How to Cultivate Calm in the Midst of Chaos | Lisa Powell Graham | TEDxOneonta

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  • @emmatshields
    @emmatshields Год назад +1

    This inspires me to be more compassionate towards myself. It's time to silence the inner mean girl and embrace my imperfections.

  • @archibaldandrews
    @archibaldandrews Год назад +1

    Hearing this has really made me want to be more present and connected with those around me. It's time to be a superhero in my relationships too.

  • @RantrumDiva
    @RantrumDiva Год назад +1

    The idea of calming my nervous system resonates with me. I need to find ways to soothe my mind and body during stressful times.

  • @themarybasse
    @themarybasse Год назад +1

    I really get it about the panic attacks. It's comforting to know that she found a way to calm her anxious mind.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham 4 месяца назад

      Thank you! I am sooo grateful to have found teachers and methodologies to help me heal. Meditation has been a life-saver for me!

  • @evan-bailey
    @evan-bailey Год назад +2

    In every situation we have the ability to chose our response. If that's to be calm, learn to control you breathe simple.

  • @kristyphoney
    @kristyphoney Год назад +1

    this talk reminds me of the power of resilience. Despite all the challenges we face, there's hope in knowing that we can cultivate inner peace and make a difference in the world

  • @sabahachim
    @sabahachim Год назад +1

    Lisa's talk is a powerful reminder that heroes are ordinary people who step up in challenging times. We all have the potential to be heroes in our own lives.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      We do! I believe we can all be our own superheroes. I appreciate you listening to my talk, and hope you'll share it with others!

  • @iamthereallovedoctor
    @iamthereallovedoctor Год назад +1

    I was skeptical about meditation, but Lisa's personal experience and transformation make me reconsider. Maybe it's time to give it a shot.

  • @raulascaso
    @raulascaso Год назад +1

    I've been struggling with focusing on other people's opinions of me. Lisa's words remind me to let go of that distraction and focus on what truly matters.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      YES - the one person whose opinion really matters in this lifetime is your own. Focus on loving YOU (I'm working on self-love practices all the time too!) and living the life that brings your meaning, purpose and joy. Sending love!

  • @Rant-Diva
    @Rant-Diva Год назад +1

    I appreciate Lisa sharing her personal journey with healing from trauma. It gives me hope that I can overcome my own struggles too. Thank you for the inspiration!

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      Thank you for your kind words! I am rooting for you as well. Thank you for listening to my talk, and good luck on your journey. May you heal and live with true joy and peace!

  • @phoebec232
    @phoebec232 Год назад +1

    I think this talk is a lovely reminder that superheroes aren't just in movies; they're among us, making a difference every day 💙

  • @nonstop3rd
    @nonstop3rd Год назад +1

    Lisa's journey of healing is a testament to the power of resilience. Her talk gives me hope that I can overcome my own traumas too.

  • @agcocoa
    @agcocoa Год назад +1

    I can totally relate to feeling anxious and overwhelmed during the past few years. The pandemic has been tough, but this talk reminds me that we can find our inner superhero and navigate through the chaos.

  • @luisasanchez5532
    @luisasanchez5532 Год назад +1

    I love what she says at the 10:00 mark. This is something I forget far too often.

  • @sepchaster
    @sepchaster Год назад +1

    It's easy to get caught in despair, but choosing hope and taking action can truly make us superheroes in our own lives... Didn't know I needed this so much until I watched it. Great stuff.

  • @dennisdanilla
    @dennisdanilla Год назад +2

    I've often found myself overwhelmed by despair, and it's true that hope can be harder to sustain. But the speaker's journey of healing and finding calm in chaos gives me hope that I can do the same.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      @dennisdanilla you absolutely can... I am so sorry that you have been overwhelmed by despair at times. Me too (I understand!) and I promise it's possible to shift your life so that peace and joy are your new norm. I am rooting for you!

