The Benefits of Keeping A Journal With Rajiv Surendra

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  • @shermarkham6376
    @shermarkham6376 Год назад +614

    I have kept a journal since March 1, 1983. I am now on my 70th volume. I love writing in my journal!

    • @florflauret
      @florflauret Год назад +53

      Where do you keep the collection? Do you have specific instructions for what to do with them when you pass away? What a written legacy, congrats.

    • @rajivsurendra
      @rajivsurendra  Год назад +96

      That's so inspiring!!!

    • @shermarkham6376
      @shermarkham6376 Год назад +78

      @@florflauret They are all together in a bookcase that has a glass door. However, I mailed them from California to New York & found I can get 15 journals in a large flat rate USPO box. They are all the same size. Approximately 5x7, hard back. As to legacy, I heard there is a division of the Smithsonian that takes diaries. One of my daughters wants to read them, but I am hesitant because some entries are very private. Keep writing! 😊

    • @florflauret
      @florflauret Год назад +3

      @@shermarkham6376 Amazing!

    • @florflauret
      @florflauret Год назад +14

      @@rajivsurendrathank you for this video, it was also inspiring. So inspiring that I thought of using it as a trigger to organize a meet up in my local community to combine Languages and Caligraphy using the handmade journals of a local entrepreneur. It will be a sort of a tea gathering where people will share and dictate quotes in a foreign language and the rest will write by hand. If you ever do something similar and got the idea from me, please let me know! I would love to attend. I will let you know how it goes! 😊

  • @justamom4853
    @justamom4853 Год назад +19

    I cried watching this video. I wrote in a journal when I was a very young mum, I wrote it in such tiny font so that no one could read it. I was sometimes careful with my writing, just in case someone read it. I wish I hadn't been because it eventually became burdensome and deterred me from continuing. Fast forward to many, many years later, I suffered a traumatic brain injury in a freak accident, and memories were swiped within the blink of an eye. The only thing that helped was a lot of time and my loved ones telling me random stories. How I wish I didn't let fear take over and dictate my storykeeping. I have nothing to draw upon when my children ask me about their younger years - no memories and nothing tangible to share. Only now do I realise the value of journalling even the mundane.

  • @debbierussell7775
    @debbierussell7775 Год назад +208

    You're so right about writing down mundane things. In years to come, you'll be surprised how meaningful they become when you read that page later. I took a blanket out in a field with my journal, snacks, water and my dog. Big drops of rain fell for a few seconds as a cloud passed over. I faintly outlined the water warped spots, and mentioned in writing what the faint circles were. Then my dog stepped on my journal and left a slightly muddy foot print. I let it also dry and wrote around his print, saving it in my journal. I was sad that day, but journaling and writing whatever i wanted to (this is MY journal!) gave me a feeling of being in control when things seemed crazy. It was a very cathartic day for me. And i have that record of that beautiful day.

    • @rajivsurendra
      @rajivsurendra  Год назад +46

      Wow, beautiful! I love reading comments like this one. You get it!!!

  • @nataliesoutlet
    @nataliesoutlet Год назад +197

    Rajiv, your channel is like a fresh chicken soup to my soul lol I can’t explain it but it’s not overly flashy, it’s classic and well thought out and INTENTIONAL. Thank you for sharing your journaling practice ✨🙏🏽

  • @acesarato
    @acesarato Год назад +290

    Happiness is a Rajiv Surendra new RUclips video notification 😊and this one’s a gem

  • @deborrasanders
    @deborrasanders Год назад +174

    I'm 68 and have been keeping a journal since I was a teenager. I have boxes and suitcases of journals. My favorite journals are inexpensive school composition books with hard cardboard covers you can find anywhere. The paper is nicely smooth and is wide-ruled which is essential for me. I cover the outside with collages or with beautiful paper.

    • @shermarkham6376
      @shermarkham6376 Год назад +3

      That is awesome.

    • @SistaBossoMagazine
      @SistaBossoMagazine Год назад +5

      Absolutely my favorite journaling books too, I love creating the collages, mostly pictures from my vision board, I am 31 and I hope to keep making them 😍😍

  • @omalleysmith9100
    @omalleysmith9100 Год назад +100

    Another tip: write with the knowledge that nobody is going to read this but YOU. Get incredibly personal, because you don't have to share the journal with anyone.

    • @katievickery8735
      @katievickery8735 Год назад +12

      And only get that personal if no one but you is able to read your journal. An art journal or a gratitude or a this happened today journal may be safer in some home situations.

    • @omalleysmith9100
      @omalleysmith9100 Год назад +17

      @@katievickery8735 Yes. I mean, you can hide it or get other journals that you use in case other people see them if you don't trust the people you live with not to invade your personal space, but I don't like living that way. I'm not going to dilute what I write for fear that someone in my household sees it. By the same token; I feel that if someone is going to be so bold as to snoop, they also deserve what they find in there. They may not like it. lol. I've actually had that happen before, and I'm like, "Oh well, now you know how I really feel about you." Shrug and move on. 😃

    • @бронза.вафля.конус
      @бронза.вафля.конус Год назад +8

      Unless you kill someone. Then don't write that down, no matter what!
      I jest, but apparently lots of people have been caught in a similar manner.

  • @joesephjoestar4449
    @joesephjoestar4449 Год назад +25

    It's funny that you tell us to shop around for a journal we like! I was shopping for a really cool journal but most were like $20 and I didn't really want to shell out that much because money was tight and I didn't know if I was going to actually use it. But then lol I found this absolutely WILD notebook. It was the brightest NEON GREEN hardcover with a matching green ribbon and I actually laughed when I saw it because it was like the runt of the litter, it was pushed off to one side nowhere near another journal, it was shunned! I went and scanned it and it was like $4. I felt a kindred spirit in him so I bought him. Despite my inconsistent journaling I'm getting to the last pages and I'm grateful to have found him.

    • @ericathefae
      @ericathefae Год назад +5

      I love that! Sometimes the right things just speak to us.

