How craving attention makes you less creative | Joseph Gordon-Levitt

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • Joseph Gordon-Levitt has gotten more than his fair share of attention from his acting career. But as social media exploded over the past decade, he got addicted like the rest of us -- trying to gain followers and likes only to be left feeling inadequate and less creative. In a refreshingly honest talk, he explores how the attention-driven model of big tech companies impacts our creativity -- and shares a more powerful feeling than getting attention: paying attention.
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  • @mariosuena
    @mariosuena 5 лет назад +5224

    Wow I remember working with this guy at a greeting card company, super creative guy, said he wanted to be an architect or something.

    • @broadwayzjm5257
      @broadwayzjm5257 5 лет назад +534

      didn't he date that one freaky chick with the bangs? she was hot

    • @syndicateisreal6360
      @syndicateisreal6360 5 лет назад +141

      @@broadwayzjm5257 Same girl who is paranoid about disaster to happen??

    • @kaedence____
      @kaedence____ 5 лет назад +117

      Lol i loved 500 days of summer

    • @nlnd6490
      @nlnd6490 5 лет назад +67

      Glad he’s okay now.

    • @top20s70
      @top20s70 5 лет назад +57

      Those were great 500 days

  • @beverlysuej8583
    @beverlysuej8583 5 лет назад +14381

    "I'm an actor so I'm a bit of an expert on..nothing" gotta love his sense of humor.

    • @tectomes
      @tectomes 5 лет назад +458

      That joke was practically a necessity for the crowd to let go of their preconceptions and... pay attention.

    • @thehellyousay
      @thehellyousay 5 лет назад +83

      That wasn't a joke. Just because people laughed doesn't make it a joke. It just makes it true.

    • @thehellyousay
      @thehellyousay 5 лет назад +52

      @@tectomes
      He stands before an already receptive crowd.
      Actors, after all, are pretenders. Not artists. It's a skill, not a talent, and interest in it often manifests more readily in narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths (I'm no psychologists, I just see a very distinct difference between disconnected from reality and disconnected from people.

    • @tectomes
      @tectomes 5 лет назад +148

      @Carl Bailey You gonna be okay, bud?

    • @prezrickard
      @prezrickard 5 лет назад +13

      The opposite of getting attention is not paying attention : it’s giving attention. The opposite of being worshipped is worshipping. But I think with being worshipped and worshipping, both have the same (not opposite) outcome : unhappiness. So where is the fallacy here.... What is the difference between JGL focusing on his craft when he’s acting, and a Taylor Swift fan empathically feeling the hurt and the anger when their idol is attacked.

  • @nathmartins3154
    @nathmartins3154 Год назад +8

    I really needed this. I’ve watched a LOT of videos about seeking validation and I’ve talked to my psychologist about this, but it’s the first time I actually see an actor talking about this and it’s exactly what I need right now as an actress. Recently, I’ve been feeling like I’m never really IN the scene, I’m always thinking about what people are gonna think of my performance and I KNOW this is terrible. So this video helped a lot, thanks💖

  • @itsnotyasir
    @itsnotyasir 5 лет назад +10

    That love in his eyes when he is talking about acting is what makes him an exceptionally great actor.

  • @chachi16xo
    @chachi16xo 2 года назад +14

    This talk actually changed my life in 2020 and sent me on a journey through some deep self development. Thank you Joseph 🧡

    • @Zoya194
      @Zoya194 2 года назад +2

      Please do share more. Would love to know. I’m hoping it would do the same for me.

    • @DiegoNavaja
      @DiegoNavaja Год назад

      Yes, tell us more. Ir World be useful

  • @suruj9860
    @suruj9860 3 года назад +9

    I always hated him for the scene he did with Scarlett Johansson in the film don jon but not now . After listening to this he taught me a good lesson.

    • @emmamonnely3124
      @emmamonnely3124 3 года назад

      Which one?i'm curious i saw the movie not too long ago

  • @alexiverson3056
    @alexiverson3056 5 лет назад +57

    Hey Joesph G.-Levitt, I tried going on your site hitrecord after watching your TED talk. I've never tried doing visual art until I cut social media out of my life and what your saying highly resonated with me because I'm happier now finding outlets visually and paying attention in many ways myself. I would like to put my art up on your site and see what others are doing as well. This is probably weird af but who wouldn't look at the comments on their own TED talk. I know it is a dream of mine to speak to the TED community one day so congrats and I hope I can show you the fruits of my artistic labor on your site soon.

    • @grungecrunge
      @grungecrunge 5 лет назад +6

      Good luck, I’ll cross my fingers for you. Glad you’re happier now :)

  • @Readraid_
    @Readraid_ Год назад +2

    *one guy claps*
    'thanks haha'
    actual GOAT right here

  • @ivotenotocensorship5247
    @ivotenotocensorship5247 5 лет назад +8

    You know what's crazy? Is that this man spent his entire life acting and on TV and yet you can tell how nervous he is with this speech. Public speaking is truly a skill which requires experience.

  • @manojpandey7517
    @manojpandey7517 3 года назад

    I watch this video. Commit to myself not to indulge in any attention-seeking acts again. I again get distracted, few more days are wasted in this vicious cycle. Then a random day this video again pops up, I re-watch it, only to regret why I couldn't hold to it. The pull of habit is so huge, you see.

  • @mughalgarden
    @mughalgarden 3 года назад +1

    He has figured it out well!

  • @YourPainting1
    @YourPainting1 5 лет назад +20

    such a handsome guy

  • @armintoghi6769
    @armintoghi6769 3 года назад

    look at your desire that makes you to get more attention. just look at it. Don't fight with it. if you just see, it will disappear.

  • @nemesis8850
    @nemesis8850 5 лет назад +34

    Joseph Gordon Levitt: Don't crave attention.
    Also Joseph Gordon Levitt: Seeing how many comments this video got

  • @angelostevengeronimourruti340
    @angelostevengeronimourruti340 3 года назад

    Flow... A word that changes my recent life

  • @vakshalakiritharan7397
    @vakshalakiritharan7397 4 года назад

    Wonderful attention. Wow Thank you.

  • @PakRT48
    @PakRT48 3 года назад

    The goal is to reach the end of self. Once one has reached the end of one's self, life begins.

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 2 года назад +1

    "..The more unhappier I become!"
    Is that even a word? 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

  • @jenng.e.7652
    @jenng.e.7652 5 лет назад +23464

    “If your creativity is driven by a desire to get attention, you are never going to be creatively fulfilled”

    • @lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385
      @lovepeaceisneverguaranteed7385 5 лет назад +31

      Well said:/

    • @Clickle
      @Clickle 5 лет назад +36

      I'm gonna be that guy.
      It's fulfilled.
      EDIT: Thx :)

    • @ashcatchum
      @ashcatchum 5 лет назад +20

      Jenn G. E. This is not profound information at all

    • @tshclo
      @tshclo 5 лет назад +7

      dang i felt tthat

    • @aralco001
      @aralco001 5 лет назад +89

      @@ashcatchum The statement is a good reminder.

  • @xorbe2
    @xorbe2 3 года назад +2931

    "See your peers as collaborators not competition" ... this is the entire problem with many work places. And people refuse to help each other!

    • @sabrinawanderer7560
      @sabrinawanderer7560 3 года назад +7

      100% agree!

    • @teti9087
      @teti9087 3 года назад +50

      The thing is.. in a lot of workplaces.. they want us to see each other as competitors. All that matters is how much money we bring in.

    • @Ashley-ro4xz
      @Ashley-ro4xz 3 года назад +18

      Literally in this world. We don’t help one another and we’re at each other’s throats

    • @Louis13XIII
      @Louis13XIII 3 года назад +14

      As the proverb says: “among two fighters the third benefits”

    • @JaysonT1
      @JaysonT1 3 года назад +17

      This is the problem with western culture. Western culture inspires unhealthy competition, being #1, big money , me me me

  • @oldtrees3564
    @oldtrees3564 5 лет назад +4967

    *me on vid 10 of my YT binge: “I’m so glad I’m not addicted to Instagram.”

