How Do Koreans Start Dating?

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

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  • @ultrcttine
    @ultrcttine Год назад +37

    That man in cap have a good mindset in relationship. Hope he finds good partner in the future

  • @reizalopez126
    @reizalopez126 2 года назад +61

    Good advice from the guy with the cap, he is right.
    Your interviews are amazing, you start with a question not so complicate, rather simple, and you build up from there to more elaborate questions, bring it out honest answer from the people that you interview, it is not so easy to do it

  • @Cavalobos
    @Cavalobos Год назад +38

    You subtitlte the videos in both languagues, for those learning Korean you are heaven sent! Subscribed!

  • @Marsh_125
    @Marsh_125 2 года назад +39

    That couple who make RUclips videos seem like really lovely people. All of the people you interviewed in this video do actually.

  • @PBDCTN
    @PBDCTN 2 года назад +55

    The teacher said it all right at the end: “there’s no difference “
    Thank you Jin we get to understand and know more about Korea 🙏🏼😊

    • @moshiacid6673
      @moshiacid6673 2 года назад +2

      Well people do miss a hundred shots that they dont take. (on a side note, in the English language, we finish our sentences with a period!)

  • @iraguzzardo1788
    @iraguzzardo1788 2 года назад +17

    Love your interviews, I really get a good picture about differences.. and I love how they all prefer meeting naturally.. Tinder seems to be not their first choice ..

  • @arzuhatunoglu
    @arzuhatunoglu 2 года назад +8

    It was a fun shoot. It is important that relationships begin with trust and intimacy. It was nice to see that we are in similar cultures. People you don't know can message you via your social media account and their approach is sometimes good but often annoying. Shares will increase when this is seen as a matter of personal attitude completely independent of country and culture. Mutual love, respect goodwill and a self-sacrificing life will change the process of relationships.

  • @minafultravels
    @minafultravels 2 года назад +16

    Yes 👏🏻 treat foreigners like how you would date korean women 👏🏻 I love that guy’s answer. 그는 EQ가 높습니다

  • @durlekaganeshkumar8972
    @durlekaganeshkumar8972 Год назад +6

    I wish I could have a conversation with the boy with the cap🥺❤ He seems very mature and wise

  • @jumbojet999
    @jumbojet999 Год назад +15

    Recently discovered this channel and ever since have been enjoying ur content! Greetings from Ukraine! 🇺🇦

  • @martaaos2892
    @martaaos2892 2 года назад +4

    I loved the answers of Hakju! The boy with the cap 😊

  • @anashobby41
    @anashobby41 2 года назад +4

    Thanks for all videos, each of them are interesting on their own way! Bring it out honest answer from ordinary people is good to hear and also it is good to know what we could expect if we are there! Carry on!!! Hakju has the best explanations and answers... "We are all humans after all..." Best wishes for braking those stereotypes... 화이팅!!! 💪🥰

  • @J14Irish
    @J14Irish 2 года назад +3

    Another great video!

  • @Telugu_Vlogs_Off
    @Telugu_Vlogs_Off 2 года назад +49

    Really those girls are 16 😮

    • @SBahamondes
      @SBahamondes 2 года назад +23

      they dress like 30 lol

    • @yojumba
      @yojumba 2 года назад +10

      My reaction too 😅

    • @lightwithin5581
      @lightwithin5581 2 года назад +17

      Probably 14 or 15 in international age. This is why I struggle being a teacher at a Korean middle school. Half the times I can’t tell the difference between the students and the teachers. The kids dress so nice and are so tall these days 😅

    • @louisthompson5781
      @louisthompson5781 2 года назад +6

      Thinking what EVERYONE was thinking 🤣

    • @Arasaka107
      @Arasaka107 Год назад +7

      In asia the youth in majority still dress properly and not crazy for attention seeking.
      Something I admire about asian culture.

  • @franklynLP
    @franklynLP 2 года назад +5

    Hakju is sooo cool! Love his attitude!

  • @RockingMarshall
    @RockingMarshall 2 года назад +3

    Very informal video!! Good to know how they do it. 😃😃😃

  • @pmatthew74
    @pmatthew74 2 года назад +6

    The RUclips couple are really cool.

  • @itsnygeria
    @itsnygeria Год назад

    thank you hakju, i really appreciate his advice at the end! let's break stereotypes & preconceived notions that we all hold towards one another!! 👏🏾

  • @4Wolf
    @4Wolf 2 года назад +4

    와, 정말 멋지네요. 여기 있는 모든 사람들이 인도네시아의 자연미를 볼 수 있기를 바랍니다. 제가 모든 친구들에게 인사를 전합니다.

