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My Parents think I'm a "LOSER" but I Secretly became RICH - Reddit Finance Podcast
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As someone with a dad who is a therapist, I can tell you that the therapy thing, is absolutely illegal. It breaks confidentiality.
Yeah the therapist is not supposed to disclose what was said to third parties unless it pertains to an imminent crime. Nothing of the sort was being discussed so she should sue the therapist andthey should lose their license.
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@@degen83 they suspected it it wasn’t happening
It not only violates federal HIPPA laws it is a violation of professional ethics.
In most places therapists are licensed by the state medical board and they could suspend or revoke the therapist's license for ethics violations.
Story #2: Regardless of the husband, which is a whole other can of worms, the therapist *needs to be reported.* That is actually malpractice, and it is extremely unethical and illegal, and if they are doing it to you, there is no telling how many other people they are performing unethical practices on in who knows what other ways as well. If this sort of thing happens to you, you should file a complaint with your state's licensing board. You do not need to have proof, if you have good reason to believe it is actually happening (which this person definitely does). Even if your complaint is not successful by itself, it will become part of their record and can be important evidence if other people also complain about the same sort of thing as well. There really needs to at least be a record of what happened somewhere.
3.
-He spends all the money in something thay IS NOT a need, is a lux.
-He is proably cheating
-His wife is pregnant, and they're having money problems.
-Is obviously addicted to that.
Girl, youre not the jerk, by far youre not. You manchild need to learn responsibility and sacrifice
Not only that, but he's calling ~her~ selfish when she's trying to buy things for their baby!! The husband is a complete and utter ass. 😤
Should go to spa when has the money for it, not when they struggle with basic food and rent. Even when have money, if he earns them ok, but if she goes pregnant to work and he doesn't earn anything, then stealing her money is a horrible fact.
@@vasilebandila2502 He grew up without knowing the basics of money. Its impressive
I'm reminded of a tv series from my home country called The Luxury Trap. It's about people who are hemorrhaging money, and then some financial experts come and help them with their money. Most often it's because they keep spending on luxuries they can't afford and can't or won't accept that they can't afford them.
@@1987MartinT I would like to watch this show. Worthy of Reddit
Story 3: if she doesn't want to divorce him, cancel all credit cards but one. Her name only; he doesn't get one. Then get a separate bank account he can't access. Any money in the joint account can be spending money. It's harsh, but she needs to think of the baby, even if he doesn't.
You're completely right
And if that doesn't work kick him to the curb
I would divorce him and file for child support. He will have no choice, but to pay you. The stealing and deception are early red flag signs. Get out while you still can.
I just want to say I love how they said "nana ya damn buiness" not the jerk he was being rude and got mad when he was reminded what he lost by doing the same thing
That line is quite good
Yeah. He dug his own grave. He mentioned something about her clevage with her outfit which begs the question, why was he even staring at her clevage long enough to notice that. Damn perv
@Elon, Please buy RUclips as well I see your point but if no one said anything about it what she was wearing couldn't have been that bad and he got something in return for what he gave out seems fair
I agree, The OP who’s BIL commented on her dress is TA along with her husband and parents in law. Ask your husband if he likes the dress or does he want her to wear sack cloths.
The husband in the 3rd story is straight-up cheating, cuz she mentioned that her husband doesn't want to go to a regular spa because he is used to that LADY that massages him like c'mon that's literally suspicious, for the reason that he doesn't want to go to a regular one for some other girl?!
I swear, this is making my blood boil.
Its not cheating like an affair. Its just sleeping with escorts lol
@@deelee4639 right, not cheating if there's no feelings, of course
It's one of THOSE spas
that spa is probably where happy endings are given. that has to be the case here.
Yup. _Massaging_ 😉 more than his ego ...
