Kate Garraway: Derek's Story 'I'm Going to Speak Up for the People Who Have Supported Me'
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- Опубликовано: 25 мар 2024
- Tonight, the documentary Kate Garraway: Derek's Story marks the end of a four year battle with COVID complications. Kate says her husband Derek felt like 'making this documentary was his way of saying, I'm going to speak up for the people who have supported me.'
She opens up about the cost of care which has lead her to rack up huge debts, and explains the difficulty of adjusting to a new relationship dynamic following her husband Derek's illness.
Broadcast on 26/03/24
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The fact is carers can go down quicker than the person being cared for because it’s so mentally and physically exhausting!❤
Cost of care is horrendous
Strange there was no mention on the programme about the fact that they had had to fly Derek back from Mexico by expensive medical private flight where he had suffered a cardiac arrest.
Did it cost us anything..... wasn't it private xare
@@nicolastemp8173 I would imagine it would be private, it would have cost an eye watering amount, and would have to be paid for by Derek/Kate themselves as it is highly unlikely due to his condition that he would be able to get any travel insurance.
I believe he was flown back on tax payers' money.
Why is Kate so open about her husband’s illness? Surely she should protect him and keep his dignity and privacy .How would she like to be in the limelight when so very ill !? There are so many carers out there who wouldn’t dream of exposing this terrible time .
Because it's all about £££££ and keeping her relevant .
@@jimbo6693 I for one am glad that she’s highlighting this problem in the optimistic hope that Carers will get recognition and a fair wage one day in the future...I’m a senior care assistant in a dementia nursing home, 22 years experience including qualifications. I earn 12.50 an hour
She's a very wealthy Grifter.
Firstly i think its showing how the government fails us continuously.
It highlights the difficulties carers are facing.
Its proving that covid did ruin peoples lives
Its showing her as being human.
Why are you so offended??
Why should she hide him ??
Its not embarrassing for him nor her... its a reality for thousands of people.
Did you really need to be educated on that ??
Do you really think carers should hide their struggles in the shadows... not wanting people to see... give us a break will you... the more awareness given the more can be done to help because clearly there's a serious issue... that i was blind too until kates documentary... i learnt alot from it. And actually since watching it i have decided to offer my caravan as respite for carers and their families... and will donate monthly to a carers charity. I hope you do the same 😊
His life is worth talking about.
God when will she give us a rest from all this! We've had enough of Derek's illness, care, death..she's had book deals, tv shows and been given medals for it! What do millions of other carers get😮
this is the attitude she has to fight against. its not her fault other carers get nothing- it's the system, and thats what she's raising awareness for. people need to get over their own personal resentment bitterness and jealousy of her public platform and be grateful for it as she may be able to bring about change that others cannot, so get over yourself, basically.
@marchill2655 these people are fake actors here to gleen your sympathy, energy, money and to indoctrinate you! They don't care a jot about the real people
@@marchill2655 I couldn't agree more with your response there. Personally, I think opinions like the one expressed above highlight just how many truly awful people there are out there in our society. Clearly lacking the intelligence to see the unique position Kate's in to highlight the issues and create change for millions these people project their own insecurities and negative approach to life onto the situation. Kate Garraway is very diplomatic in her comments about the negativity, I don't have to be. I'm aware I sound very critical, or maybe just very direct, but I really am so tired of coming across these types of comments. Comments which go against positive action, which is aiming to provide help for people who desperately need it. I am genuinely surprised at how many people there are who seem determined to twist something "good" into something negative.
So fed up of this greedy self serving narcissist.. More front than Southend.
This latest announcement "I'm in Debt",well I think you should Document how you recover from Debt by legal means, you could be inspiration to many people across the country if you can research and show how to do it. One foreign Lady who lived with me saved £10,000 in 2 years. 1st step is establishing communication with the company you owe and create a payment plan,even if the repayments are low at first. Sorry to hear about your loss, may your happy memories strengthen you for your days ahead as Mum.🇬🇧
Next it'll be "Kate finds love after Dereck" then Kate the Musical. These people have totally lost touch with reality. She'll soon recoup all that money with her income and endless TV and radio shows, unlike the rest of us on our peasant salaries.
