Strange behaviour from the daughter. She needs to understand her mother more. Should’ve called the police on the grandparents for intruding or trespassing on property. Or send the daughter off to live with the grandparents to see what he mother had it like, she might understand it more. He had the right to scream at his daughter, but the daughter clearly got manipulated by the grandparents. Daughter understands her actions and the punishment fits the cause. Being 16 and not understanding this is immature behaviour, honestly strange.
the "parents" most likely took advantage of her being so naïve, but I can't understand how she thought it'd be a good idea to contact them knowing that her mom is still in therapy because of what they did.
As a disabled person myself, that girl is burned out, and I dislike her behavior too, but she was denied a childhood or being a teenager because of the consequences of the actions of her mother, she was a child, and even though she should help, she should not be the caretaker. Let alone the money that was rightfully hers, the mother and the father of the baby are the ones with the responsibility to pay for that daughter, not the child support that was for op, op also mentioned how her mother would take her stuff without asking and sell them. That is not fair at all with her, she also deserves a life and a childhood, not to be responsible for other adults mistakes
I agree; but I still don’t think she should leave her sister to suffer. The sister was born innocent into the situation. Where is her dad? The grown ups need to handle their own crap.
@@kaylahall1219 Truth, but as far as we know the mother has not been abusive with the disable daughter, and no one else is willing to take care of her or apparently even help, the mother burned all her bridges herself, and regardless of the country, leaving her in the hands of the state is not the best option. Also, depending on the country, the mother can get a paternity test and demand child support for the rest of the life of the daughter.
The daughter in the first story the daughter triggers my anxiety. I am also suffering from PTSD from childhood trauma, and I don't have a child yet, and my biggest fear is having a child who will betray me in this way.
I wouldn’t worry about it, sometimes kids make mistakes, and sometimes their really fucking big ones, but all you can do is do your best to raise them right, and that kid should be fine. That’s also a part of parenting unfortunately, kids are, at the end of the day, still people with free will, they will do stupid shit, but you just have to hope and pray that they’ll turn out just fine. And if you’re good parent (as I’m sure you will be), then your kid should turn out great
There are steps that can be takee re n to prevent what the first daughter fid. They should have trusted the daughter with the full details of the abuse when she first started asking about her grandparents. A 16 yo is old enough to understand. I have childhood trauma PTSD, too. And I have children. It is hard to sever and change generational abuse. But it can be done. Children make mistakes. All you can do is teach them, and hope they follow Jesus Christ.
That’s so messed up. My mom’s dad is a shitty person. My mom has 4 sisters (3 of them triplets and my mom is a twin) and her dad left after they were born. I think he died. But, I know nothing about him. Because it’s so traumatic. I don’t blame her, my dad doesn’t even know and they have been married for almost 20 years. God, I’m glad I have actually good parents
I am 64 yo and also have PTSD from my childhood. I am still in therapy! My therapist and God is helping me a lot. I still have many nightmares and my husband and son hear me screaming and wake me up. I thank God there was no sexual abuse. However, I am shaking just by writing this.
I’m so sorry to read this… The one thing I don’t understand after all your suffering you still believe in god, I respect everyone’s beliefs/religion but being raised atheist while learning about religions across the world, I still can’t understand why people do believe in god. If he does exist, then why does he let all those terrible things happen to good, kind and innocent people? I’ve tried to figure it out for 20 yrs now and I still don’t understand. All I do understand that there are pure good people, pure evil people and good people who turn evil after trauma they went through which doesn’t justify it at all. And then there are those traumatised good people who keep spreading love and kindness and say “I want no one ever to go through what I went through ever again!” But I am relieved you have the support of your husband, son and therapist, I truly hope from the bottom of my heart you’ll find some peace of mind one day ❤️🩹😘
I greatly appreciate your thoughtful response, thank you. I still believe in God because He did not create my childhood. I blame Satan. God gave us all Free Will. That means we can freely do good or evil. Looking back He was always with me and helped me more times than I know. I was the oldest of 4 children and one brother and I are 14 months apart. We clung to each other and still do! In fact while texting this, I just got a text from him telling me his plane landed safely and he’s at the motel (on business). Growing up the way we did made us NEVER hurt our children like we were! There is our Free Will. My brother and I are both Christians, and his wife is my best friend and my husband is his. God gave us strength, determination, and love. I sincerely hope this makes a little bit of sense to you. Thank you, again. ❤️🙏🏼
@@mahismelodies3685 yeah well she is not a child she is almost a full grown adult and still acts like a toddler and she now needs therapy bc her dad yelled at her so yeah send her to live with them for a month or so
@@THY_LEMON_LORD Making her a better version of herself? She's 16, she knew better, she understood the situation and still opened that door. Call me petty and cruel but some people need to witness things for their own eyes to understand the gravity of a situation.
Bro the grandparents were ABUSIVE, knowingly giving the daughter to them is CHILD ENDANGERMENT that is a fucking crime. I don't care if it will make her "better" it'll just traumatise her and make her completely hate her parents for putting her through that.