The Husband possibly had an Attraction to the Spa Lady, since he Claims that she's an "expert"
O definitely what man spend $1000 dollars at a spa so frequently? I know that may be “sexist” but come on lol. I once accidentally stumbled into a subreddit where these long time husbands were just openly admitting to cheating on their wives they’ve been married to for decades, there were A LOT of happy ending stories. And just like a OPs husband they don’t really give a shit about their faithful wives, and like to compare who the worse husband/father is. Worst part, I don’t think a lot of their families will ever even know the truth either, it’s sad really.
@@AnthonyBlamthony it's worst when the wife is actually pregnant and the husband just left her like that
4th story BRO I LAUGHED SO HARD AT THAT KNOCK KNOCK JOKE🤣
Ikr
The actually fact that he left her and thought he was gonna get a room and that she paid for and she wasn’t gonna be their is sad
Uh, the second guy is definitely someone that woman should get away from. If someone is willing to do that behind your back for a completely selfish reason, and you're having a child with that person, then that financial instability is going to continue to worsen because the child is going to be even more of a strain on finances. Dump him and get out.
That guy is definitely cheating on her.
@@thewonderfulmanatee7651 yes
@@Ayko1x yep
Yeah, fuck that. You're putting yourself before your child and spending your childs money, oh hell no. I don't care if that's the baby dady, you're crossing lines doing that shit.
I had a husband doung this, U can assure you he paid every untill the last one back.
Not on his own acord, he was too selfish for that, but I stole it back frim him 😁
Niw he is past he still pays my bills like I did for him, through my widowpension 🤣
And yes I am petty, but the smartest one ...
Story 5: I feel for the OP. My mom didn't want her cancer announced on FB. Her mom went ahead and did it anyways. My mom was mad because she doesn't like people fawning over her. She only wanted her family to know. Because she doesn't care for the attention of people that don't really matter to her. She wasn't ungrateful though.
If the mother in-law hacked his Facebook to announce the pregnancy the quickest fix is this:
Make a post explaining that when they do eventually have a kid they wanted to announce it themselves so they figured they'd do a trial run to see if the people they'd tell can keep it quiet, essentially if they don't keep the baby or even if they're still not sure just to take the pressure off they play it off like a dry run and noone has no know anything else.
Story 5:
I am the recipient of a rather dark story about someone I know actually terminating her pregnancy over the fact her husband and inlaws were pressuring her when she wanted to make the decision in an intimate and trusting manner whether or not to keep the baby. After terminating, she came up with a story about them stressing her into miscarriage. I did think this one went a bit too far, but to her credit, her husband never pressured her or involved the extended family in their life ever again. I don't know if she will ever tell him the truth, or if she will carry that one to her grave, but I also think you should never involve anyone outside your couple when it comes to your decision to raise kids, unless you both agree you want to reach out to people for support or advice.
Story 8: get high without drugs, reply to this comment for further instruction
tbh good for her, I hope she takes it to the grave.
1st story; Your money, your way, no contest. No mooching parents, wise move and keeping your funds under wraps.
2nd story; Yeah, your husband is going to a brothel. Leave, before he develops an opiate dependency.
3rd story: Control freak! That boy had no right to say what his sister wears. He's not the dad, and he's an In-law, which is 1 step below authority on brother.
4th Story: Not cool on the mom. She wasn't patient, and that burned her and the bridge to the daughter. Should of waited.
5th story; It was a Father-Daughter moment only getaway! No one else was invited. Him, bringing along the stepsister was a direct violation of a promise. Get the priorities straight, or its straight to the pyre to him.
It was made especially clear when she offered to pay for the hotel. Cause she wanted to do something special with her dad and she wanted to treat him by paying for the hotel. When the sister-in-law was brought even through the No's she was well within her rights to Ghost him. I haven't spoken to my own mother in over 10 years and she lives only 30 minutes away from me because there is no point putting in effort when the other party doesn't want to make an effort.
@@TheFrio937 dang... I ghosted my dad because he's a narcissist and threatened to call me a rapist in public if I didn't follow his rules
for the 3rd story, why was he even looking? he had to be looking at her breasts to see her cleavage.
