, tbh I feel like slipping into depressive state, the guy was kind of my source of good feelings 😢 and nothing happens in my life besides walks, working and taking long baths that I don’t even enjoy anymore
Adrienne, I’ve met a guy. He likes watching me during my Aqua aerobics class. He keeps lying about his age. He keeps telling me he’s four years old when he’s really three....
This phase makes a woman sounds like she’s coming from a place of insecurity. Asking a man if he’s met someone else is insecure in my eyes. And if you feel is has .. then it’s time to move on. As soon as a man looses interest in me, I loose interest in them. The right person won’t loose interest in you, won’t pull back.
Do you see what you are saying here? If you FEEL he has met someone you move one else versus getting truth and exercising the art of asking. You ASK. You don't go silent. Women have been silent for far too long. This is the difference between perception and truth. Know the truth. Perception is a felt thing and not always true. Exerciser your right to ASK> Even if you are coming from a place of insecurity, that will wake a man up to your lovely heart better than tit for tat.
Dear, last time i was ill and i informed him, but i didn t express that i feel lonely i can t sleep...i need him, i just said i m ill waiting for him to take the initiative ! But he just said massage ur arm sleep well. It is so cold. Now we don t talk since. Know that we are not in a relatonship just dating virtually waiting to meet again. What can i do ?any tips? He goes and comes back but i think he is hesitating.
"Dating virtually"...so you mean a long distance relationship? In either case, if you're not meeting face to face, I cannot give you advice. I don't endorse that sort of relationship. It's not real and it goes nowhere. XOXO
I have chatted off and on with someone for about 6 mos.. We have met up once and he has tried to take advantage of small opportunities to get together but has not taken me to dinner. I have wanted to say something but do not know what.
Hugs to you, honey! 💕 If a man wants to be with you, they will step you and pursue you. My ebook “500 Ways” has scripts that will help you in this situation and more. bit.ly/500waysbook
Okay, I have mentioned this on another video. I am confused. This guy and I have been messaging for about 6 mos. One date, but other opportunities with wrong timing for me which was random. He is like I am, I believe. I speak to more than one person. This guy is short-sentenced. I feel like a text buddy and we do not go out. So, I really liked him but he is drawing back and I feel I just don't know how to get a guy,
Hi can you please tell me how to answer the #1 question that comes up on every first date: "So what are you looking for?" I don't want to sound needy/desperate..
L MG well, what do you feel? In my book “500 Ways” I talk about answering right from your heart. I would tell a man that I am looking for a regular dating relationship that leads to something more. And that you’re enjoying dating for now. bit.ly/500waysbook
What if I'm the one who asked to break up, and now I really feel like things could have been handled better? I wish I saw your videos before it all ended. He said he needed space, and felt less love for me and so we initially decided to just be friends, he didn't want to officially split. Few days later he said he felt confused and weird and has a crush on a mutual friend that he's been getting close with (really close friends) for a while now. It hurt me too much, and so I had to cut ties and no contact. It's to protect myself. One of the reason why we decided to be friends before the official split is because we thought that our friendship isn't strong enough to sustain the relationship. It's almost a month now and I can't help but feel like it could have been handled better.
Yes, I teach you how to do this and more in the ABCs to Get Him Back... the key is not to manipulate but accept his no and continue to be or become authentic and feminine. xoxo! bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy wow cool,yes,I can see that you get on well. He is also from New York (originally from Mexico) and you New Yorks are not from this world, so strong.
I think this only works if you already have a history of being high value and feminine. He will listen but if you were low value talking is the last thing to do. Lean back, lean way back if you have been low value girls. Don't say anything until he addresses his own behavior. He knows. He knows. If he doesn't, notice his efforts to be on your good side... pull back till he puts in effort. Just let him be. Be feminine, be radiant. Go into your body. Feel the love for him. Radiate in your heart. If your connection is still there, he will feel it and he will come. Enjoy your life.
Mariposa Lily Thanks, makes sense.
Oh I disagree. Your value starts now. Be sure to note it’s not just “talking” this is an honest open hearted conversation. Give your man the space to open up.
@@AdrienneEverheart I agree that you need to have the open hearted conversation and give your boundaries. But that should come from a place of love, self-worth, and confidence in yourself and detachment from any outcome. Many of the girls here, including myself were likely doing the opposite, nagging, crying, investing too much, talking too much, trying to fix and figure things out. Any attempt at conversation if he has this image of you will only be met with resistance. You need inner work. Forget trying to find out what is happening. The universe will take care of it. If he is stepping out you will eventually find out. You don't need to ask. Loving yourself and focusing on your own emotional stability and your own dreams and leaving him to it will show him you are taking those first steps. Let him come to you, he will eventually address it like you said he won't tell you till HE is ready.
