@@jonathandean8002 and the MCU was supposed to have a Pandemic be a plot point in Falcon & The Winter Soldier, the Flag Smashers were stealing Vaccines that were supposed to be going to people who had returned from the Blip that were being hit with 5 years of disease & virus mutations all at once. That was written in late 2019 and had to be changed during filming because obviously they started filmimg as lockdowns hit
john oliver is a really good interviewer, and there are many comedians that cross the line and end up looking disrespectful. he was kind and respectful enough that she joined in on the jokes, and she's actually such a brilliant and funny person, it's nice that she can be seen in that light
Obviously I can't prove it, but it's almost like a few of these men who disingenuously ask " what are the rules?" actually DO know when they're crossing the line. They just want to know if they can get away with it or not. And they're frustrated when they don't know.
I just re-watched this episode, and your interview with Anita Hill was the best you had ever done up to that point. Every interview in the past four seasons was tipped in the direction of entertainment and comedy, but this one was obviously one you felt very deeply about. Your questions and treatment of Professor Hill were perfect. Bravo, John, for becoming a real interviewer at last. You get better and better with each passing season. Long may you wave.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
The problem with sexual harassment training, is that it's all about "don't do this". Everyone watching thinks it doesn't apply to them. Even the who are doing it think, I'm not that bad!. We need to add training on what to do when you see someone-else doing it. Everybody wants to be the hero. Show them how to step in and stop others. Show them how to support victims, and help. The "bystander training" Sandra mentioned.
HR is mostly concerned with making sure employees never directly confront each other about anything. Telling people to confront each other could create legal liability if someone is "assaulted" (as in: assault and battery) which, legally speaking, is having the feeling that you're being threatened. The person doing the sexual harassment could end up suing the business.
If only more people had listened to Anita Hill over time, we wouldn't be in such a horrid place. They were determined to make Thomas a Justice, partly because he is Black, and they didn't want to worry about backlash from people saying they listened to Anita because they were trying to find reasons not to confirm a Black Justice. Truth is, he is just unfit, and it has nothing whatsoever to do with the color of his skin.
The problem is that people are ignorant about what harassment is. Comes from centuries (maybe even millennia) of men's perceived entitlement to women's bodies and patriarchy. Luckily we are evolving and learning. What's crazy is that so many argue against a woman's right to boundaries.
John's comments on how he would just say to the harasser that the actions are creepy, really shows that even the people with the best intentions need help on clearing up how to deal with sexual harassment. I agree with professor Hill 100% that we need bystander classes to help those normal everyday good people to help effectively police the creeps and support the victims. Those stupid sexual harassment videos also need to get updated to show how sneaky and gross SH can look in real modern life.
it's nothing that hasn't been said before, but it's so crazy to me, always, that some of these men's first thought is "I'm afraid to be alone in a room with a woman because she could ruin my life" and not realize the irony that that's exactly what many women think if they have to be alone in a room with a man. Just for slightly different reasons.
Sexual harassment and sexual violence is so fucking insidious. I know all this stuff. I could give you definitions in my sleep. And yet, when I was sexually harassed it took me weeks to realise and when I did it fucked me up and incredibly badly. I am grateful that my department actually handled it and, with the way things have worked out, I never have to see that person again, but fuck anyone who protects those people. Be wary of people who say they're against it because when the time comes, they may very well just sit back and watch.
Anita Hill is and always has been a total class act. She is a national treasure, and Clarence Thomas should have been drummed out of public life decades ago.
The sad irony of this main story, and the wonderful interview at the end, is the topic and context of what happens in six episodes time with a different Supreme Court Justice.
