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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
  • Granger Smith Podcast Episode 182: I think guys and girls can not be best friends. And I'll explain why on this podcast episode.
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Комментарии • 68

  • @beckiepatrick6900
    @beckiepatrick6900 Год назад +10

    Granger I’m here every Monday rain or shine. I listen closely and have to say you are correct a heck of a lot more often than 65% lol 😂. People may not be able to handle the tough love, therefore calling you wrong, but just because they disagree doesn’t make you wrong! I appreciate you. Tough love and excited advice and all. Thanks for another great Monday!! Cheers from Washington State.

  • @Asgro
    @Asgro Год назад +6

    So powerful.. had no idea you put out content like this..
    So refreshing to find!
    born again, married 11 years, 30 yr old Dad of 3!
    The goodness of God!

  • @teribroschayt1690
    @teribroschayt1690 8 месяцев назад +2

    Ive done this! Been friends for over 30 years,but he did at one time say he kinda have feelings,I Didn’t,but because he didn’t want to lose me as a friend and that’s were it is till today

  • @doncox2146
    @doncox2146 Год назад +6

    ABSOLUTELY! my. Wife of 24 years and I have an understanding. She has no male friends and I have no female friends. Mind you, friends are friends. Say hi in passing or whatever. We have friends on FB, BUT we do not hang out socially with the opposite sex. No lunch dates. If we go out socially without each other It is me with Guys.
    Or her with girls. Less complicated no questions or worries

    • @sp1sea
      @sp1sea 11 месяцев назад

      Unless your friend female is lesbian

  • @Linda-zo3vs
    @Linda-zo3vs Год назад +2

    Granger, I’m a 71 y/o grandma. The last e-mail that you got about the young lady upset that this boy joined the military and didn’t tell her about his decision before doing it. Sounds like they weren’t an item, so I feel like he shouldn’t have had to. They were serious, or he wasn’t. My husband joined the navy and told me afterwards, now that was worth being upset about. She needs to get over it!

  • @wendylynn7117
    @wendylynn7117 Год назад +2

    Great podcast Happy Easter lovely Granger much love an God bless always from Cyprus x

  • @alexpaulson2024
    @alexpaulson2024 Год назад +2

    Love the podcast Granger, keep it up man I been enjoying all your podcasts so far.

  • @mjgbabydragonlet
    @mjgbabydragonlet Год назад +4

    I love your humor! Good Podcast Granger.

  • @desireefournier9083
    @desireefournier9083 Год назад +1

    It doesn't even matter the age. I fully agree with you Granger about men and women being any kind of "best" friends with each other without at some point, yes, one or the other or even both thinking that "what if" about the other. Just no. I know how that goes and especially when one or both are in a separate relationship with someone else, that is just dangerous for the existing relationship and asking for trouble. It may not be right away but when one is vulnerable to the what if thought, it will eventually become a problem.

  • @lyndakempland4559
    @lyndakempland4559 Год назад +4

    I've had more male friends than female. I've been a major tomboy forever. I been a mechanic who built my own engine. I put a 351 in my 63 Fairlane. I've fixed automatic transmissions, which most guys don't know how to do.

  • @travisnarchery
    @travisnarchery Год назад

    Been saying this for years about girls and guys being friends. Thank you for solidifying sir

  • @joshuaburkey5841
    @joshuaburkey5841 Год назад +2

    Couldn’t agree more Granger. Unless a guy is gay there’s just no way

  • @debragilmore1314
    @debragilmore1314 Год назад +1

    ❤ I love it that you are passionate about helping people. I have a tendency to get loud when giving people advice too 😬😅

  • @endoghost4396
    @endoghost4396 Год назад

    Not religious but recently found this podcast and really interested and i think its helping with a few things so keep up the good work👍 (love your music too btw)

  • @karrieburnside4294
    @karrieburnside4294 Год назад +1

    I love and appreciate your passion!!! Keep on bein’ YOU 💕💕💕 YEE YEE

  • @michelleowens2282
    @michelleowens2282 Год назад +2

    Great Podcast ❤

  • @debrathomas3925
    @debrathomas3925 Год назад

    To Casey- I was you when I was 25, being part of church, it is hard to be single, especially as others your age are getting married. I obsessed over it for many years. Totally had FOMO…but the Lord showed me that I had to be okay with being single. As I grew my relationship with Him, I became ok being a great Aunt and being single. Sometimes being single allows you to serve Him wholly. But, I finally met a Christian man got married for my first time at age 44. We’ve been married for 20 years now. Getting married so late meant no children of my own, but he had 2 kids and I had my nieces. I am the best step mom and Aunt that I can be for those kids. God will show you, trust in Him and be engaged with Him. ❤️ in Christ

  • @Garrisonoutdoors33
    @Garrisonoutdoors33 Год назад

    You are very right

  • @FWGlockGuy
    @FWGlockGuy Год назад +5

    65% of the time, it works every time! 😜

  • @extacyl6926
    @extacyl6926 Год назад

    As a guy, I'm now strictly against having female friends. It's too much conflict putting up with guys I don't want to be bothered with. I made the mistake having a female friend. After her NO MORE.