    • @terryvanbelle
      @terryvanbelle 5 лет назад +290

      But if you're on a YT bing, aren't you paying more attention than you're getting? So that's a good thing, right? Right?

    • @dancegod1691
      @dancegod1691 5 лет назад +31

      Lmao good point I got a problem

    • @Biracialbaddie
      @Biracialbaddie 5 лет назад +5

      😆😂😂😂😂😂

    • @nairabee245
      @nairabee245 5 лет назад +108

      Joe Rothwell facts. I have no other social media but I’m addicted to watching RUclips.

    • @LordVoldore
      @LordVoldore 5 лет назад +11

      I think all my followers are bots lol I don't know but I look at it as a photo journal

  • @ok.7014
    @ok.7014 5 лет назад +9618

    gotta admit, I clicked because Joseph Gordon-Levitt had my attention

  • @allthewayfrom
    @allthewayfrom 5 лет назад +11314

    I’m not an actor, but I took some classes many years ago. Our teacher used to say: “Be interested, not interesting.” This has been most useful advice for me when interacting with people and with the world.

    • @R3DPandaLP
      @R3DPandaLP 4 года назад +212

      to be interesting is to be interested, that is the number one rule of Dale Carnegie.

    • @nathandrake711
      @nathandrake711 4 года назад +8

      @@baodau2230 you're literally too stupid to insult

    • @Faherd
      @Faherd 4 года назад +1

      Nathan Drake I think he was kidding dude...lmao

    • @strangenessandcharms
      @strangenessandcharms 4 года назад +22

      wow that's a very, very useful advice.

    • @bryanhuitz12
      @bryanhuitz12 4 года назад +8

      What a great advice, thanks

  • @karanbhandari2757
    @karanbhandari2757 3 года назад +605

    this is the social dilemma explained in 15 min

    • @NoraGermain
      @NoraGermain 3 года назад +43

      kinda except he didn't go into the cryptic and dangerous world of surveillance capitalism and its ability to change people's behavior and values without them knowing, not to mention the deep sadness that comes with realizing that many of world's smartest people are working not on curing diseases or solving climate change... but selling more ads :(

  • @alrightride
    @alrightride 4 года назад +2778

    actors can sound so wise and smart when not being interviewed by E news.

    • @dayekh
      @dayekh 3 года назад +36

      evil corp

    • @NameNik223
      @NameNik223 3 года назад +50

      I know, right? It even seems like they are real people

    • @Micelii
      @Micelii 3 года назад +3

      This guy sounds idk robot

    • @aurorajudith-ramirez7389
      @aurorajudith-ramirez7389 3 года назад +32

      @@NameNik223 They are real people. You can’t fully blame the media because the masses decided it was okay to dehumanize actors, models and other successful people. They are human and so many internet trolls forget that when they decide to treat celebrities like they aren’t real human beings with feelings and emotions just like you at the end of the day.

    • @NameNik223
      @NameNik223 3 года назад +17

      @@aurorajudith-ramirez7389 My comment was sarcastic

  • @johnny_roots
    @johnny_roots 4 года назад +5483

    He as a public person and being able to admit to his insecurities and everything... Gotta admire how humble this guy is and the way he uses this to create connection with the audience.

    • @stienbuts3390
      @stienbuts3390 4 года назад +14

      Exactly!

    • @garimabajaj7443
      @garimabajaj7443 4 года назад +7

      Totally agreed!

    • @noblethomas4241
      @noblethomas4241 4 года назад +15

      Júlio Barboza Chiquetto STOP GIVING HIM ATTENTION!!!!! Jk i totally agree

    • @Pogdub
      @Pogdub 4 года назад +27

      Yeah man, anytime I've seen JGL, he's on-point as a real, positive, high-quality human.

    • @deannelson102
      @deannelson102 4 года назад +5

      And in the end isn't this whole performance just him getting attention

  • @Samnang_than
    @Samnang_than 4 года назад +2312

    "I try not to see other creative people as my competitors. I try to find collaborators."

    • @BobbyBundlez
      @BobbyBundlez 4 года назад +54

      i changed my entire perspective regarding music production with this new perspective about a year ago.. and i can definitely say its helped with creativity and overall positive energy in my craft

    • @Xitaychin
      @Xitaychin 4 года назад +17

      It is so helpful! Now i look at all those people in a different way and I'm like "oh my god i wanna sing with this dude, i wanna draw smth together with that! People I do love you!!!"

    • @user-ey1ms7dj8i
      @user-ey1ms7dj8i 4 года назад +2

      @@Xitaychin yea its a great word thou im suprise. I think I wanna stan him.💖

    • @arborn6115
      @arborn6115 3 года назад +1

      If we would just bring up children with that kind of mindset...

  • @FaustinaFalcon8
    @FaustinaFalcon8 3 года назад +701

    This is one of those things that most people probably know instinctively but need to be reminded of often, myself included.

    • @Mkqvtlll
      @Mkqvtlll 3 года назад +18

      Yeah, sometimes idk how to verbalized my feelings

    • @vaibhavi.singh.
      @vaibhavi.singh. 3 года назад +9

      Exactly! Putting to words what you believe in is not always easy.

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino Год назад +2

      @@Mkqvtlll it'll become more clear as you exercise your humility and open/honesty with yourself.

    • @Mkqvtlll
      @Mkqvtlll Год назад

      @@Kinobambino Thanks for the words, I'll really take it into account

    • @drewmaster2002
      @drewmaster2002 2 месяца назад

      💯

  • @ishikamishra5909
    @ishikamishra5909 4 года назад +2745

    ok this algorithm is getting a little to specific

  • @bradahn4090
    @bradahn4090 5 лет назад +5557

    “Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.” - Albert Einstein

  • @fitria2710
    @fitria2710 5 лет назад +775

    "Stop compete, let's complete."
    My motto is related with this.

    • @fitria2710
      @fitria2710 5 лет назад +11

      @Eric T. Duckman It's because I see the life I live today feels like a competition. "I want to be the most..", "I want to be better than...", and so on. Feels like other people are our rivals. In fact, in this whole world we need a collaboration to make our dreams come true, we need a company. So when facing a shortage, we might need to ask other's help to complete it (learnt by them or etc)
      We are all have the strenghts and weaknesses, why don't we strengthen each other to reach our goals by the collaboration? I complete you with things you might not be able to do, and you too.
      Then
      "Stop compete, let's complete"
      That is my explanation of my motto. Thank you.

    • @leiasing76
      @leiasing76 5 лет назад +3

      Fitri Asriyanti He was suggesting an alternative version based on grammar - the intent is the same

  • @jamessandoval101
    @jamessandoval101 5 лет назад +1691

    The best flow I ever had was when I didn’t care about anyone or anything.

    • @SnootchieBootchies27
      @SnootchieBootchies27 4 года назад +49

      That's how it works. Best when you include yourself on the list of things you don't care about.

    • @raygunn95
      @raygunn95 4 года назад +14

      @@SnootchieBootchies27 I'd say that this "not caring" is usually a consequence of flow, not the setting for its emergence, though if you're generally over-concerned with things I think that would make sense.

    • @ZeroGarz
      @ZeroGarz 4 года назад +20

      Well, it is unfortunate that you have not been able to reach a strong state of flow while simultaneously caring about the world around you. To do so, one must simply be capable of shedding all outside concerns during (emphasis on during) the action/whatever it is that one is paying their attention to. All outside concerns are dropped to increase the effectiveness and efficiency of the human doing the task. (Shed all your concerns for a limited time, then come back to reality and care for your loved ones when the action/task you were using flow for is finished)
      P.S. When humans are legitimately in a state of "not caring" as in the circuitry in their brain that regulates emotion is removed or destroyed leaving one incapable to attach feelings to thought or thought to feeling, there is not a single sense or reason to perform any actions such as paying attention for them for they truly are incapable of caring for anything. Flow is when one is able to use the machinations of the human brain to focus and hone in on a particular target without letting the focus falter from distractions. Successfully reaching flow is when human and task alike are synergetically in motion, in other words, their focus is so disciplined during the flow-state that distractions are unable to hinder the action the human is doing.

