I actually just bought what is best described as a cloak (extra Long hooded cardigan) for Christmas! i wear what i want, i spent 6 months in a suit last year, and now I’m branching out into unconventional clothing
For anyone out there who are constantly afraid of how you dress, if there's one thing I learned growing up is that, unless your fashion senses are abysmally broken, it doesn't really matter how you dress as long as you wear it with pride. I live in a big city, Montréal Canada to be precise, where everyone has a different style due to the staggering amount of diversity we have here. No matter what I wear, whether I'm rocking a semi-formal getup or wearing the geekiest shirts I possess, I always get smiles at me or sometimes have strangers strike up a conversation. From what my friends and loved ones told me, it's simply because I exude confidence and approachability whenever I walk or talk to someone. Your dressing style is a reflection of who you are at your core. I rather you dress in what makes you feel comfortable than trying to dress like someone you're not just to satisfy social norms. Be yourself, don't let shame guide your life. I'm more likely to talk to someone who dresses with passion instead of conformity. Authenticity is everything.
"Your dressing style is a reflection of who you are at your core. I rather you dress in what makes you feel comfortable than trying to dress like someone you're not just to satisfy social norms." 100% agreed. This is a good video (at least I think so) for dressing in this kind of style. And there's nothing wrong with this style. But, I'm someon who dresses up in a nerdy t-shirt and neon, mismatched shorts. That is *my* style. Is it for everyone? No. Is "less adult" than what was showcased here? Arguably. But it's what I'm into, it's what I feel comfortable in. The "casual" outfits showcased in this video I would consider formal and I would feel really uncomfortable in them. Never mind something like a suit. And, with dating, I want a woman to be into me, not the sanitized version. This is who I am, loud and proud. Will so people be turned away? Sure. But if there is someone meant for me, she won't be.
@@5ofspades427 I am dressing to impress, just not in the typical way. I am making an impression about who am I, my personality and my interests. That will undoubtably make a more accurate impression then if I wore uncomfortable clothes that I don't like the look of and don't represent me. What is the point of trying to force the typical style onto everyone? "Cursed is the church guy who wears sneakers to mass" Church is an entirely different matter. Of course I'm not going to wear t-shirts there.
I mean the comments here are already pretty negative with people going like "I dress however the hell I want to" "I won't let a women tell me how I should be dressing"
For real tho. I guess a flamboyantly gay guy could tell them how to dress, just not a straight man or he'd get crucified not to mention youtube would probably shut the channel down for spreading "misogyny".
Right, but dudes want to get chicks, and it makes sense to pay attention to a chick who is telling you how to dress nice, The opposite is much less true.
We’re here for observation of female perspective, but if a guy is a badass he’s badass. Too many look a part but aren’t it whether in work skills or maturity. This is a bunch of keeping up with the Jones bullshit. Some of these outfits are for pushover and sexually incompetent men with lousy women.
I’m in my 40’s but I’ve been wearing the same style (3 different pairs) brown leather, low top Timberland boots since I was 17. It is amazing how versatile and timeless leather can be, both shoes and jackets.
I wear the same clothes I wore in Middle school. It all still fits me, I only replace clothing when something crumbles to the ground. Otherwise only when I require something I lack.
Courtney, you came right on time with this video. Recently, I have been losing a lot of weight, so I have to go through a whole wardrobe adjustment. I want to dress more mature and grown, not only for myself, but to come off like a man to women. Thank you so much, this helped a lot.
@@billylocke9633 It's surprising how losing a substantial amount of weight increases your confidence, changes your whole demeaner and clothes look better on you; people pick up on this. 😎
Come off like a man to a woman!! Dude that has nothing to with clothing am sincerely happy you’ve lost weight!! However clothes don’t make the man a confident man makes the clothes !! But I do wish you luck with all things life 🔥🔥🔥🔥
bro im never gonna stop looking like a 90s-00s skater and there is nothing you can do to stop me. the oversized clothing will live on until im on my deathbed.
think anyone should wear what he/she wants anyway so I actually don't get the point of this video. I mean isn't our modern society about being yourself AND confortable with it, as long as you don't harm other people in any way ?
Amazing how people can devote their whole lives to the deciding which clothes people should wear. I dress for the evironment I'm in, it's really that simple.
a friend of mine is always going on about how i should buy at least 1 to 2 good 100$ outfits for times when I want to go out. he will go on for an hour or more if i don't say anything about it lol and it's quite annoying. like.. let me wear and buy what i want to buy. if i can get that 100-200$ outfit for half or even less or nearly the same identical outfit for much less im going to do it.
I have exactly no idea why there are negative comments on here. Why would you watch this video just to complain? It shows insecurity and is an instant turn off for women. Once you reach adulthood it’s time to upgrade your look to compliment your age. I’m 44 and always wore jeans and tshirts with sneakers (think skater) but the last few years I move switched to suits and slacks with nice fit polos and I get compliments all the time. Dressing well boost your confidence and will draw women to you fellas. Great video as I’m always looking for new style tips ✊🏻🔫🇺🇸
As a 41yr old I agree with simple clothing. That being said, I still get compliments on my geeky graphic Ts when I choose to wear them because they fit well. Don't take your fashion cues from Billie Elish and make sure your clothes fit you, whatever they are.
Diversity often comes from embracing complexity and celebrating the richness of different perspectives, styles, and cultures. Simplifying will lead to homogeneity rather than diversity, as it may overlook the unique elements that contribute to individuality and cultural richness. Why not wear a T-Shirt of your last hackathon or Sportsclub? The experiences you made, make you who you are. If you like who you are show it. Confidence is key when interacting with other People. "Pretty" Cloth wont change that.
@@CourtneyRyan Clothing and speak who you are to others. I'm a graphic designer and I'm also 37. I love a design that represents an element of my personality, that might not ever come up in discussion if not for me representing that in my choice of clothing. Granted there is a time and place for everthing, but just because we are males doesn't mean everything we wear has to be plain all the time. My wife loves my since of style, and you Courtney Ryan do not set or control the standard for what's appropriate for a man to wear at any age. You never will ! Also women that believe they do ARE under the category of TOXIC! Dress yourself not the world!
I agree with a lot of this. I'd add that's important to think about colours, too. I look for colours that go with other clothes I own and colours that go with my skin, hair and eye colours.
Ultimately guys, just be self observant. Recognise when your clothing is getting tatty, no longer fits or is perhaps just a little outdated. That said though, do you. I absolutely love what Courtney does, but we also need to remember that this is somewhat her taste in men and her opinion on fashion. Another huge point is that when you are yourself, you attract who likes you for you and you'd never have to pretend to be someone you're not. Ever since I've started buying my own clothes, I've had compliments about how I dress, and I mostly put this down to knowing myself and thinking outside the box. I know what suits me, and I don't follow fashion which means I often stand out (for good reason based on the compliments haha). If everyone was dressing as Courtney recommended, do you really think we would all flourish, or would this standard then become stale? As a digital creative, I understand colour theory so implement matching/opposite colours, seasonal palettes as well as what compliments my skin tone. I'm 33 and my dress sense hasn't really changed all that much (except things have become better fitting), i've just brought in new elements. Just do you, but question where you could be going wrong so to not get so comfortable.
A similar video for young men at work would be good. There seems to be no boundary between casual and work settings since Covid. I am 60 year old man and can remember the exact day in the 1990s when wearing a suit at work was no longer required at my employer (an investment bank) so its been coming for some time. I haven't worn a suit for 3 years and now am working in an office environment again have had to find a whole new smart casual but professional look. Younger professional men around me just look a mess quite often. I go for smart chinos, brogue shoes, button down or stiff collared short and quarter zip pullover. I do wear more casual when working from home but still need to be online and want to look good on camera in Teams meetings as I often am. I just don't think wearing T shirts, training shoes and even track suits and baggy jumpers is a good look in any work setting.
I don't watch all of your content, but man, I really do enjoy it when I watch. Your advice is top notch and the simple layout of your videos is inspirational (as a content creator myself). You really let the content do the talking. Very well done 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
9:40 - I like mixing "juvenile" looking pieces with elevated elements such as the faded blue denim jacket you mentioned here paired with a dress shirt and dress pants using elevated weaves and fabrics along with elevated accessories like a silk neckerchief. I think combinations like these plays with these traditional tropes which then conveys a unique story.
You got other issues if you need more attention from "girls." Dressing up as casual adult is cosmetic vs who you really are. Some of us play cosmetic and need to blend in for special purpose. Doesnt matter how you dress. Its how you carry yourself. Ive seen so many "dress casual" and they are nothing but trouble.
Don't be surprised when people treat you as such. Don't judge a book by its cover, but we do it all the time. I'm sure you do it too, don't even try to deny it, it's in our nature to judge people.
I am 67, and have been fully retired for several years. I belong to several men's groups..including a big one on Tuesday mornings. The old guys in the group complain that I dress up....but my clothes aren't significantly more expensive than theirs. I just pay attention to fashion, and take an extra minute in the morning getting organized.
