As an INFP I don’t really have social anxiety. A lot of times I’m quiet because whatever is going on in my head is a lot more entertaining then talking to someone
You feel attacked because it is an attack. Most of us would never tell our coworkers how we feel about work because we know what their response is going to be already. We work because we have to pay the bills but we don't have to like it. Also part of growing up is doing what you need to do but also focusing on your personal goals instead of self medicating on mindless television as soon as the clock hits 5pm which a lot of people oddly equate to adulting. It's not. Hey it's just tit for tat. There's nothing wrong with never giving up.
@@kowaretatc8611 I’ve been homeless before and now that I’m housed and working construction I think I’d rather be homeless and make music in a tent. I just physically can. Not. Do. This.
I'm INFP and had a few takes on these situations; - At a Public Bathroom: *stands in stall and waits until at least 98% of others have left already.* - At a Job Interview: ("Please like me enough to hire me, I don't wanna be hired, but please think that I do, but please understand me deeply enough to see that I don't.") - As a teacher: (If we're to assume teaching is their passion!) I could imagine INFP dreading the idea that in 6 months they'll have to say goodbye to all their students, and bracing for that pain to restart every September. 🤣 - INFP Angry: **Proceeds to rip you apart with every detail, every observation, every repeated mistake, flaw and vice you've made habits of, then probably doesn't talk to you for an incredible amount of time.** **Also will melt immediately if the other party apologizes.** - As boyfriends/girlfriends; In our mind, we're already married, so...! **proceeds to shower them in loving texts, compliments, quality time, and an endless need for physical contact.**
Have literally made myself late by waiting til everyone else had left the bathroom because i didnt feel like dealing with people right then. Also, infp's + LOTR = a match made in heaven.
As an INFP, I would have to agree to a lot of that. I've actually used meditation to try and combat the things that have been difficult for me, like not becoming emotionally attached too easily, but damn it's hard and like it's hard-wired into the brain. And if someone does mistakes, I do have a good capacity for forgiveness, but people who have intentionally hurt or wronged others will incur my eternal wrath. I can just imagine how INFPs would be the perfect punishers for the really bad evil-doers in hell or something.
"I'm under an enchanted waterfall" Oh damn. When I took long showers I'd always imagine that I was a giant that gave water to the people, and when they fought I'd stop making the water flow to a certain side, so one of the cities would be without water for being in argue. I never realized how imaginative I am until now
I am so going against this. Nope, not accurate at all. I am not that soft, it's because of all the feels, i have felt them all. From the nice feelings, to the deepest hell. I ain't that soft, hold my hand, i give you a sneak peak of what hell looks like.. 😅 ~ INFP
That's so me, except for the social anxiety. I mean, I kinda experienced it for a while, but I actually got better and now I'm more chill about being around people. Tho don't get me wrong, I value solitude more than (almost) anything else Just a little suggestion to any INFP or person in general who's struggling with social anxiety: 1. Know you're not alone. Please seek professional help if you can, or talk to someone you trust and feel safe and comfortable with 2. Remember that you are loved ♡ I love you, even if I don't know you! 3. Your feelings do matter. And please know that there's nothing wrong with you, you are unique and special. Thanks for reading, hope I helped!! Have a nice day ♡
I feel like we infps are very underestimated when it comes to what we are capable of doing if you make us mad. Like it is hard to get on our nerves, but if you do it.... there's nothing that can save you
We will SHRED YOU with a dramatic, vicious, yet eloquent speech, whether in person or in written form. And honestly if youve pushed us that far you probably deserve every bit of it because we are generally incredibly patient and forgiving people who really dislike conflict and turmoil.
LMAAOO "The job is not who I am" is just so relatable huhuh. I applied for a job for a company once and got accepted but it doesn't have anything to do with art so I just cried the whole day contemplating if I should continue working or not.
can definately relate to booth inxps, especially the wallflower stuff, just wanna be left alone at work and do my thing except for a few people who i can relate to, then i suddenly need some social interaction become way more talkative for a day, then back to normal wallflower. Could be the 9 enneagram.