    • @eaburl
      @eaburl 4 года назад +7

      There's a book on this subject. I haven't read it yet but hear it's quite good. "The Subtle Art of not giving a F*** "

    • @Xitaychin
      @Xitaychin 4 года назад +1

      I guess every flow is like this.

  • @selenagomezfan11224
    @selenagomezfan11224 5 лет назад +831

    this dude kinda look like joseph gordon levitt

    • @catboy1352
      @catboy1352 4 года назад +5

      Maya Eagles 🦅

    • @msallen1046
      @msallen1046 4 года назад +1

      ummmm...

    • @plainbun
      @plainbun 4 года назад +29

      Whooa, you got a sharp eyes!

    • @SagaelKun
      @SagaelKun 4 года назад +43

      He also speaks a bit like him, now when you mentioned it ...

    • @Marco-er4ql
      @Marco-er4ql 4 года назад +21

      I thought this was Edward Norton

  • @MNGN101
    @MNGN101 4 года назад +1165

    Dude seems like a genuine guy.

    • @blameks9136
      @blameks9136 4 года назад +4

      You gotta watch the battle between him and Seth rogen lmao

    • @mastersquishy2388
      @mastersquishy2388 4 года назад +3

      Young SnakeBDK what happened?

    • @Odin_Borson
      @Odin_Borson 4 года назад +10

      he may be but remember he is a good actor too .....

    • @akulucy
      @akulucy 4 года назад

      He is
      How do i know?
      He was on my campus

  • @smilekids7
    @smilekids7 3 года назад +549

    Funny. A week ago I deleted social media to focus on my music because I felt I was doing it just for the attention, I found this video today. I feel less stressed knowing I am creating for myself and not for others. It comes for naturally and sounds much better than when I produce just to get other people’s approval. Good talk, Mr. Levitt 👏🏼

    • @-JaggedGrace-
      @-JaggedGrace- 3 года назад +5

      What's different in your music when you make it for other people? I'm curious, because I would think that regardless of who you're making it for, you'd know what sounds good or not.

    • @23Guitardood
      @23Guitardood 3 года назад +25

      @@-JaggedGrace- it's not so much about what sounds good or not, it's about taking chances... one's more inclined to take chances and try something new and different when it's for themselves vs for other people, and there's always going to be greater fulfillment attached to that whether it sounds good or not... with other people, one might create something more in line with what they know the masses would enjoy, vs taking the risk of producing something off the beaten path that might not have the same reception amongst the masses... it might still sound good but it just won't feel as good... when one stops caring about such things, life becomes a lot more enjoyable.

    • @-JaggedGrace-
      @-JaggedGrace- 3 года назад +3

      @@23Guitardood That makes a lot of sense to me. I agree now.

    • @Rovemcmanus1312
      @Rovemcmanus1312 3 года назад +9

      I feel this, I deleted Instagram and in a couple of months my paintings have improved so much.

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino Год назад

      Thankyou for this

  • @leeolsson5271
    @leeolsson5271 5 лет назад +1387

    Love it. He comes across very genuine. Open and honest. Aware of his platform and using it right.

    • @annaleesaenglert2122
      @annaleesaenglert2122 5 лет назад +5

      Couldn't have said it better.

    • @H_Hsu
      @H_Hsu 5 лет назад +6

      I bet he has been through this relate feeling like paranoid and anxiety so he can truly understand and put the words into right order for people to understand the true value of paying attention.

    • @prezrickard
      @prezrickard 5 лет назад +2

      The opposite of getting attention is not paying attention : it’s giving attention. The opposite of being worshipped is worshipping. But I think with being worshipped and worshipping, both have the same (not opposite) outcome : unhappiness. So where is the fallacy here.... What is the difference between JGL focusing on his craft when he’s acting, and a Taylor Swift fan empathically feeling the hurt and the anger when their idol is attacked.

    • @Questforperfection23
      @Questforperfection23 5 лет назад +1

      @@prezrickard is teaching the opposite of learning, or is it the forgetting of knowledge? Perspective is the true message here.

    • @prezrickard
      @prezrickard 5 лет назад

      KD_MaK : How is perspective the message, that is so broad. Please explain, I’m seriously interested.

  • @TheGoodfella2012
    @TheGoodfella2012 5 лет назад +1499

    Honest and ballsy. Social media is mostly just bad news.
    I love this quote I came across on the internets - “I am in competition with no one. I hope we all make it.”

    • @LEO-xo9cz
      @LEO-xo9cz 5 лет назад +12

      The internet can be good if you are able to ignore the bull. Turn off your TV.

    • @lyalya6822
      @lyalya6822 5 лет назад +7

      That's a really nice quote! Thanks for sharing it :)

    • @xemoable
      @xemoable 5 лет назад

      love the quote too

    • @kylorenthehusky2584
      @kylorenthehusky2584 5 лет назад

      Love that quote

    • @elyazidasri2968
      @elyazidasri2968 5 лет назад

      We live in a soceiety

  • @Uncle_Kevin
    @Uncle_Kevin 5 лет назад +9126

    Stop reading comments and pay attention

    • @trapengineer821
      @trapengineer821 5 лет назад +32

      Uncle Kevin hahaaaa guilty

    • @1ROCKY89
      @1ROCKY89 5 лет назад +8

      Uncle Kevin yeah but I paused for an another attention assist thanks lol

    • @wendysoyl5678
      @wendysoyl5678 5 лет назад +34

      Stop commenting and pay attention

    • @yiyiluki
      @yiyiluki 5 лет назад +14

      Why you gotta call us out like that

    • @kimpastabowl1058
      @kimpastabowl1058 5 лет назад +1

      good ‘ol uncky kevin

  • @kimberlybennie5637
    @kimberlybennie5637 4 года назад +571

    "the more I go after that powerful feeling of paying attention, the HAPPIER I AM. But the more I go after the powerful feeling of getting attention, the UNHAPPIER I AM." - Joseph Gordon - Levitt.
    FOREVER MY NEW LIFE STATEMENT

    • @floatingsara
      @floatingsara 3 года назад +3

      Agree !

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino Год назад +1

      How are you Kimberly

    • @existforeternity
      @existforeternity 10 месяцев назад

      but what abt the people that have fulfilled their lives around other people, and worrying about others,, "paying attention" to their needs and what other people have to say, learning and learning etc. and so forth.. what if maybe,, they want to be paid attention to. Sometimes those who do not get to speak, need to be heard, seen. (not arguing nor disagreeing to your comment, just analyzing.)

  • @jam9859
    @jam9859 5 лет назад +3603

    Try deleting social media off your phone for like a week and see how different you feel. Its WILD y’all

    • @hrgwea
      @hrgwea 5 лет назад +203

      I don't use social media and I don't have a smartphone, just a regular cellphone to make phone calls and SMS.
      And I don't feel anything special about it.

    • @mr.breadman6731
      @mr.breadman6731 5 лет назад +335

      Hr Gwea its the difference from being used to it and not having it for a week

    • @hrgwea
      @hrgwea 5 лет назад +76

      I wonder how would the feeling change if that week turned into a month.
      Addicts won't resist.

    • @NicotinePolitics
      @NicotinePolitics 5 лет назад +305

      @@hrgwea RUclips is a social media, you are social-media-ing right now

    • @hrgwea
      @hrgwea 5 лет назад +199

      e-mail is also social media, internet forums are social media, the telephone system is social media, newspaper are social media. . . .
      And yet, nobody calls those form of communication social media.
      RUclips has never been social media either, because it's about spreading content, not people.
      Social media are websites that allow people to advertise themselves.