I was sexually harassed over the summer, & I guess you could say I had a delayed reaction because I thought, it's not like it was blatant, where they're touching my butt or chest, but after speaking out to family and close friends, and googling, unwanted touch was the first thing to pop up. A few days after explaining to fam and friends, I couldn't stop crying. I didn't want to come out of my room, my body felt eerily light, and I felt my arms shaking; it was more so angry crying, because why did it have to happen. I was scared and overwhelmed because it was a lot to process. For context, I'm autistic, and while more autistic women are more prone to harassment/abuse, it just took a very long time for me to catch on, and when the realization hit me like a bus, I felt stupid, because again, why did it have to happen. The week after, I mustered up the courage to reach out to hr, because my mom and I thought there could be other women being harassed. It was hard and scary, but I don't regret it, and I'll never regret it. The worst part was the follow-up call because while I understand it's part of the process, the guy calling; felt more like an interrogation. He claims to understand how sensitive of a topic it is, and while I understand harassment is a serious allegation, imagine how stressful and anxiety-inducing having to relive, as you go into the nitty-gritty, and rehashing the trauma. And those are the same people who wonder why victims are reluctant to speak out. Because unfortunately, hr never has your best interest at heart. After the call, I just broke down as my brother walked into my room to check in on me. I'm trying to get out and find other places. I would work different hours just so I wouldn't have to see my harassers because I'm scared of running into them. As stupid as it sounds, I even had nightmares about one of the creeps murdering me. I also talked with my therapist, and she & my family have said to get out and to only work 1 or 2 days if I have to. It sucks having a short paycheck, but if it means protecting myself, I'd rather go that route. To those looking to get out or going through such harassment/abuse, I hear and see you
To anyone wondering what to do/not do when it comes to a woman in the workplace. Ask yourself if you would perform such an action if the person was a man instead of a woman. If you answer yes then it's most likely fine. Just treat everyone the same and treat them with respect.
Clarence Thomas… what do I know that name from… oh I know: corruption allegations THIRTY years after his confirmation controversy. There were so little consequences that he got to have a second scandal 30 years later when no one remembers the first one
One of the things that bothers me is that I’m a little autistic and I can’t comprehend a lot of subtleties, such as telling the difference between flirting and friendly, and have similarly never once noticed sexual harassment around me. I’m certain it’s happened, but I’ve just never noticed.
I can say the same thing about myself. I'm on the spectrum, and I have definitely had a hard time determining what sort of behavior is appropriate because it was hard for me to pick up on social cues. That said, I made a lot of effort on that front over a few years after I graduated from college, and I think I am a lot better at it now.
I feel the same regarding your statement about flirtation versus friendliness. In the absence of understanding, I of course default to assuming just friendliness in order to avoid any chance of making anyone else uncomfortable, but I have no doubt I’ve lost chances to date/have relationships as a result. Just yesterday a fellow student was friendly/possibly flirtatious at me, and I’ve been stressing myself out since worrying over whether I’m being rude by ignoring her flirtation or whether I’d be rude to guess it was flirtation. I don’t want to be a story as one of those guys who took friendliness as flirtation! I realize this is objectively not a huge problem, but it’s certainly quite stressful to me.
@@jessehammer123 heya o/ i'm mid fourties & autistic. had a few issues with not recognising people's 'signals' of course... i know it can be hard to do, but as a tip: *explain* - say hey, i'm (confused/autistic/wondering) about... then ask for assistance- 'can you tell me what xyz is about?', what that means when you do it? some folk will be freaked, in my experience, but decent folk will get onboard & answer as well as they can. (obv try & get a moment where nothing urgent is going on to distract folks) these days people are *far* more understanding & competent with this sort of stuff, but NT folks need a poke to get them going ^^
I'm autistic myself, and usually can't tell when someone's flirting with me; yet when I pick up on it, I get suspicious because we've learned time & time again that people don't have good intentions I was sexually harassed at work, and when it dawned on me that it was harassment (it was unwanted touching), I was scared and overwhelmed, because it was a lot to process, and I felt stupid. Hell, I would get bouts of anxiety/depression on my way to work, and I would get a bad gut feeling around my harassers The worst part is, there's a part of you that knows it's not okey what they did to you, but we also don't want to be perceived as overly sensitive :( But at the end of the day, if your mind and body are telling you something's wrong, always go with it I'm sorry that you had to experience it. You should never have to experience it, and neither should anyone else. I hope that you're healing
This is definitely not the biggest takeaway from this video but it’s driving me nuts, why would you ever hug a coworker? Especially in a business environment and/or scenario?
It's a big takeaway for me. I am not a hugger and by refusing hugs and kisses on the cheeck I am seen as rude (since I am from Europe where it is a cultural norm). I hate it
@@andreea-marinacozma6077 I am so sorry you have to put up with that. Stay strong, you are 100% in the right. No one has any right to touch you if you don’t want them to and if they have a problem with that it’s their issue.