Story 3: in my opinion, that story only makes sense if the family is very conservative. If that's the case, OP's clearly not the jerk, but from the family's point of view the brother in law just said out loud what everyne was thinking, hence why they said OP was the one acting out of line. If they aren't that conservative, then I suspect OP's spinning the story in her favor, but who knows ?
Story 4: Op's husband and/or MIL may be trying to presure her into keeping the baby, just saying...
Story 5: The problem is, if the step siblings come, OP feels like they're taking her dad's attention from her, but if he do thing with her and her alone, chances are the step siblings feels like he's playing favorite, so while in the particular last situation it's the dad's fault for failing to see it was a very special occasion for her, OP is also partially to blame for failing to understand the situation her dad was in and her step siblings pov.
You forgot the spa story i think, or atleast one of the two between the spa and therapist
Last story: NTA. She wanted to spend time with her dad after telling him that she missed one-on-one time with him. She paid the hotel so she could enjoy celebrating her academic achievement with her dad. So her dad showing up with the step sister was a mess up. Dad should've known not to bring along someone to steal the spotlight and compete for attention. She was not wrong for canceling the hotel. She booked it for her enjoyment and she didn't go, why should she waste her money?
On the other hand, the dad was a complete AH, he knew his daughter wanted to go out with him and only him to celebrate her, then he brought the stepsister and when HIS DAUGHTER didn't want to share HER treat, he took the stepsister to the reservation and had the nerve to complain!?!
Last story 100% the step sister's evil scheme to separate them worked.
Story two: That guy is an entitled jerk. He wants what he wants, and damned be to what it costs his wife. OP needs to take his name off all her accounts and cards, because who knows what else he's blowing her money on? If he can't afford to pay for his indulgences on his own,. he can go without them.
3*
Agreed. This is the sort of stuff that scares me, btw. Too many married couples have this weird attitude that it's "their" money, even if one is making the money. In a stay-at-home/working parent situation I can kinda get this. But this dude is just without a job. He can look for another job.
What's with the guys taking the side of their mothers in all these stories? I've binged a ton of these vids recently and it seems like when a pregnant person gets upset at in-laws for poor, or downright horrible behavior, the BF/Husband defends the offenders and attacks the GF/Wife. Seriously, are the people writing the stories just sugarcoating what they did to make it seem like they were the victims, or is there just more momma's boys out in the wild? I understand defending family, but that's the woman carrying your child, so mom has no right overstepping.
While sometimes people do misrepresent what's actually going on, there are loads of people like that, and don't forget that these posts are all related to talking about shitty behaviour, not full of posts about happy nice stable relationships. It's a dumping ground of dumpster fire people/situations, pretty much.
I don't doubt that there are people who put their family's opinion above their spouse's, since I've seen it happen myself, but keep in mind that we only get one perspective on all of these stories. For all we know, the authors of these stories could be making all of this shit up in order to get pity points on the internet.
@@pskeifk it's pretty uncommon but people who need to cope or boost they're ego do do it
Well... probably because if the husband had supported the wife, the story wouldn't have been posted on Reddit?
3rd story, what he did is legit illegal and is considered fraud, even if he's authorized
Actually, the third story is a case of fraud if the credit card and bank account is in the woman's name. She should get rid of him and his tendency to go to a "special" spa.
story 5 mother in law seriously crossed a line. She had no right to do what she did
The last one, am I misunderstanding, or did the father have the gall to take the stepsister to the hotel that the OP was paying for, leaving the OP behind? That...is just beyond the pale. He might not be the angry guilt tripping narcissistic type like we sometimes see, but that's just messed up, even if he might have intended to take over responsibility of paying (I would hope he'd at least have intended that much). Sounds like he's a doormat when it comes to his new family's wishes, and just expects his daughter to passively go along with what they want even after she's made it clear she wants one on one personal time with him.
