Why Genuine, Burning, Desire From Women Matters
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- Опубликовано: 3 май 2018
- How do you know if a woman likes you? It will show in her desire for you. I explain in this video why genuine, burning desire matters.
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As an entrepreneurial 20 something from England, who also has ADHD and a shitty stomach scar from a childhood accident with a knitting needle/operation to remove it; I have to say thanks for your advice Rich. It has helped me in many areas and reinforced the self-progression I had already made by myself! You are a Chad god! haha
Genuine question, what if you like one of ur employees? She's liked me (or atleast I have the feeling) for about 3 years now. Her emotions towards me have been a bit on and off- as to be expected - but in light of the #metoo movement as well as prior social witch hunts, I refuse to engage under any circumstances.
I know I'm asking a subjective question which is based on my own personal circumstances and based on the situation that I am currently in, but generally, what's everyone's thoughts on that sort of scenario? Should I remain disengaged or move forward?
what if that woman is my wife?
Is it possible to get The Unplugged Alpha book on Spanish?
It’s like asking a woman out and she says “I’ll think about it”.... BRO, walk away and never ask her again.
The Sinister Minister dont close the door on a one-night stand, but also dont go chasing her. Give her your number and say “call me when you’re done thinking” lol
Caius Andromeda
You wouldn't phrase it like that, but I wouldn't phrase it like you did either. It depends what you are looking for. I can't tell you the number of happily married couples where the first daing attempt didn't go well or the women turned the guy down at first, but something happened and now they've been married for 50+ years. Making women understand it is your decision doesn't always mean pressuring them into now or never.
Caius Andromeda I agree, if we tell you "we will think about it" its just a nice way of saying NO. Move on...
Agree!! If you have to make up your mind, I'll help you.
It may be a shit test, to see if you flip in your mentality or remain cool.
" If you aren't dating girls with real desire, you are just wasting your time, on a energi-vampirer. "
My wife listened into this and agrees wholeheartedly lol!
Same here
Never try to negotiate desire. Desire is primal. Give it room to manifest and if it doesn't walk away. You cannot force desire.
This comment is on point. I agree 100%. I’ve had girls that had genuine burning desire before and it was hard when it ended but the with the magnitude of burning desire that I share with my current girl is on another level and I’ll do anything I can to keep it going forever.
This 100%
Chase excellence like Vikings used to chase the next to town to sack, pillage, and plunder.
Err...
So you mean we should chase excellence somewhat intermittently as a result of Christian culture infringing upon our own, combined with a desire to acquire wealth and lands upon which to expand our dominion?
+ John Buffalo you look like an anonymous coward and should probably shut up.
Have a nice day!
you: low t@@kristianjensen5877
You attract what you radiate, if you radiate indifference, what will you get?So chase excellence and live a life with desire, goals, wishes, dreams... dream big and move into that direction
Well said!!
I never saw my wife speed,
I never saw her rush,
I never saw her act with a sense of urgency,
UNTIL I SAW HOW SHE ACTED WITH HER NEW LOVER. All those “nevers” changed, and it wasn’t because of me.
Unlucky bro
Keep your head up king!
A wise man once said
"Women make rules for betas and change them for alphas."
Haunting.
That sounds like it was very painful to go through, I hope when you're ready you find the right love ❤️
“If you’re not getting enough attention from women, there’s probably something that you’re missing...“
Looking around today, it seems like there is a generation of un-coached young men who are hurting and struggling and stating that in their entire life to young adulthood, there was never a female that so much as expressed interest romantic interest in them. The point from Rich in the video around the 4 min 30 sec mark is the answer those young men need.
I see this a lot. Men who over persue, blow up her phone and talk for hours on messenger. The phone is for setting dates not to get to know someone.
Never except a maybe or we'll see as a response for a date. She is either in or you are onto the next.
RYEINDUSTRIAL, THANKS A LOOOOOOT!!!!! You've nooo idea how much I needed your words bro!!!
exactly, but you also can't underpursue girls that are into you or they might lose interest. I've been there..
