the real reason why you never looks good in photos (look better in mirror than photo)

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  • Опубликовано: 30 янв 2025

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  • @Kixxm1
    @Kixxm1  Год назад +42

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  • @Mocha_Moon1111
    @Mocha_Moon1111 Год назад +1897

    This is so creepy...I was actually thinking why I look bad in photos but good in mirror ...and yt recommended me this... lol... Maybe co-incidence.

    • @randalozizi
      @randalozizi Год назад +38

      OMG SAMEEEEEEE FURL

    • @balqismaroofi5939
      @balqismaroofi5939 Год назад +30

      yeah it’s happened with me
      pov: now i know why it happened
      scientist prov when you think about something seriously it will appear
      Brain power ☪️

    • @Mocha_Moon1111
      @Mocha_Moon1111 Год назад +1

      @@balqismaroofi5939 correct👍...and the theory of law of attraction is a great example of this.

    • @YumeraChauque
      @YumeraChauque Год назад

      ​@@balqismaroofi5939 is so true is like we are calling the thing!

    • @indo_kpop254
      @indo_kpop254 Год назад +2

      Me too 😢😮

  • @Sunflowersarepretty
    @Sunflowersarepretty Год назад +1308

    So we look bad in pics but doesn't mean that we are ugly potatoes in real life? Thanks. That's comforting to know. ❤

    • @lilliando1095
      @lilliando1095 Год назад +15

      😂😂😂😂

    • @deftoneslover
      @deftoneslover Год назад +55

      the mirror is the most accurate version to how others see us
      edit: not accurate it is how people see us too

    • @Princess_sarah_0
      @Princess_sarah_0 Год назад +12

      ​@@deftoneslover I exactly 100% how people see us but inverted

    • @kl5881
      @kl5881 Год назад +11

      I have all three of the features mentioned plus Im sure some slight asymetrical features so I look like an absolute creeper in photos lol but at least I feel confident and beautiful irl.

    • @Sunflowersarepretty
      @Sunflowersarepretty Год назад +14

      @@kl5881 my face is asymmetrical too like my right side is flat and my lips are asymmetrical too. As long as I look okay in real life I'm fine. 😭

  • @Nilayaalluru
    @Nilayaalluru Год назад +979

    Thank you so much for making a video on this! I always looked ugly in photos and the photos are the reason why I had developed body dysmorphia. I always thought I was ugly and I'd get shocked whenever someone would call me pretty. I honestly think I look good irl but whenever I take photos, I get discouraged and that's why I stopped taking photos and I get defensive when someone tries to click photos of me.

    • @Mochi-v-
      @Mochi-v- Год назад +76

      Bro wth i relate sm with u. Like so many ppl call me pretty too but in photos i look not so...eh..😭

    • @CollyWobbles._3
      @CollyWobbles._3 Год назад +7

      Frrrrrr😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @emilyfsdhfbsdjkfsdf6177
      @emilyfsdhfbsdjkfsdf6177 Год назад +5

      omg same

    • @user-yuri665
      @user-yuri665 Год назад +4

      Literally me 😂

    • @lalalalaland84
      @lalalalaland84 Год назад +3

      The you in photos is the face people see. The mirror you is only seen by yourself.

  • @fxrii.h
    @fxrii.h Год назад +296

    Moon also looks like a flashlight in photos but we all know how beautiful it is in real. just like that, you're beautiful too bub, Camera cannot capture your whole beauty.✨

    • @kaiserchu
      @kaiserchu 11 месяцев назад +13

      Aww such a beautiful comparison❤️ Thank you for this🫶🏻

    • @fxrii.h
      @fxrii.h 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@kaiserchu I'm glad you liked it!! Have a good day/night.💕

    • @anm6624
      @anm6624 10 месяцев назад +2

      wow!love it!💜

    • @fxrii.h
      @fxrii.h 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@anm6624 aw thank youu.! Have a lovely day/night fellow hooman

    • @anm6624
      @anm6624 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@fxrii.h you too!💜

  • @feyrie
    @feyrie 11 месяцев назад +125

    Someone who actually gets it right. Camera lens does ALOT to distort the face and body. It’s so weird when other channels claim the mirror is false.

