Why Do People Get Offended By Jokes?

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024
  • The psychology behind getting offended by humor.
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  • @a4th0r34
    @a4th0r34 3 года назад +65

    Please return with this videos Fry, we like them

  • @langslays1881
    @langslays1881 3 года назад +180

    Some dude: here is a joke about a race
    Dude of that race: yo dude that’s hilarious
    Some white girl: *and I took that personally*

    • @dragonyte9021
      @dragonyte9021 3 года назад +11

      @Sagittarius A* By the power of the white girl, I am offended on your behalf!

    • @lavatroll5733
      @lavatroll5733 3 года назад +2

      And the worst part is that people hate when you say a joke but they always say jokes that are offensive...

    • @moomoomachines7193
      @moomoomachines7193 3 года назад +2

      Isn't the fact that you suggested that it is some white girl racist. (This is a joke don't take it literally)

    • @joltixer3099
      @joltixer3099 2 года назад

      Some white dude: let's use one person of color as a token to justify being racist and slapping on "joke"

  • @timdb60
    @timdb60 3 года назад +17

    Fry you have made a great balance between gaming and some serious talk. Please continue uploading on this channel. PLEASEEEEE

  • @kyou4498
    @kyou4498 3 года назад +36

    Joe Mama
    everybody else:😠😤🤬😡👻🙉🤖🐮🐴🐩🐒🐗🐱🐯🐴🏖️⛰️🧱🌎🛅↗️🔛↩️♊✡️☦️

    • @ilikepinatas170
      @ilikepinatas170 3 года назад +5

      I’m offended. My fathers co workers neighbours cousins cousin has 2 dads! GRRRRRRR

  • @maxynifter
    @maxynifter 2 года назад +3

    "And when the world needed him most... he vanished"

  • @Mr_Bear_R
    @Mr_Bear_R 2 года назад +6

    Revive this channel

  • @KV-88
    @KV-88 7 месяцев назад +1

    As a German, I can relate this. Just because of our History, we are not allowed to talk about immigration, races and are not even allowed to be proud on our nation and culture.

  • @AgentReplied
    @AgentReplied 3 года назад +5

    I am Hispanic and a fellow Hispanic classmate with a larger friend group where her friends make fun of her in a harmless way saying things like, "go back to other side of the border" and say that she is an illegal immigrant on the run and I'm just minding my own business trying my best to stay focused until I couldn't take it anymore I went up to one of her friends and said, "hey you know all the jokes you make about her they kinda apply to me and I would like you to stop" the guy said he had no idea I was Hispanic and respected my request and stopped. This doesn't normally happen in the society we live in but I'm glad to see people have empathy somewhere in them

  • @CanNot127
    @CanNot127 2 года назад +6

    Fry, you are my favorite youtuber. You entertain us with your PVZ Heroes videos, and you inspire my own philosophical mind with these videos. Keep it up man, truly you're just amazing. I couldn't find a more perfect youtuber for me.

  • @ivantheturtle3701
    @ivantheturtle3701 3 года назад +23

    Hey fry, you probably won’t read this but I wanted you to know that I personally love these types of videos.
    Being able to see the world from another person’s perspective isn’t always easy, especially in situations where it may be difficult to understand someone who has a totally different world view than yours, and your videos really help me see the world through a different lens.
    Thanks for making this video, take care!.

    • @thedeepfrypodcast
      @thedeepfrypodcast  3 года назад +24

      I'm glad you appreciate this kind of thing. In the divided, angry world we live in, more and more people are searching for a balance.

    • @epicantonio08
      @epicantonio08 4 месяца назад

      Honestly really true. Ive seen so many times people run to the extremes it makes me wonder what would if the answer isnt so black and white.​@@thedeepfrypodcast

  • @dragamonster3104
    @dragamonster3104 3 года назад +41

    why did the chicken crossed the road :To get the hell outta Kentucky!
    everybody : 😡😡🤬🤬

    • @Shadozer5555
      @Shadozer5555 3 года назад +5

      And I respect this joke 👌🙂

  • @luismiguelsanches2105
    @luismiguelsanches2105 3 года назад +40

    I feel like Deep Fry's viewers increase their IQ by 10 in each video.
    That was the meme, but for real now, I also love Philosophy but my teacher in school sucks so I can never learn anything about it. The fact that Fry made a youtube video with philosophical questions made me so happy. It's not a very rentable subject to talk about on yt so i understand why he doesn't make more of these videos, but I almost like them more then the pvzh videos. Keep up the good work!

