Thank you so much for sharing! I am 3 weeks post-op and my husband and I did it 2 days ago (on Thanksgiving day) it hurt SO bad and I almost cried. I had a 10cm fibroid removed laparoscopically. I am extremely active, and workout 6 days a week. I healed really fast after surgery and my doc said I could resume working out and sex at my post-op appointment last week, so my husband and I thought it would be okay to have sex again. WE WERE WRONG! lol. We are taking a break for a week, and will try again later. As far as the pain from sex, I was extremely sore, and I also felt a dull ache/cramping in my uterus afterwards. Blessings to you all ladies! Let’s all stay strong together!
I am thankful that you decided to make your journey videos public. After I had my surgery I had no one to talk to about it. Then I found you praise God! I had my surgery on July 7 of this year. It will be a month tomorrow. I have energy and my skin color is back. I had anxiety about having a menses again only because I almost died because of bleeding so heavy and had to be rushed to the ER. I am working on my diet I am hoping menopause comes next year on my 50th bday. I do not want to get pregnant and I am married so intercourse don't stop. Lol ijs! 😆 I had my first menses this week and I experienced small cramping but nothing like before and the bleeding was light. 🤗I am thankful that I had this surgery it saved my life.
I had my surgery 10 days ago. The idea of having sex is terrifying to me. I will definitely wait the whole 6 weeks. The idea of me having a painful menses is a concerned to my boyfriend. Thank you so much for your courage. I hope you are doing so much better now. God blessed you.🙏❤️❤️ Ladies, I use a lot of ice packs for the pain. I use Vaseline at night around my incision it helps with the ripping sensations. I tried to use limited pain medications as possible because of constipation. Drink as much peppermint tea as you can to help with the gas. Do some exercise, massage your stomach to move the gas around. Hope this help someone else as well.
Thank you for the Vaseline tips. My surgery was 7 days ago, I can feel the incision ripping. The Vaseline is will surely help. I stopped with the painkillers 2 days ago and I’m drinking a lot of water to help to with the constipation. The only inconvenient is that I have to get up a lot to pee. Thanks so much for sharing your experience.
@@joannepermal2842 you are so welcome 🤗 add fiber to your water and food it will help with the constipation. I pray healing over you. 🙏🙏 May the Lord bless you with a quick recovery in Jesus Christ name I pray 🙏
I'm having this procedure on Monday and can not begin to tell you how nervous I am about everything! I must say any advice helps at this point, glad I stumbled upon your channel.🙂
You will be fine! Walking and resting If you can tolerate it don’t take so much narcotic after they send u home. Walking helps the healing a lot faster
I had mine last Tuesday. Last night my husband was already looking at me like 😍😍😍👀👀...Baby PLEASE, I looked at him and rolled over. PRAY FOR ME CAUSE I WILL BE LUCKY IF I MAKE 3 WEEKS, IT'S not EVEN A WEEK YET.😫
I’m on week 2 after having surgery. I’ve been using a heating pad & that had helped me TREMENDOUSLY!!!! Please get one ladies. You will have a lot of gas inside of you after surgery. Buy gas relief tea. Make sure to walk as much as you can. Put a pad over the incision. Wear a waste band around your stomach. They gave me one from the hospital. Have some one bring you a pillow from home. You’ll need it on the ride home from the hospital to hold over your stomach. It helps for the bumpy road. I’m not THINKING about sex! My Husband will have to be patient.
Another thing ladies lets remember to “Keep ourselves first” when it comes to our Heath! We’re always on the go & concerned with our looks and being available for others. Especially when it comes to our Husbands & children. Don’t rush to exercise or have sex!!!!!
I have to schedule my sx. I wondered about my libido! BC it use to be so high the declined during the time these jokers must have been growing. It would be So Awesome for the libido to be back!🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩 Prayers to your recovery🙏🙏🙏
I had surgery Feb 13th of this year. I had one fibroid removed and it was 12cm 😬😬. It weighed 2.2 pounds. I'm on my recovery journey right now and I'm still tender and a little bruised. I can't even think about sex right now 😮💨
This is what I needed to see. My husband still tries while I'm pre-op(mine are now calcified) so it's very painful sometimes I'm in tears. I feel bad and like we are both suffering. I can't wait until I have this surgery. I'm always so uncomfortable and lately I have no desire to do it.
