Jake Banfield - Boys Don't Cry (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • "It's called boys don't cry, but just know this song is for anyone who feels this way and who goes through anxiety or deals with depression or any type of mental health. Know it's okay to cry and speak up and reach out to someone." - Jake Banfield
    "BOYS DON'T CRY" OUT ON ALL PLATFORMS! LINK BELOW
    linktr.ee/jake...
    Produced by: Jason Walker
    Written by: Jake Banfield, Jason Walker
    Video by: Garrett Keafer (@gkeafer)
    LYRICS:
    VERSE 1:
    I've been starting to lose control
    I swear I can fix anything
    Anything, but me
    I've been putting my heart thru hell
    And I don’t want to think about anything
    Anything, but me
    PRE:
    Just give me time
    I’ve been running from my mind
    Need a second for my soul
    Let it go
    And I tried
    Keepin' all of this inside
    But the cracks they start to show
    And I’ve been told
    HOOK:
    Boys don’t cry
    But damn I need a shoulder
    I’d be lying
    If I said I don’t
    Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
    If boys don’t cry
    Where are these tears supposed to go?
    Where are these tears supposed to go?
    V2:
    I’ve been trying to find that light
    But darkness just keeps finding me
    Blinding me from what’s real
    PRE:
    Just give me time
    I’ve been running from my mind
    Need a second for my soul
    Let it go
    And I tried
    Keepin' all of this inside
    But the cracks they start to show
    And I’ve been told
    HOOK:
    Boys don’t cry
    But damn I need a shoulder
    I’d be lying
    If I said I don’t
    Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
    If boy’s don’t cry
    Where are these tears supposed to go?
    Where are these tears supposed to go?
    CLOSING HOOK:
    Boys don’t cry
    But damn I need a shoulder
    I’d be lying
    If I said I don’t
    Sometimes I’m the one that needs a little holding
    If boy’s don’t cry
    Where are these tears supposed to go
    Where are these tears supposed to go

Комментарии • 1,6 тыс.

  • @MeatyDraco
    @MeatyDraco 4 месяца назад +325

    I just left my wife, shes been cheating on me for the last year with 7 dudes that i know of. These last 2 weeks are so hard because everything i had i lost. I have nothing at all anymore. I have nobody, I have nothing, ill never be nothing but yet for some damn reason im still here. Especially when everyday it would be so much easier to not be anymore. Life sucks. Getting crushed is something else.

    • @carlosalvaro2677
      @carlosalvaro2677 3 месяца назад +21

      Sorry about that man we gon' get out of this one i put that on God💯

    • @oyinladetitililpe3794
      @oyinladetitililpe3794 3 месяца назад +7

      Sorry about that brother

    • @JakobRadtke
      @JakobRadtke 3 месяца назад +7

      Damn I hope everything gets better bro

    • @MeatyDraco
      @MeatyDraco 3 месяца назад +21

      Thank you all for the support you shown me. It means a lot to know at least I'm not alone. It's hard but I still wake up and try desperately to do something I find some joy in. Life's not the same, feels like I'm learning how to walk again.

    • @meredithannhansen4094
      @meredithannhansen4094 3 месяца назад +9

      My heart. Is crying for ya. Been on otherwise. I lost everything. 25years ago. Now my baby has been taken from me. She was 29 with 3 young babies. I feel all your pain. Keep your head up. Don't let the looser win. Keep head heald high.😢😂

  • @JoshmacRacing616
    @JoshmacRacing616 11 месяцев назад +6

    Just got diagnosed with major depression disorder today this is one of the hardest battles iv had in a long time keep your heads up guys push through we got this.

  • @HaiderArabi
    @HaiderArabi 3 месяца назад +1

    Pretending to be okay is not easy 😢

  • @codykennedy19
    @codykennedy19 5 месяцев назад

    When I lost my Granddad in 2011 it was hard I had to stay strong for my mom but I’ll let you know it was hard I couldn’t cry then until the actual funeral and there are days when it’s still hard for me to let my tears out. Thanks for Sharon man. Stay safe and have a great one.

  • @letishajuarez2898
    @letishajuarez2898 11 месяцев назад

    I felt this song so much..

  • @austinmayfield7872
    @austinmayfield7872 6 месяцев назад

    Brother I’m struggling. This hits home.

  • @computerman200
    @computerman200 Год назад

    To the dirt out back and deaf ears....that where they go😢

  • @ScottReay-f2u
    @ScottReay-f2u Год назад +1

    This song helped me explain my feelings today with 1st fathers day with out the man himself and no parents struggle show emotions with adhd and stuff thanks made today easier

  • @exquisitecraft
    @exquisitecraft 5 месяцев назад

    Legendary.

  • @user-il9ek1nc1k
    @user-il9ek1nc1k Год назад

    Just great song..helps me..thankyou for ur music..ur great

  • @luismorales-ig9ig
    @luismorales-ig9ig Год назад

    The shoulder you need is the one that made you cry.

  • @rochelydiazdiaz7550
    @rochelydiazdiaz7550 Год назад

    The song made me happy

  • @AustinskiKICK
    @AustinskiKICK 9 месяцев назад

    My life seems to be peeling apart layer by layer. Hearing this song was something I needed in the worst way today..... thanks man

  • @D-R-A-C-O_K-U-N
    @D-R-A-C-O_K-U-N Год назад

    Damn brother... Appreciate you for this song🫶🏼

  • @GillGills-tu8oc
    @GillGills-tu8oc 2 месяца назад

    Where do the tears go...to ur sweat...for me I just keep working working working...someday they will be gone right??

  • @JacobTaylor-vy6ur
    @JacobTaylor-vy6ur Год назад

    Man this song couldn't have came at a better time. My names Jake as well and buddy we need to collaborate on a song.