  • @CBAN_
    @CBAN_ 4 года назад +526

    "This to me is the beauty of the internet. If we could just stop competing for attention, then the internet becomes a great place to find collaborators"
    -Joseph Gordon-Levitt
    sums it up nicely. The internet was fun and interesting until it turned into the constant rat race it is today.

  • @nmart1n
    @nmart1n 5 лет назад +2323

    Had to just double-check it was really him.

    • @Jvst0nTime
      @Jvst0nTime 5 лет назад +13

      ikr😂

    • @aldos2889
      @aldos2889 5 лет назад +11

      Why is that?? I don't get it lol

    • @Jvst0nTime
      @Jvst0nTime 5 лет назад

      @@aldos2889 don jon

    • @nmart1n
      @nmart1n 5 лет назад +39

      Aldo S I saw the name in my notifications and it was a TED talk so I did not understand why he would be doing this. I thought it must be someone with the same name.

    • @aldos2889
      @aldos2889 5 лет назад +5

      @@nmart1n ow okay, I thought you meant something funny or a joke that I didn't understand

  • @skylinetigers4450
    @skylinetigers4450 3 года назад +918

    I'm so glad I've found this, I'm a musician who is taking a break from social media as it was making me unhappy, anxious and unproductive, Joseph has explained so succinctly what the problem is, I am happy when I'm creating and unhappy when promoting and now I know why. Thank you x

    • @Rockysbeats
      @Rockysbeats 3 года назад +38

      i agree, the promotion side feels gross and self obsessed

    • @sophieh9569
      @sophieh9569 3 года назад

      Straight facts

    • @minimalistdanse
      @minimalistdanse 3 года назад +1

      @Laurel Kardison Cos your in the wrong market like me, try making music with kids you'll be a lot happier !!

    • @roserdh1
      @roserdh1 2 года назад

      My daughter is a musician and is doing the social media break

    • @comotuabogada
      @comotuabogada 2 года назад

      Keep going! Do what you love!

  • @richardguernsey6763
    @richardguernsey6763 5 лет назад +2299

    "...if we can just stop competing for attention then the internet becomes a great place to find collaborators."

    • @Squids_Vlogs
      @Squids_Vlogs 5 лет назад +15

      Not gonna happen babe

    • @Laralinda
      @Laralinda 5 лет назад +16

      It is sad that even in science (at least in Germany) often it's only about impact factors. Today's publishers are instagram and facebook for scientists...

    • @richardguernsey6763
      @richardguernsey6763 5 лет назад +1

      @@Squids_Vlogs It's happening right now. It's all about where you avert your attention.

    • @prezrickard
      @prezrickard 5 лет назад +3

      The opposite of getting attention is not paying attention : it’s giving attention. The opposite of being worshipped is worshipping. But I think with being worshipped and worshipping, both have the same (not opposite) outcome : unhappiness. So where is the fallacy here.... What is the difference between JGL focusing on his craft when he’s acting, and a Taylor Swift fan empathically feeling the hurt and the anger when their idol is attacked.

    • @NashConte
      @NashConte 5 лет назад

      it's a very catchy statement from Joseph.

  • @DreDrexler
    @DreDrexler 4 года назад +670

    Love his transparency. Awesome message that’s helping me open up my own eyes!

    • @isbakernation
      @isbakernation 4 года назад +17

      didn't cody ko make a video on you

    • @GONDORAJKUMAR
      @GONDORAJKUMAR 3 года назад

      @@isbakernation ya lol

    • @ThanhOsc4r
      @ThanhOsc4r 3 года назад

      Not anyone can be transparent and honest like that when sharing about Attention!

    • @joshuapeng5949
      @joshuapeng5949 9 месяцев назад

      I don't know man, look at your channel

  • @khalidhakimi93
    @khalidhakimi93 3 года назад +322

    “If you want to live a happy life tie it to a goal and not to people or things” - Einstein

    • @Raymando
      @Raymando 2 года назад +5

      Ironically, sounds like an instagram quote. People and things are an essential part of our existence too. And while goals are def imp, it's actually a pretty toxic way to live day to day, especially if you have a static one - because you'll feel incomplete before it and directionless after. Just sayin xD

    • @gambasfile7157
      @gambasfile7157 2 года назад

      Is this really from einstein? Lol it doesnt really make any much sense cause a "goal" could be a thing or a person also.

    • @khalidhakimi93
      @khalidhakimi93 2 года назад +1

      @@gambasfile7157 a goal could be a person? if you're talking about getting in a relationship then it can't be because if they're not interested from the first glance then its over my friend. women lie when they say looks don't matter, they're the same as men. looks are very important and other factors play a part also such as personality and character but they come secondary when looks are not there. a goal is something which is entirely 100% by your own effort and other people have choices to be with you in whether relationships, friendships or business.

    • @timefast3233
      @timefast3233 2 года назад

      Humans are social animal

  • @rilpapers
    @rilpapers 4 года назад +364

    I felt it. Everytimes i was trying to write something as a means to get an attention,my writing always messed up and the reader knew that i'm just giving them a blank message to show how smart i am. But,when i wrote something only because i want to,my writing becomes pure and they actually praise it. Even though i wasn't expecting that.

    • @shofiyanafutri2097
      @shofiyanafutri2097 3 года назад +3

      awesome

    • @yo.auds_
      @yo.auds_ 3 года назад +3

      Omg same

    • @jurnalannisa
      @jurnalannisa 3 года назад

      Same for me

    • @ruo-ye
      @ruo-ye 3 года назад

      I'm the same!

    • @hambonefakenamington69
      @hambonefakenamington69 3 года назад +3

      i used to do the same. but when i decided i didn't want to do it for attention anymore, i realised that writing isn't something i'm even into. crazy, isn't it?

  • @eydeet914
    @eydeet914 4 года назад +1871

    Im still freaking impressed that he just gave a 13 Minute talk without any note and barely slides (that like didn't even say very much) or anything with nearly no "uhm" or "ehm" and just riding the wave. Crazy

    • @oritsejolomiokirika9913
      @oritsejolomiokirika9913 4 года назад +257

      He IS an actor, after all - his communication skill must be excellent for him to excel at his job

    • @Anonymous18531
      @Anonymous18531 4 года назад +124

      That might actually be one thing actors are supposed to be experts on, contrary to his self-deprecating joke

    • @rinmartell2678
      @rinmartell2678 4 года назад +13

      He is an actor....

    • @TheMarijaSunshine
      @TheMarijaSunshine 4 года назад +34

      It's only because he's an actor. Public speaking is a skill you can train.

    • @user-ey1ms7dj8i
      @user-ey1ms7dj8i 4 года назад +3

      @@TheMarijaSunshine yea I agree its hard to stand up in a crowd with ppl that you'll see for the first time. It hards to hide nervousness.

  • @neotdrum
    @neotdrum 4 года назад +2420

    When someone shows such a severe lack of toxic ego and is so self-reflected, they have my attention 👌

    • @vatsalnarang1632
      @vatsalnarang1632 4 года назад +6

      same here

    • @Odin_Borson
      @Odin_Borson 4 года назад +9

      This only works when someone auch is already famous or has had/is having enough of attention by others , u won't be interested in honest self reflection of a beggar

    • @bhadrakadabra
      @bhadrakadabra 4 года назад +7

      @@Odin_Borson i think it's got to do with the work they do? If someone is doing some work, but remaining humble you'd feel a bit in awe of them, but not if they're not doing work

    • @Odin_Borson
      @Odin_Borson 4 года назад +7

      @@bhadrakadabra Not all those scientists, military leaders, social activists are getting who are working for countries honestly ,who are truly doing the job crucial for our survival and protection; but how many of them get the attention, recognition ? The work factor comes in the last , attention is given to what entertains you , to ur senses. Attention and honesty in work has no relation .