  • @ttheway2life157
    @ttheway2life157 2 года назад +4

    The guy with the girlfriend with the green jacket, has a naturally Korean tv voice. lol deep. I dont even understand him but wow.

  • @share2098
    @share2098 Год назад +5

    I have watched every Korean serial on mx player, and I'm fall in with Korean specially with their smiles ❤️❤️❤️ and I'm learning Korean language.

  • @판탈라사
    @판탈라사 6 месяцев назад

    8:35 Street club(Dance and drink) is the worst place to meet a serious one. It's mostly for one night stand. Guys will approach to you with impure purpose especially if you are a foreigner.
    1. If you stay in korea for a long time, go to hobby clubs in universities and make friends. Date and relationship is a long game so starting as a friend first is the best shot.
    2. Language exchange meetup is a good choice too. You don't have to be an undergraduate. Learning languages is a good pretext and the possibility of meet a decent guy is quite high because he is already interested in your culture.
    3. Be a hunter yourself, approach to a guy. You can find a decent one in a library, gym, basketball court, cafe, bookstore, restaurant, park, any workplace. Just avoid the club areas such as hongdae, itaewon, gangnam.
    I say it again, Never expect the right one in clubs.

  • @jejudo3000
    @jejudo3000 2 года назад +8

    Ohhh Korea my Korea 🇰🇷

  • @AsterYTMusic
    @AsterYTMusic 2 года назад +16

    How about some dating tips for foreigners? Or maybe some differences between dating in Korea and in the west, if there are any.

    • @puma0085
      @puma0085 2 года назад +7

      I would be interested in that topic as well. I am going to visit Korea next year for about 3 months. Mainly for language studies and my hopes that I might get involved in dating are not the highest. But as a single, I would be still curious to know about the differences in case some dating opportunities might arise. If not it is fine. But knowledge is still power. it is good to know what to do in case some chances might arise.

    • @AsterYTMusic
      @AsterYTMusic 2 года назад +4

      @@puma0085 You never know :) Good luck and fingers crossed

    • @lasvegasnevada7514
      @lasvegasnevada7514 2 года назад +1

      Not much of a difference but Koreans aren’t very direct. It’s hard to tell if they’re playing hard to get or taking their silence via text/messages as a rejection. I’m a lesbian and I’ve met atleast 5 lesbian/bisexual women in Korea via dating app and tinder, pretty easy but it’ll be challenging for heterosexual. As for men to meet both foreigner and Korean women, this is challenging. I find it easy for women to meet men just for fun but not for a serious relationship.

    • @익명-q6x
      @익명-q6x 2 года назад +5

      dont use dating apps, tinders, etc.

    • @puma0085
      @puma0085 2 года назад

      @@AsterYTMusic Thanks :).

  • @luc_theriault
    @luc_theriault 2 года назад +6

    5:08 the girl with the white mask is so beautiful

  • @mandy18573
    @mandy18573 2 месяца назад

    the guy in the cap has real standards and he reminds me soo much of the very famous c-drama actor yang yang!! hahahah. he looks very similar to him and his alluring smile too. hahah.

  • @getmeouttahere3595
    @getmeouttahere3595 11 месяцев назад

    The couple with orange hair are lowkey cute. It seems like they respect each other a lot

  • @abigailinkorea
    @abigailinkorea Год назад +2

    Thank you, Jin. That was really refreshing. I've been feeling a bit down lately because as a foreigner I've found it very tough to date in Korea. My coworker even told me that most Koreans won't really set up foreigners on blind dates unless that person plans to stay in Korea forever, since blind dates tend to be for very serious, marriage-in-mind relationships. I often feel like I'm not considered an option, just "the mysterious foreign woman". The guy in the made me feel better when he said he wants to break that stereotype. Much respect. I hope I can meet more people like him next year.

  • @topcoreiadosul
    @topcoreiadosul 2 года назад +5

    Vc sempre mostra as diferentes culturas na Coreia. É sempre muito simpático. Espero que seu canal cresça muito. E a aparência muito jovem kk

  • @elangbam3115
    @elangbam3115 2 года назад +2

    I feel "something" for the guy wearing black jacket in the middle

  • @MarcoSimple1Videos
    @MarcoSimple1Videos 2 года назад +1

    interesting video, but i have a question, what is this club where the people go ? clubs are like disco where people dance ? a bar ? thanks for the info

  • @2o2k78
    @2o2k78 Год назад

    They are all so polite and nice 😊👍

  • @SHKoh-wo9cy
    @SHKoh-wo9cy 2 года назад +1

    HEY JIN ! I WANT TO be on your video ㅎㅎ

  • @---oj1zj
    @---oj1zj 2 года назад

    For Al.

