Me and my girlfriend are like that. She wasn’t even someone in my original radar but we reconnected a couple months ago and now we’re in a relationship! God’s timing is always perfect!
Awe inspiring me to say that you are still a woman who loves to do things like this one in a way she said she would be happy with you if you were with her for the REST of her life
This entire video fits me to a tee. I had avoided talking to, let alone dating Christian men all my life due to a deep fear of getting hurt. A few years ago I was compelled by the Holy Spirit to form a Bible study group for singles. I suddenly felt a responsibility to talk to guys to drag them to join my group for gender balance (lol). I met a stranger at a party where everyone except him was a Christian. Once I heard he was not a Christian (plus I am older), I automatically put him in the bucket of "absolute non-candidate" in my mind. I felt so "safe" and enjoyed chatting with him so much I invited him to my group. He came and our friendship grew without pressure. Quite a few times he would be the only one who came to the group or activities so we started to connect deeper (thanks flakes!). This went on for years until he came to Christ. He officially asked me out and I suddenly started seeing him in a new light like a switch got flipped. We just got married this year and he is truly my best friend and only guy friend I ever had. Let our amazing God surprise you with the best things in life.
I wasn’t looking for someone, I’d given up and expected to be alone forever. I was sure there was no one who understood me, believed the same as me and was even near me. I found my gem of a man online, we just started talking and weren’t even planning on a relationship. We just kept talking and found out we had so much in common faith wise, grew up similar, only lived a few hours apart, and only one year age difference! There was no way we could’ve found each other except God.
It gets lonely sometimes, and sometimes I wonder how God is going to help me meet the right one while all the stuff is going on, but I know that when there seems to be no way He can make a way. I’ll lean on Him while I wait.
That's exactly my thoughts, I'm sad that I'll never get to meet the girl I'm supposed to marry, and realize that I'm supposed to marry her before Jesus returns. with the way the world is rn. You're not the only one who thinks about that.
Keep focusing on your walk with God, and being the best version of yourself that God created you to be. Then and only then will everything fall into place in Jesus name. Amen and Amen.
Lowkey scared this guy might be the one..there is so much patience and Jesus in this friendship. Not getting hopes up but this is obviously from God :)) Thanks for the video Mark ❤️
Put your hope, faith, and trust in God completely. If you trust Him. Then you know it will be the best for you regardless. That include in romantic relationships. Be blessed and encouraged in God. In Jesus name. Amen and Amen.
The timing on this video was very “coincidental” that first sign that you mentioned was like a bright flashing light to me. The other night I was in the word and I had a conversation with a friend I’ve known since middle school and She told me she was a Christian and we started to talk more and things started to unfold. I got this warmth and heaviness on my heart that I usually get when the spirit of God is present and this time it was very heavy and I heard this voice that said this is your wife like on repeat over and over again. A couple months back God had revealed to me in a vision that my future wife would be dirty blonde with blue eyes and it so happens to be that she had dirty blonde hair with blue eyes. I’ve been praying for confirmation and I prayed last night for it and this popped up the next day. The crazy part is I kept telling myself if she is it she’s the last person I’d expect.
Ashley Moss yea I have peace about her too but I also have the fear that like if I ask her if she wants to go on a date cause idk if she is even remotely attracted to me and even tho this was I think confirmation I still have the fear that if I ask her on a date and she says like oh I see you as a brother or a friend than I’m just gonna end up hurting myself
Wow! So true. When I met him, I couldn't see myself with him and now I can't imagine being without him. We met at a mutual place of interest and became friends. My feelings for him are growing but I feel that that it's out of my control.he feels the same way.
I have been in love with him for years, we drifted apart, but now in touch again. He loves God as much as I do, we pray for eachother often. I had/have doubts because I am 5 years older than him.... thank you for your teaching. God bless you ❤✝️🙏
Thank you so much for this message as it gives me confirmation that god is behind my long distance partner coming into my life, when I least expected it, and our relationship has been growing stronger and stronger each day that passes by.
At times, it's so hard to believe that there's really a "too good to be true" relationship. By God's will, there really is!!! When that time comes in you, you kept on thanking God for having a partner like that and would be fascinated from time to time. 🙏😇
This video is so true as it took me three and a half years to be in a relationship with my boyfriend. He was afraid to love again after he got divorced. We are both Christian and love God 🙏🙏. He's my best friend and I pray that God would open up his heart to make him give his heart to me . . John is truly my gift from God that I prayed for.
You don't want his heart dear. You want him to have a heart for Jesus first. Then you would be second. A man that loves God with all of his heart is then enabled to love you. God is always first. You would be number 2 on his list.
Is it drawing you closer to God? Is it in alignment of the individual purpose God has for both of your lives already that you are walking in? Is it keeping you both pure? Those are just some basics. Do you have peace? Because if you’re not clear then it probably isn’t from Him.
Ask yourself these questions. If your answer is yes to all of them then you may be in the right relationship: 1. Are you two equally-yoked? (Meaning do you both believe in Jesus Christ.) 2. Are you guys compatible with each other? 3. Can you both be faithful to each other? 4. Are you both attracted to each other? 5. Do you both love each other with your actions? 6. Are you both spiritually and mentally mature?
Yes, I believe that sign. One of my best friend at church got married last year because God put them together. They work together at our church and they have they same passion in the ministry.
Thank you Mark! How crazy! I have met someone who I thought I was never going to date because he is 5 years older than me. Then the Lord showed me age DOESNT matter because the way him and I have spoke about deep topics. I’m only 18 and he’s 25; therefore, I know we are just friends, but I have faith one day that the Lord will speak to the man about how important I am to him as a person as I talked to him about our God! You are so right to keep having faith with no pressure.
Amen 🙏🏼 this video reminds me when with get too anxious to get on a relationship and God... says. slow down and get to know the person. Make connections first get to know first on the Lord 🥰 God Bless you ❤️
I had to cut off with the other guy because I felt a tug in my heart saying it wasn't right. There was nothing wrong with him. But I had to say that we could only be friends because it was long distance. And now I'm chatting with someone who lives in the same state as me. And we both prayed that one day we would marry our best friend. And he says he's at peace with talking to me. But yeah we're taking things slow.