    • @bhadrakadabra
      @bhadrakadabra 4 года назад +2

      @@Odin_Borson i didn't say it's just for actors. Also i definitely respect health workers so much, the amount of work and effort they put in is a lot. I dunno why you think they don't get attention for the work they do, or recognition. Of course actors do get lots of it because they're constantly in the limelight. I appreciate anyone who stays humble despite working hard, doesn't matter what they're doing

  • @chaskya
    @chaskya 5 лет назад +492

    “Live to express, not to impress.”

    • @orion9k
      @orion9k 4 года назад +6

      live to shut up, observe and learn.

    • @Roopfert
      @Roopfert 4 года назад +1

      live to excrete, not compete

    • @orion9k
      @orion9k 4 года назад

      @@Roopfert nothing wrong with compete, depends on the context.

  • @brynnharrison9078
    @brynnharrison9078 5 лет назад +1893

    I’m surprised by how even an amazing actor like him could still be nervous in the beginning of the Ted talk

    • @eddiephimansone7273
      @eddiephimansone7273 5 лет назад +115

      I've seen in a few videos of actors sharing their experiences with being in front of a camera for a movie set vs. being in front of a live audience like in Theatre. Some people prefer one over the other, and vice versa. It's some wild stuff.

    • @onikin
      @onikin 5 лет назад +107

      A movie/TV actor does a 10-30 second cut, in front of crew he knows, repetitively over and over until they're satisfied.
      It'd be easy to do that and still be uncomfortable public speaking.
      Theater actors, however, wouldn't have this excuse.

    • @mrborat2493
      @mrborat2493 5 лет назад +6

      @@onikin Most good and professional actors have experience in theaters

    • @pixxienix
      @pixxienix 5 лет назад +21

      Love that he was nervous 😍

    • @ChristandI45
      @ChristandI45 5 лет назад +5

      There’s no script

  • @DanielRomero
    @DanielRomero 4 года назад +581

    So true, it's unfortunate how many people are completely addicted and don't even know how it negatively affects their life.

    • @melvindsouza834
      @melvindsouza834 4 года назад +3

      True

    • @mailife2875
      @mailife2875 4 года назад +2

      Image: upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/5/58/Maslow%27s_hierarchy_of_needs.svg/1717px-Maslow%27s_hierarchy_of_needs.svg.png

    • @sankarijothi7358
      @sankarijothi7358 4 года назад +2

      Absolutely affected me too

    • @Skynet_the_AI
      @Skynet_the_AI 3 года назад

      @@mailife2875 great image link!

    • @Skynet_the_AI
      @Skynet_the_AI 3 года назад

      👍🏽

  • @nicosharp1
    @nicosharp1 3 года назад +202

    The irony is, we can't even make a youtube comment without craving attention. Back to liking in the shadows to work on the Zen state of paying attention.

    • @liebesleid
      @liebesleid 3 года назад +13

      Take your like, you dirty attention craver >:v

    • @riledmouse4677
      @riledmouse4677 3 года назад +7

      And the platforms feed into it by boosting whichever content gets the most engagement, so we viewers end up feeling like we’re doing the creators a favor by commenting on their videos. Which, of course, only leads us to become hooked on the attention we get for our comments, and the cycle continues...

    • @mrsprite399
      @mrsprite399 2 года назад +2

      Then don't comment for attention but for the need.

  • @devam7768
    @devam7768 5 лет назад +4142

    Charismatic habits:
    1. Hand gestures
    2. Raising energy
    3. Vulnerability/ Authentic expression
    4. Change of tonality
    5. Humor

    • @micahchester8741
      @micahchester8741 5 лет назад +96

      Ironborn4 what?

    • @majestycrush
      @majestycrush 5 лет назад +116

      What’s with this obsession with charisma these days? Jesus

    • @sebfox2194
      @sebfox2194 5 лет назад +264

      @@majestycrush Jesus had charisma.

    • @chamber1083
      @chamber1083 5 лет назад +276

      @@majestycrush because without charisma, people will not take you as seriously as you want them to. Superficial? You can say that. But in the end we humans judge by appearances and impressions. It's unfortunate but charisma is a necessary skill to master if you want to get what you want in life

    • @Lamp_p
      @Lamp_p 5 лет назад

      Nice

  • @crystalh5342
    @crystalh5342 5 лет назад +2298

    “People love to get offended and I don’t want to get canceled”

  • @matt.pma.kresnaputra5458
    @matt.pma.kresnaputra5458 5 лет назад +264

    Anyone hears that wavering in his voice? That way you get when you’re nervous talking in front of people? Thats adorable to see in a celebrity. It goes away when they clapped tho.

    • @Xitaychin
      @Xitaychin 4 года назад +5

      Yes yes I think it was really important for him to tell people about this observation.

  • @javokhirkhakimnazarov5014
    @javokhirkhakimnazarov5014 4 года назад +173

    He speaks so beautifully, I just loved that, every single world is pronounced so clearly and adorably, plus his charisma of acting, after this speech I became to admire him mor

  • @sujayshah13
    @sujayshah13 5 лет назад +685

    "The more I go after that powerful feeling of paying attention, the happier I am. But the more I go after the powerful feeling of getting attention, the unhappier I am." - Joseph Gordon, TED

    • @المهندسمهندمجيد
      @المهندسمهندمجيد 4 года назад

      This more phrase like me

    • @atryon7
      @atryon7 4 года назад +11

      You're the guy who clapped aren't you? lol

    • @CatLover-23
      @CatLover-23 Год назад

      👍.... Great Quote & Message tho.
      I definitely tend to Stay Away from Attention Seekers... 💜

  • @allymayden1067
    @allymayden1067 5 лет назад +561

    I like how TED makes speeches that makes you wanting to to hear more...

    • @ok.7014
      @ok.7014 5 лет назад +18

      @Dun Mealder It can only give you clarity, but the choice to change is solely up to you.

    • @agamerjourney9146
      @agamerjourney9146 5 лет назад

      III-GabeN-III true

  • @BiblicallyHandle
    @BiblicallyHandle 5 лет назад +123

    There’s nothing like an emotionally mature celebrity.

  • @RafaelRodrigues-rx9ry
    @RafaelRodrigues-rx9ry 3 года назад +96

    Only after deleting my Twitter and Facebook accounts I realized how many times a day I stopped what I was doing to think "Ah, that would be a nice post". For a while it was very difficult not to go back to social media.

    • @tunamushroommelt
      @tunamushroommelt 3 года назад +4

      super relate hahha

    • @paxy5217
      @paxy5217 3 года назад +2

      Metoo

    • @celinacooksyouup4773
      @celinacooksyouup4773 3 года назад +4

      Yes, I stopped posting on Twitter last year after a bad breakup (I needed to to learn self control) but during that time beforehand I was thinking that everyone would find my reposted song lyrics cool and me as well which never happened but since leaving fb and Twitter - I have more time to actually talk to people. It was strange how it worked out - took some months but I got there

    • @mrsprite399
      @mrsprite399 2 года назад

      I don't use these apps cause I don't need it.
      More than the need is always harmful no matter how good or bad something is.
      But they're good if used in balanced amount and can help others in emergency situations.

  • @michaelc3747
    @michaelc3747 5 лет назад +2098

    3:08 That was me clapping from the comfort of my house, surprised it was caught on film

    • @ofeliap7486
      @ofeliap7486 5 лет назад +39

      I love that phrase he just talked too. Glad you clapped 👍

    • @Akshay-ox7dc
      @Akshay-ox7dc 5 лет назад +58

      Are you here to get attention? :)

    • @lucym9962
      @lucym9962 5 лет назад +2

      Michael C what did he say?