I have the feeling that the parents in order to protect her ended up sheltering her, that comment of "I didn't think someone related to us could be so bad" sounds like she is too separated from reality, that gives the open for the grandparents to manipulate her
everyone saying "force the daughter to live with the grandparents" are horrible. the daughter made a poor choice, she does not deserve literal abuse as a punishment. that makes zero sense. one of the reasons they kept the kids from the mothers parents was to protect the kids from abuse. the daughter was also clearly manipulated by the grandparents
Good afternoon from Mississippi!! Story 1 - you were not to hard on your daughter. Considering the circumstances you should be applauded for standing up for your wife, understanding, being her rock. Your daughter made a bad judgment call she hopefully regrets. Like your wife said, she’ll have to earn trust back. Glad you’re taking it all seriously and getting therapy. God bless. Story 2 - you are young, you may see things different later in your adult life. For now, I’m glad you have people in your life that make you feel loved. Sounds like you have a great dad that loves you. It was wrong that you had to give up your childhood to be a caregiver at such a young age. That in itself is hard for an adult at times. I think you’ll be fine since you’re prob mature for your age and you’ll be surrounded with love and affection. I can’t help but wonder about your mom’s family….that is your family too. Why weren’t they there for you? Regardless of how they felt towards your mom and your sister, it left you by yourself. I’m sorry, but they should be ashamed of themselves as well as your mom, knowing you were just a child yourself with a heavy weight on your shoulders and not helping out. Good luck to you on your new adventure on dad’s side of life. God Bless!
Women in general have the capacity to be petty, which means women who cheat, will be petty. Who knows what she would've done had they tried to intervene. Look at what she tried to do to the dad everytime he has to parent his daughter and her petty effn mother. Women are more prone to causing as much grief and destruction as possible if she (is/feels) scorned, and collateral damage is barely considered even in the devastating aftermath. How many women weaponize children to get back at the fathers? You think they prioritize what's best for her children? Especially if she's selfish enough to cheat? Answers not difficult. But for some reason women will assume guys in general only want women for one thing, before they even consider women being capable of the callous things they do, and it's always too late by the time they "come to their senses". That's why things are so bad and no one knows what to do, assuming they intend to do anything at all. Answers don't align with their core narratives. So there's your answer boss man assuming you wanted actual answers instead of just being rhetorical 😂
In my country when you are a kid you don’t butt into adult issues. We are to eat food and watch kids show. We weren’t to butt into grown up business or we get whoopass.
All I know is that, that ain’t my child no more. She can leave😂🙏🏽 EDIT: Yeah that was kinda rude, but she’s 16 she’s old enough to know right from wrong. Soo..
There's only so much you can excuse from a teenager. Bringing her evil grandparents in and indirectly causing her mother to get stitches is not one of those things.
I think he should have coldly and explicitly described the exact events of abuse to the daughter when she first started asking about her grandparents. She is old enough to know the full story, and there is counseling for second hand trauma.
Rest of the story: So basically the dad brings his daughter into her room and tells her about all of the bad things the moms parents did, like almost killing her during thanksgiving. Then the story jumps up to the moms birthday and the dads parents and the moms sister are there, then there is a knock at the door and the older sister goes to open it. The dad assumes it was just one of her friend until they get into the living room, revealing that it was the evil in-laws. Turns out the older daughter got into contact with them and thought that they sounded like nice people, either way the dad tells them to leave and when they don’t, the dad and other grandpa try to kick him out. Somehow the mom gets pushed into a wall and got taken to the hospital. The dad confronts the daughter and takes away her phone and grounds her until the mom regains her trust. They also filed a police report and restraining order against the evil in-laws.
Story 1: 16yr olds always think they know better than everyone else. She has to live with the pain and damage she’s caused now so she will definitely need therapy. Story 2. I don’t blame the kid for wanting to be happy and live his own life. Mum was so focused on the disabled daughter that she didn’t have time for her other child and used him as a caregiver and robbed him of his childhood. Fly away to college, be with your Dad, live your life and most importantly be happy.
I too have PTSD from the exact same lifestyle your wife had. For yrs I needed no pity because I had enough for myself. I was beaten into submission to the point I kept my mouth shut through it all. I was in my early 40’s and I let go of all that pain and hurt. Well most of it anyway. I still have a wounded little girl inside of me but one thing they couldn’t do is break me to the ground because every time they knocked me down I got right back up. I refused to let their abuse take the goodness I carried away from me. I raised myself from 13 and I brought myself up with respect for myself and others. My family knew the abuse but never did anything about it. I had to run to save myself so I did. Tell your wife there’s always going to be a wounded little girl inside of her too but that it’s ok. That the wounded little girl will get better and she won’t hurt so much anymore. When I look back to those days I choose to look at the good times and let the bad times live where they are and should always remain. In the past…. The absolute best to your wife and the hurt child she carries. One day the burden will be lifted I promise you… You’ll be fine.. ❤
Shame on daughter but... She is so sheltered that she has no understanding of emotional or physical abuse. It's great to break the cycle and I hope she never finds out. She should have trusted her parents. They have kept her safe this long daughter should recognize it.
My brothers wife has lived with us longer then she’s lived with her family. It disgusts us that she still wants them over or to go over. When they kicked her out penniless and she’s been under our parents care since she was 17. They weren’t there for the birth of my nephew. They weren’t there for the marriage. My parents helped her get her GED her DL. She’s been apart of my family longer then she’s been in hers. And it disgusts us that she still holds love and locality to people who didn’t care for her like we have
I have not experienced this personally but understand the anger you all feel, I'm not trying to diminish it, it is beautiful that you & your family have been there for her. I will say that truama is a very difficult thing, some of us grow from it, others of us are stunted (grow & stunted to various degrees), no matter what it remains a part of us for the rest of our lives. The love your family has shown to her is truly wonderful & perhaps because your family sees value & worth she may be hopeful that one day the people who are supposed to live her most will one day see it. Perhaps she needs answers as to why, idk if she has siblings but that could also make things more confusing and painful. For these reasons & many more are why adopted children seek out the parents who gave them up. Human beings are complicated we seek answers, some of us self medicate, others allow ourselves to be abused, are toilets for those in our lives, we have little tonno self-worth. While others of us are well put together human beings who only offer love & compassion. All you & yoir family can do is love her & pray that one day those wounds will heal & the love she receives from all of you & Our CREATOR will be enough. Perhaps it may help to recognize what makes you h your family love her, likely because she is a good person h treats your brother, you & your family well be grateful her pain hasn't caused her to be an awful person, it is an easy thing to become. Your families anger may be understandable but only serves to poison all of you, in doing so her family has claimed ithers victims, don't allow yourself to be their victims. I pray for healing for all of you.
