"All the happiness in the world stems from wanting others to be happy, all the suffering in the world stems from wanting the self to be happy." -Shantideva
True my brother all his life, his job, his car his work his house his time. He’s literally exhausted from self consumption. No happiness in his face at al He’s never in a day put anyone before his own selfish needs. The thought Of even giving a dollar to a charity is madness to him. If a person has never put anyone before themselves that person will understand inner contentment or peace
Have to confirm that. Its one thing whe you accomplish something, but its way more enjoyable, when you can help others to improve, to become better at what they do.
This is so true. I was struggling to complete my book so I started an authors podcast as a way for others like me to learn more about the process and be motivated. Sharing is caring.
Forgiveness (of yourself and others, even without their knowing, energetically, let it go) GRATITUDE (for the joys and the sorrows, and all the moments of your life that MAKE UP your life) and GIVING of oneself...spot on dude.
This is so true. I'd add to it by saying that we put far too much time and effort into pleasing others instead of serving them. We care so much about being popular but what we need to care about is being of value. Popularity is about quantity, value is about quality.
This is it. Well said. When we focus our intention outward on others, we actually get all of the results we wanted for our self and more with out "working on ourselves"
Well, there are books for parents and for teachers. It does keep me motivated in my personal journey to have to show up for other people and help them. My kids keep me on the path. The greatest lie that stops us is thinking we have to solve our own situations first. And then, of course, we can die before that ever happens without helping anyone or growing the way we could if we let ourselves be free to help others without needing to have arrived first.
Man, just the other day I told a friend of mine that I want my business to grow so that I can help my employees live a really nice life and help them start their own business.
I agree 100%. I've been doing this for the last 5 years and it's taught me so much. PS. I know I'm not the first to say so, but thank you for writing Leaders Eat Last. It showed me what I was doing wrong and helped to change my leadership style so that the focus was on helping and protecting others. I even found out about David Marquet and adopted his ideas because of you! Thanks much.
Dang it, Simon!! I keep thinking you’ll be smug and holier-than-thou, but you’re just WISE! Haha really- it’s true. I may be choosing to love more than to try to be loved. Feels better.
I think the main reason of those self-help books exist is because nobody would help us unless they have helped themselves first. You will most likely be disappointed if you try helping others first for hoping getting something in return. If you try helping people when you already helped yourself, you won't be disappointed when you get none or negative feedbacks Having an adequate amount of ego is healthy. it keeps us away from being stepped on by others.
Yeah, i was once more capable than others, so i help without any need in return. But when i need help and none of them even did, it just feels useless.
Hands-on Medical training for any procedure has always been "see one, do one, teach one". Whilst this doesn't reflect the service nature you are really alluding to, there is something about the teaching process which further imprints the learning on our brains. So teaching is win win.
According to me, to really help yourself, you need to prioritize your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. This means taking care of your body through exercise, nutrition, and rest, as well as seeking support and guidance for any mental health concerns. It also means developing a growth mindset, setting meaningful goals, and pursuing learning and development opportunities. To really help yourself, prioritize self-care, practice self-compassion, and cultivate a supportive network of friends, family, and mentors. Remember, investing in yourself is not only essential for your own well-being, but also enables you to make a greater impact in the world.
I’ve been working from home since the beginning of the pandemic. Our department was never given this privilege to work from home prior to the pandemic. We made it successful, it works and has been great, but now we are told we have to go back to the office soon, after living this way over a year. The commute is so harsh and unnecessary. My health and well being is better since I haven’t had the rush rat race commute and long days. I eat better and don’t have to spend so much time food prepping for work lunches. Now I’m going to have to go back to less sleep, not enough time to do things like exercise, and long days due to a commute. It makes me very sad. I have a great workout routine now and that will end because I’m too exhausted when not working from home. But I can’t work closer to home because the salary won’t be enough as working downtown. I don’t have a husband to split the mortgage, I’m single and live on my own so I can’t quit to work closer and make less money. This is very sad and I’m hoping they offer us a hybrid policy to work some days from home.
It’s true. In our religion, we call it sowing seeds. If we want something, give it to someone else. If we want a baby, we give pregnant women diapers, we throw them a baby shower. If we want a new house, we help our friend move, we give them a place to stay for a while. If we want money, we lend money, we tithe. It’s said helping others is the surest way to help yourself.
