I m very much inspired by his thoughts... I joined this channel 1 yr back when you had 3k subscribers...now it's 60k.. that's why we say kam bolta h... Thanks for coming up with different topics..
Sir ye wala comment dekhiye original hai - I am in my early 40s, MNC employee, Project manager and domain expert. I train my firangi customers and also give training to ekdum freshers that join my project and team. The way you giv examples and the way you tell your concepts are the exactly the same as I give training to my freshers team every 2 months. I Use halke phulke jokes, punch lines, muhavre, movies ke dialogues to keep them involved in virtual trainings. This shows your knowledge and your grip your confidence on the topics covered. Do keep sharing your wisdom 👍
I could not stop laughjng seeing your bhashan. Very suitable for indian panorama. What a great indian family life that you are narrating. Somebody should be there like you to shout against the evil thoughts of indian society. Thanks a lot sir.
There is life beyond children. We love them dearly, they are the stars of our lives. But we need to love with detachment. Elder couples need to renew their own relationships and their spiritual lives. Travel, meditate, meet friends ......and support our children when they need us. They too will stand by us when we need them! Life is full!
That is if you actually loved them Rather than spending money due to "responsibilities" Most indian parents only do things out of duty and responsibility,not out of love
You have keen observation and forsightness. I am a gynecologist in my 50 's. Your thoughts are real and bitter , but always help for betterment of family. God bless you. Greetings from indore
A common scene that is being played out in Indian households today ! But I guess mothers are not that worried as fathers are ! Talking from personal experience 😊 A mother always thinks about a child’s physical well being first and a father , about the child’s financial well being . But yes both are doing ‘ swaha’ rapidly in their own capacities !
Meri mummy mujhe khelne nhi deti thi, thode bhi extra time hota tha turant compare karti thi ki doosre bachche toh sab ghar chale gye. Maine khelna chod diya aur mujhe gharmein sirf padhai ka kaam bola jata tha. Basic cheeze sikhi maine and i was interested also. I use to feel so depressed ki khelna band aur jabardasti mujhe classes "Chaate" mein dal diya. Kisi neighbor k kehne pe kyunki woh waha padhati thi. Mujhe kuch bhi samajh nhi ata tha and i was forced to go. Fir meri padhai ekdum kharab ho gyi hai. Science jabardasti dilaya aur uska aajtak koi fayeda nhi. Fir taane bhi mujhe hi mile ki maine paise waste karaye. Uff sirf aur sirf comparison.
Don't worry.. Just hang on... Khelne ke din phir aayege... Abhi mehnat ke din chal rahe hai... Abhi 1 din mehnat karoge to, 10 din khelne ke aayage, but agar abhi 1 din khel liya, then aage 10 din mehnat karni padegi... Best wishes 👍
Meri mother bhi working hai, lekin guidance ke naam par unhone mujhe uncertainity hi di hai. Salah ke naam par chinta. Jab me constructive discussion karu career ko leke to disinterest matlab sara bachpan jis mata ne padhai nokri ko lekar khoon piya wo ab disinterested hai, dhokha
Sir aap sahi hai..mujhe parents ki jarurat hai per mere parents apne enjoyment sechudule se time nahi nikal payye ...Jacki wo akele hi rehte hai...isliyye maine job chod di..isshe yeah hua ki mai home sick ho gaye...papa to aana chahte hai per mere step mother is not interested at all..unexperienced thhi to taklif bhi jyyada hui...
Sir lajawab.... Maharashtra ke ek sant Ramdasswami kyon shadi ke waqt bhag gaye.... So lucky Whatever you said was exactly followed by my father...he was really a great support till his last day of his life what a commitment!!! But it's very difficult....
I had kids in 2012 my parents never helped me. It was my in laws only who helped. Since then I realized my parents pushed me hard for everything and then when time came for their helped. They never helped with my kids. Raising kids on your own in a foreign country is super hard.
Uncleji, you are very progressive and matured. Wish i get in-laws like you in case i plan to get married. Keep making such contents. Main reason is in-laws not treating their DIL like their daughter, and DIL not treating their in-laws like her own parents. Both the sides want 100% perfection and love from each other, which is not possible. Pls make a video on this.