@@Duckydubb 🤷🏽♂️ even i like girl from another country and i stop saying anything even i am feeling the same Gods will. m okay with Gods will long distance are best to be honest
I have known several couples who started by working together on a project and it seemed they were drawn to work together on other projects because they communicated well with each other. It then dawned on them that they could build a family together. It wasn't a Hollywood style romance but it was the meeting of kindred spirits.
I know people that have bonding on doing evil towards me. All I can do is give them to God and let God help me get out of their evil ways. I believe in God and in God's Name. Amen Amen Amen
Im very blessed this it help me alot to understand Gods will especially in Christian relationship... For now im waiting for Gods will to meet someone in my life.. lovelots from Philippines God bless
Not sure this one applies to me. To me it's more about the LORD just bringing me closer to Him. I don't have any Christian men in my life besides family so that's a No for me lol. Thank you for the message regardless, I like listening to them whether they apply to me right now or not because they may apply in the future . God bless you and congratulations on 12 years
I personally had many moments when I thought this was so, but never happens; maybe He was protecting me from something I’d regret in the long run; who knows; however I look forward to whatever Plans He has for me
Am I supposed to feel like crying listening to this???! 😭😭 I feel that these signs are starting to come to fruition.... I'm not ready, I need to be stronger in my faith and in my leaning on the Lord for all things not just some, and my levels of purity and chastity, and the development of fruits of the spirit... Is there something that DOESN'T need working on before it happens and I mess it up?? 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ Pray for me, as I You 🙏🏾💯💯
Mmmmm the Lord want you to focus on building up your relationship with Him. He want you to fall in love with Him completely, and in turn you will love yourself. Focus on doing His will. Everything will be alright in Jesus name. Focus on forgiving yourself and others who have hurt you. Just trust Him and the process. God will never fail you. Nor do He make mistakes. Rest in Him in Jesus name. Amen and Amen. God loves you, and so do I. Just believe.
I was hoping this wasn’t romantic aspect but a friendship one….when you feel a connection with someone but friendship or that God wants you to be there for some calling or purpose spiritually for that person.
I met a man through a mutual friend, and this particular man did something that no other man has ever done to me before, and that is, he touched my heart and soul to the point of happy tears, and, after he did that, I put the experience in my gratitude journal, which, when I opened it, had a quote about not liking just the hand of the man, but the whole man who accompanies that hand, and I told him about this quite, and he said, the universe has a way of telling you that you’re on to something , and, I kid you not, right after he said that, I was scrolling through RUclips and saw a quote about when you really want something and work to get it the universe will make it happen....I texted him that and said, well nothing because I had no words for that entire interaction with him....anyways, long story short, I feel a connection with this man, who is my dream man, and I hope and pray that God makes a way for us to come together as one 💗💙
I met my love at a advocate program. It was the Policy Makers of California. It a program that advocates for the Disabled individuals/ Community I was there to learn something more according to advocacy and to meet others like me and had similar situations. This program is for parents of Disabled individuals and individuals that can speck on their own behalf and for others I never thought i was going to meet someone and have a connection with. I never went for that reason. But God set me up, and he is Best Matchmaker ever. God gave me what i asked for and more. Everything you said we went through I'm a witness I totally agree with this teaching. My Love 💞 and I met according to this teaching.
@Eugenia Jones WOW! What a powerful testimony. How are things coming along? Are wedding bells in the near future? How long has it been since you guys met at the advocacy forum for the disabled?
@@robindear5043 Things are coming a long well as can be with God help, and guidance. We have been together for 11 years since 2009 and we have talked about taking the next step. We have talked to the pastor. I think there will be future plans for us to be together. We have been through the Good, Bad and Ugly. Ups and Downs. We talked to the pastor before the covid 19 crisis. I didn't feel right and i told them that. He got approval from my mother and from my dad and my dad passed the mantle to him and he has keep his promise to my parents. He called my mother "mom" and my dad "pops" my parents are not here anymore. But they are my guardian angels. And there with me all the time. My love got approval from all that mattered my parents and most of God. God has a plan and he knows when we should come together like we would like. Thanks for asking and we still have the future to look forward too.
You nailed it. This is exactly how I've felt about falling in love. This is the natural order. That first throwback picture of you is hysterical. Was that shot from the early 90s??? LOL
Hey Mark, the timing of this video for me is mind blowing that it can't be coincidence. I've been praying for the past few days about whether God could be bringing my friend from church and I together. I totally didn't expect this, and either way, I am content if we just remain friends or become more than that. Can I ask for your prayers over this, that God's will be done between us? Thank you so much!
My story is a bit of a sad story. I've tried to let go of someone within what was mentioned. Did not expect myself to be interested in this person, and yet I thought because of the reasons mentioned, I felt a deep connection, alongside other factors. Now, it is 8 months since I last connected with this person, but can't seem to let go or move on from this person. Please pray for me, if anyone is reading because I've been through some dark nights. Thanks :)
Wow! I met the guy I am seeing now without looking. It just kinda happened. I had no interest in him. We are focusing on friendship as we get to know each other. Big focus on getting to know each other. The more I get to know him, the more I like him. What is crazy is so many people are rooting for us to work out.
This is spot on! I met a guy in my acting class and we were paired together. Initially I thought there is no chance I would ever date him because I'm not looking for anyone right now, just focusing on me and my career. Although early 2021 I felt the Holy Spirit shifting me in ways to "prepare for my partner". Time went on and we spent more time rehearsing and just talking and it was with such ease that it caught us both completely off guard. In his presence I feel such a peace in my gut and all over me. Like I'm wrapped in a big hug from God whenever he's around. I knew from that very moment he was who God intended for me. And this video went through the 3 steps for me that actually happened
The same happened with my to be fiance now. We started as friends over the internet, I didn't even feel attracted to him physically (appearance), but after just 2 months of prayer and talking we were sure God was telling us two we are for each other. We are now "dating" since January 2019 and waiting for God's timing to get engaged and marry 😁🙏 God is good and will guide you 🙏
Also our relationship to each other and Jesus just increased more and more over this past year and a half and it's so full of love, patience, support, humbleness. It seems even like we arent even doing anything, it's like the Holy Spirit is bonding us 😍😍😍
Think you for this video came at the right time for me I ask God for an answer to a rightship and though this video he have answered my question and prayer. I will hold to what I know
This as happend to me we was firends now we are boyfriend and girlfriend and i am older him and i do not understand why and my last name peace 🙏god bless to you and your family
This message is for me. I just read 2 Tim 2, 2 days ago. My grandpa studied it with me and that verse stuck out to me. I do discern my heart though. Thanks for the video brotha Mark!
