Granger Smith Opens Up About Abusing Substances After His Son Drowned

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  • Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
  • Granger Smith details abusing ‘weed, vaping and alcohol’ to cope with his son’s death in his new book, 'Like A River,’ which is out now.

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  • @kendrawilson8131
    @kendrawilson8131 Год назад +96

    We love you Granger!!! This interview had to be so hard for you. I can see it in your eyes. Thank you for being so vulnerable to all of us. Lifting you and Amber up in prayer.

    • @maxcullen3427
      @maxcullen3427 Год назад

      Yeah but he amazingly powered through it

  • @kendalrush5595
    @kendalrush5595 Год назад +52

    Grief is the hardest thing to go through. You’ve got this granger ! Praying for you & your family

  • @Julie-c8b
    @Julie-c8b Год назад +29

    This book is the most honest, raw story, I have ever read. I could feel his pain, his guilt, Shame and ultimately his love. Such a powerful read. I highly recommend everyone gets their hands on this book.

  • @karenseay2225
    @karenseay2225 Год назад +37

    The book is awesome. Beautiful, sad, redemptive. I bawled most of the way through it.

  • @lilthislilthat
    @lilthislilthat Год назад +36

    Love the Smith family! I've been following along their journey on their RUclips channel, and it's been incredible watching God work in them and through them! 🙌

  • @carolynturk-hu7je
    @carolynturk-hu7je Год назад +13

    Maverick did know River, as gifts from God. They met before Maverick was given to Granger and his wife as the sweet consummation of their love. He is a blessing for sure just as River was, is and always will be.

  • @sherrylongbine3876
    @sherrylongbine3876 Год назад +25

    I know this testimony will help others that are going through very tough situations in their lives. Thank you and may God continue to bless River’s family as they share Jesus, the life giver, with others.

  • @maryjdobson7316
    @maryjdobson7316 Год назад +19

    The loss of a child is one of the hardest journey's I've ever walked! You have a gorgeous family & I'M SO PROUD OF YOU.I would love to write with you ❤Blessings,Strength to move fwd , LoVE up to your AMAZING FAMILY,

  • @latonyagreen-warner7402
    @latonyagreen-warner7402 Год назад +9

    Granger Smith, you and your family are in my prayers. Thanknyou for sharing your story😊

  • @Lu-qg7qm
    @Lu-qg7qm Год назад +9

    Granger, you are so brave to share your story. All glory to God!

  • @blovedh4
    @blovedh4 Год назад +13

    I’ve been watching the smiths for years. This. This is why I believe in God. Because this family showed us joy and grief simultaneously… while also never telling us these pieces. Granger: you are a strong man. I love u and ur family. Honestly. I can’t even put it into words how much your family changed my life. God bless you.

  • @pacificnorthwest7456
    @pacificnorthwest7456 Год назад +5

    Omg I’m such a longtime huge fan of Granger and had no idea just how deep the pain was going with him when River drowned. Omg love Granger so much

  • @karissaspicer1421
    @karissaspicer1421 Год назад +5

    Been a huge fan of Granger for years now. Was so sad to hear he was done with the music industry. I read his book and immediately understood why. Best book hands down I’ve ever read. Never cried that hard throughout a whole book and it starts in Chapter 1. So well written and an incredible story that’s meant to be told.

  • @melissadavis2782
    @melissadavis2782 Год назад +4

    God bless you. So much respect to leave music to pursue ministry. He must've felt God had a call on his life to be a pastor and for him to follow through with that is amazing. He'll be able to help so many people.

  • @CarolynLewis-z3p
    @CarolynLewis-z3p Год назад

    I know the pain of a lost child. I lost three and even after years I still grieve. Your change to God came from a tiny angel who still loves Daddy. Blessings to you and your family

  • @crystalbrooks9975
    @crystalbrooks9975 Год назад +5

    I just went through this. Good bless our beautiful God-sent angels who sent them here to pay us a visit to love and teach. ❤ the heart was my son’s favorite shape. 😢

    • @celestedonohue3543
      @celestedonohue3543 Год назад +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I have 4 adult kids. I just can't imagine that kind of pain. I pray you believe in Jesus. It does help. 🙏🙏

    • @mjgutierrez
      @mjgutierrez Месяц назад

      GOD BLESS

  • @swissms5808
    @swissms5808 Год назад +7

    Such bravery to share this all in an interview.
    I am so very sorry for ALL the pain you and your family must have gone through and still do.
    I imagine other families who have gone through their own pain and trauma can relate and maybe can find some support in your story.
    Thank You For Sharing !!