Regardless of age, sometimes a man still wants to feel youthful, a graphic T-shirt can bring out some liveliness from your inner rockstar or skater. Your style should be an expression of yourself, and so while its important to know how to dress as an adult when it's needed, it's also true that adults aren't monolithic, and that it's okay to dress in a way that inspires a younger crowd just getting into fashion to be expressive.
The greatest gift humans have contributed to the world is art/popular culture. I think the best way to express yourself is by wearing your interests and passions when it comes to that art.
I hear you. But I'm definitely up there in age, and wearing a Rolling Stones "lips" T-shirt feels like trying too hard. What works for me if I want a graphic T-shirt is something much more subdued-James Perse's "Yosemite" line is a nice option (and feels like heaven) or a classic Armor-Lux Breton-striped tee. Or I'll layer a Henley T-shirt from Merz Schwanen or The Real McCoys over a light tank top or simple neck pendant.
@@miketrotman9720 whatever makes you happy, a graphic t doesn't have to be too graphic if you know what I'm saying 😅 I just don't like the idea that rockers, skaters, or guys who work on guys may seem "juvenile" because they wear T-shirts. I had an awesome mustang in my younger days, and so wearing a t with a mustang on it doesn't seem too childish to me, it's portrays the opposite which is men like cars, men can wear T-shirts without it seeming immature or sloppy
Totally agree with this. purchasing clothing without paying a premium for logos means you can usually get better quality material on an item of clothing that will stay in style for a longer period of time. Classic men pieces can stay in style for decades like a Harrington jacket or aviator sunglasses. I personally don’t understand the appeal of Gucci or LV. You are paying a lot of money to purchase a product that makes you look fake rich.
I have a funny story about LV. My wife wanted an LV bag for years. I worked a bunch of overtime one holiday season and saved up about $1200 Cash for her. We took a weekend trip to New Orleans and popped into the LV store down there. You would think the place was full wealthy well-mannered folks. It was full of poorly dressed old ladies that looked like they all smoked a pack a day. Everyone was swiping cards to buy bags. One lady split the bill between a card that reached its limit and another one she had in her purse. The experience changed my wife's perspective. If anyone can swipe a card for it, is it really all that exclusive? We spent that cash on other fun experiences in the city, and never looked at expensive bags again.
Part of getting older is that you care less what others think of you. So I dress for comfort and practicality, and not to satisfy the completely subjective norms of superficial fashionista's. Remember; fashion was invented to make you buy new clothes before the old clothes have worn out.
You can do both. I highly recommend the lulu abc and and the vuori aim pant. Sweatpants that look like real pants. I try to wear boardshorts as much as possible though
Just a tourist here. It seems like there's a lot of emphasis on 'how you will be perceived'. I understand the whole 'first impression' line-of-thought - but the person who would dismiss me because of a first impression is not a person whose opinion and friendship I would value. I'm an older man now. I'm past the 'caring what people think about me' part of my life. If fashion is your thing, by all means pursue it. This seems to be a good channel for this. I definitely agree with the 'no logos' opinion. But confidence, empathetic listening and a good sense-of-humor will get you much more respect than fashion ....at least to the people who matter in your life.
@@steveweast475 When all you have is the cover to go by, yes, that is your first *observation* - but your *judgement* should be reserved until you've read what's inside the book.
@@DrProgNerd I agree wholeheartedly. Also, as an aside, people who spout pseudo-wisdom that begins with "all of us" and finish off with "you also" are precisely the people we don't need in life.
@@DrProgNerd Phahahaha you are old, but not smart. Nobody said "judge only by the cover", but if the cover is trash, why would I go down deeper. You said it yourself, I am too old. At that point, I dont spend time digging deep at every person, I just look at red flags and move on, quick sort. If I am a grown successful man, lets say 40-45 and I see a 35-40 years old man in front of me with a spider man shirt on... what am I suppose to think? I maybe wrong but got no time to figure out. If my first opinion about you is not good, I dont waste time getting to know you. Am I right 100% of the time, of course not, do I regret it, hell nah
I came across your channel just today, I think you are the perfect definition of style, with class but without stridency, everything in its right measure, all those things that today are so scarce and increasingly difficult to find. Subscribed
I had an epiphany the other day. Most men don’t understand what it means for clothes to fit you properly. We grew up wearing clothes that were too big for us because our moms would buy clothes too big for us because we would grow into them and she didn’t want to waste too much money when we grow out of them. Now we have a generation of men who thinks wearing oversized tshirts and always pulling up your pants is normal.
hello felly Canadian (from Mississauga)... while I totally understand what you mean... I'm also seeing big tall burly men wearing skinny jeans... sooooooo men are either trying to stay young and hip... or just don't care... and the inbetweens, no one notices them!
Good, solid advice. I'm 69 and a few years back I was wearing some of those way-to-young styles. I gravitated away from them but never really landed on a look. I like your overall plan, which includes simplifying. And I am always into that. I'm actually going to do a wardrobe update very soon. Courtney, thank you for the help!
One idea for casual wear I’ve considered is both denim slacks and also jacket with a sweater. The look I would be going for is almost like a formal suit but completely in denim.
Of the women I follow for insight you’re probably my favorite well spoken well mannered traditional classy woman the world needs more women like you. As a man who cares what women think thank you ❤
I'm in my late 30s and I still wear the same type of stuff I wore in my teens and am happy with my look. So, I wish you luck and only clicked on this video because the algorithm suggested it. I also don't feel you have any business informing men how to dress because you clearly aren't one.
Happy new year Courtney! I’m a man (like majority of your viewers) and I love your videos so much, especially your fashion type of videos. Keep up the good work and I hope all is well.
I see a lot of negative comments here and the truth is insecure or egotistical men always find a reason to preach "I know better" but real men never stop learning or improving. Thanks for the content.
Great video! I'd also argue the same applies for women as well. Feels like grown women in the WFH era live in sweat pants and yoga pants all the time. If you're out of the house, dress up a little! Was just watching a movie from the 60s last night and it's amazing how elegantly Americans used to dress. People seem to live in their pajamas now!
Yes, I agree with your comnent on pajamas. I don't care if you are a teenager or older man or woman, pajamas are what you wear around the house. Wearing pajamas out in public is beyond tasteless. It's inappropriate.
@@CourtneyRyanYou reference tight jeans on a man leaving nothing to the imagination for women. Yoga pants or tights on women do the same for men. "We appreciate you showing your goods, but...." There is always a time and a place. I find elegance and maturity in a lady's attire is something I appreciate more than anything. Yet, in our modern culture, a male is "villianized" about speaking anything about a woman's attire.
Fashion is open-ended and open to individual perspective/ interpretation. There’s no one way of dressing- you can’t say what’s grown up or not, nor what’s business wear or not. I.e. Mark Zuckerberg/ Dana White.
I agree with people who say it shouldn't matter, but the reality is that it does. From college in to my late 30s, I didn't really care or pay attention until I dated someone who brought it up. Once I started dressing differently, a lot of things changed and the way people interacted with me changed for the better. Sad but it's true.
Exactly, they really just outted themselves as not being "grown men" because if you are actually a grown man you would know how important it is to dress properly. "I dress how I want and I don't care what anyone thinks" is something a child would say.
1. I get it loud and clear about keeping it simple and not having big logos on things, but its easier said than done. most cases we have only big logo to choose with color options being black, white brown, grey, blue, green if you´re lucky, some strange tone of yellow, orange - hard to find. Red is almost impossible to find, but colors aside, big logos are almost always on everything (very annoying). 2. Picking based on body type is good, but we mostly get straight type, not V shape i have, plus color options are are even more limited (and yes the logos have to be big on everything). Finding right size is always an issue. Getting the right fit with color preference is impossible without getting it custom made.. Getting the right fit without color preference is still impossible task. Getting anything below L size is hard. Even size M is hard to find.. 3. Denim to suit body type again hard to find, most are straight cut. Hardest thing in the world to find to suit body type. Tones narrow it down hard for us. Easiest way to ruin entire look. 3. Shoes tend to do us favors. Still hard to find. To match color even harder. 4. Color tends to be an issue yet again with jackets or ANY type of anything you wear over anything. BIG logos everywhere. Color options are almost non-existent. Size is hard to find above M if even that. 5. LOGOS ARE BIG ON EVERYTHING. So yeah, its simple basics. 6. Most every store has 75 percent for women to choose what they like. We get 25 percent divided between everything we want to wear - including underwear. That is a ridiculous amount to choose from.