@@Beardyvlogger Oh my god! what is it? btw I looked up bee leaf game and nothing came up Mr. Intelligent .. so, I just ignored yknoe thinking he must be high, talking some nonsense
That's what I'm thinking aswell. I would gladly help others, but it won't do much if I don't know myself first. Its like on the airplane you put on your own mask first. But I see the reason to help, its a good way to get a better understanding
Have you seen the movie "Pi"? It was about a man and a tiger stranded in the middle of the ocean. The man was forced to feed the tiger because he cares for it even though it tries to kill him. The man thought of many ways on how to catch fish to feed himself and the tiger, and according to him in the end of the video, he would've died if the tiger wasn't there. You see, if you care for someone's welfare, it drives you and motivates you to find ways to help them, and through this, you wouldn't realize that your life is actually improving because of the efforts you have put just for the sake of those you care, and this ultimately results to many success like job promotion and the likes.
Many people in my known circle aren't open to help in areas where I might not have "succeeded" in. And I think the same too - when dad tells me to do things for my betterment that he doesn't follow, or when a friend who is struggling with mental health gives suggestions on dealing with things. Being there, yes. Helping without having tried the way yourself - not sure
If you can help someone with something you have struggled with it enforces the fact that you have dealt with it, and puts you in a truly solid position to be able to help others. It's so often that people give you advice based on what they have read on the Internet or seen on a RUclips video. Nobody is better equipped to help another than a person who has experienced something themselves first hand. It also makes that person a stronger person. How often is it that you ask someone a question and you find the answer upon asking?
*You'll realize how far you are in your journey, but you'll soon realize you can go even further and achieve greater challenges.* Keep going my friend. 💥💥
I guess this is wat exactly I needed rite now love of my life is talking with other person happily and I'm really confused shall I be happy for that person or shall I be unhappy, reason I'm writing this comment so that I can remember this day forever, 3rd April 2021
You should do a collaboration with Mathew Syed. That video will be mind blowing. Our channel is hoping to make videos on the things mentioned in both of your books
If you can't help yourself, how do you suppose you help others? If you can't make yourself lose weight, how do you help others do the same? If you can't find your own "Why", how do you help others find theirs? ...I could go on. The end-goal is the same, helping others, but my point still stands.
Having been in bleak mental positions for quite a while, I can tell you that it's very much easier to justify helping others. Self-sabotage or feelings of a lack of self-worth do not apply to others, who we like and judge more accurately than ourselves. The result is a capacity to help others even when unable to help ourselves, but the process of helping others is surprisingly restorative.
Missed your final point, which is a good one. In Simon's recent video he discusses how to make a start finding your own 'Why?', namely challenge a friend to say why they're friends with you. Once you get past the what and into the less logical, more emotional things, you'll find that their descriptions of their feelings towards you are pretty close to your own why, or at least a good start. In other words, it's often easy to see qualities and values in others and like them for it without necessarily being able to identify those in yourself.
@@JerGol Nice to know for when I might be in the same situation down the road. For your second comment, I did watch his video about that, hence why the thought occurred to me.
Perhaps because I also need to be helped by others. Being alive and growing as a person is constantly caring for and being cared for by others. You can't go in a room with some books, find out all your problems, and fix them (believe me, I actually tried😂😂). We have to live through the answers with others.
I guess people acknowledge people are selfish and that way, they can sell better. It’s up to the buyer to buy that book with an intention of helping others. It’s fine too 😅
Well no, I think for some people the idea is "how can I help myself X, to become a better version so that I am not a burden unto others". There is no point helping other people if you can't adequately look after yourself.
I don't know about this. I think everyone knows someone who is always ready to jump in and give life advice, even if you didn't ask for it. And very often, I find that these are the people who really aren't in control of their own life if you dig deeper.
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."* The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
Addiction is an example. This would apply to anything you want to improve in yourself. Any skill or healthy habit. When I think about my experiences, I have to say this rule rings true (I just did it subconsciously without realising how it was helping). Good luck!
There is this saying in Islam, that says the bestest of muslim is they who wish for others what they wish for themselves. I'm not that devout and haven't studied that deeply yet, I cant remember whether this is a hadith or a verse from the Qur'an or just a saying. Just saying.