@@andreea-marinacozma6077 a norm? You haven't lived in Poland have you? No, it is not a norm everywhere in Europe and I'm guessing you are speaking about France, because kisses at the cheek are their thing.
I will say one thing I sadly agree with is if you get accused it is crazy you get fired in before an investigation happens even if they find you did nothing wrong you still lose your job
A fax is a phone call you make to send documents. It's basically first e-mail. You have the original - someone gets a copy. No wonder first Internet was done over the phoneline, just like the fax.
And I can’t tell you how much I appreciate the show and how much I needed to feel seen and understood in the environment that I live in Port Saint Lucie. It is unbelievable to me that people have decided to try and push people beyond their comfort and feeling of safety, when I have done nothing within the boundaries of my efficacy, or out in public places and very jumbled health care mixups. I love the area and moved across state to be closer to my brother. I chose the city I moved to because it reminded me of old Florida from my youth. Quaint. But circumstances as they are I am very much in a devided state,politically I am a Democratic Party, we are in a time when hateful actions are a threat to people who have a different religion race orientation country of origin color language lesbian gay transgender bisexual queer This is a horrible way to be labeled and I am tired of it J
i don't mean to be an asshole, but... we've *always* been in a place where 'others' have been cast out, dehumanised, oppressed... we're working on it *glacially* but (afaik) it's not worse today than yesterday.
In the Netherlands there was a sexual harassment case with a rapper, and hearing the story of the victim I was trying to imagine how anyone could ever arrive at the mindset that would have you fondle your genitals while standing in front of seated, clothed person showing no signs of interest in what youre doing. It's mindblowing. Women absolutely do sexually harass as well, but I feel like the women who do have to overcome so much social conditioning to get to that point
You can’t have private corporations do whatever they want with their money, but then when it comes to sexual harassment, everything goes to court. Thats the real problem. Anything that happens within a private corporation is basically protected, short of murder
I would have learned a lot watching this before I got fired from one of my previous workplaces because their HR did not give a fuck about equal rights act, and blacklisted me from taking the same position in any of their other locations I'm pretty sure indefinitely. This doesn't just apply to workplace sexual harassment, but also workplace harassment against the disabled. And the worst part of my whole ordeal was finding a lawfirm who'd help me, which apparently no one wanted to!
It's men like the guy that couldn't hire a woman that some religions demand that women cover themselves completely. Though I think instead of making the women suffer, if a man is unable to control himself then when he leaves his house he has to cover his eyes so that he is completely blind. After all he's the one with the problem, not all of the women. Only a percentage of men have this issue so many men would be free to walk around without their eyes covered. A tattoo or brand on the face would indicate those those required to cover their eyes in public/outside their house. Of course having women cover themselves is more control than protection.
The Zuckerberg could literally buy every homeless person in America a home and spends his time practicing fencing and challenging Elon Musk on line. If anyone legitimately thinks God exist, you can just ditch that now.
Facebook in 2024 - yup, we're still for: pushing ads, sponsored sh!te and not allowing your friends to find you. :P Never gave my real data, was hacked, tried to create a new account, was blocked - not going back to FB ever. Also, when it comes to sexual harassment: don't touch, don't joke about woman in a sexual way and laugh it off as a "joke", don't do anything you wouldn't like anyone to do to your mother, daughter, sister. Simple as that. :/
wierd questions imo, but i'm going to do my best to just answer: *consensual* sex is fine. coercive/forced/etc is not. is that hard to understand? has anyone, ever, fussed about eye contact? i mean unless it's like someone complaining that i (an autistic fella) don't do enough of it?
I really wish when he talks about these kinda topics, he advocates for men as well. Its always men bad, Women victim. Never the other away around, or talk about how these things happen even within the same gender.
If you saw men bad women victim in this coverage you might need to reevaluate some things in your life. As a man i just saw creeps bad dont victim blame here.
@@Bezorgdestudent123 As a man that's been sexual harrassed at work by older women its nice to see coverage talking about how men can be victims too. I'm not trying to take anything away from women and ignore ALLL the bs that got to deal with. I'm just let saying, it would be nice to see a non incel, red-piller talk about mens issue as well. I'm not victiming blaming, no one should be put in that situation. The aggressor is always in the wrong. He, she, they, gay straight, etc. Wrong is wrong.