Sis, this was a good topic. I had a myomectomy, I was fortunate to have had this after my son. Mine fibroids have since returned and are in the worst places, they was only 2 and they were like small mm size and during pregnancy 3 got to over 9cm . Sex was never an issue for me except for the certain positions whereby it goes 'deeper'. Grl, my best advice to you is to look into dr sebi alkaline eating. Eradicate dairy, gluten and meat. Hydrate. Take in as much herbs like bladderwrack and sarsaparilla for your endocrine and iron.....girl it's a long journey. I would love to conceive another one but feel less hopeful due to the size and where mine are situated. Your fibroids sound to be in a good position for conceiving. What have your docs said about that?
I had my fibroids removed in Sept. Not sure if it's going to help with conceiving but it definitively made everything else better! I'll look into changing my diet. I was just talking to my husband about that last night. GL on your journey to baby #2!
You're not supposed to have sex until after 6 weeks according to my doctor. Also, she told me not to do too much exercises because it can affect the internal stitches healing.
Same I’m six weeks today post op. Was told I cannot do any strenuous exercise for another 3 months. So I’ve been lazy , also trying next week with my partner we’ll see how that goes
@@krystalquille5544 LOL let me know please because none of these youtube vids are actually saying anything about sex after the surgery and the differences in how they feel
@@nene7-o1v ok update! The first time there was a lot of pressure for me and I needed lube, so it was a bit awkward. I think because I was in my head, overthinking it. The 2nd time I felt completely normal, with little to no pressure, and no lube needed. The common thing about both times is that my back was hurting afterwards. So I still wear my binder on and off, even though I'm almost 8 weeks post op.
@@krystalquille5544 Yikes. How was sex before? For me, I would feel a pressure that hurts on my low right abdomen upon deep insertion. Also, every time I inserted a tampon, it would shift away towards the right side. My next period will be my first time using tampons post op so I will see if there's a difference.
Hi. I just have mine on November 12th. It is so scary like you said I always try to protect the area. It is not easy to deal with. But I am so grateful I had a great surgeon. He is the beat, Dr. Carrasco on 75th in Manhattan.
I’m 8 weeks post op and finally feel well enough to have sex again. I had 14 fibroids removed. A little under two pounds (biggest was 10 cm, then 5 cm, a bunch of small ones) in total weight. I did start working out and definitely feel tender. I’m going to start using mederma on my scars to see if that helps. I’m hoping to get lucky this weekend though my husband wants to wait until my 12 week post op appointment. My doctor was staring at him when he said how dangerous it is to get pregnant immediately after a myomectomy. That freaked out so we may be waiting. Can’t wait to have pain free sex again
Wow 14! That's a lot. So glad to hear you're feeling better. It's a rough recovery. Good luck with the sex lol I doubt you'll need to wait 12 weeks. :)
I've been through laproscopic myomactomy and overian prp therapy histroscopy before 14 days. In between 2 times done, without any pain, it depends upon ya partner. Today my stitches are opened, we had a word with our doctor, he said don't conceive uptill 3 months, let ur uterus recover,we can do intercourse ofcourse ,but with safety first...
Thank you for this video. It really helped clarify some concerns I had. I'm only 1 week post op so the pain is still very fresh. Especially on my groin area. Just wondering if anyone else has experienced the same pain. Thanks 😊
Thankyou for this.... I had my surgery this year in April, and am unmarried having lot of doubts jus moving in my head, which made me depress and felt not to marry coz of any uncomfortable situations, that I may face in future with my partner. But now, after seeing your video, am like thinking, it's not that big deal to get married and to have sex life after open mymoctemy.