Hopkins was spot on.😂
Unfortunate but lots of people suffered during Covid
I'm surprised she didn't put his final days on a ppv channel. Absolutely disgraceful the way she's milked this sorry situation .She paraded him in front of the world having a camera stuck in his face when he was bed ridden. One thing was for sure she didnt give up any of her jobs to look after him. Whats next "life after Derek ", "Finding love after Derek ".???. Please have some dignity and just leave Derek's memories alone ...Absolutely disgraceful ..
I think this comment bullying a widow in raw grief is disgraceful
@@mariannehavisham8323 Not really bothered what you think mate, if you don't like other people's views STAY OFF SOCIAL MEDIA.. And as for a "widow in raw grief"??? Right okay
.. simple really. 👍🏻
Well said it’s called ‘Freedom of Speech. Fed up of hearing about Garroway. She should let her husband Rest in Peace.
Well done mate, you really captured what life is like when caring for a loved one.. ❤
How much were they paid for this documentary? If it was 0, it could be for others, if it was lots of $£$£$£, it was clearly not. How many docs does there have to be?
Isn’t a story running too long? Can we leave Derek Rest In Peace by now . Thank u !
well he's only just died. a story lasts as long as it lasts, and the changes she's advocating for are not in place so.. the story isn't over is it!
Leave Dereck rest in peace for god´s sake
She's really milking it.
You can't even spell!
I know! It’s not like she was his wife for 20 years and the father of her children or anything
You are what you do for others
Exactly ,so what's she done for him other than humiliate him in his last few months .??
Feel sorry for her, but she should count herself lucky she has the money. A lot of carers and unpaid carers have had to give up work to take care of their relatives. So most definitely don’t have the money for the care. She also must of had some support for her to be able to continue to work. A lot of carers don’t have that luxury.
she doesnt have the money though does she. she owes 700k or thereabouts. she's been accumulating 16k care bills a month for 4 years. she works part time yes well paid but also has mortgage to pay for and 2 kids to provide her. do the maths.
A luvvie if ever there was one. Give us a break
Any adult takes out insurances for family at death! Did these adults not think ahead?
When my husband got sick we could not afford the $400 a month premiums for $250,000 so we had to cancel and drop down to $50,000 for $60 a month.
And most of the comments on here is the issue. There are thosuabds of umpaid carers in society bejng labelled as scroungers lazy dont want to work. People forget about them
She will milk it to the hilt.Let him rest.
Well at least until the £4m pound house is paid for.😂😂😂😂😂
You should be very proud of yourself Kate. It's a difficult job I know I work in care. It's harder on families. Please don't give up on carers we are low paid but I love my job..it's very demanding and the care sector the government is failing us. Be strong and proud x
Why couldn’t he go into hospital and stay there? He was effectively end dementia wasn’t he?
He couldn't go onto care because she wouldn't be able to make money on her hardship
@@dinaworkman306 or, she wanted him home with his children and his wife, cos she loves him. think of that? such a bitter shortsighted jealous view. its not her fault that mary from tesco has no voice in the media!
He couldn’t stay in hospital because he wasn’t considered ill enough. At a certain point the NHS wipes its hands of you and you’re on your own .
Its sad that this is all clearly for her to get money out of it...she got alot of help from elton john ect changing her home..now shes wanting money ...very sad
Cost of care for us who haven't got 1.5 million in the bank
Do you care for anyone?
@@vickyclark6273yes my wife my boys my grandaughters and my cat tige, everyone else can kiss my posturer
Dignity ? Privacy ? Media hungry narcissist imo....
Good
Most women who "love their husband incredibly", take their husbands surname as their own.....
Isn't that right, Ms Garraway.?