@@AdrienneEverheart Though don't get me wrong your scripts work magically when you are coming from a place of self worth and self love🥰 You have helped me tremendously ♥️ But I do think many of us girls are lacking in that department and should be working on inner healing before we can address those issues with the man. Ofcourse our value is already high, but our actions usually were not.
@@Xxryztal Exactly! If you have a history of crying, questioning, arguing, nagging, etc silence is key. Not passive aggressive silence but meditative silence. Give yourself the love you are missing. He will come back to you if he loves you. He needs time. I learned to avoid emotional talk if he is not in that mindset. He will come back around and you can argue than. But this time you will BOTH be present.
I actually listen to you for hours when I'm feeling anxious , sometimes i forget to pay attention to what you're saying I just enjoy this soothing quality in your voice , you're really helping me and I couldn't thank you enough ❤
I am so happy to be able to help you! Hugs to you! 💕
@@AdrienneEverheart me too. I LOVE your voice. You have a gift in so many ways.
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I stupidly lost the account password. I would appreciate any help you can offer me
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“One of you can change the two of you”
Wow. I believed that once. But when I felt and found true that he was distant and seeing another and tried to come back and see me too. It made that statement not so true. It got really. He really disreapected me and what we had and failed me.
Update: Two years he is still seeing her. Around Christmas We've been talking, getting things out, laughing and enjoying the time. And NOW...with all what's going on. What hurts the most is we've been REALLY communicating. I'VE heard him. And I believe he's heard me. BUT I know I HAVE to walk away. And he feels that. He's doing the, "Telling me do what's best for me, that he wants me to be happy" but yet, doesn't want me to go. These Men I tell you. But he won't ask me to stay. Becauze of what he's doing.
Awwww... how honorable. So he says he subtly. Pulls me in. Manipulate here and there. I'm not getting anything but frustration inside. Turmoil. Not sleeping. It feels like a married Man.
My heart has been through enough these past two years. It needs Peace and Love. And to start thinking and wondering if we'll ever be while he's with another. Is beneath me. I told him he's not worth it.
I have had history of confronting, nagging, asking when I observe something he does which I find inconsistent. I've always felt he deflected and it frustrated me. We broke up. During the time we were broken up, I went into meditative silence. Just taking care of myself and giving love and kindness to myself which I was seeking from him. And I let go of him. The night I let go, I didn't know it but he txted me (I uninstalled the app lol) but he has my number. He probably thought I was ignoring him 😅 but now we are talking again, and when I said sure meeting up and maybe we can have coffee sounds good, we are friends now. He seem upset. But this time around I'm not chasing, I take my time to reply to him so that my replies are coming from my heart instead of my brain. I think he can sense the change in my energy. I've always been more masculine because of what I've gone through in life but now I'm wise enough to know that it is tiring because i'm fighting my feminine energy. I'm embracing it.
Hugs to you! 💕 It sounds like you are on the right path. Are you working through the ABC’s?bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
@Tiffany M @Tiffany M I slipped sometimes and talked to him with the analytical mindset lol but I have actually stopped pursuing him ie. Not reach out to him after he hasn't replied to my msg. We are not back together yet but that's okay. I believe we will eventually. Generally though, I find it is more peaceful to sit back and be in my feminine energy when not just dealing with him but with others. There's no sense inside me which feels desperate and needy for him. I am good by ownself and when I am in tune with my feelings and calm about expressing it, he usually reciprocate receptively.
Let him go his own way. He likes someone else, or he’s bored and you’re not compatible. Just let him go.. ignore his calls, don’t call him and don’t smother him. Really don’t change and act his way or the way he wants you to be. It may work for a while but your differences will crop up again. If he’s not calling or barely talking just go with it and again let it go. Find something that interests you. Learn a foreign language, do yoga, Go to the gym.. lose weight, get in shape and you’ll find another man. One of my nieces did that and she’s happily with someone else now. Sometimes it is what it is. He has a new girlfriend and he’s moved on.