Thanks for the video. It’s been two months since my surgery and feeling grossed out at the thought of sex and just how my incision feels so I need more time. I’m very sensitive now in general and weeping a lot. ❤
I’m hoping once my 6 weeks is up I can get my libido back to normal. After bariatric surgery I. 2021 it came back beautiful after wa Ning for so long hormones I know. However year later had galbaldder removed and fibroid grew 3x my who libido was gone. I e been interest and sex of any type . My Husband is so understanding thank goodness. For the last year it’s hurt 90% of the time. Mine was a 9cm on the back as well and 5cm at cervix. I really hope it improves. I hope to get some of my feels back
Thank you for sharing. My surgery is scheduled next week. I'm usually very tough, but I am nervous and I was thinking about my sex life after. Much appreciated 😊
I just had my myomectomy April 17th ,2024 . Today's May 28th, 2024 and I'm still having pain and my body is crave the s word 😂... Anyway just wanted to say thank you for the video 😊
I just had my open myomectomy surgery and it's been 3weeks nw,but girl my man is going crazy and I found myself having same.i really don't know if I can b able to wait 6 weeks.what do I do?
I'm happy to see your post. I also have one large 8cm fibroid which is scheduled to be removed. But I was told is rare to have only one. I hope your recovery was smooth
I had my on the 1st of June 2022 and is almost 4 months now but I don't know why am afraid to have sex.although am healed from my surgery.I guess bcos of the pain I went through.
Oh my! I am having my surgery on thursday and i am freaking out. I have not bn married before, the only symptom i have is frequent urination and the rapid growth of the fibroid. I am so scared
I’m glad I found this video .., I have a few questions. Okay , PRE- Myomectomy (Fibroids removal) surgery did anyone of you experience bleeding during and after sex , mild painful orgasms? Also POST surgery do you still bleed during sex ? Asking because I had surgery OCT 15th , was intimate NOV 28th , experienced mild bleeding. A week ago I experienced mild pain while I was having an orgasm???? Please tell me I’m Not the only one experiencing this 🤦🏽♀️
I can't relate, but you should definitely call your OB. The pain part is probably normal since your muscles contract and stuff when you orgasm, but I don't see why you would still be bleeding. Good luck with everything! Keep us posted. Would love to know if this is common
@@tianasmith8955 thank you so much for taking the time to reply , the bleeding after sex was extremely mild , so mild that I had to wipe before noticing, ** sigh** either way I’m just sick of the whole thing , haven’t been intimate with my boyfriend since then , it’s just been self pleasure for me which is also mildly painful 😖.. 1st period post surgery was a breeze /5days , 2nd period 5days heavy 2days spotting, ended DEC 16th , started spotting DEC 23rd, still spotting and it’s DEC 25th .. it’s just one thing or the other , thought the surgery was gon make it better 🤦🏽♀️
@user-uu7tb7oj9i Hi how are you doing now? Did you see your doc about the bleeding and did you get any more bleeding/spotting during sex? Pls let us know yea thank you.
I was not awake when they put it in or took it out. I'm not sure if that's normal though. I was able to pee on my second try. The first time I went nothing worked! lol
@@tianasmith8955 thats good for you coz i watched others and they still have catheter on or they have to put it coz they cant urinate..why you choose open surgery? I am torn if i will choose laparoscopy or open
Hey just I want to know after open myomectomy surgery I have vagina itching problem... And some time its hard to go urine and toilet.... Suggest me something to apply I had urine test it's was normal but still having itching... Or
Had an open one on the 11th of April .. this week marks 5 weeks post op. I did use tampons from the 1st cycle ( bleeding has been heavy)… first period I had no pain. Second one had very mild period cramps when period started I had period pains 😭 not sure if it will change in the next cycle. My cycle is 24-26 days and since the op it has dropped to 24. Looking forward to having sex 8 weeks post op that’s when my partner will travel up for us to cuddle and enjoy each other 😍… one thing I’ve noticed though… my ovulation is 🤌🏾 and I get so horny 😩😩😩 can’t ignore it at all .. so the past weeks since the surgery have been tough not having my partner around. He suggested I hump a pillow 🙄 men 🚮 😅 … I had 3 fibroids removed.. 1 was 4cm and others were blueberry size
The swelling went down after a few weeks, but I feel like my stomach didn't magically go away like I had hoped and dreamed. It's taking a lot for me to lose my lower stomach, but I'm working on it.