Most of indian parents are like usko 22 lakhs ka package milgaya,usko 30 lakhs,usko itna But they don't understand that when we move to big cities and get 1-1.3 lakh in hand in a 18-22 lacs package.. it's isn't easy due to inflation,etc.. parents have extreme high unrealistic hopes.. and especially parents don't pay attention during schooling as to why children aren't studying properly,what are the issues.. bas achaanak graduation ke baad sab attention jaag jaati hai,kabhi sidha muh baat nahi karte,bas ek hi dialogue -"padha rahe hai,baaki tumhari marzi"
Sach mein , I have already burn out , bcz apna max diya till my son completed his studies and got a job. Ab lagta hai how I vl manage aage k kaam, jo pichle se kahin zyada ho sakte hain. So please suggest hw to manage situation now onwards
10th start hote hai pura samaj bolta raha ki left hand se mat likho exam me baithne nahi denge, i did what i can do cleared the exam with 56%, 11th ke liye sab bole itne low marks me science mat lena pagal hai jo itne kam marks me science lete hai i did that too, aur 12th me fail ho gaya Re attempt kiya with all subjects and cleared 12th went for graduation did in chemistry jo logon ko hard lagta tha with KT in last year i joined job as well, Job krte krte KT clear ki aur PG kiya clinical research me Now i feel I'm well settled The people who where stopping me they are at the same position and trying to stop everyone listen what you feel from inside.
🤣🤣 too good. By chance I got this channel. Sir , how about hubby wife relation after decades of marriage and on maamas boys husband who can't say no to mom's.
Humein to ghar se bhejna bhi hai lekin wahan nhi Jahan hum chahte hain, wiase nhi jaise hum chahte hain. Ghar se hai... Ghar basa ke. Taki hum(parents) jee saken... Jahan bolen wahan ghar basao... Tumhare bhagya mein jo hoga ho jayega. I don't understand, ki JB parents kuchh decide karte hain to "yahi tumhare bhagya hai", " Baki jo bhagya mein hoga" ... Yani decision Lena hai but responsibility nhi. Aur bacche.. Pehli baar unko decision lene Dena nhi chahte... Secondly, phir bhagya to raha nhi... Aur responsibility poori bacche ki. 🤷♀️
Let me know if you are in between the age of 25-35 and thinking you want to share this video, but you can't, because you know they will get offended...
Sir aap un log pe kyun nhi videoa bnate jinke single parent reh jate hai bacho ki shadi se pehle death ho jati and parents zada educatee and settle nhi hote ..there are so many girls i knkw including myself jo family and parents ki responsibility lene ki wajah se shadi nhi kr pate .though looks job sab hota ...i know mamy girls jo kaafi kuch kr sakti job , cooking taking care of family but boys dont marry because kisi ko responbility burden girls nhi chahiye ..in topics ko bhi cover krein kisi video mein and there is lot of youth which is unmarried due to complex family , single widowed unemployed old father mother who are dependent on children ..what about them....every one does not have stable educates parents
Great content in videos. I have watched almost 30 of your videos in about 1 and half days. I have a request, in future if possible please cover this content about Guys/Girls marrying the person of their parent's choice even though they don't want to, they just marry so that their parents are not disappointed or unhappy with their son/daughter's marriage. And later continue in extra marital affairs even after having 2 kids with the spouse. These marriages are in constant distress and the level of emotional turmoil the spouse, children raised in such marriages go though has no words to explain. Bahu who is caught in this situation is just expected to keep patience, not to talk about it outside and wait for things to get better which never happens. Please talk about how should evey adult approach this kind of scenario and the basic transparency, commitments needed of adults getting into marriage.
sir pls make video on parents of bigger kids. who are above 20.Some parents are very toxic who have over expectations n interfere in all matters of children n talk rashly
My father is like bahut kiya Maine, don't come with ur problems to me🙄.. I don't have time.. Mera dimag mat Khao. I'm like.. How can he say this?? Parenting is something which never ends till u die. Such thinking is just pathetic 😏
Gd content for both parents n kids. Suggestions -also make content on un maried divorce adult kids staying together/ controlled by parents n they telling what's gd or bad for them n if they decide on their own they r given ultimatum of all sorts emotional mental etc. This might also be a really gd topic these days
Indian mummy 80s aur 90s k bachcho wale, sirf schools pe rely kar rhe the. Ki kuch ban jayenge toh hum unko baaki basic kaam na sikhaye. Fir woh bachche alsi hoke ab kuch karna nhi chahte. Fir frustration develop ghar k kaamo ki safai ki
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I m very much inspired by his thoughts... I joined this channel 1 yr back when you had 3k subscribers...now it's 60k.. that's why we say kam bolta h... Thanks for coming up with different topics..