It makes you wonder what the 16k actually does go towards in terms of a payment. Carers earn pitiful salaries so what is the Government's excuse for pocketing what is probably around 14k of that monthly cost? What could possibly cost that much when the bulk of the provision is the presence of a low paid carer? Like Kate says, the whole system needs a significant overhaul and quickly. It's actually a scandal where things are now with it.
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Have you ever cared for someone. Have you ever been up throughout the night.. would like to put carers in the spotlight. Would you be a kind person and not offer hate.
How many TV shows has she racked up now with this topic ?
Let's not forget what a pure bas=ard Derek Draper was.
I genuinely don't know about his past,could you tell me?
This woman is getting on my f****** nerves people die every day but don't publicise it
Exactly or profit from it either. She's an absolute disgrace ..
How nice of you to take time out of your day to watch the video and make a horrible comment. Think about your actions.
@@Rosielr1116 she's just doing it for money give over & get a life
@@Rosielr1116 And who TF are you to tell people how to think.??
Insightful
Why are you lying to Kate, when she reads these comments, she’s going to know what people really think and are saying.
This is a tragedy many of us shared due to COVID. The NHS and Care system was stretched beyond it's limit by COVID. My family member actually caught COVID from a carer and died as a consequence. We would never have made a documentary about our loved one dying and I find this difficult to understand and somewhat abhorrent. Did he have the mental capacity to consent to this? When KG was canvassing for carer support did she consider who would lose that support that she would get? Sorry if it's just me.
Don’t apologise. What you have said is the truth, and I’ve asked myself the same questions as you. This was not Derek’s Story at all, but the story of Kate’s life as a carer. I felt tricked and manipulated into watching something which wasn’t what it claimed to be, something that left those of us likely to need care in the future feeling like burdens, and like people who have no purpose or value or worth any more.
To me it felt this documentary was intrusive and undignified for a man suffering in the way he was.
Its a parcel. .a ceaseless intrusion into a mans death...
Every last moment filmed...
Now complaining she got no money...
He wanted his life documented
She might not accept it but as this has been so high profile I can imagine some rich folk offering to clear all the debt.
She was rich, just not rich enough for the situation
Could always sell her house, surely there was life insurance, perhaps the trip to Mexico was unnecessary.
@@carolewynn9407 maybe life insurane for 100k, could still leave 600k debt. maybe they didn't take it out. she's not the most organized person in the world i don't think. maybe he was uninsurable after his illness. none of us know do we. but she wouldn't be saying she's heavily in debt if she wasn't. she has conducted herself with integrity throughout. people just don't want to see this, is all.
@@carolewynn9407 oh and maybe she doesn't want to sell the home where her children have memories of their dad. maybe she wants to try to hang onto something. it's amaing what people begrudge others and judge them for just cos they don't have an expensive london house! neither do i, but i still don't want kate darcie and billy to lose their home as well as derek!
@@marchill2655 She's in a much better position than many people whose partner has died, they just carry on without constantly being in the media. It's fortunate she managed to write books, film documentaries etc. It's not a matter of begrudging anyone, it's how often she appears , and now with her debt story.
This woman is beyond any kind of understanding.
The comments here are truly shocking. Iv watched the documentary and it's very emotional. I hope Kate don't read these messages. Where's compassion for this family. Kate is getting the message across that our social care system just don't exist. Instead we allow so many refugees in that swallow the money up if we stopped helping the outside and concentrated on our people in Britain ,the UK would be a better place. !! TRUTH!
Wow, so you stick up for a multimillionaire narcissist but take aim at the poorest of the poor.
@@DaveW-zi2jvdon't matter what she has as she clearly stated she gets paid well yet it's still not enough for her to pay the money needed for the care of her husband to his dying day. Instead we put money into allowing people come over on boats. When will it end. Keep handing out to people that come from other countries people in England will eventually be non existent of having any decent living.