  • @julievanderleest
    @julievanderleest Год назад +54

    Grief is in my opinion the hardest emotion there is. I lost my dad as a kid and it was very hard and it did take a long time to process. I lost my big sister a couple years ago. We were extremely close. I have a lot of medical issues and because of that I could no longer work at the job I absolutely loved, I lived with my mom and we had the best and tightest relationship. We did everything together. Then after returning from a day of errands and shopping she fell asleep on the couch and never woke up. Her last words to me were, “once a mom always a mom. I will always be yours.” She said that after I chuckled because she was telling me to go rest because I wasn’t feeling well. This was 6 months ago. I had never been to a point so low that I was ready to commit suicide. Had I owned a firearm, I probably would have held it to my head. Losing a child has to be a far greater pain than I could imagine. My mom lost her child, and she certainly struggled but to lose a young child, there’s no words.

    • @PEPSIMAX2013
      @PEPSIMAX2013 Год назад +2

      grief is another level when you sleep in the streets or not having food ...but you dont deserve that destiny anyways

    • @JayL1221
      @JayL1221 Год назад

      Praying you find strength. Keep going God has a purpose for you.

    • @thezendo6746
      @thezendo6746 8 месяцев назад +1

      Love lives on ..remember this..and grief is grief...if u don't have a child u wouldn't know...but they are a apart of u and so it be like loosing a arm...

  • @lindaeledan5198
    @lindaeledan5198 Год назад +1

    I’m praying for you and your family 100%. Thank you for blessing me with your testimony and for letting God use you. God loves and so do I my brother Amen !!🙌🏾🙏🏽❤️🤗

  • @Son-of-Krypton
    @Son-of-Krypton Год назад +13

    I can only imagine the pain a father feels for losing his son…to get into spiral of drug abuse…he is very strong to get out of it….in the end faith in God helps in the darkest hour 🙏🏼

  • @mattjames1555
    @mattjames1555 Год назад +1

    Love you Granger! ❤️ Thank you for sharing your story. You are touching and helping millions of people my man.

  • @Mom2ChinaGirls
    @Mom2ChinaGirls Год назад +1

    I loved listening to your book through audible! What a powerful message you shared. Thank you for sharing your journey. I loved your analogy to the source of the River. Great book!!!!

  • @annetteelizalde906
    @annetteelizalde906 Год назад +1

    Granger may you continue to help and bless others, you are so loved by many and so needed by many .
    Blessings 😇

  • @Borderlinegoldenretriever
    @Borderlinegoldenretriever Год назад +6

    Takes a strong man to tell all this and get better. A strong man and God

  • @Homebound123
    @Homebound123 Год назад +6

    Do you realize how many people you are helping? 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @cinramirez8627
    @cinramirez8627 Год назад +4

    I’m glad that the good Lord kept Granger here with us. ❤

  • @joolzmac1
    @joolzmac1 13 часов назад

    I’m so glad you saw the light and chose to stay for your family. You’ve got lots more to do in this world. Live like Riv! ❤

  • @geraldinemarcum3611
    @geraldinemarcum3611 Год назад +5

    Thank you for being brave enough to share your truth. By doing so you will help so many others.

  • @b30-m8h
    @b30-m8h Год назад +3

    Praise God, it’s crazy how Jesus can take these traumas and turn them into something good. God bless your family

  • @camelliaroan6341
    @camelliaroan6341 Год назад +8

    God bless Granger & his family! Praying for y'all!

  • @kelliscarbrough9580
    @kelliscarbrough9580 Год назад +6

    I love your family so much. I am so completely glad you didn’t end everything after river passed away. I’ve never thought of you as a weak man I actually think you’re one of the strongest men I’ve ever seen. Both you and your wife Amber and family for living through the darkest time any parent can ever go through. And I’m so incredibly proud of you for that.

  • @sherrywilliams409
    @sherrywilliams409 Год назад

    Thanks for the truth and what it took to tell it. I’m suffering right now from losing my husband of 39 years. I too have those flashbacks of taking care of his open skull. The surgical site from having 3 brain surgeries in the exact same spot never healed. So, there was an open wound. He was under hospice care with me being the biggest caregiver. Which I wanted to take care of him. But it’s caused images that won’t allow me to sleep.

