How to Get Over a Breakup (Step by Step Tutorial)

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024
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    In this video, I explain how to get over a breakup and/or heartbreak, and I also explain how you can avoid putting yourself in a position to be heartbroken again. The more it hurts, the stronger you will become!
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Комментарии • 139

  • @chels3585
    @chels3585 2 года назад +45

    Something I’ve learned from heartbreak is that we can always learn from each relationship and it helps navigate what we will and will not tolerate for the next. More clarity and boundaries

    • @shakurwonders5216
      @shakurwonders5216 2 года назад +3

      It just feels like you keep growing yourself into a new person that u clearly have no idea about but it's good when u have selflove. U never alone in a growing process ❤

    • @shakurwonders5216
      @shakurwonders5216 2 года назад +1

      Bet!!

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +7

      exactly! each relationship helps us strengthen our relationships with ourselves IF we allow them to

    • @maxxike1
      @maxxike1 2 года назад +3

      @Dr Zakir Naik u fr rn bro? love is not ONLY between 2 individuals some people hate themselves some people love themselves it’s simple. don’t wanna bring god into this but GOD is love. god is everything but… he is one person

  • @ZeRo-yc7zf
    @ZeRo-yc7zf 2 года назад +17

    Temporary relationships are blessings. You learn valuable lessons, you are left a void at which you can use to transform your life, and wether you appreciate them or not, you’re left with good memories

  • @davidvasconcellos6858
    @davidvasconcellos6858 2 года назад +9

    Forgiveness can be such a huge weight taken off of one's own shoulders because living with hate or regret mentally. emotionally, and physically can debilitate a person!!!

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      most definitely! harboring resentment towards someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to get sick

    • @davidvasconcellos6858
      @davidvasconcellos6858 2 года назад

      @@JordanGreenYT Yes!!!

  • @wiszrd
    @wiszrd 2 года назад +7

    ik this won’t work for everyone but what helped me was the friends I had surrounding me, i was in a toxic relationship that ik wasn’t good for me. My cousin is like a brother to me, when me and my gf broke up he was the only person i had the helped me get through it. I am a realistic person, I feel like i’m more mature than the average high school senior so the break up didn’t affect me an any way, it kind of just pushed me more towards my goals. As if the relationship was a distraction. I knew that if i was sitting there crying all day i wouldn’t want to go to work or grind in general tbh that break up taught me a lot of things & probably one the best thing that happened to me. My confidence is amazing now!

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      props to you for focusing on the positive aspects of your situation! keep doing your thing 👑

  • @vickiclark1998
    @vickiclark1998 Год назад

    I walked away from a ten year relationship. It wasn't fulfilling me or meeting my needs. I have spent the last six years working on giving myself the love I gave him. I have forgiven both him and myself. I am happy and enjoying life. Thank you for being a solid voice to healing. 💞

  • @billerin7995
    @billerin7995 2 года назад +20

    Just in time Jordan.
    Been feeling down recently and the memories started appearing in my mind again. Trying to hold myself and devote myself for future growth but its so damn hard man. This year had it all, been able to start on the right foot and find my first job at a major global tech company, met my first gf and lost my v card, but it ended poorly, with much to reflect on.
    Hopefully next year gonna be brighter for me overall, ima start it with a tattoo ive been thinking about doing for a long time now, as a reminder for myself.
    Just thought about commenting and sharing once again. Thank you Jordan, love you deeply my man!

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +3

      thank you for opening up bro. you are much stronger than you realize; never forget that. everything happens FOR you, not TO you. be present with your emotions, for that is true self love ☯️

  • @LuizFreelances
    @LuizFreelances 2 года назад

    We broke up an hour ago, i still can't wrap my head around it.
    I truly cared for her... I feel numb.