I know Kate has been amazing for what she has done but most people don’t have the finances to care for there loved ones we were basically alone and told things can only get better for you in time trust me when I lost my mum and my wife I wanted it to be me instead of them and not broadcast to the whole world what a brilliant son and husband I was and I couldn’t do any more for them eventually in time with the support of your family you can move on slowly but they will always be in your heart and most people go through grief at some point so it’s not right telling the whole world about the tragedy you have had I was one of the lucky ones in life I met a lady who in her life had been abused by her partner she is my soulmate for over 20 years together and she still comes to the cemetery with me to put flowers on my late wife’s and my mums grave be strong Kate but life has to go on slowly
Oh my goodness, what a lot of really cruel and absolutely unnecessary comments about on here.
Personally I think that she did an amazing job of caring for a very sick husband and also highlighting the issues other people with very poorly relatives face.
Aside from that Derek wanted to be heard and I sincerely hope that tonight’s programme will open up dialogue into how we improve the care system.
some sense!! and compassion! people are just bitter that no tv crew are interested in their lives. i honestly think thats what it is.
No one cares, shame on you allowing Dereks darkest days being aired for all the public to see. Keep your private life private !!
He had the capacity to choose! He chose to highlight his condition and the cost of care
No joke, who is she?
I like Kate and it's sad what she has gone through, but her fella was a slimy wrong'un and everybody knew it. No idea what caused her to fall for him, very unsavoury character.
Is she related to prince harry
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What a remarkable women she is, She has been incredible women and inspiring me with joy and connection with late husband Derek. She has been outstanding.❤❤
Remarkable women, I think not. She is an utter snob. Kate Garraway is a great believer/advocate of Tory implemented policy and never thought that her own situation could be adversely affected by it. I am so sorry her husband lost his life, would she have any sympathy for others in her shoes regarding her financial situation? We all know the answer to that question .....
Her house is valued at £4m, Yes poor grifter.
@@user-ou7to8nd7gYou did not have to watch her if you not interested.
💯% grifter!
I wondered how much mental capacity Derek had but it was his body that was failing 😢 so sad love to Kate and family x
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Life after derek .....
Why didn’t she just get a Personal Independence Payment (PIP) your relatives can even get paid through it to look after you. Also you don’t have to pay for anything you need it can even be used for holidays. And to pay for care agencies. So not sure why she was paying anything.
It doesn't cover the cost of full time care. It actually isn't very much
@@mariannehavisham8323 it does 24 hrs a day not only that you can still claim DWP and EESA at same time.
And means tested.....
@@nicolastemp8173 yes actually for a CHC, your financial situation doesn’t directly impact your eligibility for the package of care itself. CHC is based on your healthcare needs, not your ability to pay. Also I have been told that her finances should not be considered as the care is for her husband and it doesn’t matter that they are married. And if they ask you can tell them it’s none of their business. There’s people richer than her with a chc.
Or why did she not just sell their second home which is worth several million pounds? I feel great sympathy for Derek having to suffer in this way, and for Kate having to watch her husband deteriorate like this. I also have great respect and admiration for her bringing him home.
However, she used this documentary to highlight her financial difficulties and the strain it has placed on her. This is a true situation for the majority of carers in this country.
Kate’s figures don’t add up. Her cost of care at 16k a month totals 192K a year, which she claimed was her whole salary. Yet her earnings from GMB are 544k per year, and she has her well-paying radio job, the profits from her book, and for her documentaries. She has a multi-million pound home, and a second house too. I find it difficult to believe that educated and intelligent people like them would have no health or life insurance on top of that.
Kate lost my sympathy for her when she started to claim debt and hardship, when that is clearly not the case, and when she has assets she can sell to cover any debts she does have. She lost my sympathy when she wanted to place herself in the position of most other carers in this country, who truly don’t have the earnings, assets and support she has, and who are truly suffering in a way she cannot comprehend.
Kate is amazing!
Really ??how .. I'll wait for your reply ..
She’s just as amazing as the millions of other people caring for their loved ones.. most of them are on £81 a week Carers Allowance
@@jimbo6693 Wait as long as you like.
what about speeking up for the vac damaged people
Oh shut up!