I relate to this so much, about the firework, the first thing I thought was “people really should let that be, those poor animals are scared to death”, but then you said it should turn into a dragon like in lord of the rings… HELL YES
Lmao "facts don't care about your feelings" love Ben. I'm an INFP and had a relationship with an ESTJ. I learned so much from him and I hope he learned a lot from me.
Indeed the fictions in our head is our savior... I mean the 'Shower', 'lord of the rings' .......... Right on point.... The whole video is pretty accurate for an infp
THE ENCHANTED WATERFALL WAS TOO TRUE OMGGGG- I like roleplayed as characters going through a magic waterfall when I was young and sometimes when I’m bored still do
This infp bf expression is real 😂 I never thought someone could be this romantic until I meet my infp bf :3 I kind of like it but also don't know that to respond, I'm an entp female 😅😂
So true. Though, as an INFP myself, since I got lots of fun theater classes as a kid, I always adored oral presentations, even the 40 minutes ones at univ. ! It also really helped with the social anxiety.
The urgent feeling of wanting to disappear, and be invisible is so prominent. But then the finally feeling invisible I then feel sad and like no one cares for me...
I'm an ENFJ, but I feel like this is more me. I have all the dreamer / anxious / empathic qualities of an infp, but the driven, academic, perfectionist, and high standards for myself of an ENFJ. What type would that be?
🙂as an infp I'll take 20 minutes to write a comment.. post it.. and delete it after OVERTHINKING who will even read my comment or who cares what I say💀
“Well I’m a wallflower, so where are the perks?” If this is a “The perks of being a wallflower” reference, imma be so happy that’s my favorite movie (and I’m an INFP my my)
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As an INFP I don’t really have social anxiety. A lot of times I’m quiet because whatever is going on in my head is a lot more entertaining then talking to someone
Yeah, same with oral presentations. I never had a problem with those.
I even imagine and live in my own stories and laugh by myself :)) maybe others think im a bit crazy
EXACTLY!😂
I HAVE NEVER FELT MORE UNDERSTOOD- if infp's were honest about how we felt about taking to some people I think we'd hurt everyone's feelings lol
@@azzaakos1284 lmao yep. Agreed
"We call it work for a reason"
F*ck, I feel so attacked
oh, no
You feel attacked because it is an attack. Most of us would never tell our coworkers how we feel about work because we know what their response is going to be already. We work because we have to pay the bills but we don't have to like it. Also part of growing up is doing what you need to do but also focusing on your personal goals instead of self medicating on mindless television as soon as the clock hits 5pm which a lot of people oddly equate to adulting. It's not. Hey it's just tit for tat. There's nothing wrong with never giving up.
Only work I actually like is creative stuff like writing and acting…this makes sense now-
@@kowaretatc8611 I’ve been homeless before and now that I’m housed and working construction I think I’d rather be homeless and make music in a tent. I just physically can. Not. Do. This.
@@nonamebeer-d7eI feel you. Hopefully we get to live like Tolkien.
'You evil incarnate'
Gotta love that phrase as an INFP lmao.
Ahhh yess😂😂
💯
lmao but INFPs don't say some poetic stuff everytime they speak 😭
I do 😭😭😭
Most of them do thats why theyr Fi dom
Most of the ones i know do 😂
On writing I do
I do it for the sake of joking lol (yes, I'm infp who loves to joke around)
I'm INFP and had a few takes on these situations;
- At a Public Bathroom: *stands in stall and waits until at least 98% of others have left already.*
- At a Job Interview: ("Please like me enough to hire me, I don't wanna be hired, but please think that I do, but please understand me deeply enough to see that I don't.")
