a bikini top... at a restaurant?? wait what... who goes to a restaurant wearing a bralette as a top... was it a crop top? what happened to dressing nice to a restaurant. wth...
There are places where it's considered just another part of the atmosphere. I live a couple miles from North Padre Island, and pretty much any place out there is good with it. Especially the ones directly on the beaches.
Bisexual gal’s girlfriend CHANGED her style drastically after they began dating, and was basically saying “well I like this, so deal with it.” Her last comments on the post also pointed to an intentional disrespect of her partner’s opinions. Not cool behavior blatantly disrespecting their girlfriend. Very icky and self centered post honestly. As an immigrant, our families have different cultural values that reflect our backgrounds. I didn’t come out to my family as pan for a LONG time because of conservative values that were difficult to get past.
Conservative values don't deserve respect because their values are sexist and homophobic. Tho op was intentionally being a jerk to her girlfriend, which isn't how a healthy relationship works.
2nd story I agree with Sam's take. They were both fine with their choices until OP broke her gf's boundry. Barging in and dressing like that is her bringing shame upon her gf and is the equivalent of slapping the parents in the face. They really just need to break up after that.
As someone who has a 1st gen Asian grandma I can understand the girlfriend’s side, and I can also understand OPs side. But at the end of the day it’s about what you’re willing to compromise for your partner. If your ideas about respect and other aspects of your life don’t line up you shouldn’t be together. I think the biggest issue isn’t really how OP was dressing, it was really that they went out of their way to act out, instead of being respectful of the boundary in the moment and then talking about it later to decide the trajectory of the relationship 🤷♀️
26:47 dude op is the asshole AND she’s crazy disrespectful. Her girlfriend sounded fine with how she dresses she just didn’t want her to do it around her parents. You can’t be with the parents that much it’s not a huge ask to put on a shirt when your around your partners parents ESPECIALLY if you know they aren’t comfortable around people who barely wear clothes. You can dress how you want but if you can’t be respectful of your partners parents than you can’t spend time with them. If you want to spend time with them your girlfriend told you what you needed to do to do that. If you can’t respect those boundaries than you aren’t old enough or mature enough to be in a grown up relationship. Op is crazy childish and I truly hope that op breaks up with her. If the parents liked op before they probably aren’t fans of her disrespectful behavior anymore.
i don't think the girlfriend is totally fine with the way OP dresses because she said "i dont want my sister to dress like you", implying theres something wrong with it and that its shameful. for sure though, OP was 100% wrong for randomly showing up at a restaurant in a bralette when not explicitly invited/dressed appropriately.
I have an epically embarrassing meet the parents story: I was dating my first bf when I was 14. His parents picked me up from my house and we all went and ate Mexican food. When they drove me back to drop me off it was raining. I said goodbye, thanked them, and jumped out running to the front porch. When my feet hit the wet concrete I slipped and FLEW FEET IN THE AIR for my front door. My parents said they heard a loud thump and knew I had wiped out on the door. I jumped up hopping him and his parents hadn’t seen me and rushed inside. Unfortunately I got a text from him asking if I was ok because his mom was concerned since I BOUNCED my head off the concrete. I did have a major headache after, and I broke one of my mom’s flower pots by the door. Was so embarrassed, but it is a funny story😅
S1. He never touched on telling her she couldn't even bring a PC. Just mocked her for wanting her own space in his house that he planned for 'them'. He proceeded to throw all the trips he took her on in her face. Complaining about her borrowing 3k, (which yes 3 months in borrowing money is a red flag) while saying he paid in full for the house that was at least 2 mil... that 3k and all the trips seem to not actually be much in his budget. Talking about her debt while shes actively in college in America is also shitty. Seems he has more money than her and regularly held it over her, which lead to her feeling the way she did about him buying the house for 'them" Both are red flags.
Second story OP is the worst. I am not modest by any means but my boyfriend does not have to ask me not to wear a tiny tank top in front of his parents. Customs and values aside. I have triple D’s. Even if I’m not trying to come off a certain way, I will, and I KNOW THAT. So disrespectful and so mean. She does not care about her partner.