Just to be picky, the example showed the man coming forth as the house was on fire. Hill came forth 10 years after the event & just when Thomas was under the glass.
@@louielyons9365 I'm not familiar with that appearance but I am reminded of his episode on Scottish Independence where he was very anti-independence. Perhaps why he is able to speak so well about US issues is because of being an "outsider." Much harder to be truly objective when you're talking about the place where you spent your childhood
29:51 the victim is so afraid to confront the perpetrator for fear of retaliation, but I'm supposed to step in and accept the retaliation for reporting it when the victim is unwilling. More to this point if somebody sexually harasses me and I fail to report it and then that person sexually harasses somebody else am I then just as guilty of perpetrating the second offense just because I didn't report the first?
You're coming at this either from a place of genuine misunderstanding, or with genuine bad faith. The issue is that there's a "guys club" culture that makes it difficult for women to speak up. "This thing that is seen as normal is dehumanising to me" is much less likely to be listened to than "hey, fellow man, this thing you do is not actually ok and everyone thinks you're weird". One is "making yourself the victim" and the other is someone seen as being on the same page as you pointing something out. And as for your second question, that's a grey area, but many survivors do in fact feel tremendous guilt when it happens to someone else. But that wouldn't be an issue if people just DIDNT HARASS PEOPLE
This problem is very similar to the corrupt cop problem. If a good cop is aware or witnesses Bad behavior. And says nothing. It’s part of the problem too. The other problem is the culture that makes it hard for any party to come forward With the sexual harassment The people who come forward gaslit and the people you go to i’m gaslighting them. And it’s like Black people in America you get so used to being miss treated. You give up because the system is against you at birth
"It's one of those phrases that is universally foreboding, like the virus is airborne,"
I refuse to believe this episode was released in 2018.
Wait until you play Spiderman for the ps4. They literally had a pandemic where they were forced to wear masks. It came out in 2018, lol.
@@jonathandean8002 and the MCU was supposed to have a Pandemic be a plot point in Falcon & The Winter Soldier, the Flag Smashers were stealing Vaccines that were supposed to be going to people who had returned from the Blip that were being hit with 5 years of disease & virus mutations all at once. That was written in late 2019 and had to be changed during filming because obviously they started filmimg as lockdowns hit
@@jonathandean8002 Tom Clancy's The Division back in 2016
@@CollinMcLeanthank you, I was going to type that. I first played that game in 2021, fucking haunting. Had to stop playing lol
@@TemLightKiBlade Then we got a sequel
john oliver is a really good interviewer, and there are many comedians that cross the line and end up looking disrespectful. he was kind and respectful enough that she joined in on the jokes, and she's actually such a brilliant and funny person, it's nice that she can be seen in that light
I lied at work. I used to tell people my brother was an attorney who specialized in sexual harassment cases. No one ever bothered me.
Obviously I can't prove it, but it's almost like a few of these men who disingenuously ask " what are the rules?" actually DO know when they're crossing the line. They just want to know if they can get away with it or not. And they're frustrated when they don't know.
I just re-watched this episode, and your interview with Anita Hill was the best you had ever done up to that point. Every interview in the past four seasons was tipped in the direction of entertainment and comedy, but this one was obviously one you felt very deeply about. Your questions and treatment of Professor Hill were perfect. Bravo, John, for becoming a real interviewer at last. You get better and better with each passing season. Long may you wave.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I didn’t even know about the interview with Professor Anita Hill. Thanks for the mention I’m going to check it out next. Bests from Chicago
It was indeed a powerful piece!
John Oliver is a national treasure.
British national treasures are usually stolen from colonized countries.
A very fine import
@@deelish22 like the Statue of Liberty if it had bad dental coverage.
Yes, and much like Colonial England he often brings up, he is now property of America and Britain can come visit him whenever they stop by on vacation
@@joshuarobichaud5975 And as he also brings up, Britain actually doesn't want him back )
Ms Hill is so impressive as she was during those horrific hearings. Thank you for continuing to educate on the ways to reduce sexual harassment.
Women choose a bear over man in meeting alone in the woods because if she gets attacked by a bear, people will believe her.
The problem with sexual harassment training, is that it's all about "don't do this". Everyone watching thinks it doesn't apply to them. Even the who are doing it think, I'm not that bad!.
We need to add training on what to do when you see someone-else doing it. Everybody wants to be the hero. Show them how to step in and stop others. Show them how to support victims, and help.