  • @thatrandomidiot6712
    @thatrandomidiot6712 3 года назад +8

    This video is perfect for starch lord and the starch lord haters.

  • @ICEDNOTBLENDED
    @ICEDNOTBLENDED 3 года назад +4

    I think if I’m clearly being serious and talking about a serious subject then it’s not the right time to make a joke, that’s when I get offended by jokes

  • @yashpvora
    @yashpvora 3 года назад +8

    Wow fry have you done phd philosophy , because you explain it so well that’s most of the miss concepts are gone , really well explained ❤️

  • @NotTylerobv
    @NotTylerobv 3 года назад +25

    Because that's how humanity works

    • @NotTylerobv
      @NotTylerobv 3 года назад +1

      @@roach68419 yup😔

    • @langslays1881
      @langslays1881 3 года назад +1

      Klaun That’s an understatement

  • @qin2500
    @qin2500 3 года назад +3

    I think its really shitty for someone to feel "harmed " by a joke and the ruin the fun for everyone else

  • @endershel8163
    @endershel8163 3 года назад +4

    Very great topic. Looking forward to more deep topics Fry.

  • @matthewchen1673
    @matthewchen1673 3 года назад +4

    rip deep fry you will be missed

  • @kingderp1235
    @kingderp1235 3 года назад +4

    I love the new intro, nice job Fry

  • @miemg5276
    @miemg5276 3 года назад +13

    I sometimes get offended by sensitive jokes because if an unknown person tells them online, its hard to tell if they're being serious or just joking around. I know its less likely that they're being serious but thats still a posibility.

    • @thedeepfrypodcast
      @thedeepfrypodcast  3 года назад +15

      True. When I'm playing overwatch, sometimes I meet actual pieces of sh*t there, and yeah, I can't say I'm never offended. I'm talking here when the person is clearly joking.

    • @langslays1881
      @langslays1881 3 года назад +3

      The Deep Fry Well Fry, as a main tank in Diamond I can vouch that competitive Overwatch is EXTREMELY toxic especially towards women. But any online game has toxic players anyways sadly.

    • @bangster1869
      @bangster1869 3 года назад

      @@thedeepfrypodcast who do you main.

    • @joltixer3099
      @joltixer3099 2 года назад

      I don't know why people speak as if it being a "joke" completely absolves a person of responsibility

  • @Gravitree9102
    @Gravitree9102 3 года назад +13

    What if I am a 13 year old from Romania?

  • @thansterproductions8258
    @thansterproductions8258 3 года назад +3

    We need a leap

  • @adecoNzuL
    @adecoNzuL 3 года назад +2

    I was attacked by a tiny dog and even my own dog before I owned it and I still love dogs

  • @lordspejson8871
    @lordspejson8871 3 года назад +4

    Hi fry

  • @NametheName
    @NametheName 11 месяцев назад +1

    Deep fry is coming back if you dont know you should watch his twitch stream.

  • @huntertheheavy
    @huntertheheavy 2 года назад +1

    I never knew you did this kind of content! I love it so much as someone who likes politics and philosophy

  • @The_Butter_Man
    @The_Butter_Man 3 года назад +2

    Great video! I don’t recall you touching too much on the subject of people getting offended for other people. What do you think the solution to that is? Some people will assume that the joke will offend someone else, and will therefore be “triggered” by the joke themselves. Do you think these people want attention or a reason to be angry, or maybe they are genuinely trying to protect others that might not say anything themselves?