  • @dreaaanazariooo
    @dreaaanazariooo Год назад

    Now.. I'll be looking forward to having a guy-chingu in Korea once I visit. And I'll be observing these things they said. 😊✨ #excited!

  • @SakaniEdu
    @SakaniEdu 2 года назад +4

    Lemme just get some notes off of this video real quick boi

  • @tildoss1810
    @tildoss1810 Год назад +1

    What are "blind dates" ? I struggle to understand, like you go on a date with someone random, that you don't know ?

  • @ZeroTubeTV
    @ZeroTubeTV Год назад

    Hi Jin, where is this Seoul sign located at? I will be traveling to Seoul soon and would love to check it out :)

  • @mandy18573
    @mandy18573 2 месяца назад

    and european women are very educated n successfull in their own lifes- we ALWAYS offer to pay the bills half n half in a restaurant. but most men are offended by it and feel rejected hehe. okay but i dont wanna owe anything to a stranger. some guys have that weird thinking. like hey i paid for your food or your cocktail - so you owe me xxxx. or some bs. in my last relationship long term we switched bills. sometimes i paid, sometimes he did. perfect. or he pays the dinner to keep his honor - later on i might pay for the cinema tickets or some.

  • @zatorio4883
    @zatorio4883 2 года назад +1

    good vid

  • @sab0024
    @sab0024 2 года назад +4

    They calling something a.k.a fwb. It’s very interesting how thy look at that.

    • @reizalopez126
      @reizalopez126 2 года назад +1

      Right?, makes you think different about it

  • @malihamasfi6771
    @malihamasfi6771 2 года назад +1

    Hi

  • @za9469
    @za9469 2 года назад +1

    8:37 that's not what Ed Sheeran said

  • @mariahcolby3559
    @mariahcolby3559 Год назад +3

    The guy with the hat: I'm single.
    Me: I volunteer as tribute!
    **immediately moves to korea**

  • @Luisancastilho
    @Luisancastilho Год назад +3

    As a Brazilian it's so crazy to see the culture differences. Here, we are a lot more affectionate so you could kiss (a propper kiss) or have sex on the first date and, although having sex on the first date might seem bad due to sexism, it could also be seen as normal. It's very common to have "something" with people (at times, with a lot of them at the same time hahaha since you're not in a serious relationship) and it can last years. For us being in a serious relationship means that you will meet the family and will make official for everyone. Other than that we are very casual people.

  • @InfamousNAW
    @InfamousNAW 2 года назад

    Early 🙂

  • @이하나-m2h
    @이하나-m2h 2 года назад +1

    Nice im single😳

  • @hannahdarwish9831
    @hannahdarwish9831 Год назад

    how are the 16 yro girls in middle school?!

  • @bearlblack4865
    @bearlblack4865 2 года назад

    🌸🌸🌸

  • @BulletPointFitnessPodcast
    @BulletPointFitnessPodcast 2 года назад +11

    It's a shame. Here in the UK a lot of women would be the exact opposite. They would say if you were both friends first that would be a reason NOT to date someone. Alot of the dating "rules" here in the west are all backwards. Nice to see in Korea, there's a lot that is still the right way around 👍
    (Making me want to move out there as people seem a lot more sensible)

    • @memrman8331
      @memrman8331 2 года назад +1

      its a very homogenous society though so yea…go at your own risk (Lots of work hours etc…)

    • @chrystianaw8256
      @chrystianaw8256 Год назад

      I hate Western dating too

    • @BulletPointFitnessPodcast
      @BulletPointFitnessPodcast Год назад

      @@memrman8331 hmmmm what do you mean by this? Homogeneous is an eclectic word to use to describe society 🤔