Lee Kaybee “just key him go” is so easily said and one learns nothing about problem solving in a relationship. Also people and hearts are not disposable and abandoned in lieu of what may be temporary distance. Staying busy is a great ideas yet many women do not want to leave their husbands or relationship so easily. Statistically marriage therapists note there are conversations that need to happen that don’t and couples head for divorce/separation. 👉🏼👉🏼I’m encouraging a heart centered conversation that builds intimacy and connection. More work that “next” and you’re learning skills you’ll need in all parts of life. ❤️
@@AdrienneEverheart I wasn’t thinking that maybe it’s a marriage situation, where your husband has got something on his mind and it’s an “off” day.. I was thinking that it’s a relationship or a dating thing where you never hear from him anymore and he’s breadcrumbing you. He really is on his way out anyway, and he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings, so he’s letting you down easy. That’s not disposing of someone. That’s being smart and getting out and making it easier on both of you. That’s where I’m coming from on this.
Lee Kaybee yes these are relationship talks but even several dates it’s ok to practice communicating these tools 💋
@@AdrienneEverheart thank you... everyone wants to leave now adays
@@AdrienneEverheart I feel awful because I "let it go"I would have rather had a conversation then feeling sick every time I think of him and wondering what the hell happened ?And yes I think he moved on it makes me feel so taken for granted.
I have a problem with being patient to give him space and using this time to focus on myself. I start to worry and feel insecure when he and I don't talk which only sabotages the relationship more... but I'm getting better in it thanks to you. I don't want to be so dependent on him. I'm doing my best to become stronger. Thanks for your help!!!
Rosenblau ruclips.net/video/6k77qAgJlKs/видео.html this video helps and hugs to you Honey. I’ve certainly been there.
My boy toy LOVES to hear how I’m feeling. His eyes light up as if to say “yes tell me more” 😌 i love to be chased by him 😍😍
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You are an absolute LEGEND. I cannot even express to you how life changing. I share your videos with my friends all the time! Thank you thank you thank you
Just Call Me Zanna thank you so much for the sweet words. I’m thrilled things are going great for you!
I have a SP that I'm in no contact with. Realistically that relationship is over. I had a dream I met a new man I hugged.I am taking it as a good sign. I do miss the other man, that I choose to be in no contact with, but I am proud I kept my dignity.
This makes me happy to hear! 🥰
I wish I would have watched this sooner. I pulled the plug on a guy I was dating because he was messaging less and wouldn't call when he said. I can't deal with inconsistency - it makes me overthink and become nervous so I told him to basically kick rocks. I'm not there to be on the sidelines waiting for him to put in effort. So the only thing I could do was cut off access to my time and energy even though I REALLY liked him. He wasn't even the most handsome or fit guy but sometimes when guys like that know an attractive woman is interested in them it goes to their heads and they think they can drop the ball. Maybe I overreacted but I'm not comfortable with that behavior.
Emily Landry yes even the most nebbish of guys can turn us feeling needy when they pull back. Are we responding to the pulling back or do we really miss the guy? Learn more here bit.ly/500waysbook
I am so anxious right now.
Every day this week my crush has been touching me or hugging me...spending some time talking...then today, nothing.
Super rushed, no hugs, no touch, nothing. Just gone.
So of course I suddenly feel rejected o and ignored....makes me want to text him and ask him what's going on....but thanks to you, I know better.
I know I have to drop down into my body and really connect with what I'm feeling. I have to just relax.
Thank you for helping me not be such a desperate energy. I really need this!
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@@AdrienneEverheart I sure will! Thank you!
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I received so much from this video...thank you Adrienne, my feminine heart listens and leaps and smiles at this wisdom. I am slowing down and my feelings are registering in my calmer mind more and more. Feels so good!
I used to reply like that to my guy asking "how's your day, what you;re doing" I always share sth like "having a coffee with a cinamon and Luna (cat) is purring next to me. How are you?" and he's always like "tired, problems and problems" etc., finally I felt like I am entertaining him, while he is using me like an audience for day trouble news. It's no fun to share my most pleasant things with someone sharing his complaints. Does it make any sense?
tbh yeah. i like guys that handle their problems on their own. everytime i ask a guy how he’s doing, and he says something negative every time, i cannot connect with him in that way.
I got a lot from this video content! Thank you so much for making it. I really like when you provide specific examples it helps me and probably others relate to our real lives. I’ve been watching your videos the past couple of weeks and I’ve applied some of the changes in my long-term monogamous relationship. What a difference! His behavior is like when we first got together, wanting to spend more time with me; saying sweet things, it’s been so great.
Kelly Swanson how exciting!! Keep up the good work and learn more here: bit.ly/500waysbook
Dear Adrienne,
Thank you so much for your helpful advice. Since I started watching your videos, I've experienced feeling really feminine and desired by men like never before. Although I also feel there is so much to learn for me and get better at feminine energy, I can already see the difference. I'm so grateful that you make these videos and help women!
