Hire a photographer to take better pictures for Tinder. Don't post bathroom selfies. The real challenge nowadays is getting into a 1 on 1 discussion with females in the first place, after that it tends to work itself out.
Well, a man can be clean, smart, good looking, kind, generous and what not and yet all that don't guarantee a chemistry of love. If that'd be it...we are all in a big trouble because what if someone better comes in your way every month?
Never settle. Always work on yourself. Be the best you can be. If she leaves for someone else, then she didn't see your value. If she leaves, you win and back to work on yourself at 100%. Don't do generalities too, every man and woman are different. Just compare to your old self everyday. I swear to you it will come.
Jordan Peterson mentioned that you should ask yourself what kind of person you want. You should know your boundaries / limitations and what you want out of a relationship. Once you select someone who fits that, now it's up to you and that person to invest in that relationship to make it work. Jordan Peterson said in a different video that you don't find the perfect relationship, you "make" it. It doesn't fall on your lap. You pick a person and do your best to make it work. You have to put value in that relationship yourself. It's not something you find. It's something you make. And if you want to know how to select the right person to make it with then reread the beginning of this post.
@@milmil5350 No such a thing as a right person. You don't find love, you aligned with love and when you do...that person you'll love the most in the world might match none of the conditions you had for what you wanted in the first place. Unconditional love is surprisingly real and deep.
Choosing requires knowing how you want and need to be loved. Perhaps one day, someone will have the same knowing and you will recognise the person in someone you already know or maybe you will bump into someone new while doing something completely else then searching for love.
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Hire a photographer to take better pictures for Tinder. Don't post bathroom selfies. The real challenge nowadays is getting into a 1 on 1 discussion with females in the first place, after that it tends to work itself out.
Well, a man can be clean, smart, good looking, kind, generous and what not and yet all that don't guarantee a chemistry of love. If that'd be it...we are all in a big trouble because what if someone better comes in your way every month?
Never settle. Always work on yourself. Be the best you can be. If she leaves for someone else, then she didn't see your value. If she leaves, you win and back to work on yourself at 100%. Don't do generalities too, every man and woman are different. Just compare to your old self everyday. I swear to you it will come.
Jordan Peterson mentioned that you should ask yourself what kind of person you want. You should know your boundaries / limitations and what you want out of a relationship. Once you select someone who fits that, now it's up to you and that person to invest in that relationship to make it work. Jordan Peterson said in a different video that you don't find the perfect relationship, you "make" it. It doesn't fall on your lap. You pick a person and do your best to make it work. You have to put value in that relationship yourself. It's not something you find. It's something you make. And if you want to know how to select the right person to make it with then reread the beginning of this post.
@@milmil5350 No such a thing as a right person. You don't find love, you aligned with love and when you do...that person you'll love the most in the world might match none of the conditions you had for what you wanted in the first place. Unconditional love is surprisingly real and deep.
Choosing requires knowing how you want and need to be loved. Perhaps one day, someone will have the same knowing and you will recognise the person in someone you already know or maybe you will bump into someone new while doing something completely else then searching for love.