    • @louise.x03
      @louise.x03 10 месяцев назад +15

      not to mention, i've had many phones in my life and every singe lens has made me look different

  • @lethaena
    @lethaena Год назад +68

    some people are just not photogenic, don’t worry. what’s important is how people see you in real life. nowadays a lot of ppl trick their photos by filters, some are fake, and others may find it & get disappointed when they meet them in person. so don’t be insecure.

  • @bhaskarmukherjee7799
    @bhaskarmukherjee7799 Год назад +425

    I look good in selfies,not in photos.

  • @Drawperfectcircles
    @Drawperfectcircles Год назад +115

    Another thing that wasn’t mentioned is how phone cameras handle colors. Most often(all iPhones) takes photos and apply post-processing to it, which includes turning up the contrasts of the photo taken. This means that the dark area will appear darker and the lighter area will appear lighter, so things like black spots or areas where colors are different becomes more visible in the final photos. Hope this helps too

    • @shishi6799
      @shishi6799 Год назад +6

      Yes... the auto HDR that cannot be turned off in newer iPhone photos. I look fine in older iPhones. Newer iPhones artificially makes photos more detailed. My pores are fine when I see myself in the mirror. But on newer iPhones, selfies accentuate those pores like hell.

    • @nobinobuz
      @nobinobuz 10 месяцев назад +2

      Correct, I was suprise when I see my photo that my face looks weird coz of the acne mark that appears really clear on it

    • @GHOSTIE-fq6xc
      @GHOSTIE-fq6xc 6 месяцев назад

      so true!! My dark circles appear more visible than they do irl which worried me badly on how darkened they were in iphone photos

  • @bella.sh1ne
    @bella.sh1ne 10 месяцев назад +28

    My one eye appears smaller than the other in pictures but in mirror, they both are symmetrical and perfect. Is it only me?

    • @vimu60
      @vimu60 8 месяцев назад +4

      No sis I have same issue that's why i don't like to click photos because my right eye looks smaller then left in pictures which doesn't look good but in real and in mirror both eyes are same

    • @Sandyuniverse633
      @Sandyuniverse633 8 месяцев назад +1

      I have same problem

    • @bella.sh1ne
      @bella.sh1ne 8 месяцев назад

      @@vimu60 tbh i look so bad in pictures. I hate getting clicked!

    • @Moon_Queen_8
      @Moon_Queen_8 8 месяцев назад

      No

    • @limit7293
      @limit7293 6 месяцев назад

      Me tho my eyes are gone😂 in photos

  • @Jiminslostjams7_
    @Jiminslostjams7_ Год назад +110

    THIS IS SOOO TRUEE!!! I literally look so bad in my school group photos I have chubby cheeks and like you said my face looks really wide in them 😭😭😭

  • @Ihaabzahra
    @Ihaabzahra Год назад +91

    you are so underrated! this actually helps alot❤❤

    • @Kixxm1
      @Kixxm1  Год назад +6

      Thank you so much ☺️❤️

  • @maeduss
    @maeduss Год назад +241

    At this point I feel like editing my pictures/ videos not as changing myself, but rather getting my appearance back to how good it actually is irl… Stuff mostly get worse with my facial structure, but also I can’t stand how my dark circles look fine in person (a little bit darker than my skin) and like a freaking panda in pictures/ videos! ☠️

    • @leagfly
      @leagfly Год назад +10

      I wonder if new cameras on smartphone do it on purpose now 😅

    • @Stracuzzi334
      @Stracuzzi334 Год назад +28

      I can relate! People ask why I don’t feel confident about my appearance when I edit my photos. It’s not that at all, I just want my photos to look how I actually look 😅