- As a teacher: (If we're to assume teaching is their passion!) I could imagine INFP dreading the idea that in 6 months they'll have to say goodbye to all their students, and bracing for that pain to restart every September. 🤣
- INFP Angry: **Proceeds to rip you apart with every detail, every observation, every repeated mistake, flaw and vice you've made habits of, then probably doesn't talk to you for an incredible amount of time.** **Also will melt immediately if the other party apologizes.**
- As boyfriends/girlfriends; In our mind, we're already married, so...! **proceeds to shower them in loving texts, compliments, quality time, and an endless need for physical contact.**
This. This is the actual truth
Lol i have problems using the bathroom too. Except when i was in jail i got used to it. But normally i like my privacy
So true😢❤
Have literally made myself late by waiting til everyone else had left the bathroom because i didnt feel like dealing with people right then.
Also, infp's + LOTR = a match made in heaven.
As an INFP, I would have to agree to a lot of that.
I've actually used meditation to try and combat the things that have been difficult for me, like not becoming emotionally attached too easily, but damn it's hard and like it's hard-wired into the brain.
And if someone does mistakes, I do have a good capacity for forgiveness, but people who have intentionally hurt or wronged others will incur my eternal wrath.
I can just imagine how INFPs would be the perfect punishers for the really bad evil-doers in hell or something.
"I'm under an enchanted waterfall"
Oh damn. When I took long showers I'd always imagine that I was a giant that gave water to the people, and when they fought I'd stop making the water flow to a certain side, so one of the cities would be without water for being in argue.
I never realized how imaginative I am until now
Idk why but I always imagine things so much that I'm scared and excited to see if it would leak into my reality 😅
@@arkfurydragonmane2358 Same.
for me, the shower is where all my insecurities take place in my mind
If i have a bucket with ridges, when you spin it it makes a COOL pattern. I'am the witch in this..... bathroom 😅
And those "people" are the insects in the bathroom 😌 /j
These things make me realize how well my mind is going... For the first time in forever I feel like a healthy INFP
Things in the skits aren't necessarily healthy, though...
Ikr
The angry INFP…looooool, my mom and I have joked that when I’m really pissed off, the target of my anger is “The Antichrist.” 🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"I'm under an enchanted waterfall"😂 that's so me... I'm even obsessed with the word enchanted.
Me too
I only noticed in these complications how consistent your expressions are for a specific personality type👍
“i dont require oral presentations in this class, i hated them too when i was young.”
me, who kind of wants to be a teacher:
*y e s*
I hated multiple choice tests more than anything so that is my first to go. I like private oral presentations. So like one on one or written.
Hahaha I'm a teacher and I made them do it anyway. They have to overcome their fears 😈
I wanted to be a teacher so bad but it’s literally a constant oral presentation lol
"I just wanna go away dissappear" the amount of times I felt this way is incredibly unexplainable😂😆😆
As a INFP-T I can confirm...this is on point
Yeah same. I'm also an INFP-T
Yes same, INFP-T speaking
INFP-T and probably unheathy :c (that's the worst possible way to be)
@@philrei2797 yeah me too bud, don't worry
ME AS ANOTHER INFP-T CAN CONFIRM
"I think that guy can see me through the slits" very much this. I hang my coat there for that exact reason
I always look back cuz i get that feeling 😂😂
This is so accurate 😂
~ an INFP 🙃
I’m an INTP, but i often Seem INFP- ish because my ennagram is 5w4. Some of this also seems like me.
I am so going against this. Nope, not accurate at all.
I am not that soft, it's because of all the feels, i have felt them all. From the nice feelings, to the deepest hell.
I ain't that soft, hold my hand, i give you a sneak peak of what hell looks like.. 😅
~ INFP
That's so me, except for the social anxiety. I mean, I kinda experienced it for a while, but I actually got better and now I'm more chill about being around people. Tho don't get me wrong, I value solitude more than (almost) anything else
Just a little suggestion to any INFP or person in general who's struggling with social anxiety:
1. Know you're not alone. Please seek professional help if you can, or talk to someone you trust and feel safe and comfortable with
2. Remember that you are loved ♡ I love you, even if I don't know you!
3. Your feelings do matter. And please know that there's nothing wrong with you, you are unique and special.
Thanks for reading, hope I helped!! Have a nice day ♡
Feeling is as equal as thinking with your heart, soul and body! ✨👑🍬💖🌈💪😍🙏😔
accurate. I'm cringey, anti-social, and a wannabe poetic person.
