Absolutely, it can be incredibly traumatic and draining. Recognizing the impact is the first step toward healing, and I'm glad you’re here sharing your thoughts. Thank you for contributing to the conversation!
He left me with bills for credit card. I paid it off and removed his name as well! I told him that I was well established before I met him. He will not take me down! ! It will take more than he would ever be to take me down. I told him. Was I hurt? Of course because I loved him so much. But this too shall pass!!!!
You handled that situation with incredible strength! Paying off those bills and reclaiming your independence shows just how resilient you are. It’s normal to feel hurt, but your determination to rise above is inspiring. Keep shining!
They will only come back for Narcissistic supply! A Narcissist only cares about their needs and self interests and they will only see you as submissive provider to meet their needs. They lack empathy and they are self absorbed.
Exactly! Narcissists often view relationships as a way to fulfill their own needs without regard for others. It's crucial to recognize this pattern to protect ourselves. Thank you for sharing your insights!
It’s about them not being able to maintain the act (mask) so they keep things going until they feel you are setting boundaries and cottoning on to who they really are. They monkey branch and aim to quit the relationship before you do to maintain control and to minimise the injury to their fragile self
Exactly! It's all about their need for control and maintaining their facade. Recognizing these patterns is crucial for breaking free and protecting ourselves. Thank you for sharing your insights!
It's great that you stood your ground and chose to be friendly! Narcissists often try to control our actions, but maintaining your kindness and independence is so important. Keep being yourself!
After the wedding he told me to put his name on my house and bank accounts. I looked at him and said," really? Said who?" I just gave him a smile. He never post our pictures together. After that, he took of for Japan for the first time for 2 weeks. He got inheritance money from grandma and took off!
It sounds like you were really wise to question his intentions! Trusting your instincts is so important, especially in relationships where manipulation might be at play. It’s a red flag when someone tries to control your assets, and it’s great that you stood your ground. Wishing you strength as you move forward!
I'm glad to hear that the description resonated with you! It’s important to shed light on these experiences, and I appreciate you taking the time to engage with the content.
oh my goodness. I feel that this video is exactly describing my experience with my ex-wife and 15 years of narcissistic abuse. Ten years of no contact and I realize I still have more healing to do. I am certain there are many viewers who also feel every word resonates with them! Thank you for creating this channel-lifesaving information.
I’m so glad to hear that the video resonates with your experience. Healing is a journey, and it's important to acknowledge that it can take time. Thank you for sharing your story, and I'm grateful that this channel can provide support to you and others!
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. It’s tough dealing with such manipulation, especially in legal situations. Remember to stay strong and focus on your well-being. Wishing you the best in court next week!
That’s a powerful way to put it! Their manipulative behavior can feel truly destructive, almost like they’re spreading negativity. Recognizing this is an important step in protecting ourselves. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
I usually walk faster than him. He would stop and made me come back to him or he would turn around and walk home. His excuses would be that we can't go for a walk together because I walk too fast and so on. I don't care. I do what I do. He didn't want to start with me because I will not stop. I will let him have it to the point that he has to leave my house. Sometimes he ran home to his parents or a temple. Lack of respect and gratitude human being!!!! I told him!
It sounds like you were really assertive in standing your ground! It's important to prioritize your own pace and needs in a relationship. Recognizing and addressing disrespect is crucial, and it’s clear you know your worth. Keep being strong and true to yourself!
If they break off the relationship, that fuel is regular. If I break off the relationships, that fuel is for jets! 🤔💥 Fly high little narc, then crash. 😮
That's a clever way to put it! It’s true that when we take control and end the relationship, it can really shake them up. Your strength is inspiring. wishing you all the best as you move forward!
🔴The Narcissist Cuts You Off But It's Driving Them Crazy! 👇🏼
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Being in a relationship with a Narcissist is the most traumatic experience.