  • @janconnolly6987
    @janconnolly6987 Год назад +1

    Wishing you a blessed Holy Week!

  • @angelgarcia-ht9bl
    @angelgarcia-ht9bl Год назад

    I agree with you

  • @sandianaya5141
    @sandianaya5141 Год назад

    Thank you

  • @DEmersonJMFM
    @DEmersonJMFM Год назад +2

    I do believe that eventually at least one of the friends will have feelings that could be considered more than best friends. All friendships/relationships between two people are on a spectrum, though if the two begin to diverge too far it's best to let go for both your sakes. Best friends have the opportunity to turn into something more if both become interested, but never play the "what if" game with yourself (even moreso if you or they are dating someone). You of course can't ignore the different types of love either.

  • @donnawilmeth8674
    @donnawilmeth8674 Год назад +2

    Can’t completely agree with you. I’ve had many male best friends. In fact I have one now that I’ve known over 30 years! I think it really depends on the person because, by Gods design, we are all very different!
    Love watching all of your Facebook pages!

    • @angelgarcia-ht9bl
      @angelgarcia-ht9bl Год назад

      I agree with you too. Men & woman can be best friends.

    • @rubynz7285
      @rubynz7285 4 месяца назад

      Well said!

    • @holydoge1781
      @holydoge1781 2 месяца назад

      What makes u so sure they didnt have feelings for u and just hid it

  • @kendrawilson8131
    @kendrawilson8131 Год назад

    Granger, you are right closer to 90% of the time if people are honest with themselves!! :)

  • @mikkelsv4804
    @mikkelsv4804 Год назад

    "my opinion is that my opinion is correct 60% of the time" -Granger.

  • @tracyfulayter961
    @tracyfulayter961 Год назад

    I enjoyed this podcast

  • @lauramathis6130
    @lauramathis6130 Год назад

    Anyone else find it awkward to hear Granger say "now you can make the drapes match the carpet" in his advertisement for Manscaped?!?

    • @2byoung
      @2byoung Год назад

      Absolutely Positively creepy

  • @cadensmith3354
    @cadensmith3354 Год назад

    Mr. Granger, I have a question about Christian marriage. So, I've been a Christian my whole life, so my girlfriend and I have been talking about our future together and someday in the future I want to ask her Dad for her hand in marriage but what do we do if he says no. And how would be a good way to ask. I just thought I should ask somebody who has a daughter. P.S. I love your podcast and your music and think you're a great guy.

  • @definit1on119
    @definit1on119 Год назад +14

    Read your Bible folks.

    • @haroldsmith5150
      @haroldsmith5150 Год назад +1

      2000 year old book that I'm supposed to follow?😂 Nah

    • @_not_your_mom
      @_not_your_mom Год назад +2

      ​@haroldsmith5150 what's wrong with a 2000 year old book, it's absolutely life changing.

    • @haroldsmith5150
      @haroldsmith5150 Год назад

      @@_not_your_mom it's full of outdated bs and nonsense

    • @thomascoonan571
      @thomascoonan571 Год назад

      ​@@_not_your_mom it's fantasy

  • @AlwaysLime
    @AlwaysLime Год назад

    🎯 I have a family member in Nate’s shoes. 🙏

  • @revee1000
    @revee1000 Год назад

    Anybody that likes this guy go back 2 / 3 years in his videos he has awesome music videos.

  • @revee1000
    @revee1000 Год назад

    I haven't watched you in a bit but what happened to the live singing in the shop or barn or where ever .

  • @cierralynseventeen2298
    @cierralynseventeen2298 Год назад +2

    My best friend is a guy!....... he is also my husband but he's my best friend. 😆

  • @rubynz7285
    @rubynz7285 4 месяца назад

    Making my way through all videos (new subscriber). I have to whole heartedly disagree - my close "best friend" group is 5 males and myself since age 5. We are now all 40. They are like brothers to me, and treat my husband of 10 years the same. I would not be where I am in life without their love and support. (People should not miss out on the chance of the most supportive, loving friendships for the risk of someone having romantic feelings. Loyal, truthful friends are too rare).