I'm slowly beginning to bulk up now and I have noticed more looks from the ladies (past 2 weeks, my friend also told me I'm looking more fit 2 days ago). Meaning I am becoming more high value in the SMP. Competition, you're either about it, or you're not. Btw, Im also highly redpilled, I'm not MGTOW, but I've come to open my eyes real wide and it's helped me stay focused in my goals and myself.
it's called being redpilled idiot
@@miguelmejia4656 you are the idiot
What do you use to bulk up brother? Im a skinny dude and whatever the hell I eat just disappears into a void and my body doesnt change. What am I doing wrong?
@@jackepong6300 I'm the same, get some weights, eat well and work out for half an hour with them every two or three evenings life/time permitting.
You'll start to notice in a few weeks but you need to keep it up or it'll start to disappear in the same amount of weeks.... Also gives you good thinking time without distraction.👍🏼
I'm not big, I don't want to be, but people have noticed an overall difference and I feel happier in my self...
@@jackepong6300 optimum nutrition serious mass
Dont go for the women you like.
Go for the women that like you.
Only problem is, sometimes the ones who like you, you may not like.
Could you do a video on advice for teenagers (dating, self care etc)? Your videos are genuinely changing my life, thank you so much
Excellent advice! I always say the man that lets me go is a smart man...because I don't give back the interest they are looking for! If we are interested, you will feel it. If we aren't you won't. Move on just like we do if the vibe isn't coming our way. I am the kind of woman that would not let a man invest in me with dinners etc but....most woman would. Let them go and shoot for a higher quality woman who values you for who you are!
3:33 Such profound and valuable understandings in not wasting time and overthinking shit with women and their motives etc. Cheers Bru so helpful
Great content Rich. Men need to work on themselves rather than projecting their lack on to others.
I concur
I completely agree. It took me ages to get my thought process about this right. I was wasting time with the wrong women. Not just women but people in general. Now it's just don't give a f*** if it's not reciprocated
Thanks for all the good advice youve given us. Im only 19, not really got going much going for me, but going to a therapist and been working some shit out. Gotta make the best of what Ive got, get proper physique, overcome social anxiety and something more. Thanks man, keep up the good work
marko tuna self improvement is worth the time
I wish I knew these lessons when I was 19, you're definitely doing things right mate
@@markeziproducer9452 hah its been 4 years and Ive changed quite a bit, even on my view of this videos topic, so I cant say really that Ive gotten better, Id say Im just learning how much I was (and still am) doing and thinking wrong. Still havent had much social success, but oh well, step by step! 😅
@@markotuna just think that we as men have our highest value over 30 so everything before that the main focus should be building ourselves but definitely looking into dating and other social areas as long as they will not obstruct us, it takes time to build so the improvement will be slow, just came to see this topic as I really want to understand like who really wants you not just women but in work also and everywhere, wish you all the best man 👍
Came here from your book ✍🏽
Thank you Rich. I really needed to hear this. Let a woman come back in my life on the promise that ‘things would change’ and they didn’t. She has now pulled away again, after I put in all the effort. Tough times - stay strong my brothers if you are facing difficult times 💪
I'm only 24 and in this age range where I'm not thinking about anything serious anyway I usually wait for them to set another date after the 2nd or 3rd date at most. Saved me a lot of time last year since finding out about TRP and then you basically know anyway they desperately want to "see" you again.
Thanks for this. I just broke it off with a girl this week that was wishy-washy. I'm going to work on myself and the rest will follow
Great advice. Same for women with men. If he's interested, he's not somewhere else for the weekend.
Activate Kruger I agree. Its mostly coming from those born between 1983-1995. Men are being abused. I love men. I have brothers. I hate to see it happen. Richard is right. Traditional wonen like aloha males...but not so arrogant that they won't helo me hang a curtain rod or move something heavy into my car. That's actually a turn on. I don't like when women abuse men and expect them to be their house slaves. Guys need to say F off to these chicks.