Thanks for kind words Anjali ji
Sir ji very thoughtful advice.
Sir ye wala comment dekhiye original hai - I am in my early 40s, MNC employee, Project manager and domain expert. I train my firangi customers and also give training to ekdum freshers that join my project and team. The way you giv examples and the way you tell your concepts are the exactly the same as I give training to my freshers team every 2 months. I Use halke phulke jokes, punch lines, muhavre, movies ke dialogues to keep them involved in virtual trainings. This shows your knowledge and your grip your confidence on the topics covered. Do keep sharing your wisdom 👍
I could not stop laughjng seeing your bhashan. Very suitable for indian panorama. What a great indian family life that you are narrating. Somebody should be there like you to shout against the evil thoughts of indian society. Thanks a lot sir.
There is life beyond children. We love them dearly, they are the stars of our lives. But we need to love with detachment. Elder couples need to renew their own relationships and their spiritual lives. Travel, meditate, meet friends ......and support our children when they need us. They too will stand by us when we need them! Life is full!
thats what is my favourite topic
That is if you actually loved them
Rather than spending money due to "responsibilities"
Most indian parents only do things out of duty and responsibility,not out of love
Amit ji ye gher gher ke story hai
Itna deeply video Apne बनाया है
इस बारे में जानकारी आज तक किसी ने नहीं दी
Thanku so much Amit ji
You have keen observation and forsightness.
I am a gynecologist in my 50 's.
Your thoughts are real and bitter , but always help for betterment of family.
God bless you.
Greetings from indore
A common scene that is being played out in Indian households today ! But I guess mothers are not that worried as fathers are ! Talking from personal experience 😊 A mother always thinks about a child’s physical well being first and a father , about the child’s financial well being . But yes both are doing ‘ swaha’ rapidly in their own capacities !
nope mothers are far more worried and spreads their anxiety thruout the house.
@@ageless1003 there’s always an exception !
@@ageless1003 exactly 😂
👍
Agree
🙏🏻Very insightful video
Aap hm sbko ek mirror dikhate ho jisse hum apni kamiyo ka ek perspective le kr unko sudhaarne pr kaam kr skte hain 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hasi sachai ka favara so v dil ko baat wah bai wah gd blu
Excellent video ... I can very well relate. I am a working mom and stress double
Meri mummy mujhe khelne nhi deti thi, thode bhi extra time hota tha turant compare karti thi ki doosre bachche toh sab ghar chale gye.
Maine khelna chod diya aur mujhe gharmein sirf padhai ka kaam bola jata tha. Basic cheeze sikhi maine and i was interested also.
I use to feel so depressed ki khelna band aur jabardasti mujhe classes "Chaate" mein dal diya. Kisi neighbor k kehne pe kyunki woh waha padhati thi. Mujhe kuch bhi samajh nhi ata tha and i was forced to go. Fir meri padhai ekdum kharab ho gyi hai.
Science jabardasti dilaya aur uska aajtak koi fayeda nhi. Fir taane bhi mujhe hi mile ki maine paise waste karaye.
Uff sirf aur sirf comparison.
Don't worry.. Just hang on... Khelne ke din phir aayege... Abhi mehnat ke din chal rahe hai... Abhi 1 din mehnat karoge to, 10 din khelne ke aayage, but agar abhi 1 din khel liya, then aage 10 din mehnat karni padegi... Best wishes 👍
Apke example se me sach me impress hoon aur khud me improov kr rhi hoon thanks sr 🙏🎁
Meri mother bhi working hai, lekin guidance ke naam par unhone mujhe uncertainity hi di hai. Salah ke naam par chinta. Jab me constructive discussion karu career ko leke to disinterest
matlab sara bachpan jis mata ne padhai nokri ko lekar khoon piya wo ab disinterested hai, dhokha
100 percent true, You speak from your heart and mind combined, so it is very very effective 👌 👍 Love the examples and the experiences you share
precise words you have used to describe him
Sir aap sahi hai..mujhe parents ki jarurat hai per mere parents apne enjoyment sechudule se time nahi nikal payye ...Jacki wo akele hi rehte hai...isliyye maine job chod di..isshe yeah hua ki mai home sick ho gaye...papa to aana chahte hai per mere step mother is not interested at all..unexperienced thhi to taklif bhi jyyada hui...
