Tell me about it. A guy looks at a woman and says is she pretty, presentable and does she know how to get on with people and is pleasant and peaceful to be with. A woman thinks what's he got and what's his future earning potential and then is he's good looking.
I was dating a women. We went out to a restaurant. She ordered an expensive meal (lobster). When it arrived she got up from the table and said she didn't want to go out with me anymore and left. I hadn't done anything wrong. We hadn't even got to the kissing stage of the relationship. My view is she probably read how to break up with a guy in Cosmopolitan so that he never sees you again. My lesson was learnt. I never placed myself in that situation again.
least it didnt cost you your house & half your income. Its a win, even though you were humiliated . lifes going to be changing for all of us as soon as the us goes after iran, so you can have your choice of any woman you want, cause her survival will depend on it
Went to a friend's house for Christmas last year. His wife got mad at him about something while I was putting a ham in the oven and started yelling and calling him a "bitch." All of this with a guest in the house and in front of 3 little girls. I've seen this kind of behavior out of women all my life and you know what?...NO!
The ironic thing is if their friend that has a relationship with a normal guy (that she overlooked), she'll be jealous. "Why can't I find a guy like that??!?" 🤦♂
OMG I can vouch for this personally. Pursued a woman in my early 20s and she wasn't interested. About 8 months later, I start dating another woman who invited me to a family BBQ. Guess who her cousin was? "So THIS is the guy you were talking about?" All of a sudden, she wants to be in my face and follows me around the park like a puppy. I don't do second chances with women though.
If a man don’t care about a woman body count he is not looking for long term or serious relationship. Period. This guy is definitely a modern man who doesn’t commit to one.
It is men overcoming becoming a rutting idiot. "The rut is characterized in males by an increase in testosterone, exaggerated sexual dimorphisms, increased aggression, and increased interest in females."
Actually, it was turned around in Iran and Afghanistan by men. We don't want that for the women in our lives but as soon as enough men decide it has gone too far men, not women, turn it around.
I was committed and proud of my wife of 24 years. I loved and adored her the entire time. I helped her through nursing school and a failed attempt at nurse anesthesia. I helped raise our three children to adulthood. I welcomed every animal she brought into our home. I took care of her the last few years as she struggled with mental and physical health issues. She filed for divorce a couple of months ago.
And now she'll complain about her loneliness and how she struggles to get by etc... At this age good luck finding a man lol... I've seen many women do that. Most of them end up regretting but they don't understand it's because of their choices...
I'm not excusing her behavior, but it sounds like she was in a vulnerable state mentally and fell prey to the toxic culture around us. Sorry that happened to you.
I learned the hard way on my second gf after my ex wife all the stereotypes of nurses are absolutely true. All of them. And the thing is you will never see it coming, or will be caught off guard because of their "humanistic approach to caring" They're all nuts.
When a woman has a laundry list of requirements they aren't looking for "love". They're looking for a status symbol. Some who will make their friends and family jealous and envious. Someone who is marketable. SOmeone who they can brag about. Love has nothing to do with it. The man is just a commodity. Like a high end purse or handbag until the new version comes out and the current version loses its cache.
Only just discovered your channel. After watching a couple of videos you hit on exactly how I feel at the moment. I just feel so done with relationships. I feel now that my peace is more important than anything. Keep up the great content.
Men, until the marital laws change, just stay single, don't move in with anyone, don't let anyone move in with you or use your mailing address, don't get anyone pregnant, and all around you'll be a happier man on many levels. You'll keep your house. You won't be paying a mortgage on house you are not allowed to go within two miles of while she moves her new boyfriend into the house you are still paying for. You won't have your children ripped out of your loving arms. You'll never pay unreasonable child support. You won't be falsely accused and jailed. You'll keep your bank accounts. You'll keep your retirement pension. You'll have money in the bank. And you'll be able to go where you want, when you want, with who you want, and stay as long as you want. You'll be able to buy what you want, as much of it as you want, and pay as much as it cost, without having to ask permission to spend your own money. But that's just me.
@@jamiegoodman2995 _Get Church marriage; not government marriage._ Not so fast there slim. I am sure you are aware as many readers here are that some states are common law marriage states. If you live with a woman (usually two years) you are considered legally married and all the marriage laws of that state apply when that happens. Men... Do yourselves a favor and just don't get married OR live together with any woman... and certainly don't get any of them pregnant. You'll be a much happier man on so many levels.