I was a late bloomer when realizing the importance of dressing well and looking put together. As soon as I had a pair of shoes just for the gym and a pair of shoes for actually going out, I immediately got compliments. If you're a dude reading this and you have just that one pair of shoes for the gym, running errands, going on dates AND other special occasions, they probably smell horrible and they make you look like every other "normal" guy. It's really a sea of sameness out there and I was guilty of it for yeeeeeears.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🎩 *Dressing as an adult involves transitioning from teenage fashion to a more gentlemanly style, showcasing maturity without the need for suits or formality.* 01:10 🧥 *Keeping a simple wardrobe with versatile basics facilitates creating multiple outfits, avoiding loud logos or graphic t-shirts.* 02:36 👔 *Establishing a personal uniform based on preferred styles, lifestyle appropriateness, and body type simplifies daily outfit choices.* 04:15 📏 *Perfecting the fit of clothing, especially denim, is essential for a well-put-together casual look, emphasizing the importance of choosing suitable denim cuts and washes.* 06:06 👞 *Shoes play a crucial role in enhancing a casual outfit, with leather sneakers and loafers preferred over juvenile or unflattering styles.* 08:10 🥾 *Adding quality boots for colder seasons like fall and winter complements a casual wardrobe, suggesting brands like Thursday Boots for affordability and quality.* 09:08 🧥 *Upgrading outerwear, focusing on color, fabric, and texture, elevates the overall look, emphasizing mature choices over youthful styles like ripped or distressed denim jackets.* 10:18 👔 *Dressing like an adult involves simple swaps, not necessarily suiting up, focusing on versatile clothing pieces for an elevated yet casual appearance.*
i knew it! thank you for the navigation! jeez though, whats wrong with a pair of nikes, or pumas, or a hoodie? all these cats look the same ! i want to clean up, yes, but i want to still be comfortable, and not give myself anxiety trying to over analyze or worry about all this stuff!
Probably depends on your setting. If that casual of dress is typical in your surroundings then go for it. I think a lot of this advice is directed at a work environment. I once saw job interview advice that said dress for the interview like you would for the job. You wouldn't wear a suit for a construction job and you wouldn't wear carharrt if you were interviewing in a law office.
I don't understand why someone would watch this video knowing the title, and then complain of a woman giving style tips to men. You knew what you were getting into.
One thing I’ve learned, it’s all about the fit. Suit, jeans, athletic attire, t-shirts, it all comes down to fit. Get your clothes tailored, I get just about everything tailored outside of the obvious. Remember this tip fellas, a 100$ suit will hit right if the fit is right.
Polos, dress shirts, chinos, jeans, track suits that are too big, blazers/sports coats…anything I deem necessary. *outside the obvious (t-shirts, workout attire, pajamas etc..) I’m 6’3 245 so getting my clothes tailored is a must. In fact, I even get my dress shirts custom made now because store bought shirts fit terribly. Good luck to you
@@CourtneyRyan great video! one thing I’ll add Mrs. Ryan is accessories. A nice watch, pocket square, scarf w/ overcoat, fedora, cuff links, collar stays, it’s the little things that make the big difference.
@@iamme25yago That doesn't make much sense. If you pack on so much muscle to the point your body size is above average, I could see it being necessary to get some clothes tailored. Regardless, the clothing you have available to you might not be what everyone else has.
Stretchiness in jeans is kind of a must also, especially for those of us who don't skip leg day. My old work slacks are getting a little snug after spending the last year getting back in the gym.
No grown man has any care or interest whatsoever in hearing your opinions. We make our own decisions regardless what you think. Know your audience. It's not any real men unless they are watching with the volume turned off because you're reasonably good looking.
Yeah true, and she acts like she speaks for every woman like it's fine to not be attracted to certain styles but its delusional to say that someone should never wear something just because you out of a billion people don't like it.
Wear what you want, it's your body! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Just because a style offends someone, that's their problem. They need to mind their business.
@@pedrocols Totally disagree, wearing what you find comfy and what you like is a fantastic way to help your mental health. Your life is for you, not for other people. Enjoy it.
@@pedrocols Meh, most adult men in their 30s and 40s dress the same(khakis, button-up shirts, polo shirts, dress shoes). I'd rather be unique and have my own style(black skinny jeans, plain black t shirt, band t-shirts, vans).
I don't leave many comments on your videos, but I greatly appreciate your style videos as a 21-year-old college student who struggles to put together outfits. Thank you so much!
Hey go check out Marcel Floruss he's really got some nice fashion videos that you might enjoy. Try the older videos since his style nowadays is becoming quite advanced
I grew up being dressed the way my parents wanted to dress during their poverty days, Jordans, graphic tees, i didnt sisnt really care untill I was 24. 25 now and I have grown a cologne arsenal, skin care routine, hair care and now clothing, slimming down, overall a glow up and maturity clicking in 😊 The way I dress is business formal, i adore horween leather boots, good ole maghanni shoes
Awesome, informative video! As a 55-year-old living in a climate where shorts and t-shirts are the outfit of choice 9 months a year, I've swapped out the concert T's and Marvel T's for Ralp Lauren T's as an example. No crocs or sandals for me. Switched to Cole Hahn canvas or leather sneakers and upgraded to good denim. I had to stop dressing like a 12-year-old at some point...hahaha.. I realize that MOST of your content is aimed at your target audience of 20-30-year-old guys, but us "old men" watch, too. Thanks for all you do for us!
Tommy Bahama in Las Vegas Town Square is the best dressed hot weather clothes I know of. LINEN helps, but not much, it's just shorts man! When it's that hot out.
@@giovannibermudezjr This comment for the win, you are the real GOAT. It's all about surplus and second hand stores for me from here on out, and if my style annoys anyone in my family there's always Christmas and my birthday 😉😉😉
I like the girl who gives a gift to a man.. I got a gift from a girl on this holiday, it showed me how kind she is, honestly, she deserves my thoughts, she 's a high value,put together lady and i liked her taste of choosing gifts. I was like wow! when i opened the gift. This is what I call "loyalty" or "faithfulness" for a long time friendship. Bravo! 👏
My tighty whities are the most comfortable thing I own yet nobody lets me wear them in public. Whatever happened to the "Wear whatever you want" movement?
I used to think “I’ll dress however I like” Now that I am 30, the idea of dressing more like my age is appealing. I want to improve this area of my life. Thanks for the advice
@@jjshebanow Yes, you want to keep a "young" outlook on life, but you also don't want to look like you're desperately holding on to 18 in your 50s... it looks pathetic.
I work in the entertainment/production industry where black is the norm. 95% of my wardrobe is black items or low color keys. I wear black sneakers at work for comfort but other times Red Wing boots or black Birkenstock if the heat is unbearable. If I wear denim it has to be black or very dark non stretch (100% cotton). I'm very happy with my items and the way I dress.
My sense of fashion is purely about convenience. I've heard people like Courtney say that one should be dressed up every time they leave the house. I'm not going to do that. I'll stick to the convenience and time saving idea of going grocery shopping in whatever I'm wearing at that moment. If I am wearing my uniform coming back from work and I need to pick something up on the way home, I'm not going all the way home to change into the right style to go pick up dry cleaning or some groceries. Wear what's comfortable people. Dress up when you're actually headed out on a date or going to an event where you probably shouldn't show up soaked in sweat after the gym.
As a 44 year old man I find myself slightly chuckling about the fact that I'm watching a video about how to dress, but... Courtney is just the freaking best. We love you Court! -Guys ❤ p.s. also a fellow Ohioan
I'm a 45+ year old electrician at a steel mill, I'm the epitome of a grown ass man. If I want to wear a star wars graphic tee I'm gonna wear one.... and I still gonna get compliments from the girls at the store on how cool it is.
You are so Right!! I didn't use too dress my age. Listening your advice made a big difference. Even my wife loves how I dress. I'm 35 yrs old I use too dressed like a 25 yr old😂.. Thank you Cortney!!!
@@Bigbodipapi I'm into sports ( baseball, football) when I was 18 to 25 I mainly wore Nikes TN and air max running shoes, my home city teams shirts. New Era 59fitty caps But it all depends on what you like. Now since I'm close to my 40s that clothes don't look good on me. My40 new era cap collection I gave it to my 17yr old son. But like I said it depends on what you like. Even for more casual wear I used to wear my home city teams polo shirts....... It all depends what your into and life style you live
A sweatshirt, jeans and sneakers in the winter, shorts, sandals and a tee shirt in the summer. Some mixing of the two in the fall and spring. That’s it. I’m thankful I wear a uniform at work and don’t have to think about clothes.
My best assets for attracting a woman, are my face, my body, and my ability to speak/personality. Any woman turned away by the material things I choose to/not to wear or surround myself with, its a 100% HELL NO from me. I’m not going to wear “makeup” to impress anyone. Those things only attract the type of people I want to avoid.
I second the motion for Thursday boots. I watched a video of a guy in the UK who wore them for an entire year trekking through the various countries in all sorts of weather conditions. They held up superbly. One of the great things about these kinds of leather boots is that they develop their own unique patina over time, so that your pair of boots are distinct and unique to you.
So in a nutshell: Don't wear any colours that you can't find in a cappuccino. I wouldn't call her advice terrible. I think its simple and good advice for men that don't care what they are wearing but still want to appear like they care to attract females. However, you will definitely end up looking like the majority of men between 20 and 35 because most of them are wearing exactly what she has been describing as a good style for men. I personally think that adult men can absolutely pull of bolder colours as well. You just have to be confident and secure about it.