Yeah, going no contact makes sense in that case. He might not be loud, violent, hateful, or whatever, but it's still a toxic dynamic. Him just ignoring her feelings and wishes, caving to the demands of others. I can certain understand that he lives with them which would put pressure on him to make them happy, but it's his responsibility to stand up for his kid. Her wishes aren't unreasonable, and his new family should have the decency to respect that she wants alone time with her father as well, especially when they're the ones that have access to him all the time. He has made his choice that her feelings don't matter much, so he'll have to live with the consequences.
It seems they wanted to sleep on the same bed, leaving the other for the OP, in a two bedroom room... Maybe this hotel doesn't charge by people, but rather by beds? I wondered about that too
@@grey984 In the story the father and stepdaughter go on without the OP though, that's my point. The father's idea was to do what you say, but OP was like "no, it was just supposed to be the two of us" and stayed behind, calling ahead to the hotel to cancel the reservation, so when those two showed up they ended up blindsided with the lack of a room (and couldn't find another one).
Only because OP absolutely refused.
She was childish and selfish and it sounds like she had been the entire time expect her dad's attention 100% for her self when there are 3 other children's so much for acting like an adult when she literally begged to pay for the reservation.
@@tmarritt I think it's pretty understandable though. The father's new family sees him all the time, she presumably only saw him occasionally. Father also broke his promise to have 1 on 1 time with her because he can't put his foot down. Get the impression that the new family was pretty pushy about getting attention, whether it was intentional on their part or not.
We don't know the specifics of the situation, just what the OP mentioned, but that's my impression.
@@tmarritt how's that selfish? she wants her father's attention for herself when they are supposed to be alone together, and for him to not completely ignore her when they aren't over people he sees and lives with every day, unlike herself. The childish one here is you for thinking people aren't entitled to be angry over being isolated from their own family, like wtf kinda world do you live in?
that one about the spa? There is only one course of actions d-i-v-o-r-c-e. First of all, nobody needs to visit the spa weekly. Least of all someone who isn't even working anymore. So he's being extraordinarily selfish to demand such luxury when he can't even pay for it. Also, discarding the very likely possibility that he's actually visiting a prostitute and not a spa therapist, if he's willing to steal money and then claim it's his anyway, he will continue to do that. He legitimately thinks he has access to whatever he can get his grubby hands on and he's not going to stop.
She has to leave him; he's just not redeemable at this point.
Story 3: that's not a regular spa. He's getting happy endings.
The first story with op keeping their money is something I completely understand. Back when I lived with my mom, my money that I hid under my bed or pillow was often taken by her whenever I was in the bathroom to use it or to shower and it came to the point that whenever I had to use the bathroom, I would put all my money in one of my books and take it in with me just to keep my money safe from her
“You’re money is my money” doesn’t count when it’s HER credit card
I will just say this, *My money* can be your money
but *my bank account* is not yours to use, and the fact that he didn't even apologize or see the situation laid in front of him and his wife's worries, is such a douche move, not only that, instead of him job hunting(which i'm pretty sure *he's not doing*) he doesn't tell the wife how the experience was like at the spa, why is it so expensive? What service he gets that can amount to *1000* dollars a month?
That's *12000+* dollars a *year* on something that has no justification, and the way that he says it's a *human need* is something really strange and offsetting, OP might want to reconsider their choices with this guy
@@PedroGM0 your money is my money - pirates.
The knock knock joke got me so bad xD lmaoo
i possibly woulda gone the "nunya" route with that joke...but it all comes out the same...there is some enjoyment in how she delivered it though, using the name of the ex that left for that reason...even as a guy...no sympathy or empathy for that guy for getting what he deserved for being a controlling dick
I love the knock knock joke about nana
When it comes to family, I just ask myself "If I were not related to them would I want to hang out with them or have them as friends?" My answer tells me how to move forward. Does that mean I don't have contact? Not necessarily, but when I do it is very infrequent. I love the statement that friends are the family we choose and I am careful about choosing my friends.