You are simply Brilliant. You should have had 100 million subscribers, IF India has to become VISHWA-GURU
Thanks for kind words
@@SangoLifeSutras Said from the Soul and Heart, AND not to make you 'feel-good', Guruji. Cheers
Very informative topic Sir
Good idea, thought. Very good video. Everyone should follow and apply everyone's life.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom and deep knowledge. Very very helpful 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Very good discourse on the topic.
Yes Sir, Life is a MARATHON, PARENTS should not have high expectations of the children. Plan for average success.
they think they have spending capacity so they do it
It's not just Parenting but both husband and wife have to work full-time. Managing work and home and kids can easily burnout people
yes that is a very new issue
Wisdom🌟uncle ji 🙏🏼 thanks for bringing up such great videos.
बहुत शिक्षाप्रद वीडियो
Great observation. Thank you
Well explained and all is very much evident around! Keep this good work going!
Fortunately I understand Hindi, these videos are a treasure trove of opinions, perspective and life advices.. thank you
Original n insightful content ...much needed... thanks once again
Very informative and intellective sir, I'm in love with ur content sir.
Very good local examples. Helps in understanding the topic. Thanks sir.
Sir lajawab....
Maharashtra ke ek sant Ramdasswami kyon shadi ke waqt bhag gaye.... So lucky
Whatever you said was exactly followed by my father...he was really a great support till his last day of his life what a commitment!!!
But it's very difficult....
Very practical and painful inputs. Great content sir!
Excellent advice Sir, indian parents burnout easily because of the burden of expectations.
I had kids in 2012 my parents never helped me. It was my in laws only who helped. Since then I realized my parents pushed me hard for everything and then when time came for their helped. They never helped with my kids. Raising kids on your own in a foreign country is super hard.
Uncleji, you are very progressive and matured. Wish i get in-laws like you in case i plan to get married.
Keep making such contents. Main reason is in-laws not treating their DIL like their daughter, and DIL not treating their in-laws like her own parents. Both the sides want 100% perfection and love from each other, which is not possible.
Pls make a video on this.
Most of indian parents are like usko 22 lakhs ka package milgaya,usko 30 lakhs,usko itna
But they don't understand that when we move to big cities and get 1-1.3 lakh in hand in a 18-22 lacs package.. it's isn't easy due to inflation,etc..
parents have extreme high unrealistic hopes.. and especially parents don't pay attention during schooling as to why children aren't studying properly,what are the issues.. bas achaanak graduation ke baad sab attention jaag jaati hai,kabhi sidha muh baat nahi karte,bas ek hi dialogue -"padha rahe hai,baaki tumhari marzi"
you are blessing to typical middle class family. God bless you Sir
Sach mein , I have already burn out , bcz apna max diya till my son completed his studies and got a job. Ab lagta hai how I vl manage aage k kaam, jo pichle se kahin zyada ho sakte hain.
So please suggest hw to manage situation now onwards
10th start hote hai pura samaj bolta raha ki left hand se mat likho exam me baithne nahi denge, i did what i can do cleared the exam with 56%,
11th ke liye sab bole itne low marks me science mat lena pagal hai jo itne kam marks me science lete hai i did that too, aur 12th me fail ho gaya
Re attempt kiya with all subjects and cleared 12th went for graduation did in chemistry jo logon ko hard lagta tha with KT in last year i joined job as well,
Job krte krte KT clear ki aur PG kiya clinical research me
Now i feel I'm well settled
The people who where stopping me they are at the same position and trying to stop everyone listen what you feel from inside.
🤣🤣 too good. By chance I got this channel. Sir , how about hubby wife relation after decades of marriage and on maamas boys husband who can't say no to mom's.
स्वाहा was too good 😂😂😂
yes
🙏🙏much needed advise for me at the right time.
Love your content sir keep up the good work 🙏
Soo true sir thanks for sharing😊
Humein to ghar se bhejna bhi hai lekin wahan nhi Jahan hum chahte hain, wiase nhi jaise hum chahte hain. Ghar se hai... Ghar basa ke. Taki hum(parents) jee saken... Jahan bolen wahan ghar basao... Tumhare bhagya mein jo hoga ho jayega.