I about died of laughter when you started ragging on the Hey Dude loafers, "they make you look like you simply gave up on life", I couldn't agree more. Also I agree that any shoe made of leather is automatically superior when it comes to elevating men's fashion.
I enjoyed this video. I definitely agree with simplicity and the ability to layer. Think timeless looks, and that would mean classic. I will admit that I don't think about numbers of combinations (my walk-in is pretty large), but I build on seasons, and I think to rotate with the months.
Courtney, thank you so much, first of all, for knowing that we need this. I'm 46 years old and have never taken my clothing as seriously as I should. My wife is more frustrated than helpful in this department, as well she should be. But I'm extremely grateful for your content. Please keep it coming. : )
There’s an adage amongst motorcycle riders that goes “Ride your own ride.” It simply means that you should ride in a way that suits your comfort level, skill, and ability. Never mind how others ride, or what they might think about your style of riding. As a mature man who works outdoors, is survival minded and driven by the urban environment I live and operate in, my clothing on a given day is frequently chosen with the idea in mind that the day might include unforeseen circumstances. For example, I always wear shoes or boots I can run in (either towards or away from something). In colder weather I’ll wear a good base layer regardless of whether or not I plan on being outdoors. Because I always carry a handgun, pants and shorts need to be sturdy enough to support a heavy webbed belt that securely holds a holster and full size handgun with spare magazines. I love having a wide variety of shirts and jackets that I can wear tucked or draped over my pistol for concealment. I have a close friend in his 50’s who occasionally wears Keds and Hey Dudes (but NEVER at the same time). He dresses much the way I do otherwise, and because he’s a 25 year SWAT operator he gets a pass on the footwear. I enjoyed your video and I did learn a few things to put in to practice.
#1 rule for how to dress well, be physically attractive, have clean looking facial hair or be clean shaven, have a good haircut, wear stuff that makes you look like you have decent money. Boom easy
I'll never understand why people give a bollocks about casual fashion. Wear what you enjoy, there is nothing "mature" about dressing like Chris Hemsworth in a perfume ad. I mean when we are talking dating or dressing for a function then there are some things to consider but casual wear? Anything that covers your junk is fine.
which brings me to the next point.... I will ask the opinion of a man about my clothing before asking you (for plenty of reasons, don't take it personally).
You realize most men don't care about the way they dress and are gonna be too nice to tell you your fit looks like dog water. When I dressed like that the only person who told me I was dressing poorly was my sister, none of my friends told me my fits were shit when they were in fact shit.
Thank you for your content! I appreciate a woman’s perspective on how to dress my age. I turned 50 last year and finally ended a toxic 8 year relationship and relocated to my dream city with my company. I took the opportunity to purge stuff that looks like my son would wear or no longer fit due to weight loss from all of the stress. I went down to maybe 6 shirts and 4 pairs of pants that fit well and a few sweaters that I can rotate depending on what accent color I want to coordinate with the outfit. I looked at well dressed men around me and took cues from their style and found items I already owned that I could throw in but I also bought a few new pieces such as a nice pair of dress casual shoes that I can pair with either pants or the right jeans to give myself options. Now just need to take my new look and get out there and meet some new people! 😊 Thanks Courtney!
This is good reinforcement, thank you. I worked out the plain fitted T-shirt and dark slim jeans thing a while ago - more out of laziness/simplicity than because of any sense of style (plus you save cash by not wearing ‘branded’ Tees). Can team those two simple base items with a casual sports jacket, cardigan or classy fitted utility jacket. Same with footwear. Dress it up with leather shoes/boots, or even down to a pair of fresh/clean Vans slip-ons (…beachside locale). Can also add a flat cap, scarf etc to suit weather conditions.
When I first saw this thumbnail, I was not expecting much as I have seen some videos where the advices given were ridiculous or impractical. Your video on the other hand is spot on. Your observations and suggestions are truly accurate. Great video. Godspeed.
Great vid, excellent advice. We live in a strange world, though, where women can freely make a video helping men how to dress, yet men would be severely berated for offering similar advice to women.
I have to admit I'd rather be alone than follow such advice, as fine as it is. Thing is I'm French so the rules are a bit different here and I feel like I'd only attract shallow women and I've had my fill of those. Tshirt and jeans will be enough, what feels comfortable. Keeping it simple and minimalist.
Nah, my baby face entitles me to dress like a teen, comfortable and all. I get mistaken for a high schooler and asked if I’m 18 in late 20s still but building an empire here
The best way to dress casual is wearing an Akatsuki cloak and a Naruto headband everywhere you go.
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I actually just bought what is best described as a cloak (extra Long hooded cardigan) for Christmas! i wear what i want, i spent 6 months in a suit last year, and now I’m branching out into unconventional clothing
This is the way.
I keep both in my trunk in case i ever feel underdressed
For anyone out there who are constantly afraid of how you dress, if there's one thing I learned growing up is that, unless your fashion senses are abysmally broken, it doesn't really matter how you dress as long as you wear it with pride. I live in a big city, Montréal Canada to be precise, where everyone has a different style due to the staggering amount of diversity we have here. No matter what I wear, whether I'm rocking a semi-formal getup or wearing the geekiest shirts I possess, I always get smiles at me or sometimes have strangers strike up a conversation. From what my friends and loved ones told me, it's simply because I exude confidence and approachability whenever I walk or talk to someone.
Your dressing style is a reflection of who you are at your core. I rather you dress in what makes you feel comfortable than trying to dress like someone you're not just to satisfy social norms. Be yourself, don't let shame guide your life. I'm more likely to talk to someone who dresses with passion instead of conformity. Authenticity is everything.
well said. I go out in public and all I see are clones.
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"Your dressing style is a reflection of who you are at your core. I rather you dress in what makes you feel comfortable than trying to dress like someone you're not just to satisfy social norms."
100% agreed. This is a good video (at least I think so) for dressing in this kind of style. And there's nothing wrong with this style. But, I'm someon who dresses up in a nerdy t-shirt and neon, mismatched shorts. That is *my* style. Is it for everyone? No. Is "less adult" than what was showcased here? Arguably. But it's what I'm into, it's what I feel comfortable in. The "casual" outfits showcased in this video I would consider formal and I would feel really uncomfortable in them. Never mind something like a suit. And, with dating, I want a woman to be into me, not the sanitized version. This is who I am, loud and proud. Will so people be turned away? Sure. But if there is someone meant for me, she won't be.
Nah guys. Dress to impress. Some combos should never exist. Cursed is the church guy who wears sneakers to mass
@@5ofspades427 I am dressing to impress, just not in the typical way. I am making an impression about who am I, my personality and my interests. That will undoubtably make a more accurate impression then if I wore uncomfortable clothes that I don't like the look of and don't represent me. What is the point of trying to force the typical style onto everyone?
"Cursed is the church guy who wears sneakers to mass" Church is an entirely different matter. Of course I'm not going to wear t-shirts there.
I'm gonna wear Rick and Morty PJs in public and roll around in the dirt.
How dare you? Grown men wear Adventure Time PJs! Don't you have any style???
Walmart standard. Splendid choice
Pics and video or I'm calling bs.
Lol imagine the internets response if some dude was telling women how they should dress. 😂😂😂
I mean the comments here are already pretty negative with people going like "I dress however the hell I want to" "I won't let a women tell me how I should be dressing"
For real tho. I guess a flamboyantly gay guy could tell them how to dress, just not a straight man or he'd get crucified not to mention youtube would probably shut the channel down for spreading "misogyny".
I mean aren’t gay dudes the best stylist? 😂 shit Caitlyn Jenner was woman of the year 😂
@@steveweast475 Do you take the Naruto top comment seriously?
Right, but dudes want to get chicks, and it makes sense to pay attention to a chick who is telling you how to dress nice, The opposite is much less true.
I dress how I want. The standards I go by are my own. The only person I aim to please is myself.
Why you in here then lil bro
We’re here for observation of female perspective, but if a guy is a badass he’s badass. Too many look a part but aren’t it whether in work skills or maturity. This is a bunch of keeping up with the Jones bullshit. Some of these outfits are for pushover and sexually incompetent men with lousy women.
I agree bro. Dont dress to impress other people, that’s how you fail💯
@@owencampbell7956😂😂😂 Preach!
I wear a uniform every day, whenever I'm off I wear whatever the fuck I want
I’m in my 40’s but I’ve been wearing the same style (3 different pairs) brown leather, low top Timberland boots since I was 17. It is amazing how versatile and timeless leather can be, both shoes and jackets.
I wear the same clothes I wore in Middle school. It all still fits me, I only replace clothing when something crumbles to the ground. Otherwise only when I require something I lack.
@@user-gz4ve8mw9lhows your love life lol
You must get cold in the winter wearing only boots.