Read up about the husbands career. Political Scandals and more scandals.
Maybe this last 4 yesrs was his Karma. Payback time.
He was a super crook, not once, not twice, but repeadetly. Didn't learn anything. Repeat, repeat
At least he had plenty of time to think about his croooooked life.
She makes him out to be some special what ?
I watched the doc last night having only heard of Derek being her husband. Must admit he didn't come across as a very likeable bloke on the old clips of him. Looked him up on Wiki afterwards and came to the conclusion that he wasn't very pleasant. I'm surprised she married him.
Think it's great that Kate is bringing more awareness on this.
Not only the issues carers face but what our negligent government has cost us. People wanna bad mouth Kate thats their perogative, but lets try and respect her children who lost their dad in terrible circumstances. Before you put your fingers in motion.. try activating some brain cells and ask yourselves if you really need to write rude offensive comments. It serves you nothing.. bullying a woman and family because she had the audacity to bring awareness to her situation.. she opened up about her financial situation, and she's wrong for that too... if you dont like her, then dont watch her, but you most certainly dont attack her when she's at her most vulnerable. It says so much more about people who comment, "Do you really have nothing more going on in your lives... because if you wasnt aware, Kate was burying her husband of 20 years and her children burying their dearly loved Dad. Respect costs zero, and keeping mean thoughts to yourself won't make your head explode. I have so much respect for kate, how she handled the whole thing, her kids are a credit to her and Derek and anyone with an ounce of compassion couldnt not watch the documentary and not feel the pain... Derek should still be alive. Nobody in the UK should have lost loved ones due to covid... the government failed us, and they continued to fail us. He got covid because of the government. Why should Kate pay for that... nobody should struggle with caring costs if you have illness like Derek had. Theres thousands of people claiming benefits fraudulently... the government is literally ripping us off.. the anger should be directed there, not at a hard-working woman who has been trying to juggle something life changing.
Heartbreaking 😪❤️
although no one should die before their time, he was not a nice person and she is milking this for money-£16k a month for care-was it gold tea cups
Evidence plz troll ?
Kate is not milking it for money get your fax right
Yes he was a very nasty individual by all accounts
@@cameroncopus9737 evidence ?
God sake me me me
Wow
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So sad to listen to Kate ,she is a,Saint I know most couples would try to do the same ,but Kate did an amazing job devoted to Derek shame that he couldn't survive from that terrible illness RIP Derek and sending Kate thoughts of wellbeing
Kate she is a remarkable person i cant believe the horrible comments on here people have left. She has lost someone who fell in love with her , had kids with its just so so sad on how she will live without derek .
ya want to cash in on his death and get some attention while your at it ya mean , what ever happened to dignity
Tell Kate not to look at soical media. There playing her apart. Say just begging for money . They say sell her house clear her debts
Sorry pulling apart
Amazing woman!
Has anyone not listened to the women’s interviews? The woman feels so strongly about how care is so diabolical for people trying to care for loved ones at home . She’s openly admitted she’s up to her neck in debt , she is constantly saying how lucky she was with her job and financial situation and saying she cannot imagine what it’s like for people caring and we’re not in her situation, she’s using her platform to highlight all of these issues , she developed health issues herself from the stress eg , cardiac problems , cmon people I cannot believe the nasty comments on here . People only hear what they want to hear !!!! I firmly believe the nasty comments are coming from people who have never been a carer for a loved one . Thus issue needs to be addressed big time .
Just cant stay out of the publicity jungle..money orientated piece of work.wonder whos getting it now.
He was a wannabe Alastair Campbell in his New Labour days, being close to the Cool Britannia corridors of power, must have made him seem attractive to the career ambitious Kate.
Benji...
@@mozartsmate6358 I dunno, is that the rumour that he was well hung?
Oh Jesus give me a break from all these media lickers.
Some very bitter people on here !
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