  • @jaymeanoble3251
    @jaymeanoble3251 Год назад

    Thankyou dont need to say anything else

  • @KalebThomason
    @KalebThomason 8 месяцев назад

    I just got over a relationship that she wanted to tell me she wanted to breakup when I did everything that she loved

  • @diennguyen-otto3913
    @diennguyen-otto3913 Год назад

  • @EndTimesDisciple
    @EndTimesDisciple Год назад

    Whoever is reading this God loves you and wants you to find peace and Hope through His SON Jesus Christ. If you are broken and weary just simply ask Jesus to help you and come into your life and save you because you can't do it on your own....
    "COME TO ME ALL WHO ARE WEARY AND CARRY HEAVY BURDENS, AND I WILL GIVE YOU REST"
    -JESUS OF NAZARETH

  • @enigmaticgwichin1630
    @enigmaticgwichin1630 Год назад +1665

    I’ve buried a lot of friends and family with no tears, but holding the box with my baby boy in it hit me in a way I’d never felt before. Thanks for the song👏

    • @jesusisking3814
      @jesusisking3814 Год назад +42

      For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. Jesus Christ loves you so much that He died for your sins and rose from the dead. If you repent from evil ways, believe that Jesus has paid the fine for your sins on the cross and confess Him as your Lord, you will be saved. You see, we all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, that's why Jesus Christ, fullness of Godhead bodily, lived a perfect life, fulfilled the prophecies and law, shed His Blood at the cross just so you could be forgiven, reconciled back to the Father, receive God's love, be made a new creation, whole, sanctified. It's not about religion and what good works you can do to earn salvation, it's only by grace through faith in the finished works of Jesus Christ. Read God's Word, preferably start with Gospel of John, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you, give you wisdom and revelation that way you're born again and see your life changed by the Spirit of the Most High. Much love and God bless you!

    • @squire0984
      @squire0984 Год назад +30

      I hope you are doing well now. that is an awful experience no parent should go through.

    • @mike196425
      @mike196425 Год назад +29

      I know your pain, my grandson passed away at the age of 18 months old, it was a pain like no other. He was my first grandchild and my best friend. It's been 12 years and the pain is still so fresh. I was able to handle my Dad and older brother dying within 4 months of each other but Max was like nothing I was expecting. Something died inside me when he passed and my mind has never been the same. I now suffer PTSD because of that day, I lost my brothers in the Army but this was different. Be well and stay strong, the scars heal with this loss but the wound never really does. Blessings to you and yours

    • @enigmaticgwichin1630
      @enigmaticgwichin1630 Год назад +11

      @@mike196425 ah man I am so sorry for your loss. There is something about losing one so young, especially imagining the future they would have had. I’ll be praying for you Mike. God Bless

    • @Johnson-1881
      @Johnson-1881 Год назад +7

      Sorry for your loss

  • @danielheinlein6741
    @danielheinlein6741 Год назад +752

    Everyday I struggle to stay alive. My kids are the only reason I'm still here. But everyday it gets harder to stay strong for them. Thank you for this song. I appreciate you and anyone reading this comment. We got to stay strong!

    • @themattural9542
      @themattural9542 Год назад +16

      Im right there with you.

    • @jigztrixgaming8179
      @jigztrixgaming8179 Год назад +23

      Put your trust in our Lord an Savior JESUS. Let the HOLY SPIRIT guide you. Remember HE'S always with you. You will never be sad or broken again in JESUS name.

    • @LilMuffin18
      @LilMuffin18 Год назад +7

      I hope things are getting better for you, I pray that you stay here with your kids.

    • @josepagan8634
      @josepagan8634 Год назад +4

      I know how hard it is to feel like you are a burden on everyone around you but once you start noticing that your kids love is unconditional you’ll realize that life is love

    • @ChrisWalters-kp2vq
      @ChrisWalters-kp2vq Год назад +1

  • @Wolfsta
    @Wolfsta Год назад +880

    "We didn't realize we were making memories, we were just having fun."

    • @SizeMattersCatfishing
      @SizeMattersCatfishing Год назад +7

      That’s a tough bar. Life is short! Live happy!!

    • @ThunderBullet-lw1xl
      @ThunderBullet-lw1xl Год назад +4

      ​@@SizeMattersCatfishinglife is so short, here it's just the beginning, your real life is in the hereafter, so get ready and build for your real life

    • @pedromateo7970
      @pedromateo7970 Год назад +1

      Bxjg

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta Год назад +2

      @@SizeMattersCatfishing amen to that 🙏

    • @Wolfsta
      @Wolfsta Год назад

      @@pedromateo7970 🙏

  • @dillonmitchell9249
    @dillonmitchell9249 5 месяцев назад +6

    I very rarely cry I stay strong for my friends and what little family I have left when they are down but deep down I’m fucking broken tired and done but I don’t show my emotions I feel like I don’t have a choice to show them because I’m a guy

  • @joke5389
    @joke5389 3 месяца назад +20

    I don't know who needs to read this but whoever does, just know please know, YOU'RE NOT ALONE, AND YOU ARE WORTH SOMETHING.

  • @yekster1382
    @yekster1382 7 месяцев назад +115

    My dad passed away in August and I haven't had a shoulder to cry on. I had to remain strong for everyone around me especially my mom. I wish I wasn't alone

    • @DingleHopper-yh6dv
      @DingleHopper-yh6dv 7 месяцев назад +5

      Ur not the only one. I’ve never met my birth parents because they were abusive. Now knowing I have a half brother still there with my dad, and I can’t help, like my older sisters did with me, It tears me apart. My sisters saved me, and I can’t save him. I now live with a loving family since I was three, and now it’s been 11 years, and I only hope my little brother is okay and he will someday want to meet me. I’ve learned You can’t save everyone, but you can still learn for the better. God bless you.