    • @sadie_xxo
      @sadie_xxo Год назад

      if that is you in your profile though, you are absolutely gorgeous!🥰

    • @truth6074
      @truth6074 Год назад +2

      Ok but you are 10/10 from this photo

  • @IsSheRG710
    @IsSheRG710 Год назад +40

    This video is legit lifechanging

  • @saltNpepper952
    @saltNpepper952 Год назад +7

    The last part 🥹 a very important reminder, thank you ❤

  • @CaWolfie258
    @CaWolfie258 Год назад +14

    This makes me feel so much better, thank you! ❤️

  • @deepikanegi5164
    @deepikanegi5164 Год назад +16

    I am so glad that I came across this video. Although I already have a broad face but I always wondered why my face looks more broader in pictures than in mirror.Now I know why😅

  • @caelisan
    @caelisan Год назад +40

    None of these people look ugly, at all, and you don't either. There's nothing wrong with how you look. You're beautiful the way you were made.

  • @mareg5472
    @mareg5472 Год назад +50

    Now if only I can figure out how to position myself so I don't look like that in photos 😅

  • @ZOBsSs
    @ZOBsSs Год назад +29

    Thank you so much now I feel less insecure about myself love you❤❤

  • @khanhanle7696
    @khanhanle7696 11 месяцев назад +2

    thank you this boosts my confidence so much

  • @jonzadim4536
    @jonzadim4536 Год назад +12

    Can u plz make a video on why I look better in selfies than in back cam photos. I just look terrible in back cam photos but in selfies I look good and in actual in mirror i look overall very good.

    • @limit7293
      @limit7293 6 месяцев назад

      Me I look bad in both front and back 😂 but in mirror very . People used to tell me I am good looking

  • @jayy147
    @jayy147 Год назад +12

    this helped me sm!! thankyou!!

  • @elsa407
    @elsa407 Год назад +13

    Just came across some photos where i look ugly and that's keeping me awake now 🙄

  • @ritAmad
    @ritAmad Год назад +34

    What an insightful no-bullsh*t video!! Thank yoh

  • @ksushmitha6170
    @ksushmitha6170 Год назад +3

    Ur last lines are amazing 🤩

  • @Renijka666
    @Renijka666 Год назад +6

    My face is round and on photos sometimes looks so fat! You right is make it wider!

  • @enesjei
    @enesjei 10 месяцев назад +1

    I mean i already give up trying to look good in a photo and accept the fact that camera just hate me. But still, it's nice to know the reason why.

  • @kmusic5944
    @kmusic5944 Год назад +3

    This makes so much sense now....

  • @taesquinn7897
    @taesquinn7897 10 месяцев назад +2

    My friends told me i look good in ohotos not in real life.But eveytime i take photos or wear different types of dresses people tell me i look so different in each.I dont even know whats my real face and how others see me

  • @BeeQueen505
    @BeeQueen505 Год назад +77

    In mirror or photos , I can believe I looked very different, 😅I don't know how other ppls are watching me, it's terrifying 😂

  • @griffinina
    @griffinina Год назад +76

    And that's why kpop idols & celebs do surgeries. Bcz it is part of their job to be photographed a lot, so they need clearly defined facial feature to look good in photos.

    • @Puck_TheMischief
      @Puck_TheMischief 11 месяцев назад

      That's wrong

    • @sundaswaheed8564
      @sundaswaheed8564 10 месяцев назад +2

      Bro they do surgery bcs of some ill minded people have made toxic standards

  • @ninii394
    @ninii394 Год назад +13

    Same problem ....in pics my cheekbones and jawline is too much also lips and nose looks bigger😢

  • @nicolecabillo
    @nicolecabillo Год назад +6

    That's awesome. Thank you.

  • @V.I.P205
    @V.I.P205 Год назад

    thank you for this video. I have wondered this all my life, why I always look so different in the camera than in real life.

  • @VIVA_LA_VIDA_4EVER
    @VIVA_LA_VIDA_4EVER Год назад +10

    My nightmare is...back camera 💀not selfie camera😢

  • @amair98
    @amair98 10 месяцев назад

    Dang those last statements. ❤

  • @Aysisse
    @Aysisse Год назад +8

    Oh really?
    I look good in mirrors or selfies, but group photos make my face look so large since I have chubby cheeks and I'm really self conscious about my face shape because of this. That's conforting to hear..

