@@mridulrajnandi8377 but it is a "he" as it's a male playing the mother's role, I know you're probably thinking as I'm speaking of the mom I should be using "she" to describe the characteristics of the person, but since it's a male who has perfected the mannerisms of a mother and is playing the character I'm using the pronoun "he" instead of she bc I'm not describing the mother here but rather the person playing the role.
How does it feel to know that you have supported millions of people getting their degrees so that all markets are over saturated? *COUGH* China! *COUGH*
i LITERALLY opened the comment section at the EXACT same time she appeared around 16 mins in or smth like that idk xD and the first comment i see was this!!!!
For me it's the menacing looks, funny but also reminding me hey I'm doing important work here!! Also the water and snacks, makes me notice I actually have to eat and drink water too 🤣
And that's exactly why it's the only video which actually makes me work : I continue to study just in case, bc I know she may kung pao my chicken if she sees me procrastinating 😅
I know right! My dad used to be in the living room snoring while watching tv, and my mom would be In the craft room sewing while I do homework. Comfort. ✨✨😩 I miss it, I’m in college now.
@@chloejones644 My dad would just be in the computer room playing games and being toxic to people online, and if I interrupted him he would yell at me... maybe I'll feel nostalgic when I finally leave but I highly doubt it
i'm almost in tears this is unironically the most helpful study tool i've ever seen in my entire life. it's exactly what i need AND she loves me?? bringing me water and stuff? it's so sweet
@@shiorywalker7978 Oh, but part of the fun is the anticipation: when will Asian Mum come to the door again? Speeding it up would take so much of the charm out of it!
Everything in this video is so accurate! The faint sounds of historical drama playing. The way that you can hear a knife hitting the cutting board, the cooking utensils clinking, and the occasional tap water noise hints to you that the Asian mom is in the kitchen preparing food. The sound of an ancient Chinese instrument playing next door, which is what old people often love to put up and listen to(at least in the neighbourhood that I was in). Really reminds me of my childhood when I used to live with my grandma.
I dated a guy who was Chinese and spent a lot of time at his house, this is what it always sounded like there too, and even though I had my problems with him I always loved his mom and appreciate the memories I got to share with his family, as an only child of a single dad i end up wishing for a larger family experience a lot. It’s funny that I now find these noises of Asian drama and the food preparation and Cantopop familiar and comforting as well now as a non Asian person, lol
I’m Latino, but if you replace the historical drama with a soap, and replace the Chinese instrument with old Spanish folk songs, this could be my childhood. Immigrant parents seem to be the same across races.
The fact that this guy performs as our mothers could be (mom passed away in 2020) for some of us comforting and sometimes it could make us shed tears. There are times we need the presence of our mothers (and what they used to do at home...) when we study or work remotely. So thank you, Mr. Pink Towel.
@@yolucid thank you for your kind words. This year will be 5 years without my dear mother, but I will try to keep up good. She would want me to follow and achieve my dreams. Btw, Happy New Year! Wishing you a prosperous year ahead!😊
Hope everyone doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe
I cannot believe this works. I am studying biophysics as a Master's student and for 5 years of high education all I need was a guy pretending as a mom for four hours
As a 35 year old who’s mum passed away when I was 6, this was so comforting. We aren’t Asian but the sound of a mum doing stuff around the house and checking in soothes that inner child. Makes me wonder how she would have parented around study ect.
it must have been tough growing up without your momma, i wish i didnt take mine for granted when i read comments like these... i hope you are well and healthy ❤
This is actually a brilliantly executed idea. One of the most original videos I've ever seen on RUclips. Yeah the Asian mom trope has been played a lot but a full 4 hour experience complete with space to actually do your work is pretty genius not gonna lie.
No but really where can I get more of this stuff. I like having some background noise when I study but music is too much and white noise is so monotonous. This is perfect.
@@magdolyn think they mean just 1 clip of Asian mum looped over and over again, but were surprised there's many different clips to make it immersive :DD
The joke is that it actually really helps me stay motivated to study. She enters so quietly, I’ll never know when the next surprise check is. I better get to work.
@@antimatics759 lol, my mom was this in a different font. She would wait at the closed door listening, then burst open the door really loudly asking how everything was going. No snacks or anything, just “checking in”, lol
@@caidalee1994 Haha tbh my mum did this too when I was talking to friends online - I could hear the floor outside my room creak slightly as she slowly shifted her weight onto it 😂😂
I started laughing because this was funny, but then a slipper flew into my head. I have been studying for some time now... I am now an astronaut, navy seal, and a doctor, and the video is only at the 2 hour mark.
I went through 5 stages watching this: 1) omg this is hilarious 2) wait? he's gonna do this for 4 hours? now thats dedication 3) this is lowkey working... 4) omg this is so wholesome 5) I'm just gonna keep this playing in the background forever
@@idkSpookyStuff I know!! Feels like when mom used to bring me fruit while I do homework stuff. Actually she never did that. She would just call out that there's fruit in the kitchen and I would go get it. Which is still very much appreciated.
The sound of washing the dishes, especially the pan (oh yes i can recognize just by hearing) fills my soul with feelings of security and support. This Masterpiece hits deep.
Dude actually committed to his video. I’ve never seen someone do something like this. I just expected a generic loop style video, but I was surprised. Well done!
@@riverbandit2138 I don't think it's looped, or at least not completely! If you go to 1:40:40, you will see Brett really briefly and that doesn't happen anywhere else in the video
Honestly, in the midst of hundreds of concentration videos and entire playlists made to study, this video is the only one that actually makes me focus for a long time and eases my anxiety. Thanks, Eddie- I mean, Asian mum :)
Uh... There's indeed A LOT of work behind the scenes such as like script, scene timing, sounds, the white nose, the acting, methods for studying time control (I think he was based on the pomodoro method, which I think is amazing, by the way) and we really need to applause this jewel, but I guess, just guessing, that he shot all the scenes at once (by his script) and than edited the video to last 4 amazing comforting hours ❤️
@@SmileOrangeWillow sorry to be a killjoy but it is a loop. Check every time he walks into the room and you will notice that it's the exact same loop. still a great video tho haha
I thought being forced to keep my door open was a bad thing until I started missing her bringing me water/juice/snack/fruit/chocolate/ice cream, gently putting them on an empty spot on the table and walking out without saying a single word so I don't lose my focus
I never thought that something as simple as my mom coming in to bring me a snack and check on me was seemingly so uncommon, judging by the comments. It's so sweet yet sad to read everyone sharing how they never had anything like this and how comforting this video is for them. I promise that when I'm a mother i will forever bring my kids tea and food as they study.
I’m surprised by the amount of people saying their parents come in and check on them like this. I have loving parents of course and maybe it’s because we’re white but if I have to study or do something similar nobody even checks to see if I’m actually working. Sometimes my mom will ask if I’ve done my homework but nothing like this haha This video was definitely comforting, even if I only used it to remind myself to put away my laundry.
This popped up in my recommended videos. My parents were nothing like this growing up, so I'm watching this as an adult & feeling so charmed and cared for (and a little jealous of people with parents who would check on you) -- and it really is helping me focus! I wish someone really were bringing me snacks, though.
im not even asian but this is exactly what i need to finish my paper UPDATE (1 day later): I FINISHED THE PAPER TY ASIAN MUM UPDATE (1 week later): I GOT A 10 🎉🎉🎉 TYSM ASIAN MUM
I grew up in a multigenerational middle eastern household, so when studying my mom, grandma *and* grandpa would occasionally show up to check on me. They would look over my shoulder, talk about my studies and then bring me a fruit platter. This reminds me of those times
I actually teared up, i lost my grandma last year and i was living with her while studying for college. I sometimes leave my door open because the noise from her cooking and watching the news and tv dramas helped me relax my mind (white noise calms me). The best part was every 7pm I would hear her footsteps towards my room so she could call me to eat dinner. She passed away last year, I already graduated but I still live in her house with my aunt, I find myself crying because the silence kills me every time i leave my door open. Edit: Hi, all! Didn't notice that this comment had lots of responses. Thank you all for your heartfelt comments, cried while reading all of it. I am doing okay now, grief is still there but I'm learning to grow around it. I've also left the house, currently living with my fiance so silence isn't really there anymore 😅. But sometimes I still come back to her house just to feel like I have somewhere to return to. And although I still tear up when I think of her, it's mostly tearing up due to my memories of her and not the fact that she is gone. I hope you guys are doing ok as well! Hugs to all of you 💕
@pants_on_fire I understand so well. My mum died last year too and I sometimes spend a very looong time in my car before going home. I find it unbearable to come home to an empty flat.