Absolutely, it can be incredibly traumatic and draining. Recognizing the impact is the first step toward healing, and I'm glad you’re here sharing your thoughts. Thank you for contributing to the conversation!
He left me with bills for credit card. I paid it off and removed his name as well! I told him that I was well established before I met him. He will not take me down! ! It will take more than he would ever be to take me down. I told him. Was I hurt? Of course because I loved him so much. But this too shall pass!!!!
You handled that situation with incredible strength! Paying off those bills and reclaiming your independence shows just how resilient you are. It’s normal to feel hurt, but your determination to rise above is inspiring. Keep shining!
They will only come back for Narcissistic supply! A Narcissist only cares about their needs and self interests and they will only see you as submissive provider to meet their needs. They lack empathy and they are self absorbed.
Exactly! Narcissists often view relationships as a way to fulfill their own needs without regard for others. It's crucial to recognize this pattern to protect ourselves. Thank you for sharing your insights!
It’s about them not being able to maintain the act (mask) so they keep things going until they feel you are setting boundaries and cottoning on to who they really are. They monkey branch and aim to quit the relationship before you do to maintain control and to minimise the injury to their fragile self
Exactly! It's all about their need for control and maintaining their facade. Recognizing these patterns is crucial for breaking free and protecting ourselves. Thank you for sharing your insights!
Yes, he told me not to say good morning to a stranger. I said, why not! I will say hi to whoever I feel like!
It's great that you stood your ground and chose to be friendly! Narcissists often try to control our actions, but maintaining your kindness and independence is so important. Keep being yourself!
After the wedding he told me to put his name on my house and bank accounts. I looked at him and said," really? Said who?" I just gave him a smile. He never post our pictures together. After that, he took of for Japan for the first time for 2 weeks. He got inheritance money from grandma and took off!
It sounds like you were really wise to question his intentions! Trusting your instincts is so important, especially in relationships where manipulation might be at play. It’s a red flag when someone tries to control your assets, and it’s great that you stood your ground. Wishing you strength as you move forward!
I have read your discription from this video and it's true.
I'm glad to hear that the description resonated with you! It’s important to shed light on these experiences, and I appreciate you taking the time to engage with the content.
oh my goodness. I feel that this video is exactly describing my experience with my ex-wife and 15 years of narcissistic abuse. Ten years of no contact and I realize I still have more healing to do.
I am certain there are many viewers who also feel every word resonates with them!
Thank you for creating this channel-lifesaving information.
I’m so glad to hear that the video resonates with your experience. Healing is a journey, and it's important to acknowledge that it can take time. Thank you for sharing your story, and I'm grateful that this channel can provide support to you and others!
We go to court next Friday over nothing. My narc is so sick she will use court to crush me.
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. It’s tough dealing with such manipulation, especially in legal situations. Remember to stay strong and focus on your well-being. Wishing you the best in court next week!
They do the devil's bidding !
That’s a powerful way to put it! Their manipulative behavior can feel truly destructive, almost like they’re spreading negativity. Recognizing this is an important step in protecting ourselves. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
I usually walk faster than him. He would stop and made me come back to him or he would turn around and walk home. His excuses would be that we can't go for a walk together because I walk too fast and so on. I don't care. I do what I do. He didn't want to start with me because I will not stop. I will let him have it to the point that he has to leave my house. Sometimes he ran home to his parents or a temple. Lack of respect and gratitude human being!!!! I told him!
It sounds like you were really assertive in standing your ground! It's important to prioritize your own pace and needs in a relationship. Recognizing and addressing disrespect is crucial, and it’s clear you know your worth. Keep being strong and true to yourself!
Thanks!
You're welcome! I'm glad you found the video helpful.
If they break off the relationship, that fuel is regular. If I break off the relationships, that fuel is for jets! 🤔💥 Fly high little narc, then crash. 😮
That's a clever way to put it! It’s true that when we take control and end the relationship, it can really shake them up. Your strength is inspiring. wishing you all the best as you move forward!