Good morning sweetheart,I had mine on the 28th of January early dis year,am almost a month with few weeks,how can I get back to my stature,am home no activity so only adidas how do I get flat tommy after dis darling I reali need ur help sweetheart
The only advice I can give here is to get moving! Start walking as much as you can. I used a small medicine ball to treat my scar and help prevent scar tissue. Google scar therapy. You can like massage your scar to help loosen that area. Since you can't really lift too much, definitely walk.
Sis, you are an angle. I want to be your friend really! This is just what I was looking for on RUclips. I just had my surgery Myomectomy fibroids removal in April 20th 2021. I have a lot questions that I would love to ask you just for advice. I don’t know if you have an Instagram so that I can Inbox you time to times just to help your girl out through this journey!
I’ve now had my surgery a year ago and I can’t say I had much of a sex life prior to it but now after surgery, your sex life is still a natural thing to think about. For me I’m always worried about the vaginal feel for my partner. And this might be TMI, but I knew how it felt to my fingers before, however now the inside feels a bit different, like “swollen” for lack of better words, even a year later. I wonder about it a lot. Did anyone else have that issue? Did your partner mention that it may have felt any different than before? 🥲
I had the surgery 5 days ago. The pain around the incision is real. I cannot even think about sex right now. Thanks for sharing.
Yesss! I am a little over 1 week post op and these pains are no bueno!
I’ve been waiting for someone to post about this. Thank you
Thank you so much for sharing! I am 3 weeks post-op and my husband and I did it 2 days ago (on Thanksgiving day) it hurt SO bad and I almost cried. I had a 10cm fibroid removed laparoscopically. I am extremely active, and workout 6 days a week. I healed really fast after surgery and my doc said I could resume working out and sex at my post-op appointment last week, so my husband and I thought it would be okay to have sex again. WE WERE WRONG! lol. We are taking a break for a week, and will try again later. As far as the pain from sex, I was extremely sore, and I also felt a dull ache/cramping in my uterus afterwards. Blessings to you all ladies! Let’s all stay strong together!
Girl be careful! lol
I had same started On Thanksgiving day but after 6 weeks post po ,
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@@Hiwi333 let’s keep healing up! The best is yet to come!
The insides take even longer to heal. Wait .. at least 5 weeks
I did my surgery on August 26, 2022. I'm healing pretty quickly. My diet has changed and all. I am praying that they don't come back
I am thankful that you decided to make your journey videos public. After I had my surgery I had no one to talk to about it. Then I found you praise God! I had my surgery on July 7 of this year. It will be a month tomorrow. I have energy and my skin color is back. I had anxiety about having a menses again only because I almost died because of bleeding so heavy and had to be rushed to the ER. I am working on my diet I am hoping menopause comes next year on my 50th bday. I do not want to get pregnant and I am married so intercourse don't stop. Lol ijs! 😆 I had my first menses this week and I experienced small cramping but nothing like before and the bleeding was light. 🤗I am thankful that I had this surgery it saved my life.
I'm so glad some of my videos can help! I hope your recovery is going well!!
I had my surgery 2 weeks ago. We are strong women.
We are ! I had mine a week ago !
I had my surgery 10 days ago. The idea of having sex is terrifying to me. I will definitely wait the whole 6 weeks. The idea of me having a painful menses is a concerned to my boyfriend.
Thank you so much for your courage. I hope you are doing so much better now. God blessed you.🙏❤️❤️
Ladies,
I use a lot of ice packs for the pain. I use Vaseline at night around my incision it helps with the ripping sensations. I tried to use limited pain medications as possible because of constipation. Drink as much peppermint tea as you can to help with the gas. Do some exercise, massage your stomach to move the gas around. Hope this help someone else as well.
Thank you for the Vaseline tips.
My surgery was 7 days ago, I can feel the incision ripping. The Vaseline is will surely help.
I stopped with the painkillers 2 days ago and I’m drinking a lot of water to help to with the constipation. The only inconvenient is that I have to get up a lot to pee.
Thanks so much for sharing your experience.
@@joannepermal2842 you are so welcome 🤗 add fiber to your water and food it will help with the constipation. I pray healing over you. 🙏🙏 May the Lord bless you with a quick recovery in Jesus Christ name I pray 🙏
Amen.