    • @the_fallen_angel8463
      @the_fallen_angel8463 7 месяцев назад +2

      I fell that man

    • @NE-sb6ys
      @NE-sb6ys 7 месяцев назад +3

      You are not alone ❤

    • @yekster1382
      @yekster1382 7 месяцев назад

      @@NE-sb6ys I feel that I am

    • @juansjr
      @juansjr 7 месяцев назад +1

      I do not understand your pain. I have both my parents. What I can say is, you are not alone. See how a stranger just reaches out. Stay strong, head high. It will not be easy but you can do it. I am sure your father would tell you the same.

  • @MuddyFarmer75
    @MuddyFarmer75 Год назад +116

    As a man that almost ended it all last year thank you for this song says so much what goes on in our head

    • @dustinholmes353
      @dustinholmes353 Год назад +6

      Glad you’re still here brother ❤️

    • @ErinGambucci-u5i
      @ErinGambucci-u5i Год назад +4

      Happy you’re here with us still ❤

    • @maldetete431
      @maldetete431 6 месяцев назад +1

      Been where you were. I'm glad you're still here, brother.

    • @kiddomoods
      @kiddomoods 6 месяцев назад

      ... and your hearts. ❤

    • @jenniferrisolvato6863
      @jenniferrisolvato6863 5 месяцев назад

      @muddyfarmer
      Hallelujah I’m so glad you’re still here. You’re meant for a greater purpose. We all are we’re all beautiful.

  • @exoghost2382
    @exoghost2382 9 месяцев назад +14

    I’ve got a baby on the way with a girlfriend who doubts herself. i’ve been working non stop to take care of her and everything that i can do, i sleep less and less every night. i’m supposed to be celebrating my 21st in a few weeks and i can’t find anything to celebrate, my father doesn’t talk to me and i haven’t seen my brothers in months. I keep fighting for her and my child. it’s all i have.

    • @chaddonley9391
      @chaddonley9391 2 месяца назад

      Keep doing your best man, it's all you can do. I applaud you for being a man as young as you still are and being there for her and your child. It's tough, I know. Just remember to take a deep breath yourself, gaze at the stars, look at the sky, or take a walk and clear your mind. It'll help you feel a little peace inside and may clear your mind a bit. I know the feeling of feeling alone like you got no one else. Hell I went through depression so I can see both sides. Man there are strangers willing to talk to you and be there for you even if your dad or family or even friends are not! Keep pushing forward man, you can do it!

  • @emilytrevino4023
    @emilytrevino4023 7 месяцев назад +16

    Just know that as a woman I’m praying for healing for all you men in the comments. It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to feel. You are allowed to cry.
    I’m so sorry that yall had to go through so many things alone.

    • @sietze345
      @sietze345 7 месяцев назад

      Thank you.

  • @bl1506
    @bl1506 9 месяцев назад +179

    To everyone reading here, I pray that God restore everything you lost and the pain you went through this year. Dont give up or lose hope. The devil is a liar. 2024 is your comeback season. May you be blessed and divinely protected ❤

    • @Farm_Boy77
      @Farm_Boy77 8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you

    • @jessehatfield1184
      @jessehatfield1184 7 месяцев назад

      Yes!! Praise God for his beautiful creation. He is all around us. I was blind all of my life before God.

    • @subratachowdhury1285
      @subratachowdhury1285 7 месяцев назад

      Thanks 👍

    • @ElenaBanman
      @ElenaBanman 7 месяцев назад

      This is just what I needed... I've been going through alot this past year... Thankyou so much

    • @justinfreeman6023
      @justinfreeman6023 7 месяцев назад

      Thank you! Thank you, really…

  • @HoldOntoYourButts
    @HoldOntoYourButts 8 месяцев назад +315

    I have no one to reach out to. My mom died, my dad's a drunk and I don't speak to my brothers, we have no bond and weren't raised together. I have no life partner. I can't make friends. Never had kids. Cheers to anyone else struggling, we'll make it.

    • @JeremyHanger-eb8et
      @JeremyHanger-eb8et 6 месяцев назад +22

      Amen keep your head up Isiah 41:10- we can do all things through Christ that gives us strength.

    • @FaeBorthwick
      @FaeBorthwick 6 месяцев назад +17

      My mom died in June. My dad has a new family and I won’t burden my sisters with anything. I’m here if you want to talk

    • @billichildress5231
      @billichildress5231 6 месяцев назад +18

      If you’d like someone to talk to you can talk to me stranger or not sometimes a listening ear helps no matter who it’s attached to

    • @gavenshewmaker3877
      @gavenshewmaker3877 6 месяцев назад +17

      I’ll be your brother💪

    • @jonathanridener9673
      @jonathanridener9673 6 месяцев назад +9

      Your never alone bro. Idk you but your important and worth while. Your loved

  • @haviedyofficial6170
    @haviedyofficial6170 9 месяцев назад +34

    "I can fix anything but me" sums up my emotions right now

    • @SantiMorales-od1np
      @SantiMorales-od1np 3 месяца назад

      Been there I do Hospice watch patients die and then family turns to greed but they see were never there for there loved one😢 you stay strong and believe in your self your a champion in my world.😅

    • @haviedyofficial6170
      @haviedyofficial6170 3 месяца назад

      @@SantiMorales-od1np really appreciate.. thanks.. situation has improved but still lost in my emotions

  • @jtop9115
    @jtop9115 8 месяцев назад +92

    Real men cry when needed.

    • @OriOri-dn3iu
      @OriOri-dn3iu 8 месяцев назад +2

      Amen.

    • @danaebernard5441
      @danaebernard5441 7 месяцев назад +7

      People have emotions and feelings. Crying is okay. Crying doesn't make you weak or seem less of a man. Crying shows vulnerability, that you can be trusted, and that you can show empathy and that you care. The most human thing about us all.