What twoset thought the response would be: “haha, asian parents, amiright? XD” The actual response: “Thanks, My parent(s) died/were never present and this video was really comforting for me because it helped me somewhat relive an experience I will never get to experience (again)” Its a tad heartbreaking
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Dear Brett and Eddy, if you see this, THANK YOU for leaving this one. When I remembered the existence of this video and that it might be gone, I was really sad. I know many people took great comfort in this. I dont even have an Asian mom but I am one of them! This video is truly a simple but important one of your works.
I wondered this but someone posted some timestamps and it loops after 14 minutes or so. Ingenious idea. I love my practicing though esp now that I'm sounding better (violin).
@@wakingtheworld oh really? I didn’t notice, especially since it’s nighttime where I am so I’m pretty much knocked out lol. But on another note, so excited for you (pertaining to your violin progress) ❤️
@@mayapple6580 I'm already classed as geriatric (in some quarters) though act and feel like a spring chicken! [Ageless like Brett & Eddy. Lol]. I'm signed up for the long haul though so get back to me in 10-15 years! Just loving the journey though and that's a maxim for life. If you focus too much on the destination your forget to enjoy the journey!
My parents weren't really present when I was a kid, and no one ever bothered to come check on me. This makes me so comfortable and it's so calming. Started watching ironically but now im genuinly having a good time
Samee I started watch it because it seemed funny but then I really found it calming. It’s a paradox that even if it’s not as quiet as other videos to study it made me focus a lot more.
I am a 47 yr old white woman. I live by myself in Chiang Mai. I am addicted to this video. It is so comforting to hear Asian mom doing mom stuff around the house and have little visits and check ins.
Okay but the mixing of all the background sounds is so good. It really gives “life” to the house. It’s noise that isn’t too loud, but also makes you less lonely
@@ceciliaC3C1L1A they want to talk regularly to some one every day. Will you make the commitment to actually do that or ? Nope you won't... and neither should you just out of pity.
@@agnidas5816 How do you know what the OP wants? Maybe they just were having a bad day. Maybe one chat would make them happier. Maybe even just knowing someone is out there and cares for a moment is enough. Maybe they do indeed feel horribly lonely. Maybe they just meant it's nice to have some background noise. Maybe none of the above. At least cecil seal is offering something nice. I don't see any pity there - just compassion. What are you contributing to this conversation, or indeed the world beyond with such a cynical attitude?
This is actually so comforting and nostalgic. Even though asian parents seem really strict, they still show their love through their own small gestures like bringing you drinks or food throughout the day. I remember when I was studying for my uni exams and my mum would still be bringing me hot chocolate and snacks at 2am to my room. Thanks Eddy for recreating this comforting feeling. I’m actually using this video to help me focus even for work 😆
Lol We need a asian dad version! My dad would suddenly come in to my room, glances around to see if anything changed, rumbles some random stuff and leaves lmao
Thank you so much for keeping this up. I panicked when I discovered many of your videos had been removed. There was another study video that was also good. I think it was a shorter one. I discovered it fairly recently and I think it was new this year. I really loved that one too. I guess you had to choose one. Thank you for all the years of smiles you brought us. Best wishes for you and your new adventure in life!
Oh my gosh that must be even more stressful XD. The funniest thing is my room is set up in the same orientation as the room in this video, so I can really relate to this. (except in real life whenever my dad does this live I can hear his footsteps so it's less heart-attack inducing)
When I was 12, my mom used to sit with me at my desk from 7 pm to 7 am in the morning. She had the answer sheet ripped out and said I could only go to sleep if I got all the answers right. She never left my desk apart from going to the bathroom. She said I was too “excited for my own good” and needed to be “disciplined.” I’m Korean.
Thank you for your encouragement and support! Your belief in me gives me the motivation to keep pushing towards my goals. Let's work together to make them a reality.
I started watching as a joke, but it actually helps me focus I was reeeeeally sleepy, no background music, lo-fi, ambience, nothing was helping me focus, other study with me with quiet lo-fi also not helping... So I tried this as a joke, and I am now super focused and motivated, can't disappoint my asian mom lol
Same here I was like sitting infront of a paper I have to right looking for motivational videos bit found this and realized it let me focus into my work
The fact that he made this video to put a smile on a few peoples’ faces, and ended up bringing thousands of strangers on the Internet together to laugh, smile, and share comforting experiences is the most wholesome thing I’ve seen in a while
traumatic childhoods help not just bring peeps 2gether but also break the loop for the next gen. we will delete the toxic but keep bringing bowls of fruit to our kids doe. bet
same here, my mum didnt care if i was doing homework or what. she loves me, shes a great mum, but something like this would have never happened. Also i had 5 brothers so my house was extremely noisy
@@decayingpeach not at the moment, i’m starting fresh after dropping out a few years ago 🥹 best of luck to you next semester, and i hope your break is going great!
This video legit sort of heals some of the neglect I experienced in childhood. My mom wasn’t there. She didn’t care if I did my homework or not. And I love to imagine having a mom that taught me to be responsible by being there for me. It makes it even better that this is comedic. If you’ve got a neglect wound, you know what I mean.
feel this. I could have used this video when youtube started (not that videos go be this long, but just play it on repeat and maybe i would have done more school work. and not so much time on other mid-2000 youtube videos.
haha. just talked to my therapist about this yesterday. I think my mom does care about me, but I can't count on her when I need help focusing or organizing . her response to the bad habits I've developed since i was a kid are You should've fixed the problem yourself" or "you are old enough to control your own actions". That would be true if i was taught to be responsible when I was younger, but now that I'm older I have to teach myself and we all know how disappointing a learning irresponsible teenager is right?
i am an international student and while this is hilarious it is also very comforting, the background sound of mum just walking around and doing housework chores. when you live alone you're practically treated with silence everytime you're home, it does get lonely if you're from a hectic Asian household.
@@dafphtthedislikeupdater7836 it's not. I also thought the same. I mean unless your parents are really toxic, which mine were for a while but thankfully stopped, the loneliness does hits you. Imagine spending weekends all by yourself, cleaning up all by yourself, and when you're feeling down, noone to annoy you or distract you. I remember the annoying times of my mom randomly coming in my room, it was annoying back then, but I'd rather have that over being home and realising that when you're sick, you're simply all by yourself. You have to walk to the store with a fever and prepare food by yourself no matter how tired or fatigued you are. Living alone is only fun for the first few months and then then the silence starts getting loud.
@@energeticstunts993 I would love to trade places with you. You don’t get blamed when you are sick and you have a personal space, and no one takes your clothes without consent. What a life!
I came in for a laugh, then I saw all the comments about healing from a neglecting family thanks to this guy and I realised how lucky I have been by this point of view.
Those kinds of scars don’t show. In a world where we can be anything, please be kind. ❤️ I’m glad people are finding some solace through this amazing video. And it’s great for getting things done.
I'm 21 and I've just lost my mum few days ago after long years of fighting bunch of different diseases. I find this background noise comforting ,it reminds me of my childhood when she was there with us. Thank you for this video.
Before this video, I was failing all my classes. I'm now 2 hours in and I already managed to get a PHD, 3 master degrees and become a doctor. Thank you.
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I have an Asian mom and this really hits home. Randomly walking into your room, the "don't be lazy". The vague muffled sounds are also accurate, my mom plays Japanese dramas on her phone on full volume in the other room. I gave her headphones. She doesn't really wear them
My god, asian moms are same everywhere! Mine doesn't wear headphones too! She says she can't hear so put volume on phone to max. Trying to explain that you will hear better with headphones is futile. And opening the doors part, fucking hell, i am getting ptsd
Sometimes I click on videos just because I want to see the comments section, and this was one of them. I thought this was going to be one of those joke kind of videos, especially by the opening scene, but then I read the heartbreaking comments here, I just want to be that mom that so many needed and didn't get or still don't have. I'm sending mom hugs and love and support from Sweden to whoever needs it. Edit- I just had a baby 4 days ago and it was pretty traumatic and painful. Out of nowhere I get a notification about this post and it makes me want to cry. I'm just a small RUclipsr/mom/expat in Sweden. Sometimes I feel all alone and broken but I keep doing what I'm doing because I know the world can get better if we listen to each other's stories and listen to our intuition and help each other feel less alone. Maybe these are incoherent ramblings from an exhausted person but I hope it resonates with someone. Huuuuuugs.