Thank you Marie x
@@joannepermal2842 same here I pee a lot since I came back
I'm having this procedure on Monday and can not begin to tell you how nervous I am about everything! I must say any advice helps at this point, glad I stumbled upon your channel.🙂
You will be fine! Walking and resting
If you can tolerate it don’t take so much narcotic after they send u home. Walking helps the healing a lot faster
I had mine last Tuesday. Last night my husband was already looking at me like 😍😍😍👀👀...Baby PLEASE, I looked at him and rolled over. PRAY FOR ME CAUSE I WILL BE LUCKY IF I MAKE 3 WEEKS, IT'S not EVEN A WEEK YET.😫
lol Girl stay strong!! 🤣
I had mine last Wednesday!! The pain is still fresh !! I can’t even think on that!despite I want it!! I think it’s better wait!! 🙏😬
Did you make it sis?
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I’m on week 2 after having surgery. I’ve been using a heating pad & that had helped me TREMENDOUSLY!!!! Please get one ladies. You will have a lot of gas inside of you after surgery. Buy gas relief tea. Make sure to walk as much as you can. Put a pad over the incision. Wear a waste band around your stomach. They gave me one from the hospital. Have some one bring you a pillow from home. You’ll need it on the ride home from the hospital to hold over your stomach. It helps for the bumpy road. I’m not THINKING about sex! My Husband will have to be patient.
Another thing ladies lets remember to “Keep ourselves first” when it comes to our Heath! We’re always on the go & concerned with our looks and being available for others. Especially when it comes to our Husbands & children. Don’t rush to exercise or have sex!!!!!
Thank you very much for all the tips. :)
how's your condition now? how's your sex life, hur or not? thank you
Thanks for sharing this I'm on week two of recovery. I am so tired of laying around ,but I know rest is key to healing. I
I'm only 2.5 weeks in and it seems like having this surgery boosted my Libido🤗 But the struggle is real🙃😁 Thank You for sharing!
I have to schedule my sx. I wondered about my libido! BC it use to be so high the declined during the time these jokers must have been growing. It would be So Awesome for the libido to be back!🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩 Prayers to your recovery🙏🙏🙏
@@jenniferwilliams2635 Thank U💕 and Prayers to you on your journey and recovery as well🙏🏽
The burning on the incision is real. I did mine in February 2021. I am still feeling that burning itchy feeling.
How are you now
I would have bad cramps from my fibroid after orgasms. I just had surgery and I can’t wait to feel normal again.
I had surgery Feb 13th of this year. I had one fibroid removed and it was 12cm 😬😬. It weighed 2.2 pounds. I'm on my recovery journey right now and I'm still tender and a little bruised. I can't even think about sex right now 😮💨
How are you doing lady ❤❤
@@CourageousConquerers-yu8xd Hi ❣️! I'm doing wonderful, thanks for asking! I'm back to work full time. Honestly I feel amazing ☺️. How are you?!
This is what I needed to see. My husband still tries while I'm pre-op(mine are now calcified) so it's very painful sometimes I'm in tears. I feel bad and like we are both suffering. I can't wait until I have this surgery. I'm always so uncomfortable and lately I have no desire to do it.
you shouldn't do it if you don't want to!!
I definitely can relate. I don't know when I've subscribed but I'm here.
Sis, this was a good topic. I had a myomectomy, I was fortunate to have had this after my son. Mine fibroids have since returned and are in the worst places, they was only 2 and they were like small mm size and during pregnancy 3 got to over 9cm . Sex was never an issue for me except for the certain positions whereby it goes 'deeper'. Grl, my best advice to you is to look into dr sebi alkaline eating. Eradicate dairy, gluten and meat. Hydrate. Take in as much herbs like bladderwrack and sarsaparilla for your endocrine and iron.....girl it's a long journey. I would love to conceive another one but feel less hopeful due to the size and where mine are situated. Your fibroids sound to be in a good position for conceiving. What have your docs said about that?
I had my fibroids removed in Sept. Not sure if it's going to help with conceiving but it definitively made everything else better! I'll look into changing my diet. I was just talking to my husband about that last night. GL on your journey to baby #2!