The "bystander training" Sandra mentioned.
That’s how they teach about bullying in school, and it’s definitely more effective.
Just like with abstinence only sex education. It’s all about what not to do.
HR is mostly concerned with making sure employees never directly confront each other about anything. Telling people to confront each other could create legal liability if someone is "assaulted" (as in: assault and battery) which, legally speaking, is having the feeling that you're being threatened. The person doing the sexual harassment could end up suing the business.
Not sure where you are, but in NYC, we are trained for such things in the workplace.
Bystander training has been included in all the training I've had to do (at least since 2018). All California-based companies, for what it's worth.
How about instead of teaching your daughter not to be victims, you start teaching your boys how not to be aggressors?!
If only more people had listened to Anita Hill over time, we wouldn't be in such a horrid place. They were determined to make Thomas a Justice, partly because he is Black, and they didn't want to worry about backlash from people saying they listened to Anita because they were trying to find reasons not to confirm a Black Justice. Truth is, he is just unfit, and it has nothing whatsoever to do with the color of his skin.
It's hilarious seeing the facebook apology and knowing that it has Consistently Gotten WORSE
Pretty much why I don't use it much lol
"Glacially slow" I love the on the fly pun!! I bet she's a cool old lady!
I love the on the fly pun! It gave me the chills.
Anita Hill is a badass
Instead of harassing women in the workplace, simply be a friend, and not be a creep, it's really simple.
The problem is that people are ignorant about what harassment is. Comes from centuries (maybe even millennia) of men's perceived entitlement to women's bodies and patriarchy. Luckily we are evolving and learning. What's crazy is that so many argue against a woman's right to boundaries.
It‘s crazy that this EXACT thing happened a few years after that yet again with Brett Kavanaugh
John's comments on how he would just say to the harasser that the actions are creepy, really shows that even the people with the best intentions need help on clearing up how to deal with sexual harassment. I agree with professor Hill 100% that we need bystander classes to help those normal everyday good people to help effectively police the creeps and support the victims. Those stupid sexual harassment videos also need to get updated to show how sneaky and gross SH can look in real modern life.
This is so wild to watch years later. All of the "career-ending" things that happened, that didn't actually end his career. Barely even stalled it.
Congrats on the Emmy!
Which one 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆
Jesse Watters and Tucker Carlson saying what they did about harassment in the workplace is disturbing now.
Thank god there is no more spam clickbait or fake news on fb
it's nothing that hasn't been said before, but it's so crazy to me, always, that some of these men's first thought is "I'm afraid to be alone in a room with a woman because she could ruin my life" and not realize the irony that that's exactly what many women think if they have to be alone in a room with a man. Just for slightly different reasons.
Sexual harassment and sexual violence is so fucking insidious. I know all this stuff. I could give you definitions in my sleep. And yet, when I was sexually harassed it took me weeks to realise and when I did it fucked me up and incredibly badly. I am grateful that my department actually handled it and, with the way things have worked out, I never have to see that person again, but fuck anyone who protects those people. Be wary of people who say they're against it because when the time comes, they may very well just sit back and watch.
Excellent interview regarding both parties- wonderful job. I wish I was 1/2 as well spoken & admirable as either of them.
*whistles* that’s a hell of an interview
Anita Hill is and always has been a total class act. She is a national treasure, and Clarence Thomas should have been drummed out of public life decades ago.
The sad irony of this main story, and the wonderful interview at the end, is the topic and context of what happens in six episodes time with a different Supreme Court Justice.
I was sexually harassed over the summer, & I guess you could say I had a delayed reaction because I thought, it's not like it was blatant, where they're touching my butt or chest, but after speaking out to family and close friends, and googling, unwanted touch was the first thing to pop up. A few days after explaining to fam and friends, I couldn't stop crying. I didn't want to come out of my room, my body felt eerily light, and I felt my arms shaking; it was more so angry crying, because why did it have to happen. I was scared and overwhelmed because it was a lot to process. For context, I'm autistic, and while more autistic women are more prone to harassment/abuse, it just took a very long time for me to catch on, and when the realization hit me like a bus, I felt stupid, because again, why did it have to happen.