So I just watched this short. And no, you are not the jerk because those those people were abusive that girl does not need that in her life. Tell her why like she deserves to know. But I have any and watch one second to this video I only watch the short and you are not the jerk
The 2nd story is in for a rude awakening! It’s NOT going to be a bed of roses like she thinks! & Daddy just might NOT want to deal with her 24/7 like her Mom has for so many years! Weekend visits are WAY different than 24/7!!
1st Story - Wowowowwww 🥺 I wish teenagers would just LISTEN sometimes .. like that’s your mommy frfr ! she’s been there for you since before you even came into the world and you betrayed her because you LET your *16 y/o* feelings take over .. you broke a bond with your MOM (and dad for that matter) .. also it’s not like only the mom told you .. the mom AND dad told you .. and you can see that your aunt and your cousins do not speak with maternal grandparents either !! just some real bullshit on the daughter’s part. 16 is very much old enough to understand that it’s for your own good .. then not only did you contact but you invited them and LET THEM IN to your MOTHER AND FATHER’s HOME !! so disrespectful , irresponsible , and inconsiderate .. not to mention *again* sooo fkn untrustworthy .. sorry y’all - this one really made me angry .. like I’m so triggered because my daughter better know tf better as a teenager when she gets there than to undermine my decisions about our families’ wellbeing , mental health , safety and security !! 😤💯💯
Wait a minute please tell me people didn’t rally around this little shit of a daughter in the second story. First I don’t believe the dad doesn’t say anything negative about the mother, I think he’s passive aggressive when it comes to her. At least from what the story describes. The whole there’s nothing to be done, we just have to wait. If your child was so miserable why not sue for more custody? Why not try getting more weekends, and the whole summer? Because, it suits the father more to revel in this child’s hatred for their mother. Second you’ve been wearing the same clothes at home for three years, what do you wear when you’re out? Do you have new stuff for school, or when you go in public? Third, how exactly if your father suffered from an addiction do you know your parents were great before they divorced? And although cheating is terrible, there was a reason the mother cheated, and decided not to give up your sister. Fourth, how can you say your sister is worthless, it’s not her fault she’s disabled, she also didn’t ruin your childhood, it was your mothers and father who should have seen you get a proper childhood. Where was dad to make sure you had piano lessons or basket ball? Just because he wasn’t involved in the affair baby’s life why didn’t he make sure you had, or is that supposed to be all on mom as well with child support? Lastly even if you are burned out and resentful you wish your mother who sounds like she also takes care of your sister, and your disabled sister becomes homeless? What kind of an asshole wishes that on anyone especially a severely disabled person? Thats like wishing death upon them. I’m not saying mom is innocent, but your father could have been in your life more. The got full custody is an excuse. Plenty of fathers remain fully in their child’s life after a divorce. I think OP’s father and father’s friends are poisoning your mind a bit, but hey go live with dad let’s see now that you’re 18 how long that lasts. Who knows maybe karma will come back and put you in the spot you wished for your disabled sister.
So far I’m not impressed with the 2nd story! Her sister is here for a reason & is NOT worthless! She’s just too young to understand anything mature, but sounds like a spoiled brat! 🤦♀️
I only have one set of grandparents for kind of the same reason, my dads mom was mentally insane and my dads dad has been won over by my dad idiotic brother.
For the last story... I'm not upset at the OP for hating their half sister. It sounds like they cannot communicate with her, and that OP was used as a caretaker rather than being allowed to live as a child. Money that was meant for OP to have supplies for SCHOOL, to STUDY, to do HOMEWORK were being both not purchased and SOLD by their mom if it was ever brought home. They didn't let OP get new clothes, they only let them go to college because the mom thought they would still get a free care taker. If being a care taker of a severely disabled person is hard for an adult, why would it be remotely okay to expect OP to be a care taker? How can anyone expect OP to care about their sibling? I'm sorry, but when you are treated like a care taker rather than someones child, or someones sibling- you are no longer the moms child nor the innocent siblings family. The two individuals are now thoughts that bring only pain and trauma, or rage.
My thoughts on the first story. I can see where the daughter was coming from (kind of). I think the only way the parents could have done better, and this isn't saying they did the wrong thing, was to teach her about PTSD and how to respect it. And teach her things like if you are unsure who's in the right, always side with the victim. How evil can look like love. What a fake apology looks like and why. Teach her to understand trauma without giving her trauma. But this is a 'hindsight is 20/20' thing and I believe they did the best they knew how. I wasn't taught all that stuff at 16 either. I honestly believe the daughter was behaving out of ignorance, not malicious intent because she didn't understand how trauma actually works. How, even if things had somehow not been as bad as the mom and aunt said, it was close enough that the grandparents don't deserve to share their side. Like i said though, i don't think the parents could have reasonably done better to prevent this but i also think this was not in the daughter's normal behavior pattern if she had truly unstood trauma. But the parents did not mishandle this situation. If anything, i think the parents handled it better than i would have. Cause if someone pushed my wife like that, free trauma for everyone and jail time for me.
I understand curiosity and the resolve to act on it. But was the mother so bad that she just couldn't trust her completely? If the mother was so good or even just good enough, same question applies.
@@Yo99753At hindsight, maybe she has the makings of being abusive. She may have been brought up in a loving environment. But like some "psychos" out there, for some reason (there's something organically wrong with her; genetic disposition; whatever), it comes out anyway. The curiosity contributed or led to the trigger somehow.
