Great advice! For many years, I have used the trick to measure the pants for fit! I laughed recently when shopping in a second hand market as I noticed a woman staring at me as I measured the waistband on my neck! I am an American recently retired to southern Italy, I found a fabulous second hand shop and have recently acquired an original Louie Vuitton handbag, and a beautiful Versace blouse at a fraction of the original price. It’s not about the label and price point. It’s about the quality and design. I worn scrubs for many years because I worked as a nurse in major trauma and critical care. Now, in retirement i love wearing beautiful outfits, it gives me joy. I dress up to go to the supermarket! Your advice has been very helpful in helping me find my way in the world of fashion, and expressing my individual style. Grazie Mille.
Dear Audrey, your rule, that an outfit should not have more than 3 colours is key! I am very thankful for all of your tips. The one to estimate if a blouse will fit is new to me and I'll try this on my next shopping trip. Also: your voice calms me down.
Plexus Sojus I was going to make the same comment about the three colour rule! That helped me this weekend when I was planning my outfit. I knew something seemed not right with my outfit and I had four colours, so I switched one item in my outfit and it looked so much better!
@@MissyJPHD Exactly. I was applying all her "rules" somehow unconsciously and sometimes, when I didn't, I felt something is wrong with the outfit but couldn't tell what. Now I am aware of these rules and can avoid such uncohesive outfits.
Yes! I’ve been putting that into practice and my outfit has looked more put together and more thoughtful. I play around with color as well, since it’s fall (my favorite time of the year) there are tons of items in my favorite tone colors. It’s so much fun for me. I look at clothes more than just a way to cover up my body.
The three-color advice has really changed the way people at work see me. I get a lot of comments about how well put together I look since implementing this conscientiously.
agreed! i am a very artistic artist & dress to reflect that. so many folks, over the years, say that i am always well put together. i mix and match various clothing genres, so that i can look "goth" and also "bohemian," all at the same time!
Great ideas! Thank you. Please consider creating videos on: 1. Choosing glasses 2. An all flat shoe wardrobe 3. How to look good when having to wear all flats shoes or other restrictions because of disability. Other topics could be, how do you choose a cane or disguise or dress around a brace?
As an optician, for choosing glasses I say please go to your local optical and a good optician will select frames that will fit your perfectly. There are also bespoke eyewear liens if you don’t find what you like.
I enjoy your videos very much. I smiled when you said you had a silk scarf six years, in your wardrobe. I have had silk scarves passed down to me from my mother from her mother, so at least 70 years old. They are still in reasonable condition with only a few rust marks. Still very wearable if you tie them the right way. I love them for their beauty and their history.
Anna Mcarthur isn’t it wonderful to have quality items that are heirlooms... I have things that go back to my grandmother 40’s-65 And very special things that were my great grandmothers. A few pieces beyond that. It’s so special to still enjoy them
Martha Ross Usually these items are not only special but they’re also classic, timeless and absolutely beautiful. I feel the most classy when I have on a beautiful hat from about the 1940s paired with a lovely tailored dress and a fabulous handbag!
I appreciate your educational efforts, Audrey. People used to be taught quality in home economics, but once those classes disappeared, manufacturers were able to sell more on marketing and less based on quality.
@Olivia Purcel I am in favor of teaching critical thinking skills in elementary schools (in addition to home ec)...of course, our kids will be intelligent and maybe a little bit less compliant...and that's a good thing in many ways. :)
@Olivia Purcel I agree...but many people would not - regardless of gender - as they still embrace old-school thinking that prefers obedience and conformity (in women and children)...we can raise their awareness to "check" this way of thinking. Look at our leadership example, leaping to intimidate or shutdown anyone who raises a question...when a child grows up in this environment, they tend to comply rather than dare to think critically. It is a cycle that needs work to break, we can't just wish it away.
That part about the pattern aligning is interesting. I didn’t know it was an indicator of a high quality garment, but I do avoid mismatched patterns simply because it looks bad. This is good to know though.
I agree - a holiday video would be great, particularly even a holiday "capsule" of classic but festive pieces that can be mixed and matched so that you don't look the same at all the holiday parties, but also don't spend a ton on a bunch of different items that are only appropriate at New Year's, etc. Great video today, as always!
Through the years I have found I would rather have fewer clothing items, with the bulk of the ones I do have being high quality, classic styles. I'm slowly replacing and purging my closet with this attitude. And the personal color pallet is key. I didn't realize it until watching this video, but that's the direction I'm going. These are fantastic tips. Thank you, Audrey.
I got out of buying few but higher quality items when I was a young mother. Spills, goopy hands, my weight going up and down all the time, etc. Now I'm trying to buy more high-quality things again. I keep having to remind myself that I don't have to worry about stains every day.
I carry a small retractable tape measure in my handbag for measuring inseam, bust and length measurements! It helps me decide what size to take to the dressing room. I've used your two tricks and it does work💚
Hot humid weather is awful. Glad I live in Switzerland where our climate is warm but mild with dry snowy winters. But I know the problem of hot humid weather when I used to live in Durban South Africa for a few years.
Me too, I live in the Caribbean so we are in ‘Summer,’ all year round, it’s just that our summer months are usually really hot and humid. We never usually go below 82 degrees so we can’t change our wardrobes around for the seasons. I have got my colors sorted, basically lots of white, along with black, beige and dark blue, with pink and periwinkle blue as accent colors. we don’t have excuses to wear sweaters, coats and all those lovely winter accessories. So I would be really interested on wardrobe suggestions for really hot weather, and, for using them year round.
@@janegeorge-john7272 Hi Jane, I smiled when I read at what you wrote. Like you say you hardly need to wear a jersey in the Caribbean. Here in Switzerland, it is another story. We need to have plently of socks, good strong shoes, jerseys and jackets. Our weather can change in a few hours. But we are lucky having four very different seasons.
I live in Dubai and our winters last about a month, and the temp only drops to 14C. The highest it goes up to in the summer is 49C. My hair is suffering every day :(
I love your videos and the focus on developing a personal style. A note on natural fibers. These fibers also are breathable. Where I live in the desert of Arizona, I only wear linen, cotton, or silk in the summer. But, even in the winter, it is easy to overheat in a synthetic polyester fabric. A wool or cashmere will keep you warm without overheating, whereas you may find a coat or jacket in synthetic needing to be taken on and off to regulate temperature.