  • @peterkaroly8725
    @peterkaroly8725 3 года назад +3

    This might be controversial but I also feel like it depends on the joke tbh. In my opinion it really depends how the joke is used. There many late night shows about politics, where the political events of last week are summarised using humour. Jokes in this case serve as a great tool, because most people find such shows more entertaining than the regular news, which means humour can be used to spread and raise awareness for important but otherwise rather dry and boring topics. Typical comedians who perform on stages also use jokes as tool to raise indirectly awareness (obviously some do that and some only make jokes for entertainment and there is no political or social intention behind it) for social problems for example. In most such professional shows or events the jokes can be dark and about extremely sensitive topics, but most of the times jokes are still classy to some extent and offen disqualify such behaviour in real life as you said. Because the funny part for example about a joke of racial stereotypes is that it is so inappropriate. I actually never get offended about any jokes like that even if it is about something that I identify with. However, I have seen videos of people trying to be funny and obviously not being serious and just trying to entertain, but I personally found it actually quite inappropriate and almost disgusting. I have seen people for example make of the facial expressions and behaviour of mentally disabled people. But maybe the reason why that is an exception is because mentally disable people probably are not fully able to understand it and not able to respond to it. So this would raise the question, is it ok to make jokes about a topic that concerns people who are not able to understand it or respond to it. Is it ok to make jokes about people who are deaf and can't respond and the also is it ok to joke about dead people? I feel like there are a few examples where it might be problematic to apply the general moral rule you proposed that it is basically always ok to make jokes about sensitive topics. I am not sure about the answer myself, just thinking :-)

    • @dragonyte9021
      @dragonyte9021 3 года назад +1

      Well people also make fun of America for being statistically more obese than any other country. People are harmed by it, have to take medication, and many times family members die, but if you joke about it online, nobody cares. Obviously, it should be inappropriate, but it isn't. However, obese people understand that they're being attacked, so I think you're wrong in the aspect of not being able to understand or defend themselves.

    • @peterkaroly8725
      @peterkaroly8725 3 года назад

      @@dragonyte9021 Yes, i think you right that is very interesting. Maybe there is just a difference between making a classy joke paired with understanding about the topic and understanding and appreciation for the people you make jokes about and between almost basically laughing about other people's misery. So, I guess it depends how you joke. So you can joke about very sensitive topics as long as you do it in a "cool" way. Idk how else to describe it. On the other hand, dark humour is clearly describing an act where you joke without almost any understanding or appreciation, but dark humour often disqualifies making such comments or acting in that way in real way because as I mentioned earlier the fun part about most of those jokes is that it is so inappropriate to even say it. So, I guess dark humour shouldn't really necessary been seen as inappropriate but however there are still jokes that I find kind of inappropriate even if I am not offended it by myself, as mentioned earlier. Maybe that is just my Personal issue or maybe it really depends on how you make the joke.

    • @dragonyte9021
      @dragonyte9021 3 года назад

      @@peterkaroly8725 Also regarding the example you made about people making fun of disabled people's faces, that's not even a joke anymore. Nobody over the age of 6 should find that funny, and at that point it's just mocking and bullying them. There is no joke, punchline, stereotype etc. It's just flat out attacking mentally disabled people.

    • @bangster1869
      @bangster1869 3 года назад

      @@dragonyte9021 That’s why I make the jokes with friends since they know I am not serious.But I never really mean the jokes I say.I don’t really get offended by jokes because I know that it’s just words

  • @cheeseman463
    @cheeseman463 11 месяцев назад +1

    Is it possible to for a turn 2 lethal.

  • @Something_from_space
    @Something_from_space 3 года назад +1

    bring back this channel pls

  • @daniel-zl3me
    @daniel-zl3me 2 года назад +1

    Wow, fry got that big brainana

  • @qin2500
    @qin2500 3 года назад

    dam i didn't know u made these kind of videos too. great video, keep it up!

  • @shinytecstudios
    @shinytecstudios 2 года назад +1

    The jokes they hold no meaning unless you give it meaning they are meant to be funny you do not have to watch that comedian if you don’t like him your fault if you get offended

  • @maddoxbellrose7679
    @maddoxbellrose7679 3 года назад

    We all have our sacred cows, even me, but a controlled person can laugh at anything even there own sacred cows.

  • @theyoshigang2009
    @theyoshigang2009 2 года назад

    I don’t get offended by jokes usually

  • @Chalky_Chalk687
    @Chalky_Chalk687 2 года назад

    Thanks for explaining it I might accept jokes now

  • @joseph_1658
    @joseph_1658 3 года назад +1

    Does this have to do a bit with the crystal generation? because I have seen that most people who are offended by memes or jokes are from the crystal generation.

  • @sashaacovski2789
    @sashaacovski2789 3 года назад +1

    But see they don’t get a joke and why bother even being in the stream if your offended

  • @diobrando7774
    @diobrando7774 3 года назад +1

    My family members died from holocaust and i don't know how it can be a chance to get a cheap laugh out of someone

    • @thedeepfrypodcast
      @thedeepfrypodcast  3 года назад +2

      So did mine. The point is, if someone jokes about the holocaust, it isn't saying that it wasn't a horrible thing. It's not cheapening the lives of those who were killed. It's the same as if a movie has a murder in it, it's not cheapening murder in order to entertain people. If you can find humor in horrible situations, it's a sign of emotional resiliency.