I'd like to ask a question. What would you recommend to do while giving the man some space? I sometimes experience too much worrying and overthinking when he doesn't reach out in the time limits comfortable for me... I understand that men need this time, but what to do to distract yourself from thoughts and unnecessary suppositions? Thank you for your attention!
Марія Дишкант I so understand! I have a video on feeling nervous and embracing your feelings ruclips.net/video/6k77qAgJlKs/видео.html
But after he started wearing the mask to sleep everything changed, today we live apart but still eke sometimes seeks me out without absolutely no sex anymore
My boyfriend told me last night that I'm being too clingy and taking up too much of his time after I talked to him about him pulling away. It hurt me really bad. 😭😭😭
Laura Logue Bayird I’m so sorry honey yet listen to him. Where is your life empty? Is any of his words true? You need not “talk to him” about pulling away, you silently begin living your own life and allow him to naturally miss you. Learn more here: bit.ly/500waysbook
Adrian thank you ! Going to purchase your book just watching your videos and following your advise has helped me immensely in just these few weeks you have no idea
princesayoleasa I’m so honored to be part of your life!
You are so wonderful, Adrienne! Thank you for your wit and wisdom and your beautiful commitment to being authentic, never manipulative. Your videos are so enlightening and so humble and so truthful. Blessings on you path! Helen
Thank you so much. You made my day 🥰
So he vanishes and you're suppose to be nice about it? My first instinct is too to leave him alone.... Forever
Yes. Stay warm and lean back. I know it's tough. Working through the ABC's will help. bit.ly/abcgethimback
Thanks for your transparency and telling us the one client situation didn’t work out.
Super helpful! It's true. Men are slow vs women. I feel my place was quicker than his.
Great observation. Your inner boy is helping your girl. Keep on learning bit.ly/500waysbook
He actually remembers when u leave him
This is exactly what I needed to hear right now! Thank you!!
@adrienneevedheart, another video I saw said to say this, “I’m feeling some confusion from you which is totally fine, so I am going to take some space because I don’t want to get closer to someone who doesn’t know what they want. “ but clearly this is masculine energy and would make him want to say ok well bye then, right?!
@adrienneeverheart
I would ask if there's anything I should know... you want to open your heart chakra for communicating openly and honestly. The key is showing interest, listening and you may find this alone ties up a mans heart.
When I asked if there was someone else he said no. They're not going.to admit that. I asked If he was single he said yes..according to him the answer was no. But he was ghosting and so on and returning which led me to leave. I deserve better. Your advice is gold for sure. Also he was delaying committment. When the time is right or if I am still around despite him being distant. 🤨🤔
I'm enjoying learning to dive into my feminine. I feel like I was forced into the masculine alot these last several years. It didn't feel natural in my relationship, but you don't realize it until you start feeling again. I dress feminine, I tap into my feelings while I'm experiencing life.
Much love to you! 💕 This is so wonderful! Keep up the good work! Learn more here bit.ly/femmtools
Oooh I'm liking the warm and cozy background
Dee D thank you 😉👍🏼
Wow, this is so good. I'm going to try hard to live in my ❤️ feminine energy.
Adrienne, I’ve been very encouraged and grateful for this channel. Thank you for sharing these amazing tips and scripts.
I’m very conflicted. I’m in business with my significant man. We are around each other everyday, 95% of all our time. I am not sure what script to use to to let him know that I’m feeling like we are friends and roommates, not in love. I’m worn out emotionally to be about him and feeling statements, when he is very self-centered and thinks we are okay he never wants to spend even 5 minutes for me to express how I’m feeling and ask him what does he think? Or what would he suggest to move forward? All he does when we’ve had these conversations is make it about the list of things I need to do to get what I feel I need. I won’t lie it’s happened to often that now I just don’t bring how I feel into it, he makes it about himself. What can I do now? It’s hard because we work together I don’t know how to get space when honestly there’s not space to be made during this season of things. Can you help me?
I am so sorry that you are going through a frustrating situation. I think that the ABC’s will really help you out in your situation! Much love to you! bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
Thank you! ❤️
11:11 am love from Nepal💕
Best video for my situation. Thank you 🙏🏼
I need a 3 or 400 level class to talk like this. I had no training of doing this growing up.