I've been using the technique of holding up a top around my bust to check sizing for years. My Mum showed me it when I was a child. It's especially helpful if you're in a wheelchair, as disabled changing rooms are usually a nightmare, either too small, difficult to reach or used for storage & full of boxes. You can also use the same technique for your bottom half. I imagine it would be more reliable than using your neck, for people who are pear or apple shaped. There is a similar technique for socks. I know most socks have added synthetic fibres for stretch, but natural ones do not stretch at all so you have to buy the exact size. Clench your fist & wrap the sock around the widest part. The heel & toe of the sock should meet comfortably & slightly overlap, by about half a centimetre. I worked part time in a sock shop from the ages of 13 to 26, from school to post-graduate studies. It's a method we always used & were a very popular supplier of pure cotton & wool socks in our city. We had lots of regulars, including the staff at 2 local theatres who always had unusual requests. I remember the shop owner's delight when she managed to source a pair of over-the-knee socks for a leading lady in neon pink & green stripe in the late 80s. They were hideous but perfect for the role. I've forgotten what it was.
Justin Leconte explained about the quality of clothes and handbags in outlets. She is a designer and knows very much about fashion. I found Audrey 's channel through Justine's
That's why I have one coat, one bag, one pair of boots, all black. It always matches and I don't have to think about it or risk forgetting something important in one of the others. Surely that has also nothing to do with money, nooo :D
@@bludiamond, I have feet that are quite wide across the toe box & a AA heel. I generally purchase Haflinger mules. They fit well & are well made. I search EBay & find new or "used" (often without even a scuff on the soles) shoes I can afford, there.
@@OliviaEglantine chuckles.... Nope. Not at all. (Hums as she walks away. Can't whistle!) I've found buying quality returns or otherwise "used" on EBay, generally in as new condition, I'm actually able to get shoes that fit my feet. Mules are a God-send.
You are the definition of classy and wise WAY beyond your years! Love your style and you have helped me to build a quality, capsule wardrobe and not be tempted by fast fashion. Thank you.
Oh my goodness, Audrey! You're getting so good at this! I'm amazed at how much you can pack into a 10 minute video and it's chock full of concrete information, not the fluffy stuff. I've recently started shopping at a local thrift store (Value Village) and that is where I've put into action a lot of your tips when examining articles of clothing. I've made some really good finds. It's quite exciting!! Obviously it's very important with used clothing to look carefully for signs of wear. I almost resent paying store prices now. Haha. Anyway, thanks for being a ray of sunshine on a very wet Vancouver morning.
I love your videos because you do a good job of giving great advice while not being judgemental and taking down other women for the way they like to dress, which I think is a problem with a lot of fashion/beauty channels. You seem like a lovely person
Audrey, you make things so easy. I have elevated my style into a mature rational woman thanks to your advices. Now I feel confident anytime and I don't have to overthink what to wear. And I'm saving lots of money. I don't regret any purchase in the last two years.
Your tips are always valuable but your tips on estimating if pants or a blouse will fit are priceless. Sizes vary so much from brand to brand, and manufacturer to manufacturer. These two quick checks will be real time savers when heading to the dressing room. Thank you.
Between your videos and Alyssa Beltempo, I am curating my best closet pieces and thoughtfully and mindfully buying and decluttering my wardrobe of what suits me beautifully, if there ever was someone for you to collaborate with it would be her! PS, I’ve told her the same! Love you both!
Katy Larson...I laughed out loud when I read this! You see I read your comment on Alyssa's last video. You did indeed tell her the same! I love them both too! : ) Bet I would love you too!
I learn more from your brief videos on developing personal style than I have from flipping through tons of fashion magazines. For those of us who want to look “pulled together” without spending too much time, you are a godsend. Grateful for each of your tips!
Great information. It’s pretty much everything my grandmother taught me, as well. A woman with timeless personal style!!! I still wear some of her clothes. (Natural fiber- properly cared for) Vintage 1940-65. People are amazed when they inquire... no longer available for purchase 🤷🏼♀️ I really enjoy your videos and your personal style.
I just finished college and was at Nordstroms on the escalator I could see myself from a distance in the mirror. There I was in my old favorite coat it was way too big, shapeless and any life it had was now long gone! I started laughing . I went straight to the coat department and bought a well tailored fitted, high quality coat. Sometimes seeing yourself in a mirror from a far changes your view of things.
Hmm.. I don't think a neck size changes as much as a waist. This tip didn't really work for me when I gained weight, I'm afraid. But might work for you, good luck! :)
This trick doesn’t really work. It depends person to person. I bought a pair of jeans in rush just using this hack and once I came back home n tried, it didn’t really fit. Hope this trick works for u.
This is my favorite channel. I appreciate the effort you put into making things look neat and classic. For example, the music. It’s jazzy and makes me feel like I’m having coffee by a window on a rainy day. Thank you for your content. :)
Gosh everything you say everything you wear and the tone of your voice brings a smile to my heart! I'm learning so much and I feel so blessed to have found your Channel---continue spreading joy and your light! Truly, it is not wasted on me! XXOO
I really enjoyed this video because it actually had different tips than the one's that are repeatedly mentioned in in every other RUclips video. I jotted down several tips and I am thoroughly excited to try them!!!
I find myself doing this almost automatically. I do have flops, now & again, because I really didn't understand why one thing was perfect & another wasn't. Black, grey, red, & purple are my favorites, with black being my base color & the others are accent. My second base color is a vibrant, cool, red. I always wear dresses/skirts, never slacks or jeans. That way, I feel more put together & retain modesty. You're helping me articulate what I like, why, & what has caused the occasional flop. Thank you.
These are all very good tips especially for those who are just starting out with dressing better. The colour palette tip is a big one that I recommend to a lot of people. Once you've found the palette that looks good with your complexion that's great, but don't forget to personalize it by highlighting your favourite colours from it. My mom and I have a very similar complexion but our closets are very different with the colours we gravitate toward. It really lets your personality shine which in turn helps you look better in your outfits.
I buy timeless styles in the second-hand market. I am picky about brands, but I found a great store that stocks St. John, Prada, Chanel, Gucci. That is fantastic way to shop for me!
@Caiti M You are in for a treat! Great thrift and resale stores! Blu Bird Circle, The Guild Thrift, Junior Forum....great coach bags, I MEAN!!! Welcome to H-Town!