    • @amylee9
      @amylee9 Год назад +5

      The runt of the litter…. I like that

    • @shermarkham6376
      @shermarkham6376 8 месяцев назад +2

      I love this comment. 🌞

  • @roxannedaly279
    @roxannedaly279 Год назад +15

    Oh Rajiv, I wish you would have posted this years ago!
    I started journaling in my twenties & continued well into my 40's...then I stopped! Wish I'd written down "why" I stopped...guess life got busy; changed my routines; didn't think it mattered?? I'm now in my late 70's BUT because of your thoughtful and inspiring video I will begin again with earnest determination! I will also dig in my storeroom to find my old journals & read my reflections of past years!
    THANK YOU RAJIV❤

  • @nicholas.j.w
    @nicholas.j.w 3 месяца назад +2

    Cathy O'Brian talks about how trauma and PTSD can be healed through writing/journaling, because it opens up the logical side of the brain so the barriers surrounding the trauma can come down in order for Light to be let in. Writing is the safest way to bring down those walls because it removes the recoil of reactivity by forcing us to deal directly with whatever is arising in the process of writing. Emotions often betray us by not allowing us to face the bare facts and deal with them, or by blaming others, objects, forms, states, or things instead of assuming full responsibility for whatever actions led us into those situations. The logical, factual, functional, practical, relational and wise pen is mightier than the emotionally reactive sword!
    Thank you for another great video!

  • @archivist17
    @archivist17 Год назад +101

    It is partly because of Rajiv that I now sew my own journals, for which I am eternally grateful 🙏

    • @fairygrove3928
      @fairygrove3928 Год назад +16

      Me too! I was interested in bookbinding, and found his marbled paper video. I'm pretty sure that was his first video I watched. I then saw his bookbinding.
      Just yesterday, I finished binding a small leather journal with marbled paper I made from his tutorial, and I love it so much! Writing in a journal really does help clarify and order my thoughts so much, and since I used unlined paper, I can sketch in it, too.

    • @rajivsurendra
      @rajivsurendra  Год назад +19

      I'm so honored!

  • @rmacarolabella
    @rmacarolabella Год назад +12

    I laughed out loud at the part when you couldn't read your own handwriting. I started an entry in my journal again today because of this video Rajiv. The last entry was 6 months ago and it took me back to how I felt so much love for my husband that day. you are right, it's later when the entry becomes special. This week I was getting angry and building up resentment at my husband but reading back to my entry 6 months ago completely changed my demeanour towards him. I love him again 🥰

  • @EnfinLibreNM
    @EnfinLibreNM Год назад +40

    Almost 2 years ago, I opened an antique/vintage shop in my little northern New Mexico village that borders several Navajo and Apache reservations. My store has little vignettes -- for instance, a vintage kitchen area, a travel area, southwestern area, old book area. For each vignette I've created a themed junk journal with small tags, cards, notes, etc. (check out junk journals and how to make them...) And the each journal has a pen (made by my brother) attached. I encourage all my customers to add a memory or comment to the journals and also welcome them to spend time looking through them and reading the other comments. It's a really fun way to connect to my customers and for them to share memories that the items in my store trigger. I recently added a tea cup junk journal with various patterns and I placed packaged tea into the envelopes of the journals so, if someone makes a note, they receive a bag of tea (which of course, I also sell in my store.) I also have a vintage recipe journal and encourage people to add their own recipes and I keep cards that people can take to copy recipes from the journal.
    I mentioned that my store borders several reservations, and many of my customers are natives. The southwestern/native junk journal is probably the most popular and I'm in the process of making a new one. Some of the notes and stories that people have written in are amazing. I have a pair of vintage beaded children's moccasins that triggered a memory in an 85 year old Navajo elder who came into the store. She wrote about seeing a shapeshifter when she was a child and what it was like to experience various rituals. When customers read entries left by other customers, it also triggers memories and they share.
    Anyway, this is just another use for journaling that I thought I'd share with you all. Have a wonderful day and thanks Rajiv for your wonderful channel.

    • @FunnyMemo
      @FunnyMemo Год назад +2

      Sounds wonderful, perfect idea.

    • @patriciaholloway
      @patriciaholloway Год назад +3

      So interesting! I am ALL about vintage and antiques, so if I ever get down that way, I'd love to visit. How wonderful to get the locals perspective and stories. There's so much to admire in our Indigenous people. Thank you for sharing 🙏

    • @EnfinLibreNM
      @EnfinLibreNM Год назад +8

      @@patriciaholloway Yes, please message me and come visit. The history of my little village is fascinating. Today an elder from the Jicarilla Apache tribe read about the shapeshifter and then proclaimed "Ohhh those Navajos. They can be so weak...that's NOTHING. When the Sasquatch come visiting, that's when I get nervous." So she journaled about regularly seeing the Sasquatch coming to visit." It's actually quite funny when the Navajos (Diné) and the Apache try to outdo each other in a journal. On the other hand, I also keep a journal and yesterday's entry started with "Today a goat wandered into my store and preened in front of the antique mirror..."

    • @patriciaholloway
      @patriciaholloway Год назад +4

      @@EnfinLibreNM 😅 That's amazing, I love it. Maybe the goat was a shape shifter?! Lol

    • @EnfinLibreNM
      @EnfinLibreNM Год назад +6

      @@patriciaholloway lol. That would be funny. Actually though, he's a Nigerian Dwarf and very small and adorable. Although the population of my village is quite small, we have a major highway running through it and since I was afraid he'd get hurt, I worked with a rancher who owns goats to make sure "William" (named by the rancher because he's a male billy) is safe and happy with a haram of Nigerian Dwarf does.
      (Oh...and tonight's journal entry starts with "It's unseasonably hot tonight and with the windows wide open, I'm begging for a bit of cool breeze. Patch & Munchkin (Australian Shepherd & Shiatzu) are fully on guard as the nearby bugling of the bull elk disturb the silence of the darkness and interrupt the whiffled snoring of Cooper. Basset Hounds allow nothing to interrupt their beauty sleep...")

  • @twilde3754
    @twilde3754 Год назад +3

    I love that the red on the front of the table is picked up in the red in the flowers.

  • @rohinichandrashekar9508
    @rohinichandrashekar9508 Год назад +38

    During covid, I wrote ten good things that happened each day. It is amazing how positive we become by recording these.

    • @KO-D00M
      @KO-D00M Год назад +5

      I appreciate this thought! Thank you for the beautiful reminder.

    • @bunniesandroses499
      @bunniesandroses499 Год назад +5

      thats really cool!