All of this signs just happened to me unexpectedly with my current boyfriend now, same as him he said to me when we're getting to know each other a couple of weeks before and were almost 1½ months, he is 13 years older in me. I'm currently 22 years old and he is 35 years old... And I never expect these great things that making me wonder how it happens so fast and thinking that all of this is impossible and unexpected because I wasn't ready entering relationship. He is my first boyfriend, but one thing I was really amazed is that the more days, and weeks passed, what I really feel for him keeps on growing even I didn't even know him yet because we meet in dating online... We have this both mutual feelings that keeps growing that starts with a friendships in that dating app we have alot in common but there's still have differences in all things... I really hope he is the one I've been waiting for a long time ❤️ the comfort the fear and pressure, all of negative things is the opposite feeling whenever im talking to him and I do keep on praying to God to guide the relationship that we have ❤️😇 this is the greatest gift i ever had so far.... And I am so thankful for that to the Lord ❤️ I feel safe to him like God makes me feel safe whenever I pray and talk to him❤️
Oh My God!!!!! I'm crying cuz these are exactly what took place 7 months ago for me... I am giving God thanks!!!!!!!!!!! I met the person many years go but I just saying to myself nahhh I won't ever be with you don't see it happening... now look at us!!!!!! I can't fathom the hands of God he surely knows what he is doing even when we can't see it for ourself!!!!
@@ashleyseaboyer6284 we are called to judge righteously tho 😉 the term "oh my God" does put His name in vain. Do you hear anyone else saying, "oh my Muhammed?" or anything else? It's only God's name that's used in vain
Well... I prayed about it... looked it up because I still wasn't sure... and these exact three points were the reasons I was unsure... I'm gonna give it a go; thanks!
Perfect info brother for exactly where God has me and a significant other right now in terms of our friendship and where it "subtlety" seems to be heading unforcfuly..All parts explained here have happened so this is definitely confirmation for Me to share with Her. Thanks again and all glory be unto God. Amen
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I can recognize these signs in my relationship with my current boyfriend and best friend. We met when I was dating another guy (Eric) who he was friends with. I was 13 and my current boyfriend (Mike) was 14 at the time. We originally weren’t attracted to each other and often said that we wouldn’t date. Mike and I developed a friendship during late high school after being separated for over 2 years. For some reason Mike and I kept crossing paths, despite being in different classes and after school activities. One day I randomly got a call from an unknown contact in my phone. I was looking for a friend to just talk with after a fallout with another group of friends. We started talking regularly and hung out after school a few times. Two years of being close friends passed before we both realized we had romantic feelings for each other. Three years ago he asked me out and we’ve been dating ever since. ❤️😘
KaoshiBeyonce Doll yes it is. Even Mike says that God played a role in us connecting. He says that there were too many factors that occurred in the order they did to say we met by chance. Even in our relationship, God has shown Himself through me, through things like me showing unconditional love and forgiveness to Mike always knowing how I’m thinking or feeling and how to cheer me up. I genuinely think Christ is calling Mike to Him daily.
Exactly what happened with my bf and me. I had faced so much rejection because of my non-Christian past. I was content just meeting other people to be friends. When I first met him I told him right away I wasn't ready for a relationship and only wanted a friendship. A month later after our friendship had grown strong, I had a vision of marrying him. At the same time, the Holy Spirit spoke to him in a totally different city giving him the green light to ask me out. It has been the best relationship I've ever had, and I have no doubts God brought us together.
Guide me O Lord...have really struggled in finding a genuine marriage partner...only you can connect me to that man and fulfill my hearts desire...AMEN 🙏🙏
This makes me wonder if this is the case for one of my friends. We went to high school together & I never could see myself dating him back then or even being interested. I guess we’ll see where God leads but in the meantime I’m just liking getting to know him again as a friend.
Wow I have had all 3 happen. I wanted to date or at least get to know each other and she resisted but 3 years later we're developing something I hope. We are united by our faith we go to the same Church. Finally now I'm working on her trying to be a kind, funny, confident man to win her over. I feel like I'm slowly getting there. I just want her to see our future relationship is based on God bringing us together. I'm not just some guy hitting on her. I pray over time she will get there. I care for her so much I want to have something beautiful with her. Please pray for us.
Yeah I’m deffo too shy to manufacture something so if I will meet someone one day it will completely have to be “random” , I’ll leave it to God , all I want is natural no pressure🌻
Just don't let your shyness stop you from engaging with people. Talk about the weather or the last book you read if you have to. God can and will bring people into your orbit and they may even initiate the conversation, but if you're too shy to show them your personality, most people will give up.
Miss Priss yeah, I what I means was that I wouldn’t be the type to intentionally date, I would rather it be something where we are literally just friends and then out of the blue we “catch feelings” ☺️☺️
I clicked on this on a whim but lol, this is so what happened with my boyfriend. We are only a few months in but we have been good friends for 7yrs, he is my first boyfriend, it just kinda fell together that way
yeah i never thought id find love a second time but i worked very hard in my reading of the new testament and my exercise that it finally happened i dont know if i can pull off a third one im not as strong as i was 20 years ago
I have met a woman which has been on Bible School in my church 3 years ago and I knew her on a superficial level and I never even considering the thought of being in relationship with her. However my surrounding friends and some of my family introduced the thought of me being together with her (and told me that they think that she is interested in me) as she attended a Conference in my church recently and I have experienced how God orchestrated everything so I had the opportunity to invite her out on a date. Since then we have kept the contact with one another and by the grace of God I could spontaneously attend a Conference which her church was a part of and we are now in a relationship. However she is not sure that I'm the one that God has for her so we take it slow and see where God leads us.