I think before using the measurements rules of jeans around neck and shirt till underarms, one should check if the rule works for them with the already well fit clothes they own at home.
Love these tips, they are simple and true! I must say though, generally you must be in shape for the pant around the neck tip. Too many people, even a little out of shape, have a waist larger than the circumference of their neck. This tip is not universal.
I really appreciate you Audrey! I think your comment about outlets is spot on. I used to work at an outlet and had a lot of clothes from that job and the clothes literally fell apart after a few washes. It was consistently bad quality clothing. It was disappointing and also a waste of money.
guess i've established the color pallette rule because my eyes are always automatically drawn to black and navy. now the problem is to avoid buying something so similar to what i already have at home 😂 you look really beautiful audrey, have a great day! ♥
@@klcampy oh my god i can relate. i have like 3 or 4 navy polkadots thing, be it blouse, dress, and skirts. (well... black polkadots too) with basic thing like black skirts i can let it slide cause i used them daily for office wear ☺
@Jessica, you can also pair black and navy in one outfit. It’s considered very “ Parisian”. Whatever its inspiration, these two colors can look fantastic together, in my opinion (IMO). Have a nice week. 🙂🌸
Thank you for these wonderful tips. I will now use your pants and shirts rule before hitting the dressing room a thousand times. You're thoughtful fashion sense is very much appreciated.
Love your videos, especially your soothing voice and elegant setting. Have learned lots and really appreciate the time and effort to put them together and share your experience. ❤️
Thank you for teaching and sharing what you know. I grew up with not the best teaching and never even considered getting things tailored until recently. So your videos are perfect cause I truly didn't know any of these things and frankly just felt overwhelmed with my wardrobe. Starting fresh now. Thankyou for being pleasant, simplifying everything and making it seem fun and easy to do:)
Such great tips. I stumbled on the colour palette tips myself after moving over seas and having to fit all clothes in 2 suitcases. At the time, I had red and black glasses, and navy blue glasses, so anything that made it into my suitcase had to be in red, navy, cream or black! I get comments all the time about being "well-dressed", yet I have a tiny capsule wardrobe. So easy to match everything and I never get stuck for outfits! Thanks for your sizing tips 💚
I love your grandma’s tip for checking if a top will fit! Why I have never heard of that before I don’t understand! 😊 Also - I agree with your suggestion about shopping from platforms like Poshmark. I have a few pairs of premium denim that I couldn’t have afforded new but what I spent was equivalent to what I used to spend for jeans at Target. I also bought a new with tags Dawn Levy coat for $25 and a new with tags Walter Baker genuine leather coat for $88. Its worth looking!
One thing on button holes: look closely at them. If you see edges of fabric, they were sewn and then cut, which is a cheaper way of construction. It should be a smooth edge of thread, indicating they were cut, then sewn. Also, buttons on lined pieces: flip it over and look at the back. If the buttons were sewn through the lining: cheaply made.
I didn't know about what was happening to the Outlet Stores but on a few occasions I have looked at so called "Designer Items" and actually thought they were fakes! Lovely video Audrey. Thank you.
I absolutely agree about outlets - you have to look very carefully whether the pieces they sell are really worth it. But I regularly look out for sales on company websites. Ralph Lauren for example has a sale twice a year (I think) and you can get many items 50 percent off. A big thank you for your advice - very helpful as always!
You're right. I grow up that most of my outfit is tailored. My mother is very strict when it comes to dressing. I'm very keen to the stitches & kind of fabric used.
Your videos are incredibly helpful. I can definitely say my closet has improved since discovering your channel! I no longer mindlessly shop and I’ve been able to purge a lot of clothes that I just no longer wear 😁
The color palette tip is the best ever. Once I figured mine out years ago it has saved me from spending way more money than I needed to. I used to feel like I HAD to wear color so I’d buy things in different colors and half the time I’d only ever wear the same 2 colors and everything would just go unworn. Now my closet is mainly black and white with only sprinkles of dusty rose, burgundy, and muted green.
Thanks for being my Style Guru! I learn so much from your videos, and enjoy how beautiful and stylish they are. AND that you keep the content rich and concise. Love the fit hacks, too. Thank you!
I love having a selection of black pieces! It is helpful to have several different pairs of black pants in different cuts and fabrics. I also have purchased a mock neck black sweater, a 3/4 sleeve crew neck, and a v-neck shawl style. I’m prepared for nearly anything when it comes to that base color. I also definitely agree that matching accessories looks more chic. Good tips! I get many compliments too!
I’ve used the tip about how to know if a shirt will fit me for years. It’s a must for women with a large bust because a lot of tops don’t fit us. I had heard about the measuring a waistband around your neck, but have never used it. I think a better one is to place your forearm in the waist opening and that should fit you. So, it’s elbow to wrist.
I totally agree! I have a very low budget so I always thrift and the quality I get is amazing! I’ve come to love thrift shopping to curate my wardrobe and most of my wardrobe is vintage silk, linen, wool, and cashmere plus silk scarves and Italian leather handbags and shoes and I only ever spend between 50 cents and $15 per item! I highly recommend looking in the men’s section as well because I have found that men’s items are just made better! Find your conversion size in men’s shoes and you will be amazing at the leather quality in loafers, boots, and oxfords. I also find amazing men’s coats and blazers that are cashmere, silk, wool, and I even recently bought a vintage 100% camel hair silk lined men’s blazer for $2 at goodwill.
Goodness. You are the sister I never had. So genuine and warm and stylish. Every video is such a treat! Thank you so much for all your hard work. Much love. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
I also have a rule of 2, maximum 3 colors. That's just simple elegant and easy. Thank you for this video packed with so much useful information. Looking forward for another one. Specially a Christmas one 🙂
Audrey, you are lovely. I’m so glad to have found your channel. I’m much more of a trendy dresser but your channel is helping me transition to a more classic elegant style. Quirky elegance is what I’m going for 😉
A month ago I found really high quality items at an outlet store. There is a lot of trash but you can find good things too. So I wouldn`t avoid the stores. It`s like thrifting. You have to be patient before you can find something good. I would not avoid them. I love the pieces I bough there, best shirts I ever had! (I live in germany, at least here I can recommend)
Thanks for clarifying the outlet issue. Many, many years ago outlets were where you found great deals on designer clothes, alas, no more. Ebay is the place!
