how i stay unbothered by haters (+ reading MEAN comments!) | Glowing Up Ep 25

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  • Опубликовано: 26 июл 2024
  • we all have haters, mine are just more public than yours. in this episode, i talk about how i deal with haters and i hope it helps you deal with yours. but first.... i read a bunch of hate comments about me lolol enjoy~
    0:00 - Intro
    0:53 - Reading Hate Comments
    10:26 - How I Deal With Hate Comments
    11:10 - Why I Made This Video
    13:35 - Outro
    Shot on Canon EOS R6 (bit.ly/sgcanon) by Dom
    Edited by Me & Cinegang.sg
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Комментарии • 76

  • @AnnetteLeeMusic
    @AnnetteLeeMusic  3 месяца назад +12

    GUYS so i didnt expect all the love in the comments but i just wna say i appreciate all your kind words!😂🫶 and don’t worry, i actually don’t have a lot of hate - the team had to scour the internet over the past few years to find material for this vid + most of them aren’t even on my own platforms haha. i know many of you are super supportive of what i do and it’s more than encouraging thank you ;)

  • @tuckwengtor9421
    @tuckwengtor9421 3 месяца назад +25

    Annette, don’t feel sad or disheartened. For every one hater out there, you have easily 20 to 30 others that appreciate your creativity and funny bones!!
    Keep your engine running as the every 20 or 30 of us out here are longing to appreciate your work!🥰

    • @corellianjedi2483
      @corellianjedi2483 3 месяца назад

      It's not that, she lived within 1km of of her school and about her sad family experiences. I hv a friend who's a Peranakan, his grandpa used to live in Emerald Hill but till his father he was born in 3 Room in Yishun and not that Yishun. I have another friend, White Eurasian, grandpa lived in Katong but now lived in Teck Whye. You gotta ask her what happened. Those that see are model examples. The Social Studies textbook is damn in accurate bro. Ask her if she talks bro.

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  3 месяца назад +7

      @tuckwengtor9421 haha thank you that is very kind of you !! but don't worry i'm not disheartened! + i know that there are many supportive people like you out there and i rly appreciate it🫶🏻

    • @corellianjedi2483
      @corellianjedi2483 3 месяца назад

      @@AnnetteLeeMusic Nobody said anything about Le Bernardin selling fake Kobe beef dishes, huh!!! Think about it.

  • @Loki274.5
    @Loki274.5 3 месяца назад +5

    I envy the amount of time your haters have to spew pointless things.
    Cos if i had that amount of time, i would rewatch all your skits esp with Sgag to relive the laughter.
    You. Are. Amazing!!

  • @forgarh
    @forgarh 3 месяца назад +2

    Thanks for doing this Annette! It's really motivational, and i really think that there would be haters no matter what

  • @benquek9173
    @benquek9173 3 месяца назад +1

    Wooo thanks Annette for this! This is so good. You are really so grounded & down to earth. When I met you in person you were so easy to talk to & so kind. definitely not snobbish at all.

  • @alexischeong4730
    @alexischeong4730 3 месяца назад +3

    Thanks for sharing your experiences - the bad and ugly comments. I've learnt from you. Sad to say that even in some families, there are haters. Just stick close to the lovers 💓 and I like you!

  • @R0B__
    @R0B__ Месяц назад

    I really like your videos with Zermat. I don't have any negative comments for you. You seem very genuine. Thank you for your vlogs 😊

  • @trevorthai1685
    @trevorthai1685 3 месяца назад

    Thanks for sharing your experiences Annette!! There will always be haters out there and people who tear down others to feel good, but keep glowing and staying on your path ✨
    You’re such a natural and talented individual and growing each day 🌱 and love your content!! Btw my mum watched you speak and inspire youths at Nan Hua High School recently and that’s so great too

  • @danielong8931
    @danielong8931 3 месяца назад +1

    we love you annette!

  • @ellan0r
    @ellan0r 3 месяца назад

    Thanks Annette - great message! ❤

  • @user-op1ig5ji7j
    @user-op1ig5ji7j 2 месяца назад

    Love your content and personality Annette!! Love your Aunty Susan and Zermatt videos

  • @madlabyrinth
    @madlabyrinth 3 месяца назад

    Thanks Annette! I personally think you look refreshingly pretty and have a great personality. Love your contents btw! 🎉

  • @AgreenTortoise
    @AgreenTortoise 3 месяца назад

    This video was so timely. Been struggling to move on from haters in life. I think you've shared such an important message and it is truly inspiring. I always love seeing you pop-up on my instagram feed, your videos are hilarious and you are so creative! Thank you for being you, Annette!
    p.s. i don't think your eyes are small

  • @nigelchung86
    @nigelchung86 3 месяца назад +1

    Be yourself . Annette . 😊keep going .