The week after, I mustered up the courage to reach out to hr, because my mom and I thought there could be other women being harassed. It was hard and scary, but I don't regret it, and I'll never regret it. The worst part was the follow-up call because while I understand it's part of the process, the guy calling; felt more like an interrogation. He claims to understand how sensitive of a topic it is, and while I understand harassment is a serious allegation, imagine how stressful and anxiety-inducing having to relive, as you go into the nitty-gritty, and rehashing the trauma. And those are the same people who wonder why victims are reluctant to speak out. Because unfortunately, hr never has your best interest at heart. After the call, I just broke down as my brother walked into my room to check in on me.
I'm trying to get out and find other places. I would work different hours just so I wouldn't have to see my harassers because I'm scared of running into them. As stupid as it sounds, I even had nightmares about one of the creeps murdering me. I also talked with my therapist, and she & my family have said to get out and to only work 1 or 2 days if I have to. It sucks having a short paycheck, but if it means protecting myself, I'd rather go that route.
To those looking to get out or going through such harassment/abuse, I hear and see you
Oh no the virus is airborne
Sir John. The joke about Dahmer and men and boys being too edible? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
To anyone wondering what to do/not do when it comes to a woman in the workplace. Ask yourself if you would perform such an action if the person was a man instead of a woman. If you answer yes then it's most likely fine. Just treat everyone the same and treat them with respect.
Bold of Professor Duncan to have these takes after how hard he thirsted for Britta
Clarence Thomas… what do I know that name from… oh I know: corruption allegations THIRTY years after his confirmation controversy. There were so little consequences that he got to have a second scandal 30 years later when no one remembers the first one
If only we could all have half the poise and resilience of Anita Hill.
One of the things that bothers me is that I’m a little autistic and I can’t comprehend a lot of subtleties, such as telling the difference between flirting and friendly, and have similarly never once noticed sexual harassment around me. I’m certain it’s happened, but I’ve just never noticed.
I can say the same thing about myself. I'm on the spectrum, and I have definitely had a hard time determining what sort of behavior is appropriate because it was hard for me to pick up on social cues. That said, I made a lot of effort on that front over a few years after I graduated from college, and I think I am a lot better at it now.
I feel the same regarding your statement about flirtation versus friendliness. In the absence of understanding, I of course default to assuming just friendliness in order to avoid any chance of making anyone else uncomfortable, but I have no doubt I’ve lost chances to date/have relationships as a result. Just yesterday a fellow student was friendly/possibly flirtatious at me, and I’ve been stressing myself out since worrying over whether I’m being rude by ignoring her flirtation or whether I’d be rude to guess it was flirtation. I don’t want to be a story as one of those guys who took friendliness as flirtation! I realize this is objectively not a huge problem, but it’s certainly quite stressful to me.
@@jessehammer123 heya o/
i'm mid fourties & autistic. had a few issues with not recognising people's 'signals' of course...
i know it can be hard to do, but as a tip: *explain* - say hey, i'm (confused/autistic/wondering) about... then ask for assistance- 'can you tell me what xyz is about?', what that means when you do it? some folk will be freaked, in my experience, but decent folk will get onboard & answer as well as they can. (obv try & get a moment where nothing urgent is going on to distract folks)
these days people are *far* more understanding & competent with this sort of stuff, but NT folks need a poke to get them going ^^
I'm autistic myself, and usually can't tell when someone's flirting with me; yet when I pick up on it, I get suspicious because we've learned time & time again that people don't have good intentions
I was sexually harassed at work, and when it dawned on me that it was harassment (it was unwanted touching), I was scared and overwhelmed, because it was a lot to process, and I felt stupid. Hell, I would get bouts of anxiety/depression on my way to work, and I would get a bad gut feeling around my harassers
The worst part is, there's a part of you that knows it's not okey what they did to you, but we also don't want to be perceived as overly sensitive :( But at the end of the day, if your mind and body are telling you something's wrong, always go with it
I'm sorry that you had to experience it. You should never have to experience it, and neither should anyone else. I hope that you're healing
Oh past John... this won't be the last time you talk about Clarence Thomas 😂😂😂
Lmmfao, Facebook's promise aged well🤣🤣🤣
The way Anita Hill was treated is a national shame.
Cheesus, no like? That's a shame. ;/
27:00 Anita Hill interview
Most realistic Facebook commercial ever.
15:06 What we called "Locker room talk" in the 90s.