@@thegamereviewers1487Wouldn't you resent the person who basically resulted in you having all of your liberties taken away for your entire childhood? OOP doesn't even hate the sister, just resents how the mother treats OOP like shit
@@gorbonfree8245 I don’t know what you’re talking about. She literally says I hate my sister while she hates her mother more. There should be no resentment to the sister. It is completely not her fault. The mom is just a giant piece of shit. She never should have talked about her sister that way
I think punishing the daughter was a horrible decision, considering the daughter was going through a rough time as well, imagine getting manipulated by your moms abusive grandparents and have them come over and give you mother ptsd, you wouldn’t be all happy about it, I have a stepmother who has MS (a nerve disorder) and I see her crying all the time, and every wrong thing I do around her makes me feel like I deserve hell, being a teen with a parent that you actually care about having such a terrible time is not something that you can easily go through. It’s terrible
Let's not forget the fact that due to the daughter her mom almost died and even when the dad explained what happened the daughter still decided to be a fucking delusional dickhead and invite those in law parents and if you're as delusional as the girl you're no better than her look I'm sorry for your mom but I still doesn't change the fact you support the girl
The daughter was the one who reached out first, several times, even after being told about her mom’s abuse. In fact, it’s probably not enough. If I did that to my parents, I would’ve been beaten to a pulp.
the daughter is definitely in the wrong but I think should have gotten less punishment NOW THAT MAY SEEM LIKE A BID STUPID IDEA but hear meh out her intentions were good and (most likely) had never seen her mom get have a panic attack (or anything to extreme from remembering how her treated her) and social media might seem fair but she cant talck to her frends or anyone except Family when not in school BUT WHAT THEY SHUD HAVE DONE ISSSSS monitoring her when she uses her screen and set specific times for when she can use it try to get the mom's parents in jail for child abuse
Ok so i feel like he definitely went too far, she didn't understand what she was doing was wrong, yea you told her but she's still just a teenager who doesn't understand that she doesn't know everything I don't think screaming really helps anyone, as a teenager when i get screamed at it doesn't help the matter it literally only makes me feel like shit, which as a parent shouldn't be your goal, you should educate and correct your kids not put them down, nobody deserves to be screamed at especially not at a young and impressionable age
@@ublu3631 ok all I said was he went too far, I'm 17 and can tell you that even while being older, being screamed at by my parents literally doesn't help at all And I understand that what she did was wrong and her understandings were fundamentally flawed but isn't that the parents fault if they sheltered her that much
@@michaelbalog7409 I don’t really know about that He quite literally told her that they almost killed her mother and her then give them their location and address that led to her mother being sent to the hospital Like I’m 16 I don’t think constantly yelling at little problems but this is something else like if I did something as retarded like she did I’d be surprised if I wasn’t hit across the cheek like they gave her mom PTSD
@@ublu3631 I knew what abuse violence death before I turned six I learnt what death was very early. I owe my fighting skills to practising with my brother when I was 4/5 and don’t when I was eight I knew what sex is I knew what trauma was from school which I don’t remember half of the incident from that school because half of its repressed
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Damn the adoption center is looking real fine right now
I wonder if they give refunds?
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Strange behaviour from the daughter. She needs to understand her mother more. Should’ve called the police on the grandparents for intruding or trespassing on property. Or send the daughter off to live with the grandparents to see what he mother had it like, she might understand it more. He had the right to scream at his daughter, but the daughter clearly got manipulated by the grandparents. Daughter understands her actions and the punishment fits the cause. Being 16 and not understanding this is immature behaviour, honestly strange.
They stated that the police is way to far to be called and that it was no use.
@@FlouriluminecentSand wrote this comment before I heard that part
@Ilikecats9933 Yeah, that’s actually going to work best
the "parents" most likely took advantage of her being so naïve, but I can't understand how she thought it'd be a good idea to contact them knowing that her mom is still in therapy because of what they did.
@@eatinglint Kids can be super stupid and unaware, this is a key example of that.
Why are these so addicting 😭
I know right?
I don’t know…..I listen to them on the way to my summer job (30 minutes away)
So true
Hi i remember you! Love your channel!!
@@Luci-morningstar-- snuf* REALLY??? *Explodes
I wouldn’t have threatened charges. I would have actually pressed charges
They did…?
@@LettuceWithLegs yeah I didn’t watch the full vid before commenting and forgot to delete it lol
LITERALLY !! like wtf
As a disabled person myself, that girl is burned out, and I dislike her behavior too, but she was denied a childhood or being a teenager because of the consequences of the actions of her mother, she was a child, and even though she should help, she should not be the caretaker. Let alone the money that was rightfully hers, the mother and the father of the baby are the ones with the responsibility to pay for that daughter, not the child support that was for op, op also mentioned how her mother would take her stuff without asking and sell them. That is not fair at all with her, she also deserves a life and a childhood, not to be responsible for other adults mistakes
I agree; but I still don’t think she should leave her sister to suffer. The sister was born innocent into the situation. Where is her dad? The grown ups need to handle their own crap.
@@kaylahall1219 Truth, but as far as we know the mother has not been abusive with the disable daughter, and no one else is willing to take care of her or apparently even help, the mother burned all her bridges herself, and regardless of the country, leaving her in the hands of the state is not the best option. Also, depending on the country, the mother can get a paternity test and demand child support for the rest of the life of the daughter.
The daughter in the first story the daughter triggers my anxiety. I am also suffering from PTSD from childhood trauma, and I don't have a child yet, and my biggest fear is having a child who will betray me in this way.