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 года назад +5

    I feel like nobody can necessarily “get over” a break immediately bc it can be hard. After loving and happy moments and whatnot it leaves a scar almost. I stand victim to this and I didn’t rlly completely get over the breakup till a year later after the break up. Not only this, I started to focus on myself more and the pain lessened for sure. 💯

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +2

      self love is the only way to heal bro 👑

  • @panicow6005
    @panicow6005 2 года назад +4

    My last heartbreak taught me to love myself more and not rely on anyone for my own happiness

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      the only way to truly love someone is to love yourself first 💪🏾

  • @michael-jb4ow
    @michael-jb4ow 2 года назад +1

    literally just had my 20th in December my relationship started fizzling and ended the week before it happened and this is way too relatable we had so many plans now we dont even speak, mind you we spoke everyday, still recovering from it now but I have an essay and exam to prepare for in 2 weeks and this is a real rough patch, ngl the advice in the video really helps and grateful for this channel

  • @Akash14.
    @Akash14. 2 года назад +2

    Everyone we meet is either a blessing or a lesson

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie 2 года назад +1

    Some ppl think that apologizing makes you weak but that’s not true. The thing that makes you weak is holding on to grudges period!!

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      a lot of people would rather look strong than be strong- especially men. you hate to see it

  • @gawmez6468
    @gawmez6468 2 года назад +3

    I swear jordan you always have the right video i need for situations that i come across in my life. Everytime i go through something you always post a video on how to overcome it and it’s always right when it’s happening. I dont know how you do it but thank you for these videos, they mean a lot.

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      i just turn my camera on and speak my truth bro. im glad that my message resonates with you ✊🏾

  • @nyjalomari
    @nyjalomari 2 года назад +1

    Nah I’m not going through it at this moment, but I’m here for anyone that is

  • @ChangeYourLife1122
    @ChangeYourLife1122 2 года назад +1

    Relationships are not here to make us happy they are here to make us conscious to bring out pain- Eckhart Tolle

  • @chels3585
    @chels3585 2 года назад +1

    I swear the timing is always perfect when he drops his videos 🥺😮‍💨

  • @bradymarchand2122
    @bradymarchand2122 2 года назад +3

    Hey guys I’m 14 and my ex broke up with me around 4 months ago. The relationship was really meaningful to me and she was my best friend for around 6 months. Still haven’t gotten over it. The other day I heard from my other friends she has been making fun of my depression. It really hurt. I need some support

    • @qxiz5164
      @qxiz5164 2 года назад

      Hey Man I Don't even know if I'm responsible to give you information myself because I'm only a little older then you but I'll tell you this... don't let it get to you forgive her and move on find new hobbies find things you love to do and have lots of fun doing it know that your life is meaningful and that Jesus Loves You!

    • @qxiz5164
      @qxiz5164 2 года назад

      Another girl will come along eventually

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +4

      making fun of your depression? bro you dodged a MAJOR bullet with that one. i know you dont see it now, but she did you a colossal favor by ending the relationship. she didnt deserve you 👑

  • @AlexMejia56
    @AlexMejia56 2 года назад

    Heartbreak taught me to have a relationship with myself and just love myself

  • @LOTStreets
    @LOTStreets Год назад

    You are absolutely right and I love your delivery.

  • @savagebeafy
    @savagebeafy 2 года назад +6

    I've never went through a heartbreak before, since I've never been in a relationship before (I'm a virgin). But this video will be very useful for me to have by the time I get into my first relationship. Thanks Jordan.

    • @shakurwonders5216
      @shakurwonders5216 2 года назад +2

      Good for you. I won't say I've been in a reciprocated relationship it's always been one sided but it was hurtful. But yeah we never had sex. I'm single and virgin proudly ❤💪🏿💪🏿

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +3

      imo, the worst heartbreaks are the ones where you were never officially together. always listen to your gut and take things SLOW, and you should be fine 👍🏾

    • @savagebeafy
      @savagebeafy 2 года назад +1

      @@JordanGreenYT agreed

    • @shakurwonders5216
      @shakurwonders5216 2 года назад +2

      @@JordanGreenYT Bet I should, bro 💪🏿💜

  • @PoopNaNa
    @PoopNaNa 2 года назад +1

    "Don't cry for someone that killed your smile"- Tupac Shakur

  • @obsolete5
    @obsolete5 2 года назад +1

    This gone blow💯🔥📈💪🏽

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie 2 года назад +1

    Appreciate the content you’re putting out there for we your viewers to watch 🙏🏾💯

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      i appreciate the support for me and my channel bro 💪🏾

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 года назад +1

    13:00 there we go 👏🏾

  • @lillianidahosa3266
    @lillianidahosa3266 2 года назад

    Great video Jordan!:) Also, you're almost at 100k subs keep up the great content😀

  • @h.darnell9393
    @h.darnell9393 2 года назад

    A king that shares his throne.