You can buy a house, but have it held by a trust. That way it's not in your name and wouldn't be considered one of your assets. That's what I did when I 'bought' my present home. It isn't one of my assets but is owned by the trust.
Thank you for this channel Erin! As I’m watching this video I’m having my coffee about to head to the lake and spend the day on the boat and feed my soul. Stay strong my brothers!!! Protect your peace!!!
Women hate 3 kinds of men. Those that are out of their league and dump them or ignore them. Those that below their league and give them attention Those they have to settle for because they could not get the guy they wanted, aka second place prize simply because he was the second place prize.
I knew all that when I was young. I mean, I was a catch, but all women treated me badly and I didn't like it. I couldn't understand why even unattractive women were so rude to men. I assumed all women wanted to have kids, but when I found women responding badly to talk of love, marriage, or children, I had to realize many women didn't want children at all. I couldn't take it for granted. It's weird that women would be surprised that men would want to have children. I thought their attitudes were all wrong and I was having to tell them that all the time. They never handled it well, so I figured most women were very disrespectful of men. They would be rude like that. A woman called me boring, and I dumped her immediately. When a woman greeted me at her party with: "What are you doing here," I told her she was a disgraceful hostess. (She went off in a huff and gathered a bunch of white knights to throw me out.) That's typical of the bad attitudes I was always dealing with. It wasn't possible to find a good woman who knew how to have a good time, without nagging and bad attitudes. None, not one, knew right from wrong. I wouldn't marry a woman with bad morals and ethics. Or bad moods and bad attitudes.
I’d say that more and more men are ignoring women too which is required but sad but the behavior of women needs to change and that will happen as more and more men say no to bad behavior.
Yeah ignoring them is the key. If you say anything at all they will use your words against you. Just walk away and do your own thing. Leave them for the SIMP slaveminds.
That's not all women's fault, the legions of beta simps and white knights out there have led women to believe they can get away with bad behaviour. All that is happening now is the other men are dialling back on the simps behaviour and of course you are going to get women who don't like life outside of the simp economy.
To the one that is looking for her "best friend" that is why your relationships fail. Friends come and go; even best friends. Marriage should transcend friendship. Couples who consider themselves as friends are setting themselves up for failure.
Women over 30 yes. They find a baita provider for children if she is running out of time. So marriage for children yes. Destroying the baita later for profit is just a bonus. She will always keep an eye out for her alpha...
Courting is for Emotional'Simps ...and Dating is for Sex'simps Men need to focus on ANYTHING else than females ...it's for females to try to get a man but not giving ass, but choosing one as their champion and investing in them until they prove they are either their heroes or failures, then "lock them" with their puss or discard them totally ...not before and not later which is what we have currently which makes no sense. World is upside down...no surprise if all collapse.
@@imperator8657 Courting implies in presence of her family somehow, and dating is complete absence until last stage when "she wanna try to make it official" and invite you to meet her parents. That is not the way courting goes.
Another double standard about women you don't hear about is how a lot of women like to use empirical statements about men like "all men cheat" or "all men are abusive." However, if you're talking to a girl and you just use the phrase "most," not even saying all, sometimes just saying "a lot," they'll go on the defensive and be like, "I'm not like that," or "I don't do that."
@@garyfrancis6193I'm 82. 26 years in Thailand. English only, no problem. Thai language uses tones. I have severe tinnitus and cannot here it correctly. Love the culture. Mostly avoid expats and live among the cheerful, helpful locals.
@@kennethmcgurn3830 My respects Gary. Looks like you figured this out long time ago. I went to the Philippines back in 2010 myself. Am 55 now. I discovered it's better to move there if you can live away from the American plantation. I would just miss the land, rather than the cities. BTW, you're correct, the people over there are very courteous and cheerful. Especially out in the country & smaller towns.
@@garyfrancis6193 My respects. You're correct. It will take some time setting your roots and detaching from the fake plantation life of American cities. I would only miss the land and the country areas.
Being an older gent and sort of studying human behaviors. There are bunches of reasons, maybe even hundreds. Why good men don't land a woman anymore. Chad most certainly pours on the charm. Women are addicted to this 100% effort persona. Even though it always turns out to be fake. So, such places do attract the same men and women. How ever! Good men usually know they cannot compete with such Chads. Also, are not going to put in 100% effort. All because the risk out weights the effort. So, most good men are not in such places anymore. Most women don't want to look for good men. They mostly just want a certain lifestyle. Usually, another false image of Chad's. With all that has happened over the years. Good men are usually looked over. Therefore, self-image and the strive to get ahead diminishes. With women acting the way they do with attitude. Society turning their back on men. What incentive does any man have these days.