  • @theresa8956
    @theresa8956 Год назад

    Im the 28 year old version of Casey. About a year ago I surrendered my “love life” to God, without really knowing that what is was as the time. Best advice don’t turn into a Harlet or use the apps.

  • @jaygreentree4394
    @jaygreentree4394 Год назад

    I have to disagree with the title "Guys & Girls CAN NOT Be Best Friends..." I've had a gal pal as a bestie for 20 years.

  • @mrcharliesky
    @mrcharliesky Год назад

    I highly disagree with this, but I respect your opinion

  • @nicolemerrill9167
    @nicolemerrill9167 Год назад

    I have 2 best friends one is a male one is female I have known them both since the fourth grade I get along with her man very well and she gets along with my woman we have never done anything together but care for one another, so I completely disagree but not everyone is the same so that is situation what are your thoughts on it🤔

  • @dougwood8614
    @dougwood8614 Год назад

    hard to take earl dibbles junior serious

  • @Cady7YEZYEZNEWSSMITH
    @Cady7YEZYEZNEWSSMITH Год назад

    Granger
    Aye my Adon 🥰🥰

  • @tac_r_usoutdoors8984
    @tac_r_usoutdoors8984 Год назад

    In biblical times, men chose a wife by taking her in a tent. I am a faith based Christian, I believe differently. Commitment in the presence of the Lord, is the same as the times of Isaac. Government does not need to approve anything for me to be content. If both are believers and feel that they're married in Christ. Hard to rebuttal.

    • @definit1on119
      @definit1on119 Год назад

      What scripture do you have to support your claim? That’s not how wives were giving in the Old Testament in the times of Isaiah for example.

  • @Mygirlfriend3141
    @Mygirlfriend3141 Год назад

    I don't agree

  • @Cutelittlecountrygirl
    @Cutelittlecountrygirl Год назад

    faith is a gift from the Lord, thank you for your faith!

  • @liamoutdoors5504
    @liamoutdoors5504 Год назад +1

    Yee Yee Day is coming up soon

  • @Margaretmargiecord-sp6hp
    @Margaretmargiecord-sp6hp Год назад

    I learned your wife are supposed to be your best friend! The lord can give you friends you can learn from! The lord taught me that!

  • @thomascaldwell463
    @thomascaldwell463 Год назад

    Answers based on Bible principles. That's when you know you're getting the truth. One hundred percent of the time.Great episode!!! Yee Yee

  • @PrincessDaisyClaire
    @PrincessDaisyClaire Год назад

    u don’t control other ppl, so they CAN be bffs if they WANT to 👎🏻👎🏻👎🏻

  • @nicolemerrill9167
    @nicolemerrill9167 Год назад +1

    Oya yee yee

  • @rebeccaamey3027
    @rebeccaamey3027 Год назад +1

    I disagree girls and guys can be best-friends. I am woman who got along with guys more then girls. Girls would talk about makeup, fashion and boy's. I wasn't really in to that stuff but boy's would talk about Movies, tv shows, games, science, space and more things that I was into. I married my best friend and I still have some guy friends nothing more just friends and I have one girl best friend. I have never liked being in a big group of friends. And I love my life I am thankful for everyday. I am grateful for every soul I have known and I have faith in what is to come.

  • @angelgarcia-ht9bl
    @angelgarcia-ht9bl Год назад

    Guys & girls can be bestfriends

  • @marygregory4316
    @marygregory4316 Год назад

    That's lie most of my best freinds were and are men for they are not judgemental

    • @AppalachianChaplin
      @AppalachianChaplin Год назад

      But the second you offered, I'd bet money they'd fuck yuh...n that's the hard truth a lot of women don't wanna face n choose to ignore/not believe

    • @PrincessDaisyClaire
      @PrincessDaisyClaire Год назад

      @@AppalachianChaplin Who was talking to u?

    • @AppalachianChaplin
      @AppalachianChaplin Год назад

      @aurorabxrry it's a reply comment, to the comment above... There ain't no one else to reply to lol. I'm simply saying if you're a woman n think your straight male "best friend" is just a friend, then genuinely (not in a random or joking way, a way that seems real to him) test to see. If every woman who claims what she is claiming, actually tried it, most of them would realize the dude is still a dude, n would still sleep with them in a heartbeat. And it doesn't make either party wrong, we are human... we're wired to reproduce. We're biologically wired to fall in love or lust with a person of the opposite sex if we're around them often and they make us happy. That is why the best relationship and marriages start off as best friends... that isn't a coincidence.