    • @edwardhyde2806
      @edwardhyde2806 6 месяцев назад +2

      Some men realize this way to late

    • @alejandrorangel4659
      @alejandrorangel4659 3 месяца назад +1

      I don’t really share my feelings because I don’t wanna show that I’m weak but I’ve seen men tell people in social media that it’s ok to let it out and to talk about it so I sometimes drink my depression away at night and cry my eyes out l, and trying to not cross that line where it leads me to end it all.

  • @nicolyksholm7629
    @nicolyksholm7629 Год назад +94

    Thank you! im suffering from PTSD, Panic Attacks, Anxiety, but never shared my feelings with anyone. But after this song, i feel free. Youre saving life's. Keep on going with this music

    • @frankkkkk
      @frankkkkk Год назад +3

      You are not alone

    • @frankkkkk
      @frankkkkk Год назад +3

      You are not alone

    • @georgemaltchev5583
      @georgemaltchev5583 10 месяцев назад +1

      Praying for you

    • @nicolyksholm7629
      @nicolyksholm7629 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@georgemaltchev5583 thank you man, it means a lot. Sadly it's just getting worse day by day. But Im not giving up.

    • @reddog19d
      @reddog19d 8 месяцев назад +1

      you got this bro, we are all standing beside you.

  • @MarilynMejorado-ee8qh
    @MarilynMejorado-ee8qh 6 месяцев назад +22

    Baby you have to heal your soul. Don't keep it inside! I raised two boys that I didn't have. I gave them a Mom and plenty of love. It is ok not to be ok. It's ok to cry!! 😭 I love you son 🤗

  • @That1Potato06
    @That1Potato06 9 месяцев назад +6

    It’s a scary thing. To see a man cry. Because you go your whole life thinking the men in your life are the strongest people in the world. So when you see them break down, a sudden realization hits you. And you realize this world is a lot scarier than you thought. Watching my daddy cry the day he buried his grandfather hit me really hard. Ask for help y’all. You got this.

  • @SusyRubio-wt6hq
    @SusyRubio-wt6hq 4 месяца назад +3

    I'm going through anxiety and depression because my husband verbally and emotionally abuse me. He left me because I could not have any babies nor he had any money for me. How sad how he abandoned me.😢

  • @LLLigon72
    @LLLigon72 Год назад +65

    Every once in a while, tears break the tipping point.😢 they are the antifreeze for the soul. ❤

    • @jesusisking3814
      @jesusisking3814 Год назад +3

      For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. Jesus Christ loves you so much that He died for your sins and rose from the dead. If you repent from evil ways, believe that Jesus has paid the fine for your sins on the cross and confess Him as your Lord, you will be saved. You see, we all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God, that's why Jesus Christ, fullness of Godhead bodily, lived a perfect life, fulfilled the prophecies and law, shed His Blood at the cross just so you could be forgiven, reconciled back to the Father, receive God's love, be made a new creation, whole, sanctified. It's not about religion and what good works you can do to earn salvation, it's only by grace through faith in the finished works of Jesus Christ. Read God's Word, preferably start with Gospel of John, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you, give you wisdom and revelation that way you're born again and see your life changed by the Spirit of the Most High. Much love and God bless you!

    • @diabloalford5945
      @diabloalford5945 11 месяцев назад +1

      The more you hold in the more the breakdowns will be at random times with out you expect it

  • @adamjeske133
    @adamjeske133 11 месяцев назад +78

    This song hits me hard even listening to it for the first time.
    Being a volunteer firefighter of 18 years and a 911 dispatcher of the last 6 years plus my family's military background - these industries condition us to "let it go and move on to the next" so that's what we do.
    Then recently when it is encouraged to talk things out, people don't realize how much we have held in for so long.
    I personally suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD and have just buried it rather than talking about what bothers me. It is a struggle every day to just wake up and get ready for the day... but I do it because nobody else will do it for me. Men and women alike, you are not alone and it is okay to not be okay. If you ever feel any type of way, do not be afraid to reach out. If you bury it for too long, eventually it's going to destroy you from the inside out to the point everything you have buried will cause those who care to bury you.
    Let go of the pride, the stigma is over. #youhaveavoice #youmatter #youarenotalone

    • @bobthebuilder8402
      @bobthebuilder8402 10 месяцев назад +1

      This speaks volumes 15 years combined. Raised 4 siblings same time

    • @MsV-g9t
      @MsV-g9t 9 месяцев назад

      You ❤❤❤❤😊😊

    • @jamesoakley8125
      @jamesoakley8125 9 месяцев назад

      Best comment and song both hits very hard❤ still fighting and moving 😢

    • @Anarchy-bowfishing
      @Anarchy-bowfishing 9 месяцев назад +1

      Brother 15 fire fighter wild land and structure lost my grandfather uncle with in a year on my shift I was on the first truck there . In all the years I was ask if I was ok if I need to talk never did figure I had it 6 months later I lost my dad in my arms while taken care of him .had cancer bet it lost him to a lung infection . Never got over it blame my self every day I did something wrong it's my fault . PTSD from that and the lives I couldn't save .bout cost me the love of my life .we both put are life on the line and grew up that it a sign of weakness. God bless you stay safe keep the faith I'm trying to fix myself and I'm seeing it's a long road .