Great tips especially the one about trying on a shirt. I've never heard of that one and will definitely use that one the next time I buy a blouse or shirt.
I guess it depends on the outlet. Where I shop these are last season pieces. You can always check for yourself... I’ve bought quite a few items in outlets that lasted me for years. I live in Europe so I’m not sure how’s the situation in the USA. But lovely video indeed 😍
This is advice I have always needed. Organization and presentation is so important to me, yet my personal style has been THE unsolved accident in my life. I will start with your color palette rule, and try to challenge myself to match my shoes to one piece in each outfit. Also - I had to subscribe! Your enunciation and even tone makes it very pleasing and easy to listen to the video. Thank you!
thanks for these tips! the shirt measurement hack makes sense because you're basically taking the flat armpit-to-armpit measurement of the shirt and comparing it to your own measurements. however, i will say the pants-around-the-neck hack absolutely does not work for plus size folks (or really anyone who has wide hips), so if anyone reading this falls into that category, keep that in mind!
FABRIC: I finally found a pair of gaberdine black dress slacks....it took me over a year and now I love them and wear them all the time.....great video
Love your tips so much, Audrey! They really have helped me building a more thoughtful wardrobe. I’m still in the process, but already see so many improvements 💜
I’ve always used the method of wrapping clothes around me to the under arms to see if the fit but never the trouser measurement you showed. I’d feel a bit sill in a shop doing that but may I’ll try it 😂 Thank you for the video.
OMG, the tip about fitting pants around the neck or tops under the armpits is so valuable!! I was just heading to a thrift store when your video popped up! Great tips!
The thing with labels is that they're associated with status. Now everybody literally die for the trap. There's no concern with environment and labor issues, not to mention where one's throwing their time and energy at. The only thing that matters is being viewed and liked virtually, outside the gadgets no one cares. It's insanely sad.
@@patriciavincent3838 - Supply and demand is the free market, not capitalism (free market is compatible with almost any basic economic system in a democracy). Capitalism is mostly about a small few owning the means of production, which contributes to fast accumulation of wealth for those individuals. With the economic necessity to increase wealth indefinitely to keep the cog turning, the exploitation of workers for cheap labor is irresistable, leading to deregulation (hence why corporations want to influence, or be part of, the government). You're absolutely right that consumerism is a big part of it (corporations looking to make money prefer "consumers" over "customers"), but consumerism and capitalism go hand-in-hand. In other words, you're both right! =D
@@nathaliesophie4207 How do you notice that? Except for visible logos (ugh!) no-one can see the brand, but they can observe the quality of fabric, design, finish.
I wouldnt worry much abt it People also trash Zara which I find to be decent quality. I also shop boohoo and some of the stuff has lasted me years Everyone shops what they can afford so that s exactly what I do
@@shayhyphenlee i also get stuff from outlets and second hand (thrift/vintage) shops. If someone wants to buy a piece of clothing that even their grandkids can wear sure by all means spend a small fortune on quality but I tend to change stuff quite frequently so i dont look for best quality always
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This comment made me smile!
this took me out! lolllllll
ermagawd yess lol i was scrolling to see if anyone acknowledges her tone. i love it though :)
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I like that she is pleasant the whole time. She never gets negative or insults anyone for not being skilled at dressing
you have the most calming voice and speaking ive ever heard
Tijana Marjanov true! I fell asleep to this video yesterday (but i didn't want to)
I was just gonna comment this!!
It's so rare nowadays I feel like, especially here on RUclips >.
So true! I love how calm and clear and kind she was. The advice really came through. Subscribed instantly.
I agree but the echo kills it for me
I was thinking this too... please narrate my life. It would go way smoother with her voice instead of mine, for sure.
Great advice! For many years, I have used the trick to measure the pants for fit! I laughed recently when shopping in a second hand market as I noticed a woman staring at me as I measured the waistband on my neck! I am an American recently retired to southern Italy, I found a fabulous second hand shop and have recently acquired an original Louie Vuitton handbag, and a beautiful Versace blouse at a fraction of the original price. It’s not about the label and price point. It’s about the quality and design. I worn scrubs for many years because I worked as a nurse in major trauma and critical care. Now, in retirement i love wearing beautiful outfits, it gives me joy. I dress up to go to the supermarket! Your advice has been very helpful in helping me find my way in the world of fashion, and expressing my individual style. Grazie Mille.
Dear Audrey, your rule, that an outfit should not have more than 3 colours is key! I am very thankful for all of your tips. The one to estimate if a blouse will fit is new to me and I'll try this on my next shopping trip. Also: your voice calms me down.
Plexus Sojus I was going to make the same comment about the three colour rule! That helped me this weekend when I was planning my outfit. I knew something seemed not right with my outfit and I had four colours, so I switched one item in my outfit and it looked so much better!
@@MissyJPHD Exactly. I was applying all her "rules" somehow unconsciously and sometimes, when I didn't, I felt something is wrong with the outfit but couldn't tell what. Now I am aware of these rules and can avoid such uncohesive outfits.
Yes! I’ve been putting that into practice and my outfit has looked more put together and more thoughtful. I play around with color as well, since it’s fall (my favorite time of the year) there are tons of items in my favorite tone colors. It’s so much fun for me. I look at clothes more than just a way to cover up my body.
The three-color advice has really changed the way people at work see me. I get a lot of comments about how well put together I look since implementing this conscientiously.
people go over three colors? i wear black on black on black
”Cultivate personal style over personal fashion” awesome 👍
Best tip ever!👍👍
agreed! i am a very artistic artist & dress to reflect that. so many folks, over the years, say that i am always well put together. i mix and match various clothing genres, so that i can look "goth" and also "bohemian," all at the same time!
Great ideas! Thank you. Please consider creating videos on:
1. Choosing glasses
2. An all flat shoe wardrobe
3. How to look good when having to wear all flats shoes or other restrictions because of disability. Other topics could be, how do you choose a cane or disguise or dress around a brace?
Interesting! I usually wear flat shoes, heels very seldom.
I don't wear heels either - not because of disability but because they are uncomfortable.
As an optician, for choosing glasses I say please go to your local optical and a good optician will select frames that will fit your perfectly. There are also bespoke eyewear liens if you don’t find what you like.