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Hi Adrienne. You look lovely, adoring the curls :). Very soft and feminine look ;). I commented on one of your videos of late. About my spouse who had a difficult time compromising. I've tried out your advice about the feeling statement, sans blame ;) and it's been working wonders. We had the day off today and have been cleaning and redecorating because I was stressed with the state of our household and he is preparing for a renovation with minimum taring down and maximum rebuilding because I'm a mom of a 20 month old and I like my "nest" to be clean and cosy whereas until very recently he was a "just tare it all down" kind of guy. Thank you so much, I'm feeling much more at ease and safe in my home and relationship. Btw, English is not my native tongue so be sure to ask if there are parts of the comment that are unclear :) ;). Have nice day!
annelievallaeys you’re doing great. You just let him know, “I feel so impressed by your motivation yet I feel anxious with baby arriving soon. What can we do?”
this was not only helpful, this was exactly what I needed! thank you :-)
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This was a lovely and thorough video.
ASK NURSE IFEOMA I’m so happy it spoke to you. Hugs!! 🥰
So appreciated my dear. You are inspiring me ! May God bless you. And wishing you more inspiration to inspire us 🌸😍 love and respect from Algeria
I've been married for 26 years and the last few months my life has been turned upside down. He had been going to a local diner and He said Talking about a bunch of nothing with a waitress. But thanks to you I have my husband back
I still fall back down it hard to break bad habits but the main thing is I'm trying and not just when things dont go my way. I would Love for Me and Him to go to a marriage retreat or something what do you think and where. Thank You So Much And I send my Love for all your Help.
I’m happy you’re getting relief. Men need to feel like men. Keep that in mind. Let him be the man as much as you can. Let him know how wonderful YOU feel when he’s good to you. Build upon that. I’m not into retreats instead go to a concert with him, men bond to us with concerts and movies. Xoxo!🥰
AMAZING content as always ❤
Needed this going to use all these tips
victoria c excellent!!🥰
Thank you. I'm researching all your info as quickly as possible and hope to be able to in touch with you for a one on one about a married man situation. Your words and expressions have touched my heart during my darkest hours lately.
Linda R. I so understand. I’ve certainly been there. You can turn this all around and feel better than imagined. Sending you love and warm healing vibes 🥰
@@AdrienneEverheart 💕thank you.
We live together. I feel he's been pulling away for months because I threatened to leave him (because I felt hurt by his behaviour). He says he doesn't want to invest because he's lost his trust. So I just go upstairs and do my thing. Maybe he thinks I am playing a game but I don't see him coming closer to me and we haven't had a heart to heart talk for months. My problem is that I cannot be warm and available to him (yes I ruminate).
Great video! I've been bingewatching some videos I missed so you will see more comments from me! Is leaning back similar to no-contact? Or is leaning back more about stepping away and leaving the door open to stay warm? When a guy finally reaches back out, should we respond with our feelings right away or continue to lean back?
Thank you I'm grateful for this
This is such an interesting video dear! Thank you 🙏🏻 😍☺️
So So I’m so happy it helped! 🥰
You are an angel! Thank you 🌺
Maybe you can talk about how to be like when you are in a trio relationship. Him being married…
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you so so much 💖
Thanks 💋 Love the Timestamps ⭐
Adrienne help me. I've known each other for nine months with this man. he said he really liked me but he didn't know what he should do, he still felt scared because of the failure of his relationship with his ex-girlfriend two years ago. We are also different countries, and different beliefs. he was worried that he could not fight for me. he had cried and asked me to find a man who was better than him. but I kept trying to convince him, until a few days ago he said this was difficult. and now he has no news, I tried to contact him also not responded. What should I do?
Move on. He needs to either get over his ex or stop lying to you
And this situation never ends because he still seeks me and I have no desire to have men around me, I can not stand it anymore. I still dream of a marriage
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I'm glad I found you on you tube. My name is Adrianne, too.
Adrianne Kipp nice time meet you Adrianne!! 🥰🥰
amazing, I hope it works with longdistance relationships as well...
I hope so too! Yet proximity is key with relationships. Do not be deceived by the limerence of an LDR.
Thats feel good to read all of you strong and beautiful women !
this sounds like pursuing to me, can’t do it, but then again there’s no one right now lol
psychic small this is having open heart centered conversation and clarity. Be sure you note the bad examples from the good ones lol!
@@AdrienneEverheart some people dont even want to try to communicate anymore and expect the world to fall into their lap, princess privilege
Wow you are amazing thank you so much. I hope this all works!!
As usual....another wonderful video from Adrianne everhart
Ashiana Chan awh thank you my dear! ❤️
Thank you Adrienne, you give me much hope. I started in on him about how I want faithfulness. I think he cheated. He kept naming things he.s busy with. He wouldn.t deny it, so I kept it up. He said ok, we,ll be friends. Now what?