I bought your book on Audible this week. Finished it in a 24 hr period. Loved it Rich! I’m gettin’ unplugged!
This one hurt, but I needed to hear it. tried to set up a date with a woman today, she said when she gets time. clear cut reason to keep it moving
Powerful thoughts and words Richard. Keep that work up for us.
Desire is important to gauge and I for one had that scale don't pay when I was a teenager but now at 36 I am reinventing myself to become the Warrior I know I am.
The first relationship book I ever bought was called the Love Doctor.
I'll never forget how simple he kept this statement between men and women:
Women who don't want you don't keep dates. (excuses)
Women who do want you DO keep dates.
Keep it simple guys!
I actually love watching your videos I find them so interesting ! Is that weird ? Probably weird
I hope you never become the woman that every man wants to get away from.
GBD (Genuine Burning Desire) .....so true Rich....just went through this and cut her off.
I usually use the term gravitate, as in I will pursue if she gravitates towards me.
Man I really appreciate you taking the time out of your days to make these videos.
In the early 1970s I had two male friends (they didn't know each other) who I thought were degrading themselves by continuing to pursue women who weren't into them. To my surprise, both eventually "made the sale" and have been happily married for going on 50 years. I was wrong.
But still, marriage should never be the goal and a man's purpose
Yes because we don't need to have burning desire for a man in order to love and value him, nor is it needed to build a loving home and family with him.
Boooom! Plain and simple... RP all the way, thanks Rich
Thanks for this reminder man! Really helped me today. I just walked away from a 6 scaled desire woman, that was saying nice things.. but her actions weren’t showing me she was really interested. So this was perfect. Thanks!
In the same predicament, good thing is that I am actually spinning plates so just dropping this plate
Great teachable moment! Thanks for the insight in Chapter 3.
If the attraction pull from a woman isn't as strong or stronger then mine when I flirt, I say something kind with a pleasant smile and walk away. The interaction usually nose dives after that if I don't. If I talk to other women and she comes back around to me then I know my value increased and I show a decreased interest in her by occasionally looking at other women. If she doesn't at very least suggest that we should go some where that can be alone to talk then I know she is playing games and give up on her. Here's what the PUA's won't tell you, You have to do this like 10 times before you are successful and all 10 times need to feel natural not like game. Its really all about Increasing #'s of interactions
KRATOS
Just what i needed to here. Im really glad i discovered red pill awareness at the age of 18 and having never had a girlfriend before. I feel so well equipped now
Brandon Dieleman good on ya man. You don’t need a girlfriend in high school or ever but learning this stuff earlier than later really prepares you to navigate the shark infested waters. It’s not about hating women it’s about being fully conscious and aware.
Brandon Dieleman _ you can't become red pill aware at 18. you got a long road ahead of you bucko..
The question is how do you create genuine burning desire if you look below average.
One of the best videos I have ever watched. Nailed it.
Totally on point, succinct and well stated !
One of the best advice you gave so far
Whether there's something in your life that is incomplete, if she can't take you for who or what you are, she's not worth the time and effort.
A good reminder / refresher. Good framework to utilize.
The common denominator in the sexual market place is energy flow. You will feel desire as a rise in energy in your body. If you are not feeling this in the presence of a woman, than as Richard states, it is probably not worth the effort. Ground yourself in all interactions. Get your shit together and be a source of positive energy for all people in your presence. In such a state, you will find the women come to you, and you are in the position of directing where you want the interaction to end up!
Let's go! Sick value in this one!
a very good wake up call. Been putting too much effort on one particular girl. You're right, I need to move on.
Explains things perfectly. Bravo!
Solid advice, thanks
I love dat u helping giving men dey worth back
Awesome content bro!
Informative video. Thanks!
Awesome advice for both business and relationships!
Still going back in time for good material. This is a good one.
Exactly the same applies to ladies. It just means that she is just not that into you. It's natural and normal, it happens. It's immature to take it personally.