  • @May-Purple
    @May-Purple Год назад +1

    Definitely agree my ability to stay calm is a hidden superpower. When shyt hits the fan we can still stay centered and make better decisions about how we're dealing with everything.

  • @lizyvuen
    @lizyvuen Год назад +1

    The guided meditation suggestion is great! I'm excited to try it out and see if it helps me find more peace in my life.

  • @rebeccadcarl
    @rebeccadcarl Месяц назад

    My take away is that, not everyone's journy is the same and seeking support is a heroic step towards healing!!

  • @brianmillerspeaks
    @brianmillerspeaks Год назад +7

    "Sometimes I remind myself that the superheroes we love in fiction aren’t perfect people. They’re flawed people who act courageously and calmly in the face of chaos." Beautifully said and a wonderful reminder that we don't have to be perfect to change the world.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      Thank you, Brian! I could not have delivered this exact talk without your coaching, guidance and expertise. Thank you. Forever grateful. Let's go make it a better world!

  • @leah-buttons
    @leah-buttons Год назад +2

    The story about the yoga retreat during the wildfires is incredible. I can't imagine how scary that must have been, but her calmness in that situation is truly superhero material.

  • @taylorpjansen
    @taylorpjansen Год назад +1

    The convergence of crises in recent years has made it difficult to maintain hope. However, it's essential to remember that we can choose to be our own superheroes by remaining calm like Lisa's yoga instructor and taking action to make a positive difference.

  • @hasnain-jeelani
    @hasnain-jeelani Год назад +1

    Yeah I can totally relate to the struggles mentioned. It's been a rollercoaster ride for us, no doubt. Hang in there, guys!

  • @andrewfarason
    @andrewfarason Год назад +2

    Imagine being on a yoga retreat and witnessing wildfires in the distance. Talk about adding some excitement to your meditation session! But seriously, Lisa's experience with her yoga teacher's calmness amidst chaos is remarkable.

  • @1RedLava1
    @1RedLava1 Год назад +1

    The pandemic and its aftermath has left a deep impact on our mental health. It's important to acknowledge that feeling of overwhelm, anxious, or scared is completely normal. We need to focus on self-care as well as finding ways to "cultivate calm amidst the chaos"

  • @xoxo_karrie_xoxo
    @xoxo_karrie_xoxo 2 месяца назад

    Her message about rest being essential was spot on. We need to stop glorifying being busy all the time.

  • @shastadeed
    @shastadeed Год назад +1

    I resonate with Lisa's journey of retraining her mind to be kinder to herself. It's something I need to work on as well.

  • @amagodatfortnite
    @amagodatfortnite Год назад +3

    Focus calmly on what you can control. The serenity prayer suggests we acquire the courage to change the things we can. Excellent advice.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      Yes, exactly! My daily meditation practice has healed so much for me, and helps me stay calm in challenging circumstances, as well as being better at accepting that which I cannot change. The serenity prayer captures the essence of this perfectly as well. Thanks so much for watching my TEDx talk, and for your feedback!

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      @AmadouDiallo-ig4xp 8 месяцев назад

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  • @deepfocus1540
    @deepfocus1540 2 месяца назад

    The part about staying alive being heroic for those with depression hit hard. Important message that needs to be heard.

  • @michael-rivera
    @michael-rivera Год назад +1

    I'm thinking it's time we all stepped into our power and became the super hero in our lives.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      YES! That's my mission. Let's all use our personal superpowers to do more good in the world! We are ALL needed.

  • @idanowser
    @idanowser 6 месяцев назад +2

    Teaching others not to panic is such an amazing point to arrive at after being anxious and panicky for so long

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham 4 месяца назад +1

      I am forever grateful to have the tools I have now... It was so painful to live with constant anxiety and panic attacks. I hope that my talk give others hope that healing is always possible.