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😭😭😭you just got me crying hopelessly🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️
You look amazingly gorgeous 💕💖💕
Thank you 💜
Great video
Amy Vanner thank you Amy. Sending you love.
Omg! Well-said! My bf and I broke up 3 weeks ago, and i tried to contact him few times. He said I triggered him many times in short time we know each other, in which I never meant to do so. My friend who just started to be a coach told me to say good bye that turned out to be a huge mistake. I regret that. He blocked me on whatsapp. Now I just sent him many messages in other apps, which he ignores and doesn't read them yet. I can't just let him go and let him be with his misunderstanding. I need your help and really would like to work with you. Cherisse
Hugs to you!!! Start by leaning back and pulling your energy off of him. Don’t reach out to him & give him space. The ABC program would be a great start for you. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
@@AdrienneEverheartthanks for the reply.❤❤ I will join your program soon.
How are you so comfortable with vulnerability Adrienne?!!
After years and years of off and on, he tells me I am just a friend...I am heart broken... we have been together daily for the last 6 months... I think he either thinks he can find someone better or is still in love with his ex wife.
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You are right
I did this. I spoke about a certain event I was at and how nice it was. He STILL didn't reply. Tried this many times. That confirms he wasn't the one for me. I'd open up to him and say what would hurt and he would tell me "I could never care." Wow. Thanks. 🙄 Another time he told me to deal with his attitude. Uh, no! Wasn't worth it. Whenever I'd try to connect he created distance. He would say I was cussing him out when I was expressing myself without foul language. He didnt want to deal with it and I didnt want to stay. It was better being single than with him.
Hugs to you! 💕 Sometimes the best thing that you can do is to walk away. I would focus on yourself and work through the ABC’s. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
Thank you
How do you draw the line between avoidance and giving space? If I'm giving space do I not text, call or message him unless he does first?
Hi, Adriene!
Magda kar great time have you today!! 🥰
Hi Adrienne, I was seeing this guy for 9 months and it started off with dates here and there, and not texting everyday.
Initially that was fine by me, as I was seeing other guys at that time who I was quite interested in as well.
Fast forward Oct-Nov, he started acting differently. He started texting me EVERY SINGLE day, he wanted to see me more often and he started doing sweet nothings for me and I was super happy. I drifted away from the other guys, as this guy and I started spending more and more time together.
He would make me breakfast in the mornings I slept over (I'm vegan, so he never had the ingredients to make me vegan pancakes when he'd ask me what I wanted for breakfast), he GOT me a set of NEW pyjamas I can sleep in so I didn't have to carry too much stuff to work, he would drop me off work even though it was inconvenient for him, pick me up by car even if it was 2 hours away from him... So much more I can explain here, but these are just a few of the sweet things he'd do for me. He'd also ask a lot about me and my life, and he shared so much more about him in Oct/Nov compared to the previous months we've known each other for.
My mistake was, I think I pushed him away.
One day, I asked if he was seeing other women and he said yes. I got so upset I didn't want to talk to him, I don't know why I got so hurt and reacted the way I did when I was seeing other guys not too long ago - anyways, it is done. I was so upset I had to leave, I didn't want him to see me cry. He told me to text him and he wanted to talk about this. I couldn't bear myself to text him until a week later, decided it would be something fun so I sent a video of my office dog and me scratching his belly.
He then replied with "How come you never give my tummy scratches? What a lucky dog.. I'd like some tummy scratches from you." I then asked him if he wanted to meet up soon cause I'll be away for Christmas, and he told me to cancel my holiday and spend it with him instead. He's also not usually this sweet/cheeky but I was pretty cold with my reply. I told him my holiday is much more important than him and I wouldn't cancel it for anything, but if he wanted to see me again, he'd need to take me out on a real date that's not always his place (stupid me realising he HAS taken me out on real dates...)
After that text I haven't heard from him since (been almost 2 weeks now?). I don't know what to do, I've never been in a serious relationship before, bu I adore him so much. Did I mess things up? I'm 24 and he's 26 btw.
Im curious, what happened after that ? Any updates now ?
Your make up is quite different in this video.. Lab u 😚
The problem in my case were both LDR. Only 4 days ago I called him and told him that I give him space and privacy because I noticed that he didn't txt back to me even I txt him once a day and though he saw never get reply from him. How to handle this to check him out? Now, since I gave him space and privacy i didn't send message to him for 5 days already.