Your content is on point! I would also say if your not feeling her @ 9/10 with genuine burning desires then keep looking cuz eventually you’ll feel like you settled. So same for her cuz she’ll be wasting her time too.
Awesome stuff my man!
Very good video I'm glad I subscribed it verifies things that I've already thought about.
I agree with you Rich .... my experience is getting this genuine desire to stay for a long time . Over time it can fade.
Your Book is an amazing guide. Thanks brother
Life changing content.
Great video and good advise. Thank you.
Love the video. It hit home. I just bought your book The unplug alpha & I’m on the part that tells me about this video.
Yaaaasss!!! Good advice, braaahhh!! 💯
shut the fuck up
Excellent video!
Absolutely the Truth!!! Guys get your shit together (be the best version of YOU)
If there’s a will there’s a way
CH 3 of The Unplugged Alpha brought me here. Time to get back to it! Thanks Rich.
I was business strategizing this morning (come off the boil lately, been inefficient, enjoyed it less), and my conclusions were very much along these lines. I already apply this stuff to females automatically, since they've never made me any money.
Great words of wisdom! Thanks for sharing! Much love form Saudi.
Great video! Helped clear up some issues I am having with a woman.
Spot on advice again Mr. Richard.
Here is one that I heard. I can't go out I have to watch my kids and the kids are like 15 and 16 next.
Actually this makes sense, I didn't think about it until you brought it up.
Exactly because of this, it's better to stay single. You can attract all kinds of women with a good career and a good life, but it doesn't mean she'll be your type. She might be a good woman, loving, humble, etc, etc, but it doesn't mean you'll find her attractive. Live a good life for *you*, and if a woman comes along that wants to join in on it, AND you like her, then go ahead. Don't chase women, and don't attach yourself to women that chase you.
Very good vide thx Rich i realy needed this.
Got the book today and it brought me here. Glad I’m with a 10.
Very very true!
Keep it up!
Yes,yes help us ,the masses are waiting for your help.
Very well said - Women always find a way to be with someone they want. They will also be very adept at saying no. Raining, deaths or sicknesses in the family, and the worst one of all "I have to keep my emotions under control so I can achieve (fill in the blank). When you hear or see any of this it's time to run.
Amen Brotha!
Just paused while reading your book to watch this then continue the book.
Love it.
Have a Nice weekend my bfam🤝🏻
Awesome 👏 video
Thanks for guidens
I’ve never had a genuine, burning desire for ANYTHING in my 41 years on this planet.
Weird?
I had a NDE as a child and have always seen things differently to most people. I don’t see the need to strive for anything other than happiness and that’s easily obtained depending on your expectations. I expect very little of anyone but myself, women least of all women.
I’m happy. 😁
Paul Keating Me neither bro. Never felt passionate about anything however after practicing NoFap I put a lot of intensity in everything I do.
9-10.....love that.
Top stuff rich
As so often happens when Richard speaks extemporaneously on a theme he touches on something else that is very profound. Time. don't waste it in your business and professional life. Don't waste it in your personal life either- on clients customers or friends that aren't "worth the Squeeze." But understand that not all relationships are transactional. There has to be room for kindness. it is fundamental to being a good man and if you fail in that, it doesn't matter what you accomplish with all the other stuff. it's also about knowing where the lines are and not crossing them. Becoming the vain, self absorbed whatever doesn't work because nobody likes that guy. and those who would aren't worth having. You can't and shouldn't control others, but you can on should control yourself. You get this all right and she will walk on broken glass to get to you and she'll pay for the room.
Powerful Mindset 💭
dope advice
Love it
Makes sense.
This also applies to friendships too.
Sound advice!
Good stuff. You cannot negotiate desire
Came to this video became of your book.
I HAVE RE WATCHED THIS VIDEO 10TIMES SO THAT I CAN RELIVE THE PAIN OF MY FORCING DESIRE.
True 👍
This concept has changed so much about how I date.
Nice
thx