  • @luslab
    @luslab Год назад +48

    I started journaling everyday at the beginning of the year. I also started practicing my cursive handwriting on the side. Now every morning I do my "Morning Pages" and then I have a regular journal and an "artsy" journal where I accompany writing with drawings, stickers, and other ephemera related to whatever memory I want to keep. It's really helpful to see how I am progressing with my mental health, which is something I am working hard on in therapy. It's easy to feel like you're stuck when you have nothing to compare to, and journaling has really helped me see that I am not as stuck as I believe. I now don't believe everything I think ;)

    • @shermarkham6376
      @shermarkham6376 Год назад +4

      Awesome. I wish you the best. 😊

    • @m.maclellan7147
      @m.maclellan7147 Год назад +9

      2 people that promote "Morning pages" are the Artist/Author Julia Cameron, and the Artist/Author Natalie Goldberg.
      I LOVE "Writing down the bones" by Natalie Goldberg. She wrote it years ago & it is a quick read. You can pick it up, read a chapter, then put it down again. I need to read it again. I found it very inspiring!

  • @ChrisBrooks34
    @ChrisBrooks34 Год назад +48

    I've always thought that keeping a journal would be beneficial. Plus, I adore a beautiful well-made journal.
    In fact, I feel as though many people substitute social media instead of journal keeping. Sometimes, your thoughts don't need an audience. Instead, keep a journal and then go back in a few years' time and look at how you've changed.

    • @elysebuehrer5981
      @elysebuehrer5981 Год назад

      People do seem to be substituting social media for journaling. Such a good point. Some thoughts are just for you!

  • @danielfontaine6977
    @danielfontaine6977 Год назад +5

    Hello from Montreal (Canada) Well since I was a kid I have tried so many times writing a journal... but never was loyal to go on with it.... now close to my 70's and being a cancer survivor since 2019... who knows? Your video this morning inspires me, I found an old lined notebook on a shelve, it will do the trick until I find a new notebook.... It starts like this in french of course.... "Ce matin, je regarde un vidéo de la chaine RUclips de "Rajiv Surendra" il parle de son journal......etc etc..." Well who can say, maybe this time, ... I am not that sure not being a very introspective person.... But, let's give it another try !!! Thanks for your video! Have a wonderful day!

  • @solarsatori
    @solarsatori 11 дней назад

    11:30 This is the best journaling advice out there. My 6th grade English teacher (her name was Miss Story fittingly) gave us this advice and it has kept me writing in journals for 22 years. You start with "I don't know what to write" and then your mind drifts and soon you have a full page of a story or of your daily wins and grievances or just stream of consciousness but you'll soon have a page of writing. There's also so many prompts online to get you started if needed these days.

  • @MagisterialVoyager
    @MagisterialVoyager Год назад +7

    Of COURSE Rajiv journals!!! I'm sooo excited for this video.

  • @pman2916
    @pman2916 Год назад +9

    I started a journal in March this year. I use to keep one religiously when I was in my early teens until a strict Aunty I lived with at the time, found it and read it. She beat me because of its content relating to her. I stopped until taking it up again this year. I love it and find it lifts my spirit. Like you, when I read my journal, I can't make sense of bits of it too lol

    • @grizeldaxxx4568
      @grizeldaxxx4568 Год назад +2

      I am sorry Your Aunt did that , glad You took it up again. I had an intense childhood and when I was a teen I kept a Journal but as I did not want my Parents know what I was up too, I wrote just the first letter of the words . At the time I knew what it all meant, but years later I found it and of course it made no sense . Rajiv and Your comment , has prompted me to have a go . Just need to get a good pen as I have a collection of empty Journals that I have not wanted to "mess up" LOL At 62 I think My Time has arrived to dive in hahahaha

    • @andrew4635
      @andrew4635 Год назад

      I’m sorry this has been your experience. No one deserves to have the privacy of their thoughts violated and beaten. My mother stopped journaling because her privacy and trust was broken as a teen. I’m grateful that she has protected mine. I hope you continue to journal for many years to come, and that it continues to life your spirit and be a safe refuge for you

  • @bunniesandroses499
    @bunniesandroses499 Год назад +2

    I like to save quotes and I love to read them over, they make me happy. IT's also alot of fun to use colored markers to make beautiful designs.

  • @coneil72
    @coneil72 Год назад +1

    Having journal my entire life, I've found that nothing is more valuable than simply relating what happened that day/week. The tawdry, tired whining of expressing my emotions quickly became old upon reread!!

  • @alro11
    @alro11 Год назад +1

    I love his cool desk!

  • @kaymaya8338
    @kaymaya8338 Год назад +1

    I am an advocate for journaling! I began my journal when I began university and it was a great log throughout my undergraduate, masters, phd, post-doc, assistant professorship, and now being an associate physics professor and researcher! The journal has followed me to different countries, schools, friends, relationships, and events. My reflections during the pandemic are particularly interesting to me. Being afraid, uncertain, unable to do my work, and feeling pain from the monotony. It’s interesting to see my anxieties and goals shift over time. I always use a blank journal, it allows me to draw and write around it. There’s a mix of diagrams and doodles, they’re beautiful in hindsight

  • @GeomancerFelix
    @GeomancerFelix Год назад +36

    Rajiv. You're my hero and I struggle to keep good habits but I want to do everything you suggest, you make everything so lovely and nice 😭

  • @AndrewPerryJr
    @AndrewPerryJr Год назад +1

    Watching this video made me want to start journaling again.
    It's been 12 years since I last kept a journal. I was 25 at the time. Every now and then, I'll stumble across those journals, look at some pages, and reminisce. Some times I'll look at a page and feel embarrassed, "I still can't believe I that happened!" Other times, I wish I could go back and tell a younger me that everything will work out.

  • @shirleyprescott1528
    @shirleyprescott1528 Год назад +2

    Im 70, and I am so sorry I have never taken the time to do this. What a wonderful journey to go back and revisit your life.!

    • @rajivsurendra
      @rajivsurendra  Год назад +1

      Hi Shirley, there's absolutely no reason you can't start now.

    • @berniecelee5062
      @berniecelee5062 Год назад

      I have started and never was consistent over the many years ….and I agree with him …start NOW while you still have memories of your childhood…. Leave something for your grandchildren to read about you . Your children may not remember what to tell them about Grandma Shirley .
      For me , it’s finding time in the morning…at night I am too tired.
      I too wanted to become more consistent and it hasn’t happen yet.
      Maybe not daily , but maybe I commit every Sat and every Wed and every Friday …just collections of thoughts that week.
      I have these ideas but not good in execution…..
      I think I will just start again and see how it goes . Let’s try shall we , Shirley?
      I got some good news on Friday and I think I should start again …. I would like to leave something for my heirs … my life story …..