Ohh thank you so much 💗🥰 It's funny how it doesn't really matter how old you are whenever you're sick or tired or having an issue you wish you could go to your mom about it kind of hurts. 🥺 Thank YOU for the mom hugs & love 💕💕 Lots of affectionate daughter love back 💕
got so invested and so focused in this that i went to go pick up my own drink right after this guy brought one in and i spilt it everywhere cause i was still looking at my laptop when i grabbed it, subscribed right after
Its the banging pots and pans and sink running from the kitchen for me, exactly the noises my mom would make. I miss her so much. This video is unexpectedly comforting lol
agreed im the oldest by about 10 yrs and i dont get the "mom care" anymore living alone, especially since shes got 2 others who are still learning how to adult/barely finishing highschool yet. i wish my mom would check on me and bring me tea ;c my g-ma lives in the apartment above me but shes too old for the up&down stairs shit........... so she only comes to bring snacks for my cats ._.
@@unicornwizhez4115 as mom of two i m almost sure that she or wants to do it and says "tomorrow i will" before fall asleep or she think that it would be great but probably you dont need too much. I have an offer. Take a plate or orange slices and you go. You go check on her. Embrace, ask how she s doing and say that you also would be so happy is she check on you that way. I am sure she ll be touched. In our daily routine we need such kind of small emotional help that allows us to look from another angle or stop for a while and remember what really matters ❤️
I'm not even studying and I find this comforting. Sometimes it's just nice to feel like someone else is in the house. My mom never had these background noises, as her and my dad are always at work (Something I am extremely grateful for the work they put in to sustain us) so this just makes me feel nice. It makes me feel like I really do have someone to talk to, despite being alone right now. Thank you Eddie, I greatly appreciate this. Edit: My brain was not totally here when I thanked you, sorry for calling you Brett ^^;
Technically, you can loop this whole video, and this would be an endless time of Eddy checking on you. That would be so spine-chilling though, as you would be watched 24/7 to see if you are studying or not while facing the risks of emotional damage.
I'm 17, currently facing big exams and a lot of pressure from my club as well because I manage the events. I lost my mom last year to breast cancer and I definitely have been slacking off cause my mom is not here to check on me anymore. This video reminded me of so many memories I had with her. Thank you TwoSet for the video
I love this. I got all my homework done without my phone or music or anything like that. My mom came to my room and she shouted me what tf I was doing and turned this off, she didn´t even realize how much this is making me to motivated..."You had to focus on your school blaablaa" Mom. Leave me alone and let this asian mum take care of it. THANK YOU.
im studying for school exams and my mom says the same thing, she also rants about how i have IGCSE next semester and how i have to put away the computer and stuff like that, but the more i listen to her talking i have less time studying sooo...
I was expecting a joke but honestly, this is nice. Ive never known a family home that wasnt ruled by constant anxiety and a strange sense of cold that sucked the life out of you, so having this sense of people having a good time in the other room and having parents who check in on you and bring food and snacks they know you like is healing.
I know this video is supposed to be funny, but it made me realize I never knew there were parents out there that paid this much attention to their children. I was lucky to even see my videogame-addicted father out of the computer room for 30 minutes throughout the day, certainly never bringing snacks for me. To realize that people actually had this... I'm crying now
It can be a good and a bad thing. My mom smothered me growing up. Her entire life revolved around me. The first time I drove a car by myself was after I had graduated from high school and the only reason I was allowed was because I had my first job. I just wanted her to get her own life and let me have some freedom. Often, we want what we don't have. My siblings were 10+ years older than me and I wished desperately for siblings my age. If I'd had them, I probably would have dreamed of being an only child.
as a person who hates being at home because of relationship with parents, i feel so thankful to Eddy because this feels like normal, peaceful home which i never had. thank you.
I lost my parents to covid last year in September (2021) two weeks apart, so now I live with my grandma. This helps a lot, cause I don't get the 'parents checking up' on you anymore like other kids. I was 15 when they passed, now 16.
At first i laughed but then when the asian mum came in with some drink i automatically started tearing up. Thanks for giving me the attention that my parents never did
Peeled tangerine, 10hour slow simmered tasty soup, dried fig, fish oil capsule, mint candy, sunflower seeds, apple slices, heated blanket my ma literally comes in with all types of stuffs for emotional support 😂
@@Therealalbot you don't get asmr that's why it makes you feel that way. Asmr is an actual feeling like as if someone is giving you a really soothing head massage in response to the whispering etc. I was one of the first people that brought the entire thing to RUclips.
Literally not even three minutes in and suddenly want to cry because I realized that this is a needed thing for people. That people don't always have a mom of their own who cares very much about them. I really love my mom. She's helped me so much in my life and has always been my biggest advocate. She's still letting me stay with her at 23 years old, not just because of it being a cultural thing, but because she doesn't want me to be struggling for food and heating when I'm already struggling to figure out what to do to get to a point where I can actually get a job or go to college. She might baby me a bit, but I'm still thankful for it. I'm very thankful that I have such an awesome mom.
It is so true....my mom is still in my life but my parents divorced when I was 9 and I lived with my dad who worked 12 hour shifts. My mum was never that nurturing to begin with, shes more of a friend kind of mom. So I actually never had this where a parent would "check in" on me or even encourage me to do work. They were never that involved in my life. I wish I had a parent who cared enough to do so, this is kind of comforting and reminds me of my grandma.
There’s nothing wrong with staying with your parents for longer if you’re happy there. It’s more economical, you have more support, and you can focus on improving your future and taking care of yourself. It really just makes sense. Happy you have that!!
It might sound a bit silly, but it really hit me. Even though it's just a made-up thing, the fact that someone wants you to concentrate and not get distracted by trivial stuff is kind of heartwarming. I have ADHD and I've never really had anyone that cared about my focus like that. I literally always have to beg my family to let me study in peace...
Yeah same. My mom never understood my struggles with focus and just always assumed I could study on my own. This is why I am always under so much stress as a student.
100%. I can see this being a LOT and too much at times. But there is a lot of genuine care in how she comes back and checks in. The fact that she brings drinks and food shows that it's not about making you suffer through it. Its about helping you focus and giving you support you need along the way. I wish I had such dedicated parenting in my life as a kid. It makes me wonder if this is actually what it's like in Asian (and other) families.
Same here. Even now in my early 30s, finally in college, I put off the entire week's homework until the last 6 hours before it was due. My mom just says, "I'll pray for peace of mind and motivation." Clearly that isn't helping lol
You know he really is a mom when he doesn't close the room's door and leaves it wide open
I think it’s a she...
@@mridulrajnandi8377 but it is a "he" as it's a male playing the mother's role, I know you're probably thinking as I'm speaking of the mom I should be using "she" to describe the characteristics of the person, but since it's a male who has perfected the mannerisms of a mother and is playing the character I'm using the pronoun "he" instead of she bc I'm not describing the mother here but rather the person playing the role.
@@violetlantern Ops... I am sorry...Never mind😅
@@mridulrajnandi8377 you weren't completely wrong either, but it's fine
@@violetlantern 🤓
You know what? If this guy can roleplay for 4 straight hours then I can sure as hell get my work done
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Impressive but It's on a loop 1:45:04 & 3:51:21 are the same.
Yeah because edited can’t exist
Great concept backed by creative editing and sound design
What a powerful Phenomenon!!
the constant sound of house work, chinese drama in the background, walking pass the door randomly, it's perfect
I agree with u, Do u have a video similar to this?
@@oucui_09 no unfortunately
Absolutely
🤌
I am just realizing that this is exactly what it says it is, in the most hilarious way.
The fact that they kept this video up means they want us to keep practicing
agreed
True
😭😭😭😭😭
They even said it in the New York Times article.
the fact that this guy is just going around the house and occasionally checking inside the room for 4 hours is truly asian mom dedication
pretty sure the cuts are reused and looped. If not, wow! The dedication is phenomenal.