Would've helped to have more visual examples instead of maximizing camera time on yourself
scanned this and basically saw her. That's a fail
I was thinking the same thing. Exactly!! 😂
My thoughts exactly! Seems like she made this video just to show off herself lol
@@jamesbelan whining Nancy Boys
What did you expect? This channel is all about her lol.
If you redo this video again in the future: more images (or even a live model) would help tremendously.
Courtney, you came right on time with this video. Recently, I have been losing a lot of weight, so I have to go through a whole wardrobe adjustment. I want to dress more mature and grown, not only for myself, but to come off like a man to women. Thank you so much, this helped a lot.
I’m so glad it helped! Wonderful to hear about your positive changes. Hugs!
@CourtneyRyan I like the comparison photos you put up, like instead of the denim jacket, this tan one is more modern. Good stuff
Bro loses some weight and immediately turns into gigachad 5000
@@billylocke9633 It's surprising how losing a substantial amount of weight increases your confidence, changes your whole demeaner and clothes look better on you; people pick up on this. 😎
Come off like a man to a woman!! Dude that has nothing to with clothing am sincerely happy you’ve lost weight!! However clothes don’t make the man a confident man makes the clothes !! But I do wish you luck with all things life 🔥🔥🔥🔥
bro im never gonna stop looking like a 90s-00s skater and there is nothing you can do to stop me. the oversized clothing will live on until im on my deathbed.
Holy shit, you nailed me right on the mark.
I’ll be 50 in December and I was pretty much a full-time skater from 1985 to 1998.
Rockin' those giant Blind jeans and Alien Workshop tee with Muska shoes?!?! Man those were great times!
think anyone should wear what he/she wants anyway so I actually don't get the point of this video.
I mean isn't our modern society about being yourself AND confortable with it, as long as you don't harm other people in any way ?
Also dressing like a retired skater until I die
Useless comment is useless
Amazing how people can devote their whole lives to the deciding which clothes people should wear. I dress for the evironment I'm in, it's really that simple.
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they like clothes i guess
a friend of mine is always going on about how i should buy at least 1 to 2 good 100$ outfits for times when I want to go out. he will go on for an hour or more if i don't say anything about it lol and it's quite annoying. like.. let me wear and buy what i want to buy. if i can get that 100-200$ outfit for half or even less or nearly the same identical outfit for much less im going to do it.
I'm gonna do a video like that. How to dress when in a bad area 😅... I know too many people that put a Target on their back for no reason.
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I have exactly no idea why there are negative comments on here. Why would you watch this video just to complain? It shows insecurity and is an instant turn off for women. Once you reach adulthood it’s time to upgrade your look to compliment your age. I’m 44 and always wore jeans and tshirts with sneakers (think skater) but the last few years I move switched to suits and slacks with nice fit polos and I get compliments all the time. Dressing well boost your confidence and will draw women to you fellas. Great video as I’m always looking for new style tips ✊🏻🔫🇺🇸
As a 41yr old I agree with simple clothing. That being said, I still get compliments on my geeky graphic Ts when I choose to wear them because they fit well. Don't take your fashion cues from Billie Elish and make sure your clothes fit you, whatever they are.
"When you simplify, you diversify..." So true, and it's awesome that this quote rhymes!
Had to make sure it rhymed so people would remember it! 😂
Diversity often comes from embracing complexity and celebrating the richness of different perspectives, styles, and cultures. Simplifying will lead to homogeneity rather than diversity, as it may overlook the unique elements that contribute to individuality and cultural richness. Why not wear a T-Shirt of your last hackathon or Sportsclub? The experiences you made, make you who you are. If you like who you are show it. Confidence is key when interacting with other People. "Pretty" Cloth wont change that.
@@CourtneyRyan Clothing and speak who you are to others. I'm a graphic designer and I'm also 37. I love a design that represents an element of my personality, that might not ever come up in discussion if not for me representing that in my choice of clothing. Granted there is a time and place for everthing, but just because we are males doesn't mean everything we wear has to be plain all the time. My wife loves my since of style, and you Courtney Ryan do not set or control the standard for what's appropriate for a man to wear at any age. You never will ! Also women that believe they do ARE under the category of TOXIC! Dress yourself not the world!
I wear what I want to wear.I’m not here to please anyone.Just be you, don’t let age stop you from being you.
Exactly
I wear what I want, you don’t get to tell me what am going to wear…..
Then why did you seek out this video lol
@@BabyBooie9950 youtube algorithm
@@BabyBooie9950 As TheMiles65 says, I didn't seek it, RUclips put it in my feed.
I agree with a lot of this. I'd add that's important to think about colours, too. I look for colours that go with other clothes I own and colours that go with my skin, hair and eye colours.
Ultimately guys, just be self observant. Recognise when your clothing is getting tatty, no longer fits or is perhaps just a little outdated. That said though, do you. I absolutely love what Courtney does, but we also need to remember that this is somewhat her taste in men and her opinion on fashion. Another huge point is that when you are yourself, you attract who likes you for you and you'd never have to pretend to be someone you're not.
Ever since I've started buying my own clothes, I've had compliments about how I dress, and I mostly put this down to knowing myself and thinking outside the box. I know what suits me, and I don't follow fashion which means I often stand out (for good reason based on the compliments haha). If everyone was dressing as Courtney recommended, do you really think we would all flourish, or would this standard then become stale?
As a digital creative, I understand colour theory so implement matching/opposite colours, seasonal palettes as well as what compliments my skin tone. I'm 33 and my dress sense hasn't really changed all that much (except things have become better fitting), i've just brought in new elements. Just do you, but question where you could be going wrong so to not get so comfortable.
Im 34, do you use johnfoos shoes? Like, I do.
A similar video for young men at work would be good. There seems to be no boundary between casual and work settings since Covid.
I am 60 year old man and can remember the exact day in the 1990s when wearing a suit at work was no longer required at my employer (an investment bank) so its been coming for some time. I haven't worn a suit for 3 years and now am working in an office environment again have had to find a whole new smart casual but professional look. Younger professional men around me just look a mess quite often. I go for smart chinos, brogue shoes, button down or stiff collared short and quarter zip pullover. I do wear more casual when working from home but still need to be online and want to look good on camera in Teams meetings as I often am. I just don't think wearing T shirts, training shoes and even track suits and baggy jumpers is a good look in any work setting.
A real man dresses how they want, the standards he goes by are his own. The only person I aim to please is myself.
I don't watch all of your content, but man, I really do enjoy it when I watch. Your advice is top notch and the simple layout of your videos is inspirational (as a content creator myself). You really let the content do the talking. Very well done 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
9:40 - I like mixing "juvenile" looking pieces with elevated elements such as the faded blue denim jacket you mentioned here paired with a dress shirt and dress pants using elevated weaves and fabrics along with elevated accessories like a silk neckerchief. I think combinations like these plays with these traditional tropes which then conveys a unique story.
This tells everyone you're a failed hipster that has no idea how to dress.
yeah you just end up looking like someone who doesn't know what they're doing.
What?
Getting outfit advice from a sane women is actually a good idea. When my mom would pick out my outfits I always got more attention from girls.
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Hahaha, not my mom or step mom. Those clothes as gifts would forever remain on a hanger in the closet.
@@syz3981how that’s cap? A sane mature woman know what women are attracted on a man
You got other issues if you need more attention from "girls." Dressing up as casual adult is cosmetic vs who you really are. Some of us play cosmetic and need to blend in for special purpose. Doesnt matter how you dress. Its how you carry yourself. Ive seen so many "dress casual" and they are nothing but trouble.
wear whatever you want. dont make other people happy, make yourself happy. who cares what anybody thinks
Don't be surprised when people treat you as such. Don't judge a book by its cover, but we do it all the time. I'm sure you do it too, don't even try to deny it, it's in our nature to judge people.
I am 67, and have been fully retired for several years. I belong to several men's groups..including a big one on Tuesday mornings. The old guys in the group complain that I dress up....but my clothes aren't significantly more expensive than theirs. I just pay attention to fashion, and take an extra minute in the morning getting organized.
Regardless of age, sometimes a man still wants to feel youthful, a graphic T-shirt can bring out some liveliness from your inner rockstar or skater. Your style should be an expression of yourself, and so while its important to know how to dress as an adult when it's needed, it's also true that adults aren't monolithic, and that it's okay to dress in a way that inspires a younger crowd just getting into fashion to be expressive.
Yep.
The greatest gift humans have contributed to the world is art/popular culture. I think the best way to express yourself is by wearing your interests and passions when it comes to that art.
I hear you. But I'm definitely up there in age, and wearing a Rolling Stones "lips" T-shirt feels like trying too hard. What works for me if I want a graphic T-shirt is something much more subdued-James Perse's "Yosemite" line is a nice option (and feels like heaven) or a classic Armor-Lux Breton-striped tee. Or I'll layer a Henley T-shirt from Merz Schwanen or The Real McCoys over a light tank top or simple neck pendant.