Applebee's cheeseburger eggrolls were everything to me. Miss them so much
This is definitely not the biggest takeaway from this video but it’s driving me nuts, why would you ever hug a coworker? Especially in a business environment and/or scenario?
It's a big takeaway for me. I am not a hugger and by refusing hugs and kisses on the cheeck I am seen as rude (since I am from Europe where it is a cultural norm). I hate it
@@andreea-marinacozma6077 I am so sorry you have to put up with that. Stay strong, you are 100% in the right. No one has any right to touch you if you don’t want them to and if they have a problem with that it’s their issue.
@@andreea-marinacozma6077 a norm? You haven't lived in Poland have you? No, it is not a norm everywhere in Europe and I'm guessing you are speaking about France, because kisses at the cheek are their thing.
Ikr it's just so weird.
I will say one thing I sadly agree with is if you get accused it is crazy you get fired in before an investigation happens even if they find you did nothing wrong you still lose your job
I love how sometimes he leans in like hes telling us a little secret.
Oh hey, it’s the scared men episode!
Excellent fucking show!!! Anita Hill was amazing!
Okay. Ken Howard is not store brand Ted Danson. He is the White Shadow.
Only 12k views let's go people help out he's one of last people to care about about calling out the elites
6:47 "i guess we doin circles now"
"A fax is an e-mail or text message that has to be printed to be seen"
A fax is a phone call you make to send documents. It's basically first e-mail. You have the original - someone gets a copy. No wonder first Internet was done over the phoneline, just like the fax.
And I can’t tell you how much I appreciate the show and how much I needed to feel seen and understood in the environment that I live in Port Saint Lucie. It is unbelievable to me that people have decided to try and push people beyond their comfort and feeling of safety, when I have done nothing within the boundaries of my efficacy, or out in public places and very jumbled health care mixups. I love the area and moved across state to be closer to my brother.
I chose the city I moved to because it reminded me of old Florida from my youth.
Quaint. But circumstances as they are I am very much in a devided state,politically I am a Democratic Party, we are in a time when hateful actions are a threat to people who have a different religion race orientation country of origin color language lesbian gay transgender bisexual queer
This is a horrible way to be labeled and I am tired of it
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i don't mean to be an asshole, but...
we've *always* been in a place where 'others' have been cast out, dehumanised, oppressed... we're working on it *glacially* but (afaik) it's not worse today than yesterday.
In the Netherlands there was a sexual harassment case with a rapper, and hearing the story of the victim I was trying to imagine how anyone could ever arrive at the mindset that would have you fondle your genitals while standing in front of seated, clothed person showing no signs of interest in what youre doing. It's mindblowing. Women absolutely do sexually harass as well, but I feel like the women who do have to overcome so much social conditioning to get to that point
I adore Coldplay but I love how much John hates them 🤣
You can’t have private corporations do whatever they want with their money, but then when it comes to sexual harassment, everything goes to court.
Thats the real problem. Anything that happens within a private corporation is basically protected, short of murder
I missed the interviews lol
2020: 2:07
7:02 | *This was so insulting, even for Mark's standards*
I would have learned a lot watching this before I got fired from one of my previous workplaces because their HR did not give a fuck about equal rights act, and blacklisted me from taking the same position in any of their other locations I'm pretty sure indefinitely. This doesn't just apply to workplace sexual harassment, but also workplace harassment against the disabled. And the worst part of my whole ordeal was finding a lawfirm who'd help me, which apparently no one wanted to!
It's men like the guy that couldn't hire a woman that some religions demand that women cover themselves completely. Though I think instead of making the women suffer, if a man is unable to control himself then when he leaves his house he has to cover his eyes so that he is completely blind. After all he's the one with the problem, not all of the women. Only a percentage of men have this issue so many men would be free to walk around without their eyes covered. A tattoo or brand on the face would indicate those those required to cover their eyes in public/outside their house.
Of course having women cover themselves is more control than protection.
Look mah, no legs! No LEGS!
Its Tom Time
The Zuckerberg could literally buy every homeless person in America a home and spends his time practicing fencing and challenging Elon Musk on line. If anyone legitimately thinks God exist, you can just ditch that now.
It seems like mark z. Has been taking too much LSD
industrialized targeted empathy
Coldplay just got shot dead in the street walking out of the Man-Bun store.
