I am a transwoman dad……. my son sent me a card this Christmas, the first contact from him in 14 years. In it he wrote that this song made him think of me…… This is the best present I have ever had. Thanks Frank ……
Maria,I just saw your post, so glad you heard from your son....so long. I haven't heard from my son in 2 1/2 years, seems like an eternity. My daughter sent him Frank's song, I hope he listens..... Maya
About two and half years ago... I became a father called Maya. My Daughter's husband likes Frank's music and she sent this song to me today. As hard as it is to hear that your Dad is a woman, they have been there for me from the beginning, questioning and learning but giving it time. Figuring it out along the way, like how to explain this to their then 3 1/2 year old son. They did this honestly and beautifully with children's stores early on and allowing him to process it, in his time and his way. My grandson is a blessing, asking me recently, do you want me to call you Pop or Maya? A loving blessing, I am so grateful for them everyday and love them so much. My son and I have had an up and down relationship over many years before my coming out and I take responsibility for this. I could be a demanding dad with high expectations. Even when I thought I was saying or doing something to help him, I failed to see it from his perspective, how he would perceive it, how he thought about it inside. He was and is still is a big, macho young man outwardly and a loving and sensitive young man inside, trying to find his own way now. I love my son and miss him so very much. It's been over two years now since we have spoken. I understand how hard this was for a son to hear and accept. I pray everyday for his health and happiness and for him to someday come back to me, to talk things out, for each of us to to better understand each others feelings, our struggles and journey. I find myself holding out hope that over time, he could do what I had a hard time doing for him, seeing me, my perspective, my inner reality. Prayers and wishes for happy outcomes to all the trans folks out there with fractured relationships and for their families, taken on this journey, may they all find understanding and love.
I always think I've heard the best of Frank Turner "Plain Sailing Weather", "Don't Worry", "Way I tend to Be", "Haven't Been Doing So Well", etc...and then there's another masterpiece. Well done!
I came here after ARTE documentary. And what an amazing, wonderfully talented artist you are! I’m in awe in how you changed your story to pure art that’s blessing our ears and touching our hearts. Quel courage! Un grand merci à toi et je te souhaite que du bonheur and healing!✨💛💛💛
As someone that massively connected to and was massively moved hearing Fathers Day - this is music to my ears. How incredibly beautifully written! I’m so happy for Miranda
I love Frank Turner music since I met him with No Man's Land. But now, as the proud father of a little transgender girl, this means so much it makes me break into tears. Thank you, Frank, for this wonderful gift (and what an amazing song).
Absolutely lost for words. Your brutal honesty about the resentment towards your dad and your eventual reconciliation really hit home. I'd be the first to criticise anyone for resenting somebody for being trans, but it's about where we're going and not where we've come from, and rather than skirt round your resentment you've faced it head on and absolutely owned it in a very public way. Proud of you Frank, beautiful song
I have no words. This is so heckin' beautiful. Following your growth through your music these last couple decades has been an unforgettable ride, and this is the last thing I expected given how stalwart your feelings towards your father were. I'm so very happy for you and proud to witness this
It’s amazing to hear how much the relationship has grown. Go back and listen to Father’s Day and come back and listen to this. This is beautiful! Well done Frank you never cease to amaze me with your writing!
Okay, I'm bawling. Last time I cried this much at one of your songs was your song for Scott. I'm made up for you that you have a chance to know Miranda. Much love to you both x
Brilliant version of a BRILLIANT song!!! Matt is an epically talented musician and Frank... Well, You've been true for SO long! My son still talks about meeting you when he was 8..... He's 20 now!
i cried like a damn baby last night when you played this live at Saarbrücken ❤️ witnessing a crowd of hundreds of smiling faces sing this song proud and out loud?? priceless. it brings tears back to my eyes just now thinking about it. thank you!
*Simply Amazing ♥️!* Thanks *Frank Turner* for being such an incredible, awesome, talented musician. I Love You and everything you do. Thank You Thank You Thank You!
this is so beautiful to hear, glad she can live as her true self now, and that that's helped your relationship with her too. welcome to the club, Miranda! 💙💗🤍
So proud of you frank, such a beautiful song thank you for this, with out you I would never have gotten out of the bad times, so to hear you reconciling with your father is just the best thing after all these years. The biggest love
As a person mother to a transformation, it helps me to integrate the many facets of this life by way of a variety of folks being open about their experiences. All experiences. If it's all compartmentalized as is my habit, there's no real rest. Thank you for pulling me your way. :)
I think this is going to be a song I can listen to once. I can imagine it coming on when I'm out and about and ending up in tears. His father having changed as a person. Her issues, possibly, a symptom of her internal struggle, trying and failing to be a man, all the way to finally finding herself and finally being able to live and not just exist.