Sometimes I’m like,”Lord, I know you have the guy I’m suppose to be with to glorify you.” But then I’m like,”Lord I’m scared to date and I’m so insecure and xyz.” But my mom prayed over me when I was 13 for a godly man and I’m 22 now so if it is the Lord’s will He’ll help me through those insecurities and ungodly thoughts about me!
Little Sis we have to work on ourselves with the help of the Lord. Read scriptures about what God says that you are. The Bible states that we are beautiful and wonderfully made. God brings two whole people together. Not two broken or one broken and one whole. That's not the way it works my Sister. The purpose of marriage is to do the Will and Work of the Lord together. God gives the man the vision. We are the helpmeet to that vision given to him by God. That is the purpose. You're only 22 so you are still young. I would suggest truly focus on getting my education, then employment. I would keep occupied by working in the church serving the Lord. He will come when the time is right. Marriage is work. It's 2 people becoming 1 to serve the Lord. When I was your age, I purchased 2 books by Dr. Myles Munroe. Understanding the Purpose and Power of Men. Understanding the Purpose and Power of woman. I would also suggest attending singles class. If a person can not commit to God during their single years, one will not be able to handle the marriage years. When I was your age, after researching marriage and the standards/requirements God expects... I was like no way! Now, you may not feel that way after researching God's requirements and expectations. Marriage is way way more than just a wedding ceremony. I say all that in love and experience. I am twice your age and still waiting patiently. Be encouraged! Be Blessed!!! Praying for you! 🙏
I really like this godly women; she keeps ignoring me likes she's always to busy for me, sometimes I feel she's like very rude towards me; can you pray for me, I'm confused.God let me know what to do!!
What a joy it is when two come together subtly and the only explanation it can possibly be is God, His love, grace, and mercy.
Amen!
Yes amen Jon!
So true 😌💜☝
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Beautifully put :)
Sometimes the best romantic relationships spring from the best friendships.
Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.
Proverbs 4:23 NLT
jesus... the failures of the coyrse of my life 😢
Me and my girlfriend are like that. She wasn’t even someone in my original radar but we reconnected a couple months ago and now we’re in a relationship! God’s timing is always perfect!
Awe inspiring me to say that you are still a woman who loves to do things like this one in a way she said she would be happy with you if you were with her for the REST of her life
God is good. God bless you! Be still in the Lord.
Thank you for the likes, God.Thank you for providing them!
@@cindywomac7063 :-(. "rest of her life." I thought that was our plan.
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@@LVSnailSandwichContent who is this
This entire video fits me to a tee. I had avoided talking to, let alone dating Christian men all my life due to a deep fear of getting hurt. A few years ago I was compelled by the Holy Spirit to form a Bible study group for singles. I suddenly felt a responsibility to talk to guys to drag them to join my group for gender balance (lol). I met a stranger at a party where everyone except him was a Christian. Once I heard he was not a Christian (plus I am older), I automatically put him in the bucket of "absolute non-candidate" in my mind. I felt so "safe" and enjoyed chatting with him so much I invited him to my group. He came and our friendship grew without pressure. Quite a few times he would be the only one who came to the group or activities so we started to connect deeper (thanks flakes!). This went on for years until he came to Christ. He officially asked me out and I suddenly started seeing him in a new light like a switch got flipped. We just got married this year and he is truly my best friend and only guy friend I ever had. Let our amazing God surprise you with the best things in life.
What a wonderful story! Blessings to you both and your marriage. This has inspired me so much!
Thanks for sharing! Congratulations to the both of you!
aweee this is so heartwarming!!! i pray that you two will have a long healthy and happy marriage and family!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
THAT’S AWESOME GLORY TO GOD
I wasn’t looking for someone, I’d given up and expected to be alone forever. I was sure there was no one who understood me, believed the same as me and was even near me. I found my gem of a man online, we just started talking and weren’t even planning on a relationship. We just kept talking and found out we had so much in common faith wise, grew up similar, only lived a few hours apart, and only one year age difference! There was no way we could’ve found each other except God.
HAHAHA, but God is good.
Aww! That is a sweet story! Thanks for sharing. Best Wishes!!
My current situation tho I pray it works out🙏🏽 amen
It gets lonely sometimes, and sometimes I wonder how God is going to help me meet the right one while all the stuff is going on, but I know that when there seems to be no way He can make a way. I’ll lean on Him while I wait.
It is beautiful to wait upon the Lord.
I am trusting him for my Man too
When the time is right he will make your paths cross Trust.🙏🙏🙏💓
The Lord will see you through
That's exactly my thoughts, I'm sad that I'll never get to meet the girl I'm supposed to marry, and realize that I'm supposed to marry her before Jesus returns. with the way the world is rn. You're not the only one who thinks about that.
Exactly..we just have to keep trusting in the Lord..he is really all we need!
Congrats on 12 Years!
Thank you! All glory to God!
Get ready for Jesus he's coming back so get ready get ready get ready
Amen🙏🙏🙏 brother Jesus Christ is coming soon 🙏
Amen
Yes he is💙💙
I am ready both me and firend
Hallelujah! Praise the lord in Jesus name Amen
I can't wait for God to bring that special person into my life. Good things come to those who wait. Bless you brother
Me too. I m waiting on the lord
Keep focusing on your walk with God, and being the best version of yourself that God created you to be. Then and only then will everything fall into place in Jesus name. Amen and Amen.
You already have two chiks in replies, stop be a baby and waiting for romance, life pass, have familly
Amen
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May God bless his people with health, strength, happy Ness , peaceful marriage etc.
Psalm 23 is helpful to read
🎊 Happy Anniversary to you and your wife, Brother Mark!! 🎊
May HE continue to bless y'all's union...🙏
Thank you Travis! We appreciate that :)
Y'all are welcome!! =)
12 years of marriage! Congratulations Mark! Beautiful family and I hope all is well! God bless!