I enjoy your videos very much. I smiled when you said you had a silk scarf six years, in your wardrobe. I have had silk scarves passed down to me from my mother from her mother, so at least 70 years old. They are still in reasonable condition with only a few rust marks. Still very wearable if you tie them the right way. I love them for their beauty and their history.
Anna Mcarthur isn’t it wonderful to have quality items that are heirlooms... I have things that go back to my grandmother 40’s-65
And very special things that were my great grandmothers. A few pieces beyond that.
It’s so special to still enjoy them
Martha Ross Usually these items are not only special but they’re also classic, timeless and absolutely beautiful. I feel the most classy when I have on a beautiful hat from about the 1940s paired with a lovely tailored dress and a fabulous handbag!
I am 18 and my grandma is almost 70 and I wear things that she wore when she was my age!
Anna Mcarthur Some of my scarves are 50 years old. I rarely leave the house without one as an accent piece.
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I appreciate your educational efforts, Audrey. People used to be taught quality in home economics, but once those classes disappeared, manufacturers were able to sell more on marketing and less based on quality.
@Olivia Purcel I am in favor of teaching critical thinking skills in elementary schools (in addition to home ec)...of course, our kids will be intelligent and maybe a little bit less compliant...and that's a good thing in many ways.
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@Olivia Purcel I agree...but many people would not - regardless of gender - as they still embrace old-school thinking that prefers obedience and conformity (in women and children)...we can raise their awareness to "check" this way of thinking. Look at our leadership example, leaping to intimidate or shutdown anyone who raises a question...when a child grows up in this environment, they tend to comply rather than dare to think critically. It is a cycle that needs work to break, we can't just wish it away.
That part about the pattern aligning is interesting. I didn’t know it was an indicator of a high quality garment, but I do avoid mismatched patterns simply because it looks bad. This is good to know though.
I agree - a holiday video would be great, particularly even a holiday "capsule" of classic but festive pieces that can be mixed and matched so that you don't look the same at all the holiday parties, but also don't spend a ton on a bunch of different items that are only appropriate at New Year's, etc. Great video today, as always!
Through the years I have found I would rather have fewer clothing items, with the bulk of the ones I do have being high quality, classic styles. I'm slowly replacing and purging my closet with this attitude. And the personal color pallet is key. I didn't realize it until watching this video, but that's the direction I'm going. These are fantastic tips. Thank you, Audrey.
I got out of buying few but higher quality items when I was a young mother. Spills, goopy hands, my weight going up and down all the time, etc. Now I'm trying to buy more high-quality things again. I keep having to remind myself that I don't have to worry about stains every day.
I carry a small retractable tape measure in my handbag for measuring inseam, bust and length measurements! It helps me decide what size to take to the dressing room. I've used your two tricks and it does work💚
I live in humid/hot weather all year long, love to see what you could put together
Hot humid weather is awful. Glad
I live in Switzerland where our climate is warm but mild with
dry snowy winters. But I know
the problem of hot humid weather
when I used to live in Durban
South Africa for a few years.
Same here. I live in Florida and am yearning for cooler, dryer weather!
Me too, I live in the Caribbean so we are in ‘Summer,’ all year round, it’s just that our summer months are usually really hot and humid. We never usually go below 82 degrees so we can’t change our wardrobes around for the seasons. I have got my colors sorted, basically lots of white, along with black, beige and dark blue, with pink and periwinkle blue as accent colors. we don’t have excuses to wear sweaters, coats and all those lovely winter accessories. So I would be really interested on wardrobe suggestions for really hot weather, and, for using them year round.
@@janegeorge-john7272 Hi Jane, I
smiled when I read at what you
wrote. Like you say you hardly
need to wear a jersey in the
Caribbean. Here in Switzerland,
it is another story. We need to
have plently of socks, good
strong shoes, jerseys and jackets.
Our weather can change in a few
hours. But we are lucky having
four very different seasons.
I live in Dubai and our winters last about a month, and the temp only drops to 14C. The highest it goes up to in the summer is 49C. My hair is suffering every day :(
I love your videos and the focus on developing a personal style. A note on natural fibers. These fibers also are breathable. Where I live in the desert of Arizona, I only wear linen, cotton, or silk in the summer. But, even in the winter, it is easy to overheat in a synthetic polyester fabric. A wool or cashmere will keep you warm without overheating, whereas you may find a coat or jacket in synthetic needing to be taken on and off to regulate temperature.
I've been using the technique of holding up a top around my bust to check sizing for years. My Mum showed me it when I was a child. It's especially helpful if you're in a wheelchair, as disabled changing rooms are usually a nightmare, either too small, difficult to reach or used for storage & full of boxes.
You can also use the same technique for your bottom half. I imagine it would be more reliable than using your neck, for people who are pear or apple shaped.
There is a similar technique for socks. I know most socks have added synthetic fibres for stretch, but natural ones do not stretch at all so you have to buy the exact size. Clench your fist & wrap the sock around the widest part. The heel & toe of the sock should meet comfortably & slightly overlap, by about half a centimetre. I worked part time in a sock shop from the ages of 13 to 26, from school to post-graduate studies. It's a method we always used & were a very popular supplier of pure cotton & wool socks in our city. We had lots of regulars, including the staff at 2 local theatres who always had unusual requests. I remember the shop owner's delight when she managed to source a pair of over-the-knee socks for a leading lady in neon pink & green stripe in the late 80s. They were hideous but perfect for the role. I've forgotten what it was.
Justin Leconte explained about the quality of clothes and handbags in outlets. She is a designer and knows very much about fashion.
I found Audrey 's channel through Justine's
HuMbLeBeE ----- me too!!! She recommended Audrey’s channel when she talked about capsule wardrobes and I’ve been here ever since❤️
Same for me! And I really love both of them
And me! x
Same here! I found Audrey through Justine 2 years ago
I too watch them both
"shoe colour should match the outfit"
Me: looks at the 4 pairs of shoes I've been wearing for the past 3 years
MsBlulucky 😂😂
Same! I have really wide feet and no money so finding shoes that fit that I can afford is impossible. :(
That's why I have one coat, one bag, one pair of boots, all black. It always matches and I don't have to think about it or risk forgetting something important in one of the others. Surely that has also nothing to do with money, nooo :D
@@bludiamond, I have feet that are quite wide across the toe box & a AA heel. I generally purchase Haflinger mules. They fit well & are well made. I search EBay & find new or "used" (often without even a scuff on the soles) shoes I can afford, there.