It's alright he or she won't betray you if you raise them right
@@jihaanmparekh4380but the thing is that the parents in the video raised their child “right” as you could hear in the beginning…
I wouldn’t worry about it, sometimes kids make mistakes, and sometimes their really fucking big ones, but all you can do is do your best to raise them right, and that kid should be fine. That’s also a part of parenting unfortunately, kids are, at the end of the day, still people with free will, they will do stupid shit, but you just have to hope and pray that they’ll turn out just fine. And if you’re good parent (as I’m sure you will be), then your kid should turn out great
There are steps that can be takee re n to prevent what the first daughter fid. They should have trusted the daughter with the full details of the abuse when she first started asking about her grandparents. A 16 yo is old enough to understand.
I have childhood trauma PTSD, too. And I have children. It is hard to sever and change generational abuse. But it can be done. Children make mistakes. All you can do is teach them, and hope they follow Jesus Christ.
the daughter in the first story is incredibly naive. I hope she learned her lesson.
That’s so messed up. My mom’s dad is a shitty person. My mom has 4 sisters (3 of them triplets and my mom is a twin) and her dad left after they were born. I think he died. But, I know nothing about him. Because it’s so traumatic. I don’t blame her, my dad doesn’t even know and they have been married for almost 20 years. God, I’m glad I have actually good parents
Triplets + twins is amazing!
Bro what did the stepfather do to almost die in thanksgiving 💀🙏 bro was NOT thankful
Nah fr
You are never entitled to someone else’s pain. Period.
I am 64 yo and also have PTSD
from my childhood. I am still in therapy! My therapist and God is helping me a lot. I still have many nightmares and my husband and son hear me screaming and wake me up. I thank God there was no sexual abuse. However, I am shaking just by writing this.
I’m so sorry to read this… The one thing I don’t understand after all your suffering you still believe in god, I respect everyone’s beliefs/religion but being raised atheist while learning about religions across the world, I still can’t understand why people do believe in god. If he does exist, then why does he let all those terrible things happen to good, kind and innocent people? I’ve tried to figure it out for 20 yrs now and I still don’t understand. All I do understand that there are pure good people, pure evil people and good people who turn evil after trauma they went through which doesn’t justify it at all. And then there are those traumatised good people who keep spreading love and kindness and say “I want no one ever to go through what I went through ever again!”
But I am relieved you have the support of your husband, son and therapist, I truly hope from the bottom of my heart you’ll find some peace of mind one day ❤️🩹😘
I greatly appreciate your thoughtful response, thank you.
I still believe in God because He did not create my childhood. I blame Satan. God gave us all Free Will. That means we can freely do good or evil. Looking back He was always with me and helped me more times than I know. I was the oldest of 4 children and one brother and I are 14 months apart. We clung to each other and still do! In fact while texting this, I just got a text from him telling me his plane landed safely and he’s at the motel (on business). Growing up the way we did made us NEVER hurt our children like we were! There is our Free Will. My brother and I are both Christians, and his wife is my best friend and my husband is his. God gave us strength, determination, and love. I sincerely hope this makes a little bit of sense to you. Thank you, again. ❤️🙏🏼
@@biendereviereplease see my explanation above. I totally understand where you are coming from and thank you! 😊
Send your daughter to live with them. She is as horrible as they are.
She us a child are you crazy
@@mahismelodies3685nah she thought they were sooo nice let her live with them for a little bit eh
@@Islamic-_-2011 I think she learnt her lesson when her mom got stitches jeez
@@mahismelodies3685 yeah well she is not a child she is almost a full grown adult and still acts like a toddler and she now needs therapy bc her dad yelled at her so yeah send her to live with them for a month or so
@@adcr7713WELL I DONT THINK SHE SHOULD CUZ THEY MANIPULATED HER
Force the daughter to live with the grandparents for a bit, then she'll understand what the mother went through.
why do you need to inflict more trauma so someone can understand another’s instead of just making her be a better version of herself
@@THY_LEMON_LORD Making her a better version of herself? She's 16, she knew better, she understood the situation and still opened that door. Call me petty and cruel but some people need to witness things for their own eyes to understand the gravity of a situation.
@@beautifulrose3038 Exactly. This can also be compared to like for example if you had a bully you would wish they would experience being bullied too.
Bro the grandparents were ABUSIVE, knowingly giving the daughter to them is CHILD ENDANGERMENT that is a fucking crime. I don't care if it will make her "better" it'll just traumatise her and make her completely hate her parents for putting her through that.
@@Uuu999oooppp Again, they're 16.
I have the feeling that the parents in order to protect her ended up sheltering her, that comment of "I didn't think someone related to us could be so bad" sounds like she is too separated from reality, that gives the open for the grandparents to manipulate her
Y’all should’ve jumped the father in law. Bro thinks he’s the shit? Let’s see what he does when he’s getting combo’ed on like Yuji and Todo vs Mahito.
Damn
everyone saying "force the daughter to live with the grandparents" are horrible. the daughter made a poor choice, she does not deserve literal abuse as a punishment. that makes zero sense. one of the reasons they kept the kids from the mothers parents was to protect the kids from abuse. the daughter was also clearly manipulated by the grandparents
The facade the FIL and MIL held was immediately disintegrated.
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Story 1 - you were not to hard on your daughter. Considering the circumstances you should be applauded for standing up for your wife, understanding, being her rock. Your daughter made a bad judgment call she hopefully regrets. Like your wife said, she’ll have to earn trust back. Glad you’re taking it all seriously and getting therapy. God bless.