  • @jkardi9803
    @jkardi9803 Год назад +5

    2:55 when you say "19 years ago" and I am looking at you thinking, "wow, he had such beautiful handwriting at 6 years old." It must be true that a life lived in pursuit of simple pleasures and dedication to craft keeps one youthful.

  • @mithulakanagalingam2619
    @mithulakanagalingam2619 Год назад +9

    I started journaling about a year ago. I decided to start it because my mind was just going to explode around the time I was just having trouble focusing at Uni. That became my safe place to let go all my feelings. I'm the type who never sticks with one thing for a long period of time, but journaling is one of the only things i've actually been constant with.

  • @crystalstanley4960
    @crystalstanley4960 Год назад +10

    With your love and appreciation of flowers, I kept expecting to see pressed flowers between the pages of one of your journals. :-D
    Thank you for another lovely video. I just would add one is not locked into the day-to-day. I am older, and have started writing up little stories and memories from my travels: adventures I had, people I encountered along the way, and various memories and vignettes not previously shared. One need not be restricted to the present.

    • @grizeldaxxx4568
      @grizeldaxxx4568 Год назад +1

      I am still amazed the Floral arrangement behind Rajiv is still looking so Magnificent!!

  • @Monkey-oy1us
    @Monkey-oy1us Год назад +1

    Such a beautiful human. Intentional, thoughtful, diligent. Incredibly refreshing in the chaos of social media

  • @zoep243
    @zoep243 Год назад +2

    Have been making and keeping a journal with notes, doodles and sketches for years. I always preface each journal with this great Oscar Wilde quote. “I never travel without my diary. One should always have something sensational to read in the train” 💕

  • @antoniafoster8264
    @antoniafoster8264 Год назад +4

    I used to keep journals, but after I read some of them back I asked myself - Do I really want someone to read these when I’m gone? Most of it, I would but some of it I wouldn’t, so I got rid of them and haven’t written since. You could use yours to write a memoir, because I know how interesting your life is. Good and bad. Enjoyed this video very much. Thanks, Rajiv?. ♥️

  • @lifaen
    @lifaen Год назад +11

    I think there's a bad way how to write a journal. I've always been bad at writing journal consistenly, but still there's some things I noticed:
    1) don't mind if the journal is messy. I prefer blank sheet journals, because I can draw, stick some papers in it, write in whatever way I want and it still can look good at the end
    2) don't write too much negative self-talk. yes, you can write down your struggles, you can call yourself dumb sometimes. but if you have ADHD like me and you're doing the same mistakes everyday and you're frustrated from it, don't talk yourself down. instead try to write what you could do or other good things that happened that day.
    3) i struggled so much with thought that my future self will think I'm awkward from what I wrote. you can try to tell yourself that nobody, even you, will ever read it. but also I know, that no matter what I do or what I write, my future self will always cringe at something 😅 and I can't tell what it will be. cus the things I though were so cool are actually cringe now and the things I was most embarrased about - I now get why I did that and I want to hug my younger self. And even the things I find awkward now...they usually made feel me good at that time or I didn't know better, so I forgive it anyway. Just...don't be scared of your older seld judging you. 😄

    • @lifaen
      @lifaen Год назад +1

      sorry for a bad english, i hope you still get the message

    • @grizeldaxxx4568
      @grizeldaxxx4568 Год назад +1

      @@lifaen I hear You!

  • @RHYTHMgirlMo
    @RHYTHMgirlMo Год назад +11

    I write every morning with my left hand (raised a righty) it centers me. I also have stacks of journals. I like to take unused notebooks and collage the covers. When I go thru the old ones and I see the cover, it brings me back to when I made that collage, another element to bringing back moments past.

  • @bonnerdebbie
    @bonnerdebbie Год назад +12

    Years ago, I started with a gratitude journal, I now also have a regular one as well as an art journal. I love looking back to see what mattered to me then. Thanks Rajiv.

  • @dagmarleuenberger-swift8646
    @dagmarleuenberger-swift8646 Год назад +17

    I love the fact that you made your own journal, I remember watching the video where you marbled the end papers. Journals are quite easy to make in your own style, maybe you could make another one to show them how easy it is, a simple pamphlet stitch with a few pages and a lovely cover might encourage someone else. ❤️🇨🇦

  • @betsylindsay8480
    @betsylindsay8480 Год назад +34

    Use to journal, needed this kick in the slats to get back in to it. Rajiv is a wellspring of knowledge, intent, beauty, talent, and inspiration. And for this, my universe is a better place. This throws me back to Davis Sedaris talking about when he started to journal when he was 20. At first he had to force himself, and now it’s become part of his identity. Turned out really well for David, helped form his career.

    • @littleleafy
      @littleleafy Год назад +1

      Sorry to be that person, but thought you might like to know that the phrase is “kick in the slacks” not slats. Slacks as in pants. 😊

    • @betsylindsay8480
      @betsylindsay8480 Год назад +1

      @@littleleafy thanks for being that person, a teacher at heart? In the area I am from it is correct. A local colloquialism. Either, either. 👍

  • @MyDaisy66
    @MyDaisy66 Год назад +5

    I write a journal. I too have done so for decades. It is so incredibly therapeutic. I may write about fun things I have done over a weekend or I may write my deepest saddest feelings. But it’s all there to refer back to at any time if I wish. I love journaling 💜

  • @cuddlemuff6632
    @cuddlemuff6632 Год назад +3

    Rajiv is truly a Renaissance Man for the 21st Century, the most inspirational individual in the pursuit of beauty, creativity and humour on RUclips. I used to write many years ago and this video has made me consider taking up the habit again.