Hugs to you, honey. 💕 LDR are very difficult to maintain. You really need the proximity to make a relationship work. It’s best to lean back and let the man initiate. I would start quantum dating some other men. Learn more here. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
same situation right now... we are in LDR and he is always busy.... I went off for some hours and he got mad at Mr... then told me to take my time... really
@@DianaMutheu yah not easy... This passed few days too, i saw him online but I tried not to put my attention to him, I made my self busy as I took some online lesson and planning to go gym or make myself fit. I invested too much effort and time to him already and he even don't care my personal matter bcoz i put him on pedestal. So I lean back a bit. I tried as much as what the advised said but not making any agenda to get his attention. If he treasured our time together then he will initiate for this relationship. I want him to be a leader in this relationship. As of now given him space and privacy is better for both of us.
@@tintinpenaredondo6531 I also sent him a text and I saw clearly that he was online and he read the message and didn't reply them... I called my bestfriend and she told me the same thing that I should give him space and I try not to think about it so much I had even pinned him in whatsApp, she told me to unpin so that I won't see his name in my phone when I open it.... I don't want to loose because I love him so much... but I'll give him space today is the 2nd day he hasn't talked to me.... how many days should I wait?
@@DianaMutheu I also don't know until when, but Adrienne had a lot of videos about this issue, the different is we are in LDR situation. My situation is different from you I think. I have a strong relationship to my bf and about 5 years and both We met our family and clans already. We already prepared everything for the future. But only this few month we had urgued but cleared to me that he is contented to our relatiinship..He just need peace of mind he said, so I gave him space and privacy. No message or call for time being. For me I can give him a month.
What about when you live with him??? I feel like I do all the conversations and he gets mad if I want to talk about us and just thinks I'm not happy ...I just sense a change and hate asking a million questions
My man has neglected me for a month and we decide to have a break time of our relationship. But it keeps confusing with what he is doing. He sometimes text me but not asking about my day but like how’s it going? Not how’s my day. Then sometimes he is gone no texting. and then after no communication after couple of days, I wrote a letter telling how great we were. Then he left me good night and kiss for couple of days but then he became cold again. It’s very frustrating. What should I do?
LET IT GO, YOUR CHASING A HIGH....THIS IS AN ADDICTION..NOT LOVE
It sounds like he’s checking out of the relationship but still wants to keep one foot in the door. That way you won’t be too eager to move on. It sounds like lowkey breadcrumbing. He’s giving you something but not what you want. Perhaps it’s time to make peace with it the relationship ending and explore your options. Not from a place of anger though because that will only attract more frustration.
I just found this.. but how do I do this over quarantine? I've havent seen my man in 4 months and we are hopefully going to see each other on wednesday..
Hugs to you, honey! 💕 these times that we are going through are definitely making things so much more difficult now. It’s still very important to lean back and stay warm even if you are feeling lonely and frustrated. Learning to be in your feminine energy will help you stay grounded and feel calmer. bit.ly/femmtools
This is so, so helpful! It’s true that the things you think about affect the ether in the relationship.
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My man is stuck in his "own way." Kinda how old people get "stuck in their ways..." He doesn't want me to dress how I please because he calls it "having respect for myself." I'm the type of woman who wants to be told shes beautiful but very rarely does he do this anymore. He just says " i think it all the time, I just never say it."... what's going on....
Is this advise about drawing the man back in, After a no contact period?
I have been binge watching you the last week.
I have been texting and talking to a guy for over a month. It was great conversation and connection Fun bantering and shared sense of humor We finally met up Sunday and I completely messed everything up. I unloaded how I had 3 people show back up in my life and which brought up bad memories I let it consume my thoughts. Which of course o blurted out and messed up everything up. Do I reach out or let it go?
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I told him I was going to wait for him to make an initiative, when he felt he was open to spend a little time. I have given him space for two weeks as of now (wanting to wait three weeks) but even after three weeks, should I contact him before he contacts me?
hell no, Next
Thanks for this. I have a question, you say start all about how you feel about you and your life outside him. I guess it has to be a positive feeling, to sound hubbely bubbely which is attractive.
What if you feel down, not only about him loosing interest but also generally in life?
The pandemic has a toll on my life and how I feel after being isolated for over 9 months (home working) social activities back to zero and winter being dark and cold.