    • @Anarchy-bowfishing
      @Anarchy-bowfishing 9 месяцев назад

      Said it all brother same place

  • @Cole347
    @Cole347 7 месяцев назад +8

    Jesus will help❤️🙏

  • @aprilnoel4826
    @aprilnoel4826 Год назад +231

    "Where are these tears supposed to go? " That just sent tears down my cheeks .This is the most beautiful song I've heard in a very long time 💖😢..Hold those boys(Every Loved One) tight love them with all you have be that shoulder

    • @JakeBanfieldMusic
      @JakeBanfieldMusic  Год назад +23

      Thank you🫶🏻

    • @liamjanson
      @liamjanson Год назад +4

      We all struggle jo man or woman child son daughter mother or father we all in this boat together the true meaning of live is to be part of someone else's life too

    • @christamoore7221
      @christamoore7221 Год назад +4

      WOW!! That's all I know too say rn for I'm speechless, frfr.
      Man it's been awhile since I've felt not only a song, but a song & EVERY SINGLE WORD IN IT, FRFR.
      I just wanna say "Thank You" for the 3:28 reminder that I'm not in this world fighting alone. Theirs so many out here in this cold world just like me. Sadly & unfortunately their so many that has it worse then I.
      To the ppl in this world, just know I am one of millions that do pray for us. I have this saying that I tell myself everyday...
      "Hold ur head up the ground is way too dirty, the sky is a much prettier view".
      If u think it may help u, ur more than welcome too it.
      May God Bless!💗

    • @desireejames6498
      @desireejames6498 Год назад +2

      224😢

    • @ruvenianwaldeck-ym4rq
      @ruvenianwaldeck-ym4rq Год назад +2

      ❤😢 I felt that.feels like a direct message,thank you stay blessed..this song hits very deep

  • @johnathonconnolly8908
    @johnathonconnolly8908 Год назад +25

    I'm 22 years old and just found this song and its hitting the feeling hard in life right now I feel lost and unknown of what to do

    • @faith777forever8
      @faith777forever8 Год назад +1

      STCK UR MONEY DONT WASTE IT LMAO SEEK GOD

    • @ThunderBullet-lw1xl
      @ThunderBullet-lw1xl Год назад

      ​@@faith777forever8most influenced short advice, but seek for the real real God, search for him in everywhere..

    • @RobDesilva
      @RobDesilva 8 месяцев назад

      When you feel alone and lonely call a friend to talk to
      Hope you feel better now😢

  • @mariahadams-dg7yh
    @mariahadams-dg7yh 4 месяца назад +7

    I listen to this everyday because all I feel is like I am just a person who no one wants around and this song is everything that I need in life so thanks

  • @Bailey.783
    @Bailey.783 4 месяца назад +2

    He says its ok to ask for help but what if i dont have any one

  • @coachdee5162
    @coachdee5162 7 месяцев назад +7

    Never cried in my life til my mother died at the funeral people were amazed to see that side of me i always had that strong attitude never smiling always alone nobody to call so i accepted the fact im either a loner a loser or just not happy with myself i think about my mother everyday and what hurts the most she never seen me succeed but she always stood by me right or wrong she was my best friend god bless her and everyone who got them dark days theres someone out there that cares about you live life best you can and never compare yourself to anyone .. god bless you all

  • @darrenlee19
    @darrenlee19 4 месяца назад +6

    how are you? " I'm okay, I'm fine, I'm good " will always be the answers people hear... almost like we're trained to be this way... we do it for the people around us, wife/partner/better half/children/family... took me 31 years of living... lost my dad in september and kept trying to be the guy who doesn't hurt... broke down and cried on my wifes shoulder... felt like each tear took 20 lbs off my shoulders... its okay to cry men, you'll be better/stronger for doing so... we're not alone!

  • @shanespetnagel5501
    @shanespetnagel5501 Год назад +5

    July 3rd 2005, my battle SSG Brown was killed in combat while we were stationed outside Tal-Afar running ops in the Sinjar region of Iraq. Every 3rd of July is a battle for me and many others who were close to Jeremy Brown. A few years ago in Dec of 2019, my other battle SGT Papst committed suicide. He battled seizure’s induced from combat trauma. These Holidays are becoming more and more difficult to enjoy with family when your brothers who took an oath for this country and their word that they will always have your back are becoming just a memory. Needless to say, I really needed to hear this today, as the 3rd of July has just passed and my demeanor has just been shit. Thank you. I love it.

  • @ryantully3717
    @ryantully3717 Год назад +11

    9months into my moms diagnosis of 4 types of stage 4 cancer... my dad told me I have to be the anchor and I cant show emotion as she fades. I want to break that mold while staying strong and i can't. I stumbled upon this late at night tonight, drunk on my bday eve, thank you so much for letting me cry with you..... I needed this

    • @laughandlive377
      @laughandlive377 Год назад

      Screw your dad. Why shouldn't you cry? The world isn't going to end when you cry and you'll feel better. Your mom will feel better. Knowing she is so loved and having a cry herself bc that is awful. And awful situation for everyone that not crying won't change it. Tell your dad that just bc he only cries in his head or when he's alone, doesn't mean he is any better than you. And please cry. You, your mother him. Let it all out. Crying is like magical. Makes you feel like all those suffocating emotions aren't as suffocating anymore.

    • @shanepaul4377
      @shanepaul4377 Год назад +1

      May God bless you and your family, I pray God puts his hand on you and hold you always. I try to be strong and never cry when my mom died, driving home on a random day at night out of the blue 5 years later and it just hit me, I cry my eyes out while driving, it's ok to cry, it's your way of dealing with the pain and hurt you going through. I hope things get better for you

    • @johnBorres-ym6os
      @johnBorres-ym6os Год назад

      keep you head up pal

  • @zacherymay4673
    @zacherymay4673 6 месяцев назад +8

    My little brother passed away 8 months ago, he was my shoulder. I don’t know where to direct my pain and anger and I have to be here for my sons. Boys don’t cry was beat into me as a kid and now I just let it eat me alive.

    • @Daniel-w9s8k
      @Daniel-w9s8k 5 месяцев назад

      I feel ya on the drilled into us.

  • @breekeenan6875
    @breekeenan6875 11 месяцев назад +11

    I lost my daughter 3 years ago, she would have been 15 on the 28th of October. I still can't cry in front of anyone. I have so much anger and pain built up and I can't let it out no matter how hard I try. 😢😢

    • @your_everyday_stupid
      @your_everyday_stupid 9 месяцев назад

      im so sorry you you lost her but you can still talk to her im sure shes listening

  • @wxyzfn95
    @wxyzfn95 6 месяцев назад +13

    My life hit a block the moment my grandpa passed away, thank you for this song, if really helped.