You're the only reason i would get vaxxed Frank. I'd hate to die not having seen u live. You're a beautiful, magnificent force for peace, tolerance and kindness in this world, seriously i think you're musical Jesus, i wish more people knew about you.
Frank, I love your music so much! Thank you for all these awesome songs. I only learned about you when "The way I tend to be" got big in Germany.... Being a musician and sound engineer myself, there's another form of appreciation, aside from being a fan. I had the pleasue of seeing you in Berlin, last time you were in Columbiahalle and you were outstanding! I hope to see you again, soon! Anhow, I think, being a huge fan and having somewhat of an "insider's" perspective on the whole music thing - I gotta say, I love this version way more than the studio version. I'm sure you had nothing to say in it, but whoever thought YOUR VOICE needed to be autotuned to the grid needs to quit his (or hers, although I'm pretty sure it was some management guy) job immediately. PLEASE somehow pass it on through management channels: Autotune won't increase sales! For me, I would buy the album. But I much rather listen to live versions on RUclips, than Autotune on a record.
@@AngelWebby10 i suppose my ep wheel punk has some quite different sounding songs on i don't know if you have heard it? my most famous song is punkie pixie
Being well acquainted with Miranda, I'll look forward to "Relative Values" in the Sunday Times. They're being interviewed for it today, I understand...
I am so heartbroken about all the trans people that never had a chance, opportunity, whatever you wanna call it, to live as their true self, and in turn I am delighted for everyone that does just that.
@@fiftyshadesofgender Yeah. If anything it is brave to share this. I thought maybe we were making progress on this. Anyway I will stop typing now. I don't need to rant. :)
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I am a transwoman dad……. my son sent me a card this Christmas, the first contact from him in 14 years. In it he wrote that this song made him think of me…… This is the best present I have ever had. Thanks Frank ……
Maria,I just saw your post, so glad you heard from your son....so long. I haven't heard from my son in 2 1/2 years, seems like an eternity. My daughter sent him Frank's song, I hope he listens..... Maya
@@mayaventure8591 ……. You just have to be patient and carry on living your own life and never give up hope . It hurts …..that I do know x
@@mayaventure8591 I really hope that you are able to reconnect.
@@anniakay3522 Thank you for your reply, perhaps some day he'll find his way back.
That's beautiful.
About two and half years ago... I became a father called Maya. My Daughter's husband likes Frank's music and she sent this song to me today. As hard as it is to hear that your Dad is a woman, they have been there for me from the beginning, questioning and learning but giving it time. Figuring it out along the way, like how to explain this to their then 3 1/2 year old son. They did this honestly and beautifully with children's stores early on and allowing him to process it, in his time and his way. My grandson is a blessing, asking me recently, do you want me to call you Pop or Maya? A loving blessing, I am so grateful for them everyday and love them so much.
My son and I have had an up and down relationship over many years before my coming out and I take responsibility for this. I could be a demanding dad with high expectations. Even when I thought I was saying or doing something to help him, I failed to see it from his perspective, how he would perceive it, how he thought about it inside. He was and is still is a big, macho young man outwardly and a loving and sensitive young man inside, trying to find his own way now. I love my son and miss him so very much. It's been over two years now since we have spoken. I understand how hard this was for a son to hear and accept. I pray everyday for his health and happiness and for him to someday come back to me, to talk things out, for each of us to to better understand each others feelings, our struggles and journey. I find myself holding out hope that over time, he could do what I had a hard time doing for him, seeing me, my perspective, my inner reality.
Prayers and wishes for happy outcomes to all the trans folks out there with fractured relationships and for their families, taken on this journey, may they all find understanding and love.
“Now my father is Miranda and we’re okay” Jesus how beautiful…… my heart is so full listening to this beautiful song.
"Father's Day" has always been one of my favorite FT songs. I'm glad things turned around.
I always think I've heard the best of Frank Turner "Plain Sailing Weather", "Don't Worry", "Way I tend to Be", "Haven't Been Doing So Well", etc...and then there's another masterpiece. Well done!
I came here after ARTE documentary. And what an amazing, wonderfully talented artist you are! I’m in awe in how you changed your story to pure art that’s blessing our ears and touching our hearts.