  • @coolstamper
    @coolstamper Год назад +2

    LOVE the Smiths!!! I didn’t start watching The Smiths until after River had passed. I think the first episode I saw was a few years back when Texas went through that awful ice storm. Granger and Amber were sitting outside under the trees and you could hear limbs cracking and falling down all around them. They were talking about a loss they had endured but I didn’t know what that loss was until doing some research. I didn’t even know Granger was a Country Western singer. I watched all the videos before and after River died and let me tell you he was a darling, fun-loving, and adventurous child…just a sweet delight. Sooooo sooooo sad!!! 😢

  • @heatherthompson8878
    @heatherthompson8878 Год назад +4

    I definitely understand the thought of leaving earth exactly how he explains his feelings

  • @ARTWV
    @ARTWV Год назад +2

    One day at a time my friend. 🤲 God Bless

  • @williamolt1183
    @williamolt1183 Год назад +1

    Thank You Jesus for saving Grainger life that night. Thank you for completely filling the void left by the loss of River through Maverick, and THANK YOU JESUS for Usung Your Servant Grainger Smith in such a Mighty way for YOUR PURPOSE IN Ministering too Your children’s Jesus!!!
    Although due to my medical issues and due to that, my forced early retirment, I won’t be able to EVER watch Grainger perform Live, but as much as that saddens me, that is COMPLETELY HEALED BY WATCHING YOU JESUS USE GRAINGER SMITH In such a miraculous way for your Kingdom Lord Jesus!!!
    I LOVE YOU LORD!!!
    ✝️🙋‍♂️🙏❤️
    Might I pray for a gospel album much like ol Johnny Cash did???

  • @fereherskine2148
    @fereherskine2148 Год назад +5

    Praying for you and family, may his soul rest in peace 🙏

  • @MicheleBrooks6
    @MicheleBrooks6 Год назад

    I want to go to his last concert so bad. We've seen him in South Texas, but those last two nights at Billy Bob's are going to be amazing. My parents love to go to concerts but had never heard of Granger. I suggested his concert in New Braunfels and crossed my fingers that they wouldn't be disappointed. They both said it was the best concert they had ever seen and that other performers should watch and take tips. This is huge coming from them. They attend a LOT of concerts each year. We were all disappointed about his retirement, but totally understand his decision. God bless!

  • @lilman0820
    @lilman0820 Год назад +2

    This was so touching

  • @robinlewisart_1997
    @robinlewisart_1997 6 месяцев назад

    This is so painful I know I lost my daughter . I still fell guilty for waking her up to go out sometimes . God bless you

  • @travistreeserviceledbetter3585
    @travistreeserviceledbetter3585 4 месяца назад

    So proud of your testimony. A lot of your music tells stories and I can relate to that. If the good lord takes us to it…. He will get us through it. Amen to that and I’ll continue to pray for peace and I hope everything you do will prosper.

  • @joybochsler7160
    @joybochsler7160 Год назад

    Dang you made me cry 😢
    Never truer words spoken than those of Pain,Love,Suffering, Healing ❤God is the Answer

  • @jessicabenson9017
    @jessicabenson9017 Год назад +2

    Maverick knew River Granger, they knew each other in heaven before Maverick arrived my brother. God is so good and amazing.
    Jesus definitely saves 🙌 🙏
    We may not understand and we may not even agree with His plan but we must trust and have faith and follow His will for us.

  • @leanncarpenter9138
    @leanncarpenter9138 Год назад

    Granger you are a light, and so is Amber. May God continue to heal you both

  • @RevolutioXxNx
    @RevolutioXxNx Год назад

    I'm so thankful God is helping you in helping others. Our entire world should be this way, HELPING OTHERS. The book was so emotional but I loved every word I read in it. Many tears fell from reading it but helped me understand so much more in different views. May God and Jesus bless you and your family. I have so much respect for you and your decision on your career. I love hearing you do a sermon. You explain everything in such detail and I can understand better. THANK YOU and GOD BLESS

  • @pearljamin
    @pearljamin 9 месяцев назад

    Grief is an open wound you cannot heal. It’s a part of you every day for the rest of your life, but so are the memories you have and time you spent.

  • @FLMegan
    @FLMegan Год назад +19

    Wow I've watched the Smiths for years- didn't know it got this bad for him. 😢

    • @Borderlinegoldenretriever
      @Borderlinegoldenretriever Год назад +2

      Loosing a child must be the worst that can happen, a kind of pain we can’t even imagine

  • @geraldkor8307
    @geraldkor8307 Год назад +1

    I know what the grief can do to you and push you to the point you were at. God is Faithful!