  • @nureinherz
    @nureinherz Год назад +2

    I started writing in a journal when I was 12, and it was a safe place and my best friend too. At around the age of 15 I discovered that my mother was reading my journals and from then on it was no longer a safe place for me. She even put "corrections" into it. I still kept writing and constantly looking for new places to hide it from my mother, who thought she had the right to read it, but I no longer wrote the really important things in it or intimate things, I still somehow needed to write and it still helped me somehow, but it felt no longer safe. I then promised to myself should I have children by myself I would never read their diaries/journals. Now I am a woman of 50 and raised two boys, which both, at a certain time in their teenage life, kept journals. I never once opened them and am happy I kept my promise. Every person has a right of their own privacy and I think that should be respected.

  • @patriciaholloway
    @patriciaholloway Год назад +3

    Journaling has always been a part of my life since childhood when I would write about fighting with my sister 😅 and what the cat was doing. I'm particular about my pens and paper. Sometimes I get whimsical and put in pictures of places I'd like to see, like Petra, or use funny stickers. I'll put in bits of poetry from myself and others, as well as quotes.
    Been too busy lately... but I hear my journal calling me back and all I can say is "Hello, old friend".

  • @moramie84
    @moramie84 Год назад +1

    My boyfriend has had a journal for years. He writes every day and reads the same day of the previous year. He inspired me to start as well and soon it will be a year that I have been writing so I can start reading my own last year!

  • @susanstangeland3064
    @susanstangeland3064 Год назад +8

    Thank you for this video. I actually just got out my journal from a few years ago. I am now writing letters to myself. Writing down what I want to happen in my life. It’s a form of manifestation. I go back weekly/monthly and review to see if anything that I have hoped for has happened. It’s a creative and fun exercise and I have a beautiful leather journal with a dragon on it. ❤

    • @grizeldaxxx4568
      @grizeldaxxx4568 Год назад +1

      That sound slike a great thing to do , thanks for the inspiration!

  • @shockingdocumentaries4255
    @shockingdocumentaries4255 Год назад +2

    This is my favorite video on the benefits of journaling, by far. ❤
    The fact that he made his own journal and has an art journal, is too perfect. 😂
    Rajiv is clearly my people. ✊🏾

  • @selmamoberg6583
    @selmamoberg6583 Год назад +24

    My life has changed with Rajiv in it. I look at things differently. Most grateful for your channel. Is there anything you can’t do ✌️
    Side note: Rajiv can you teach us how to make an old fashioned flaky pie crust?

  • @instagamrr
    @instagamrr Год назад

    I adore your beautiful penmanship. I’ve been studying Spencerian penmanship, and I find it’s a lost art! How lovely to see a man embracing the beauty of an elegant hand

  • @LAYERSOFLIFE24
    @LAYERSOFLIFE24 6 месяцев назад

    Rajiv breaking down busy life to precious darling little gems.

  • @daisy3952
    @daisy3952 Год назад +1

    I used to write a lot as a teenager. Those journals helped me so much as an anxious teen growing up. But I discarded them a few years ago and I now regret it 😢 I still journal today though and it still helps me!

  • @MichelleGarciaReporter
    @MichelleGarciaReporter Год назад +4

    When I was about 12, my dad said to me that his big regret about his childhood was that he didn’t keep a journal. I think I started to keep one within about a month of him saying that, and I’ve been a journaler since (around 1997-ish). Just as you said, I have figured out my life so so so so many times just from the process of getting things down on the page.

  • @katievickery8735
    @katievickery8735 Год назад +2

    I started journaling with a .10 cent collage ruled spiral bound note book and a .10 cent bic pen. The nicer journals and pens have come into my life some times. A few times I even was in a place to purchase ones. Many of the nicer ones however have come from thrift stores, garage sales and even new ones ( not written in) ftom antique stores. This is the to aspire to but dont be detoured from keeping a journal by the idea that you need the nicer journal or even a paper journal to start writting. Invest time into yourself and journal, but don't dispare if you can't journal just like this at first. I love these videos as the aspire to be like, but start where I am motivations. Thank you for making wonderful vidios.

  • @RoseCottageColleen
    @RoseCottageColleen Год назад +12

    I've purchased published copies of journals to read. Even the most seemingly mundane was so interesting. You've motivated me to start my own. Thank you for your channel. 📙📖

    • @pomelocitrus
      @pomelocitrus Год назад +1

      Are there some you would recommend?

    • @RoseCottageColleen
      @RoseCottageColleen Год назад +3

      @@pomelocitrus Oh my goodness, I'm remodeling my house and all my books are packed away in boxes. I can tell you how I find things like this though: primarily at estate sales (old farm houses are best), flea markets, used bookstores (again the ones in small rural towns are lovely). The one I was thinking most of I found at a small used book shop in Lake Placid, NY, so you never do know where you will find them. Just keep your eyes open. They are wonderful reads.

    • @andrew4635
      @andrew4635 Год назад +1

      Thank you for this idea! I’ll be keeping an eye out from now on :)

  • @linaD08
    @linaD08 Год назад +15

    Thank you Rajiv!
    When I am feeling out of sorts at whatever time of the day I take my journal out and start writing. The process helps me sort out my thoughts and feelings.
    2023 is my declutter year and just a few days ago came across some journaling that put a smile on my face.
    I say all we really own are our thoughts, feelings and secrets and journaling, as a sacred practice, lets us reconcile them all.

  • @ourcozychalet
    @ourcozychalet Год назад +6

    Journals are beautiful. I have a few of them, but it's been a minute since I've written. This gives me journal vibes. Thanks Rajiv 🫶🏾 Sometimes distractions and the rat race of the world get in your way. Time to chill and write. 💞🙏🏽

  • @piaandluna
    @piaandluna Год назад +1

    We need a watercolor video! Would love to see you you painting. I water color occasionally but want to do it more often. Your watercolor journal is inspiring

  • @LisaNAlexander
    @LisaNAlexander Год назад

    I have over 20 years of journal. They have been my life line and where I did so much healing and growing!

  • @Ojasoomaa
    @Ojasoomaa Год назад +5

    What an amazing handwriting you have! It is extremely rare to see someone taking time in forming the loops and beautiful lines these days! You inspire me to write beautifully, just like you.

  • @nakias8362
    @nakias8362 Год назад +6

    I've been journaling since the 3rd grade and keeping sketchbooks. Making my own journals for the past few years as well. I never clicked on a video so fast because I love watching other people talk about their journals and how it benefits them. Excellent video ✨ your journals and handwriting are so elegant!