Quel courage!
Un grand merci à toi et je te souhaite que du bonheur and healing!✨💛💛💛
It is so lovely to hear that Frank andMiranda’s relationship has the worst days behind them.
As a transman frank turner fan, this makes my heart so happy that you can talk about your experiences 💙💗🤍💗💙
same here !!
Same
As a transwoman parent, this song has so much meaning. Thank you for this track Frank, can't wait to see another one of your shows.
As someone that massively connected to and was massively moved hearing Fathers Day - this is music to my ears. How incredibly beautifully written! I’m so happy for Miranda
This is one of the most beautifull songs I've ever heard. People are horrible and brilliant and full of problems and able to change
I love Frank Turner music since I met him with No Man's Land. But now, as the proud father of a little transgender girl, this means so much it makes me break into tears. Thank you, Frank, for this wonderful gift (and what an amazing song).
Absolutely lost for words. Your brutal honesty about the resentment towards your dad and your eventual reconciliation really hit home. I'd be the first to criticise anyone for resenting somebody for being trans, but it's about where we're going and not where we've come from, and rather than skirt round your resentment you've faced it head on and absolutely owned it in a very public way. Proud of you Frank, beautiful song
I have no words. This is so heckin' beautiful. Following your growth through your music these last couple decades has been an unforgettable ride, and this is the last thing I expected given how stalwart your feelings towards your father were. I'm so very happy for you and proud to witness this
It’s amazing to hear how much the relationship has grown. Go back and listen to Father’s Day and come back and listen to this. This is beautiful! Well done Frank you never cease to amaze me with your writing!
There are song writers and then there is Frank! Good Lord man, such a powerful and timely song, well done lad.
Okay, I'm bawling. Last time I cried this much at one of your songs was your song for Scott.
I'm made up for you that you have a chance to know Miranda. Much love to you both x
I cried my eyes out when he sung his song for his friend he lost too 😭💔 Frank we love you 💞❤️
@@Jane6isAlive So sad he lost two friends to suicide. A Wave Across a Bay is so beautiful and heartbreaking.
Brilliant version of a BRILLIANT song!!! Matt is an epically talented musician and Frank... Well, You've been true for SO long!
My son still talks about meeting you when he was 8..... He's 20 now!
What a magnificent song and heartfelt tribute. Thank you, Frank Turner.
i cried like a damn baby last night when you played this live at Saarbrücken ❤️ witnessing a crowd of hundreds of smiling faces sing this song proud and out loud?? priceless. it brings tears back to my eyes just now thinking about it. thank you!
This is beautiful. Thank you for sharing it Frank and I’m so glad your relationship with Miranda is getting stronger!
Extraordinary, Shocking, Uplifting, Dynamic, Gorgeous! Thanks Frank
So many more people need to listen to this man…some of his songs are so powerful when you sit and listen….Much love Frank
*Simply Amazing ♥️!*
Thanks *Frank Turner* for being such an incredible, awesome, talented musician.
I Love You and everything you do.
Thank You Thank You Thank You!
screaming crying love this song /pos aaaaa 🥰🥰🥰
this is so beautiful to hear, glad she can live as her true self now, and that that's helped your relationship with her too. welcome to the club, Miranda! 💙💗🤍
This is an absolutely beautiful song. Made me cry.
So, so lovely.
So proud of you frank, such a beautiful song thank you for this, with out you I would never have gotten out of the bad times, so to hear you reconciling with your father is just the best thing after all these years. The biggest love
What a wonderful song. You continue to be a constant inspiration and role model.
As a person mother to a transformation, it helps me to integrate the many facets of this life by way of a variety of folks being open about their experiences.
All experiences.
If it's all compartmentalized as is my habit, there's no real rest.
Thank you for pulling me your way. :)
"let's be our best selves; let's be friends" ❤ 3:00
I'll be me, promise me, that you'll be you...
Oh, Miranda it's lovely to meet you...
My sister is a proud transgendered woman.
Thank you for such a beautiful song.
Amazing. Hope your relationship stays healthy.
I’ve been estranged from my father for a long while now and this song gives me hope that everything will be okey in the end
I think this is going to be a song I can listen to once.
I can imagine it coming on when I'm out and about and ending up in tears.
His father having changed as a person. Her issues, possibly, a symptom of her internal struggle, trying and failing to be a man, all the way to finally finding herself and finally being able to live and not just exist.