It becomes really hard to be light hearted, tbh I feel like slipping into depressive state, the guy was kind of my source of good feelings 😢 and nothing happens in my life besides walks, working and taking long baths that I don’t even enjoy anymore
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Any advice if you had a fight and he became avoidant. We are in an early relationship. I miss his 💋
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Adrienne,
I’ve met a guy. He likes watching me during my Aqua aerobics class. He keeps lying about his age. He keeps telling me he’s four years old when he’s really three....
How if when i tell him what i feel, and a guy says that he doesn't care 🙂
#Gold!
I feel like I'm too masculine I told him to fuck off and don't hit me up again.....
Yes he's texting and calling me like crazy.
lupi ta90 that works too!! Lol. You simply want to rebuild in a way that creates a lasting healthy love. bit.ly/500waysbook
This phase makes a woman sounds like she’s coming from a place of insecurity. Asking a man if he’s met someone else is insecure in my eyes. And if you feel is has .. then it’s time to move on. As soon as a man looses interest in me, I loose interest in them. The right person won’t loose interest in you, won’t pull back.
Do you see what you are saying here? If you FEEL he has met someone you move one else versus getting truth and exercising the art of asking. You ASK. You don't go silent. Women have been silent for far too long. This is the difference between perception and truth. Know the truth. Perception is a felt thing and not always true. Exerciser your right to ASK> Even if you are coming from a place of insecurity, that will wake a man up to your lovely heart better than tit for tat.
but guys don’t care if you’re insecure lol
even if you sound insecure, they focus on who you are
Dear, last time i was ill and i informed him, but i didn t express that i feel lonely i can t sleep...i need him, i just said i m ill waiting for him to take the initiative ! But he just said massage ur arm sleep well. It is so cold. Now we don t talk since. Know that we are not in a relatonship just dating virtually waiting to meet again. What can i do ?any tips? He goes and comes back but i think he is hesitating.
"Dating virtually"...so you mean a long distance relationship? In either case, if you're not meeting face to face, I cannot give you advice. I don't endorse that sort of relationship. It's not real and it goes nowhere. XOXO
I have chatted off and on with someone for about 6 mos.. We have met up once and he has tried to take advantage of small opportunities to get together but has not taken me to dinner. I have wanted to say something but do not know what.
Hugs to you, honey! 💕 If a man wants to be with you, they will step you and pursue you. My ebook “500 Ways” has scripts that will help you in this situation and more. bit.ly/500waysbook
Okay, I have mentioned this on another video. I am confused. This guy and I have been messaging for about 6 mos. One date, but other opportunities with wrong timing for me which was random. He is like I am, I believe. I speak to more than one person. This guy is short-sentenced. I feel like a text buddy and we do not go out. So, I really liked him but he is drawing back and I feel I just don't know how to get a guy,
Hugs to you! 💕 I would suggest starting with FEMM Tools to start learning about feminine energy and dating. bit.ly/femmtools
Hi can you please tell me how to answer the #1 question that comes up on every first date: "So what are you looking for?" I don't want to sound needy/desperate..
L MG well, what do you feel? In my book “500 Ways” I talk about answering right from your heart. I would tell a man that I am looking for a regular dating relationship that leads to something more. And that you’re enjoying dating for now. bit.ly/500waysbook
What if I'm the one who asked to break up, and now I really feel like things could have been handled better? I wish I saw your videos before it all ended. He said he needed space, and felt less love for me and so we initially decided to just be friends, he didn't want to officially split. Few days later he said he felt confused and weird and has a crush on a mutual friend that he's been getting close with (really close friends) for a while now. It hurt me too much, and so I had to cut ties and no contact. It's to protect myself. One of the reason why we decided to be friends before the official split is because we thought that our friendship isn't strong enough to sustain the relationship. It's almost a month now and I can't help but feel like it could have been handled better.
Get “500 Ways” & ABCs when you can. Being his friend only lessens the blow for HIM it helps you not.
@@AdrienneEverheart thank you so much for replying
Can we ladies express our feelings in a text (get him inside our bodies) even if he said he wants a break up?
Yes, I teach you how to do this and more in the ABCs to Get Him Back... the key is not to manipulate but accept his no and continue to be or become authentic and feminine. xoxo! bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
I wonder if you would know how to „deal“ with mindfulattraction, the wild and dark guy.
He is great! 💕 i enjoy his energy and his work.
Adrienne Everheart's Love Academy wow cool,yes,I can see that you get on well. He is also from New York (originally from Mexico) and you New Yorks are not from this world, so strong.
how can I book a 1:1 coaching call with you?? I cant find anywhere to book a call with you
I am not currently taking private coaching clients. You can join my iheartloveacademy for help and support! bit.ly/iheartloveacademy
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