  • @ipekkutlu78
    @ipekkutlu78 Год назад +2

    Every moment is a treasure. You are such a good soul Rajiv. ❤

  • @deadpoet50
    @deadpoet50 Год назад +10

    Such a talented person. You are absolutely right about the connection between handwriting and the brain. Several studies in children especially but also adults have shown the relation of handwriting, especially cursive, with improved reading and writing, better word selection, idea expression, and memory and capturing new information , all this faster than those who used a keyboard. Not that I reject the benefits of computers, as someone who started typing my school reports and graduated to computers later in work and college. Will send sone links to a few interesting articles. Loved the drawing and painting journal, the details in those mushrooms and the city scenes. Thanks for this video.

  • @grandma_d
    @grandma_d Год назад +2

    I have not been able to get past a few notations, either i don’t accept how my writing looks, or i’m ashamed even to read what i wrote, and very much concerned that others will find n read whatever i write. So I don’t. Even my phone mssgs, text, emails seem to be “ fair game “ for others eyes…
    Enjoyable, fascinating video as always. Thank you. Rajiv.

  • @annierampersad3982
    @annierampersad3982 Год назад +14

    Thanks again Rajiv for this timely video. I love your watercolor journal and how you motivate your viewers to do something new. Much love and blessings to all from Trinidad.❤❤

  • @VivaLaVittoria
    @VivaLaVittoria Год назад +4

    I have journalled regularly for years and I actually prefer to have notebooks which aren't "special"- archival, elegant looking, etc. I know for myself that if I had a nice looking journal like that, with the purpose of having a keepsake item to cherish for decades or even pass on to someone else, I would censor what I put in it. I enjoy having a book that can be "messy", that I can write in however I want and it's fine. But I love that different people have different ways of journalling, and I love Rajiv's way! I'm sure he'd agree that it's better for me to journal in a messy book than not at all 😂

    • @annagszasz5399
      @annagszasz5399 Год назад

      I think it's a relief when one doesn't have to censor what is going on in one's mind. I like to write out things and later I burn it. It's the method of Julia Cameron and it's working for me for 20 years until now. Maybe classic journaling requires another kind of attitude. It helps organize reminiscences.

  • @kathleenfredrickson8593
    @kathleenfredrickson8593 Год назад +35

    Rajiv is unfailingly interesting and inspiring. He has such a purity that he makes me think of the advice of Tolle when he tells us to be here now. I cannot think of anyone who would be better company for his own self, as well as others, than Rajiv. His setting always looks as ordered and relaxing as his conversation. He is a remarkable human being.

  • @christinacraig7168
    @christinacraig7168 5 месяцев назад

    I keep a journal, but in my computer. Not as lovely or personal in the materials, but the thoughts, from important to trivial intensely personal. I start a new chapter every couple of weeks, and am up to chapter 137. Chapter 8 is hugely significant, and it's been a journey ever since...Growth, ups an downs, the use of language, one of favorite hobbies.

  • @resillyence
    @resillyence Год назад

    I am 22 and have been keeping an on-off journal as a kid, since grade 1, and starting my sophomore year of HS till now I have been journaling regularly... Most of them are so personal and embarrassing, and also SO sweet because I simultaneously reflect on it with compassion for that point of my life. Right now I'm finishing my last year at OCAD University in the drawing and painting program, which is on McCaul about a 15min walk from UofT. I hope I can meet you one day! (and write about it in my journal, too)!

  • @selmamoberg6583
    @selmamoberg6583 Год назад +4

    P.S. love the back ground music.
    “Clair de lune”The only song my mom could play on the piano!
    She passed in 2004. Thanks for the memory💕

  • @sheriffofsocktown1986
    @sheriffofsocktown1986 Год назад +1

    I have always kept a journal, and it’s been very helpful. I don’t always write every day, but I mean to. Thanks for the extra inspiration, Rajiv! Regular journal writing gives me so much insight and inner peace.

  • @mxmoonbear
    @mxmoonbear Год назад +5

    I just started keeping a journal last year, and honestly, it's very fascinating to look back at it, and what things I thought were important to write about. I usually don't write daily, but I think that's what really got me into journaling consistently. It was less overwhelming and more enjoyable that way. And during this year, I've noticed that I tend to write more often, so with time, my habits had changed. I love the feeling of being absolutely free in my journal because there's no judgment whatsoever. I guess the beauty of keeping a journal is just that, being able to look back and see how you've improved or changed over time as well as the freedom you get. As usual an amazing video Rajiv!

  • @sandybeach4343
    @sandybeach4343 Год назад +1

    Hello Rajiv I feel as if I know you, your programs are so comfortable as if you are speaking to a good friend. I'm going to be 80 in 11 days, hardly seems possible but I want to say that I don't have many regrets in my life, very few actually, the biggest one is that I never journaled. I'm listening to what you are saying right now and it's that " I don't know what to write". I would start a journal, many times through the years and when I would look back and read some, it was sooo boring and insignificant. I was a stay at home mom with 3 children. The days were all the same, mostly , so I would stop writing. Now I wish I had continued. Thank you for this episode maybe it will encourage someone else who is like me. Please keep making more programs, many times I just put them on , even tho I've already seen it because I always hear something different and I enjoy hearing your voice. 🙃

    • @rajivsurendra
      @rajivsurendra  Год назад +2

      Hi There. Lovely to read your message, thank you. Even though you didn't journal back then, you can absolutely start now, and I hope you do. Every single day can be seized as it's own beginning, middle and end. That is enough. Even one entry would be an experience...it doesn't have to be years for it to be an experience for you. Happy Birthday!

  • @cynthiagalvan6780
    @cynthiagalvan6780 Год назад +1

    Hi Rajiv! I am expecting an overnight guest and was doing some research on RUclips to prepare -- So imagine my surprise when I stumbled upon your collaboration video with HGTV on how to be the best host! With all respect, my high school friends and I would recite Kevin G.'s rap all the time haha, to say the least you were iconic in that movie and I can see now all of the talent you brought to that role. Now that I'm older it feels so cool to see you in a totally unexpected space, but meeting me in my adulthood as I too try to forge a beautiful life for myself. Please, please keep making videos. I have subscribed and I am so entranced by your ability to embrace the humble beauty of every moment. Simply put-- Thank you :)

  • @Asatyba
    @Asatyba Год назад

    After watching this video i went into town and looked at two lovely bookshops after journals. I did not find what i was looking for but i found a book i once didnt bought but forgot the title and wanted to read later on. After that i went to a family owned bakery and bought the cutest little cakes. More like tarts. I scanned the nearby flowershop right across the street in order to try to make my own flower arrangement. Didnt bought flowers, i will go to my favorite store and i should clean my appartement before that. It was a very lovely unplanned day so far.