Right, I don’t need no one telling me not to wear revealing clothing around anyone’s family… It would be uncomfortable for me as I know people will be looking and judging, so why would I want to put myself in such a situation?
Wow that OP is SO disrespectful!!!! Like the GF’s parents are trying to meet their daughter in the middle …. And all the GF is asking was to be culturally respectful one day!!!!
I only find weird if he never included her in the home choosing process . He just took over & picked the house he wanted instead of they both want . I see a rosy flags all along. Edit : looks like that girl is just a gold digger! Using his money . Lmao 😂
Yeah, I don’t think the house purchase had anything to do with her, she’s just taking a ‘what’s his is mine, and my want’s rank above his’ attitude, WAY before the relationship was anywhere near even a shared goal state.
I think his version is "curated" as well. Because why would he ever date her if all of that was true. However, if it is true. He is an absolute fool and partly to blame for that whole mess. Let me guess, she is very attractive. He thought her looks somehow justified ignoring the red flags. 🤦♀️
S1: i think he was trying to buy her which is why he kept paying for all those trips cause otherwise why would it cost so much to go to LA unless he was trying to stay in the best of the best places. i think both of them stretched things on both ends, and i’m always suspicious when someone else comes in with an other side that is so wildly different.
He probably was, he sounds like he wants to settle down and start a family (mentions the 3rd room would be great for a baby room), thankfully he has realised that that was a bad choice and it has attracted a gold-digger before they got to a point where she is entitled to take everything and leave.
1st story: Welp, saw that coming. Anyone who say their S/O bought a house for their sake are 9 out of 10 chances are lying and are most likely jelly of their S/O wealth. 😂
Man first story the girl just seems beyond entitled, selfish, and immature. Literally cannot seem to handle anything and dude is trying to communicate and do what's right but she just flips out..... sounds like a user right there...
She's 1000% suss and he dodged a bullet. Honestly though, I would be deeply concerned if after only 9 months someone was talking about buying a house for us in mind lol. That's what initially tipped me off that something in her story was off, no one in their right mind does that. 🤣
Well if he was buying a house for both of them it’s sort of unfair to not include her in the decision making process. He just bought it & told hey this is our house . That’s the only red flag I see
Story 2: Regarding the clothing dispute...It is one thing to ask a partner to dress up to meet a parent for the first time. That is just dressing appropriately for the circumstances. BUT, it is very inappropriate to declare that you wouldn't want a sibling to start dressing like your partner. That is a level of disrespect that needs to be addressed. Clearly, OP's partner thinks less of OP for the way she dresses, and if OP values her freedom to dress as she wishes, that sounds like an incompatibility that needs to be recognized and addressed.
I disagree. If you’re an adult you can do what you want, but some things aren’t appropriate for younger kids to wear. This also depends on the age of the sister, but let’s say she’s 12ish, I might be old but I don’t think 12 years should be dressing risqué. Too many pervs in the world. You don’t have to think less of someone or even not appreciate their style of dressing and at the same time not want them to dress risqué around their conservative parents. I do think it’s inappropriate to wear certain things to certain places. If someone wants to dress like they are going to the club all day every day, good on ya, but for some places that’s just not it. Also, wearing a bikini looking top to restaurant, uninvited, with someone’s conservative parents is not cool. It giving major main character energy. With that main character being the villain. OP is coming off purposefully disrespectful and just trying to be an AH to prove what? That she doesn’t give a crap about what anyone thinks and will force her will onto everyone? OP sounds abusive. I hope the girlfriend bounces and finds a partner who respects her.
@@NicciFreemanYea, when I heard the way she talked about herself being some kinda boss bitch like “it was awesome”, I started hearing her voice like one of those classic bitchy gossip girls if yk what I mean. ((The kinda character that goes “Oh my GAWD, Jessie just brought a bottle to school, she is SOOO copying me, eugh, what a weirdo”.))