  • @caiaaron3139
    @caiaaron3139 3 месяца назад

    Good job on dealing with the hate comments. It is very brave of you to put yourself out there.

  • @deboraharief8606
    @deboraharief8606 3 месяца назад

    awesome Annette!!! ^^

  • @MsLilac88
    @MsLilac88 3 месяца назад

    Hello Annette, I enjoy watching your videos, there are haters on social media, I am doing content during my free time, don’t feel discouraged. 💜

  • @matreen427
    @matreen427 2 месяца назад

    the silver spoon part… cos you sometimes film in your parents’ place (bungalow with a swimming pool)

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  2 месяца назад

      that is not at all my parents' place but appreciate you commenting here so i can clarify that! :)

  • @AW-js2tc
    @AW-js2tc 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻. Very well said indeed. Finally you look natural and sweet 💐.

  • @JP-ee7qq
    @JP-ee7qq 3 месяца назад

    I think that you are such a talented young lady with a lot of potential. Love your simplicity and humour. Yeah❤

  • @moonhmy5517
    @moonhmy5517 2 месяца назад

    I just want to tell you
    1st, There's nothing wrong with your eyes.
    2nd, your videos are very relatable and funny.
    3rd, everyone has haters. I have lots. Public figures see their haters more because they are in eyes of the public.

  • @mrrafraf12
    @mrrafraf12 2 месяца назад

    We can never please everyone in this life! Just do what you are good at and like. Life is too short to please everyone. There will always be haters.

  • @alui5362
    @alui5362 3 месяца назад

    ur all right, annette

  • @jq5999
    @jq5999 3 месяца назад +5

    haha inb4 edmwers......
    annette zehzeh mai huanlo those BBFA edmwers hokays? chiu are the best! 123 321 annette annette lumber huan!!! :o

  • @dmang0
    @dmang0 3 месяца назад +3

    You're amazing

  • @lolfashionistalove5478
    @lolfashionistalove5478 3 месяца назад

    I think u r incredibly talented ! U definitely managed to Chope 我的❤

  • @spencerchapmanbarra7888
    @spencerchapmanbarra7888 3 месяца назад

    As a famous person called Taylor Swift once sang in a song called Ours "people throw rocks at things that shine". You are a gem! Chin up girl....

  • @twinpok1
    @twinpok1 2 месяца назад

    Loves your videos Annette :) pls come up with videos on how to deal with workplace bullying and workplace politics :) thanks :) like how to stand up against workplace bullies etc :) it's like 1 against 5 mean girls cliques

  • @nelsontyc
    @nelsontyc 3 месяца назад

    Having met Annette in real life before, she really gave me the impression that she's a down to earth and nice person! Totally not like what the haters said at all...

  • @kmwongeworldusa
    @kmwongeworldusa 3 месяца назад

    your English is much and much more better than majority Singaporean.Altough i am not from English school,i can feel you are talented.give my support to you

  • @faith7479
    @faith7479 3 месяца назад +2

    Keep doing what you do! My family ❤ you. Thanks for bringing us all the fun content.

  • @jamesjuze
    @jamesjuze 3 месяца назад

    thanks for sharing this annette. somehow people are just nasty when they dont need to show their face

  • @kevintan8503
    @kevintan8503 3 месяца назад

    I think you look cute and yes you have the Sharon au vibes! Enjoy your videos!

  • @debsmethermark8884
    @debsmethermark8884 3 месяца назад +1

    Just had a bad day at work and cried about how I seem to always meet bullies in my life (from pri sch, sec sch etc.). Now, its my boss. and just feels like she always pick on me and it really suck. Wept my tears away, got up to pump (yeap im a mum with a 9mo), and watched your video. How timely. Any advice on standing up to boss bullies? haha. Thanks for the content that brought a smile to my face :')

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  3 месяца назад

      aw im so sorry to hear that !! :(( one thing i found useful was to go into meetings expecting the worst-case things to be said to you so that it doesnt come as a shock🤣 + also go in prepared with notes so you can stay on track in conversations and not get emotional. but if it gets too abusive you should leave! i actually did an earlier episode with The Woke Salaryman discussing workplace politics and similar things i hope it'll be useful i'll link it here! ruclips.net/video/0x3vzBlv4s8/видео.html
      praying that things work out for you, sending you tons of hugs 💕💕💕

  • @weaponsteam6464
    @weaponsteam6464 3 месяца назад

    the world would be a better place if there are more parents who teach their kids how to be nice to others (or at least be a decent human being) than parents who need to teach their kids how to stand up for themselves
    also Annette is bae

  • @JKNana
    @JKNana 3 месяца назад

    Those hate comments does not make any sense at all! Just be u! 😍

  • @joshnlil
    @joshnlil 3 месяца назад +6

    Do not be affected by these nonsensical comments.