For the therapist story, I don’t think they’re the jerk. From what I’ve heard from my friend, therapists have this code that you cannot tell other people what goes on in their patients therapy sessions, so basically this therapist is breaking some rule. However, I don’t know how true this is though.
it is not only a code, it's a law, they saying something about your sesions it's ignoring your privacy, it's ilegal and she could be fired by doing so
I think the last one wasn't really the jerk. People say she is being selfish for making her dad choose between her and her other family but she isn't doing that at all, she just wants that the time she spends with his father is with her and not with the other family who she doesn't have to care about. I actually think that the dad was kind of a jerk for still going to the trip even if she wasn't going since it was their plan and she was paying for it.
Rule of Acquisition #6 “Never allow family to stand in the way of opportunity.”
Story 1: Wow same story! OP is doing well! His parents are a strangers and strangers don’t deserve to know what you’re doing nor your bank account. OP said that their family are their friends and has already moved on 🤷🏽♀️
I bet the husband gets a "happy ending" massage thats why he keeps going to that one place
"Nana yo damn business" haha
Story #2- Hell NO, she's not the jerk for testing her therapist by telling her lies! It worked! She was opening her BIG MOUTH &telling the hubby. She's not supposed to DO that! It's called Privilege info, and it's supposed to remain a SECRET. She DOES need to try to get her license revoked! Or at least tell her off, &switch therapists.
Story 4: Yeah, maybe OP was digging at the in-law, but he's been digging the trenches for a while.
Kind of a jerk, but the brother-in-law deserved it nonetheless.
1st story: I can see the temptation to rub OP's success in the parents faces, but no. That would just give them one more person to leech on. And they don't deserve money.
2nd story: This is either a case of paranoia or a terrible husband and therapist.
3rd story: When you're pregnant, baby equipment are essentials. Spa treatments are generally luxuries. And sometimes you can't afford luxuries. Even if you really want them. And it is never okay to use someone else's money without permission. Not even if you're married.
4th story: The brother-in-law can mind his own bloody clothes!
5th story: Man, that husband and that mother-in-law are bad at keeping secrets. And yes, OP's privacy was violated, even if it was done throught her husband's Facebook account.
6th story: The dad obviously didn't care about what OP had said. Yes, it sucks for him too, because he now has 2 groups of children vying for his attention, and they don't get along. But OP had clearly said that she didn't want the step-siblings around, because she feels overshadowed. Inviting the step-sister, while knowing that OP wouldn't want her there, and after explicitly being told no, is not okay. And then driving off with the step-sister while leaving OP behind, to go on the trip that was supposed to be for OP and which OP paid for, was probably the last straw.
I never understood the thought process these parents have by trying to include their step kids in everything they do with their other kids. I grew up with five siblings and while we do a lot of things together as family. My parents knew the importance of having one on one time with each of their kids from time to time so none of us had to feel like we’re fighting for their attention. It never felt unfair to any of us if one of us went out with a parent cause we knew we were taking turns. This dad could simply spent some time alone with op and them spent some time with his other kids.
I had a student therapist while my husband was in school. I was trying to work through my grandma's death and my husband's cheating on me. I knew where everything was heading; I just wanted to get through stuff before I filed for divorce. The therapist was required to record our sessions. I was ok with that since she was a student. One day I was walking through the door, putting down my stuff, and I usually am a quiet walker. My husband was sitting on the TV watching the therapist and me talking about his cheating. I grabbed the remote and took the tape out of the VCR. I walked out the door to the car and went to the therapy building at the school. I demanded (Something I usually wouldn't do) to speak with either the dean or the teacher doing student supervision. I found out where the dean was, so I went to that building and his office. I was still fuming. He saw me right away and put down the tape hard, and said "MY HUSBAND WAS WATCHING THIS WHEN I GOT HOME, WTFH" he was a bit shocked at my forcefulness. The therapist is supposed to record how the hell did he get it. He deeply apologized and told me that he is going to do everything in his power to ban her from the medical profession but she is going to be expelled from the school. I haven't gone to therapy since because now I am afraid what I say is going to be repeated.
i always reccomend just ghosting your parents especially if they put you down and refuse to listen
Story 4: I screamed with the knock knock joke. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Story 2 you should sue that therapist for hippa violations.