Absolutely none. And like a fatal dose of radiation, it will take time for society to manifest the fatal damage already done to it. Men having no incentive to strive is to society what all your bone marrow cells wiped out by exposure to lethal doses of radiation. In a word, it's fatal.
I've had women get mad because I talk too much, because they wish to control the narrative vs. both people being able to talk back and forth. Everyone has opinions and stories and histories to relate. When a lady has something to say I usually have a response, and they don't always appreciate that. Most of these gals just want to make a statement, not hold a conversation.
wife told me once they girls arent looking for suggestions, just a sounding/spring board. Your suppose to listen intently, show interest/compassion, and "behave" for lack of a better actionable term.
That's the most intelligent thing I've heard in ages. We want to fix the issues in the this habitat we call home. Women must come back to their senses.
I think that's right. Don't see how dating is a problem for women. The men have to impress the women and the women decide if the date continues. Most men, apart from the top 5%, on first dates do not ask women for sex. Most men are told on a regular basis is that you are not good enough. How is that difficult? Women can fall into traps if they consistently go for the top 5%.
The Average men is invisible. But is that really that bad? No Wife, No Kids, No crazy Bills, No Need to buy a Minivan, no vacations worth $8000 because you had to go to Disney Land. You are FREE! It is so peaceful.
I Get the peace part and expenses but it would be kinda Nice to be able to pass on the bloodline and have a kids to teatch value’s, moral’s and having in the back of your’e mind before you die that you made a mark.
Sounds boring as hell. Free to do what? Sit around and play video games, watch movies or read a book? Been doing that in various ratios my whole life. Doing that for the rest of it sounds like the embodiment of boredom to me.
You are right.and when those high value men or the chad's use them or turn them down for serious relations they get angry and bitter then attack and bash all men.
@@JJ-vp3bd there may be a few but that will turn around before it is too late,some will turn around once it is too late,and some will be er turn around,if men want to have a real traditional wife now a days.The man needs to loom i. Other countries with family values that fits with his,but even thier be careful as to bringing the woman back to the man's country,she may be indoctrinated like the ones already here.Sad to say but with the laws,the courts,and society the way it is currently it is like a disease.
What's sad is the men they want aren't the 'best' men. If judged solely by lust, they might be the hottest looking, most exciting to be with, or richest, but very rarely make the best husband, father, or caring partner. How great is a guy who is just going to pump and dump them. It's just woman allowing themselves to be run entirely by hedonism and short term emotional rushes, due to society erasing all standards, norms, and responsibilities on them.
@@jasonweishaupt1828 Christians today are too stubborn. there so scared of being like the muslims, that they wont take action against who they need too.
@@jasonweishaupt1828 1. Chastity belts actually weren’t much of a thing. That was something largely made up by Victorians following the skewed view of the Enlightenment that the medieval era sucked (parts of it did, though the ways claimed by these people didn’t actually match reality). 2. Burkas are stupid and, more importantly, justified by the logic that men can’t control themselves when seeing women. You’re really just showing your ignorance here.
Yup, when that *man* started complaining about men who care about body count, the four words that came to my mind were these: SIMP, SIMP!, SIMP!!!!, SIMP!!!!!!.
I was invisible in my teens and early 20's. But I filled out over the years with the gym, squash, athletics. 6ft, blond. Then as my career took off... CFO by 28, I was suddenly attractive to women. I ticked the boxes ! But I never forgot my teenage experiences. I saw what women look for. Its mainly wealth and status. Looks and personality are secondary. Shallow. Someone said it...men have to build themselves up and enter the race. Women just wait at the winning line.
If a woman is fixated upon talking about nothing but negative shit in an angry mindset, I will try and sway convertion into more positive directions, if it doesn't work and she is still fixed.... I am pretty much done.
Charlie Daniels said, "Poor girls want to marry. Rich girls want to flirt." As a rule, Charlie was generally right. Considering the economies of the world, most women are in the rich girl category. Being single is not the end of the world. I have much more time to spend with God while being single.
I now have my women pay for my stuff now. Drizzle Drizzle . I insist that the toilet seat stay up all the time... None of the 50 50 and the steat stays down.
just close your legs? I agree, I have been celibate for over 20 yrs, not b/c I didn't have chances, I feel that it is important to be faithful for the woman I may meet in the future. That is the way I was raised.