  • @QT_PieE
    @QT_PieE 10 месяцев назад +2

    I wanted look beautiful in his eyes only 🥺

  • @Godtheonlysavior-zb8lh
    @Godtheonlysavior-zb8lh Год назад +1

    I think our shape of nose ,our chubby face and our eyes is what making us unique and beautiful ,and I won't gonna who I am , instead I prefer to be myself , because I feel lucky for how I am and not gonna change my beauty to sharp and tiny nose ,they are beautiful the way they and I am beautiful with my natural beauty I live love and care the way I am☺️

  • @MissPeachie
    @MissPeachie 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the enlightenment. My face is already flat which explains it!

  • @taochi9399
    @taochi9399 Год назад +14

    Not Kim Go Eun being used as an example for 99% of the video

  • @farahjafrinfj
    @farahjafrinfj 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love you seriously

  • @ineedmoneyrn
    @ineedmoneyrn Год назад +13

    My asymmetry is so bad that not even a hairstyle could make up for it tbh. When someone records a video of me while im talking it looks like i was punched and my jawline went all to one side💀

  • @lunarzaveta
    @lunarzaveta Год назад

    This makes me feel better

  • @nayabsultana3897
    @nayabsultana3897 10 месяцев назад

    One thing thank you so much♥️

  • @unknown-xw5op
    @unknown-xw5op 8 месяцев назад

    When i went to studio to click my photos, i was looking quite pretty in mirror but when i looked the photos it wasnt expected. I always had my head tilted a bit and camera made it more awful. Even the camera man told me that i look fine in real life but the photos are just highlighting my imperfect features on face

  • @chartv888
    @chartv888 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much! 😊

  • @elmahyrakanayori6016
    @elmahyrakanayori6016 10 месяцев назад +1

    I always think that, no matter how i look lets never assume that i am that " good looking " one 😅 its not uncofidence its just to stay down to earth instead😊 i just want my whole face are functional and healthy with or without put on any make up, thats all.

  • @riniiov
    @riniiov Год назад +26

    5. Grotesque mimics due to strong emotions. Your eyes become very small while the mouth is huge. Wrinkles appear all over the face. Try to smile at your heart's content in front of the mirror. Then try to smile pretty. Then figure out the boundary of your pretty and ugly broad smile and be mindful of it.
    This was my huge problem. I'm still struggling with it irl, but at least I can do pretty photos. Aristocratic ladies always smile elegantly

    • @Nothereforit174
      @Nothereforit174 Год назад +3

      you idealize the repression of emotion. Others idealize expressiveness. Depends on the culture and language even that one grows up with

    • @riniiov
      @riniiov Год назад +2

      @@Nothereforit174 Sure. I just figured out my own aesthetic. I always wondered why I look strange in some photos and hated taking pictures until I thought of this. I'm sure my comment will help at least one person

  • @Desperate.Daniel.24-7
    @Desperate.Daniel.24-7 11 месяцев назад +9

    Tbh for most, I bet the bigger reason is simply that we’re not used to staring at ourselves. Same as how our own voice sounds weird in recordings. But once you start recording yourself frequently, it starts to sound “normal” again.
    I unknowingly overcame both of these insecurities by doing daily vlogs. Just around Day 30 I got over something that’s bugged me for close to 28 years.. pretty nuts how obvious and simple the cure was to me all these years 😅

    • @fzfxfcf
      @fzfxfcf 11 месяцев назад

      Recordings are different from aspect. Recordings are you but photos do change our image

  • @naurwaybro
    @naurwaybro Год назад

    how they managed to dance that scene towards the end in the rain is beyond me. I would’ve slipped and fell 😭

  • @pragyasharma1409
    @pragyasharma1409 Год назад +1

    How can it be possible?I was thinking about these things in the morning and i didn't even search it in any social media but this video popped 😮

  • @lemon-no1of
    @lemon-no1of Год назад

    Thank you😭

  • @Vexarax
    @Vexarax 10 месяцев назад

    I bought a fancy new phone for filming RUclips videos, but the lens totally distorts my face! Everything closer the camera looks waaay bigger so my nose looks huge 😭 I look sort of like Mr Bean in the new camera due to the extreme distortion lol
    I look “normal” on my old phone, but the old phone camera is a bit busted so can’t film properly!!