27:45 OP is totally in the wrong!! It’s called respecting others when first meeting. Over time they can learn to accept other ways of dressing but that was your first time presenting yourself! It showed you present to anyone this way of dressing. Would you dress that way for a job interview?! Just think and respect first impressions…
Look, lowkey I would be mad if my girlfriend basically said I dress like a sl*t and she wouldn’t want my sister to dress like me. Why are we dating if you’re ashamed of me?
lol sam is never going to get married w/ the attitude that he only says i love you if he thinks they're gonna stay together for life & thinks 6mo is too early to say it. that's like the normal time frame ppl say it & is perfectly acceptable. even tho that 1st op (the gf) seemed like a partially unreliable narrator, he seems like he's gonna be like her perception of the bf & any future gf of his is gonna think he's taking things too slow. pretty sure i said i love you to my bf at 3-4 mo, he said it back & we've been dating for 5yrs, planning on getting married, starting a family, & buying a house (ironically by the time we got decent jobs, housing prices skyrocketed & our state, particularly the area we live in is one of the most expensive places in the country; b/c of that we've even been talking about moving out of the country). it didn't feel early for either of us & to this day we still can't keep our hands off each other, compliment each other all the time, love being around each other as much as possible (even asking if one wants to come downstairs w/ the other to grab something, go out for errands & apts together), & can talk in person or on the phone for hrs. ppl even think we've only been dating for like a yr or so when they meet or see us b/c of how we act together, as if we're still in the honeymoon phase.
For the second story I'm kind of in the middle. I think asking your partner to not dress like themself long term around your family is probably not going to work out. I think compromises can be had, but that doesn't necessarily mean one extreme or the other. You can meet in the middle in such a way that both parties are as comfortable as possible. But OP just showing up uninvited intentionally being petty and aggressive? That's not how you keep a partner or compromise/meet in the middle
Also the OP not caring that she upset her gf at all is weird..and she thinks it was "awesome" because she cares more about being petty than actually talking things out.
I'm not going to stop dressing how I'm comfortable for anyone's family. Which means I'm going to stick to the aesthetic(s) that make me happy. But doesn't mean I'm going to show up in the most extreme versions of that style just to be petty. And I'm not going to go anywhere I'm not invited
I feel like she changed her style in a way that the girlfriend doesn’t like anymore. That’s all. Like wear what you want but it doesn’t mean people have to like it too. She said she recently changed her style. So it’s not like that’s how the girlfriend met her.
S1: They both suck. First the guy sounds ALOT older then OP, if shes just finishing school for nursing im assuming shes early 20s. aside from money... Why would she be dating someone so much older? Aside from extravagant trips as being something in common, what else do you have in common with her? And honestly, if he had experienced her freak out like that multiple times and didnt cut it off even after talking about it... suspicious. Youre clearly staying with her not for the right reasons that would lead to starting a family. Not saying OP is a good person at all, but weirdly a lot of wealthy men like the crazys with tons of drama 🤷♀️ and then later realize it doesnt work well, and find someone thats tame.
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Story 1 - I don't like either of them. He is at fault for dating someone way too you and immature. She just sounds like those dishonest, always a victim young women, annoying to be around.
For the first story, I knew the (now ex) girlfriend wasn't telling the whole truth the moment she mentioned she made a post of her morning routine. She sounds like an immature, attention seeking girl who wants everything served to her on a silver platter and seeks validation constantly, even when she's in the wrong. Like really, you got time to make posts like that but won't help your boyfriend at all? She seems like the kind of person who blows up at the smallest inconvenience and instead of addressing things privately she decided to paint her boyfriend as the bad guy just to boost her own ego.
First story, weird....ppl need to stop wasting ppls time lol 9 months is enough time to know if u want to be with someone n live with them. She seems like shes just not into him, cuz idk what woman would have such a reaction to her partner buying a house.. knew there was more to this.
Here we go again with men not getting a fair Shake on this channel on Story 1 this man all he did was buy a house and say he plans on her to move in at some point he never said that he forced her to move in immediately all he said was I bought a house for you to move in later on your own terms and I bought the house with you and mind and now out of nowhere he's put so much stress on the relationship that makes no sense all he did was buy a house there is no pressure to move in because quite literally from the woman's perspective she said he bought the house for her to move in at some point she didn't say immediately and now it's oh if somebody would do that to me I would break up with him because he put pressure on the relationship but he said it's up to you😂😂😂😂
Story 1: I wonder what the age gap is...I tried to rewind but does not seem as though it was not mentioned. Irrespective of age gap, they are at different stages in their lives with different priorities.