"I just wanna go away and disappear", yep, that's my daily inner monologue as an INFP
I feel like we infps are very underestimated when it comes to what we are capable of doing if you make us mad. Like it is hard to get on our nerves, but if you do it.... there's nothing that can save you
We will SHRED YOU with a dramatic, vicious, yet eloquent speech, whether in person or in written form. And honestly if youve pushed us that far you probably deserve every bit of it because we are generally incredibly patient and forgiving people who really dislike conflict and turmoil.
LMAAOO "The job is not who I am" is just so relatable huhuh. I applied for a job for a company once and got accepted but it doesn't have anything to do with art so I just cried the whole day contemplating if I should continue working or not.
can definately relate to booth inxps, especially the wallflower stuff, just wanna be left alone at work and do my thing except for a few people who i can relate to, then i suddenly need some social interaction become way more talkative for a day, then back to normal wallflower. Could be the 9 enneagram.
The waterfall in the shower!!! I literally do that it's so relaxing and imagining being in between rocks under a waterfall in the sunset 😍
I loved the parent said, "Keep your dreams alive and don't grow up "
As an INFP I don't have social anxiety. Sometimes I just don't speak if I don't want to and try to stay near people I trust/care about.
"I don't know everybody here, where is my friend that invited me?" I feel so attacked
“Ok.. where’s the self-checkout 👀”
-Me ALWAYS
I relate to this so much, about the firework, the first thing I thought was “people really should let that be, those poor animals are scared to death”, but then you said it should turn into a dragon like in lord of the rings… HELL YES
Ok where’s the self checkout???😂 that’s so funny. I’m definitely an Enfp and prefer to interact with a human at checkout
Lmao "facts don't care about your feelings" love Ben. I'm an INFP and had a relationship with an ESTJ. I learned so much from him and I hope he learned a lot from me.
Infp here. You just found the very essence of my being in one short
Yep. That’s me.
That's So Raven
🤣
As an INFP, if I could have one superpower, it would be invisibility. I told this to an ESFP and he thought I was crazy!
I was an esfp but somehow I became infp lol
I can literally imagine how you mean 😅
“You’re evil incarnate!” Lmfao 😈
LMAOOOO I LOST IT AT THE ENCHANTED WATERFALL PART KEKKKK
As an INFP, yes.
Especially "I'm a Wallflower, where are the perks?"
These are so true! When he mentioned TLotR I melted
Indeed the fictions in our head is our savior... I mean the 'Shower', 'lord of the rings' .......... Right on point.... The whole video is pretty accurate for an infp
“I just wanna go away, disappear”!!!! Ahahaha
The bathroom slits got me the best!
I thought I was the only one,all the infp’s are fkin poets 😂😂😂😂❤
The job part is 100% true.
My best friend is an INFP and this relates to her SOOOOOOOO MUCHHHHH 😂😍
That part As a a Teacher is literally how I am as a Tutor😂
THE ENCHANTED WATERFALL WAS TOO TRUE OMGGGG-
I like roleplayed as characters going through a magic waterfall when I was young and sometimes when I’m bored still do
@John Henry: keep up your good comments.
“I’m already imagining how I’m going to hate this job.” 😂🙌🙈
Why tf is the angry one so accurate 💀
The teacher ❤️🙏
This infp bf expression is real 😂 I never thought someone could be this romantic until I meet my infp bf :3
I kind of like it but also don't know that to respond, I'm an entp female 😅😂
As an INFP-T, ily.