    • @memrman8331
      @memrman8331 Год назад +2

      @@BulletPointFitnessPodcast everyone is forced to be the same by society

    • @BulletPointFitnessPodcast
      @BulletPointFitnessPodcast Год назад

      @@memrman8331 ooh right. Sinister

  • @seetosim9043
    @seetosim9043 Год назад +3

    어떤 채널에서 한국남자들 쓰레기가 많다는 인터뷰 내용을 본적이 있는데 대부분 만남이 클럽이나 틴더 같은 앱에서 만났다고 하더군요 클럽이나 채팅앱은 원나잇을 노리는 남성들이 다수 이고 그런 질 안좋은 남성들은 외국여성에 대해 성적으로 오픈 마인드라는 잘못된 성의식을 많이 가지고 있습니다 만나기 힘들더라도 클럽이나 앱으로 만난 남성을 한국남자라고 호도 안했으면 좋겠네요

  • @tam-tampuka8125
    @tam-tampuka8125 2 года назад +12

    I’m screwed, I’m so introvert 😅😢

    • @Xiao_Fei73
      @Xiao_Fei73 2 года назад +6

      Then you will find someone who is extrovert as partner 😃 Opposite attract 😉

    • @SBahamondes
      @SBahamondes 2 года назад +1

      use it to your advantage

    • @mohamedhamza3039
      @mohamedhamza3039 2 года назад

      Me too 😮‍💨

    • @stettiner2238
      @stettiner2238 2 года назад +1

      They are mostly introverts too.

  • @reemahusaini638
    @reemahusaini638 Год назад +2

    Do Korean people accept muslim as a idol??

  • @Btssarangeo
    @Btssarangeo Год назад

    India students no love relationship because Indian parent's realy very stirct

  • @____-ij5md
    @____-ij5md 2 года назад +1

    I like girl on the right(from screen) I wanna ask her number :)

    • @Hihellojust
      @Hihellojust 2 года назад

      16 girl?

    • @____-ij5md
      @____-ij5md 2 года назад

      @@Hihellojust I mean i am 20, still can wait two more years haha

    • @christianh1106
      @christianh1106 2 года назад +2

      @@____-ij5md My guy looking for that investment 😂

    • @____-ij5md
      @____-ij5md 2 года назад

      @@christianh1106 but afraid this invertment value is gonna go down......

  • @김은우-b8t
    @김은우-b8t Год назад +2

    중국은 코로나

  • @glowwithzeal
    @glowwithzeal Год назад

    I agree with that peck thing ✨

  • @MuhammadNadeem-zp2tp
    @MuhammadNadeem-zp2tp Год назад +1

    oh really like koreans mind wow

  • @suvithak6166
    @suvithak6166 2 года назад

    Nice interview. According to me sometimes dating is unsafe for womes. I would say it's very bad culture.

  • @wnals3896
    @wnals3896 Год назад +2

    16살맞어? ㅋㅋ 26살같이입었네 옷을

    • @Hihellojust
      @Hihellojust Год назад

      요즘 애들 다 저렇게 입는데ㅋㅋ시대에 뒤쳐지시네요

  • @charismatic9467
    @charismatic9467 2 года назад +2

    Why tf are they weariing cloth masks outside lmfao?

    • @yamkelamajikela1915
      @yamkelamajikela1915 Год назад +1

      it has something to do with their air , it's filled with a lot of dust particles that can affect your lungs etc .

    • @charismatic9467
      @charismatic9467 Год назад +1

      @@yamkelamajikela1915 Then why are only a few of them wearing them?

    • @rosechoi7415
      @rosechoi7415 Год назад

      @@charismatic9467 not everyone gives an f

    • @luci4087
      @luci4087 Год назад

      because they want too. it could be because of dust, pollution, health issues, privacy, personal comfort, etc.

    • @charismatic9467
      @charismatic9467 Год назад +1

      @@luci4087 So no good reason, ok got it

  • @turkorean5852
    @turkorean5852 Год назад +1

    여기 나온 조선인들 인물 너무들 못났다

  • @selectedsound.
    @selectedsound. 2 года назад +2

    Muito maneiro seu canal!!!
    O conheci através do Via Infinda.
    Me inscrevi no seu canal.
    Sucesso!!

  • @diptanudebnath8555
    @diptanudebnath8555 2 года назад

    THANKS JIN

  • @bernie5951
    @bernie5951 Год назад +1

    The content of videos is ok but that masks on girls faces are really annoying you can't see how they look

    • @sgtmian
      @sgtmian Год назад +1

      that’s not the point of the videos, they’re interviews, you’re here to hear them speak about experiences, not look at their faces. maybe they don’t want their whole faces on the internet anyway.

  • @naturalharmonia1014
    @naturalharmonia1014 2 года назад +1

    Your questions and people's answers are really creative. Earned subs 🤍