@@miketrotman9720 whatever makes you happy, a graphic t doesn't have to be too graphic if you know what I'm saying 😅 I just don't like the idea that rockers, skaters, or guys who work on guys may seem "juvenile" because they wear T-shirts. I had an awesome mustang in my younger days, and so wearing a t with a mustang on it doesn't seem too childish to me, it's portrays the opposite which is men like cars, men can wear T-shirts without it seeming immature or sloppy
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Totally agree with this. purchasing clothing without paying a premium for logos means you can usually get better quality material on an item of clothing that will stay in style for a longer period of time. Classic men pieces can stay in style for decades like a Harrington jacket or aviator sunglasses.
I personally don’t understand the appeal of Gucci or LV. You are paying a lot of money to purchase a product that makes you look fake rich.
I have a funny story about LV. My wife wanted an LV bag for years. I worked a bunch of overtime one holiday season and saved up about $1200 Cash for her. We took a weekend trip to New Orleans and popped into the LV store down there. You would think the place was full wealthy well-mannered folks. It was full of poorly dressed old ladies that looked like they all smoked a pack a day. Everyone was swiping cards to buy bags. One lady split the bill between a card that reached its limit and another one she had in her purse. The experience changed my wife's perspective. If anyone can swipe a card for it, is it really all that exclusive? We spent that cash on other fun experiences in the city, and never looked at expensive bags again.
Part of getting older is that you care less what others think of you. So I dress for comfort and practicality, and not to satisfy the completely subjective norms of superficial fashionista's. Remember; fashion was invented to make you buy new clothes before the old clothes have worn out.
You can do both. I highly recommend the lulu abc and and the vuori aim pant. Sweatpants that look like real pants. I try to wear boardshorts as much as possible though
@@squarecracker I am more a cargo pants guy. Anyway, I am not spending a lot of money on overpriced brand clothing.
Just a tourist here. It seems like there's a lot of emphasis on 'how you will be perceived'. I understand the whole 'first impression' line-of-thought - but the person who would dismiss me because of a first impression is not a person whose opinion and friendship I would value. I'm an older man now. I'm past the 'caring what people think about me' part of my life. If fashion is your thing, by all means pursue it. This seems to be a good channel for this. I definitely agree with the 'no logos' opinion. But confidence, empathetic listening and a good sense-of-humor will get you much more respect than fashion ....at least to the people who matter in your life.
Do not judge a book by its cover, but we do it all the time. Literally all of us do it subconsciously. Yes, even you.
@@steveweast475 When all you have is the cover to go by, yes, that is your first *observation* - but your *judgement* should be reserved until you've read what's inside the book.
@@DrProgNerd I agree wholeheartedly. Also, as an aside, people who spout pseudo-wisdom that begins with "all of us" and finish off with "you also" are precisely the people we don't need in life.
@@DrProgNerd Phahahaha you are old, but not smart. Nobody said "judge only by the cover", but if the cover is trash, why would I go down deeper. You said it yourself, I am too old. At that point, I dont spend time digging deep at every person, I just look at red flags and move on, quick sort. If I am a grown successful man, lets say 40-45 and I see a 35-40 years old man in front of me with a spider man shirt on... what am I suppose to think? I maybe wrong but got no time to figure out. If my first opinion about you is not good, I dont waste time getting to know you. Am I right 100% of the time, of course not, do I regret it, hell nah
I came across your channel just today, I think you are the perfect definition of style, with class but without stridency, everything in its right measure, all those things that today are so scarce and increasingly difficult to find. Subscribed
This is so kind of you to say! Thank you so much 🥹
I had an epiphany the other day. Most men don’t understand what it means for clothes to fit you properly. We grew up wearing clothes that were too big for us because our moms would buy clothes too big for us because we would grow into them and she didn’t want to waste too much money when we grow out of them. Now we have a generation of men who thinks wearing oversized tshirts and always pulling up your pants is normal.
I agree, as a teen I grew up with the baggy style but as I got older and started to wear clothes that fit me I felt so much lighter 🤷🏽♂️
hello felly Canadian (from Mississauga)... while I totally understand what you mean... I'm also seeing big tall burly men wearing skinny jeans... sooooooo men are either trying to stay young and hip... or just don't care... and the inbetweens, no one notices them!
A man tries on jeans in a shop, realizes they don't fit, and buys them anyway.
Jesus, how correct.@@alexanderasner1689
Good, solid advice. I'm 69 and a few years back I was wearing some of those way-to-young styles. I gravitated away from them but never really landed on a look. I like your overall plan, which includes simplifying. And I am always into that. I'm actually going to do a wardrobe update very soon. Courtney, thank you for the help!
One idea for casual wear I’ve considered is both denim slacks and also jacket with a sweater. The look I would be going for is almost like a formal suit but completely in denim.
Of the women I follow for insight you’re probably my favorite well spoken well mannered traditional classy woman the world needs more women like you. As a man who cares what women think thank you ❤
Absolutely!
Yes. A class act in every way. Thank you for your insight.
Down 37 pounds and redoing my wardrobe. I needed this to show I am a grown adult, and that I am healthy as well
Good job bro! Keep up the good discipline!
@@woodgie6041 Thanks brother!
>20lbs. here and doing the same!
@@WEEBER13 let's friggin go!!! I'm down 43 now as of this post!
@@theaspiecoach5934 get after it!!
Dress like Ryan Gosling, Aleksander Skaarsgard, James Dean, Alain Delon, Daniel Craig, and Steve McQueen
I'm in my late 30s and I still wear the same type of stuff I wore in my teens and am happy with my look. So, I wish you luck and only clicked on this video because the algorithm suggested it.
I also don't feel you have any business informing men how to dress because you clearly aren't one.
"these shoes make you look like you gave up on your life..." HAHAHAHAHHAHA Best line ever... Bravo.
Happy new year Courtney! I’m a man (like majority of your viewers) and I love your videos so much, especially your fashion type of videos. Keep up the good work and I hope all is well.
Aw I’m so glad! Thanks for being here 🥰 always appreciate your comments!
I see a lot of negative comments here and the truth is insecure or egotistical men always find a reason to preach "I know better" but real men never stop learning or improving. Thanks for the content.
Appreciate you and love your message. Thank you my friend 😊
Thank God my natural instinct has me already following these rules.
Same ❤😂🙏🙏 lord thank you Jesus
Great video! I'd also argue the same applies for women as well. Feels like grown women in the WFH era live in sweat pants and yoga pants all the time. If you're out of the house, dress up a little! Was just watching a movie from the 60s last night and it's amazing how elegantly Americans used to dress. People seem to live in their pajamas now!
100% agree!
Yes, I agree with your comnent on pajamas. I don't care if you are a teenager or older man or woman, pajamas are what you wear around the house. Wearing pajamas out in public is beyond tasteless. It's inappropriate.
@@CourtneyRyanYou reference tight jeans on a man leaving nothing to the imagination for women. Yoga pants or tights on women do the same for men. "We appreciate you showing your goods, but...." There is always a time and a place. I find elegance and maturity in a lady's attire is something I appreciate more than anything. Yet, in our modern culture, a male is "villianized" about speaking anything about a woman's attire.
Fashion is open-ended and open to individual perspective/ interpretation. There’s no one way of dressing- you can’t say what’s grown up or not, nor what’s business wear or not. I.e. Mark Zuckerberg/ Dana White.
I agree with people who say it shouldn't matter, but the reality is that it does. From college in to my late 30s, I didn't really care or pay attention until I dated someone who brought it up. Once I started dressing differently, a lot of things changed and the way people interacted with me changed for the better. Sad but it's true.
Exactly, they really just outted themselves as not being "grown men" because if you are actually a grown man you would know how important it is to dress properly. "I dress how I want and I don't care what anyone thinks" is something a child would say.
1. I get it loud and clear about keeping it simple and not having big logos on things, but its easier said than done. most cases we have only big logo to choose with color options being black, white brown, grey, blue, green if you´re lucky, some strange tone of yellow, orange - hard to find. Red is almost impossible to find, but colors aside, big logos are almost always on everything (very annoying).
2. Picking based on body type is good, but we mostly get straight type, not V shape i have, plus color options are are even more limited (and yes the logos have to be big on everything). Finding right size is always an issue. Getting the right fit with color preference is impossible without getting it custom made.. Getting the right fit without color preference is still impossible task. Getting anything below L size is hard. Even size M is hard to find..
3. Denim to suit body type again hard to find, most are straight cut. Hardest thing in the world to find to suit body type. Tones narrow it down hard for us. Easiest way to ruin entire look.
3. Shoes tend to do us favors. Still hard to find. To match color even harder.
4. Color tends to be an issue yet again with jackets or ANY type of anything you wear over anything. BIG logos everywhere. Color options are almost non-existent. Size is hard to find above M if even that.
5. LOGOS ARE BIG ON EVERYTHING.
So yeah, its simple basics.
6. Most every store has 75 percent for women to choose what they like. We get 25 percent divided between everything we want to wear - including underwear.
That is a ridiculous amount to choose from.