I probably would have helped my boyfriend move instead of focusing on 'self care', but that is just me. OP sounds maybe a wee bit selfish, but that is where she is at in life. She is a college student and working on herself. They are obviously in different places and I don't think they should be together. OP sounds like she still has a lot of growing up to do and life to experience, and that is fine.
I hate to say it, but I was seeing through that first gal pretty quickly. She sounded so selfish and entitled. Everything was revolving around her and her wants and needs. She had no concern to help her bf, but plenty of time for "self care." I had a feeling his side would be an eye opener for the panel, as it was. Sounds like he needs to stop picking his dates based on their Instagram selfies. Unfortunately, I think learning how to spot the "bad guy" is something that only comes with experience. It makes it hard to navigate relationships in your 20's when you won't be able to see a lot of toxic traits until your 30's or later. It's just a sad part of growing up that can't be avoided. If only we could combine the wisdom of our older ages with the vitality that is so fleeting in our youth.
a bikini top... at a restaurant?? wait what... who goes to a restaurant wearing a bralette as a top... was it a crop top? what happened to dressing nice to a restaurant. wth...
There are plenty of classy crop top like blouses that wouldn't be out of place at a high-end restaurant
There are places where it's considered just another part of the atmosphere. I live a couple miles from North Padre Island, and pretty much any place out there is good with it. Especially the ones directly on the beaches.
Bisexual gal’s girlfriend CHANGED her style drastically after they began dating, and was basically saying “well I like this, so deal with it.” Her last comments on the post also pointed to an intentional disrespect of her partner’s opinions. Not cool behavior blatantly disrespecting their girlfriend. Very icky and self centered post honestly.
As an immigrant, our families have different cultural values that reflect our backgrounds. I didn’t come out to my family as pan for a LONG time because of conservative values that were difficult to get past.
Conservative values don't deserve respect because their values are sexist and homophobic. Tho op was intentionally being a jerk to her girlfriend, which isn't how a healthy relationship works.
2nd story I agree with Sam's take. They were both fine with their choices until OP broke her gf's boundry. Barging in and dressing like that is her bringing shame upon her gf and is the equivalent of slapping the parents in the face. They really just need to break up after that.
As someone who has a 1st gen Asian grandma I can understand the girlfriend’s side, and I can also understand OPs side. But at the end of the day it’s about what you’re willing to compromise for your partner. If your ideas about respect and other aspects of your life don’t line up you shouldn’t be together. I think the biggest issue isn’t really how OP was dressing, it was really that they went out of their way to act out, instead of being respectful of the boundary in the moment and then talking about it later to decide the trajectory of the relationship 🤷♀️
26:47 dude op is the asshole AND she’s crazy disrespectful. Her girlfriend sounded fine with how she dresses she just didn’t want her to do it around her parents. You can’t be with the parents that much it’s not a huge ask to put on a shirt when your around your partners parents ESPECIALLY if you know they aren’t comfortable around people who barely wear clothes.
You can dress how you want but if you can’t be respectful of your partners parents than you can’t spend time with them. If you want to spend time with them your girlfriend told you what you needed to do to do that. If you can’t respect those boundaries than you aren’t old enough or mature enough to be in a grown up relationship. Op is crazy childish and I truly hope that op breaks up with her. If the parents liked op before they probably aren’t fans of her disrespectful behavior anymore.
i don't think the girlfriend is totally fine with the way OP dresses because she said "i dont want my sister to dress like you", implying theres something wrong with it and that its shameful. for sure though, OP was 100% wrong for randomly showing up at a restaurant in a bralette when not explicitly invited/dressed appropriately.