@@hellointernet334yes it was looped
It's looped
Off camera Asian mom is saying "go do your video. You said every two minutes. You have to do what you say, finish what you start
dedicasian
how does it feel to know that you have supported millions of people in getting their degrees
Thanks for the tea Ma
How does it feel to know that you have supported millions of people getting their degrees so that all markets are over saturated? *COUGH* China! *COUGH*
how did this help someone get a degree????
By helping them study 🤗 @@swaggychicken.
@@swaggychicken. It's statistically proven that asian moms make their asian kid get good grades and be smarter
*comes in with a plate of orange slices
you forgot an asterisk
wow steven’s not top comment
@Peter ik right
the greatest show of affection
They literally filmed a four hour video lmao
I thought it was just a loop of the same clip repeated, but it wasn’t
You know this video is real accurate when the stare keeps you from seeing the comment section while it's playing.
fr
OMG... he even has the background noise of mom cutting some stuff in the kitchen.... doing her chores..... wow. That's just amazing!
I love that part too
And the sound of tv playing Chinese dramas😆making it even more realistic
well, that's what i call DEDICATION
i LITERALLY opened the comment section at the EXACT same time she appeared around 16 mins in or smth like that idk xD
and the first comment i see was this!!!!
IKR!!
love that she checks up before the two minute mark to try and catch me not doing my work. true mother move
Lol Yesssss
My mother was very light footed but I'd call her out, "Mooooom I know you're right outside the door!"
@@maggieking6619 Haha LOL
thanks for the warning!!
I noticed that
My sister saw me using this video when I'm learning programming. She laughed so hard and told my mom and now they are both laughing at me.
haha, me too my entire family is laughing at me.but you know it is kinda helpful
For me it's the menacing looks, funny but also reminding me hey I'm doing important work here!! Also the water and snacks, makes me notice I actually have to eat and drink water too 🤣
you and i lol
Haha same. I told my parents and they burst out laughing. But hey atleast it helps us
Your family does not know the true beauty that lies within this 4 hour long video
PLEASE DON'T DELETE THIS VIDEO I NEED IT TO STUDY
Just download it
Did you study?
i fucking love that this exists. what genre is this? study music? ambience? roleplay ASMR? life coaching????? political commentary?????????????????
The political commentary but actually made me lol
😂 nice
i saved this in my study music playlist lmaoo
Slice of Life
Just good for Society
I know everyone else loves it but this feels like a horror jumpscare game because you never know when she's coming in.
Hahaha yeah! It’s like she could come and pop out at any moment...
I thought I was the only one 😂
She said every two minutes!
welcome to strict parents
And that's exactly why it's the only video which actually makes me work : I continue to study just in case, bc I know she may kung pao my chicken if she sees me procrastinating 😅
Thank you! This helped me to finish school, get a PhD and start a family in 4 hours.
You didn’t get a medical degree?!? 🙀
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😏
Nah, must be in engineering major
That's all? 😂
The way I hid my phone and got back to work when I heard her coming 🤣this is one of the only things that actually gets me to focus with 100% success.
lmao 🤣🤣
Not gonna lie but just the sound of a tv in the background and someone who loves you pottering about in another room is so nostalgic and comforting
oohhh you managed to put a feeling into words so beautifully. that is so right. dad watching tv, mom preparing a meal, the world is safe and good.
Bro that makes you sound so lonely ;-;
I'm lonely too 😭😭😭
I know right! My dad used to be in the living room snoring while watching tv, and my mom would be In the craft room sewing while I do homework. Comfort. ✨✨😩 I miss it, I’m in college now.
@@chloejones644 My dad would just be in the computer room playing games and being toxic to people online, and if I interrupted him he would yell at me... maybe I'll feel nostalgic when I finally leave but I highly doubt it
💔😭
The fact that he left the door wide open like every mom does makes this x10 times more realistic.
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i'm almost in tears this is unironically the most helpful study tool i've ever seen in my entire life. it's exactly what i need AND she loves me?? bringing me water and stuff? it's so sweet
i finished typing that comment and then my own mom came in to help me by whipping a square of sea salt caramel ghirardelli chocolate at my head
I'm in danger of sitting here and watching the entire four hours, instead of doing what I'm supposed to do. This is brilliant.
Legit same
You could speed it up xD
@@shiorywalker7978 Oh, but part of the fun is the anticipation: when will Asian Mum come to the door again? Speeding it up would take so much of the charm out of it!
I swear someone should make a whole channel based on this idea. I bet it would get tons of views, it’s so simple but effective.
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This is so great. I feel like an adopted Slavic child in an Asian family but it's the same mum vibe. I'm comforted and a little threatened
"comforted and a little threatened" pretty much sums up the whole experience
THIS
Yeup, a very authentic experience
@Moon Child or those wooden shoes, which hurt so much
YEAH that's what i thought exactly. like this sounds from the kitchen and absolutely unneeded rudeness lol
Everything in this video is so accurate! The faint sounds of historical drama playing. The way that you can hear a knife hitting the cutting board, the cooking utensils clinking, and the occasional tap water noise hints to you that the Asian mom is in the kitchen preparing food. The sound of an ancient Chinese instrument playing next door, which is what old people often love to put up and listen to(at least in the neighbourhood that I was in).
Really reminds me of my childhood when I used to live with my grandma.
I love your profil pic
I dated a guy who was Chinese and spent a lot of time at his house, this is what it always sounded like there too, and even though I had my problems with him I always loved his mom and appreciate the memories I got to share with his family, as an only child of a single dad i end up wishing for a larger family experience a lot. It’s funny that I now find these noises of Asian drama and the food preparation and Cantopop familiar and comforting as well now as a non Asian person, lol
and the way she doesn't ever bother to close the door 💀
This is also what it sounded like growing up in my grandma's house 😭
I’m Latino, but if you replace the historical drama with a soap, and replace the Chinese instrument with old Spanish folk songs, this could be my childhood. Immigrant parents seem to be the same across races.
The fact that this guy performs as our mothers could be (mom passed away in 2020) for some of us comforting and sometimes it could make us shed tears. There are times we need the presence of our mothers (and what they used to do at home...) when we study or work remotely. So thank you, Mr. Pink Towel.
the mister pink towel got me lol
So sorry for your loss. Glad you found good out of this video. x
@@yolucid thank you for your kind words. This year will be 5 years without my dear mother, but I will try to keep up good. She would want me to follow and achieve my dreams. Btw, Happy New Year! Wishing you a prosperous year ahead!😊
wishing you good luck brother, stay strong
@@lifeiscringe770 thank you, buddy. Hope this new year will be amazing and full of good memories for you.
I clicked on this for a laugh but turns out this is what I’ve been looking for my whole life. Thanks dude with pink towel for being a good mom
Same lol
It’s purple 😂
Purple. It’s a purple towel. If you were really studying, you’d know that.
Hope everyone doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe
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I cannot believe this works. I am studying biophysics as a Master's student and for 5 years of high education all I need was a guy pretending as a mom for four hours
True! The other "study with me" videos seems useless 😐 but this one was great, the sad part is I can't find content like this in RUclips 😭😭😭
We're all man child after all 😭.
RIGHT i just spent the last 4 hours studying like i never did before!! this is magic
something in me does not want to disappoint an asian mom and i am currently writing a proposal. ive never been more productive
Moms are very important 😁
Now I just need a 40-hour version so I can practice 40 hours a day
Loop it 10 times
Ah yes 40 hours a DAY
@@PrincesaVanessayes 40 hours a day, if you are truly professional you can do it
i dont think ur studying enough
Just watch this video 4 times 👍😀
I'm a freshman with adhd studying for my first time of high school finals- this genuinely helped. Thank you.
Me too!
As a 35 year old who’s mum passed away when I was 6, this was so comforting. We aren’t Asian but the sound of a mum doing stuff around the house and checking in soothes that inner child. Makes me wonder how she would have parented around study ect.
it must have been tough growing up without your momma, i wish i didnt take mine for granted when i read comments like these... i hope you are well and healthy ❤
deep
Rest In peace to your mother :(
Sincerest condolences and virtual hugs. All the best.
omg my mom passed when i was 6 too
This is actually a brilliantly executed idea. One of the most original videos I've ever seen on RUclips. Yeah the Asian mom trope has been played a lot but a full 4 hour experience complete with space to actually do your work is pretty genius not gonna lie.