@@OliviaEglantine chuckles.... Nope. Not at all. (Hums as she walks away. Can't whistle!) I've found buying quality returns or otherwise "used" on EBay, generally in as new condition, I'm actually able to get shoes that fit my feet. Mules are a God-send.
I just love her energy! ✨
She's so calm and always has the cutest, bubbly smile ever! :')
I’m a senior in college trying to upgrade and especially reduce my wardrobe to something a little more elegant/timeless. Your videos help me so much!
You are the definition of classy and wise WAY beyond your years! Love your style and you have helped me to build a quality, capsule wardrobe and not be tempted by fast fashion. Thank you.
Oh my goodness, Audrey! You're getting so good at this! I'm amazed at how much you can pack into a 10 minute video and it's chock full of concrete information, not the fluffy stuff.
I've recently started shopping at a local thrift store (Value Village) and that is where I've put into action a lot of your tips when examining articles of clothing. I've made some really good finds. It's quite exciting!! Obviously it's very important with used clothing to look carefully for signs of wear. I almost resent paying store prices now. Haha. Anyway, thanks for being a ray of sunshine on a very wet Vancouver morning.
I love your videos because you do a good job of giving great advice while not being judgemental and taking down other women for the way they like to dress, which I think is a problem with a lot of fashion/beauty channels. You seem like a lovely person
This series is especially helpful to me - I am going through all my clothes to enable me to begin to build a capsule wardrobe. Thanks, Audrey!
Audrey, you make things so easy. I have elevated my style into a mature rational woman thanks to your advices. Now I feel confident anytime and I don't have to overthink what to wear. And I'm saving lots of money. I don't regret any purchase in the last two years.
Love Audrey! She has such a beautiful and soothing voice, and her presentations are always excellent. What a class act
The T-shirt and pants "hack" is so good! I've always done this because my mom teached me this. It works most of the time.
I love the manner you speak Audrey,, along with your tone, not too formal, cool and calm. 🥰
Your tips are always valuable but your tips on estimating if pants or a blouse will fit are priceless. Sizes vary so much from brand to brand, and manufacturer to manufacturer. These two quick checks will be real time savers when heading to the dressing room. Thank you.
Between your videos and Alyssa Beltempo, I am curating my best closet pieces and thoughtfully and mindfully buying and decluttering my wardrobe of what suits me beautifully, if there ever was someone for you to collaborate with it would be her! PS, I’ve told her the same! Love you both!
Same!!
I really do hope Alyssa and Audrey collaborate one day! It would be the video of dreams!
Yes!!!!
Katy Larson...I laughed out loud when I read this! You see I read your comment on Alyssa's last video. You did indeed tell her the same! I love them both too! : ) Bet I would love you too!
Busbee Style is another great RUclips channel! Finding all three was like winning a trifecta!
I learn more from your brief videos on developing personal style than I have from flipping through tons of fashion magazines. For those of us who want to look “pulled together” without spending too much time, you are a godsend. Grateful for each of your tips!
Great information.
It’s pretty much everything my grandmother taught me, as well.
A woman with timeless personal style!!!
I still wear some of her clothes.
(Natural fiber- properly cared for)
Vintage 1940-65.
People are amazed when they inquire... no longer available for purchase 🤷🏼♀️
I really enjoy your videos and your personal style.
I love your positive, upbeat non judgment attitude. Thank you for your videos; they are such a help to me!
I just finished college and was at Nordstroms on the escalator I could see myself from a distance in the mirror. There I was in my old favorite coat it was way too big, shapeless and any life it had was now long gone! I started laughing . I went straight to the coat department and bought a well tailored fitted, high quality coat. Sometimes seeing yourself in a mirror from a far changes your view of things.
That's true, it happended to me with my hair
On the other hand, I once saw myself in a store window and wished I looked like that, then realized it was me! That doesn't happen to me very often!
The trouser waistband around the neck to determine if they'll be the right waist size is an amazing tip! It's going to be so useful. Thank you!
Hmm.. I don't think a neck size changes as much as a waist. This tip didn't really work for me when I gained weight, I'm afraid. But might work for you, good luck! :)
This trick doesn’t really work. It depends person to person. I bought a pair of jeans in rush just using this hack and once I came back home n tried, it didn’t really fit. Hope this trick works for u.
That would never work for me. My neck is barely 10 inches all the way around, and my waist is like 28/29 inches... definitely wouldnt fit 😂
@@TheGreeneBead exactly! :)
I just carry a tiny, retracing tape measure in my purse. I like to thrift and shop vintage and it’s so much faster to just measure the item.
your voice is so relaxing to listen to, and you've really helped me with how to dress recently!! i love your videos :)
This is my favorite channel. I appreciate the effort you put into making things look neat and classic. For example, the music. It’s jazzy and makes me feel like I’m having coffee by a window on a rainy day. Thank you for your content. :)
Gosh everything you say everything you wear and the tone of your voice brings a smile to my heart! I'm learning so much and I feel so blessed to have found your Channel---continue spreading joy and your light! Truly, it is not wasted on me! XXOO
I’m 57 and have learned so much for you in the short time I have found you
Thx!
Love your calm and quiet voice too - 😊
the buttons were a huge game changer. now everytime i shop i always use your tips as a guide!
"Always be cultivating personal style over fashion."
Love it! Thank you
I really enjoyed this video because it actually had different tips than the one's that are repeatedly mentioned in in every other RUclips video. I jotted down several tips and I am thoroughly excited to try them!!!
I find myself doing this almost automatically. I do have flops, now & again, because I really didn't understand why one thing was perfect & another wasn't.
Black, grey, red, & purple are my favorites, with black being my base color & the others are accent.
My second base color is a vibrant, cool, red.
I always wear dresses/skirts, never slacks or jeans.
That way, I feel more put together & retain modesty.
You're helping me articulate what I like, why, & what has caused the occasional flop. Thank you.
These are all very good tips especially for those who are just starting out with dressing better. The colour palette tip is a big one that I recommend to a lot of people. Once you've found the palette that looks good with your complexion that's great, but don't forget to personalize it by highlighting your favourite colours from it. My mom and I have a very similar complexion but our closets are very different with the colours we gravitate toward. It really lets your personality shine which in turn helps you look better in your outfits.