  • @joyce3790
    @joyce3790 Год назад

    Your penmanship is beautiful. Journaling is my most favorite activity.

  • @KrishnaWashburn
    @KrishnaWashburn Год назад +2

    I keep a dance journal and I write down the dances that I create, both for my students and myself. I have experienced vision loss, and I can't actually read the what I write down, but for some reason, the act of writing down the dance helps me memorize the patterns in a way that just practicing them would not. I have stacks of Moleskine books full of dances that I wrote down, but I can't read, and I suspect that nobody could decipher but me. I wonder what a researcher would think, discovering them one hundred years from now!

  • @thequiltspace
    @thequiltspace Год назад +3

    I have kept a journal for decades as well and am this year finishing my first five year journal which has been really lovely. So insane how things have changed since 2019. I also love to do collage and print photos to go along with what I write. They make tiny portable photo printers which I get a ton of use out of especially on holiday.

  • @chicgal3
    @chicgal3 Год назад +2

    I have journaled since I was a preteen, but I had stopped for a while throughout the years(like many people probably do)But I felt completely to start again during the pandemic & I was a little regretful or to be honest very regretful I didn’t do it at the onslaught, but that doesn’t mean I can’t still capture some of my thoughts I had at the beginning which is what I did & wrote about where we’re at and I just recently started writing again because it’s been very sporadic so thank you. This video came up at a great time and you brought tears to my eyes when you spoke about looking back at your words, it’s true, and I have looked back at journals I wrote in entries I wrote 10-15years ago, many relating to dating because I wouldn’t write often say in college but when somethings significant or emotional occurred, I was drawn to write about it.
    Then looking back at it made me realize that I was aware of the mistakes I made and cut those relationships off or it reminded me to not repeat the same mistakes.
    I feel like I’m at a transitional time in my life right now, so it’s really important that I journal and I think it’s really important to look back! I am not nearly as organized as you are and don’t have the same amount of journals or write daily, but I know I don’t have to & hope no one else feels compelled to do so cuz just writing it out when needed is Therapeutic!
    So this is a great reminder to just try to keep up with it even if it is a small note about how the day went & it allows you to release the day and I’m someone who meditates & does some Reiki, so I know how important it is to let go and also reflect and that’s really what journaling does.
    Thanks again for your great content ✨❤️🙏🏼

    • @chicgal3
      @chicgal3 Год назад +2

      As if anyone’s going to read my long comment, but I also wanted to say I think that social media has become like our journals. I really love capturing photos and moments or just writing a little blurbs. when Facebook or Instagram sends me the Memories of the day or week it’s amazing to look back at what happened on that day of that year for Several years back because I’m not seeking it out. It usually just pops up in my feed. Since I’ve lost my mother like many may relate to a loss of someone significant to you-It makes you tend to look at things as before & after initially, so just seeing a post where I’m with her that day or I talk about some thing we did or have a photo that takes me back to that day is really wonderful, so I think we should also think about writing out our thoughts or feelings for the day online a bit as well especially if you know you can’t or you don’t want to journal it’s another great way to, make a record of your life and I really do think that people are going to use them as keepsakes in the future for their children’s children and even friends and family as we lose them unfortunately I’ve lost people who are still my age & they were quite young and so when you go back and see their social media pages-it just reminds you of them and has a lovely way to keep a tribute.🕊️

  • @suredeydo
    @suredeydo Год назад

    How can people NOT know what to write? I have so many back burner thoughts at any given time. Worries, fears, ambitions, dreams, stories that have moved me, stories that I wish were true... wow. I could write forever really.

  • @mysteriousu5528
    @mysteriousu5528 Год назад +2

    Another gem from you, Rajiv. I love writing in general but also my research background in Math and Physics forced me to engage in constant writing.
    But I have to thank you for two things😂
    1) Even though my handwriting is good, I always had a fascination for the old English letter writing but never tried calligraphy until I watched your video.
    2) I never had a journal in my life until recently. Keeping a journal echoes Francis Bacon's(William Shakespeare's contemporary and my father was very good in English literature although he used to teach Mathematics) quote: Reading makes a ready man; speaking makes an orator and writing makes a man perfect.
    The advantage of keeping a journal is that our memory can fade down the years but when you flip the journal to check what we did on a particular day will bring unexplainable joy, smile and some profoundness.
    So the credit goes to you and thank you from the bottom of my heart.
    May I ask you which stationery you buy those papers from in US besides the one in London?

  • @maibritton2882
    @maibritton2882 Год назад +1

    I lived in a shelter for 3 years while working. I learned along about myself. I would have learned less if not for journaling. When conflict was out of my control. I would go back to my room and journal. I would put the issue to rest and begin again with a new outlook. Now, I am more creative in my journaling, but I have never forgotten to process issues in my writing.

  • @ap9569
    @ap9569 Год назад +1

    for years ive been off and on abt writing a journal. after some time, i found that i kept stopping bc i didnt like being vulnerable with myself. i chose to keep going and through writing more ive learned So much abt myself!!!! its hard to start but its worth it!!!!! thank you for another beautiful video rajiv ❤

  • @cinmingrl
    @cinmingrl Год назад

    beautiful video. I accidentally started journaling by finding my preferred writing instrument, a fountain pen. I started writing just to be able to glide the pen over the paper and improve my handwriting to something I would be pleased to see on a page. Doesn't matter what it says if it's pretty. Once I ran out of thoughts about the pen, the ink, and the paper I would keep writing whatever trivial nonsense was floating about in my head and found I felt relief to have somewhere to put it. I admit I finally understand the benefits of journaling.

  • @marialuisagarabelli9235
    @marialuisagarabelli9235 Год назад +12

    Love everything you teach us. You’re amazing. Show us your watercolors. I like combining drawings or watercolors with writing with my fountain pens. Thank you Rahiv!