I don't understand, ki JB parents kuchh decide karte hain to "yahi tumhare bhagya hai", " Baki jo bhagya mein hoga" ... Yani decision Lena hai but responsibility nhi.
Aur bacche.. Pehli baar unko decision lene Dena nhi chahte... Secondly, phir bhagya to raha nhi... Aur responsibility poori bacche ki. 🤷♀️
Very good & informative video.
Uncle rocks -- society shocks
Sir pls ek video banaiye on whether parents should remain dependent on kids during their 60's especially financially.
U r the best speaker on the topic of middle class. Looking fwd to more of your videos.
Superb advice
Sir You are absolutely Right Sir.
Very useful video
Let me know if you are in between the age of 25-35 and thinking you want to share this video, but you can't, because you know they will get offended...
Very much insightful
Thank you Sir!
Useful suggestion, you resolve my tention about my child future
Sir aap un log pe kyun nhi videoa bnate jinke single parent reh jate hai bacho ki shadi se pehle death ho jati and parents zada educatee and settle nhi hote ..there are so many girls i knkw including myself jo family and parents ki responsibility lene ki wajah se shadi nhi kr pate .though looks job sab hota ...i know mamy girls jo kaafi kuch kr sakti job , cooking taking care of family but boys dont marry because kisi ko responbility burden girls nhi chahiye ..in topics ko bhi cover krein kisi video mein and there is lot of youth which is unmarried due to complex family , single widowed unemployed old father mother who are dependent on children ..what about them....every one does not have stable educates parents
Great perspective sir!
Great content in videos. I have watched almost 30 of your videos in about 1 and half days. I have a request, in future if possible please cover this content about Guys/Girls marrying the person of their parent's choice even though they don't want to, they just marry so that their parents are not disappointed or unhappy with their son/daughter's marriage. And later continue in extra marital affairs even after having 2 kids with the spouse. These marriages are in constant distress and the level of emotional turmoil the spouse, children raised in such marriages go though has no words to explain. Bahu who is caught in this situation is just expected to keep patience, not to talk about it outside and wait for things to get better which never happens. Please talk about how should evey adult approach this kind of scenario and the basic transparency, commitments needed of adults getting into marriage.
I too need this video. +1
i will make a video
Very interesting video
Thank you Sir
Thank you so much❤❤❤❤😊
Great 🙏
True I am really burn out so I told my daughter that now don't expect anything from me now onward.
Sirji ,superb video h bhah di thyah di was the best part 😂
sir pls make video on parents of bigger kids. who are above 20.Some parents are very toxic who have over expectations n interfere in all matters of children n talk rashly
True
subject is interesting but I think you can make it a little deeper conversation. it's an excellent start and example
My father is like bahut kiya Maine, don't come with ur problems to me🙄.. I don't have time.. Mera dimag mat Khao. I'm like.. How can he say this?? Parenting is something which never ends till u die. Such thinking is just pathetic 😏
Gd content for both parents n kids. Suggestions -also make content on un maried divorce adult kids staying together/ controlled by parents n they telling what's gd or bad for them n if they decide on their own they r given ultimatum of all sorts emotional mental etc. This might also be a really gd topic these days
Har ek baat lagta h ki Mai bol rahi hoo,app ki muha se guruji🎉
Sir you exactly spoke the truth. This exactly happened to me.
MAG Sango Guru Ji! 🔥
Bilkul sahi bataya apne👍
Very nice
Original content!
What is life? Only struggle👍
nobody is forcing you to struggle
Good job 👍
father-in-law ka kya role hona chaiye bache palne mai?
Indian mummy 80s aur 90s k bachcho wale, sirf schools pe rely kar rhe the. Ki kuch ban jayenge toh hum unko baaki basic kaam na sikhaye.
Fir woh bachche alsi hoke ab kuch karna nhi chahte. Fir frustration develop ghar k kaamo ki safai ki
Great analysis sir as usual 👍
Nice 👍
Aapka to javab nahi sir 😮thank you sir ek dam parfait
Great 🔥
Wow great sir
Well said Sir.
ye video full share hone wala hai:)
Practical life example
Each and every word is so so so true 😵😵
Great
Wonderful
True parenting
Very good !
Superb video
Sir you are awesome
sir please add subtitles I can't understand Hindi 🙏🏽
Love you content and respect to you ❤️
Grt sir
Very nice👌
Guruji
It's always a pleasure to watch your video .
love it