Lowkey scared this guy might be the one..there is so much patience and Jesus in this friendship. Not getting hopes up but this is obviously from God :)) Thanks for the video Mark ❤️
Put your hope, faith, and trust in God completely. If you trust Him. Then you know it will be the best for you regardless. That include in romantic relationships. Be blessed and encouraged in God. In Jesus name. Amen and Amen.
God has blessed you with a beautiful family and I believe God will do the same for me
God bless as you follow the Lord!
The timing on this video was very “coincidental” that first sign that you mentioned was like a bright flashing light to me. The other night I was in the word and I had a conversation with a friend I’ve known since middle school and She told me she was a Christian and we started to talk more and things started to unfold. I got this warmth and heaviness on my heart that I usually get when the spirit of God is present and this time it was very heavy and I heard this voice that said this is your wife like on repeat over and over again. A couple months back God had revealed to me in a vision that my future wife would be dirty blonde with blue eyes and it so happens to be that she had dirty blonde hair with blue eyes. I’ve been praying for confirmation and I prayed last night for it and this popped up the next day. The crazy part is I kept telling myself if she is it she’s the last person I’d expect.
Thats amazing! I haven't had a dream like that. But I have peace about this guy I am currently talking to. And he has peace about me.
Ashley Moss yea I have peace about her too but I also have the fear that like if I ask her if she wants to go on a date cause idk if she is even remotely attracted to me and even tho this was I think confirmation I still have the fear that if I ask her on a date and she says like oh I see you as a brother or a friend than I’m just gonna end up hurting myself
Ashley Moss that’s great that you guys both have peace!
@@ethankimmes yes. I wonder why I had doubts in the past with other guys. Maybe idk what having peace about someone feels like.
Ashley Moss probably because God was leading you to someone else
Wow! So true. When I met him, I couldn't see myself with him and now I can't imagine being without him. We met at a mutual place of interest and became friends. My feelings for him are growing but I feel that that it's out of my control.he feels the same way.
In God's time...Everything will bloom just as it should....Amen
Such interesting insights! I had three out of three with my husband! 🤣😂 Blessings!
God bless you too Aya!
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Awesome for you two!!
My husband is Muslim, but now I see myself going back to God so I'm conflicted. Please pray for me 🙏🏾
I am still waiting for God to bring me someone, been Christian for 4 years now. My faith is in the Lord Amen
I have been in love with him for years, we drifted apart, but now in touch again. He loves God as much as I do, we pray for eachother often. I had/have doubts because I am 5 years older than him.... thank you for your teaching. God bless you ❤✝️🙏
Thank you so much for this message as it gives me confirmation that god is behind my long distance partner coming into my life, when I least expected it, and our relationship has been growing stronger and stronger each day that passes by.
God bless Judy!
Ameen
At times, it's so hard to believe that there's really a "too good to be true" relationship. By God's will, there really is!!! When that time comes in you, you kept on thanking God for having a partner like that and would be fascinated from time to time. 🙏😇
This video is so true as it took me three and a half years to be in a relationship with my boyfriend. He was afraid to love again after he got divorced. We are both Christian and love God 🙏🙏. He's my best friend and I pray that God would open up his heart to make him give his heart to me . .
John is truly my gift from God that I prayed for.
You don't want his heart dear. You want him to have a heart for Jesus first. Then you would be second. A man that loves God with all of his heart is then enabled to love you. God is always first. You would be number 2 on his list.
I'm in relationship rnow, but I don't know it's from God or not😢 please pray for God's protection in my life...
I have the same problem.
Trust your gut and intuition.
Is it drawing you closer to God? Is it in alignment of the individual purpose God has for both of your lives already that you are walking in? Is it keeping you both pure? Those are just some basics. Do you have peace? Because if you’re not clear then it probably isn’t from Him.
Ask yourself these questions. If your answer is yes to all of them then you may be in the right relationship:
1. Are you two equally-yoked? (Meaning do you both believe in Jesus Christ.)
2. Are you guys compatible with each other?
3. Can you both be faithful to each other?
4. Are you both attracted to each other?
5. Do you both love each other with your actions?
6. Are you both spiritually and mentally mature?
@@jansley4 Is a Christian allowed to date a non Christian or a person who does not believe in God?
Yes, I believe that sign. One of my best friend at church got married last year because God put them together. They work together at our church and they have they same passion in the ministry.
Thank you Mark! How crazy! I have met someone who I thought I was never going to date because he is 5 years older than me. Then the Lord showed me age DOESNT matter because the way him and I have spoke about deep topics. I’m only 18 and he’s 25; therefore, I know we are just friends, but I have faith one day that the Lord will speak to the man about how important I am to him as a person as I talked to him about our God! You are so right to keep having faith with no pressure.
Did y’all end up together? Good luck sis. I made the same choice and 😬😬😬
25-18 = 7
5 years is not a large age gap.
Amen 🙏🏼 this video reminds me when with get too anxious to get on a relationship and God... says. slow down and get to know the person. Make connections first get to know first on the Lord 🥰 God Bless you ❤️
Amen Reyna!
ApplyGodsWord.com/Mark Ballenger Amen🙏🏼
You and your wife were soo cute together 😍😍 then and now! Thanks for this upload! I believe God has placed the right person in my life!
I had to cut off with the other guy because I felt a tug in my heart saying it wasn't right. There was nothing wrong with him. But I had to say that we could only be friends because it was long distance. And now I'm chatting with someone who lives in the same state as me. And we both prayed that one day we would marry our best friend. And he says he's at peace with talking to me. But yeah we're taking things slow.
God bless as you seek the Lord's will for you Ashley :)
So long distance are not from God?
@@Duckydubb oh no that's not what im saying at all. I just think it's not for me personally.
@@ashleynicole2963 oh ok gotcha👍👍👍
@@Duckydubb 🤷🏽♂️ even i like girl from another country and i stop saying anything even i am feeling the same Gods will. m okay with Gods will long distance are best to be honest
I have known several couples who started by working together on a project and it seemed they were drawn to work together on other projects because they communicated well with each other. It then dawned on them that they could build a family together. It wasn't a Hollywood style romance but it was the meeting of kindred spirits.