  • @gingercollier7949
    @gingercollier7949 Год назад +1

    My nephew drown 19 years ago at the age of 2 1/2 years old. His mother’s boyfriend left the backdoor open into a backyard with a pool. Pure neglect and neither BF or mother were charged. It took our family about ten years of grieving and I think it still haunts his father my brother often. Things are never the same and you learn to accept what the new normal looks and feels like.

  • @karenkramer3760
    @karenkramer3760 Год назад

    Love you Granger. Praying the guilt leaves you. I have guilt myself from an injury my daughter got. Prayers for both of us.

  • @dukeravenshadow5532
    @dukeravenshadow5532 Год назад

    Amen Brother! Gods Grace is indescribable. And sometimes that Grace is hard times, because it refines us, makes us more of who He wants us to be.

  • @elisestokes6961
    @elisestokes6961 Год назад

    Thank you for your transparency and how you journeyed this with Jesus

  • @Pan_and_pots
    @Pan_and_pots 5 месяцев назад

    I will try and support your ministry career. I saw alot of RUclips videos and I will choose them over the others.

  • @Kels42
    @Kels42 5 месяцев назад

    As a parent. I can’t even imagine the heartache. This is devastating.

  • @maverickhanecak1682
    @maverickhanecak1682 Год назад +3

    The kid in the beginning is so adorable!

  • @BobbyBigallo
    @BobbyBigallo Год назад

    It's true, when you love someone you'll wake up and suddenly remember they're gone and it tears your heart out

  • @Olivia-r1k
    @Olivia-r1k Год назад

    I'm balling my eyes out 😭😭😭 God bless you and your family 🙏🙏🙏

  • @rhoadestraveled
    @rhoadestraveled Год назад

    That was truly one of the most beautifully written books I’ve ever read. I cried so many times. I wonder though if Mav will have a hard time carrying Rivs legacy. That’s heavy and I pray he truly feels valued just as the unique person he is too.

  • @mischievousmoonshine
    @mischievousmoonshine Год назад

    I lost my son as well and I absolutely understand what he means

  • @somecostcoguy
    @somecostcoguy Год назад

    Reading your book, Like a River. I can only imagine what your heart is going thru and what you've experienced.

  • @monicaw5036
    @monicaw5036 Год назад

    I love this guy, he keeps it 100 always! God came to him when he needed him most. God was there all along. Heaven just needed a tiny angel... so he chose River and with all things that happened, would he have become the man he is today if his sweet boy hadn't went to be with God early? No he wouldn't. I hope once in a while he will still play shows. But even more I hope I can see him preach live some day❤❤
    GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU ALWAYS🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️

  • @Rockymountainprospector
    @Rockymountainprospector Год назад

    Yea this is awesome too give up music and focus on family. So sad the lose you've experienced but don't forget to count all the blessings in life. Thanks so much for sharing

  • @glorialovesChrist
    @glorialovesChrist 10 месяцев назад

    The Love of God is Bigger than loss grief shame and trauma and tragedy. ✝️⭐🙏

  • @jacintacody133
    @jacintacody133 Год назад +3

    Harrowing to watch,no one should ever blame themselves for an accident 😔

  • @Luskwy2
    @Luskwy2 Год назад

    🙏🙏🙏 prayers for you and family continued healing, God Bless

  • @minicoop2015
    @minicoop2015 Год назад

    I witnessed a little boy drowning 2 years ago. He was surrounded by adults but no one heard the splash. Thankfully someone saw him fall into the deep end and that little boy is alive and healthy. A year later, a foster child from my agency passed away at 18 years old in a community pool. It can happen to anyone. Pool safety and CPR truly save lives, but accidents happen to good people. I appreciate The Smith family for sharing their story and raising awareness.

  • @annem8152
    @annem8152 Год назад +2

    I hope Maverick doesn't always get compared. he is his own little person, made special by Yahweh. I honestly don't see how he looks like River. He definitely is rough and tumble like River though. Such a blessing.

  • @thezendo6746
    @thezendo6746 8 месяцев назад

    No parent should ever ha e to go thru that ever ....but how beautiful the newbaby came

  • @tracybarber9179
    @tracybarber9179 Год назад

    God Bless all of you...

  • @Roger-m5j
    @Roger-m5j Год назад +2

    That's god working in his life. If that doesn't encourage everyone to seek Jesus because he will get you through anything. That's so encouraging! Much love for you, Granger!