    • @rivoningobaloyi3418
      @rivoningobaloyi3418 5 лет назад +12

      Moments like these are when I love the internet most 👏🏾 Good one 😂

    • @donaldduck2140
      @donaldduck2140 5 лет назад +8

      Fapping*

  • @aliphool
    @aliphool 4 года назад +534

    Super humble. He doesn’t even like the applause. Just feels as though he’s grateful to be on that platform able to share his ideologies among others.

    • @aleahhxo
      @aleahhxo 3 года назад +1

      💯

    • @emiliog.4432
      @emiliog.4432 3 года назад

      He’s starting to understand humility.

  • @arithesage
    @arithesage 4 года назад +188

    I've always had the biggest crush on Joseph Gordon-Levitt, and now I'm crushing even harder. This was a very needed and insightful Ted talk.

    • @prathyusha016
      @prathyusha016 4 года назад +2

      Someone finally said it vavvuavus

    • @aisling2361
      @aisling2361 4 года назад +1

      Facts

    • @VicM-xc9zb
      @VicM-xc9zb 4 года назад

      You got a cute smile. Enjoy life and keep smiling.

  • @Lunareon
    @Lunareon 5 лет назад +738

    The more time you spend on social media, the less time you spend creating things. Every time we choose to do something, we also choose not to do other things. Time spent cannot be regained, so it's important to choose something that matters to you personally. In that way, you will have less regrets looking back.

    • @SanjeevKumar-zd4ne
      @SanjeevKumar-zd4ne 5 лет назад +10

      You said it so well!

    • @jauxro
      @jauxro 5 лет назад +15

      _[existential screaming]_

    • @bigstunna2049
      @bigstunna2049 5 лет назад +8

      Moderation is key with everything especially social media. Instagram and other media fuel my creativity and educate me but too much of it ruins your creativity and fills you with misinformed education

    • @sebfox2194
      @sebfox2194 5 лет назад +1

      Not if you create things on social media.

    • @kathleenreyes23
      @kathleenreyes23 5 лет назад +1

      really needed this. thank you

  • @TheJumpChronicle
    @TheJumpChronicle 4 года назад +833

    Imagine being Rocky right now and hearing that JGL had a crush on you.

    • @shounakhinge8
      @shounakhinge8 4 года назад +8

      @Flick I was searching for this :D

    • @tellem1896
      @tellem1896 4 года назад +23

      I'd eat my own elbow

    • @lillizabeth44
      @lillizabeth44 4 года назад +20

      I thought this too! That somewhere in the world there is a girl watching this going.....wait! I used to go by rocky and I went to a summer camp when I was 8!!! 😆

    • @LowKeyDee1620
      @LowKeyDee1620 4 года назад +21

      I know a woman who turned down will smith because she thought he was too goofy when they were teenagers. It happens lol

    • @elisapaints
      @elisapaints 3 года назад +1

      @@LowKeyDee1620 he was goofy! That's hilarious! 🤣

  • @TheWetzelPretzel
    @TheWetzelPretzel 3 года назад +93

    I've always loved him as an actor and it's really refreshing when someone this successful is both so humble and helping to spread some great concepts and important messages. These talks in general really get you thinking and I love it when one of them gets me engrossed in the topic. Thanks for providing these!!!

  • @realityisnotlogical
    @realityisnotlogical 4 года назад +422

    Since last year, I'm free of this addiction called: Instagram.

    • @24cf648
      @24cf648 4 года назад +23

      How are things going right now? I mean, I tried to quit it for a couple of months and understood how much time I used to spend on it. Without it I was happier and focused, but somehow I later realized that Instagram it's not as bad as it seems: ig stories are terrible, you spend tons of your days on them so when I turned back to Instagram I stopped watching them and instead tried to focus on what was on my feed.
      Now I'm pretty satisfied with this social media

    • @nxght6694
      @nxght6694 4 года назад +15

      Corinne Vasta social media eats into so much of a persons time. i used tumblr and was constantly on it. i had an urge to hop back on it shortly after getting off of it. that’s addiction. it ate into so much of my day everyday. i uninstalled it 2 or 3 years ago and haven’t used social media since. i’ve been much much more productive with my time.

    • @realityisnotlogical
      @realityisnotlogical 4 года назад +9

      Im still not using some app for social media. The only thing I do, is to check things on facebook. But thats even on my web browser...
      It a self control thing and everybody hast to decide, how you want to spend your lifetime.

    • @25dinmepaisadouble72
      @25dinmepaisadouble72 4 года назад +1

      Me too

    • @Muskar2
      @Muskar2 4 года назад +3

      @@nxght6694 I agree, but remember RUclips is still a social media

  • @snay6869
    @snay6869 5 лет назад +562

    3:08: *One person claps*
    Joseph Gordon-Levitt
    : Thanks
    3:13: Everyone starts clapping
    looool

    • @YnteryPictures
      @YnteryPictures 4 года назад +6

      Exactly xD

    • @Zarathos91
      @Zarathos91 4 года назад +68

      He paid attention to that one clap.

    • @snay6869
      @snay6869 4 года назад +1

      @@Zarathos91 LOL XD

    • @lazardrobnjak
      @lazardrobnjak 4 года назад +2

      please clap :D

    • @zodix44
      @zodix44 4 года назад +2

      Just like Keanu's "no, you're breathtaking"

  • @stephenmathew8812
    @stephenmathew8812 5 лет назад +447

    Straight out truth. The cycle of getting attention is literally vicious. Thank you for genuinely speaking about it. Love it.

    • @stopsign593
      @stopsign593 5 лет назад +2

      I think you commented becouse you wanted attention

    • @stephenmathew8812
      @stephenmathew8812 5 лет назад +3

      @@stopsign593 Yeah Maybe I did...😊.....While appreciating what I thought was praiseworthy content...thats it
      P.S. I pressed like on your comment so cheer up!

  • @Yasumi_Hoshikawa
    @Yasumi_Hoshikawa 3 года назад +278

    I feel like Joseph is intuitively tapping into something much deeper regarding how powerful of a tool attention can be. If we take Jungian psychology and shadow work, which is the basis of the most successful models of therapy imo, it's essentially controlling what we pay conscious attention to, and bringing forth into consciousness that which we do NOT want to pay attention to (aka our shadows, the parts of us we resist so much we don't even identify with) in order to integrate them, and Joseph bearing his shadows and wholeheartedly owning them so openly to a very large group of people is a very powerful thing. Which is why group therapy or partner programs like AA (or church, really) work so well. When a large group all pay focused attention to the same thing and keep each other in check, deep synergy and transformation can happen that are greater than the sum of their parts, but both externally and internally in every individual. So I hope no one takes this to mean attention is a bad, evil thing that we should never desire. it's just a powerful tool that you can remind yourself you always have the choice to direct.

    • @gsahara8405
      @gsahara8405 3 года назад +6

      Haven't finished your comment but give it a thumbs up the second I read Jungian psychology

    • @gsahara8405
      @gsahara8405 3 года назад +3

      But ended up agreeing specially in the last part
      The church part... Yeah religions offer just that, tho The Bible did say this was going to happen and only one path would remain true

    • @lketoplay
      @lketoplay 2 года назад +2

      @@gsahara8405 oh ffs

    • @MyWritingLife
      @MyWritingLife 2 года назад +5

      I agree with you about the transformational power of a community that focuses shared attention on a particular aspect of life (like AA, Church, and I would add human rights groups, etc). And to your point about paying attention to the thing we *Don't want to pay attention to, I have found community essential to the process of developing self-compassion as a therapeutic tool. I can't imagine how one can exercise compassion if they don't receive it or watch someone else recieve it. Which again requires paying attention just as much as accepting attention.

    • @claudiamanta1943
      @claudiamanta1943 Месяц назад

      @@gsahara8405No. There is no integration there. Only projection, moral laziness, and criminal religious role models. There is no character in the Judeo- Christian traditions worth emulating. On the very contrary.