Hollywood is a cancer on society
I know people that have bonding on doing evil towards me. All I can do is give them to God and let God help me get out of their evil ways. I believe in God and in God's Name. Amen Amen Amen
Amen! Praying for My Kingdom Marriage❤️
Im very blessed this it help me alot to understand Gods will especially in Christian relationship... For now im waiting for Gods will to meet someone in my life.. lovelots from Philippines God bless
Not sure this one applies to me.
To me it's more about the LORD just bringing me closer to Him. I don't have any Christian men in my life besides family so that's a No for me lol. Thank you for the message regardless, I like listening to them whether they apply to me right now or not because they may apply in the future . God bless you and congratulations on 12 years
Remember you also can’t be a pacifist. You need to move about as well! Goodluck!
Put yourself around where you think they may be😎
Number 1 is how God let me know who he had chosen for me. He directed my heart.
all these three apply to me, praise the Lord
God bless! All glory to God!
Blessed reflections, these came right on time. God bless!
So glad it was timely!
I personally had many moments when I thought this was so, but never happens; maybe He was protecting me from something I’d regret in the long run; who knows; however I look forward to whatever Plans He has for me
Am I supposed to feel like crying listening to this???! 😭😭
I feel that these signs are starting to come to fruition.... I'm not ready, I need to be stronger in my faith and in my leaning on the Lord for all things not just some, and my levels of purity and chastity, and the development of fruits of the spirit...
Is there something that DOESN'T need working on before it happens and I mess it up?? 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Pray for me, as I You 🙏🏾💯💯
It’s 3 out of 3 for me and my new Christian mate.
I committ too early and to the wrong girls. Now I am reaping its effects. Help me Lord bring me the right one.
Mmmmm the Lord want you to focus on building up your relationship with Him. He want you to fall in love with Him completely, and in turn you will love yourself. Focus on doing His will. Everything will be alright in Jesus name. Focus on forgiving yourself and others who have hurt you. Just trust Him and the process. God will never fail you. Nor do He make mistakes. Rest in Him in Jesus name. Amen and Amen. God loves you, and so do I. Just believe.
You deserve love, and you are worthy to be loved.
@@ladennayoung2939 No I don't
I love your story about you and your wife and the pictures too. Thanks for sharing! :))
So glad you enjoyed it! Here's a longer version of that story if you are interested: ruclips.net/video/rGq_7IfO42s/видео.html
I was hoping this wasn’t romantic aspect but a friendship one….when you feel a connection with someone but friendship or that God wants you to be there for some calling or purpose spiritually for that person.
I met a man through a mutual friend, and this particular man did something that no other man has ever done to me before, and that is, he touched my heart and soul to the point of happy tears, and, after he did that, I put the experience in my gratitude journal, which, when I opened it, had a quote about not liking just the hand of the man, but the whole man who accompanies that hand, and I told him about this quite, and he said, the universe has a way of telling you that you’re on to something , and, I kid you not, right after he said that, I was scrolling through RUclips and saw a quote about when you really want something and work to get it the universe will make it happen....I texted him that and said, well nothing because I had no words for that entire interaction with him....anyways, long story short, I feel a connection with this man, who is my dream man, and I hope and pray that God makes a way for us to come together as one 💗💙
Any updates?
I met my love at a advocate program. It was the Policy Makers of California. It a program that advocates for the Disabled individuals/ Community I was there to learn something more according to advocacy and to meet others like me and had similar situations. This program is for parents of Disabled individuals and individuals that can speck on their own behalf and for others
I never thought i was going to meet someone and have a connection with. I never went for that reason. But God set me up, and he is Best Matchmaker ever.
God gave me what i asked for and more. Everything you said we went through I'm a witness
I totally agree with this teaching. My Love 💞 and I met according to this teaching.
@Eugenia Jones WOW! What a powerful testimony. How are things coming along? Are wedding bells in the near future? How long has it been since you guys met at the advocacy forum for the disabled?
@@robindear5043 Things are coming a long well as can be with God help, and guidance. We have been together for 11 years since 2009 and we have talked about taking the next step.
We have talked to the pastor. I think there will be future plans for us to be together. We have been through the Good, Bad and Ugly. Ups and Downs. We talked to the pastor before the covid 19 crisis. I didn't feel right and i told them that.
He got approval from my mother and from my dad and my dad passed the mantle to him and he has keep his promise to my parents. He called my mother "mom" and my dad "pops" my parents are not here anymore. But they are my guardian angels. And there with me all the time.
My love got approval from all that mattered my parents and most of God. God has a plan and he knows when we should come together like we would like. Thanks for asking and we still have the future to look forward too.
You nailed it. This is exactly how I've felt about falling in love. This is the natural order. That first throwback picture of you is hysterical. Was that shot from the early 90s??? LOL
Hey Mark, the timing of this video for me is mind blowing that it can't be coincidence. I've been praying for the past few days about whether God could be bringing my friend from church and I together. I totally didn't expect this, and either way, I am content if we just remain friends or become more than that. Can I ask for your prayers over this, that God's will be done between us? Thank you so much!
My story is a bit of a sad story. I've tried to let go of someone within what was mentioned. Did not expect myself to be interested in this person, and yet I thought because of the reasons mentioned, I felt a deep connection, alongside other factors. Now, it is 8 months since I last connected with this person, but can't seem to let go or move on from this person. Please pray for me, if anyone is reading because I've been through some dark nights. Thanks :)
Praying for you Sir.
@@marklowery9365 Thanks!
Did y’all reconnect?
@@Crybabycry884 she got married but I moved on/moving to LA for more dating opportunities (vs bay area for career opportunities ) lol
Wow! I met the guy I am seeing now without looking. It just kinda happened. I had no interest in him. We are focusing on friendship as we get to know each other. Big focus on getting to know each other. The more I get to know him, the more I like him. What is crazy is so many people are rooting for us to work out.