“Okay where’s the set check out” TOOK ME OUT not to mention I GENUINELY IMAGINE IM UNDER A WATERFALL IN THE SHOWER JDKSJS
"this work just isn't who I am" THIS 😂😂😂 Like, if it don't come easy we are gonna be breezy.
I do the waterfall thing everyday 😂
The wishing fireworks turned into dragons like in LOTR was so real 😂
Honesty this whole skit was relatable
“You have no heart” omg lol🤣🤣🤣 but true 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Every single piece of this is smack dab accurate. Especially the social anxiety bit, and the waterfall thing. I do that all the time in the shower
"Where's the friend that invited me" XD
I m a wallflower so where are the perks😂😭
as an infp that’s also diagnosed with anxiety, this hits harder than a car accident
This is spot on! Never related to anything like this!
That lord of the rings quote is spot on lmao
“Okay where’s the self checkout “ got me 🤣🤣
Dude this is surreal
Yes, to all of these. Especially the first one and the one about fireworks. 👍
How is this SO ACCURATE? 😳 I’m honestly floored here. Especially the social anxiety followed by a cigarette. Me in a nutshell.
THE BATHROOM ONE IS SO FREAKING ACCURATE!!! 😳
Being underneath an enchanted waterfall is such a VIBE 💖
My brain at every opportunity: “Ok! Here is 75 reasons why every body hates you!!!
INFPs, I hope you know how much us ENFJs adore you 😍
"wheres the friend that invited me?" story of my life.
The enchanted waterfall is too relatable
As an INFP it's the first male INFP piece of content I see that doesn't relate to shitting on us repeatedly [thank you so much]
I can relate to this on an astronomical level😭😭
Enchanted waterfall! I'm gonna try that, thanks.
Im an INFP and my dad is an ESTJ we can't understand each other 😭😭😭😭 thankfully mom always clairfy everything
I really felt that firework one 🐉
Surprisingly accurate
So true. Though, as an INFP myself, since I got lots of fun theater classes as a kid, I always adored oral presentations, even the 40 minutes ones at univ. ! It also really helped with the social anxiety.
“I think a guy can see me on this slits” a very INFP thing
The live performance one was just 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌 on point
The one about being in love is absolutely spot on, but I usually say that THEY are the one who shines brighter than any star 🌟
Infp is so adorable
I swear, I really love showers it makes me feel like I'm under a waterfall
Quite True, Even though I don't have social anxiety I still don't like social related things
The shower part😭
The one at the party is so inaccurate! It should be "I don't know anyone here! Quick, where's the house cat/dog??" 😂
"I just wanna go away, disapper"
I'm into it, it's really describe me
Okay the enchanted waterfall thing really took me out 😂 that is so me
The urgent feeling of wanting to disappear, and be invisible is so prominent. But then the finally feeling invisible I then feel sad and like no one cares for me...
Yep! Can totally confirm.
the bathroom one is so true- lol I have thought that multiple times
I'm an ENFJ, but I feel like this is more me. I have all the dreamer / anxious / empathic qualities of an infp, but the driven, academic, perfectionist, and high standards for myself of an ENFJ. What type would that be?
🙂as an infp I'll take 20 minutes to write a comment.. post it.. and delete it after OVERTHINKING who will even read my comment or who cares what I say💀
Yeah thats just the internet being the internet 🤷♂️
Yeah, as a non-native English speaker, I will use the Grammar Checker to make the comment perfectly. lol
As an INFP this was kinda stereotypical, INFP’s can still be social.
this is so relatable
The social ones only happens when my social tank is empty. Gotta be by myself to recharge
The INFP at a party is literally me, at every social event I’ve ever been to.
Including my wedding.
As an INFP with a ESTJ wife, this is on point lol
as an ENTJ, I love you and we make the best power couple! Because they never steal my spotlight and are supportive
“Well I’m a wallflower, so where are the perks?”
If this is a “The perks of being a wallflower” reference, imma be so happy that’s my favorite movie (and I’m an INFP my my)