Thank you so much for making these videos when you can. As a male, I've never felt so understood, seen, and cared about than I have while watching your videos and listening to what you have to say. All too often, I find myself thinking "That's exactly right. She totally understands." In this crazy, upside-down world where it seems society always tries to tell us how bad we are because we're men, it's reassuring to see that not everyone has bought into this and that there are women who will speak out for men-and on top of that, call out women on their entitlement and aversion to accountability. You mentioned that you also think about those of us who don't comment. As someone who doesn't comment much, I want you to know that I'm grateful for you and appreciate what you're doing here on this channel.
We care about your history. We aren't doing the guy friends crap. We're not doing the girls' trips or girls' nights out to bars/clubs. We're not signing a contract that can/often ruin our lives. We're not taking anything other than femininity and submission. If we don't get these simple demands met. I repeat SIMPLE. Then we'll go our own way. The gym, vacations, chilling with the boys, and focusing on our career. Stay strong, boys. Hold the line.
53 y/o single due to death of spouse. Built like a 20 y/o marine and enjoy ignoring females that look like trouble . They usually do a double take and stare way too long. I enjoy ignoring those types.
I think I'm in love with your heart, sincerity and honesty. Those attributes are so inspiring, encouraging and empowering. I've only viewed a couple of your videos and can tell you have a very special mission through your messages and insight. I hope you find whatever you are in need of to not just manage your MS but to warrior through so that it only makes your resolve stronger and your spirit lighter. All the best to you dear muse.❤
Sadly, he father would never choose the men, she actually likes. She wants a broke bum male model, who does not want he"r rather then a good man who can actually love her! She chasing clout, rather than an actual man!
Actually the social pressure made women behave that way. WWI and WWII both caused women to realize what was most important. The other pressure is when men get tired of it and decide to change society like in Iran and Afghanistan.
They are all struggeling because they are dating the same dude. It was refreshing to see a woman actually talking about bodycount and think the way most men think. I have some friends that look at me like im a wierdo for saying that im not interested in a girl who’s been with the whole town before me. I suppose its kinda double standard but at the same time i think it shows character. How many women will be in a relationship with someone who slept with her best friend? Either way, when the women grows up to their 30 40 + and the new 20’s shows up the older men will go for the 20 year old’s. Thats just how it has become.
Hi, I am a man from Europe! Grandma told me never to rely on women. Me and my friends can cook (we hate processed food), doe the laundry, ironing and so on. We go fishing, play soccer, go to the pub..Who needs those women? It´s just a waste of time! If we want s+x, there is an old profession if you now what I mean.-))
The easy solution to "Way too many men are dangerous, how can we go on a date when they might kill/rape us." We had a historical solution to that, because we recognized that IS a risk. (Low as it may be, you can still reduce it.) ESCORT. Women didn't go on a date without an escort! Different cultures had different ways they went about it.
Thanks for sharing. I’m a Christian as well and deal with a chronic condition and it can help me to make videos as well about topics that might be of value to others.
I'm actually not opposed to a woman saying "you're boring" just to up an leave, it's better than wasting time. Maybe it could be delivered better but hey it's fine.
So we have 5 children and 5 baby fathers is is good. No marriage, just I don't know my real dad, but you can be sleeping with your sister or brother because you don't know who is your real dad.
"It's hard to tell what men are after." I always told women, for one thing, it doesn't matter that much as long as you don't allow sex before marriage. What were women after? I knew they weren't being honest when they had a question like that and they wouldn't ask. "You wonder what a man wants? Ask him. Aren't you supposed to be working on communication." I had to anticipate and just tell women I was after love. It terrified them. If I were after sex, it wouldn't have bothered them as much. Talking about being after love would get a response like I was a rapist or a stalker. Again, hatred and aversion with no communication. They don't like the feeling that a man is trying to take control of the terms of the relationship in any way. They expect to take him by the nose and lead him around and to name all the terms and conditions of the relationship themselves. It's a feminist thing. If a man says up front what he wants, she unravels and rattles to pieces, spewing offense.
I don't believe in no sex before marriage think it's dumb. For one to be good or even decent at it have go have alittle experience. More importantly what about the people who just don't want marriage? Not just because of the bs laws and divorce courts but just in general it's not something they want? Should they never get the pleasure of sex? Lastly, the whole idea if sex being some big emotional spiritual thing is just stupid. It's sex. It's pleasurable and feels good in a multitude of ways. Connection emotionally and spiritually comes from other ways. Other acts of kindness and support and thoughtfulness. I guess you could say that wanting to please someone physically and make them feel good and/or better can be a form of care and connection. When u feel good physically it's easier to feel better in other ways, even if only temporarily. So I guess pleasure can be a form of comfort but beyond that it's just a physical fun and pleasurable thing and people read too much into it and put too much behind it that now it's a whole big mess.