Facebook in 2024 - yup, we're still for: pushing ads, sponsored sh!te and not allowing your friends to find you. :P
Never gave my real data, was hacked, tried to create a new account, was blocked - not going back to FB ever.
Also, when it comes to sexual harassment: don't touch, don't joke about woman in a sexual way and laugh it off as a "joke", don't do anything you wouldn't like anyone to do to your mother, daughter, sister. Simple as that. :/
to think this is six years ago @_@
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2:06 DID NOT age well
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Well, it's a good thing you're not a man then Tucker!
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The only time I talk to the woman is when there’s a cash register between us
Johnny Depp cough cough
he won *cough* *cough*
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Is it okay to have sex with a coworker? Or pursue an investigation of some serious "eye contact?"
wierd questions imo, but i'm going to do my best to just answer:
*consensual* sex is fine. coercive/forced/etc is not. is that hard to understand?
has anyone, ever, fussed about eye contact? i mean unless it's like someone complaining that i (an autistic fella) don't do enough of it?
Can we please stop with all of this partisan hackery?
@@Seanpfree why tf are you even here
Did the chick newscaster whose reporting on the Facebook thing call him Mike Zuckerberg?
I really wish when he talks about these kinda topics, he advocates for men as well. Its always men bad, Women victim. Never the other away around, or talk about how these things happen even within the same gender.
If you saw men bad women victim in this coverage you might need to reevaluate some things in your life. As a man i just saw creeps bad dont victim blame here.
@@Bezorgdestudent123 As a man that's been sexual harrassed at work by older women its nice to see coverage talking about how men can be victims too. I'm not trying to take anything away from women and ignore ALLL the bs that got to deal with. I'm just let saying, it would be nice to see a non incel, red-piller talk about mens issue as well. I'm not victiming blaming, no one should be put in that situation. The aggressor is always in the wrong. He, she, they, gay straight, etc. Wrong is wrong.
Can I have a real friend please? I’ve been homeless for 11 years. Just need help finding any legitimate job and I will give you a fucking kidney.
Just to be picky, the example showed the man coming forth as the house was on fire. Hill came forth 10 years after the event & just when Thomas was under the glass.
S5 E18
Was it worth it? Was it worth clicking every video 6 hours ago and typing the first part of the title into the comments?
I'm just going out of my way to say thank you. It was unnecessary, but I appreciate the strange effort.
John Oliver doesn’t do nearly enough on the Irish housing crisis and really that’s very colonial of him
Also why does he never refer back to his appearances on things like mock the week
@@louielyons9365 I'm not familiar with that appearance but I am reminded of his episode on Scottish Independence where he was very anti-independence. Perhaps why he is able to speak so well about US issues is because of being an "outsider." Much harder to be truly objective when you're talking about the place where you spent your childhood
29:51 the victim is so afraid to confront the perpetrator for fear of retaliation, but I'm supposed to step in and accept the retaliation for reporting it when the victim is unwilling. More to this point if somebody sexually harasses me and I fail to report it and then that person sexually harasses somebody else am I then just as guilty of perpetrating the second offense just because I didn't report the first?
I don't think you'd have problems with documenting those instances nowadays. It was a bit difficult in the 80s and 90s...
You're coming at this either from a place of genuine misunderstanding, or with genuine bad faith. The issue is that there's a "guys club" culture that makes it difficult for women to speak up. "This thing that is seen as normal is dehumanising to me" is much less likely to be listened to than "hey, fellow man, this thing you do is not actually ok and everyone thinks you're weird". One is "making yourself the victim" and the other is someone seen as being on the same page as you pointing something out. And as for your second question, that's a grey area, but many survivors do in fact feel tremendous guilt when it happens to someone else. But that wouldn't be an issue if people just DIDNT HARASS PEOPLE
@@jasonellis4330 "But that wouldn't be an issue if people just DIDNT HARASS PEOPLE" - so easy, yet so difficult for some. :/
This problem is very similar to the corrupt cop problem. If a good cop is aware or witnesses Bad behavior. And says nothing. It’s part of the problem too. The other problem is the culture that makes it hard for any party to come forward
With the sexual harassment The people who come forward gaslit and the people you go to i’m gaslighting them. And it’s like Black people in America you get so used to being miss treated. You give up because the system is against you at birth