I was a late bloomer when realizing the importance of dressing well and looking put together. As soon as I had a pair of shoes just for the gym and a pair of shoes for actually going out, I immediately got compliments. If you're a dude reading this and you have just that one pair of shoes for the gym, running errands, going on dates AND other special occasions, they probably smell horrible and they make you look like every other "normal" guy. It's really a sea of sameness out there and I was guilty of it for yeeeeeears.
My work boots are the only pair of shoes i own or have any desire to own, take care of your shoes and they'll take care of you.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
00:00 🎩 *Dressing as an adult involves transitioning from teenage fashion to a more gentlemanly style, showcasing maturity without the need for suits or formality.*
01:10 🧥 *Keeping a simple wardrobe with versatile basics facilitates creating multiple outfits, avoiding loud logos or graphic t-shirts.*
02:36 👔 *Establishing a personal uniform based on preferred styles, lifestyle appropriateness, and body type simplifies daily outfit choices.*
04:15 📏 *Perfecting the fit of clothing, especially denim, is essential for a well-put-together casual look, emphasizing the importance of choosing suitable denim cuts and washes.*
06:06 👞 *Shoes play a crucial role in enhancing a casual outfit, with leather sneakers and loafers preferred over juvenile or unflattering styles.*
08:10 🥾 *Adding quality boots for colder seasons like fall and winter complements a casual wardrobe, suggesting brands like Thursday Boots for affordability and quality.*
09:08 🧥 *Upgrading outerwear, focusing on color, fabric, and texture, elevates the overall look, emphasizing mature choices over youthful styles like ripped or distressed denim jackets.*
10:18 👔 *Dressing like an adult involves simple swaps, not necessarily suiting up, focusing on versatile clothing pieces for an elevated yet casual appearance.*
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i knew it! thank you for the navigation! jeez though, whats wrong with a pair of nikes, or pumas, or a hoodie? all these cats look the same ! i want to clean up, yes, but i want to still be comfortable, and not give myself anxiety trying to over analyze or worry about all this stuff!
Probably depends on your setting. If that casual of dress is typical in your surroundings then go for it. I think a lot of this advice is directed at a work environment.
I once saw job interview advice that said dress for the interview like you would for the job. You wouldn't wear a suit for a construction job and you wouldn't wear carharrt if you were interviewing in a law office.
amen! well said! @@trevorlaporte5951
I've always been jealous of the UPS guys. Simple daily wear that you don't have to pick out.
I don't understand why someone would watch this video knowing the title, and then complain of a woman giving style tips to men.
You knew what you were getting into.
Thank you lol
I wear clothes that are comfortable for me. I *DON'T* wear clothes because I'm *OBSESSED* with *relationships.*
One thing I’ve learned, it’s all about the fit. Suit, jeans, athletic attire, t-shirts, it all comes down to fit. Get your clothes tailored, I get just about everything tailored outside of the obvious. Remember this tip fellas, a 100$ suit will hit right if the fit is right.
Amen!
Getting a suit tailored is one thing, getting anything else tailored that you mentioned is just idiotic.
Polos, dress shirts, chinos, jeans, track suits that are too big, blazers/sports coats…anything I deem necessary. *outside the obvious (t-shirts, workout attire, pajamas etc..)
I’m 6’3 245 so getting my clothes tailored is a must.
In fact, I even get my dress shirts custom made now because store bought shirts fit terribly.
Good luck to you
@@CourtneyRyan great video! one thing I’ll add Mrs. Ryan is accessories. A nice watch, pocket square, scarf w/ overcoat, fedora, cuff links, collar stays, it’s the little things that make the big difference.
@@iamme25yago That doesn't make much sense. If you pack on so much muscle to the point your body size is above average, I could see it being necessary to get some clothes tailored. Regardless, the clothing you have available to you might not be what everyone else has.
Stretchiness in jeans is kind of a must also, especially for those of us who don't skip leg day. My old work slacks are getting a little snug after spending the last year getting back in the gym.
No grown man has any care or interest whatsoever in hearing your opinions. We make our own decisions regardless what you think. Know your audience. It's not any real men unless they are watching with the volume turned off because you're reasonably good looking.
Yeah true, and she acts like she speaks for every woman like it's fine to not be attracted to certain styles but its delusional to say that someone should never wear something just because you out of a billion people don't like it.
The best start you can have to looking stylish when older...is not the clothes, but proportionate weight and grooming.
Wear what you want, it's your body! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Just because a style offends someone, that's their problem. They need to mind their business.
Totally disagreed. Grow up. Dress like a grown up you will be glad you do.
@@pedrocols Totally disagree, wearing what you find comfy and what you like is a fantastic way to help your mental health. Your life is for you, not for other people. Enjoy it.
@@KILLZNTHRILLS Totally disagree. Dress well thank me later.
@@pedrocols Meh, most adult men in their 30s and 40s dress the same(khakis, button-up shirts, polo shirts, dress shoes). I'd rather be unique and have my own style(black skinny jeans, plain black t shirt, band t-shirts, vans).
@@KevinQ1989 If you dress like that, you just like the rest. Nothing unique about how you dress. Totally disagree. Dress well thank me later.
I don't leave many comments on your videos, but I greatly appreciate your style videos as a 21-year-old college student who struggles to put together outfits. Thank you so much!
Thanks for being here and I’m so glad it’s helpful! ❤️
Imagining struggling to put together clothes
@@Cutthroat__ lol stop it
Hey go check out Marcel Floruss he's really got some nice fashion videos that you might enjoy. Try the older videos since his style nowadays is becoming quite advanced
I grew up being dressed the way my parents wanted to dress during their poverty days, Jordans, graphic tees, i didnt sisnt really care untill I was 24. 25 now and I have grown a cologne arsenal, skin care routine, hair care and now clothing, slimming down, overall a glow up and maturity clicking in 😊
The way I dress is business formal, i adore horween leather boots, good ole maghanni shoes
Don't mix two or more primaries or secondaries.
Period. That's it.
Awesome, informative video! As a 55-year-old living in a climate where shorts and t-shirts are the outfit of choice 9 months a year, I've swapped out the concert T's and Marvel T's for Ralp Lauren T's as an example. No crocs or sandals for me. Switched to Cole Hahn canvas or leather sneakers and upgraded to good denim. I had to stop dressing like a 12-year-old at some point...hahaha.. I realize that MOST of your content is aimed at your target audience of 20-30-year-old guys, but us "old men" watch, too. Thanks for all you do for us!
Yep she doesn't know that, I'm from 702 also. Yup exactly agree, its hard to dress up in WOOL SLACKS when it's 110
Some models of croc look very “grown up”, just avoid the childish ones
Tommy Bahama in Las Vegas Town Square is the best dressed hot weather clothes I know of. LINEN helps, but not much, it's just shorts man! When it's that hot out.
Ironically, once I turned 40, I stopped caring what others thought of me and began dressing like a 12 year old again...😅
@@giovannibermudezjr This comment for the win, you are the real GOAT. It's all about surplus and second hand stores for me from here on out, and if my style annoys anyone in my family there's always Christmas and my birthday 😉😉😉
I like the girl who gives a gift to a man.. I got a gift from a girl on this holiday, it showed me how kind she is, honestly, she deserves my thoughts, she 's a high value,put together lady and i liked her taste of choosing gifts. I was like wow! when i opened the gift. This is what I call "loyalty" or "faithfulness" for a long time friendship. Bravo! 👏
I wore blue jeans and t-shirts most of my life. When I got older, I switched to sweatpants and t-shirts. Much more comfortable.
My tighty whities are the most comfortable thing I own yet nobody lets me wear them in public. Whatever happened to the "Wear whatever you want" movement?
I wore tighty whities all the way into my mid-30's. I highly recommend giving boxer briefs a try. Much better.
The outfit doesnt make you, you make the outfit!
I used to think “I’ll dress however I like” Now that I am 30, the idea of dressing more like my age is appealing. I want to improve this area of my life. Thanks for the advice
As a man in my later 50’s, I have to ask why anyone would want to look like an adult. Aging Sucks™ .
Because dressing like a teenager is much worse as a man
@@jjshebanow haha
@@josephcarlson7276 lol
@@jjshebanow Yes, you want to keep a "young" outlook on life, but you also don't want to look like you're desperately holding on to 18 in your 50s... it looks pathetic.
Great tips! Could you do a video for men's eyewear styling? Or a reaction video to one of Kevin Samuels' eyewear tips videos.
Bless 🙏🏿
I work in the entertainment/production industry where black is the norm. 95% of my wardrobe is black items or low color keys. I wear black sneakers at work for comfort but other times Red Wing boots or black Birkenstock if the heat is unbearable. If I wear denim it has to be black or very dark non stretch (100% cotton). I'm very happy with my items and the way I dress.
My sense of fashion is purely about convenience. I've heard people like Courtney say that one should be dressed up every time they leave the house. I'm not going to do that. I'll stick to the convenience and time saving idea of going grocery shopping in whatever I'm wearing at that moment. If I am wearing my uniform coming back from work and I need to pick something up on the way home, I'm not going all the way home to change into the right style to go pick up dry cleaning or some groceries.