Fr this is some new content that some will recreate lol
No but really where can I get more of this stuff. I like having some background noise when I study but music is too much and white noise is so monotonous. This is perfect.
@@lillipupzilla You should try looking up “cooking asmr no talking” or something like that
Jokes apart this video was relaxing ngl
Do this with everything i need it lol
I was expecting just looped Eddy, but then he BRINGS US TEA???!!! And acts like a real mum??
Masterpiece!
It *is* just looped Eddy... it's looped from the threatening hanger to picking up the food dish. It's extremely well looped, though.
Wdym, it's your Asian mum!!! Who's Eddy
@@VioAnimation exactly!
@@magdolyn think they mean just 1 clip of Asian mum looped over and over again, but were surprised there's many different clips to make it immersive :DD
@@not_mana Exactly this. I was also expecting the same thing and was surprised
My mom passed away a couple of years ago, you have no idea how both comedic and therapeutic this is for me.
The joke is that it actually really helps me stay motivated to study. She enters so quietly, I’ll never know when the next surprise check is. I better get to work.
They enter like a black ops operative and bring food/water/literally anything. Seems strict but wholesome - gonna enjoy it while it lasts :)
fr
EXACTLY. i feel the same way, and ive actually been using this to study
@@antimatics759 lol, my mom was this in a different font. She would wait at the closed door listening, then burst open the door really loudly asking how everything was going. No snacks or anything, just “checking in”, lol
@@caidalee1994 Haha tbh my mum did this too when I was talking to friends online - I could hear the floor outside my room creak slightly as she slowly shifted her weight onto it 😂😂
I started laughing because this was funny, but then a slipper flew into my head. I have been studying for some time now... I am now an astronaut, navy seal, and a doctor, and the video is only at the 2 hour mark.
“I am now an astronaut, navy seal, and a doctor” Jonny is that you
i was thinking the sam thing lol@@JamesIsAway
woooooooooooooooooo
but you're not a lawyer bro
@@doctorateinmadison boom
I went through 5 stages watching this:
1) omg this is hilarious
2) wait? he's gonna do this for 4 hours? now thats dedication
3) this is lowkey working...
4) omg this is so wholesome
5) I'm just gonna keep this playing in the background forever
YES! Especially the part when he brought the cups in and sat them down. It made me so happy.
DOes it worked? I'm trying it now hahaha
@@idkSpookyStuff I know!! Feels like when mom used to bring me fruit while I do homework stuff. Actually she never did that. She would just call out that there's fruit in the kitchen and I would go get it. Which is still very much appreciated.
@@Bren-I-oop hahaha yes!! this exactly
Literally tho
The sound of washing the dishes, especially the pan (oh yes i can recognize just by hearing) fills my soul with feelings of security and support. This Masterpiece hits deep.
I definitely can't study with this. I become too curious about when the mother will show up again. Too entertaining!
Omg this is me too hahhaha
Omg this is me too hahhaha
lol same
OMG same here!
It gets better the second time.
Dude actually committed to his video. I’ve never seen someone do something like this. I just expected a generic loop style video, but I was surprised. Well done!
Well, it loops xD
…well the idea was fun while it lasted.
@@riverbandit2138 LMAO nooooo
@@riverbandit2138 I don't think it's looped, or at least not completely! If you go to 1:40:40, you will see Brett really briefly and that doesn't happen anywhere else in the video
there are repeat visits but they're peppered in at different times, and some of them only happen once. it's done really well
Hi because of this video I was able to study better and pass my Board Exam, I'm now a Registered Electrical Engineer thank you!!
what.
@@komatsu5366 secret
@@komatsu5366 PFT
Letsgoo! So happy for you!
@@snowy6156 thank you❤
Honestly, in the midst of hundreds of concentration videos and entire playlists made to study, this video is the only one that actually makes me focus for a long time and eases my anxiety. Thanks, Eddie- I mean, Asian mum :)
Can we just.....for a moment....this guy essentially roleplayed for 4 hours straight. Applause.
edit: i now know it loops...thanks for the knowledge
i thought it would be a loop at first, but he was actually doing different things🧡
Uh... There's indeed A LOT of work behind the scenes such as like script, scene timing, sounds, the white nose, the acting, methods for studying time control (I think he was based on the pomodoro method, which I think is amazing, by the way) and we really need to applause this jewel, but I guess, just guessing, that he shot all the scenes at once (by his script) and than edited the video to last 4 amazing comforting hours ❤️
it actually does loop lol
@@SmileOrangeWillow sorry to be a killjoy but it is a loop. Check every time he walks into the room and you will notice that it's the exact same loop. still a great video tho haha
@@SmileOrangeWillow ofc it is a loop lol, do you really think someone would do it for 4 straight hours
I thought being forced to keep my door open was a bad thing until I started missing her bringing me water/juice/snack/fruit/chocolate/ice cream, gently putting them on an empty spot on the table and walking out without saying a single word so I don't lose my focus
❤️
What a lovely mum
My asian mom tells me to cook instant noodle instead lolol
This is so cute
You’re lucky to have a mom like that 😢
I never thought that something as simple as my mom coming in to bring me a snack and check on me was seemingly so uncommon, judging by the comments. It's so sweet yet sad to read everyone sharing how they never had anything like this and how comforting this video is for them. I promise that when I'm a mother i will forever bring my kids tea and food as they study.
As an Asian Mom, it is hard for us not to do this😂
I’m surprised by the amount of people saying their parents come in and check on them like this. I have loving parents of course and maybe it’s because we’re white but if I have to study or do something similar nobody even checks to see if I’m actually working. Sometimes my mom will ask if I’ve done my homework but nothing like this haha
This video was definitely comforting, even if I only used it to remind myself to put away my laundry.
Asian kid here, my mom definitely did this. Actually a little too often, but sweet nonetheless
I hope I'm a mum someday so I can do this too
Guessing you want to be a stay at home mom? Because that’s the only way except over the weekend or you wfh
This popped up in my recommended videos. My parents were nothing like this growing up, so I'm watching this as an adult & feeling so charmed and cared for (and a little jealous of people with parents who would check on you) -- and it really is helping me focus! I wish someone really were bringing me snacks, though.
im not even asian but this is exactly what i need to finish my paper
UPDATE (1 day later): I FINISHED THE PAPER TY ASIAN MUM
UPDATE (1 week later): I GOT A 10 🎉🎉🎉 TYSM ASIAN MUM
its a 10/10..right..? not 10/100 right?? LMAO
@@horriblekellible lmao yea it's 10/10
and now 1 month later???
congrats!!
hahhahahah Asian mum will ask:
@@horriblekellible
Wait. This needs to be an entire genre. It really helps combat my ADHD brain.
I literally just emailed my therapist this video and said the same thing
Yes!
Lol not me using it as a timer for my next dose 🤭
Body doubling at its finest
Yes!! Agree! It's the "body double" thing
I grew up in a multigenerational middle eastern household, so when studying my mom, grandma *and* grandpa would occasionally show up to check on me. They would look over my shoulder, talk about my studies and then bring me a fruit platter. This reminds me of those times
That’s so sweet and kind ☺️it feels like a warm hug when family does things like that.
Precious memories 💖
Middle eastern..of course a fruit platter 😊
That sounds awesome!
I would’ve adored getting that fruit platter!
I'm glad they didn't deleat this one
I actually teared up, i lost my grandma last year and i was living with her while studying for college. I sometimes leave my door open because the noise from her cooking and watching the news and tv dramas helped me relax my mind (white noise calms me). The best part was every 7pm I would hear her footsteps towards my room so she could call me to eat dinner. She passed away last year, I already graduated but I still live in her house with my aunt, I find myself crying because the silence kills me every time i leave my door open.
Edit: Hi, all! Didn't notice that this comment had lots of responses. Thank you all for your heartfelt comments, cried while reading all of it. I am doing okay now, grief is still there but I'm learning to grow around it. I've also left the house, currently living with my fiance so silence isn't really there anymore 😅. But sometimes I still come back to her house just to feel like I have somewhere to return to. And although I still tear up when I think of her, it's mostly tearing up due to my memories of her and not the fact that she is gone. I hope you guys are doing ok as well! Hugs to all of you 💕
Sending you lots of love. This immensely love will never fade for sure 😓❤️
What a blessing you got to spend so much time with her at the end. You will always cherish those memories. She must be so proud of you.