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 года назад +1

    12:24 been thinking bout this one bro. Apologizing can be helpful for you and that significant other especially when you know that you messed up or caused errors in the relationship. Like for me, I feel like my past relationships wasn’t successful bc I was too focused and in love with her physical features (pretty looks, body) rather than acknowledging what she has to offer. Like she was into some sort of business and pursing her dreams as a model but I’ve failed to look upon that in the relationship. My fault was, that I was more focused on her body itself rather than HER herself…but at least ik is not the only one who messed up tho ✊🏾❤️

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +2

      owning up to your mistakes is the first step on the path to recovery bro! its the only way to take your power back

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 года назад

    0:43 finna treat this book like it’s WLR, because IM GETTIN THAT

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      much love bro! just got my first physical copy today, and its HEAT

  • @user-mc8xh3zi7y
    @user-mc8xh3zi7y 2 года назад +1

    Literally my everything for 4 years high school sweetheart
    She went in the military and just changed..... I hate that shìt

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      thats life bro. i know it hurts, but you have to control what you can control. let the end of that situation guide you towards something even better

  • @amiablepluto1660
    @amiablepluto1660 2 года назад

    Courage is the power to let go of the familiar

  • @spawnlmao
    @spawnlmao 2 года назад +1

    your a huge inspiration for me bro

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      i appreciate you bro! lets keep elevating 🚀📈

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 года назад

    2:41 Pretty much explains it!

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie 2 года назад

    Not planning to engage myself into any relationship at this moment but I’m sure this will help me in the future!

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      hopefully youll never need this video 😭

  • @ZayBeatztm88
    @ZayBeatztm88 2 года назад

    It’s been a year and some change and I’m still not over her

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      gotta be patient with yourself bro. dont impose artificial timelines on your healing process, or youll never heal (take it from me)

  • @literallyleila728
    @literallyleila728 Год назад

    When you said apologise to them I burst out laughing 😂

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 года назад

    0:06 bro you know I love these types of vids bro 🤧💯🔥

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      definitely gotta do more spoken word moving forward bro

  • @TERRELL_GASKINS
    @TERRELL_GASKINS 2 года назад

    if yyou gotta cry just cry but later in the day go for a lil run n self iimprove for 3 years

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      on the other side of sadness is euphoria and motivation 💪🏾

  • @EjRidenhour
    @EjRidenhour 2 года назад +1

    Everything is a lesson

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie 2 года назад

    True Jordan 💯🗣

  • @ThatBoyKP
    @ThatBoyKP 2 года назад +1

    Gems 💎

  • @erics362
    @erics362 2 года назад +2

    I can't seem to get over my break-up with Jordan. He seems to be fine with it though. 😢

  • @daze77gaming
    @daze77gaming 2 года назад

    i still find it hard to love myself....its like I always look for excuses as to why im not this or that

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      love yourself even when you dont like yourself. THATS true love

    • @daze77gaming
      @daze77gaming 2 года назад

      @@JordanGreenYT beautiful

  • @sven9709
    @sven9709 2 года назад

    bro great video! but i am still waiting for the fashion video

  • @cordlesstuba223
    @cordlesstuba223 2 года назад

    man, she broke up with me earlier. fuck. thank you Jordan.

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 года назад

    Just to think of it bro, I’m already reading this music-artist based book, I copped another one as well, hopefully I get time to read yo book bro :/

  • @shakurwonders5216
    @shakurwonders5216 2 года назад +1

    U can't pour from an empty cup
    Overflow yours first and let dem people drink on a saucer ☕
    ~Lisa Nichols

  • @aaronaustrie
    @aaronaustrie 2 года назад

    Facts✊🏾💯

  • @swishtv7324
    @swishtv7324 2 года назад

    But you ain't never gonna be happy till you love yourz

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 года назад

    0:31 AHHHHHHHHH WHY’D you not make it longer bruuuuu I was relaxin to that shiiiiii

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      i think that was the whole entry bro 🤣

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 года назад

    Can you share some themes or life lessons that’ll be taught in this book you’ll drop next month? Chances are that book will get hella good reviews if you does some impact to us frfrr

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      heartbreak, unrequited love, twin flames, spirituality, self love, letting go ☯️

  • @gigachad11764
    @gigachad11764 2 года назад +1

    Is your books shipping worldwide?