16:10 OMG I DIED OF LAUGHTER WHEN I SAW THE LVL IN THE BACKGROUND
story 2 is definitly not a jerk. while the spas arent necessarily happy ending types, they definitly a luxury. you dont need to go to a spa, ever, especially not when your unemployed.
I believed that the daughter payed for the reservation because if her father did payed and brought the step sister then the daughter would not have a reasonable chance to argue
But the father was a jerk for bringing the step sister when OP said no. I can understand wanting one on one time with a parent. I came from a large family and had very little one on one time when I was younger.
10:24 dude roast caught me off guard and left my mouth wide opened
Story 4: well, that explains why he wanted to pay for the reservation. What fits did he have having the step-sister tagging along? Good for op having at least one parent that understands.
Ya really gotta feel for these women who's husbands pretty much turn on them when they tell off their family for disrespecting them. I feel like we see this so often in these stories.
that last one hits home. my dad went to spend the day with his new girlfriend on valentines day, and her granddaughter, which later turned into a "camping trip", then turned into "WE (him and her) are moving to Tennessee". all the while i was stuck at home for 2 weeks with 2 dogs, and 3 kittens. WHICH THEY ONLY ASKED ME TO TAKE CARE OF AFTER THEY FIGURED THEY WERE GOING TO BE AWAY FOR A FEW DAYS, 2 DAYS IN.
the kittens froze to death, because i never knew they had them until then, and 2 days alone was too long for them.
one of the dogs ran off, i forget what breed, but its one of them that is big enough to knock you down if it jumped up on you.
and the rest of my family thinks my dad is a dumbass for trying to get an apartment, WITH A NEW FAMILY, in the next state over, when he could barely afford discounted rent from a friend.
at least all that is "somewhat" less worse than his last girlfriend. i may be couch surfing with family now, but i would prefer to be homeless than to live with her again.
for story 3 the man literally ratted himself out . he said that the pregnancy was stressful on him too and he also needs things as well meaning he is paying for sexual favors because he can't be with the wife like that while she is prego .
Not the happy ending at the spa. 👀🙈🤣
There's a Finnish saying really fitting to the first story. "Kel onni on, se onnen kätkeköön" "He who has happiness, hide the happiness"
story 4 Brother in law needs to shut his mouth and stop enforcing his way of life onto others. You are not the jerk he is. Your response was justified
2nd story feels like its breaking the law(idk if theres a law or not for it) but therapists should keep any and every personal information of their clients confidential and should never tell anyone no matter without consent (unless its something suicidal or intentions of hurting others).
If they do they should have their license revoked.
Story 3. Block/remove any card on your account that he has access to, keep your cards hidden and don't buy him anything. Let's see how long he can hold on. Either he pays you back or he's on his own...
For the last story she's not a jerk she just surprised them with the cancellation
That sounds like a special spa that does more then fix your back muscles.
Don’t tell them anything! You are doing well sounds like your doing just great without them and they will drag you down through guilt emotional blackmail etc! ♥️🏴
Baby story sound like they haven't even made decision if they are going to keep that baby. If that is the case that's actually extreme violation of personal information.
That is a huge breach of ethics and she needs to be reported
As for the pregnant woman who’s mother in law announced HER pregnancy? Her privacy way very violated. She didn’t even get to announce her own pregnancy or even decide if she wanted to go through with it at all and the mother went behind her back. If I was her husband I would be pissed. I wouldn’t apologize. I would ditch that family quick. It’s a giant red flag. It’s giving her a glimpse into her future with them. Which is mother in law can do screwed up stuff and get away with it because her son will make excuses for her. No matter what she will always be wrong in her husband and mother in laws eyes. RUN.
Story number 2, record the seasion on your phone, and when you know the hubby is going to confront you, record that as well. Then you will have proof that the therapist told him. Because he wasnt there so how the heck does he know? That gets therapist in trouble, then divorce the hubby for essentially spying on you during a time where it should be essentially a diary situation where no one else should know. He crossed so many lines.