This just made me really emotional. I miss my granny too
Aww my heart goes out to you. Surely your heart will be healed & your precious memories will always serve love in some way🤎
@pants_on_fire I understand so well. My mum died last year too and I sometimes spend a very looong time in my car before going home. I find it unbearable to come home to an empty flat.
Calling it now this is going to start an entire new genre of video on RUclips
"Ling-Fi moms to practice/study to"
@@yukikofujiwara2144 underrated comment 😭😭😭😭
👍🏻
You’re so right
Ha ha ha 🍿
What twoset thought the response would be: “haha, asian parents, amiright? XD”
The actual response: “Thanks, My parent(s) died/were never present and this video was really comforting for me because it helped me somewhat relive an experience I will never get to experience (again)”
Its a tad heartbreaking
lol imagine- haha ... hahah..... (my mom is dead) anyways.... XD ,x3 ,yolo ,pog ,pogchanmp, dab on hater
Both my parents were much elderly & had me late. So I feel that man. This was actually nice even though it was comical.
so sorry to hear that :( i hope you’re coping well and still practicing.
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''Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit'' (Matthew 28:19)
''Those who accepted his message were baptized, and about three thousand were added to their number that day.'' (Acts 2:41)
''And this water symbolizes the baptism that now saves you also - not the removal of dirt from the body,
but the pledge of a clear conscience toward God - through the resurrection of Jesus Christ,'' (1 Peter 3:21)
''We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that,
just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life.'' (Romans 6:4)
''Having been buried with him in baptism, in which you were also raised with him through your faith in the working of God,
who raised him from the dead.'' (Colossians 2:12)
Please get right with God and start your relationship with Jesus Christ today before it’s too late, because there’s not much time left!
"But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.’’ (Mark 13:32)
Get to know Christ through God's Word - Bible. At first I recommend reading Gospel of John and book of Romans. God bless you!
Jeremiah 29:13 - ''You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.''
I’m sorry, I hope you’re doing okay ❤
Dear Brett and Eddy, if you see this, THANK YOU for leaving this one. When I remembered the existence of this video and that it might be gone, I was really sad. I know many people took great comfort in this. I dont even have an Asian mom but I am one of them! This video is truly a simple but important one of your works.
Ok but can we appreciate how Eddy literally took time out of his 40 hours of practice to film this 4 hour long video of him coming in every minute?
I wondered this but someone posted some timestamps and it loops after 14 minutes or so. Ingenious idea. I love my practicing though esp now that I'm sounding better (violin).
@@wakingtheworld oh really? I didn’t notice, especially since it’s nighttime where I am so I’m pretty much knocked out lol. But on another note, so excited for you (pertaining to your violin progress) ❤️
@@mayapple6580 I'm already classed as geriatric (in some quarters) though act and feel like a spring chicken! [Ageless like Brett & Eddy. Lol]. I'm signed up for the long haul though so get back to me in 10-15 years! Just loving the journey though and that's a maxim for life. If you focus too much on the destination your forget to enjoy the journey!
What do you mean Eddie?
@@DreamingCatStudio And you mean Eddy in your 'What do you mean Eddie'!!!
My parents weren't really present when I was a kid, and no one ever bothered to come check on me. This makes me so comfortable and it's so calming. Started watching ironically but now im genuinly having a good time
I'm exactly the same here. It's a great video, which I expected to be purely crack.
saaame
How old are you, out of curiosity?
Samee I started watch it because it seemed funny but then I really found it calming. It’s a paradox that even if it’s not as quiet as other videos to study it made me focus a lot more.
Same
I'm not Asian, but Asian mum welcomed me into her home and helped *forced* me to study for my chemistry midterm. I got a 97% on it. Thanks Asian mum!!
Very nice!
😂❤
"why did u lose the last 3%?"
Congratulations!!
Only??? 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
I am a 47 yr old white woman. I live by myself in Chiang Mai. I am addicted to this video. It is so comforting to hear Asian mom doing mom stuff around the house and have little visits and check ins.
Okay but the mixing of all the background sounds is so good. It really gives “life” to the house. It’s noise that isn’t too loud, but also makes you less lonely
Do you wanna talk?
@@ceciliaC3C1L1A pretty sure she means the background ambience sounds like it's a real life scenario, which i also agree with nice details.
@@ceciliaC3C1L1A ????
@@ceciliaC3C1L1A they want to talk regularly to some one every day. Will you make the commitment to actually do that or ? Nope you won't... and neither should you just out of pity.
@@agnidas5816 How do you know what the OP wants? Maybe they just were having a bad day. Maybe one chat would make them happier. Maybe even just knowing someone is out there and cares for a moment is enough. Maybe they do indeed feel horribly lonely. Maybe they just meant it's nice to have some background noise. Maybe none of the above. At least cecil seal is offering something nice. I don't see any pity there - just compassion. What are you contributing to this conversation, or indeed the world beyond with such a cynical attitude?
This is actually so comforting and nostalgic. Even though asian parents seem really strict, they still show their love through their own small gestures like bringing you drinks or food throughout the day. I remember when I was studying for my uni exams and my mum would still be bringing me hot chocolate and snacks at 2am to my room. Thanks Eddy for recreating this comforting feeling. I’m actually using this video to help me focus even for work 😆
Mixed bag. They love their children. Yet they also want to elevate their own self images through making their children showpieces and trophies.
I’m playing this at work, tooo!! hahahaha
i don't get that.... i just get yelled at lmao
Not all asian parents are the same, even if some share similar traits, guys
bro you couldn't have said it any better. My mom is exactly like this
Lol We need a asian dad version! My dad would suddenly come in to my room, glances around to see if anything changed, rumbles some random stuff and leaves lmao
Ikr
1:40:40 XD
That should be Brett
Ha ha 😂
This is so accurate
Thank you so much for keeping this up. I panicked when I discovered many of your videos had been removed. There was another study video that was also good. I think it was a shorter one. I discovered it fairly recently and I think it was new this year. I really loved that one too. I guess you had to choose one. Thank you for all the years of smiles you brought us. Best wishes for you and your new adventure in life!
As an Indian this hits way too close to home. The only reason I don't use it is because I have the real version.
You are so lucky. Don't forget that. ❤
Lol bestie same, desi parents really be a different breed
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my slavic mom is like this too, it really warms my heart
@@katm8128 same
good lord this hits home too hard... i would have actually used it while studying if i didnt have my mom doing it live...
Oh my gosh that must be even more stressful XD. The funniest thing is my room is set up in the same orientation as the room in this video, so I can really relate to this. (except in real life whenever my dad does this live I can hear his footsteps so it's less heart-attack inducing)
When I was 12, my mom used to sit with me at my desk from 7 pm to 7 am in the morning. She had the answer sheet ripped out and said I could only go to sleep if I got all the answers right. She never left my desk apart from going to the bathroom. She said I was too “excited for my own good” and needed to be “disciplined.” I’m Korean.
@@bagelized Duuuuuude what? Gosh it must have been hard
@@bagelized That's wild. I'm dutch and I can't remember myself ever sticking to homework longer than 5 minutes non-stop.
@@bagelized oh fucking no... this would have just prevented me from concentrating instead.. im better off with the peak in once every 20 mins or so
I put this on 4 hours ago and now I'm a doctor. Thanks, Asian mum!
congoooo!!!!! she is proud of you
Congrats 😂😂
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Thank you for your kind words. I'm always happy to help. Just reach out if you need anything else. Have a wonderful day ahead!
Thank you for your encouragement and support! Your belief in me gives me the motivation to keep pushing towards my goals. Let's work together to make them a reality.
ty asian mom for your help. now i can focus on my studies
I started watching as a joke, but it actually helps me focus
I was reeeeeally sleepy, no background music, lo-fi, ambience, nothing was helping me focus, other study with me with quiet lo-fi also not helping...
So I tried this as a joke, and I am now super focused and motivated, can't disappoint my asian mom lol
İ feel u
Same here, exclude the asian part tho hehe~
SAMEONG
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Same here I was like sitting infront of a paper I have to right looking for motivational videos bit found this and realized it let me focus into my work
The fact that he made this video to put a smile on a few peoples’ faces, and ended up bringing thousands of strangers on the Internet together to laugh, smile, and share comforting experiences is the most wholesome thing I’ve seen in a while
traumatic childhoods help not just bring peeps 2gether but also break the loop for the next gen. we will delete the toxic but keep bringing bowls of fruit to our kids doe. bet
@@oxiary ❤️🌞❤️
Also motivates studdieng
I lost my dad when I was 11 and lost my mom just a few months ago. This makes me feel apart of a family again, thank you.