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  3 месяца назад +2

      haha dont worry im not! some of these were actually quite funny. esp the ones that confused me🤣

  • @spencerchapmanbarra7888
    @spencerchapmanbarra7888 3 месяца назад

    Its called tall poppy syndrome. People love to intentionally knock others pure jealousy! Keep it up girl your Singlish is awesome!

  • @pohhonglim6718
    @pohhonglim6718 3 месяца назад

    Annette,to us you are 👍keep it up🍺cheers

  • @Laura-fj7dk
    @Laura-fj7dk 2 месяца назад

    ❤ ur shirt! May I know where u get it?

  • @wengkiong
    @wengkiong 3 месяца назад

    Haters are most probably losers in life. They treat celebrities as public toilets to dump their frustrations with life and themselves, in order to feel better. Best to ignore and move on.

  • @kmwongeworldusa
    @kmwongeworldusa 3 месяца назад

    i think you can become news presenter ,like Angela lim.your pronou cation is clear and good.

  • @KingfisherSG
    @KingfisherSG 3 месяца назад

    Why would anyone hate Annette? You should focus your energy on positive comments. I’m sure that there are many.

  • @ThaoNguyen-hk3zl
    @ThaoNguyen-hk3zl 3 месяца назад

    Is it just me or Singlish sounds very nice

  • @ylein6508
    @ylein6508 3 месяца назад

    Huh got haters meh, I love Annette leh. I like having her on zermatt show too.
    Btw, I find her small eyes charming leh.

  • @mamalingmong
    @mamalingmong 3 месяца назад

    Please teach us some ways!

  • @pinkette
    @pinkette 3 месяца назад +2

    What if the person who accused you of having a silver spoon didnt realise your web series was....not real life 😶

  • @joellepangstmargaretps2206
    @joellepangstmargaretps2206 3 месяца назад

    NO BUT I LOVED ASIAN BILLIONARES😭❤

  • @BenjaminKhengMusic
    @BenjaminKhengMusic 3 месяца назад +1

    UGH I bet she doesn’t know the names of cai fan dishes 😩😩😩🙄🙄🙄

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  3 месяца назад

      yah benjamin kheng also i bet both of them BKY when ordering 😫😫

  • @jordonwee-xc7ij
    @jordonwee-xc7ij День назад

    Annette

  • @perryton
    @perryton 3 месяца назад

    Haters gonna hate…. They were just jealous of you.

  • @LVPictures
    @LVPictures 3 месяца назад

    does this mean that if i camp at imm i will be able to stand 2m away from u and smile at u?

  • @user-xe6jn3ir8w
    @user-xe6jn3ir8w 3 месяца назад

    Why is the comments mostly in 2022? I guess that means lesser now haha.
    Either ways, haters also mean they watching you. That's good :)
    Saw you once at town but kept polite distant to not distrupt you ahah

    • @AnnetteLeeMusic
      @AnnetteLeeMusic  3 месяца назад +1

      haha yes i'm very thankful that overall i don't have many! and aw come say hi next time! :)

  • @tareginda
    @tareginda 3 месяца назад

    I find it funny you are living rent free in haters brain and they even find the time and energy to spew hate online. The insult about small eyes... We are Asians, what do they expect? (give you honey ginseng tea for too much fire)

  • @plinb8
    @plinb8 2 месяца назад

    Your looks remind me of Pamelyn Chee .

  • @fusioncrews5329
    @fusioncrews5329 Месяц назад

    lol, its completely normal for people craving attention to make fake stories about famous people. that's their way of coping with their own lives.

  • @socioecohistorywordpress5268
    @socioecohistorywordpress5268 3 месяца назад

    👍👍💚💚🧡🧡💛💛💙💙👍👍

  • @noisybikeskarma
    @noisybikeskarma 3 месяца назад

    I saw some of these haters at even lorongs of Geylang, dunno what they are up to there? Do you think the haters bother about this possible made up happening about them? AOTD *think abt it*

  • @jasonkoh-zn1so
    @jasonkoh-zn1so 3 месяца назад

    I actually find you attractive and very talented. Your acting skills are better than those on MediaCorp.
    However, some of the characters you do are too similar to what Michelle Chong did previously. Should also avoid doing male characters - because they're not male/manly enough.

  • @kichaa13
    @kichaa13 3 месяца назад

    Edmw incels

  • @cchan4739
    @cchan4739 Месяц назад

    was initially with u but your holier than thou attitude really did come through in this video. sorry, no longer a fan now.

    • @madmoviekid
      @madmoviekid 22 дня назад

      If there is ever a Part 2 … don’t be surprised if you see this comment pop up -_-

  • @nest4babe
    @nest4babe 3 месяца назад

    Love yr T shirt👍

  • @dlmhdlmh
    @dlmhdlmh 3 месяца назад

    I helpchu scold my hater friend FyV @viwen