@@viper-the-great Please remove “the great” from your screenname, because that gibberish looks even sillier with a moniker like that. Frankly, your argument is just plain dumb. You get good by doing it WITH YOUR SPOUSE. Is your IQ so low that you can’t grasp that concept? More critically, neither of you being experienced means that you’re not making comparisons and thus looking at the experience in a skewed manner. This also reduces emotional damage from dating if things don’t work out.
Funny how this whole thing between men and women got so complicated! I am 65 years old, being with my wife for many years. At the time, I was discerning who I wanted, a nurse, an empathic, sympathic and nurturing woman who had many qualities to share with me for our whole life together. I remembered one night, when me and my friend were looking for woman in nursing. He found his love that night and mine later on. But, together we are a team, a pair that share good and bad moments together and during our journey, we exclude any ideas of separation or divorce but to work on our difficulties when they were arising. You cannot succeed in a relationship if one or the other does not put everything she or he got to keep the boat afloat! You must have in mind a type of woman or man and stick to it, until you find your dream wife or husband!
Women can GET relationships with men out of their league - as part of a large harem! While normal men just get left out unless they are willing to put in insane amounts of effort. Most of us would rather sit back and have good lives by ourselves than deal with that much stress.
In the dating market, if you are a male, you have no intrinsic value in your life but what you bring to the table and how much you can produce. If you are a female, your value is not measured by those who are willing to sleep with you but by those who are willing to have a relationship with you. Traditionally, marriage functioned because sexual relations equated to marriage for women, compelling women to accept men with the best qualities, leading to accurate level matching. I wonder why the marriage rate started to plummet after the sexual revolution.
I can't tell you much I despise the "use'em, abuse'em and lose'em" type of guys. Girls call them chads and I guess half the girls out there want them. Unbelievable.
Finding myself unexpectedly single after more than 20 years of marriage, I’ve tried meeting someone but it’s a struggle. Modern women, even in the age group I’m in, do seem incredibly superficial. I’m neither particularly physically attractive , tall or outgoing. Highly educated, white collar professional job, well travelled, can hold a conversation etc...given how often I hear the whining “ where are all the good men?” Women basically never give me the time of day due to my unassuming appearance, never had a like on a dating app or any interest from a woman when I’ve tried social events. I’m as “ good” a man as they’re likely to find but just not impress their friends, so I remain invisible.😏
One of the Problems, or the misunderstanding is, all those „Women“, or most of the Videos who are in the Net, are still on an Emotional level of a Child. Those „Women“, are Biological Mature or Adult, but Emotionally they are Children. And with this Generation it got worse.
"You know why you think it's boring, sweetie cakes? Because it's not about you." She nailed it.
Yup - I liked that too.
Facts
They're not trying to get a man, they are trying to get his cash and prizes.
Tell me about it. A guy looks at a woman and says is she pretty, presentable and does she know how to get on with people and is pleasant and peaceful to be with. A woman thinks what's he got and what's his future earning potential and then is he's good looking.
Mike, that's correct.
@@ReliableGuy-sb8fb Precisely.
I was dating a women. We went out to a restaurant. She ordered an expensive meal (lobster). When it arrived she got up from the table and said she didn't want to go out with me anymore and left. I hadn't done anything wrong. We hadn't even got to the kissing stage of the relationship. My view is she probably read how to break up with a guy in Cosmopolitan so that he never sees you again. My lesson was learnt. I never placed myself in that situation again.
least it didnt cost you your house & half your income. Its a win, even though you were humiliated . lifes going to be changing for all of us as soon as the us goes after iran, so you can have your choice of any woman you want, cause her survival will depend on it
I hope you enjoyed that lobster though. 😎
@@jeremycole3008 Optimistic, but doubtful. 😎
Did you forget to shower or maybe you were acting like a sperg?
Naw, she just wanted free lobster
Went to a friend's house for Christmas last year. His wife got mad at him about something while I was putting a ham in the oven and started yelling and calling him a "bitch." All of this with a guest in the house and in front of 3 little girls. I've seen this kind of behavior out of women all my life and you know what?...NO!
The ironic thing is if their friend that has a relationship with a normal guy (that she overlooked), she'll be jealous. "Why can't I find a guy like that??!?" 🤦♂
Women want to sleep with the men other women sleep with.