I have an epically embarrassing meet the parents story: I was dating my first bf when I was 14. His parents picked me up from my house and we all went and ate Mexican food. When they drove me back to drop me off it was raining. I said goodbye, thanked them, and jumped out running to the front porch. When my feet hit the wet concrete I slipped and FLEW FEET IN THE AIR for my front door. My parents said they heard a loud thump and knew I had wiped out on the door. I jumped up hopping him and his parents hadn’t seen me and rushed inside. Unfortunately I got a text from him asking if I was ok because his mom was concerned since I BOUNCED my head off the concrete. I did have a major headache after, and I broke one of my mom’s flower pots by the door. Was so embarrassed, but it is a funny story😅
S1.
He never touched on telling her she couldn't even bring a PC. Just mocked her for wanting her own space in his house that he planned for 'them'. He proceeded to throw all the trips he took her on in her face. Complaining about her borrowing 3k, (which yes 3 months in borrowing money is a red flag) while saying he paid in full for the house that was at least 2 mil... that 3k and all the trips seem to not actually be much in his budget. Talking about her debt while shes actively in college in America is also shitty. Seems he has more money than her and regularly held it over her, which lead to her feeling the way she did about him buying the house for 'them"
Both are red flags.
Second story OP is the worst. I am not modest by any means but my boyfriend does not have to ask me not to wear a tiny tank top in front of his parents. Customs and values aside. I have triple D’s. Even if I’m not trying to come off a certain way, I will, and I KNOW THAT. So disrespectful and so mean. She does not care about her partner.
Right, I don’t need no one telling me not to wear revealing clothing around anyone’s family…
It would be uncomfortable for me as I know people will be looking and judging, so why would I want to put myself in such a situation?
2nd story she wanted to be shocking, not respect her girlfriend.
Remember there’s always going to be his truth, her truth, and the actual truth. Usually somewhere in between.
Wow that OP is SO disrespectful!!!! Like the GF’s parents are trying to meet their daughter in the middle …. And all the GF is asking was to be culturally respectful one day!!!!
I only find weird if he never included her in the home choosing process . He just took over & picked the house he wanted instead of they both want . I see a rosy flags all along. Edit : looks like that girl is just a gold digger! Using his money . Lmao 😂
Yeah, I don’t think the house purchase had anything to do with her, she’s just taking a ‘what’s his is mine, and my want’s rank above his’ attitude, WAY before the relationship was anywhere near even a shared goal state.
I think his version is "curated" as well. Because why would he ever date her if all of that was true. However, if it is true. He is an absolute fool and partly to blame for that whole mess. Let me guess, she is very attractive. He thought her looks somehow justified ignoring the red flags. 🤦♀️
S1: i think he was trying to buy her which is why he kept paying for all those trips cause otherwise why would it cost so much to go to LA unless he was trying to stay in the best of the best places. i think both of them stretched things on both ends, and i’m always suspicious when someone else comes in with an other side that is so wildly different.
He probably was, he sounds like he wants to settle down and start a family (mentions the 3rd room would be great for a baby room), thankfully he has realised that that was a bad choice and it has attracted a gold-digger before they got to a point where she is entitled to take everything and leave.
Riley dying at John saying "would you come in a speedo" 😂
1st story: Welp, saw that coming. Anyone who say their S/O bought a house for their sake are 9 out of 10 chances are lying and are most likely jelly of their S/O wealth. 😂
Man first story the girl just seems beyond entitled, selfish, and immature. Literally cannot seem to handle anything and dude is trying to communicate and do what's right but she just flips out..... sounds like a user right there...
18:06 😂💀 the coughs!!
Nah I knew the 1st story she was lying and being entitled. Cause who’s not happy to buy a house. Something was off in her story as it was going on.
She's 1000% suss and he dodged a bullet. Honestly though, I would be deeply concerned if after only 9 months someone was talking about buying a house for us in mind lol. That's what initially tipped me off that something in her story was off, no one in their right mind does that. 🤣
Well if he was buying a house for both of them it’s sort of unfair to not include her in the decision making process. He just bought it & told hey this is our house . That’s the only red flag I see
@@lunav9827 Please watch the video before deciding sides, always listen to both stories then make a sound decision, or you will look like a baboon.