  • @JesusLovesyou..1John3.6
    @JesusLovesyou..1John3.6 5 месяцев назад

    God is our Comforter 😊❤

  • @sledracer92
    @sledracer92 Год назад +1

    Great guy

  • @AmishMediaGroups
    @AmishMediaGroups 11 месяцев назад

    Inspiring testimony

  • @Yellowroseintexas5
    @Yellowroseintexas5 Год назад

    Ready read book ! Had lot grief life ! My son substance abuse .

  • @carriebloodsworth6188
    @carriebloodsworth6188 Год назад

    Testimony!🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @sherry866
    @sherry866 Год назад +5

    River is Safe and Warm in the Arms of Jesus Christ, he Went immediately into the Light, in the blink of an Eye.
    RIP DEAREST Sweet Darling Angel ⚘🦋🎈⚘🦋🎈⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘⚘

  • @staceypennington919
    @staceypennington919 Год назад +2

    These are the sides of The Smiths that we never saw. Granger I wish you had told us. We love you and Amber and those kids so much. We would have shared no judgement.

  • @cherylsykes194
    @cherylsykes194 Год назад

    prayers 4 granger and his family

  • @lillianmcgrew217
    @lillianmcgrew217 Год назад

    Oh my. He is with Jesus now ❤❤❤

  • @cheritamurray7966
    @cheritamurray7966 Год назад +1

    Bawling crying now!!! You are so strong!!!! Love your family!!!! ❤️❤️

  • @carolferguson8241
    @carolferguson8241 Год назад

    Gob bless you Granger. ❤

  • @flormariarennerstam4886
    @flormariarennerstam4886 Год назад

    I do not have children but it sounds painful what he got through. Poor him 😢

  • @tiffanybittman7523
    @tiffanybittman7523 Год назад

    🎉❤ best wishes to all of you

  • @pagejames8754
    @pagejames8754 Год назад

    Water Survival lessons for babies are a MUST!!

  • @Yellowroseintexas5
    @Yellowroseintexas5 Год назад

    Grief takes a toll

  • @rmrita55
    @rmrita55 Год назад

    Prayers

  • @shanellescott6777
    @shanellescott6777 Год назад +1

    Praying

  • @kristenkaz3080
    @kristenkaz3080 Год назад +1

    The night my husband was killed in Baghdad, I cradled his 9mm. I held it & savored the fact that I could end my pain. It would be over. But then I thought of my 3 year old daughter in the room next me. Of her losing her both her parents. And then I tucked the gun away. Grief is indescribable. It lives & breathes right beside you. It was tragic I lost my husband, yes. But had it been my daughter then no doubt I would not survive that.

  • @arielwatt2122
    @arielwatt2122 Год назад

    I’ve ever lost a child, but I have lost three siblings, two special needs. I know the feeling of being in the dark and blaming yourself. There is a way out

  • @KittyKitSumHo-ql2ly
    @KittyKitSumHo-ql2ly Год назад

    The kid in the is Maverick ,
    Not River !!!!

  • @davidmiller6726
    @davidmiller6726 Год назад

    God bless you, Grainger. I’d love to meet you, hug your neck, Son.

  • @bgrateful453
    @bgrateful453 Год назад +2

    This interview pains me! This book is about HOPE THROUGH GOD.
    Love, love, love this man! Soon to be Preacher. The Smiths are the best. Wish this interviewer would have had more sensitivity and grace rather than catching the title with substance abuse and digging into his worst night. Granger is such a wonderful person and always has amazing Grace. YeeYee. Like A River! Preach Granger Preach.

  • @nalonja78
    @nalonja78 Год назад

    We love you Granger

  • @Magazinelady
    @Magazinelady Год назад

    My condolences, Granger on the loss of your son, River. Congratulations on surviving a suicide attempt. Congratulations of the new baby. To be a human is difficult at best. Life is good and God is great.

  • @asian6oy
    @asian6oy Год назад +1

    Poor guy 🥺

  • @gillowens24
    @gillowens24 Год назад +1

    They children so cute so sad lost son though

  • @dianecelento4974
    @dianecelento4974 Год назад

    Love you Granger

  • @gmoney2300
    @gmoney2300 Год назад

    We’ll miss you granger

  • @davidschefter4160
    @davidschefter4160 9 месяцев назад

    What is the name of the book?

    • @wk9195
      @wk9195 8 месяцев назад

      Like a River

  • @jacquemanalo3226
    @jacquemanalo3226 Год назад +1

    🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️