I hope both mentally and physically you're doing ok, this video seems to help people mentally
@@sirandy105 i dont think this guys ok if this video makes him feel like he is a part of a family again. no sane person would feel that.
@@leoli1589 Oh wow ok
@@leoli1589 sadly gotta agree lmao
hope the lad gets better
I hope you are doing all right, do you need to talk about it or are you fine? Hang it there
Thank god you keept this video
Y’know i was educationally neglected by my mom so this is weirdly healing
same here, my mum didnt care if i was doing homework or what. she loves me, shes a great mum, but something like this would have never happened. Also i had 5 brothers so my house was extremely noisy
same, i'm starting college again in a few weeks and am really excited to use this for homework/studying lol
@@moonrhythmss omg i was just thinking that!! you on chrismas break too?
"educationally neglected" ... 🤔
... lightbulb goes off in brain.
*Eureka moment.*
Thanks for giving what happened to me a name! 🥹
@@decayingpeach not at the moment, i’m starting fresh after dropping out a few years ago 🥹 best of luck to you next semester, and i hope your break is going great!
This video legit sort of heals some of the neglect I experienced in childhood. My mom wasn’t there. She didn’t care if I did my homework or not. And I love to imagine having a mom that taught me to be responsible by being there for me. It makes it even better that this is comedic. If you’ve got a neglect wound, you know what I mean.
Be brave my friend. There wounds can become a window.
Or a medicine for someone else.
Gather your pieces and stand up ❤
feel this. I could have used this video when youtube started (not that videos go be this long, but just play it on repeat and maybe i would have done more school work. and not so much time on other mid-2000 youtube videos.
haha. just talked to my therapist about this yesterday. I think my mom does care about me, but I can't count on her when I need help focusing or organizing . her response to the bad habits I've developed since i was a kid are You should've fixed the problem yourself" or "you are old enough to control your own actions". That would be true if i was taught to be responsible when I was younger, but now that I'm older I have to teach myself and we all know how disappointing a learning irresponsible teenager is right?
I'm so sorry. You deserve better. If you ever have kids, l know they will feel loved by you :) 💜
I came here for this comment, I was feeling the same way. Thank God Jesus said that even if our mom and dad forsake us, God will adopt us as His own
i am an international student and while this is hilarious it is also very comforting, the background sound of mum just walking around and doing housework chores. when you live alone you're practically treated with silence everytime you're home, it does get lonely if you're from a hectic Asian household.
sounds peaceful honestly, let's trade places pls
@@dafphtthedislikeupdater7836 it's not. I also thought the same. I mean unless your parents are really toxic, which mine were for a while but thankfully stopped, the loneliness does hits you.
Imagine spending weekends all by yourself, cleaning up all by yourself, and when you're feeling down, noone to annoy you or distract you.
I remember the annoying times of my mom randomly coming in my room, it was annoying back then, but I'd rather have that over being home and realising that when you're sick, you're simply all by yourself.
You have to walk to the store with a fever and prepare food by yourself no matter how tired or fatigued you are.
Living alone is only fun for the first few months and then then the silence starts getting loud.
@@energeticstunts993 sounds like what I already do lol, id love not to get blamed when I get sick
@@energeticstunts993 let's trade places (2)
@@energeticstunts993 I would love to trade places with you. You don’t get blamed when you are sick and you have a personal space, and no one takes your clothes without consent. What a life!
Honestly, Every time the faucet would turn off, the dishes silence gave me that sense of “ok mom is coming” work👩💻✍️
I came in for a laugh, then I saw all the comments about healing from a neglecting family thanks to this guy and I realised how lucky I have been by this point of view.
Same
Those kinds of scars don’t show. In a world where we can be anything, please be kind. ❤️ I’m glad people are finding some solace through this amazing video. And it’s great for getting things done.
As an Asian, this is so accurate. Leaving the doors open, TV sounds outside, checking every now and then, and bringing water into the room......
"Natural ventilation, no aircon until time to sleep, cuz it's waste of money"
Feel same, non-Aisan here.
"Do you want fruits?"
"it's ok ma, I'm not hun-"
"I CUT ALREADY JUST EAT"
I wish my parents would check up on me when i’m practicing 😭
Bringing the fruits too, hits so close to home
I'm 21 and I've just lost my mum few days ago after long years of fighting bunch of different diseases. I find this background noise comforting ,it reminds me of my childhood when she was there with us. Thank you for this video.
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I feel the same, but I´m 19 and my mom died two years ago. The comfort is still very much needed
Sending support to you and your family, may she rest in peace 🙏🏻💐
may she fly high!!
@@PaolaGonzalez-pl1iq my condolences
omg PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS VIDEO
Before this video, I was failing all my classes. I'm now 2 hours in and I already managed to get a PHD, 3 master degrees and become a doctor. Thank you.
I know, right?? I actually won a Nobel Prize right at the 4 hour mark.
@@Iamthepossum lol
Hope everyone doing good. Sending support and hearts! ❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe. Always remember that people care, one of them, me. Sending support and even more hearts!❤️❤️❤️ Stay safe❤❤❤
I solved world hunger at the 4 hour mark
...in The Sims 4
I have an Asian mom and this really hits home. Randomly walking into your room, the "don't be lazy". The vague muffled sounds are also accurate, my mom plays Japanese dramas on her phone on full volume in the other room. I gave her headphones. She doesn't really wear them
My god, asian moms are same everywhere! Mine doesn't wear headphones too! She says she can't hear so put volume on phone to max. Trying to explain that you will hear better with headphones is futile. And opening the doors part, fucking hell, i am getting ptsd
Oh yes, I'm Vietnamese and my mom is really loudly
The full volume dramas are WAY TOO accurate
mine is watching turkish drama but same vibe, full volume in the other room, door open. That was the background music of my studying years
"Mom, just wear headphones."
"NO, headphones are bad for your ears la"
Sometimes I click on videos just because I want to see the comments section, and this was one of them. I thought this was going to be one of those joke kind of videos, especially by the opening scene, but then I read the heartbreaking comments here, I just want to be that mom that so many needed and didn't get or still don't have. I'm sending mom hugs and love and support from Sweden to whoever needs it.
Edit- I just had a baby 4 days ago and it was pretty traumatic and painful. Out of nowhere I get a notification about this post and it makes me want to cry. I'm just a small RUclipsr/mom/expat in Sweden. Sometimes I feel all alone and broken but I keep doing what I'm doing because I know the world can get better if we listen to each other's stories and listen to our intuition and help each other feel less alone. Maybe these are incoherent ramblings from an exhausted person but I hope it resonates with someone. Huuuuuugs.
Thank you so much ❤
Girl, same.
aw thanks for the mom hugs
Ohh thank you so much 💗🥰 It's funny how it doesn't really matter how old you are whenever you're sick or tired or having an issue you wish you could go to your mom about it kind of hurts. 🥺 Thank YOU for the mom hugs & love 💕💕 Lots of affectionate daughter love back 💕
Me needs hugs
got so invested and so focused in this that i went to go pick up my own drink right after this guy brought one in and i spilt it everywhere cause i was still looking at my laptop when i grabbed it, subscribed right after
Its the banging pots and pans and sink running from the kitchen for me, exactly the noises my mom would make. I miss her so much. This video is unexpectedly comforting lol
Also the Chinese drama TV sounds
agreed im the oldest by about 10 yrs and i dont get the "mom care" anymore living alone, especially since shes got 2 others who are still learning how to adult/barely finishing highschool yet.
i wish my mom would check on me and bring me tea ;c my g-ma lives in the apartment above me but shes too old for the up&down stairs shit........... so she only comes to bring snacks for my cats ._.