You wait that 4th story Nana ur damn business joke was actually pretty funny
Definitely getting a happy ending at the spa.
Last story- even if the daughter had not cancelled the reservation, the hotel may not have let the father check in. Since OP made the reservations & was paying, most hotels would require her to be present at check-in.
1) Parents/family that treat you like this... best case get old enough/educated to walk away and live elsewhere and never give forwarding address / phone. And block their phone /emails.
As someone who has been through therapy, story #2 is appalling. A therapist that just gives away your information (especially in regard to your health--including mental health) is not only a breach of trust, but I'm pretty sure that's unethical and illegal? It doesn't matter what the relationship between the patient and the one being told the info. If the therapist wanted to share certain things with the patient's husband, the therapist had the duty to ask and respect the patient's decision.
Regarding the therapist- if the therapist has any ethics, she should not be seeing both spouses. I would confront the therapist and would report your concerns to the licensing board that provides her licensure.
3:57 if the therapist was actually telling the husband, then therapist will be breaking the law. The only time it is legal for a therapist to tell someone else, and what you’re telling them is, if you’re saying you’re playing to kill someone or something along those lines which, then they are required to inform the authorities
I have been looked at as the loser of my family or saying "I'm your MOTHER, give me" ,so I have been working hard and keeping quite, I do not tell anyone unless these people encourage me to be better. currently buying my 4th apartment
For story 1: if you know how they treat you, and for so many years, announce it as a new thing, like you got it fresh, watch them great friendly with you all the way up to the day you say you get your first paycheck, then announce how you've actually had the job for years and you just watched the best damn show of his depression hellbent parents treating me as a worthwhile son for a week(2 weeks) at the mere mention of money then let the emotions fly and make sure they know they will never see a penny of it
The second you said, "There is a show..." I knew which one you meant.
That sounds like the husband is getting “special massages.” 200USD a session seems like a lot.
That being said, I’m glad that in Japan the husband and the wife’s money is their own. There is no join ownership of wealth. So if they were here, she could sue him to get her money back.
Ngl. had to google "heart shaped dress" to know what that looked like. it's adorable
the third story, there IS legal ramifications to this. you can sue/divorce your marriage partner under the pretense of them being "financially irresponsible."
Change therapist and sue her. That’s a serious violation of their code.
story 6:
mothers always try to keep a bond with fathers with their kids as they want a better life for them. unless your mothers horrible, shes just trying to see the view of things. and ur not the jerk
thank you so much l love your stuff
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I’d say, “If you think that announcing OUR pregnancy only violated YOUR privacy then your either an idiot, a narcissist or an idiotic narcissist and with what you did when I asked you to stay silent, what she did when we asked the same and the way your treating me on her behalf I will divorce you long before I apologize!”
About the therapist. Husband said he didn't get it from therapist. Most likely he put a recording device in her purse.
That lady cannot divorce that absolute prat fast enough.
The OP paid for the trip with her dad. She told him her stepsister wasn’t invited. He brought her anyway. Why should she pay for a trip she didn’t end up going on? Her canceling the reservation was completely appropriate and the dad deserves for her to go no contact.
In a situation like Story #1 never tell them anything. Let them think you're a failure that way whatever you earn stays in your own pocket. Sister should cut them off financially.
For the theripist story, i feel as though there's a lot of information missing, and i dont want to jump to conclusions without the whole story
Story 4: BIL tries to control wife.
Wife disagrees.
BIL gets confused and tries harder.
Wife still disagrees and divorces him.
BIL tries the same on OP, his SIL, and fail.
BIL remains confused
BIL is stupid obviously. Can't figure out where he went wrong lol! I would have reacted the same.
The first story. Rub it in your parents face, then change your number and ignore their calls. The second is a H. I. P. P. A. Violation. As I have my certification in peer support training, what you tell your counselor/therapist is in confidence and protected. Is consult an attorney
So many people need to learn the major lesson of The Beginner’s Guide. Sometimes, people operate in a way you can’t understand. And you must respect it.