One thing about scar tissue my doctor told me to massage the incision to reduce scar tissue and adhesions
You're not supposed to have sex until after 6 weeks according to my doctor. Also, she told me not to do too much exercises because it can affect the internal stitches healing.
Same I’m six weeks today post op. Was told I cannot do any strenuous exercise for another 3 months. So I’ve been lazy , also trying next week with my partner we’ll see how that goes
@@krystalquille5544 LOL let me know please because none of these youtube vids are actually saying anything about sex after the surgery and the differences in how they feel
@@nene7-o1v ok update! The first time there was a lot of pressure for me and I needed lube, so it was a bit awkward. I think because I was in my head, overthinking it. The 2nd time I felt completely normal, with little to no pressure, and no lube needed. The common thing about both times is that my back was hurting afterwards. So I still wear my binder on and off, even though I'm almost 8 weeks post op.
@@krystalquille5544 Yikes. How was sex before? For me, I would feel a pressure that hurts on my low right abdomen upon deep insertion. Also, every time I inserted a tampon, it would shift away towards the right side. My next period will be my first time using tampons post op so I will see if there's a difference.
@@krystalquille5544❤
It's been 6 weeks now since my surgery... haven't wore tampons or tried anything... I've had to wear a pad everyday since my surgery bc of bleeding...
I had the surgery and I took it slow and it was fine!
Hi. I just have mine on November 12th. It is so scary like you said I always try to protect the area. It is not easy to deal with. But I am so grateful I had a great surgeon. He is the beat, Dr. Carrasco on 75th in Manhattan.
I’m 8 weeks post op and finally feel well enough to have sex again. I had 14 fibroids removed. A little under two pounds (biggest was 10 cm, then 5 cm, a bunch of small ones) in total weight. I did start working out and definitely feel tender. I’m going to start using mederma on my scars to see if that helps. I’m hoping to get lucky this weekend though my husband wants to wait until my 12 week post op appointment. My doctor was staring at him when he said how dangerous it is to get pregnant immediately after a myomectomy. That freaked out so we may be waiting. Can’t wait to have pain free sex again
Wow 14! That's a lot. So glad to hear you're feeling better. It's a rough recovery. Good luck with the sex lol I doubt you'll need to wait 12 weeks. :)
@@tianasmith8955
Did you experience intermittent mild spotting after 8 weeks during recovery?
@@peeya4966 I didn't, but it sounds like something that would be common. Definitely ask ur doctor!
@@tianasmith8955
Thank you
Girl. U hear with the tea. ☕ Yes I cannot wait to have pain free sex. Getting my surgery soon.
I've been through laproscopic myomactomy and overian prp therapy histroscopy before 14 days. In between 2 times done, without any pain, it depends upon ya partner. Today my stitches are opened, we had a word with our doctor, he said don't conceive uptill 3 months, let ur uterus recover,we can do intercourse ofcourse ,but with safety first...
Just did my myomectomy two weeks ago...I've been wondering.
Thank you for this video. It really helped clarify some concerns I had. I'm only 1 week post op so the pain is still very fresh. Especially on my groin area. Just wondering if anyone else has experienced the same pain. Thanks 😊
Yes at times I get a sharp pain in that area. Like something just ran through a vain
Mbalenhle how are you doing ? I am a week post op. Talk 😅😅 sis
I had mine two weeks and two days ago. I’m worried about how the pain will be because penetration was so painful before surgery anyway.
I had 33 fibroids removed. I think at the 6 week mark I’ll be scared but we will see
Oh wow. I'm 2 weeks post op almost too. Lots of belly pain still
Thanks for sharing this. So enlightening
Hi, did anyone experience mild intermittent spotting 8 weeks after myomectomy?
Thank you for this info, I had open Myomectomy Dec 2023. Had sex after week 5. And had alot of new burning like pain after that ...
I got a myomectomy 5 months ago and my orgasms are weak and not the same
Are things better now?
Thankyou for this.... I had my surgery this year in April, and am unmarried having lot of doubts jus moving in my head, which made me depress and felt not to marry coz of any uncomfortable situations, that I may face in future with my partner. But now, after seeing your video, am like thinking, it's not that big deal to get married and to have sex life after open mymoctemy.