You have a beautiful heart
It’s amazing that you two have made up, and that she knows who she is. It’s genuinely heartwarming to see.
1:55
Miranda it's lovely to meet you
Amazing x
You're the only reason i would get vaxxed Frank. I'd hate to die not having seen u live. You're a beautiful, magnificent force for peace, tolerance and kindness in this world, seriously i think you're musical Jesus, i wish more people knew about you.
Absolutely beautiful!
Frank, I love your music so much! Thank you for all these awesome songs. I only learned about you when "The way I tend to be" got big in Germany....
Being a musician and sound engineer myself, there's another form of appreciation, aside from being a fan. I had the pleasue of seeing you in Berlin, last time you were in Columbiahalle and you were outstanding! I hope to see you again, soon!
Anhow, I think, being a huge fan and having somewhat of an "insider's" perspective on the whole music thing - I gotta say, I love this version way more than the studio version.
I'm sure you had nothing to say in it, but whoever thought YOUR VOICE needed to be autotuned to the grid needs to quit his (or hers, although I'm pretty sure it was some management guy) job immediately.
PLEASE somehow pass it on through management channels: Autotune won't increase sales! For me, I would buy the album. But I much rather listen to live versions on RUclips, than Autotune on a record.
Beautiful
When times are rough we just need a way to forget
Fantastic performance and song as a whole! Can’t wait for the album!!
This is absolutely beautiful. ♥
Nice ! Can’t wait for the album to arrive
this song is awesome but i thought the album was suppose to be hardcor
@@tylerj476 there’s some soft and some hard. Have you heard A Wave Across The Bay yet?
@@AngelWebby10 no i've only heard haven't been doing so well and unatainted love
@@tylerj476 Listen to Non Serviam if you want something heavy that will be on the album, it's going to be a mix of softer and harder songs
@@AngelWebby10 i suppose my ep wheel punk has some quite different sounding songs on i don't know if you have heard it? my most famous song is punkie pixie
Top man.
Being well acquainted with Miranda, I'll look forward to "Relative Values" in the Sunday Times. They're being interviewed for it today, I understand...
Wow x Just wow 💖👏 xxx Beautiful song, beautiful words Frank, Well done mate x Happy friday xxx
A beautiful song, and a powerful story behind it.
Such a gorgeous song,
This is so heartwarming 💜I would love to have a conversation with you and/or Miranda (or both!) for my podcast if you'd be up for that!
This is absolutely fantastic!
🥰 I’m not crying, you’re crying x
Tears of love from the "angry father to proud transgender women" pipeline. 💜. Such as beautiful song.
Welcome to the club ❤️ 🏳️⚧️
Love this so much 😍😍😍
as a trans guy, this song was a big part of why i went from "oh, i know a few frank turner songs" to a massive fan who loves every song hes ever made
I'm so happy they are working on their relationship and doing better. Its very heartwarming.
Where was this filmed?
are there guitar tabs for this?
Looking forward to your tour dates.
🥰
I am so heartbroken about all the trans people that never had a chance, opportunity, whatever you wanna call it, to live as their true self, and in turn I am delighted for everyone that does just that.
From a proud sister of a transwoman, this is awesome! 👍🤟💗
Party like it's 2019 that's a song title
I am way too drunk for 3pm
Frank 🙏
2:08
The problem with carrying hate....
Is that someone who doesn't know...
Is you're the only one carrying the weight
You're best to just let it go... And get to [let people] know you for you are
Bahbahbahvah
Who you really are...
And who've you've always been
@3:00 Let's be our best selves
Let's be friends
I'll be me
Promise me, that you'll be you
Love that he uses the word transgender in the song instead of just implying it
Frank thank you from the bottom of my trans heart.
Frank said trans rights.
For the trans people on here and the ones that have accepted their trans relatives for who they are gives me a small glimmer of hope for humanity.
Embarrassing. Completely insensitive.
I hope this isn't on FTHC because this is a weak af song.
What is weak about someone expressing their feelings about reconnecting with a parent and wanting to improve that relationship for the future?
@@fiftyshadesofgender I love the writing but the song just doesn't hit as hard as it could tbh
@@brooklynhatch9705 that's fair :) How would you do it differently? How could it have more impact do you think?
@@fiftyshadesofgender Yeah. If anything it is brave to share this. I thought maybe we were making progress on this. Anyway I will stop typing now. I don't need to rant. :)
Such a strong Song! Thank you so much! You found such great words. 🏳⚧
Beautiful
So beautiful
Beautiful