    • @idanowser
      @idanowser 4 месяца назад

      @@lisapowellgraham I can't imagine what a difference it would be in terms of quality of life and yes, I think this talk would give people a lot of hope 💜

  • @kristianzlee
    @kristianzlee Год назад +2

    Absolutely Lisa, the only thing we truly have control over is ourselves, so mastering the ability to stay calm when things are going awry is crucial.

  • @rongigz
    @rongigz 10 месяцев назад +1

    Her journey from a constant state of anxiety to inner peace gives me hope. It's a reminder that change is possible, and healing is a continuous process.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham 4 месяца назад +1

      Keep the faith! I believe healing is possible for anyone. I am so happy that my talk can provide some inspiration.

    • @rongigz
      @rongigz 4 месяца назад

      ​@@lisapowellgraham thank you! I'm still learning and growing but it actually did help a lot

  • @lauratherealdealfinnigan
    @lauratherealdealfinnigan Год назад +1

    Those situations are the one time my neuro-divergence is actually a huge benefit. Love that feeling of just thriving amongst chaos and pressure

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      Hi Laura - wow, thank you for sharing this perspective! I hadn't looked at it in exactly this light before, and yes, it is one of the ways your neuro-divergence is a super-power. Grateful for your thoughtful comment - thank you!

  • @jackbenns
    @jackbenns 4 месяца назад +1

    Her story about overcoming panic attacks gives me hope. Maybe I can get a handle on my anxiety too

  • @SinfulTrust
    @SinfulTrust 10 месяцев назад +1

    The idea that rest is essential, especially in a culture that glorifies hustle, is something we all need to hear. It's a valuable reminder to prioritize self-care.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham 4 месяца назад

      Thank you! Yes, REST is essential - and so undervalued in society. Taking time to rest is an act of self-care and self-love.

  • @guntherhofer
    @guntherhofer Год назад +1

    Thank you, Lisa, for reminding us that it's okay to seek help and healing. This talk is a gentle nudge to prioritize our mental well-being.

  • @yuvallove
    @yuvallove 7 месяцев назад +1

    The part about the yoga retreat during the wildfires was so vivid; you could almost feel the heat and fear, yet her takeaway about finding calm amidst it all was incredibly profound.

  • @ianrendle
    @ianrendle 10 месяцев назад

    The closing statement, 'maybe we are the superheroes we've been waiting for,' is thought-provoking. It challenges us to see the potential for positive change within ourselves.

  • @TheBooTThing
    @TheBooTThing Год назад +3

    Lisa's talk touched my heart, especially her acknowledgment of those who silently battle with depression. We all need someone like her in our lives.

  • @abradisme
    @abradisme 6 месяцев назад

    I can not advocate for this enough. Meditation is the foundation for so many wonderful, hidden parts of life and the universe. Everyone should be taught/encouraged to do it.

  • @kaymitchell4935
    @kaymitchell4935 Год назад +1

    I admire Lisa's vulnerability in sharing her journey with depression. Her story of overcoming despair is truly inspiring.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words! My hope is always that my words may touch and inspire others. I appreciate you taking the time to watch the talk, and hope you'll share it with others as well!

  • @jaineyrosting
    @jaineyrosting Год назад +1

    Thank you for this reminder Lisa! Sometimes the simplest things can really help us to ground ourselves.

  • @katiaromanow
    @katiaromanow Месяц назад

    Love how vulnerable she is about her journey to peace and healing ❤

  • @nubblesleopard9735
    @nubblesleopard9735 9 месяцев назад

    Hearing her journey from trauma to tranquility through yoga and meditation was truly beautiful. It's a reminder that healing is possible, and inner peace is attainable with patience and practice. Such a wonderful message.

  • @theresarives
    @theresarives Год назад +1

    Lisa's journey of healing from trauma and finding that calm, inner strength is truly inspiring. It shows that even in the face of adversity, there is hope for personal growth and transformation ❤❤

  • @createlovepodcast
    @createlovepodcast Год назад +2

    We are the superheroes we are have been waiting for! I love this ❤

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      Thanks for being one of my superheroes and best friend for life. Love you to the moon and back!