@@lunav9827 And you just defended a gold digger, please listen to the story further.
@@Doktah_Zari Lmaoo yea I know I edited my comment no point in deleting it tho but I agree she was a gold digger
Story 2: Regarding the clothing dispute...It is one thing to ask a partner to dress up to meet a parent for the first time. That is just dressing appropriately for the circumstances.
BUT, it is very inappropriate to declare that you wouldn't want a sibling to start dressing like your partner. That is a level of disrespect that needs to be addressed. Clearly, OP's partner thinks less of OP for the way she dresses, and if OP values her freedom to dress as she wishes, that sounds like an incompatibility that needs to be recognized and addressed.
I disagree. If you’re an adult you can do what you want, but some things aren’t appropriate for younger kids to wear. This also depends on the age of the sister, but let’s say she’s 12ish, I might be old but I don’t think 12 years should be dressing risqué. Too many pervs in the world.
You don’t have to think less of someone or even not appreciate their style of dressing and at the same time not want them to dress risqué around their conservative parents. I do think it’s inappropriate to wear certain things to certain places. If someone wants to dress like they are going to the club all day every day, good on ya, but for some places that’s just not it.
Also, wearing a bikini looking top to restaurant, uninvited, with someone’s conservative parents is not cool. It giving major main character energy. With that main character being the villain. OP is coming off purposefully disrespectful and just trying to be an AH to prove what? That she doesn’t give a crap about what anyone thinks and will force her will onto everyone? OP sounds abusive.
I hope the girlfriend bounces and finds a partner who respects her.
@@NicciFreemanYea, when I heard the way she talked about herself being some kinda boss bitch like “it was awesome”, I started hearing her voice like one of those classic bitchy gossip girls if yk what I mean.
((The kinda character that goes “Oh my GAWD, Jessie just brought a bottle to school, she is SOOO copying me, eugh, what a weirdo”.))
Story 3 awww so cute. Yeah that was a date.
27:45 OP is totally in the wrong!! It’s called respecting others when first meeting. Over time they can learn to accept other ways of dressing but that was your first time presenting yourself! It showed you present to anyone this way of dressing. Would you dress that way for a job interview?! Just think and respect first impressions…
Look, lowkey I would be mad if my girlfriend basically said I dress like a sl*t and she wouldn’t want my sister to dress like me. Why are we dating if you’re ashamed of me?
But I wouldn’t show up, I would break up.
Cause you can like it personally and accept but your family members might not be as understanding
lol sam is never going to get married w/ the attitude that he only says i love you if he thinks they're gonna stay together for life & thinks 6mo is too early to say it. that's like the normal time frame ppl say it & is perfectly acceptable.
even tho that 1st op (the gf) seemed like a partially unreliable narrator, he seems like he's gonna be like her perception of the bf & any future gf of his is gonna think he's taking things too slow.
pretty sure i said i love you to my bf at 3-4 mo, he said it back & we've been dating for 5yrs, planning on getting married, starting a family, & buying a house (ironically by the time we got decent jobs, housing prices skyrocketed & our state, particularly the area we live in is one of the most expensive places in the country; b/c of that we've even been talking about moving out of the country).
it didn't feel early for either of us & to this day we still can't keep our hands off each other, compliment each other all the time, love being around each other as much as possible (even asking if one wants to come downstairs w/ the other to grab something, go out for errands & apts together), & can talk in person or on the phone for hrs. ppl even think we've only been dating for like a yr or so when they meet or see us b/c of how we act together, as if we're still in the honeymoon phase.
For the second story I'm kind of in the middle. I think asking your partner to not dress like themself long term around your family is probably not going to work out. I think compromises can be had, but that doesn't necessarily mean one extreme or the other. You can meet in the middle in such a way that both parties are as comfortable as possible.
But OP just showing up uninvited intentionally being petty and aggressive? That's not how you keep a partner or compromise/meet in the middle
Also the OP not caring that she upset her gf at all is weird..and she thinks it was "awesome" because she cares more about being petty than actually talking things out.