This is spot on! I met a guy in my acting class and we were paired together. Initially I thought there is no chance I would ever date him because I'm not looking for anyone right now, just focusing on me and my career. Although early 2021 I felt the Holy Spirit shifting me in ways to "prepare for my partner". Time went on and we spent more time rehearsing and just talking and it was with such ease that it caught us both completely off guard. In his presence I feel such a peace in my gut and all over me. Like I'm wrapped in a big hug from God whenever he's around. I knew from that very moment he was who God intended for me. And this video went through the 3 steps for me that actually happened
Congradulations on your,12years of marriage.
Idk how I got here but I cried 🤲🏾🙏🏽
Oh yeah like I met the girl I love at church, never thought I’ll meet someone there. She is so amazing And we are both on fire for Jesus🙏❤️
The same happened with my to be fiance now. We started as friends over the internet, I didn't even feel attracted to him physically (appearance), but after just 2 months of prayer and talking we were sure God was telling us two we are for each other. We are now "dating" since January 2019 and waiting for God's timing to get engaged and marry 😁🙏 God is good and will guide you 🙏
Also our relationship to each other and Jesus just increased more and more over this past year and a half and it's so full of love, patience, support, humbleness. It seems even like we arent even doing anything, it's like the Holy Spirit is bonding us 😍😍😍
Congratulations! Wishing you both the best!
did you guys get married?
@@alexa.sanchez yes haha, we have been married for over 2 years and have a 6 month old daughter 🥰 it's the best 😍
Very well spoken and clear, I agree totally,thank you for your message and time posting, amen and may God keep Blessing u also brother amen
Think you for this video came at the right time for me I ask God for an answer to a rightship and though this video he have answered my question and prayer. I will hold to what I know
I'm so glad it was timely for you!
This as happend to me we was firends now we are boyfriend and girlfriend and i am older him and i do not understand why and my last name peace 🙏god bless to you and your family
What a great looking family you have congratulations on 12 years of marriage and another great video
This message is for me. I just read 2 Tim 2, 2 days ago. My grandpa studied it with me and that verse stuck out to me. I do discern my heart though. Thanks for the video brotha Mark!
This was so eye-opening it's amazing, thanks Mark! God bless bro!
I'm so glad it was helpful!
I see these signs happening to me.
Wow...what a timing I must say..
Thank you Lord for bringing clarity..
🙏❤
Thanks. This can obfuscate one’s way of thinking about a person.
Well I have my desires and I want what I want
Thank you Pastor Mark, I think Im seeing this right now. Im 41yrs.
All of this signs just happened to me unexpectedly with my current boyfriend now, same as him he said to me when we're getting to know each other a couple of weeks before and were almost 1½ months, he is 13 years older in me. I'm currently 22 years old and he is 35 years old... And I never expect these great things that making me wonder how it happens so fast and thinking that all of this is impossible and unexpected because I wasn't ready entering relationship. He is my first boyfriend, but one thing I was really amazed is that the more days, and weeks passed, what I really feel for him keeps on growing even I didn't even know him yet because we meet in dating online... We have this both mutual feelings that keeps growing that starts with a friendships in that dating app we have alot in common but there's still have differences in all things... I really hope he is the one I've been waiting for a long time ❤️ the comfort the fear and pressure, all of negative things is the opposite feeling whenever im talking to him and I do keep on praying to God to guide the relationship that we have ❤️😇 this is the greatest gift i ever had so far.... And I am so thankful for that to the Lord ❤️ I feel safe to him like God makes me feel safe whenever I pray and talk to him❤️
Praise The Lord.... God bless U n ur beautiful Wife... 🙌🙌🙌
Oh My God!!!!! I'm crying cuz these are exactly what took place 7 months ago for me... I am giving God thanks!!!!!!!!!!! I met the person many years go but I just saying to myself nahhh I won't ever be with you don't see it happening... now look at us!!!!!! I can't fathom the hands of God he surely knows what he is doing even when we can't see it for ourself!!!!
Hi! That's amazing to hear! I wanted to point out that you shouldn't say God's name in vain. We want to respect His authority :)
@@tiffanyfarina4085 she didn't take his name in vain haha
@@ashleyseaboyer6284 umm clearly you don't know...🤦♀️🤷♂️
@@tiffanyfarina4085 I do know we aren't supposed to judge😉
@@ashleyseaboyer6284 we are called to judge righteously tho 😉 the term "oh my God" does put His name in vain. Do you hear anyone else saying, "oh my Muhammed?" or anything else? It's only God's name that's used in vain
You look good with long hair! God bless you and your family!
Well... I prayed about it... looked it up because I still wasn't sure... and these exact three points were the reasons I was unsure... I'm gonna give it a go; thanks!
Perfect info brother for exactly where God has me and a significant other right now in terms of our friendship and where it "subtlety" seems to be heading unforcfuly..All parts explained here have happened so this is definitely confirmation for Me to share with Her.
Thanks again and all glory be unto God.
Amen
Thank You 🙏🏽 4 Sharing Ur BEAUTIFUL STORY‼️‼️ PLEASE SAY A PRAYER 🙏🏽 4 SPIRITUAL JOURNEY ‼️ TY IN ADVANCE 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️‼️‼️‼️ STAY BLESSED ALWAYS ‼️‼️‼️
God bless!
I can recognize these signs in my relationship with my current boyfriend and best friend. We met when I was dating another guy (Eric) who he was friends with. I was 13 and my current boyfriend (Mike) was 14 at the time. We originally weren’t attracted to each other and often said that we wouldn’t date. Mike and I developed a friendship during late high school after being separated for over 2 years. For some reason Mike and I kept crossing paths, despite being in different classes and after school activities. One day I randomly got a call from an unknown contact in my phone. I was looking for a friend to just talk with after a fallout with another group of friends. We started talking regularly and hung out after school a few times. Two years of being close friends passed before we both realized we had romantic feelings for each other. Three years ago he asked me out and we’ve been dating ever since. ❤️😘
That's Amazing 😍❤️
KaoshiBeyonce Doll yes it is. Even Mike says that God played a role in us connecting. He says that there were too many factors that occurred in the order they did to say we met by chance. Even in our relationship, God has shown Himself through me, through things like me showing unconditional love and forgiveness to Mike always knowing how I’m thinking or feeling and how to cheer me up. I genuinely think Christ is calling Mike to Him daily.