  • @wittylove7215
    @wittylove7215 11 месяцев назад +1

    It's really comforting to know that someone who has been through traumatic events was able to overcome their anxiety. Sometimes struggles like that feel so consuming

  • @oo_eddie_oo4204
    @oo_eddie_oo4204 Год назад

    I resonate with the idea that hope requires action. The call to be our own superheroes by fostering hope rather than succumbing to despair is empowering.

  • @alicestanser
    @alicestanser Год назад +1

    Can relate to those heart-racing feelings at random noises in the middle of the night. Glad you found something to help you overcome all that.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      Thank you - and I'm so sorry that you have experienced those feelings as well. I wish for everyone who has been through these kinds of feelings to find a path to peace. I'm so grateful I found tools that work for me, and hope that you have or can as well. Sending love!

  • @junipruit
    @junipruit Год назад +1

    Wow, Lisa's talk really hit home for me. I've been feeling overwhelmed lately, and her tips on cultivating calm in chaos sound like just what I need. Going to try the five-senses grounding technique for sure!

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      I'm so happy that you found this talk to be useful! Let me know how the practice goes! I find that the deep breathing and five-senses grounding especially help me to return to the present moment, and to figure out what the "right next step" is if I need to take some action. Meditation has been a life-saver for me too. Good luck with it all!

  • @thenextbigthingishere
    @thenextbigthingishere 11 месяцев назад +1

    The emphasis on helping others to lower stress levels is a beautiful concept. It's a testament to the idea that true superheroes are those who uplift and support others in need.

  • @badkarma2005
    @badkarma2005 Год назад +2

    The idea of being able to return to a centre of peace and calm in any circumstance is truly powerful. It's a reminder that we have the capacity to make wiser decisions and create better outcomes when we approach challenges with a calm mindset.

  • @scottzsanders
    @scottzsanders Год назад +1

    The speaker's emphasis on eliminating distractions and calming the nervous system resonates deeply. In a world filled with constant stimulation and worry, it's crucial to find ways to quiet the mind and create inner peace.

  • @malyka4215
    @malyka4215 Год назад +1

    I think we just need to remember that the only thing we can control is ourself and our feelings! So yeah, it's pretty important to stay cool or "cultivate calm" when things around us are going wrong...

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      Exactly! I gained so much more ease and peace when I "resigned as the General Manager of the Universe," as I like to joke... I realized I really am NOT in control of so much in this world - but I CAN focus on staying calm and taking thoughtful actions.

  • @shastahasta
    @shastahasta 11 месяцев назад

    I appreciate her recognition of everyday heroes. It's a reminder that heroism is not always about grand gestures but often about perseverance in the face of challenges.

  • @carollcole
    @carollcole Год назад +1

    What she says about the distractions we face, especially worrying about other's opinions, really got to me. It's a reminder to focus on what truly matters in life instead of things you have zero power over

  • @ekimoduarte
    @ekimoduarte 9 месяцев назад

    Her approach to finding calm in chaos is not just inspiring; it makes you reflect on your own coping mechanisms, something we should assess regularly

  • @whereproofisproven
    @whereproofisproven 11 месяцев назад

    The acknowledgment of being a hero simply by staying on Earth during dark moments is a powerful message. Sometimes, the most heroic acts are the ones that go unnoticed and unspoken

  • @theshare3780
    @theshare3780 8 месяцев назад

    The part where she talks about helping others as a way to reduce stress really hit home for me. It's a powerful message about the impact of kindness and community in times of crisis.

  • @oliverreserd
    @oliverreserd 4 месяца назад

    Her explanation of why hope is harder than despair is something I've never thought about before

  • @wadewilsonjr
    @wadewilsonjr Год назад

    The personal anecdotes about heroes in everyday life, from parents to healthcare workers, are touching. It reinforces the idea that heroism exists in small, daily acts of kindness.