For the last one, I don't think she was a jerk because her dad changed the arrangements on her, despite her specifically saying she didn't want her step sister there and despite her being the one to pay for the hotel. If one of those things hadn't been the case, it might be a bit more grey. That said, the overall situation is pretty tough. I'm sure the dad wants the kids and step kids to all feel like one family for him, and I'm sure the step daughter wants a full time dad since her bio dad passed away. It would be kinda shitty for the dad to go to the step daughter and essentially tell her that she will never be his top priority, that his bio daughter must always be first. Of course, none of that makes it easier for OP, who in her teen years suddenly finds herself with two step siblings and is expected to adjust her life around something she had no say in.
#5. End pregnancy, divorce. Ghost.
For the therapist one, those who said there's no way people would risk their job for hefty sum...well you could never been more wrong. Money can show people's true colors.
Last story - I get it. &Yeah, that was a GREAT way to get her revenge. THEY weren't about to go have a good time on HER trip, if SHE wasn't gonna be there. It might seem petty, &selfish to some, but think about feeling side swiped after Dad gets a brand new family, &starts blatantly favoring THOSE children over you. &NO, "I" haven't personally been thru anything like this, I'm just imagining how it MIGHT feel for me. That's the problem w/today... ppl don't try to empathize w/others. It's ALL about "ME", now.🙄
Then where’s the empathy for the dad? Is that irony, or double standard. Why is it has to be YOUR opinion, and not others? What’s with all that “ME, MINE OPINION” in your comment.
And also, the dad is “blatantly favoring” the other family, because the dad didn’t turn his head toward OP 0.3s in the midst of his conversation with other people, and that’s is clear favoring toward the new family.
Also, learn to type normally. Your typing style hurts my physically
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Oh really?? MY typing style hurts "my physically", huh?! A person who can BARELY type in English is telling ME how to text-speak.🙄 Btw, I don't know if you noticed or not but the narrator asks "What do YOU think, what would YOU do here...", after he tells these stories. As a matter of fact, I get a LOT of likes &comments back FROM the actual poster of "Am I the Jerk", so I'll take THEIR opinion over yours. Thanks. Next time, if you don't like a comment, move or scroll on. Deuces!✌🏾️😙
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Also, about the story, this OP is his actual Bio daughter, the other kids belong to his New wife (whom he CHEATED on his 1st family with)! Op just wanted some one on one time w/HER Dad! What's so wrong w/her wanting &needing THAT every once &again?! Plus, he asked her already if he could bring the step daughter. She said No... that she'd rather just have it be between the 2 of them alone. It's hard to try to get to know Some1 when you've got other ppl always chiming in when you try to talk w/the person. She said No, but he sneakily SPRUNG the SD anyway under the guise of it being a "graduation surprise". Dad initially did wrong by cheating into a New marriage in the 1st place. He could've done things better &ended the 1st relationship FIRST! So, yeah... I thought about HIS side too.🤨😗
The pregnant woman is a jerk for considering killing her unborn, not for getting mad at her mother inlaw.
The second one, that is enough evidence to prove that this therapist is violating their oath and are in violation of their license. They should absolutely report them.
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Story #2: The therapist has committed a heinous ethics violation, and shuld be reported. I think she has a case by inference of the best explanation. There is a reason why attorneys, physicians and therapist are bound not to disclose information of their clients to any third party, except for very narrow exceptions. What this therapist did is highly unethical and harmful.
Story #4 and #5: the brother in law and the mother in law are absolute jerks. But the fact that both husbands sided with the offending party is a massive red flag. So close by itself to a relationship extintion level event, that any other medium red flag would make my advise to DTMFA.
That man is a whole Desean Watson lol
The spa one, the guy must be spending extra on happy endings, and by that I don't mean a free egg roll after massage.
"he keeps telling me he's going to be a parent too" not if he keeps this shit up