Awesome!
@@jillianh7565Hello, I am a wonderful girl who is good for marriage and relationship
Amen Amen Amen God brought Alex into my life so unexpected I am telling you and our Christian lifestyles and values are the same Alex is Amazing
Exactly what happened with my bf and me. I had faced so much rejection because of my non-Christian past. I was content just meeting other people to be friends. When I first met him I told him right away I wasn't ready for a relationship and only wanted a friendship. A month later after our friendship had grown strong, I had a vision of marrying him. At the same time, the Holy Spirit spoke to him in a totally different city giving him the green light to ask me out. It has been the best relationship I've ever had, and I have no doubts God brought us together.
You should do a podcast on Spotify 🙂
Love the picture's Mark. Thank you for this message. You and Bethany are a lovely couple. ❤
HIS TIMING 😩❤️❤️❤️
Sun Flower Exactly ❤️
Guide me O Lord...have really struggled in finding a genuine marriage partner...only you can connect me to that man and fulfill my hearts desire...AMEN 🙏🙏
This makes me wonder if this is the case for one of my friends. We went to high school together & I never could see myself dating him back then or even being interested. I guess we’ll see where God leads but in the meantime I’m just liking getting to know him again as a friend.
Congrats on 12 years!
Wow I have had all 3 happen. I wanted to date or at least get to know each other and she resisted but 3 years later we're developing something I hope. We are united by our faith we go to the same Church. Finally now I'm working on her trying to be a kind, funny, confident man to win her over. I feel like I'm slowly getting there. I just want her to see our future relationship is based on God bringing us together. I'm not just some guy hitting on her. I pray over time she will get there. I care for her so much I want to have something beautiful with her. Please pray for us.
AMEN. Let God be true and every man a liar. Romans 3:4
No pressure but after months of implied interest enough is enough.
Another great video that I needed! I can't wait to meet the Christian guy God has for me and the love story God is writing.
Super! The best teaching on this topics. Laconic and all sufficient. Thanks! God bless 🙋♀️
Very accurate lesson
So glad you enjoyed this!
Regarding #1 beware the friend zone 😵💫
God Bless this word. Amen🙏🏿🙌🏿🌟
Yeah I’m deffo too shy to manufacture something so if I will meet someone one day it will completely have to be “random” , I’ll leave it to God , all I want is natural no pressure🌻
Just don't let your shyness stop you from engaging with people. Talk about the weather or the last book you read if you have to. God can and will bring people into your orbit and they may even initiate the conversation, but if you're too shy to show them your personality, most people will give up.
Miss Priss yeah, I what I means was that I wouldn’t be the type to intentionally date, I would rather it be something where we are literally just friends and then out of the blue we “catch feelings” ☺️☺️
I clicked on this on a whim but lol, this is so what happened with my boyfriend. We are only a few months in but we have been good friends for 7yrs, he is my first boyfriend, it just kinda fell together that way
yeah i never thought id find love a second time but i worked very hard in my reading of the new testament and my exercise that it finally happened i dont know if i can pull off a third one im not as strong as i was 20 years ago
I have met a woman which has been on Bible School in my church 3 years ago and I knew her on a superficial level and I never even considering the thought of being in relationship with her. However my surrounding friends and some of my family introduced the thought of me being together with her (and told me that they think that she is interested in me) as she attended a Conference in my church recently and I have experienced how God orchestrated everything so I had the opportunity to invite her out on a date. Since then we have kept the contact with one another and by the grace of God I could spontaneously attend a Conference which her church was a part of and we are now in a relationship. However she is not sure that I'm the one that God has for her so we take it slow and see where God leads us.
Sometimes I’m like,”Lord, I know you have the guy I’m suppose to be with to glorify you.” But then I’m like,”Lord I’m scared to date and I’m so insecure and xyz.” But my mom prayed over me when I was 13 for a godly man and I’m 22 now so if it is the Lord’s will He’ll help me through those insecurities and ungodly thoughts about me!
Ummm... working on your insecurities is your responsibility. It’s not fair to put that burden on your partner. I’ve learned this the hard way.
HueTubeR right. I don’t really want to date until I get that straightened out I’ve been working on my insecurities they’ve gotten better
@@CakesDontLie good for you. Good luck to all of us in this area.
Little Sis we have to work on ourselves with the help of the Lord. Read scriptures about what God says that you are. The Bible states that we are beautiful and wonderfully made. God brings two whole people together. Not two broken or one broken and one whole. That's not the way it works my Sister. The purpose of marriage is to do the Will and Work of the Lord together. God gives the man the vision. We are the helpmeet to that vision given to him by God. That is the purpose. You're only 22 so you are still young. I would suggest truly focus on getting my education, then employment. I would keep occupied by working in the church serving the Lord. He will come when the time is right. Marriage is work. It's 2 people becoming 1 to serve the Lord. When I was your age, I purchased 2 books by Dr. Myles Munroe. Understanding the Purpose and Power of Men. Understanding the Purpose and Power of woman. I would also suggest attending singles class. If a person can not commit to God during their single years, one will not be able to handle the marriage years. When I was your age, after researching marriage and the standards/requirements God expects... I was like no way! Now, you may not feel that way after researching God's requirements and expectations. Marriage is way way more than just a wedding ceremony. I say all that in love and experience. I am twice your age and still waiting patiently. Be encouraged! Be Blessed!!! Praying for you! 🙏
Thank you again, Mark. It confirms the truth again and again about him. Thanks.
Pray for me and my ex husband to get back. I still love him and I believe we will be together aging and for good. Amem!
I really like this godly women; she keeps ignoring me likes she's always to busy for me, sometimes I feel she's like very rude towards me; can you pray for me, I'm confused.God let me know what to do!!
She isnt for you, judge people by their acts not for what they say.
Just timely God bless
I am really blessed by this video. Thank you so much ❤️