  • @danahasler9018
    @danahasler9018 Год назад

    I appreciate Lisa's emphasis on finding peace in the chaos. It's a skill worth mastering, especially in these challenging times.

  • @rinanoshinikov
    @rinanoshinikov 11 месяцев назад

    The talk reminds me that everyone is fighting a battle we might not know about. We should extend compassion to others and ourselves as we navigate through chaos of life

  • @remigradilenga4121
    @remigradilenga4121 Год назад +2

    As a fellow trauma survivor, I can't thank Lisa enough for sharing her journey to healing. It's inspiring to know that it's possible to find peace and calm even after going through such difficult experiences.

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      Thank you so much for your kind words. That's exactly why I gave this talk - because I want others to know that no matter what you have survived or endured, peace is possible. Happiness is possible. Sending you so much love!

  • @ivanahelenka
    @ivanahelenka 5 месяцев назад

    her description of becoming the "I" in the center of the storm is pretty powerful. might try visualizing that next time I'm stressed.

  • @IAmZictate
    @IAmZictate 11 месяцев назад

    It's refreshing to hear someone acknowledge the difficulties of maintaining calm in a chaotic world and sharing their own struggles with it. A lot of the time I watch talks like this and think "how would you know?"

  • @keithmlawrence
    @keithmlawrence 9 месяцев назад

    Helping others as stress relief is such an underrated strategy. I've been in plenty of high stress situations with other people who weren't so experienced and I've always gone straight into help mode, it's like a switch that just gets flipped and you're so focused and helping other people navigate the issue you don't have time to really clock the danger you're in until it's all over and done with

  • @gretaallison
    @gretaallison 11 месяцев назад

    The talk made me reflect on the power of choices. Choosing hope over despair and taking action, no matter how small, can indeed make a difference in the world.

  • @izakjakub
    @izakjakub 11 месяцев назад

    The three ways to cultivate calm are practical and actionable. I appreciate the focus on simple steps that can make a big difference in our overall well-being.

  • @opheliaollogtren
    @opheliaollogtren 9 месяцев назад

    The emphasis on action and hope over despair is exactly what we need more of. So easy to go down the spiral but this attitude takes work

  • @carldupont4440
    @carldupont4440 Месяц назад

    I enjoyed the message to eliminate distractions and silence external judgments. Only focus on what truly matters!

  • @hudsonhalloway
    @hudsonhalloway 3 месяца назад

    Okay, I need that five senses thing in my life. Five things I can see, four I can touch... brilliant! This talk's like a life hack manual for dealing with chaos. Loving it!

  • @anndibsdale
    @anndibsdale 2 месяца назад

    I liked the idea about being the "I in the center of the storm" makes a lot of sense to make yourself the fixed point amongst whatever chaos is happening around you

  • @lincolnmessier1840
    @lincolnmessier1840 2 месяца назад

    So cool that her journey has gone from trauma and anxiety to being able to light the way for others. Just shows that things do get better if we make the effort

  • @joshuabaxter507
    @joshuabaxter507 Год назад

    I've never thought of calmness as a superpower before! It definitely is an amazing quality to have, especially in situations where those around you aren't coping so well.

  • @andrenotagiant2752
    @andrenotagiant2752 Год назад

    It takes real courage to heal from trauma and become a superhero of our own lives.

  • @harrisonstenson8324
    @harrisonstenson8324 Год назад

    I can't agree more with Lisa's point about hope requiring action. It's not enough to wish for a better future; we have to work for it.

  • @piperdee8965
    @piperdee8965 3 месяца назад

    Props to the speaker for keeping it real about beating ourselves up. I'm totally guilty of that. Permission to be imperfect? Yes, please. This talk's a vibe, for sure!

  • @valeriedijkstra
    @valeriedijkstra 6 месяцев назад

    The yoga retreat is such an incredible story, it must have been really satisfying for her to realize that she wasn't scared and still had control over herself even in a situation like that.