  • @marjanakhi2075
    @marjanakhi2075 Год назад

    Thanks that was comforting 🥹

  • @bithyjannat9956
    @bithyjannat9956 Год назад +9

    One day you will get a lot subscribers.

    • @Kixxm1
      @Kixxm1  Год назад +2

      Thanks a lot🥹

  • @nobinobuz
    @nobinobuz 10 месяцев назад

    I feel the same as well, I always look bad in photos , right now I m living abroad in other country, it makes me confuse that my coworkers n other new people that I meet give compliment that I look handsome and they would to know more about my life.
    What a strange life

  • @ishita8486
    @ishita8486 10 месяцев назад

    it's sad this difference makes people gp through plastic surgeries that make them look good on camera but ruin their looks irl. :(

  • @Some_guy_passing_by
    @Some_guy_passing_by 11 месяцев назад +1

    These are the exact same problems with my face . I have really prominent cheekbones, jawline , and a nose with rounded tip . My face looks so incredibly wide , bulky quite ugly in photos . But I look pretty average in naked eyes . 😂 I don't even like to be in photos for this reason.

  • @Ayesha-ir5kz
    @Ayesha-ir5kz Год назад +3

    Plz plz make a video on assymetrical face can I fix it 😊

  • @Mujisu5102
    @Mujisu5102 9 месяцев назад

    Beautiful

  • @Jjangbunbun
    @Jjangbunbun Год назад +3

    This is so true actually

  • @seer._.
    @seer._. Год назад +3

    waiting for 3D images apps to be made for phones

  • @SnowYukiYap
    @SnowYukiYap Год назад +2

    😂 I'm not good looking in photo, but I'm good looking when meet by person, my colleague and friend say that

    • @zeyanZen
      @zeyanZen Год назад

      I'm a boy. Same 🤦

    • @lol-iw4fg
      @lol-iw4fg Год назад

      Im on the same boat, almoat all people say im handsome but in photo just disaster

  • @christian92827
    @christian92827 Год назад +2

    the reason why i use beauty app even i look pretty haha

  • @purrfection7777
    @purrfection7777 Год назад +2

    Nice video!👌

    • @Kixxm1
      @Kixxm1  Год назад +2

      thanks ☺️

  • @anon5824a
    @anon5824a Год назад +2

    What if I look bad in videos also?

  • @bakkiasri2786
    @bakkiasri2786 9 месяцев назад

    I look good in photos but in mirror I cannit see the same.

  • @July-uc1bb
    @July-uc1bb Год назад +7

    It really is a life saver video 😊

  • @Dairychoco
    @Dairychoco 8 месяцев назад

    Dmn true.. I'm always bad in every group photo but good in mirror 😞😮

  • @V.I.P205
    @V.I.P205 10 месяцев назад +2

    In short, cameras are not as realistic or accurate as people believe them to be.

  • @Beauty_tipz111
    @Beauty_tipz111 Год назад +4

    Guys i can give you a easy solution . Make video posing then take screenshots. Done ✅😅

  • @srirajinj8114
    @srirajinj8114 Год назад +1

    Good info

  • @FaithLHope
    @FaithLHope 8 месяцев назад

    Great content

  • @inspiritpiano2904
    @inspiritpiano2904 Год назад +1

    Thank you very much!) What about video, if you looking bad on video too..

  • @lol-iw4fg
    @lol-iw4fg Год назад

    And some people good in photo but just normal or even bad in real life....

  • @xiurongzhang7044
    @xiurongzhang7044 11 месяцев назад +1

    Which one is real of how we look? Mirror or photos 😊

    • @chamidudulan8632
      @chamidudulan8632 11 месяцев назад +1

      mirror is more accurate, even you see flipped image of yourself

  • @korumi77
    @korumi77 Год назад +1

    can you do one for eye brows like thin or thick suits which face shapes, or like if short or long or medium hair suits which better

  • @donttalktome365days
    @donttalktome365days Год назад +2

    Basically I don't have beautiful face that's why I don't look good in pictures.