Hi tqqq for this great information.its been 5 weeks post op .21/2kg febroid has been removed.
Thanks for the video. It’s been two months since my surgery and feeling grossed out at the thought of sex and just how my incision feels so I need more time. I’m very sensitive now in general and weeping a lot. ❤
Yeah, definitely take your time!
I’m hoping once my 6 weeks is up I can get my libido back to normal. After bariatric surgery I. 2021 it came back beautiful after wa Ning for so long hormones I know. However year later had galbaldder removed and fibroid grew 3x my who libido was gone. I e been interest and sex of any type . My Husband is so understanding thank goodness. For the last year it’s hurt 90% of the time. Mine was a 9cm on the back as well and 5cm at cervix. I really hope it improves. I hope to get some of my feels back
Thank you for sharing. My surgery is scheduled next week. I'm usually very tough, but I am nervous and I was thinking about my sex life after. Much appreciated 😊
Good luck!
I appreciate the posting. I had a myomectomy and was curious as to ehen i can have a sex life again. Thanks for the education and sharing.
I just had my myomectomy April 17th ,2024 . Today's May 28th, 2024 and I'm still having pain and my body is crave the s word 😂... Anyway just wanted to say thank you for the video 😊
I wish I could afford surgery. Am in so much pain
I'm so sorry to hear that. You can't find any funds or grants online? You should search for that if you don't have health insurance.
I just had my open myomectomy surgery and it's been 3weeks nw,but girl my man is going crazy and I found myself having same.i really don't know if I can b able to wait 6 weeks.what do I do?
Lol External girl!
Gitl im going through the same i cant wait 6 werks im 4 weeks post op and so ready lmaooo its torture
@@tianasmith8955 Was yours laparoscopic?
@@theethers1558 Nope
I had one large(7.5cm) fibroid which was removed just before 10days by open myomectomy...what was your fibroid size ma'am?
My largest was a 9.5 if I remember correctly. I had a 7 attached to it.
I'm happy to see your post. I also have one large 8cm fibroid which is scheduled to be removed. But I was told is rare to have only one. I hope your recovery was smooth
Today is 4 weeks I had my myomectomy, was very painful with menstruation but better now with little abdominal pains yet to have sex
Who did the surgery?
Thanks for the Video 😊🙌🏾🙌🏾 I will be having my surgery in 5wks. Would love to chat and follow up on your journey.
I had my on the 1st of June 2022 and is almost 4 months now but I don't know why am afraid to have sex.although am healed from my surgery.I guess bcos of the pain I went through.
What was your posts myomectomy treatment?
Oh my! I am having my surgery on thursday and i am freaking out. I have not bn married before, the only symptom i have is frequent urination and the rapid growth of the fibroid. I am so scared
Check out my surgery day video. It wasn't that bad! You'll be ok :)
How was the experience dear,am undergoing surgery mid August am so nervous 😭not married,av no child..
I’m glad I found this video .., I have a few questions. Okay , PRE- Myomectomy (Fibroids removal) surgery did anyone of you experience bleeding during and after sex , mild painful orgasms? Also POST surgery do you still bleed during sex ? Asking because I had surgery OCT 15th , was intimate NOV 28th , experienced mild bleeding. A week ago I experienced mild pain while I was having an orgasm???? Please tell me I’m
Not the only one experiencing this 🤦🏽♀️
I can't relate, but you should definitely call your OB. The pain part is probably normal since your muscles contract and stuff when you orgasm, but I don't see why you would still be bleeding. Good luck with everything! Keep us posted. Would love to know if this is common
@@tianasmith8955 thank you so much for taking the time to reply , the bleeding after sex was extremely mild , so mild that I had to wipe before noticing, ** sigh** either way I’m just sick of the whole thing , haven’t been intimate with my boyfriend since then , it’s just been self pleasure for me which is also mildly painful 😖.. 1st period post surgery was a breeze /5days , 2nd period 5days heavy 2days spotting, ended DEC 16th , started spotting DEC 23rd, still spotting and it’s DEC 25th .. it’s just one thing or the other , thought the surgery was gon make it better 🤦🏽♀️
@user-uu7tb7oj9i Hi how are you doing now? Did you see your doc about the bleeding and did you get any more bleeding/spotting during sex? Pls let us know yea thank you.