  • @valentinalatonia
    @valentinalatonia Год назад

    I think this talk is a reminder that superheroes can be everyday people like us. We have the power to make a positive impact in the world.

  • @jeansammy
    @jeansammy Месяц назад

    She's clearly done ALOT of inner work to get where she is today. It's really impressive to see

  • @pagetderosier5267
    @pagetderosier5267 7 месяцев назад

    The stats on mental health really put things into perspective. We're all in this together... I wish people would start treating each other that way.

  • @jackiehathway
    @jackiehathway 10 месяцев назад

    This is a really important trait to develop. The only thing we ever have control over is ourselves.

  • @bazzadexter
    @bazzadexter 8 месяцев назад

    The wildfire story was intense! Shows how calm can be a lifesaver.

  • @mannylestrada
    @mannylestrada Год назад

    This talk needs to be seen in the middle east right now

  • @chelseasanders6369
    @chelseasanders6369 Год назад +1

    Beautiful and powerful. Superheroes are within us all. Well done 👍🏽

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      WE ARE THE SUPERHEROES WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR, indeed my friend... It's our time!

  • @CaspianJK
    @CaspianJK Год назад

    I've never thought of hope as a superpower before, but this has shifted my perspective. I want to be a hopeful superhero too!

  • @kendrasroom
    @kendrasroom Год назад +1

    I was genuinely surprised when I found out what an impact the pandemic had on gender equality in the workplace, and how many women found themselves unemployed afterwards but when I thought about the jobs that women are more likely to have, and how much those sectors have suffered during COVID it does make a bit of sense

  • @jasonopdebeeck4444
    @jasonopdebeeck4444 5 месяцев назад

    Wow she's done a great job at shaping the narrative here, who knew being calm could sound so epic?

  • @BungyBronze
    @BungyBronze 7 месяцев назад

    Man she's not joking around when she says how stress and anxiety can affect our health. I naively thought I just didn't stress out about things but your body is definitely keeping the score on all of it.

  • @ursulayildrim
    @ursulayildrim Год назад +1

    I've found the most helpful thing for me during a stressful situation is that simple breathing exercise where you double inhale and then let it all out in one big exhale. Never would have learnt that without meditation so yes, definitely agree with you Lisa!

    • @lisapowellgraham
      @lisapowellgraham Год назад

      Thanks for your kind words, Ursula! Meditation and deep breathing exercises have been a true life-saver for me, and I still use these simple tools daily.

  • @NoahForSure
    @NoahForSure 7 месяцев назад

    As a man I know I don't understand how difficult it is to overcmoe that kind of fear but it's so impressive and inspiring to hear her talk about it. I think that kind of experience adds a lot of credibility to her insights.

  • @miatta6299
    @miatta6299 Год назад

    Love that she shared her personal experiences here, I think it adds authenticity to the talk and advice she's giving.

  • @ecophobiabob1669
    @ecophobiabob1669 3 месяца назад

    The way she talked about eliminating distractions really made me think maybe I need to stop worrying so much about what others think of me.

  • @sophiawalters6908
    @sophiawalters6908 7 месяцев назад

    I think this really speaks to the power of just sitting with your thoughts and feelings in order to work through them and overcome whatever trauma is holding you back ❤

  • @brunodstone
    @brunodstone 5 месяцев назад

    This just goes to show how much people can grow if they put in the work!

  • @brooksharlow
    @brooksharlow 3 месяца назад

    I've never thought about how much energy I waste worrying about other peoples opinions. She's right it really doesn't matter and it only affects us as much as we allow it to

  • @blockchainbobisbroke
    @blockchainbobisbroke Год назад

    I appreciate the practical tips for cultivating calm, especially eliminating distractions. It's something I need to work on in my own life. Thanks for the insights!

  • @rickyohe
    @rickyohe 3 месяца назад

    Never thought about calm as a superpower before, but it totally makes sense in today's crazy world.