Story 2 - you are young, you may see things different later in your adult life. For now, I’m glad you have people in your life that make you feel loved. Sounds like you have a great dad that loves you. It was wrong that you had to give up your childhood to be a caregiver at such a young age. That in itself is hard for an adult at times. I think you’ll be fine since you’re prob mature for your age and you’ll be surrounded with love and affection. I can’t help but wonder about your mom’s family….that is your family too. Why weren’t they there for you? Regardless of how they felt towards your mom and your sister, it left you by yourself. I’m sorry, but they should be ashamed of themselves as well as your mom, knowing you were just a child yourself with a heavy weight on your shoulders and not helping out. Good luck to you on your new adventure on dad’s side of life. God Bless!
Women in general have the capacity to be petty, which means women who cheat, will be petty. Who knows what she would've done had they tried to intervene. Look at what she tried to do to the dad everytime he has to parent his daughter and her petty effn mother. Women are more prone to causing as much grief and destruction as possible if she (is/feels) scorned, and collateral damage is barely considered even in the devastating aftermath. How many women weaponize children to get back at the fathers? You think they prioritize what's best for her children? Especially if she's selfish enough to cheat? Answers not difficult. But for some reason women will assume guys in general only want women for one thing, before they even consider women being capable of the callous things they do, and it's always too late by the time they "come to their senses". That's why things are so bad and no one knows what to do, assuming they intend to do anything at all. Answers don't align with their core narratives. So there's your answer boss man assuming you wanted actual answers instead of just being rhetorical 😂
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In my country when you are a kid you don’t butt into adult issues. We are to eat food and watch kids show. We weren’t to butt into grown up business or we get whoopass.
Sounds good, tbh
Story 1: daughter isn't spoiled. She is a narcissist with no empathy and a savior complex.
... she is just a kid that thought she could make everything OK by power of friendship , what is normal for a kid that was shelterd from bad things
or she is a naive 16 yearold who grew up very sheltered
Stepfather: I'm a great parent
Also stepfather: **pushed his stepdaso she needed a stitches**
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I feel bad for the sister in the second story even though it hurt op
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i feel bad for op more tho
Be quite
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Family therapy including the aunt is the best for a beginning
All I know is that, that ain’t my child no more. She can leave😂🙏🏽
EDIT: Yeah that was kinda rude, but she’s 16 she’s old enough to know right from wrong. Soo..
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There's only so much you can excuse from a teenager. Bringing her evil grandparents in and indirectly causing her mother to get stitches is not one of those things.
I think he should have coldly and explicitly described the exact events of abuse to the daughter when she first started asking about her grandparents. She is old enough to know the full story, and there is counseling for second hand trauma.
*aggressive sniff*
What’s that I smell? Is it… adoption?
Yeah, press charges and get protection orders for you, your wife, and your kids. Those are some INSANE and sick grandparents!
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My heart hurts so bad for OP's wife Q_Q
It's really devastating when your child or a child in the family grows up to be a monster
Rest of the story:
So basically the dad brings his daughter into her room and tells her about all of the bad things the moms parents did, like almost killing her during thanksgiving. Then the story jumps up to the moms birthday and the dads parents and the moms sister are there, then there is a knock at the door and the older sister goes to open it. The dad assumes it was just one of her friend until they get into the living room, revealing that it was the evil in-laws. Turns out the older daughter got into contact with them and thought that they sounded like nice people, either way the dad tells them to leave and when they don’t, the dad and other grandpa try to kick him out. Somehow the mom gets pushed into a wall and got taken to the hospital. The dad confronts the daughter and takes away her phone and grounds her until the mom regains her trust. They also filed a police report and restraining order against the evil in-laws.
Story 1: 16yr olds always think they know better than everyone else. She has to live with the pain and damage she’s caused now so she will definitely need therapy.
Story 2. I don’t blame the kid for wanting to be happy and live his own life. Mum was so focused on the disabled daughter that she didn’t have time for her other child and used him as a caregiver and robbed him of his childhood. Fly away to college, be with your Dad, live your life and most importantly be happy.
She's is so easy to get involved with this'll awful people.
I think you handled it VERY WELL! Maybe she should spend 2 weeks to 2 months with your wife’s parents & see what her Mom went through!
I too have PTSD from the exact same lifestyle your wife had. For yrs I needed no pity because I had enough for myself. I was beaten into submission to the point I kept my mouth shut through it all. I was in my early 40’s and I let go of all that pain and hurt. Well most of it anyway. I still have a wounded little girl inside of me but one thing they couldn’t do is break me to the ground because every time they knocked me down I got right back up. I refused to let their abuse take the goodness I carried away from me. I raised myself from 13 and I brought myself up with respect for myself and others. My family knew the abuse but never did anything about it. I had to run to save myself so I did. Tell your wife there’s always going to be a wounded little girl inside of her too but that it’s ok. That the wounded little girl will get better and she won’t hurt so much anymore. When I look back to those days I choose to look at the good times and let the bad times live where they are and should always remain. In the past…. The absolute best to your wife and the hurt child she carries. One day the burden will be lifted I promise you… You’ll be fine.. ❤
Shame on daughter but... She is so sheltered that she has no understanding of emotional or physical abuse. It's great to break the cycle and I hope she never finds out. She should have trusted her parents. They have kept her safe this long daughter should recognize it.
My brothers wife has lived with us longer then she’s lived with her family. It disgusts us that she still wants them over or to go over. When they kicked her out penniless and she’s been under our parents care since she was 17. They weren’t there for the birth of my nephew. They weren’t there for the marriage. My parents helped her get her GED her DL. She’s been apart of my family longer then she’s been in hers. And it disgusts us that she still holds love and locality to people who didn’t care for her like we have
I have not experienced this personally but understand the anger you all feel, I'm not trying to diminish it, it is beautiful that you & your family have been there for her. I will say that truama is a very difficult thing, some of us grow from it, others of us are stunted (grow & stunted to various degrees), no matter what it remains a part of us for the rest of our lives. The love your family has shown to her is truly wonderful & perhaps because your family sees value & worth she may be hopeful that one day the people who are supposed to live her most will one day see it. Perhaps she needs answers as to why, idk if she has siblings but that could also make things more confusing and painful. For these reasons & many more are why adopted children seek out the parents who gave them up.