I completely disagree with this message. From the neurobiological standpoint it is wrong to help other first before you help yourself. This is Christian thinking. Give your last shirt and freeze to death, but the other survives. Our primal program is to survive, and this is the main and only program our brain is focused on. We are not responsible for others. We are primarily responsible for ourselves. If we decide to have children, then we are also responsible to a certain point for our kids. If we are now in the systematic context, of course leadership and company hierarchy bring also responsibility. But that’s it from a systematic view. This reaching out helping other to receive love and recognition and forgetting ourselves, brings all the people into my therapy session. They have no self-kindness or feel self-value and believes like, “I’m not good enough”, “I can’t be loved” etc.. Another main program in our brain is control. If I always have to wait on others to receive love or get recognition, I lose control because I can’t control others. I feel dependency and I'm externally defined. Most of the people expect something back if they are helping others and they are honest. Who is really free from it to expect at least and thank you when you giving help? But this is the point if you are feeling love and recognition in yourself, you don’t need the Thank you, because you made a decision to help without the expectation to get something back. The way is to build up self-kindness and self-recognition and to feel good and then you can get out and help others but not the way around.
@@Avaaaw Yes, Sarah, with your focus on others you can push your problems into the background. Besides, your brain always goes into comparison mode and evaluates the problems of others as much stronger and thus gives you the feeling that your problems are not so big and important. In addition, we tend to go into a problem trance, because talking about problems does not mean that we are solving them. Really solving problems means change, change means I have to spend energy. But your organism resists this more energy expenditure. And so the comfort zone is the most beautiful place in your life.
Can't help someone who doesn't want help, and so it is that they will do everything in their power to normalize their vices and demonize your virtues; If you were to burden yourself with their vices at all. On and off cigarettes because my parents smoke, nothing I say will make them quit, so I will smoke because they do. But then I'm dependent on their crutch to quit anyways, and I'm backsliding. Not helpful at all, helping others with your problems just cages you with toxic people who would likely not want to improve anyways.
"All the happiness in the world stems from wanting others to be happy, all the suffering in the world stems from wanting the self to be happy."
-Shantideva
Yes, this guy thinks like Shantideva !!
كان الله فى عون العبد ما دام العبد فى عون أخيه ❤
أسعد الناس أسعدهم للناس ❤
The happiest ones are who make others happy
Amen. When we go out to help others suffering, battling and struggling, we in turn get helped. How amazing is that Mr Sinek 💘
@@rektcapital9895 I am just done with all of you fakes. 🙏 Please.
@@racaciaruth4460 the person responding with bitcoin adverts is most probably not Sinek
@@restartnaija8087 absolutely not Mr Sinek. He will never do this. Fake idiots. Using his name. 🙏 Thank you ❤️.
True my brother all his life, his job, his car his work his house his time.
He’s literally exhausted from self consumption. No happiness in his face at al
He’s never in a day put anyone before his own selfish needs.
The thought Of even giving a dollar to a charity is madness to him.
If a person has never put anyone before themselves that person will understand inner contentment or peace
Have to confirm that. Its one thing whe you accomplish something, but its way more enjoyable, when you can help others to improve, to become better at what they do.
This is so true. I was struggling to complete my book so I started an authors podcast as a way for others like me to learn more about the process and be motivated. Sharing is caring.
*THIS* is exactly why I *LOVE* doing what I do.
Simon is on point as always and with another man I respect Tom Bilyeu.👏👏👏
Forgiveness (of yourself and others, even without their knowing, energetically, let it go) GRATITUDE (for the joys and the sorrows, and all the moments of your life that MAKE UP your life) and GIVING of oneself...spot on dude.
Self-Help v/s Helping Others!
Wonderful Thought, Concept & Attitude of Simon Sinek. I very much appreciate you Simon.
Yes I totally agree! By helping others we help ourselves.
This is so true. I'd add to it by saying that we put far too much time and effort into pleasing others instead of serving them. We care so much about being popular but what we need to care about is being of value. Popularity is about quantity, value is about quality.
The true meaning of life is to love one another and helping each other .
That is right we are here in the first place .