    • @asher-q6s
      @asher-q6s 5 месяцев назад

      sam😥😥

  • @ericfieber
    @ericfieber 3 месяца назад +3

    Love this because we are all going thru something and a song can summerize all your feelings. Thank you!

  • @terriwilliamson496
    @terriwilliamson496 6 месяцев назад +8

    Even Jesus wept. Be strong in the Lord and the power of His might.

  • @revee1000
    @revee1000 7 месяцев назад +4

    I'm a 40 year old have been crying for 3 months since my mother passed and my wife left me. At the same time

  • @brennanboulay
    @brennanboulay 4 месяца назад +2

    2 ALL U BEAUTIFUL MEN, DON'T LET EMOTIONAL PAIN SET IN UR FLESH... ONLY 2 CAUSE DIS-EASE N DISTANCES 2 UR SOUL, BLOCKING UR HEART- SPACE WILL MAKE U COLD INSIDE.... woman's point a view, a man that shows tears/cries when he is dishearten, shows compassionate n balance of his emotions, no fake sh-t... makes him a good lover....🤭🤫😊+

  • @DanwrigCooldude
    @DanwrigCooldude 6 месяцев назад +6

    this song deserves more million views. where them boys at???

  • @CrustyCrip
    @CrustyCrip 29 дней назад +2

    If you have deep emotional scars, crying is a good way to release them. If your brain is stubbornly wired into "no cry" mode, psychedelics like psilocybin can help re-wire you so your emotions are uncovered and functional .

  • @austinogle6667
    @austinogle6667 5 месяцев назад +5

    To the men out there who act strong in public but cry behind closed doors. Don’t give up you have a meaning stay strong we’re with you ❤️🙏🏻

  • @Dusk9495
    @Dusk9495 10 месяцев назад +2

    Boy's don't cry
    Real men do
    It takes a man to not be afraid to show your true emotions, and let it out

  • @rasaeglinaite3810
    @rasaeglinaite3810 9 месяцев назад +11

    Boys are humans, everyone should learn to cry and change social norms/ mindset! Encouraging song ❤

    • @vaughnhowells8318
      @vaughnhowells8318 9 месяцев назад

      AMEN... song hits me harder than nothing else.

  • @stevegarmier563
    @stevegarmier563 6 месяцев назад +3

    i am stressed because i might be getting held back by 7th grade and this song is helping me so much

    • @zodiontrials1002
      @zodiontrials1002 5 месяцев назад +1

      It's gonna be ok lil one. Take this as a learning experience ❤. Just know that you are loved and blessed. God loves you more then you know. 🤗🤗🤗

    • @jacksoncooper5425
      @jacksoncooper5425 5 месяцев назад +1

      Man I just want to let you know you're not alone. I was held back in the 6th grade due to a speech impediment problem. It was very hard at times but it's what God had planned for me. Don't ever let anyone tell you that you're a failure because they just don't understand. I'm a senior now about to go to college for free. I have my dream job making good money. Just keep fighting everyday you can get through it. Trust in God and what he is planning for you.

    • @amandaaalxandriiaa7145
      @amandaaalxandriiaa7145 5 месяцев назад +1

      Baby, its okay, I know its scary but I promise u and I take my promises very serious , its all going to be okay even tho some days feel like u can't get ahead. I promise u , u are worth it and never allow a grade or grades to define u . You are so much more than the grade ur in. As a momma I know ur pain my son's been there. I'm only 1 message away hun.❤

    • @memeagain4966
      @memeagain4966 5 месяцев назад

      We all feel that way. Work,life,school. You are not alone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @DizzymonkeyYT
    @DizzymonkeyYT Год назад +20

    Man it is sooo very awesome how you write from your heart and that voice!!!! Keep on brother!!!

    • @JakeBanfieldMusic
      @JakeBanfieldMusic  Год назад +3

      Thank you! 🤘🏼

    • @THELASTCHAPEL
      @THELASTCHAPEL 10 месяцев назад

      I don't know why I found this song but thank you for putting this out there.

  • @OriOri-dn3iu
    @OriOri-dn3iu 8 месяцев назад +9

    I think your vulnerability is incredible. I think youve helped millions of people across the world struggling / suffering with these same exact problems. My soul thanks yours. And i pray that you should feel better.

  • @simonwilliams1943
    @simonwilliams1943 Год назад +17

    Wow, just heard this and what a beautiful heartfelt but real world song. I can relate a lot to the lyrics being a sufferer of depression and also as a man/father/spouse I know how hard it's is to show your true feelings when things get too much, but this hit home and brought a tear to my eye but now I can't stop playing it, im obsessed such an amazing voice and a beautiful song.

  • @Emilianna168
    @Emilianna168 Год назад +16

    Aww this song hits a deep place because ever since my bf and I lost our first dog this gets us really emotional! This is a absolute beautiful song thank you!! 😊❤❤

  • @statjim
    @statjim Год назад +5

    I fight my mind everyday starting to get tired of self medicating. I’m talking to a mental health counselor later today. Time to get back on my bipolar meds. Going through a lot of personal things right now and starting to scare myself. This song is great. Seems music helps some. Thank you

    • @areanancy7806
      @areanancy7806 Год назад

      Oh! It's gonna be great. Just hold tight. It's never easy though

  • @jmanderson1984
    @jmanderson1984 Год назад +28

    Boys don’t cry, but some of the strongest men I know sure do. And there ain’t a thing wrong with that 💜