  • @jadatar
    @jadatar Год назад +10

    I've been on a dive into journaling RUclips and Rajiv, as always, is right on time with beautiful, touching, and inspiring content. You started my pen-palling endeavors with a good friend of mine, and I can only hope you continue to inspire me to be more creative and to make deeper connections to those around me. Your joy and passions multiply for every person who interacts with your content at the smallest, and certainly only grows with those interacting with you beyond a screen.
    Keep being yourself, my friend, and stay safe, happy, and healthy.

  • @andrew4635
    @andrew4635 Год назад

    I’ve been journaling off and on over the years since I learned to write. I don’t have all of those journals anymore, but I wish I did. I think my earliest journal is from sometime in 2014. My journals are a mix of planners, long-form journals, scrapbooks… they are the most previous things I own. I write in them when I’m heartbroken, pissed off, bored, happy, hopeful, exhausted. March 2020 is when I started writing consistently as a way to cope with the rollercoaster of emotions that is/was the pandemic. Some of those entries are a bit dark-obituaries, infection stats, death stats, etc. My first Christmas without my parents (on Zoom). Roommate meetings, conversations about each of our comfort level when it came time to let select people into the house again… jokes about 50 years down the line when our grandkids are wondering why we still take Lysol wipes to the groceries… recipes from my roommates (brownies, breads, soups), sewing practice… angry, angry entries about local politicians and the insensitive, harmful things they’ve said or decisions they’ve made… the feelings of fear and loneliness that came up being quarantined in my room waiting for test results to come back (it did not take long before I felt like I was losing my mind).
    All of that was incredibly important when I was writing it, but I can only imagine the value it will have 5, 10, 15, 20 years down the road. I’ve fallen out of the daily habit in the last year or so, but I’m starting to turn to my journal again for even the most mundane thoughts. Whatever kind of journal you want to keep, whether or not you ever finish a book… do it. Draw in it, write in it, paste ephemera in it (receipts are a great start!), hell, spit in it. Get a coffee or tea stain on it. Use it. The best of us struggle to remember things. If you’re someone like me with clinical memory deficiencies, keeping a journal is one of the only ways I feel I can really hold onto myself for any length of time.
    It’s all worth it. Thank you for this video, Rajiv. I also finally realize why your face is so familiar to me! It’s so cool to see the person you’ve grown to be since Mean Girls (obviously I understand you’re not the same person as your character, but i hope you get my meaning.

  • @AriaLaurel
    @AriaLaurel Год назад

    That last point you made is what has surprised me most. Even when I feel like nothing “productive” came of a session (for example, I didn’t come up with solutions to problems) I without fail will feel better than before I started writing.
    Also, I highly encourage people to spoil themselves on journals and pens as a part of this process. Having tools you like interacting with can be that helpful push to keep the habit going. I never kept up with journaling until I had a fountain pen that I just desperately wanted to keep interacting with. And before I knew it I was journaling all the time.

  • @maudegone1
    @maudegone1 Год назад +1

    Yes, I journal too and tell everyone that it’s the best thing to do for therapy and to know yourself. Another thing I have in common with you. Also love my bike and old things and treasure hunting in thrift stores. Thank you for your lovely videos. I just love how you articulate so perfectly😊

  • @ravp4620
    @ravp4620 Год назад +2

    I find your videos so cosy and relaxing, as well as being inspirational and educational. A wonderful tonic after a hectic Saturday.

  • @utahdan231
    @utahdan231 Год назад +4

    Rajiv , you’re a man of million talents. Your drawings are amazing. ❤

  • @michellemeyer1649
    @michellemeyer1649 Год назад

    I’m always starting or trying a new journaling. First I’m a pattern designer so I’m a total perfectionist and……I LOVE art supplies. All art materials….pens, markers, watercolors, watercolor paper, vellum paper……I’ve got it all. When he see’s the UPS truck rolling up our driveway he’s just shaking his head…..lol. “Hello my name is Michelle and I’m a art supply whore.” I’m good with it. It relaxes me and I’m doing something that I love so it’s not a job. Your journals are of course gorgeous! You also have beautiful handwriting. The nuns that actually taught penmanship and cursive writing…….they would love you. I just wanted to share because I’m a fan….❤️

  • @fraurosenthal2958
    @fraurosenthal2958 Год назад

    I journal on and off, I also have journals where I collect quotes, pictures, illustrations and self written poetry. This now inspires me to go to the city and do aquarelic sketches. I might completely blotch them, but would love to try.

  • @TraMychael
    @TraMychael Год назад

    Rajiv you have the most beautiful penmanship! Always happy when you post!

  • @feelingkevinly
    @feelingkevinly Год назад

    I thought about how I wanted to write more consistently, and I thought to myself, "I bet Rajiv Surendra has a video about this..." and you do! Thanks so much, I feel inspired.

  • @shrey001
    @shrey001 Год назад +23

    been journaling for last 3 years , still struggling to write daily , I was totally resonating with that idea of just sitting there and finding nothing worthy to write .. until I really did write that down and that's how it got me started .. thanks Rajiv for sharing your journey 🌟

  • @allyson--
    @allyson-- Год назад

    This is like my televised football or something. I'm at the sidelines cheering at this cherishment of journaling. This is so well done & the spirit is so inviting & bright

  • @eallae
    @eallae 6 месяцев назад

    wait what ? i've just subscribed after binging on your videos lately, and even though I have seen "Mean Girls" way more times than I can count, I never realised it was you x) I'm so happy that you add value to this aspect of my life that I love so deeply : journaling and paper/writing/painting and anything creative. I am 31 now and I got my first journal on my 9th birthday. I can say without a doubt that it NEVER let me down. Never ever. It has been such a journey, and I recommend it to anyone ♥
    This channel is a gem. Can't wait to catch up on your videos and see what's next/ Lots of love from France ♥

  • @lucasearle884
    @lucasearle884 Год назад +1

    My birthday is may 6th 2004 - hearing what you were doing the day before I was born is surreal

  • @LuisBorba
    @LuisBorba Год назад

    Journaling is a great form of therapy. Like you said, you won't the benefits now, but in time things will reveal themselves. Also, your watercolours are awesome.

  • @Mika42069
    @Mika42069 Год назад +3

    Writing about this in my journal. Thanks Rajiv, loved this video!

  • @mrpitiful27368
    @mrpitiful27368 Год назад

    Your channel is absolutely magical. Your soothing voice, the cinematography, the peaceful vibe, and the way you talk about journals. I’m verklempt😢