Surely indeed ; that's the key to get satisfaction and true professional accomplishment........great thoughts ++++ appreciated
This is it. Well said. When we focus our intention outward on others, we actually get all of the results we wanted for our self and more with out "working on ourselves"
Well, there are books for parents and for teachers. It does keep me motivated in my personal journey to have to show up for other people and help them. My kids keep me on the path. The greatest lie that stops us is thinking we have to solve our own situations first. And then, of course, we can die before that ever happens without helping anyone or growing the way we could if we let ourselves be free to help others without needing to have arrived first.
Man, just the other day I told a friend of mine that I want my business to grow so that I can help my employees live a really nice life and help them start their own business.
I agree 100%. I've been doing this for the last 5 years and it's taught me so much.
PS. I know I'm not the first to say so, but thank you for writing Leaders Eat Last. It showed me what I was doing wrong and helped to change my leadership style so that the focus was on helping and protecting others. I even found out about David Marquet and adopted his ideas because of you! Thanks much.
Dang it, Simon!! I keep thinking you’ll be smug and holier-than-thou, but you’re just WISE! Haha really- it’s true. I may be choosing to love more than to try to be loved. Feels better.
I agree. We should give more of the things we seek ourselves!
I think the main reason of those self-help books exist is because nobody would help us unless they have helped themselves first.
You will most likely be disappointed if you try helping others first for hoping getting something in return. If you try helping people when you already helped yourself, you won't be disappointed when you get none or negative feedbacks
Having an adequate amount of ego is healthy. it keeps us away from being stepped on by others.
Yeah, i was once more capable than others, so i help without any need in return.
But when i need help and none of them even did, it just feels useless.
@soul brain Exactly. And that’s why “helping others” is the last step, after 11 steps on helping yourself (and getting help).
Honestly Simon, that's what the teaching of Islam is all about period.
*Greatness is built when nobody else is watching.*
I don't know which stage of life you are in but I hope you never give up... 💥
Hands-on Medical training for any procedure has always been "see one, do one, teach one". Whilst this doesn't reflect the service nature you are really alluding to, there is something about the teaching process which further imprints the learning on our brains. So teaching is win win.
Simon I realy love these short powerful video's. Thank you for making them!
I love this interview, I’ve watched it so many times picking up on so many different things. It covers so many different topics and it’s no bs
Me too! He explains everything so well.
According to me, to really help yourself, you need to prioritize your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. This means taking care of your body through exercise, nutrition, and rest, as well as seeking support and guidance for any mental health concerns. It also means developing a growth mindset, setting meaningful goals, and pursuing learning and development opportunities. To really help yourself, prioritize self-care, practice self-compassion, and cultivate a supportive network of friends, family, and mentors. Remember, investing in yourself is not only essential for your own well-being, but also enables you to make a greater impact in the world.
Awww my favorite Simon video. Love him!
Simon's got the secret sauce!!! Thank you for sharing.
I’ve been working from home since the beginning of the pandemic. Our department was never given this privilege to work from home prior to the pandemic. We made it successful, it works and has been great, but now we are told we have to go back to the office soon, after living this way over a year. The commute is so harsh and unnecessary. My health and well being is better since I haven’t had the rush rat race commute and long days. I eat better and don’t have to spend so much time food prepping for work lunches. Now I’m going to have to go back to less sleep, not enough time to do things like exercise, and long days due to a commute. It makes me very sad. I have a great workout routine now and that will end because I’m too exhausted when not working from home. But I can’t work closer to home because the salary won’t be enough as working downtown. I don’t have a husband to split the mortgage, I’m single and live on my own so I can’t quit to work closer and make less money. This is very sad and I’m hoping they offer us a hybrid policy to work some days from home.
that's beautiful, we learn the solutions by helping others with them
Always speaking truth! Thank you for everything, Simon.
I totally agree, teaching others will guide and motivate you to master what you teach and thus indirectly help yourself. Wonderfull insight :)
It’s true. In our religion, we call it sowing seeds. If we want something, give it to someone else. If we want a baby, we give pregnant women diapers, we throw them a baby shower. If we want a new house, we help our friend move, we give them a place to stay for a while. If we want money, we lend money, we tithe. It’s said helping others is the surest way to help yourself.
I love him because he's an original thinker. I would like to believe, I am one too :)
Ok. Bee leaf. That's the game bro. Yknoe
@@JUNIIOI2 what? what's Yknoe and what?