  • @note9greenscreenpandemic354
    @note9greenscreenpandemic354 10 месяцев назад

    Does this apply to men too?

  • @Rose-ze7sr
    @Rose-ze7sr Год назад

    TYSM❤

  • @Gurenn83
    @Gurenn83 Год назад

    I look bad in the mirror and even on flagship smartphones. I think I need a DSLR camera.

  • @cuteonigiri1671
    @cuteonigiri1671 Год назад

    I just want to say...i love u❤

  • @DianaRamirez-sm5nx
    @DianaRamirez-sm5nx Год назад

    1.69k subscriber here💃

  • @estherorjibassey8074
    @estherorjibassey8074 Год назад

    So in real life do people around us see us like in the photos we take or mirror 😅 I just really wanna know , even tho my inner voice knows the answer , but if I could get some answers it'd be nice

  • @premdhan3314
    @premdhan3314 Год назад +2

    Here me who doesn't look good at any ,,neither mirror nor photo😢😂

  • @Xinisterr
    @Xinisterr Год назад +2

    Idk why buy my face just looks deformed in photos.

  • @zeyanZen
    @zeyanZen Год назад +1

    Im a boy. Same I'm a bad photo of any angle. Im not photogenic even if im not ugly lmao. So that's why i avoid camera and pictures taken. 😂 So bad for me. 🤦
    Mirror and photo and asual. My face look different lmao 😂

  • @nne0asf
    @nne0asf 9 месяцев назад

    I never look good in photos it nerfs me 😢😢😢
    I look alot better in real life

  • @garimasinghparihar5814
    @garimasinghparihar5814 8 месяцев назад

    and me having triple eyelid in one eye and double eyelid in other...look so bad in photos...god has given me 0% symmetry 😭💀

  • @overthemoonflorist9135
    @overthemoonflorist9135 10 месяцев назад

    Boooom while watching this video..i just realized that when we see moon from our eyes it looks beautiful and different and shiny and when we take a picture of the same moon
    ..BAMMM it looks ugly....GIRLS AND GUYS WE ARE SAME AS WE LOOK IN MIRROR ❤

  • @lanyuchiha
    @lanyuchiha Год назад

    I was the 1k like 😊

  • @smily828
    @smily828 11 месяцев назад +1

    I look good in photo is this means I'm ugly in reality???😢

    • @chamidudulan8632
      @chamidudulan8632 11 месяцев назад

      no, it means you are extremely beautiful in reality!

  • @FoevaYgnBtfl
    @FoevaYgnBtfl Год назад

    I look total different in my passport photo. In a worse way.😢

  • @weijack31
    @weijack31 Год назад +2

    How many days I need to wait for personal hair consulting?

    • @Kixxm1
      @Kixxm1  Год назад +2

      I'm working on it now, and I expect it to be completed in about a month! I'm trying to make it as fast and accurate as possible! Thank you for waiting☺️

  • @jadephoenix222
    @jadephoenix222 Год назад

    how do people see us?

  • @MyNameIsAღy
    @MyNameIsAღy Год назад +2

    i swear i once asked my sis whether my face look exactly like in the photo(showing my photo took in a sec with phone) with real life face, because in the photo my face look weirly old but the thought that i look kinda 'ok' when i saw my face in the mirror. i really afraid that my brain deceive me when i actually look ugly LOL but my sis said it was the camera trick it's actually different. hmm i still have a doubt tbh. i never like talking selfies 🥴

  • @ychansluvv
    @ychansluvv Год назад +1

    Please bro, mirror me is literally model material ( when I actually have my shit together ) yet phone me looks like a discord mod like whatt😭 Camera me and mirror me literally look like completelyyy different people man💀

  • @znzz1146
    @znzz1146 Год назад +1

    This is the reason why I never like group photos. I am the only one who look super ugly in my family. I am adopted daughter. I look different with my parents. I look like a black girl around white people.