I buy timeless styles in the second-hand market. I am picky about brands, but I found a great store that stocks St. John, Prada, Chanel, Gucci. That is fantastic way to shop for me!
Where do you buy from?
@@erikaelizabethlopez9212 In Houston, Designer Diva.
@Caiti M You are in for a treat! Great thrift and resale stores! Blu Bird Circle, The Guild Thrift, Junior Forum....great coach bags, I MEAN!!! Welcome to H-Town!
I think before using the measurements rules of jeans around neck and shirt till underarms, one should check if the rule works for them with the already well fit clothes they own at home.
Love these tips, they are simple and true!
I must say though, generally you must be in shape for the pant around the neck tip. Too many people, even a little out of shape, have a waist larger than the circumference of their neck. This tip is not universal.
I thought the same especially for pear shape women this would definitely not apply.
True. If you have a potbelly this would not work.
Same for the shirt trick. If your belly is larger than your chest, that trick wont work either.
I think these fitting tips work best on people who have normal BMI.
I really appreciate you Audrey! I think your comment about outlets is spot on. I used to work at an outlet and had a lot of clothes from that job and the clothes literally fell apart after a few washes. It was consistently bad quality clothing. It was disappointing and also a waste of money.
guess i've established the color pallette rule because my eyes are always automatically drawn to black and navy. now the problem is to avoid buying something so similar to what i already have at home 😂 you look really beautiful audrey, have a great day! ♥
jessica I am clearing out my closet and finding dozens (literally) of black skirts in a large range of sizes, shapes and lengths. ☺️
@@klcampy oh my god i can relate. i have like 3 or 4 navy polkadots thing, be it blouse, dress, and skirts. (well... black polkadots too)
with basic thing like black skirts i can let it slide cause i used them daily for office wear ☺
@Jessica, you can also pair black and navy in one outfit. It’s considered very “ Parisian”. Whatever its inspiration, these two colors can look fantastic together, in my opinion (IMO). Have a nice week. 🙂🌸
@@cUser691 I-ll try that, I thought it'd look horrible! But I did'mt want to get rid of my navy blue things cause I love them
You should take pictures of all your clothes and make a pdf or word document or something so you can know what you have!
Thank you for these wonderful tips. I will now use your pants and shirts rule before hitting the dressing room a thousand times. You're thoughtful fashion sense is very much appreciated.
Love your videos, especially your soothing voice and elegant setting. Have learned lots and really appreciate the time and effort to put them together and share your experience. ❤️
Claire Bear
My thoughts exactly. Thank you for expressing them so beautifully.
Thank you for teaching and sharing what you know. I grew up with not the best teaching and never even considered getting things tailored until recently. So your videos are perfect cause I truly didn't know any of these things and frankly just felt overwhelmed with my wardrobe. Starting fresh now. Thankyou for being pleasant, simplifying everything and making it seem fun and easy to do:)
Such great tips. I stumbled on the colour palette tips myself after moving over seas and having to fit all clothes in 2 suitcases. At the time, I had red and black glasses, and navy blue glasses, so anything that made it into my suitcase had to be in red, navy, cream or black! I get comments all the time about being "well-dressed", yet I have a tiny capsule wardrobe. So easy to match everything and I never get stuck for outfits! Thanks for your sizing tips 💚
I love your grandma’s tip for checking if a top will fit! Why I have never heard of that before I don’t understand! 😊 Also - I agree with your suggestion about shopping from platforms like Poshmark. I have a few pairs of premium denim that I couldn’t have afforded new but what I spent was equivalent to what I used to spend for jeans at Target. I also bought a new with tags Dawn Levy coat for $25 and a new with tags Walter Baker genuine leather coat for $88. Its worth looking!
One thing on button holes: look closely at them. If you see edges of fabric, they were sewn and then cut, which is a cheaper way of construction. It should be a smooth edge of thread, indicating they were cut, then sewn. Also, buttons on lined pieces: flip it over and look at the back. If the buttons were sewn through the lining: cheaply made.
I didn't know about what was happening to the Outlet Stores but on a few occasions I have looked at so called "Designer Items" and actually thought they were fakes! Lovely video Audrey. Thank you.
I absolutely agree about outlets - you have to look very carefully whether the pieces they sell are really worth it. But I regularly look out for sales on company websites. Ralph Lauren for example has a sale twice a year (I think) and you can get many items 50 percent off.
A big thank you for your advice - very helpful as always!
You're right. I grow up that most of my outfit is tailored. My mother is very strict when it comes to dressing. I'm very keen to the stitches & kind of fabric used.
Outlets in Switzerland carry high
quality I have found. Also nice
classical garments.
thank you for mentioning patterns lining up at the seams. I sew and that's a real skill and a sign of quality for sure.
Your videos are incredibly helpful. I can definitely say my closet has improved since discovering your channel! I no longer mindlessly shop and I’ve been able to purge a lot of clothes that I just no longer wear 😁
The color palette tip is the best ever. Once I figured mine out years ago it has saved me from spending way more money than I needed to. I used to feel like I HAD to wear color so I’d buy things in different colors and half the time I’d only ever wear the same 2 colors and everything would just go unworn. Now my closet is mainly black and white with only sprinkles of dusty rose, burgundy, and muted green.
Thanks for being my Style Guru! I learn so much from your videos, and enjoy how beautiful and stylish they are. AND that you keep the content rich and concise. Love the fit hacks, too. Thank you!
The tip to determine if a shirt fits you was very interesting, I never heard it before but I'm definitely trying it out, thanks!! Great video :)
I love having a selection of black pieces! It is helpful to have several different pairs of black pants in different cuts and fabrics. I also have purchased a mock neck black sweater, a 3/4 sleeve crew neck, and a v-neck shawl style. I’m prepared for nearly anything when it comes to that base color. I also definitely agree that matching accessories looks more chic. Good tips! I get many compliments too!
I’ve used the tip about how to know if a shirt will fit me for years. It’s a must for women with a large bust because a lot of tops don’t fit us. I had heard about the measuring a waistband around your neck, but have never used it. I think a better one is to place your forearm in the waist opening and that should fit you. So, it’s elbow to wrist.
Oh good one about the elbow-wrist...thx
You actually give true hacks for being presentable and pleasing to the eyes of the looker and to your eyes as well. Glad I found your channel.