@@unicornwizhez4115 as mom of two i m almost sure that she or wants to do it and says "tomorrow i will" before fall asleep or she think that it would be great but probably you dont need too much. I have an offer. Take a plate or orange slices and you go. You go check on her. Embrace, ask how she s doing and say that you also would be so happy is she check on you that way. I am sure she ll be touched. In our daily routine we need such kind of small emotional help that allows us to look from another angle or stop for a while and remember what really matters ❤️
I'm not even studying and I find this comforting. Sometimes it's just nice to feel like someone else is in the house. My mom never had these background noises, as her and my dad are always at work (Something I am extremely grateful for the work they put in to sustain us) so this just makes me feel nice. It makes me feel like I really do have someone to talk to, despite being alone right now. Thank you Eddie, I greatly appreciate this.
Edit: My brain was not totally here when I thanked you, sorry for calling you Brett ^^;
yea me too lmfao... can't stand being alone
Watch a lot of horror movies. You'll never feel alone at home again.
@@Кира-х3с1ч да
you seem like a good person
It's always nice to be grateful but be able to communicate your feelings!
Technically, you can loop this whole video, and this would be an endless time of Eddy checking on you. That would be so spine-chilling though, as you would be watched 24/7 to see if you are studying or not while facing the risks of emotional damage.
What!?? Where is Eddy? Time code please :I
Is T-T-T-T-TIGER MOMMMMMM [Insert air horn]×4
You mean 40/7
You can conveniently loop it 10 times based on the video length
Whatever works
I'm 17, currently facing big exams and a lot of pressure from my club as well because I manage the events. I lost my mom last year to breast cancer and I definitely have been slacking off cause my mom is not here to check on me anymore. This video reminded me of so many memories I had with her. Thank you TwoSet for the video
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Very sweet. My mom passed couple years ago when I was 15. You can make it thru and make her very proud.
Rooting for you! Your mom is watching from heaven so do your best!
@@yyg4632 thank you for your encouragement ♡
@@awwwkitteh i will do my best!
I love this. I got all my homework done without my phone or music or anything like that. My mom came to my room and she shouted me what tf I was doing and turned this off, she didn´t even realize how much this is making me to motivated..."You had to focus on your school blaablaa" Mom. Leave me alone and let this asian mum take care of it. THANK YOU.
lol that"s hilarious. You should tell her
@@anatomyofawaveYeah. They really should.
im studying for school exams and my mom says the same thing, she also rants about how i have IGCSE next semester and how i have to put away the computer and stuff like that, but the more i listen to her talking i have less time studying sooo...
@sherisehung4594 lmao same here
The irony😂
I was expecting a joke but honestly, this is nice. Ive never known a family home that wasnt ruled by constant anxiety and a strange sense of cold that sucked the life out of you, so having this sense of people having a good time in the other room and having parents who check in on you and bring food and snacks they know you like is healing.
Wow
Well said ❤
It really is those simple things. My house was drunken chaotic HELL...I feel you.
Look at us , collectively healing our childhood trauma together ❤
@@Selkie7Ah ikr! My mom was a narcissist and dad was so strict we weren’t even allowed to laugh!
I just had the most productive evening since I was born thank you so much
I feel being taken care of. This is the most supportive/creative studying video I've seen.
samee
I wish I had this growing up😭 Brett and Eddy are really parenting us
Same
This is love
noooo this is some torture growing up 😭
I know this video is supposed to be funny, but it made me realize I never knew there were parents out there that paid this much attention to their children. I was lucky to even see my videogame-addicted father out of the computer room for 30 minutes throughout the day, certainly never bringing snacks for me. To realize that people actually had this... I'm crying now
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Friend I hope you get to be this parent for your own children one day :) *hugs
@@jeanwanchen1 thank you so much :)
It can be a good and a bad thing. My mom smothered me growing up. Her entire life revolved around me. The first time I drove a car by myself was after I had graduated from high school and the only reason I was allowed was because I had my first job. I just wanted her to get her own life and let me have some freedom. Often, we want what we don't have. My siblings were 10+ years older than me and I wished desperately for siblings my age. If I'd had them, I probably would have dreamed of being an only child.
@@obsidiansea What is worse for me is that my mother neglected me when I was a child but won't stop smothering me in my adulthood.
He's not the mother I got, but he is the mother I needed.
Same here!! 🥰
Damn right
this worked so well that i completed five biology chapters in just an hour-
as a person who hates being at home because of relationship with parents, i feel so thankful to Eddy because this feels like normal, peaceful home which i never had. thank you.
not me crying rn
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🥲😘
same :/
I lost my parents to covid last year in September (2021) two weeks apart, so now I live with my grandma. This helps a lot, cause I don't get the 'parents checking up' on you anymore like other kids. I was 15 when they passed, now 16.
fuck man that’s rough. hope the rest of your life treats you better
I’m so sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry ❤️
Sending warm hugs
sending you a lot of love, i'm so sorry for your loss :(
At first i laughed but then when the asian mum came in with some drink i automatically started tearing up. Thanks for giving me the attention that my parents never did
Don’t worry… I m here for u too..
*brings you virtual thermos and mug and sets virtually beside you for when you are ready to drink*
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Peeled tangerine, 10hour slow simmered tasty soup, dried fig, fish oil capsule, mint candy, sunflower seeds, apple slices, heated blanket my ma literally comes in with all types of stuffs for emotional support 😂
I have green teas, white teas, and herbal teas to share virtually with you, friend!
HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO PRACTICE WITHOUT YOUR OLD VIDEOS
Why does this make me feel so loved? I’m not even Asian or studying.
That's your first taste of genuine Asian Mom love and care
Embrace it !
Ok, I'm not even Asian, but this feels weirdly accurate lmao. This is pure genius btw, I really hope this paves the way for a new ASMR subgenre.
Me too!! Genius indeed ❤
Asmr the finger tapping the whispering all of it give me the heebie jeebies
This I could fall asleep too.
@@Therealalbot you don't get asmr that's why it makes you feel that way. Asmr is an actual feeling like as if someone is giving you a really soothing head massage in response to the whispering etc. I was one of the first people that brought the entire thing to RUclips.
I completely agree
YES!!!
This is actually high art and you can't convince me otherwise
Agreed
fr
So true
Yes it's performance art. 👏 I love this video
In the classical world we refer to these as "pieces"
Literally not even three minutes in and suddenly want to cry because I realized that this is a needed thing for people. That people don't always have a mom of their own who cares very much about them. I really love my mom. She's helped me so much in my life and has always been my biggest advocate. She's still letting me stay with her at 23 years old, not just because of it being a cultural thing, but because she doesn't want me to be struggling for food and heating when I'm already struggling to figure out what to do to get to a point where I can actually get a job or go to college. She might baby me a bit, but I'm still thankful for it. I'm very thankful that I have such an awesome mom.
It is so true....my mom is still in my life but my parents divorced when I was 9 and I lived with my dad who worked 12 hour shifts. My mum was never that nurturing to begin with, shes more of a friend kind of mom. So I actually never had this where a parent would "check in" on me or even encourage me to do work. They were never that involved in my life. I wish I had a parent who cared enough to do so, this is kind of comforting and reminds me of my grandma.
There’s nothing wrong with staying with your parents for longer if you’re happy there. It’s more economical, you have more support, and you can focus on improving your future and taking care of yourself. It really just makes sense. Happy you have that!!
@@narutofreakgrace in latinoamerican countries you never leave your parents house unless you are very succesfull or you are married. ahahaha.
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I am 23 too and I still live with my mom :)
Always missed this, not having a mom. Thank you for this ❤ It will help me get through my Finals.
It might sound a bit silly, but it really hit me. Even though it's just a made-up thing, the fact that someone wants you to concentrate and not get distracted by trivial stuff is kind of heartwarming. I have ADHD and I've never really had anyone that cared about my focus like that. I literally always have to beg my family to let me study in peace...
Yeah same. My mom never understood my struggles with focus and just always assumed I could study on my own. This is why I am always under so much stress as a student.
100%. I can see this being a LOT and too much at times. But there is a lot of genuine care in how she comes back and checks in. The fact that she brings drinks and food shows that it's not about making you suffer through it. Its about helping you focus and giving you support you need along the way. I wish I had such dedicated parenting in my life as a kid. It makes me wonder if this is actually what it's like in Asian (and other) families.
Same.
Same here. Even now in my early 30s, finally in college, I put off the entire week's homework until the last 6 hours before it was due.
My mom just says, "I'll pray for peace of mind and motivation."
Clearly that isn't helping lol
exactly the same here ....