@@suryahr307 BEELEEF
@@suryahr307 have you heard of Google?
@@Beardyvlogger Oh my god! what is it?
btw I looked up bee leaf game and nothing came up Mr. Intelligent .. so, I just ignored yknoe thinking he must be high, talking some nonsense
My point is: If I don't know how to help then how can I help others? That's why Self-Help is the first step I think.
That's what I'm thinking aswell. I would gladly help others, but it won't do much if I don't know myself first. Its like on the airplane you put on your own mask first. But I see the reason to help, its a good way to get a better understanding
Have you seen the movie "Pi"? It was about a man and a tiger stranded in the middle of the ocean. The man was forced to feed the tiger because he cares for it even though it tries to kill him. The man thought of many ways on how to catch fish to feed himself and the tiger, and according to him in the end of the video, he would've died if the tiger wasn't there. You see, if you care for someone's welfare, it drives you and motivates you to find ways to help them, and through this, you wouldn't realize that your life is actually improving because of the efforts you have put just for the sake of those you care, and this ultimately results to many success like job promotion and the likes.
Many people in my known circle aren't open to help in areas where I might not have "succeeded" in. And I think the same too - when dad tells me to do things for my betterment that he doesn't follow, or when a friend who is struggling with mental health gives suggestions on dealing with things. Being there, yes. Helping without having tried the way yourself - not sure
Wondering why the replies took a direction in finance? 😄
trying to teach a concept to a coworker does help me better understand.
Wouw ! Simon sinek is a great man . Hé really is RESPECT
I agree. He explains everything so well!
If you can help someone with something you have struggled with it enforces the fact that you have dealt with it, and puts you in a truly solid position to be able to help others. It's so often that people give you advice based on what they have read on the Internet or seen on a RUclips video. Nobody is better equipped to help another than a person who has experienced something themselves first hand. It also makes that person a stronger person. How often is it that you ask someone a question and you find the answer upon asking?
*You'll realize how far you are in your journey, but you'll soon realize you can go even further and achieve greater challenges.*
Keep going my friend. 💥💥
there is a precise Buddhist principle in this, nice he repeats it.
Excellent! I would like to make a mention of a book by Evan Carmichael. BUILT TO SERVE.
Thanks for the recommendation. Definitely need to check it out!
This short videos are always great ❤️❤️
truly a powerful thought. thank you!
Simon... U can only share what u have got... Unless u r happy... U cant help others
Your the man Simon.🙌
I guess this is wat exactly I needed rite now love of my life is talking with other person happily and I'm really confused shall I be happy for that person or shall I be unhappy, reason I'm writing this comment so that I can remember this day forever, 3rd April 2021
I agree and seen this in my life to be true.
So in other words , helping others IS self help 👏
Yeah, but don't oversweat it to become people pleaser.
@@yourasa1213 good point
So true🙌
Simon should be flagged additive magical talk
Count your blessings not your problems.
You should do a collaboration with Mathew Syed. That video will be mind blowing. Our channel is hoping to make videos on the things mentioned in both of your books
You first have to give what you want to get
help others is help yourself.
Simon Sinek is pretty much the most based dude in the whole world.
Empathy
If you can't help yourself, how do you suppose you help others?
If you can't make yourself lose weight, how do you help others do the same?
If you can't find your own "Why", how do you help others find theirs?
...I could go on.
The end-goal is the same, helping others, but my point still stands.
Having been in bleak mental positions for quite a while, I can tell you that it's very much easier to justify helping others. Self-sabotage or feelings of a lack of self-worth do not apply to others, who we like and judge more accurately than ourselves. The result is a capacity to help others even when unable to help ourselves, but the process of helping others is surprisingly restorative.
Missed your final point, which is a good one. In Simon's recent video he discusses how to make a start finding your own 'Why?', namely challenge a friend to say why they're friends with you. Once you get past the what and into the less logical, more emotional things, you'll find that their descriptions of their feelings towards you are pretty close to your own why, or at least a good start.
In other words, it's often easy to see qualities and values in others and like them for it without necessarily being able to identify those in yourself.
@@JerGol Nice to know for when I might be in the same situation down the road.
For your second comment, I did watch his video about that, hence why the thought occurred to me.