Human beings are complicated we seek answers, some of us self medicate, others allow ourselves to be abused, are toilets for those in our lives, we have little tonno self-worth. While others of us are well put together human beings who only offer love & compassion. All you & yoir family can do is love her & pray that one day those wounds will heal & the love she receives from all of you & Our CREATOR will be enough. Perhaps it may help to recognize what makes you h your family love her, likely because she is a good person h treats your brother, you & your family well be grateful her pain hasn't caused her to be an awful person, it is an easy thing to become. Your families anger may be understandable but only serves to poison all of you, in doing so her family has claimed ithers victims, don't allow yourself to be their victims. I pray for healing for all of you.
Am I the only one who’s been watching loads of theses 😂
So I just watched this short. And no, you are not the jerk because those those people were abusive that girl does not need that in her life. Tell her why like she deserves to know. But I have any and watch one second to this video I only watch the short and you are not the jerk
The 2nd story is in for a rude awakening! It’s NOT going to be a bed of roses like she thinks! & Daddy just might NOT want to deal with her 24/7 like her Mom has for so many years! Weekend visits are WAY different than 24/7!!
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1st Story - Wowowowwww 🥺 I wish teenagers would just LISTEN sometimes .. like that’s your mommy frfr ! she’s been there for you since before you even came into the world and you betrayed her because you LET your *16 y/o* feelings take over .. you broke a bond with your MOM (and dad for that matter) .. also it’s not like only the mom told you .. the mom AND dad told you .. and you can see that your aunt and your cousins do not speak with maternal grandparents either !! just some real bullshit on the daughter’s part. 16 is very much old enough to understand that it’s for your own good .. then not only did you contact but you invited them and LET THEM IN to your MOTHER AND FATHER’s HOME !! so disrespectful , irresponsible , and inconsiderate .. not to mention *again* sooo fkn untrustworthy .. sorry y’all - this one really made me angry .. like I’m so triggered because my daughter better know tf better as a teenager when she gets there than to undermine my decisions about our families’ wellbeing , mental health , safety and security !! 😤💯💯
The bullshit skip a generation Straight to daughter 😂😒
Damn, when did this channel blow up?
my opinion the dad has anger issues and the guy is calling his disabled sister useless for no reason
There is no way bro is that heavy. 6 foot 5 really
Well i guess its not too late for adoption (or the dumpster)
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Wait a minute please tell me people didn’t rally around this little shit of a daughter in the second story. First I don’t believe the dad doesn’t say anything negative about the mother, I think he’s passive aggressive when it comes to her. At least from what the story describes. The whole there’s nothing to be done, we just have to wait. If your child was so miserable why not sue for more custody? Why not try getting more weekends, and the whole summer? Because, it suits the father more to revel in this child’s hatred for their mother. Second you’ve been wearing the same clothes at home for three years, what do you wear when you’re out? Do you have new stuff for school, or when you go in public? Third, how exactly if your father suffered from an addiction do you know your parents were great before they divorced? And although cheating is terrible, there was a reason the mother cheated, and decided not to give up your sister. Fourth, how can you say your sister is worthless, it’s not her fault she’s disabled, she also didn’t ruin your childhood, it was your mothers and father who should have seen you get a proper childhood. Where was dad to make sure you had piano lessons or basket ball? Just because he wasn’t involved in the affair baby’s life why didn’t he make sure you had, or is that supposed to be all on mom as well with child support? Lastly even if you are burned out and resentful you wish your mother who sounds like she also takes care of your sister, and your disabled sister becomes homeless? What kind of an asshole wishes that on anyone especially a severely disabled person? Thats like wishing death upon them. I’m not saying mom is innocent, but your father could have been in your life more. The got full custody is an excuse. Plenty of fathers remain fully in their child’s life after a divorce. I think OP’s father and father’s friends are poisoning your mind a bit, but hey go live with dad let’s see now that you’re 18 how long that lasts. Who knows maybe karma will come back and put you in the spot you wished for your disabled sister.
I still got PTSD
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@@DirtEater77FUCK THE BIG THRE * ITS JUST ME * BOW!!!
I hope you can heal 😔
Let the daughter live with them she’ll see
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*Where's The Video With The Rest Of The Updates To Story#1 & The Updates For Story#2!*
11 secs ago?!
Why did it repeat twice?
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Why Tf did the story change midway
What part of the daughter screams spoiled?
Story 2) You need to fight for your father when you can. Your father can't tell you to raise hell but you have to.
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Send her to live with them
So far I’m not impressed with the 2nd story! Her sister is here for a reason & is NOT worthless! She’s just too young to understand anything mature, but sounds like a spoiled brat! 🤦♀️
If she wants them so bad;y she should go live with them, how are people so disrespectful to kind and caring parents?
I only have one set of grandparents for kind of the same reason, my dads mom was mentally insane and my dads dad has been won over by my dad idiotic brother.
For the last story... I'm not upset at the OP for hating their half sister. It sounds like they cannot communicate with her, and that OP was used as a caretaker rather than being allowed to live as a child. Money that was meant for OP to have supplies for SCHOOL, to STUDY, to do HOMEWORK were being both not purchased and SOLD by their mom if it was ever brought home. They didn't let OP get new clothes, they only let them go to college because the mom thought they would still get a free care taker. If being a care taker of a severely disabled person is hard for an adult, why would it be remotely okay to expect OP to be a care taker? How can anyone expect OP to care about their sibling? I'm sorry, but when you are treated like a care taker rather than someones child, or someones sibling- you are no longer the moms child nor the innocent siblings family. The two individuals are now thoughts that bring only pain and trauma, or rage.
