Yes. 6.5 year relationship. Engaged to get married. Built a house for the 2 of us. She broke up with me via phone call. What a waste of time and resources.
I recently had the friendship offer, to be honest even if she did come back, I would reject her, I see it as a form of cheating. If I did take her back I know she will be looking to do it again. Especially when it hurt me way more, she claims it was hard on her too but, I went stright back on tinder on the day of breakup, and saw she was on tinder 3 days later so much for being hurt.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I know how it sounds but I didn't trust her. After she broke up with me. She sent me a text saying she needed some time to think and breathe. I said thats fine I'll respect that. Only for her to delete my number and remove me as a contact on whatsapp in the middle of the night on the day of break up, leaving me hanging on the hope waiting for when she was going to come back. When she had no intention to. And to finish it off we spoke about our issues in the relationship the night before we broke up and she agreed to the resolution. All I asked was for her try more becasue it was always one sided with me doing all the work at the start I just put down to her being shy. While I promised to be more affectionate. Only for her to dump me the next morning and saying I was demanding to much.
I hear you man. I guess you must be pretty damn angry. I know I would be. If it was one way traffic with regard to you doing the work, then she’s not a partner. She’s an emotional vampire. Relationships require equal effort. We all make our own hell. Wish her well with hers. Feel better man.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick All though I did resent her for it. I do feel bad for her now, shes still looking for her next victim. I know alot of blokes will see her red flags and avoid her on the first date, While I gave her a chance and ignored them. Anyways less then a week after break up, I found my current GF. And I have been so happy ever since. XD
My ex said " I cant give you the relationship that Im capable of giving you" ( i think it might be a money thing ) hes a single dad. But whatever. Regardless its still a bullshit excuse lol
Ur doing great I was here a like 5 months ago and u talked to me in the comments gave me advice, she came back then we just broke up but I don’t feel the same just a lil different if u see this I would love u to answer some questions I had but ur doing great keep it up
What does it mean when she says the person she is now, isnt somebody I want. Im so confused by what she means, like just tell me why then. All I get is that answer, and she doesnt go into further detail.
Yeah, that’s rough. Ghosting is nothing more than the avoidance of hard conversations. That’s on them. When someone shows you who they truly are, believe them.
Another great video, thank you Nick !
Thank you. Glad you enjoyed it 😊
As always great video Nick, thanks a lot
Thanks buddy, I hope you’re well.
lol.. face to face break up... never had one of those. Just get them thru text.
That’s sad to hear. 🥺
that’s soo cold 🥶 and a coward
Yes. 6.5 year relationship. Engaged to get married. Built a house for the 2 of us. She broke up with me via phone call. What a waste of time and resources.
Why do you feel it’s a waste of time and resources?
@@bradleybernier7526 a phone call ??? that’s a coward
If someone offers friendship it may also be a way to soften the blow and perhaps offered more as a social grace.
Possibly. Either way, not a good idea straight after a breakup.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick That's why I declined and shut that door.
You did good. 😊
Hahah I love it when you throw slurs around 😂😂😂
It’s all I have! 😂
I recently had the friendship offer, to be honest even if she did come back, I would reject her, I see it as a form of cheating. If I did take her back I know she will be looking to do it again. Especially when it hurt me way more, she claims it was hard on her too but, I went stright back on tinder on the day of breakup, and saw she was on tinder 3 days later so much for being hurt.
I hear you but, if you were on Tinder too, are you in any position to criticise her for the same thing?
@@TheLoveFix-Nick I know how it sounds but I didn't trust her. After she broke up with me. She sent me a text saying she needed some time to think and breathe. I said thats fine I'll respect that. Only for her to delete my number and remove me as a contact on whatsapp in the middle of the night on the day of break up, leaving me hanging on the hope waiting for when she was going to come back. When she had no intention to.
And to finish it off we spoke about our issues in the relationship the night before we broke up and she agreed to the resolution. All I asked was for her try more becasue it was always one sided with me doing all the work at the start I just put down to her being shy. While I promised to be more affectionate. Only for her to dump me the next morning and saying I was demanding to much.
I hear you man. I guess you must be pretty damn angry. I know I would be.
If it was one way traffic with regard to you doing the work, then she’s not a partner. She’s an emotional vampire.
Relationships require equal effort.
We all make our own hell. Wish her well with hers.
Feel better man.
@@TheLoveFix-Nick All though I did resent her for it. I do feel bad for her now, shes still looking for her next victim. I know alot of blokes will see her red flags and avoid her on the first date, While I gave her a chance and ignored them. Anyways less then a week after break up, I found my current GF. And I have been so happy ever since. XD
Glad to hear you’re happy. It’s all any of us can work towards.
My ex said " I cant give you the relationship that Im capable of giving you" ( i think it might be a money thing ) hes a single dad. But whatever. Regardless its still a bullshit excuse lol
Ur doing great I was here a like 5 months ago and u talked to me in the comments gave me advice, she came back then we just broke up but I don’t feel the same just a lil different if u see this I would love u to answer some questions I had but ur doing great keep it up
I’m glad you’re doing well.
I appreciate your words.
I’m long past my breakup. I’m in a new and much healthier relationship now. 😊
Nice one !!
😂
Much appreciated. 😊
What does it mean when she says the person she is now, isnt somebody I want. Im so confused by what she means, like just tell me why then. All I get is that answer, and she doesnt go into further detail.
Or you get ghosted after 2 years and don't even get a "f* off" text 😅🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Yeah, that’s rough.
Ghosting is nothing more than the avoidance of hard conversations.
That’s on them.
When someone shows you who they truly are, believe them.