    • @dylanpearce9618
      @dylanpearce9618 Год назад +1

      💯🙏

    • @killersnake1175
      @killersnake1175 Год назад +2

      Nun wrong with thatt men can cry and be strong. Men can get hit and walk away and considered strong. Don’t matter if they show emotions or walk away from the fight. Just proves they mature and strong when needed

  • @aleeee.
    @aleeee. Год назад +15

    Jake thank you so much for making music.✨
    Ever since I heard your beautiful song Drowning In Your Love, I fell in love with your beautiful voice. Remember that you are very appreciated, and that we love your music. We will always be supporting you. 💐❤️

  • @mattsteele4054
    @mattsteele4054 11 месяцев назад +2

    True I can fix anything just give me time but it seems like I can never fix myself

  • @coversongs254
    @coversongs254 Год назад +5

    No song has ever described what I'm going through like this song... I feel like I'm on my last run but no one to reach out to or talk to.
    If this is my last , anyone reading this please follow up on your friends

    • @laughandlive377
      @laughandlive377 Год назад

      You don't have friends? Why don't you tell them what's making you sad and ask for hugs?

  • @SavannaScott-v8z
    @SavannaScott-v8z 2 месяца назад +2

    I’m not a boy but I lost my mom 4 years ago and feel like I have to be strong for my family mostly my brother and pawpaw.

  • @elainemarquez9344
    @elainemarquez9344 Год назад +6

    Damn does this hit hard on me .. depression and anxiety issues sucks… thnx dude 😢❤😢❤😢❤😢❤

  • @Sketch_king125
    @Sketch_king125 3 месяца назад +2

    I consider myself lucky when it comes to people, but I still feel a hole in my soul and I can’t find the missing piece I’ll cry till I do. That’s how my mind sees it.

  • @benjaminwilmot249
    @benjaminwilmot249 11 месяцев назад +4

    Why is this making me tear up, I don't cry or get emotional, right now with my oldest nephew having stage for tissue cancer my emotions have been hitting hard

  • @AnicaWilliams-zw3hb
    @AnicaWilliams-zw3hb 4 дня назад +1

    Love this song I left my 7 years abusive relationship pregnant with my 2 year old daughter noway to go no help were just on our own so proud of myself but it hurts it's so hard I'm writing this shaking I'm just trying to be strong for my kids why life has to be this hard I'm so depressed right now and it's getting deeper and deeper holding on to a straw right now God bless my kids bless my heart bless my mind I'm so weak right now....😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @kysoncard7789
    @kysoncard7789 Год назад +3

    Will leave the comment here so any I got a like I remember to listen to it❤️😭😭😭stay strong king✊🏿👑✊🏻

  • @Garst2
    @Garst2 Год назад +8

    From Zimbabwe and I really enjoyed this song from day one it came out, you should put out more of them projects bro🔥🔥🔥

  • @glentaylor3013
    @glentaylor3013 Год назад +81

    As a veteran this hits home. Thanks for this song

    • @The-Night-Hauler
      @The-Night-Hauler Год назад +4

      Thank u for ur service ❤🇺🇸

    • @killersnake1175
      @killersnake1175 Год назад +4

      I feel u on this. I’m a veteran too

    • @littlenick616
      @littlenick616 Год назад +4

      thank you.

    • @brettaither1768
      @brettaither1768 Год назад +2

      Same Brother!!

    • @ErinGambucci-u5i
      @ErinGambucci-u5i Год назад +2

      My husband is a vet and although I will never fully understand what’s he’s been thru this song helps me. I’ll always be his shoulder to cry on. Thank you for your service, friend. I appreciate you and happy you are here.

  • @lost4gott3n
    @lost4gott3n 11 месяцев назад +8

    those that see this, I know ya dont know me, but that does not mean you cant drop a PRAYER for me. I been facing the biggest battle ever in my life since Aug 22 2023, my personal Egypt. While the storm is smashing me from all sides I stand still, looking, listening, watching, waiting and any and all PRAYERS are wanted and needed. I cant put into words how defeated i feel how inferior i feel. I have never been tested like this in my life. For Yall: All Mighty GOD, i PRAY for all here now as well who need you GOD, you know the needs as they wander thru their Egypt, looking for the Promise Land, We all have our own Egypt and the only way thru is YOU. i PRAY YOU provide peace, strength, understanding and comfort for those in need. To you GOD, be all the Praise, Honor and Glory, CHRIST NAME AMEN, GOD BLESS all Even If, My hope is YOU alone #keepsteppingandstaystrong GOD has us all - Men cry cause i have everyday since Aug 22, no shame.. GOD give me peace

    • @RobertRuminski-jl8tv
      @RobertRuminski-jl8tv 8 месяцев назад +2

      praying for you brother, in Jesus name i pray, amen.

    • @lost4gott3n
      @lost4gott3n 8 месяцев назад

      @@RobertRuminski-jl8tv thanks so much, Cant say thanks enough

  • @Therealkarathabunny
    @Therealkarathabunny 7 месяцев назад +8

    "I keep trying to find that light but darkness keep darkness just keeps blinding me from what's right" thats great stuff. Thank you Praise Jesus Hallelujah 🙏❤

  • @Penguin_Khan
    @Penguin_Khan Год назад +15

    As a veteran this song hit me hard

  • @AnnaNielsen-xx8ub
    @AnnaNielsen-xx8ub Год назад +8

    MEN Cry ❤ Song left me speechless for a minute. 😢 The darkest nights shine the brightest ✨stars...this song is one of those ✨ and your music will be a blessing far beyond what your sadness will tell you. All my love, GREAT song!!!

  • @mattniday278
    @mattniday278 10 месяцев назад +6

    I've never cried so hard until i had to carry my grandpa and uncle just 4 months apart thanks for the song it really hits a spot i built up to keep the tears from coming

  • @Wuzzzzup87
    @Wuzzzzup87 Год назад +11

    This song found me when i needed it the most.