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My thoughts on the first story.
I can see where the daughter was coming from (kind of). I think the only way the parents could have done better, and this isn't saying they did the wrong thing, was to teach her about PTSD and how to respect it. And teach her things like if you are unsure who's in the right, always side with the victim. How evil can look like love. What a fake apology looks like and why. Teach her to understand trauma without giving her trauma. But this is a 'hindsight is 20/20' thing and I believe they did the best they knew how. I wasn't taught all that stuff at 16 either. I honestly believe the daughter was behaving out of ignorance, not malicious intent because she didn't understand how trauma actually works. How, even if things had somehow not been as bad as the mom and aunt said, it was close enough that the grandparents don't deserve to share their side. Like i said though, i don't think the parents could have reasonably done better to prevent this but i also think this was not in the daughter's normal behavior pattern if she had truly unstood trauma. But the parents did not mishandle this situation. If anything, i think the parents handled it better than i would have. Cause if someone pushed my wife like that, free trauma for everyone and jail time for me.
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Send the brat to live with them i would've called police had him arrested for assault had i been the husband.
I understand curiosity and the resolve to act on it. But was the mother so bad that she just couldn't trust her completely? If the mother was so good or even just good enough, same question applies.
To me, it sounds like she was somewhat rebeling against her parents, or she has zero empathy for her mother.
@@Yo99753At hindsight, maybe she has the makings of being abusive. She may have been brought up in a loving environment. But like some "psychos" out there, for some reason (there's something organically wrong with her; genetic disposition; whatever), it comes out anyway. The curiosity contributed or led to the trigger somehow.
2:34 just call the cops
They lived too far for cops to be useful in the emergency. After thr fact they let the cops know and are pressing charges
Happy ending?
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If the daughter was Indian she would also be in the hospital
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Bro story changes mid vid😭
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Ai yuk.
NTA, both stories
agreed
I think ye way the person talked about her sister in the second story was disgusting, it’s not her fault it’s the moms
@@thegamereviewers1487Wouldn't you resent the person who basically resulted in you having all of your liberties taken away for your entire childhood? OOP doesn't even hate the sister, just resents how the mother treats OOP like shit
@@gorbonfree8245 I don’t know what you’re talking about. She literally says I hate my sister while she hates her mother more. There should be no resentment to the sister. It is completely not her fault. The mom is just a giant piece of shit. She never should have talked about her sister that way
I think punishing the daughter was a horrible decision, considering the daughter was going through a rough time as well, imagine getting manipulated by your moms abusive grandparents and have them come over and give you mother ptsd, you wouldn’t be all happy about it, I have a stepmother who has MS (a nerve disorder) and I see her crying all the time, and every wrong thing I do around her makes me feel like I deserve hell, being a teen with a parent that you actually care about having such a terrible time is not something that you can easily go through. It’s terrible
Let's not forget the fact that due to the daughter her mom almost died and even when the dad explained what happened the daughter still decided to be a fucking delusional dickhead and invite those in law parents and if you're as delusional as the girl you're no better than her look I'm sorry for your mom but I still doesn't change the fact you support the girl
The daughter was the one who reached out first, several times, even after being told about her mom’s abuse. In fact, it’s probably not enough. If I did that to my parents, I would’ve been beaten to a pulp.
@@TheTruth-dg5rx well thats *your* parents, I don’t think many people have the concept of living in a household with constant agony between parents
My parents are divorced.
@@TheTruth-dg5rx same, and my father has joint custody so I see both his side and my mothers side struggle
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the daughter is definitely in the wrong but I think should have gotten less punishment NOW THAT MAY SEEM LIKE A BID STUPID IDEA but hear meh out her intentions were good and (most likely) had never seen her mom get have a panic attack (or anything to extreme from remembering how her treated her) and social media might seem fair but she cant talck to her frends or anyone except Family when not in school BUT WHAT THEY SHUD HAVE DONE ISSSSS monitoring her when she uses her screen and set specific times for when she can use it try to get the mom's parents in jail for child abuse
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Juvie, the belt and the adoption center are looking hella nice
Its not the daughters fault she was manipulated by the grand parents ok i just heard she contacted first so no she is at fault
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@@animetrash36dude that is from 1980s
Ok so i feel like he definitely went too far, she didn't understand what she was doing was wrong, yea you told her but she's still just a teenager who doesn't understand that she doesn't know everything
I don't think screaming really helps anyone, as a teenager when i get screamed at it doesn't help the matter it literally only makes me feel like shit, which as a parent shouldn't be your goal, you should educate and correct your kids not put them down, nobody deserves to be screamed at especially not at a young and impressionable age
The daughter is 16, not 8. she is old enough to know about abuse, to understand its impact. Age is no excuse in this case
@@ublu3631 ok all I said was he went too far, I'm 17 and can tell you that even while being older, being screamed at by my parents literally doesn't help at all
And I understand that what she did was wrong and her understandings were fundamentally flawed but isn't that the parents fault if they sheltered her that much
@@michaelbalog7409 I don’t really know about that He quite literally told her that they almost killed her mother and her then give them their location and address that led to her mother being sent to the hospital
Like I’m 16 I don’t think constantly yelling at little problems but this is something else like if I did something as retarded like she did I’d be surprised if I wasn’t hit across the cheek like they gave her mom PTSD
@@Milk_____________________ yeah fair
@@ublu3631 I knew what abuse violence death before I turned six I learnt what death was very early. I owe my fighting skills to practising with my brother when I was 4/5 and don’t when I was eight I knew what sex is I knew what trauma was from school which I don’t remember half of the incident from that school because half of its repressed