  • @blipmachine
    @blipmachine 4 года назад +681

    Bruh after saving Gotham, Robin straight up started giving TED talks..

    • @tikuwork4966
      @tikuwork4966 4 года назад +1

      batman*

    • @Dxntoo
      @Dxntoo 4 года назад +16

      @@tikuwork4966 *Robin

    • @tikuwork4966
      @tikuwork4966 4 года назад +3

      @@Dxntoo bruce wayne retired and this guy was given the position of batman

    • @narwhal5447
      @narwhal5447 4 года назад +1

      @@Dxntoo he didn't become the batman yet in the movie

    • @Dxntoo
      @Dxntoo 4 года назад

      @@narwhal5447 yeah, which makes him Robin, no?

  • @dmknight08
    @dmknight08 4 года назад +394

    My favorite character from inception! ❤️
    The one introvert in the crowd clapped alone. I’m with ya man!

  • @circleofattention6021
    @circleofattention6021 5 лет назад +437

    In many ways, craving attention is "taking" and paying attention is "giving".

    • @edgarorozco3513
      @edgarorozco3513 4 года назад +15

      not in many ways. It is that. seeking attention is taking regardless. Paying attention you are giving. No in many ways. It is.

    • @circleofattention6021
      @circleofattention6021 4 года назад +11

      @@edgarorozco3513 Ha ha! You're right Edgar. Thanks for insisting. 👍😉😂

    • @marysmith3654
      @marysmith3654 4 года назад

      🤣 y'all

    • @mmcallister6317
      @mmcallister6317 4 года назад +8

      It all depends on your motivation. If my job is to bring awareness to a worthy cause, then seeking and attracting attention could be a selfless and meaningful act. It could be more of an act of giving than simply paying attention. It all depends on whether I'm craving attention for the benefit of myself or for the benefit of others. Paying attention to something that brings no one else any value could actually be more of a selfish act. Again... it's the person's motivation that matters. Is it selfless or selfish?

    • @aandm7772
      @aandm7772 4 года назад +1

      this was a wonderful comment.

  • @loralei8028
    @loralei8028 3 года назад +40

    Yes i edited my comment.
    If u are seeing this, military coup is currently happening in Myanmar 🇲🇲. Im sure there’s gonna be killing spree pretty soon. Im not sure if i can comment again since they cut off all our internet and networks . We need ur voice to get help from international countries. Pls HELP US.

    • @SySoBa
      @SySoBa 3 года назад +1

      I think a lot of people can relate. And that’s an inspiration to people who are still stuck in the social media addiction. Good for you!! Cheers to being free and authentic. :)

    • @aimenfatima570
      @aimenfatima570 3 года назад +1

      That's a great achievement in itself

    • @ebethbronx10
      @ebethbronx10 3 года назад

      So true, very well said.
      I'm so proud & so happy for U, my friend..

  • @zainabb.2792
    @zainabb.2792 4 года назад +184

    Wholesome! This actually made me understand a part of my deeper self. This mindset sure will answer a lot of things I’ve been struggling with. Thank you!

  • @Irfaan494
    @Irfaan494 5 лет назад +675

    Most people use social media to find their self worth. *FACT*

    • @sajpar9765
      @sajpar9765 5 лет назад

      True!!!

    • @isaacroberts9089
      @isaacroberts9089 5 лет назад +27

      wouldn't you say to find their false self worth?

    • @CosminTruta
      @CosminTruta 5 лет назад +3

      "Most people use social media to find their self worth"... That's maybe and opinion, or maybe a hope, or wishful thinking, or an open opportunity for future disappointment. Or maybe even a delusion. But fact?... No, not a fact.

    • @lukeism2
      @lukeism2 5 лет назад +1

      I use it because I’m bored

    • @jimothyus
      @jimothyus 5 лет назад +2

      Byron Price FACTUAL STATEMENT

  • @PrasannaKumar-ug9tr
    @PrasannaKumar-ug9tr 4 года назад +178

    this guy's aging like a fine wine, i swear! he's 39 years old and this was posted last year and he was probably 38 then but damn.. he lookin' like he's 27 or something. amazing video. great message. love this guy.

  • @BDLAD
    @BDLAD 3 года назад +64

    Love this line 9:14 "If your creativity is driven by a desire to get attention you are never gonna be creatively fulfilled "

  • @georgepatrick4339
    @georgepatrick4339 5 лет назад +260

    I’ve always thought Joseph was a smart guy ever since he worked out that Batman was Bruce Wayne when others couldn’t even Commissioner Gordon didn’t.
    My boi John Blake

    • @d1want34
      @d1want34 5 лет назад +1

      🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

  • @yashsalve7702
    @yashsalve7702 5 лет назад +2388

    Plot twist, he came here to increase his instagram followers.

    • @nomadenview
      @nomadenview 5 лет назад +20

      Lol

    • @chimugorji2899
      @chimugorji2899 5 лет назад +137

      Aryan Tyagi ok boomer

    • @AlgoGuardianFX
      @AlgoGuardianFX 5 лет назад +23

      @@aryantyagi7471 nah

    • @Windaros
      @Windaros 5 лет назад +41

      @@aryantyagi7471 In the "doomer/boomer/bloomer"-sense, it can, but I think he just called you old-sounding, lol. Realistically, I think it's futile for you to expect there to be no humorous comments or quotes from the video (which is actually a good thing that refreshes your memory of the talk in a worded way and may also give rise to discussion) posted in the comments. Personally, I think it's healthy for a comment-section to be diverse.

    • @Kutsushita_yukino
      @Kutsushita_yukino 5 лет назад +3

      @@aryantyagi7471 L O L thats you

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 лет назад +176

    *His characters is really him.*
    Craving attention is focusing on outwardly events, whereas creativity, a pure sort, is an inwardly expression of the self.

    • @Marialla.
      @Marialla. 5 лет назад +2

      ...without wasting any actual attention on the self.

    • @RachaelJohn
      @RachaelJohn 5 лет назад +1

      Soo true! That completely sums it up

    • @Mr.Honest247
      @Mr.Honest247 5 лет назад

      O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me I’d argue every actors character is just them playing themselves in some fashion.

    • @MalenaLuna444
      @MalenaLuna444 5 лет назад

      Every where I go I see you lol. Last time I saw you was in infinite water channel comments. Anyhow I totally agree with your comment.

  • @kellyviolette1419
    @kellyviolette1419 5 лет назад +79

    “The only thing that stands between you and your well-being is a simple fact: you have allowed your thoughts and emotions to take instruction from the outside rather than the inside.”
    ― Sadhguru, Inner Engineering: A Yogi's Guide to Joy

  • @eyangmukhamo
    @eyangmukhamo 4 года назад +107

    So cute how he changes tone when he impersonates himself XD

  • @MlleNilusha
    @MlleNilusha 5 лет назад +101

    He is so endearing. The first TED talk I've seen in a while that kept my "attention" lol. He deserves it and this was so authentic!

  • @macguionbajo
    @macguionbajo 3 года назад +45

    The youtube algorythm has some good timing

  • @EmpathyEnjoyer
    @EmpathyEnjoyer 5 лет назад +124

    Fam, what a great talk
    He bursted out something I got in my consciousness but said it in words

  • @ishanafondekar6334
    @ishanafondekar6334 4 года назад +525

    This guy saved Gotham, he knows what he's talking about

  • @SimplisticBeing
    @SimplisticBeing 4 года назад +242

    "Collaborate and Listen"
    -Vanilla Ice

    • @flop22222
      @flop22222 4 года назад +3

      This is a legendary comment

    • @thinkdesh9168
      @thinkdesh9168 4 года назад

      Hahah. Yo.!,, much respect from Sydney AUSTRALIA

    • @areyoufriendly
      @areyoufriendly 4 года назад +2

      I feel the “Stop!” belongs there too, in the spirit of this Ted talk.
      Epic placing of a quote regardless.