Wear what's comfortable people. Dress up when you're actually headed out on a date or going to an event where you probably shouldn't show up soaked in sweat after the gym.
As a 44 year old man I find myself slightly chuckling about the fact that I'm watching a video about how to dress, but... Courtney is just the freaking best. We love you Court! -Guys ❤
p.s. also a fellow Ohioan
I think beeing a grown man is recognizing that you shouldnt give a fk about what others think about you
As a grown man, I disagree. Dressing in appropriate clothes for the situation with proper fit shows you're competent and is a form of politeness.
That is why I wear a canvas sack everyday. I don’t care! 😂
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No that just makes you an ignorant man.
Nobody cares until everyone is 🤭 at them.
so you go to a job interview and come with a star wars shirt?
I'm a 45+ year old electrician at a steel mill, I'm the epitome of a grown ass man. If I want to wear a star wars graphic tee I'm gonna wear one.... and I still gonna get compliments from the girls at the store on how cool it is.
Those hey dudes are comfortable as hell and I if I wear them I make em look good
Gentlemen, just wear you want, because as long as you're actually wearing clothes, you'll be more covered up in public than the average woman is.
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You are so Right!! I didn't use too dress my age. Listening your advice made a big difference. Even my wife loves how I dress. I'm 35 yrs old I use too dressed like a 25 yr old😂.. Thank you Cortney!!!
I’m 25, how did you dress that represented me ?
@@Bigbodipapi I'm into sports ( baseball, football) when I was 18 to 25 I mainly wore Nikes TN and air max running shoes, my home city teams shirts. New Era 59fitty caps But it all depends on what you like. Now since I'm close to my 40s that clothes don't look good on me. My40 new era cap collection I gave it to my 17yr old son. But like I said it depends on what you like. Even for more casual wear I used to wear my home city teams polo shirts....... It all depends what your into and life style you live
A sweatshirt, jeans and sneakers in the winter, shorts, sandals and a tee shirt in the summer. Some mixing of the two in the fall and spring. That’s it. I’m thankful I wear a uniform at work and don’t have to think about clothes.
My best assets for attracting a woman, are my face, my body, and my ability to speak/personality. Any woman turned away by the material things I choose to/not to wear or surround myself with, its a 100% HELL NO from me. I’m not going to wear “makeup” to impress anyone. Those things only attract the type of people I want to avoid.
I second the motion for Thursday boots. I watched a video of a guy in the UK who wore them for an entire year trekking through the various countries in all sorts of weather conditions. They held up superbly. One of the great things about these kinds of leather boots is that they develop their own unique patina over time, so that your pair of boots are distinct and unique to you.
“Gave up on your life.” That one made me laugh. 👍
I agree with you we should be clean and well put together at the same time I dont dress to get validation from no one
Thank you I needed this 🤎
Here we go with a woman telling a man how to be a man 😂😂😂😂😂
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So in a nutshell: Don't wear any colours that you can't find in a cappuccino.
I wouldn't call her advice terrible. I think its simple and good advice for men that don't care what they are wearing but still want to appear like they care to attract females. However, you will definitely end up looking like the majority of men between 20 and 35 because most of them are wearing exactly what she has been describing as a good style for men.
I personally think that adult men can absolutely pull of bolder colours as well. You just have to be confident and secure about it.
This was very helpful. Thank you.
I don't see anything on a label saying over 50 can't wear a band t-shirt. I don't care if women like it or not!
I about died of laughter when you started ragging on the Hey Dude loafers, "they make you look like you simply gave up on life", I couldn't agree more. Also I agree that any shoe made of leather is automatically superior when it comes to elevating men's fashion.
I enjoyed this video. I definitely agree with simplicity and the ability to layer. Think timeless looks, and that would mean classic. I will admit that I don't think about numbers of combinations (my walk-in is pretty large), but I build on seasons, and I think to rotate with the months.
Sounds like you have a good thing going to me! 🫡
I was say,a woman can really show how a man should dress.It’s something about how a woman knows.A real woman though, I mean a real solid woman knows.
Courtney, thank you so much, first of all, for knowing that we need this. I'm 46 years old and have never taken my clothing as seriously as I should. My wife is more frustrated than helpful in this department, as well she should be. But I'm extremely grateful for your content. Please keep it coming. : )
These types of videos crack me up…. I will wear what I dmn well please. IDGAF what anyone thinks…. LOL
Then why are you on the mens fashion side of RUclips??
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There’s an adage amongst motorcycle riders that goes “Ride your own ride.” It simply means that you should ride in a way that suits your comfort level, skill, and ability. Never mind how others ride, or what they might think about your style of riding. As a mature man who works outdoors, is survival minded and driven by the urban environment I live and operate in, my clothing on a given day is frequently chosen with the idea in mind that the day might include unforeseen circumstances. For example, I always wear shoes or boots I can run in (either towards or away from something). In colder weather I’ll wear a good base layer regardless of whether or not I plan on being outdoors. Because I always carry a handgun, pants and shorts need to be sturdy enough to support a heavy webbed belt that securely holds a holster and full size handgun with spare magazines. I love having a wide variety of shirts and jackets that I can wear tucked or draped over my pistol for concealment. I have a close friend in his 50’s who occasionally wears Keds and Hey Dudes (but NEVER at the same time). He dresses much the way I do otherwise, and because he’s a 25 year SWAT operator he gets a pass on the footwear. I enjoyed your video and I did learn a few things to put in to practice.
"NEVER at the same time." 😂😂😂
#1 rule for how to dress well, be physically attractive, have clean looking facial hair or be clean shaven, have a good haircut, wear stuff that makes you look like you have decent money. Boom easy
I'll never understand why people give a bollocks about casual fashion. Wear what you enjoy, there is nothing "mature" about dressing like Chris Hemsworth in a perfume ad. I mean when we are talking dating or dressing for a function then there are some things to consider but casual wear? Anything that covers your junk is fine.
which brings me to the next point.... I will ask the opinion of a man about my clothing before asking you (for plenty of reasons, don't take it personally).
You realize most men don't care about the way they dress and are gonna be too nice to tell you your fit looks like dog water. When I dressed like that the only person who told me I was dressing poorly was my sister, none of my friends told me my fits were shit when they were in fact shit.
@@steveweast475 who gives a fuck?? early 90's grunge fashion was the best to many
Thank you for your content! I appreciate a woman’s perspective on how to dress my age. I turned 50 last year and finally ended a toxic 8 year relationship and relocated to my dream city with my company. I took the opportunity to purge stuff that looks like my son would wear or no longer fit due to weight loss from all of the stress. I went down to maybe 6 shirts and 4 pairs of pants that fit well and a few sweaters that I can rotate depending on what accent color I want to coordinate with the outfit. I looked at well dressed men around me and took cues from their style and found items I already owned that I could throw in but I also bought a few new pieces such as a nice pair of dress casual shoes that I can pair with either pants or the right jeans to give myself options. Now just need to take my new look and get out there and meet some new people! 😊 Thanks Courtney!
I hope you take care of the inside-you as well as the outside. Good luck.
As a 38yo man, I agree 100% with this woman.
Wear what you feel good and comfortable in and not what people think of you or their opinion.
This is good reinforcement, thank you.
I worked out the plain fitted T-shirt and dark slim jeans thing a while ago - more out of laziness/simplicity than because of any sense of style (plus you save cash by not wearing ‘branded’ Tees).
Can team those two simple base items with a casual sports jacket, cardigan or classy fitted utility jacket. Same with footwear. Dress it up with leather shoes/boots, or even down to a pair of fresh/clean Vans slip-ons (…beachside locale). Can also add a flat cap, scarf etc to suit weather conditions.
When I first saw this thumbnail, I was not expecting much as I have seen some videos where the advices given were ridiculous or impractical. Your video on the other hand is spot on. Your observations and suggestions are truly accurate. Great video. Godspeed.
Great vid, excellent advice. We live in a strange world, though, where women can freely make a video helping men how to dress, yet men would be severely berated for offering similar advice to women.
I really love this lady on how she puts everything into away that us easy to understand especially from a woman's prospective about a man.
I have to admit I'd rather be alone than follow such advice, as fine as it is.
Thing is I'm French so the rules are a bit different here and I feel like I'd only attract shallow women and I've had my fill of those.
Tshirt and jeans will be enough, what feels comfortable. Keeping it simple and minimalist.
T-shirt and jeans is a great choice! Sounds good to me lol
Faxx whatever makes you feel more comfortable and add in a little bit of what she said but contour into what you like
Wow. Dress in such a boring manner as to NOT indicate any hint of a personality. Got it. GREAT advice...
Nah, my baby face entitles me to dress like a teen, comfortable and all. I get mistaken for a high schooler and asked if I’m 18 in late 20s still but building an empire here
And if you are a grown man don't sit on the bench like this: 8:25