  • @FreshwaterHour2
    @FreshwaterHour2 Год назад +1

    This channel isn't about deep fried food smh

  • @dragamonster3104
    @dragamonster3104 3 года назад +3

    if im a ferrari lover then i am racist?

    • @lavatroll5733
      @lavatroll5733 3 года назад

      Its not about what you love its about what you hate 😅

  • @0ok02ThePerson
    @0ok02ThePerson 2 года назад

    This *slaps*
    jokes aside, I like this pov

  • @Shadozer5555
    @Shadozer5555 3 года назад

    Noice intro Fry 👍

  • @RobertPlayzhun
    @RobertPlayzhun 3 года назад +1

    This is expried already in this video!!!!!

  • @FrozenFireWizard
    @FrozenFireWizard 3 года назад +3

    Fry: is okay with a joke
    The community/demographic in the joke: is okay with the joke
    White girls: and that's when I got offended

  • @quanglinh769
    @quanglinh769 2 года назад +1

    I'm here after the Slap

  • @keyboardknight41
    @keyboardknight41 2 года назад +1

    Upload more

  • @IdentityEvolution
    @IdentityEvolution Год назад

    Fry! Is there a joke that won't offend anyone?

    • @KojoBailey
      @KojoBailey Год назад

      Why is 6 afraid of 7

    • @SophisticatedArc
      @SophisticatedArc 11 месяцев назад

      @@KojoBailey6 8 7

    • @wutgreens443
      @wutgreens443 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@KojoBaileywhy are you labeling 7 as someone to be scared of? Sounds pretty numerist to me

    • @KojoBailey
      @KojoBailey 10 месяцев назад

      @@wutgreens443 because 7 8 9 😱

    • @Duke_duckron
      @Duke_duckron 4 месяца назад

      I walk to a bar... Ouch!!

  • @antisepticfox4260
    @antisepticfox4260 2 года назад

    more this dis please

  • @FreshwaterHour2
    @FreshwaterHour2 Год назад

    Fry pls go back to this channel and talk about the school system because you mentioned it once somewhere else on your channel.

  • @SandraFlare
    @SandraFlare Год назад +2

    Play pizza tower

  • @glitchykid4249
    @glitchykid4249 3 года назад +2

    Me:bean
    Others: ThATs RaSiCsT

    • @KV-88
      @KV-88 7 месяцев назад +1

      LaserBean

  • @gerardweno6397
    @gerardweno6397 3 года назад

    Are you a psychology proffesor?

  • @xX_Alex_Xx-tn9we
    @xX_Alex_Xx-tn9we 3 года назад

    Maldita sea nose ingles y me gusta mucho el contenido de fry sanqueme de Latinoamérica

  • @foogt5547
    @foogt5547 3 года назад

    There's no bad races in the world, but some of the race is just incorrect

  • @FrozenFireWizard
    @FrozenFireWizard 3 года назад +1

    Fry: tries to explain that you shouldn't get offended over light hearted jokes
    White girls: I'll ignore that

  • @gudikartik7631
    @gudikartik7631 3 года назад +2

    sir can you bless me sir its my birthday yesterday but i forgot to see your video iam soo sos ososso sorry sir please bless me sir plsease plesses thank u sir

  • @shelltor2398
    @shelltor2398 3 года назад

    Damn, no more deep fry? :(

  • @moomoomachines7193
    @moomoomachines7193 3 года назад +2

    People don't get offended by jokes; They TRY to get offended by jokes

  • @dejvidmentol7076
    @dejvidmentol7076 3 года назад

    Why are not recording some popular games like fortnite i know you were playing minecraft

  • @quedtion_marks_kirby_modding
    @quedtion_marks_kirby_modding 3 года назад +1

    I am going to offend you >:3

  • @fluffy6911
    @fluffy6911 3 года назад

    Переведите

  • @kelvincha5492
    @kelvincha5492 3 года назад +3

    SJW that's why

  • @iprovokekidsatschool8397
    @iprovokekidsatschool8397 3 года назад +1

    based fry

  • @FoodRecipes108
    @FoodRecipes108 2 года назад

    Definitely a beta male