Dear Is it bad having sex on 5th weeks I didn’t make it to 6th weeks is it going to be infected
I had mine last week and my stomach is so tender. I was looking forward to sex with my husband but now I'm a bit scared 😂. And yes 6 weeks is soo long
Is it laparoscopic or open myomectomy? Did you had catheter during surgery?
I had an open myomectomy. They only gave me a catheter during the surgery. I did not have it in when I woke up from surgery.
@@tianasmith8955 but you are awake when they put it on? Can you go to toilet by yourself after the surgery?
I was not awake when they put it in or took it out. I'm not sure if that's normal though. I was able to pee on my second try. The first time I went nothing worked! lol
@@tianasmith8955 thats good for you coz i watched others and they still have catheter on or they have to put it coz they cant urinate..why you choose open surgery? I am torn if i will choose laparoscopy or open
I didn't have a choice. My doctor advised that the position and size of my fibroid required that they cut me open. Good luck with your surgery! 🙏🏽
Hey just I want to know after open myomectomy surgery I have vagina itching problem... And some time its hard to go urine and toilet.... Suggest me something to apply I had urine test it's was normal but still having itching... Or
Having same. Please what help you then?
Thanks
OP next week blood 4 Weeks
Had an open one on the 11th of April .. this week marks 5 weeks post op. I did use tampons from the 1st cycle ( bleeding has been heavy)… first period I had no pain. Second one had very mild period cramps when period started I had period pains 😭 not sure if it will change in the next cycle. My cycle is 24-26 days and since the op it has dropped to 24.
Looking forward to having sex 8 weeks post op that’s when my partner will travel up for us to cuddle and enjoy each other 😍… one thing I’ve noticed though… my ovulation is 🤌🏾 and I get so horny 😩😩😩 can’t ignore it at all .. so the past weeks since the surgery have been tough not having my partner around. He suggested I hump a pillow 🙄 men 🚮 😅 …
I had 3 fibroids removed.. 1 was 4cm and others were blueberry size
Did your stomach go down
The swelling went down after a few weeks, but I feel like my stomach didn't magically go away like I had hoped and dreamed. It's taking a lot for me to lose my lower stomach, but I'm working on it.
I would imagine a good year is what it will take.
@@tianasmith8955 Hi. How are you going with this (to lose lower stomach)? Thanks!
This whole video just weird. Definitely a what not to do!
Good morning sweetheart,I had mine on the 28th of January early dis year,am almost a month with few weeks,how can I get back to my stature,am home no activity so only adidas how do I get flat tommy after dis darling I reali need ur help sweetheart
The only advice I can give here is to get moving! Start walking as much as you can. I used a small medicine ball to treat my scar and help prevent scar tissue. Google scar therapy. You can like massage your scar to help loosen that area. Since you can't really lift too much, definitely walk.
Girl it seem like you like pain
Great video. I had my myomectomy on 10 June and have so much to say. Thanks for sharing.
I posted about sex after my MYOMECTOMY as well because I definitely was looking for this type of content when I sent through my surgery
Sis, you are an angle. I want to be your friend really! This is just what I was looking for on RUclips. I just had my surgery Myomectomy fibroids removal in April 20th 2021. I have a lot questions that I would love to ask you just for advice. I don’t know if you have an Instagram so that I can Inbox you time to times just to help your girl out through this journey!
I'd love to help, but I'm definitely no expert! My IG is @tianarich_
Did your stomach go down
I’ve now had my surgery a year ago and I can’t say I had much of a sex life prior to it but now after surgery, your sex life is still a natural thing to think about. For me I’m always worried about the vaginal feel for my partner. And this might be TMI, but I knew how it felt to my fingers before, however now the inside feels a bit different, like “swollen” for lack of better words, even a year later. I wonder about it a lot. Did anyone else have that issue? Did your partner mention that it may have felt any different than before? 🥲