  • @thomasedwards6731
    @thomasedwards6731 10 месяцев назад +8

    Man just found you and instantly a fan. Been listening all morning… I’ve struggled with anxiety and mild depression since august of 2020 and I got tired of no one understanding or caring so I just hold it in… I use the gym, lifting, working long hours, and house projects to keep my mind off it. Some days I wonder if I even belong here. Thanks for reminding me I do. Much love brother.

    • @MrBluey101
      @MrBluey101 10 месяцев назад

      I am in the same boat its the best therapy I have alot going on in my life and no one wants to sit down and talk about it so I use work and gym to help me I here if u need to talk

  • @tjboylan20
    @tjboylan20 Месяц назад +1

    I have been to 6 funerals in my life, 4 men, 2 women the 2 women died of old age, two men, commit suicide as a teenager, the other two Commit suicide in their 40’s through alcohol poisoning, Freddy Brian Derrick Corbin we all miss you. I almost joined you

  • @martyn7344
    @martyn7344 Год назад +9

    Found this song at just the right time ❤ being unable to cry, can drive you crazy but some music helps to get a little release, and this song does just thank you

  • @Rock79529
    @Rock79529 2 месяца назад +1

    Often times as men we are only loved on a conditional basis. The only love that is unconditional is for woman, children and dogs. Men these days dont want to get married anymore because the cons outweight the pros. Woman are now complaining about how their lives were in the 40s and 50s. Im not saying everything was right, but in 2024 woman have more rights then men do. Also before a woman comments on this and says," you make more." Look at statistics and tell me how many woman work blue collar jobs, thanks!

  • @allanmacek4413
    @allanmacek4413 Год назад +14

    Sing brother with your heart & soul! Great song ! ❤️🔥❤️

  • @malachistewart4810
    @malachistewart4810 6 месяцев назад +2

    I went to high school with him he’s a great guy really nice and respectful with many talents

  • @EloiseTardif
    @EloiseTardif Год назад +10

    This song is one of the most beautiful and meaningful I’ve heard. The message and the lyrics make me tear up every time… thank you for this underrated masterpiece 🫶

  • @triciaduke4893
    @triciaduke4893 6 месяцев назад +15

    Let’s start a prayer chain and pray our men return To God and provide and protect women and become to lead of the household and lean on Christ and that women return to women who are able to be cared for and in the home to care for the kids… that the devil drops breaking family and leaving isn’t normal anymore normalize STAYING AND LETTING NO MAN TEAR APART WHAT GOD YOKES TOGETHER AND LET MARRIAGE BE NORMAL AGAIN!!! The forefront of goals in Christian life!!!

    • @thehudsonfamilyhomestead9551
      @thehudsonfamilyhomestead9551 4 месяца назад

      Amen sweetie!❤could not have said it better myself!❤Im definitely with you on praying this one and daily!!!❤❤❤blessings to you!❤keep being bold like you are in speaking the truth of our Lord and may He use you and your voice mightily in these last days!❤#Revival2024❤

  • @MakerSpaceDK
    @MakerSpaceDK 8 месяцев назад +1

    LYRICS 👇👇👇
    I've been starting to lose control
    I swear I can fix anything
    Anything but me
    I've been putting my heart through hell
    And I don't wanna think about anything
    Anything but me
    Just give me time
    I've been running from my mind
    Need a second for my soul
    Let it go
    And I tried keeping all of this inside
    But the cracks they start to show
    And I've been told
    Boys don't cry, but damn, I need a shoulder
    I'd be lying if I said I don't
    Sometimes I'm the one that needs a little holding
    If boys don't cry, where these tears supposed to go?
    Where these tears supposed to go?
    I've been tryna find that light
    But darkness just keeps finding me
    Blinding me from what's real
    Just give me time
    I've been running from my mind
    Need a second for my soul
    Let it go
    And I tried keeping all of this inside
    But the cracks they start to show
    And I've been told
    Boys don't cry, but damn, I need a shoulder
    I'd be lying if I said I don't
    Sometimes I'm the one that needs a little holding
    If boys don't cry, where these tears supposed to go?
    Where these tears supposed to go?
    Oh-oh, where these tears supposed to go?
    Boys don't cry, but damn, I need a shoulder
    I'd be lying if I said I don't
    Sometimes I'm the one that needs a little holding
    If boys don't cry, where these tears supposed to go?

  • @beverlythrasher1003
    @beverlythrasher1003 8 месяцев назад +6

    I always told my son that it’s okay to cry. It makes you a better man. Beautiful song and very touching. ❤️🙏

  • @Josh-gq5ls
    @Josh-gq5ls 6 месяцев назад +1

    I have been Struggling with Addiction 5 years of trying to get clean now I have fuck up my body up and I have lost everything 😢😢😢😢😢

  • @Im2stoned4ya
    @Im2stoned4ya Год назад +5

    i been playing this every day since it dropped went to my mums grave stone an played it an cried thanks so much for such a heart felt song that a lot of people need

  • @Bongsokha23
    @Bongsokha23 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you brother I needed to hear this because I have been domestic abuse from 9 - 21 years old back in 2012 to 2022 but I made it out by me using my last and final paycheck so I am okay now because your music is helping me out so much plus your music has give me hope and I really needed to hear this thank you so much , please continue this talent 🥺🙌🤝😇❤️

  • @ryuhatta7008
    @ryuhatta7008 Год назад +8

    "sometimes, I'm the one need holdin'" those lyrics/words, shouts what I've been feeling lately. Thank you for the song. I may not be able to cry, but this song already screamed for me. Thank you.

  • @RustyMcGowan
    @RustyMcGowan 6 месяцев назад +1

    Currently depressed ASF and hating myself right now. Am I even worth shit in this world? I'll never know

  • @unrequitedmastermind
    @unrequitedmastermind Год назад +6

    Keep your head up gentlemen. We got this. 💪