I'm not going to stop dressing how I'm comfortable for anyone's family. Which means I'm going to stick to the aesthetic(s) that make me happy. But doesn't mean I'm going to show up in the most extreme versions of that style just to be petty. And I'm not going to go anywhere I'm not invited
39:00 Is this listener Danish? You'd have to excuse me ín case I'm wrong, but I'm Swedish😂😂Edited to add: Oh she WAS Danish, yay!❤️
I feel like she changed her style in a way that the girlfriend doesn’t like anymore. That’s all. Like wear what you want but it doesn’t mean people have to like it too. She said she recently changed her style. So it’s not like that’s how the girlfriend met her.
That call... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
S1: They both suck. First the guy sounds ALOT older then OP, if shes just finishing school for nursing im assuming shes early 20s. aside from money... Why would she be dating someone so much older? Aside from extravagant trips as being something in common, what else do you have in common with her? And honestly, if he had experienced her freak out like that multiple times and didnt cut it off even after talking about it... suspicious. Youre clearly staying with her not for the right reasons that would lead to starting a family. Not saying OP is a good person at all, but weirdly a lot of wealthy men like the crazys with tons of drama 🤷♀️ and then later realize it doesnt work well, and find someone thats tame.
Op needs to ruuuuuun
i’m here. Y’all are fucking awesome. I mean freaking awesome.
can someone PLEASE give me the link to the second story? i cannot find it on reddit or google
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Story 1 - I don't like either of them. He is at fault for dating someone way too you and immature. She just sounds like those dishonest, always a victim young women, annoying to be around.
For the first story, I knew the (now ex) girlfriend wasn't telling the whole truth the moment she mentioned she made a post of her morning routine. She sounds like an immature, attention seeking girl who wants everything served to her on a silver platter and seeks validation constantly, even when she's in the wrong. Like really, you got time to make posts like that but won't help your boyfriend at all? She seems like the kind of person who blows up at the smallest inconvenience and instead of addressing things privately she decided to paint her boyfriend as the bad guy just to boost her own ego.
11:30 Exactly what it should mean imho 🥰
First story, weird....ppl need to stop wasting ppls time lol 9 months is enough time to know if u want to be with someone n live with them. She seems like shes just not into him, cuz idk what woman would have such a reaction to her partner buying a house.. knew there was more to this.
I wanna drink with Riley's aunt
Sounds like he is "controlling". RUN!!!
AOP 2 is a total A…hole you have to respect their culture especially if they ask you….the other days where what u want!!😊
Here we go again with men not getting a fair Shake on this channel on Story 1 this man all he did was buy a house and say he plans on her to move in at some point he never said that he forced her to move in immediately all he said was I bought a house for you to move in later on your own terms and I bought the house with you and mind and now out of nowhere he's put so much stress on the relationship that makes no sense all he did was buy a house there is no pressure to move in because quite literally from the woman's perspective she said he bought the house for her to move in at some point she didn't say immediately and now it's oh if somebody would do that to me I would break up with him because he put pressure on the relationship but he said it's up to you😂😂😂😂
Story 1: I wonder what the age gap is...I tried to rewind but does not seem as though it was not mentioned. Irrespective of age gap, they are at different stages in their lives with different priorities.
I probably would have helped my boyfriend move instead of focusing on 'self care', but that is just me. OP sounds maybe a wee bit selfish, but that is where she is at in life. She is a college student and working on herself. They are obviously in different places and I don't think they should be together. OP sounds like she still has a lot of growing up to do and life to experience, and that is fine.
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I hate to say it, but I was seeing through that first gal pretty quickly. She sounded so selfish and entitled. Everything was revolving around her and her wants and needs. She had no concern to help her bf, but plenty of time for "self care." I had a feeling his side would be an eye opener for the panel, as it was. Sounds like he needs to stop picking his dates based on their Instagram selfies.
Unfortunately, I think learning how to spot the "bad guy" is something that only comes with experience. It makes it hard to navigate relationships in your 20's when you won't be able to see a lot of toxic traits until your 30's or later. It's just a sad part of growing up that can't be avoided. If only we could combine the wisdom of our older ages with the vitality that is so fleeting in our youth.
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