Perhaps because I also need to be helped by others. Being alive and growing as a person is constantly caring for and being cared for by others. You can't go in a room with some books, find out all your problems, and fix them (believe me, I actually tried😂😂). We have to live through the answers with others.
Epic.
I guess people acknowledge people are selfish and that way, they can sell better. It’s up to the buyer to buy that book with an intention of helping others. It’s fine too 😅
Well no, I think for some people the idea is "how can I help myself X, to become a better version so that I am not a burden unto others". There is no point helping other people if you can't adequately look after yourself.
S/S. It's in giving that you receive dude ? As Mr. Grossman said in 'Tropic Thunder' a movie, "ask and you shall receive" ! V.
I don't know about this. I think everyone knows someone who is always ready to jump in and give life advice, even if you didn't ask for it. And very often, I find that these are the people who really aren't in control of their own life if you dig deeper.
This is exactly what I would love to do... if I was allowed to...
You seem like you have all the answers.
Viktor Frankl said this, as well.
Is there 🇷🇺 version
How can we give something to someone when we don't have one? We can't give something which we don't posses.
“Ask not what the country can do for you but what you can do for your country”
-JFK
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*
The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
I wonder whether or not this reconciles with Jordan Peterson's "Clean your room before trying to solve the world's problems" philosophy. 🤔
So what do you do if you don't have addictions to overcome? Then what?
Addiction is an example. This would apply to anything you want to improve in yourself. Any skill or healthy habit. When I think about my experiences, I have to say this rule rings true (I just did it subconsciously without realising how it was helping). Good luck!
Ouch!
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There is this saying in Islam, that says the bestest of muslim is they who wish for others what they wish for themselves.
I'm not that devout and haven't studied that deeply yet, I cant remember whether this is a hadith or a verse from the Qur'an or just a saying.
Just saying.
I completely disagree with this message. From the neurobiological standpoint it is wrong to help other first before you help yourself. This is Christian thinking. Give your last shirt and freeze to death, but the other survives. Our primal program is to survive, and this is the main and only program our brain is focused on. We are not responsible for others. We are primarily responsible for ourselves. If we decide to have children, then we are also responsible to a certain point for our kids. If we are now in the systematic context, of course leadership and company hierarchy bring also responsibility. But that’s it from a systematic view. This reaching out helping other to receive love and recognition and forgetting ourselves, brings all the people into my therapy session. They have no self-kindness or feel self-value and believes like, “I’m not good enough”, “I can’t be loved” etc.. Another main program in our brain is control. If I always have to wait on others to receive love or get recognition, I lose control because I can’t control others. I feel dependency and I'm externally defined. Most of the people expect something back if they are helping others and they are honest. Who is really free from it to expect at least and thank you when you giving help? But this is the point if you are feeling love and recognition in yourself, you don’t need the Thank you, because you made a decision to help without the expectation to get something back. The way is to build up self-kindness and self-recognition and to feel good and then you can get out and help others but not the way around.
@@rektcapital9895 really what is this? a bad joke?
I agree. I think the reason I help others so much is because I don't want to face my own problems (i.e: self-sabotage)
@@Avaaaw Yes, Sarah, with your focus on others you can push your problems into the background. Besides, your brain always goes into comparison mode and evaluates the problems of others as much stronger and thus gives you the feeling that your problems are not so big and important. In addition, we tend to go into a problem trance, because talking about problems does not mean that we are solving them. Really solving problems means change, change means I have to spend energy. But your organism resists this more energy expenditure. And so the comfort zone is the most beautiful place in your life.
Or Russian subtitle
I wish if I can help my self but ineed people help I quit from my work have a baby can't pay my lioan will put me in prison pray for me am deeply hurt
You know... ähh emmm
Can't help someone who doesn't want help, and so it is that they will do everything in their power to normalize their vices and demonize your virtues; If you were to burden yourself with their vices at all.
On and off cigarettes because my parents smoke, nothing I say will make them quit, so I will smoke because they do. But then I'm dependent on their crutch to quit anyways, and I'm backsliding.
Not helpful at all, helping others with your problems just cages you with toxic people who would likely not want to improve anyways.
AA has 5%-7% success rate, not
أبوء لك بذنبي
really????
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