  • @phendranaa
    @phendranaa 2 года назад

    If she's important to you you can manifest her back ♥

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      i wouldnt recommend doing that. i explain why in this video: ruclips.net/video/NZErW1XMxfg/видео.html

  • @oofbleg
    @oofbleg 2 года назад

    i peeped that frank ocean in the intro

  • @jaethechoooosenoneQMO
    @jaethechoooosenoneQMO 2 года назад +1

    QMO

  • @danielgreen6984
    @danielgreen6984 2 года назад

    Question 🙋🏾‍♂️: As a guy, would it rather be best to have a woman come to you, or you going to her?

  • @businessisboomin7252
    @businessisboomin7252 2 года назад

    Damn bro too close to 100K :')

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      its insane bro! im so grateful for how far ive come, but this is only the beginning 🚀📈

  • @6riannn
    @6riannn 2 года назад

    7:40 aaaaaaaAaaaaaaAWWWWW HERE WE GO AGAINNNNNN 😭the Better Help 💀😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣❗️(jk)

  • @lucasliland6157
    @lucasliland6157 2 года назад

    How do i apologize

    • @orthodoxboxing9159
      @orthodoxboxing9159 2 года назад

      Lay out everything on the table. Send her a lengthy text and trust me… it feels so relieving to apologize to someone.

  • @alexdontmatter
    @alexdontmatter 2 года назад +1

    Hi

  • @TimeEnthusiast
    @TimeEnthusiast 2 года назад

    How do you forgive someone who cheated on you ? 🧐

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      by understanding that we all do the best that we can with what we have. forgiveness transcends infidelity, murder, and anything else that anybody could ever do

  • @amiablepluto1660
    @amiablepluto1660 2 года назад

    Hey a spoken W

  • @stylianoskyriakou969
    @stylianoskyriakou969 2 года назад

    Great video dude I wanted something to help my friend with and what a better help by professional I will recommend to him thank you so much

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      glad i could help bro! ive been doing therapy via betterhelp for a couple of months now, and so far im loving it

  • @markusmichaels410
    @markusmichaels410 2 года назад

    I'm not gonna find anyone at all cause relationships are for the weak

  • @jamarlbryant1445
    @jamarlbryant1445 2 года назад

    🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @papichulo9894
    @papichulo9894 2 года назад

    i know this sounds closed minded but what do i apologize for ??😭😭

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      anything bro. i guarantee that you didnt do everything perfectly- even if you had good intentions

  • @sinisterbrick5594
    @sinisterbrick5594 2 года назад

    Bro i remember you said in a video that you did a meditation on love about 34 minutes long then in a month you found your gf have you deleted that video cuz i need the link

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад +1

      im about 99% sure that this is the one: ruclips.net/video/XLRaO6pI2Z8/видео.html

    • @sinisterbrick5594
      @sinisterbrick5594 2 года назад

      @@JordanGreenYT LETS GOOOOOOOO I DIDN'T EXPECT THIS EARLY OF A RESPONSE

  • @danielmurcia6262
    @danielmurcia6262 2 года назад

    Idk if this the vid for me brother,ima watch regardless but I'm just tryna get a girlfriend😕

    • @JordanGreenYT
      @JordanGreenYT  2 года назад

      i feel you bro! hopefully you NEVER need this video, but if you do then itll be here 💪🏾

  • @obamas.7963
    @obamas.7963 2 года назад

    What u think about street gangs?

  • @justaustin5940
    @justaustin5940 2 года назад +2

    Step 1: Go to the club
    Step 2: Waste all your Money at the club
    Step 3: Cry because you’re broke
    Step 4: Hope Mr. Beast walks by and gives you money
    Step 5: Buy a girlfriend with that money
    Step 6: Buy a mansion to live with your girlfriend
    Step 7: Happiness

  • @Surito
    @Surito 2 года назад

    Brah that is awsome and all but... TUTORIAL??🤣🤣 Call it guide or smth idk man lmaoo