    • @count_of1310
      @count_of1310 4 года назад

      *And rip off Under Pressure

    • @count_of1310
      @count_of1310 4 года назад

      @@newwavenancy The song says otherwise. 💀

  • @loganellis7735
    @loganellis7735 3 года назад +141

    I think most artists would love to give their undivided attention to their work, but the "getting" of attention so often determines who has enough confidence or money or resources to live within their creative flow to begin with. Attention means more than just the great feeling of being praised -- it is a gateway to survival, wealth, and power. It's no wonder that we descend into competitive practices within our creative industries, because we still have the fear of going hungry beneath it all.

  • @TheVintageRomance
    @TheVintageRomance 5 лет назад +416

    Tough crowd lol. He had a lot of great points.

    • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
      @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 4 года назад +163

      I don't think they were a tough crowd at all. They were just paying attention attentively.

    • @fuckingoogleit
      @fuckingoogleit 4 года назад +28

      No, because he had lots of great points, they listen..

    • @HappinessOrDeath
      @HappinessOrDeath 4 года назад +59

      His communication and public speaking wasn't polished with proper pauses for audience interaction, basically like an amateur at live public speaking. To me this made JGL very vulnerable and ridiculously genuine. Has all my respect after this one speech, as a person. Not a bad actor either

    • @shreya446
      @shreya446 4 года назад +3

      yeah they could've given more reactions but it wasn't that bad...

    • @aaadesktop
      @aaadesktop 4 года назад +6

      @@HappinessOrDeath It's very awesome that he did this, shows he's just a normal guy and we caught him in a TED talk just adding to his creative journey.

  • @Sam-cn8xw
    @Sam-cn8xw 5 лет назад +67

    This video should be watched by every creative tbh. My biggest issue personally is being scared my creative work wont be good enough to others, so I don't even try sometimes. I always feel better and do better when I'm doing what I love, not what other's love.

    • @VidVoyeur612
      @VidVoyeur612 5 лет назад +1

      It's why I've stopped trying to make concept art that looks like everyone else's in order to get into the games or movie industry. I'm happier for it.

  • @Lindsweightloss
    @Lindsweightloss 5 лет назад +265

    This video came at the time I needed it! Sometimes I feel disappointed and unmotivated when a certain video of mine does not receive the attention I expected. It's a challenge I am facing at the moment. However, I always tell myself that my self worth is not based on the number of likes or views I get. Thank you for sharing!!

    • @abcdxx1059
      @abcdxx1059 5 лет назад +4

      damn and here i thought my life was tough

    • @Lindsweightloss
      @Lindsweightloss 5 лет назад +12

      @@abcdxx1059 I'm not saying that my life is tough, it's just that views and likes can control us, but we should't let them :)

    • @AnkurShah
      @AnkurShah 5 лет назад +7

      I totally get you!! I have the same issue. We creators need to focus on our work and craft and not focusing on the results - views and likes! We will get there eventually. Wishing you the absolute best in your journey

    • @AmberAmber
      @AmberAmber 5 лет назад +1

      (I'm gonna be supportive - trust me)
      I personally avoid attention & keep adjusting my life to continue avoiding it. But that's cos I once - long long ago - had far too much & it was 100% nightmares.
      I can relate in a way cos we humans often have a hard time feeling comfortable & validated in this world. I hope you get the views you want, & that you also find joy in the journey always...
      Best wishes & love to you.💗✌

    • @prezrickard
      @prezrickard 5 лет назад

      Elektric Skeptic Johaniskraut Bernstein Or'Cheard : The opposite of getting attention is not paying attention : it’s giving attention. The opposite of being worshipped is worshipping. But I think with being worshipped and worshipping, both have the same (not opposite) outcome : unhappiness. So where is the fallacy here.... What is the difference between JGL focusing on his craft when he’s acting, and a Taylor Swift fan empathically feeling the hurt and the anger when their idol is attacked.

  • @JULALAINE
    @JULALAINE 3 года назад +33

    Thinking that we need attention outside makes us paranoid of other people, so instead of tapping or developing our skills and selves, we want to get what's them or what they have or who they are. Instead of being creative and journeying within, we journey other's people destiny and envy their creativity.

    • @minimalistdanse
      @minimalistdanse 3 года назад

      We are all too old asking for attention as ADULTS ?

    • @claudiamanta1943
      @claudiamanta1943 Месяц назад

      If you really understood people, you could not manage the ensuing paranoia.

  • @nadias4560
    @nadias4560 5 лет назад +593

    the fact that joseph gordon levitt understands the 'cancelled' internet concept....what a time we are in

    • @pb1209
      @pb1209 5 лет назад +63

      i would think that most people understand it. it's really not that complicated lol

    • @ethanmiller9130
      @ethanmiller9130 5 лет назад +29

      we live in a society

    • @mahmoudhassen4463
      @mahmoudhassen4463 5 лет назад

      @@ethanmiller9130 OMG really

    • @joseignacioctm
      @joseignacioctm 5 лет назад

      bibimos

  • @gb3nga
    @gb3nga 5 лет назад +121

    At what point will Joseph decide to play Elon Musk?

    • @BeingBetter
      @BeingBetter 5 лет назад +14

      As soon as there's a movie about Elon Musk worth making.

    • @jonnnnniej
      @jonnnnniej 5 лет назад +2

      Seeing how good he was in Looper I think he would do an amazing job!

  • @toolthoughts
    @toolthoughts 5 лет назад +186

    immersing yourself in social media makes you not only less creative, but less honest

    • @luk8627
      @luk8627 5 лет назад

      stereomike111 what does that even mean?

    • @broadwayzjm5257
      @broadwayzjm5257 5 лет назад +4

      except when you're a digital artist and you immerse yourself in online art. you get a lot of inspiration + possible job opportunities there.

    • @toolthoughts
      @toolthoughts 5 лет назад +1

      @@luk8627 you will start playing to the gallery

    • @Questforperfection23
      @Questforperfection23 5 лет назад +2

      I believe not that social media is a trap for our well being but the way in which we use it, essentially as the talk went. The most 'negative' aspects of our mental selves are being preyed upon by these companies, that does not mean we cannot use it for better.
      Instead of only seeing the negatives, trying weighing up what the positives could be if you changed how you used it, ie how and why you interact with your fellow actors and actresses :)

    • @luk8627
      @luk8627 5 лет назад

      broadway zjm yeah. Social media is a tool to be used. As theres no instruction manual, it’s tricky to be used appropriately. Joseph touts this in the first part of his talk.

  • @pmw5422
    @pmw5422 4 года назад +24

    “Do nothing out of contentiousness or out of egotism, but with humility consider others superior to you, as you look out not only for your own interests, but also for the interests of others.” ~Philippians 2:3, 4

  • @yoma2977
    @yoma2977 4 года назад +870

    He's admitting his narcissism unlike most other actors

    • @aandm7772
      @aandm7772 4 года назад +248

      it's not even narcissism, it's ego - a natural human condition especially in a world of internet. narcissism is much much worse

    • @novalight4863
      @novalight4863 4 года назад +50

      Why do you need actors to admit their narcissism? Do you go around telling people your bad qualities?

    • @ryanstarlight8018
      @ryanstarlight8018 4 года назад +8

      @ASAP.69 They also do that to raise fund...

    • @ryanstarlight8018
      @ryanstarlight8018 4 года назад +2

      @ASAP.69 huh okay, well I've never heard of her, so I guess some actors do that. But that's not the case of all the actors ^^

    • @frangipani5276
      @frangipani5276 4 года назад

      @ASAP.69 maybe so but i think shes just trying to spread good message

  • @benbry942
    @benbry942 5 лет назад +514

    bro I swear to god the man is such an awesome public speaker. he looked so fucking confident up on that stage. wow...