I totally agree! I have a very low budget so I always thrift and the quality I get is amazing! I’ve come to love thrift shopping to curate my wardrobe and most of my wardrobe is vintage silk, linen, wool, and cashmere plus silk scarves and Italian leather handbags and shoes and I only ever spend between 50 cents and $15 per item! I highly recommend looking in the men’s section as well because I have found that men’s items are just made better! Find your conversion size in men’s shoes and you will be amazing at the leather quality in loafers, boots, and oxfords. I also find amazing men’s coats and blazers that are cashmere, silk, wool, and I even recently bought a vintage 100% camel hair silk lined men’s blazer for $2 at goodwill.
Goodness. You are the sister I never had. So genuine and warm and stylish. Every video is such a treat! Thank you so much for all your hard work. Much love. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
Omg the personal color palette tip was mind blowing for me!
Love your taste in clothes & the way you talk- so calming!
Great video. You have a talent for taking what seems to be complex and revealing its simplicity.
I can hear a smile after each word
I love the fact she doesn't have "like" in each of her sentences.
I also have a rule of 2, maximum 3 colors. That's just simple elegant and easy.
Thank you for this video packed with so much useful information. Looking forward for another one. Specially a Christmas one 🙂
Audrey, you are lovely. I’m so glad to have found your channel. I’m much more of a trendy dresser but your channel is helping me transition to a more classic elegant style. Quirky elegance is what I’m going for 😉
Great points Audrey! You forgot to add the higher the quality the more generous in sizing.
I learned a lot from your tips on the dressing. I love your voice, so sweet and clear
A month ago I found really high quality items at an outlet store. There is a lot of trash but you can find good things too. So I wouldn`t avoid the stores. It`s like thrifting. You have to be patient before you can find something good. I would not avoid them. I love the pieces I bough there, best shirts I ever had! (I live in germany, at least here I can recommend)
Every time I watch this channel I get so relaxed and happy
Thank you, thank you, TY for mentioning avoidance of outlets and TJM/Marshall's. Audrey you have STC.
1. Style
2. Taste
3. Class
Mind blowing tips for knowing if something might fit at 6:00. How does that even work? But it does! Thank you!!!
I would love to watch your wellness routine. You look so beautiful and healthy.
Thanks for clarifying the outlet issue. Many, many years ago outlets were where you found great deals on designer clothes, alas, no more. Ebay is the place!
I agree.
@Georgia Tucker very true! I've found some designer boots/shoes never worn new from Ebay at great prices!
That only works if you have already seen the original item in person to evaluate the fabric, finish and fit.
Great tips especially the one about trying on a shirt. I've never heard of that one and will definitely use that one the next time I buy a blouse or shirt.
The shirt tip is brilliant.
A friend told me about that trick....and it works!
Wow you are just great ! Voice is so clear and its a joy to listen to you.
I guess it depends on the outlet. Where I shop these are last season pieces. You can always check for yourself... I’ve bought quite a few items in outlets that lasted me for years. I live in Europe so I’m not sure how’s the situation in the USA. But lovely video indeed 😍
This is advice I have always needed. Organization and presentation is so important to me, yet my personal style has been THE unsolved accident in my life. I will start with your color palette rule, and try to challenge myself to match my shoes to one piece in each outfit.
Also - I had to subscribe! Your enunciation and even tone makes it very pleasing and easy to listen to the video. Thank you!
thanks for these tips! the shirt measurement hack makes sense because you're basically taking the flat armpit-to-armpit measurement of the shirt and comparing it to your own measurements. however, i will say the pants-around-the-neck hack absolutely does not work for plus size folks (or really anyone who has wide hips), so if anyone reading this falls into that category, keep that in mind!
FABRIC: I finally found a pair of gaberdine black dress slacks....it took me over a year and now I love them and wear them all the time.....great video
Part 2 is amazing. Thanks , Audrey.
Love your tips so much, Audrey! They really have helped me building a more thoughtful wardrobe. I’m still in the process, but already see so many improvements 💜
judging solely on the thumbnail, i was kinda surprised (but happy!) to see such a thoughtful video. definitely subscribing!
I’ve always used the method of wrapping clothes around me to the under arms to see if the fit but never the trouser measurement you showed. I’d feel a bit sill in a shop doing that but may I’ll try it 😂 Thank you for the video.
OMG, the tip about fitting pants around the neck or tops under the armpits is so valuable!! I was just heading to a thrift store when your video popped up! Great tips!
The thing with labels is that they're associated with status. Now everybody literally die for the trap. There's no concern with environment and labor issues, not to mention where one's throwing their time and energy at. The only thing that matters is being viewed and liked virtually, outside the gadgets no one cares. It's insanely sad.
Totally agree! You can see all these bloggers just kind of encouraging to do that! Pretty sad, indeed!
Jacqueline Natividade capitalism
I think it may be more consumerism, than capitalism, Vera. Although, they tend to go hand-in-hand (i.e., supply and demand).
@@patriciavincent3838 - Supply and demand is the free market, not capitalism (free market is compatible with almost any basic economic system in a democracy). Capitalism is mostly about a small few owning the means of production, which contributes to fast accumulation of wealth for those individuals. With the economic necessity to increase wealth indefinitely to keep the cog turning, the exploitation of workers for cheap labor is irresistable, leading to deregulation (hence why corporations want to influence, or be part of, the government).
You're absolutely right that consumerism is a big part of it (corporations looking to make money prefer "consumers" over "customers"), but consumerism and capitalism go hand-in-hand.
In other words, you're both right! =D
@@nathaliesophie4207 How do you notice that? Except for visible logos (ugh!) no-one can see the brand, but they can observe the quality of fabric, design, finish.
watching you talking about outfits is always such enjoyable, thanks Audrey!
When she said avoid outlets like.. TJ Max & Marshall’s 😳😅 those are my stores lol
I wouldnt worry much abt it
People also trash Zara which I find to be decent quality. I also shop boohoo and some of the stuff has lasted me years
Everyone shops what they can afford so that s exactly what I do
Right? I get very decent stuff in those stores.
Plus i prefer to buy in outlets than to buy a second hand. A second hand would be a second option.
@@shayhyphenlee i also get stuff from outlets and second hand (thrift/vintage) shops. If someone wants to buy a piece of clothing that even their grandkids can wear sure by all means spend a small fortune on quality but I tend to change stuff quite frequently so i dont look for best quality always
Haha me too!! Why not?