OMG I can vouch for this personally. Pursued a woman in my early 20s and she wasn't interested. About 8 months later, I start dating another woman who invited me to a family BBQ. Guess who her cousin was? "So THIS is the guy you were talking about?" All of a sudden, she wants to be in my face and follows me around the park like a puppy. I don't do second chances with women though.
Women are not innocent little flowers. I learned that lesson the hard way at 3 years old.
We are out there, we have been friend zoned or burned so badly we gave up
True
Permanently.
Chad, Tyrone and Antonio are never given boundaries...
In a woman's mind she never considers herself to be average.
The ones she wants don't want her.
If a man don’t care about a woman body count he is not looking for long term or serious relationship. Period. This guy is definitely a modern man who doesn’t commit to one.
I really feel sorry for young men. They are going to have to lose everything before they realize the narcissist nature of women .
That is why MGTOW is working to educate the young men, but, many will be raise in a single parent homes and will grow up be simps.
not all young men. Lots of young men now have fathers that are aware and post divorce.
90% of men almost never will reject a woman by default.....but 95% of women will reject a man, by default, almost 100% of the times
A man chasing (dating) a woman is akin to a dog chasing its tail, going round in circles and getting nowhere.
And when you finally catch a woman, she tightens your collar with her leash, until you can't breathe
Men dont chase women men dont catch women..women manipulate men into approaching them so they dont realize that THEY are the prey
Mgtow is freedom 🙋🙏💫
It is men overcoming becoming a rutting idiot.
"The rut is characterized in males by an increase in testosterone, exaggerated sexual dimorphisms, increased aggression, and increased interest in females."
Feminism set men free; obligations gone
If you have super low T. 😎
@@ModelJames13 mgtow has nothing to do with t. If your t gives you an urge to commit to 304’s then I’m not sure it’s good t.
@@Savvynomad225 That's the problem with high natural T. It's great for the muscles/health, bad for the mind. 😎
Agreed! This situation can only be turned around by women.
That means all hope is lost. 😎
Actually, it was turned around in Iran and Afghanistan by men. We don't want that for the women in our lives but as soon as enough men decide it has gone too far men, not women, turn it around.
How do we pull this off in Canada
@@JJ-vp3bd A revolution. It's about time wouldn't you say? 😎
Wrong. Only men can turn this around
I was committed and proud of my wife of 24 years. I loved and adored her the entire time. I helped her through nursing school and a failed attempt at nurse anesthesia. I helped raise our three children to adulthood. I welcomed every animal she brought into our home. I took care of her the last few years as she struggled with mental and physical health issues. She filed for divorce a couple of months ago.
And now she'll complain about her loneliness and how she struggles to get by etc... At this age good luck finding a man lol... I've seen many women do that. Most of them end up regretting but they don't understand it's because of their choices...
I'm not excusing her behavior, but it sounds like she was in a vulnerable state mentally and fell prey to the toxic culture around us. Sorry that happened to you.
I learned the hard way on my second gf after my ex wife all the stereotypes of nurses are absolutely true. All of them. And the thing is you will never see it coming, or will be caught off guard because of their "humanistic approach to caring" They're all nuts.
@bobbyscalchi4013 my wife wasn't a nurse to start with. That's the problem.
Life goes on you will survive she did you a big favor leaving take care of yourself now and be no ones doormatt.
When a woman has a laundry list of requirements they aren't looking for "love". They're looking for a status symbol. Some who will make their friends and family jealous and envious. Someone who is marketable. SOmeone who they can brag about. Love has nothing to do with it. The man is just a commodity. Like a high end purse or handbag until the new version comes out and the current version loses its cache.
Only just discovered your channel. After watching a couple of videos you hit on exactly how I feel at the moment. I just feel so done with relationships. I feel now that my peace is more important than anything. Keep up the great content.
Men, until the marital laws change, just stay single, don't move in with anyone, don't let anyone move in with you or use your mailing address, don't get anyone pregnant, and all around you'll be a happier man on many levels.
You'll keep your house.
You won't be paying a mortgage on house you are not allowed to go within two miles of while she moves her new boyfriend into the house you are still paying for.
You won't have your children ripped out of your loving arms.
You'll never pay unreasonable child support.
You won't be falsely accused and jailed.
You'll keep your bank accounts.
You'll keep your retirement pension.
You'll have money in the bank.
And you'll be able to go where you want, when you want, with who you want, and stay as long as you want.
You'll be able to buy what you want, as much of it as you want, and pay as much as it cost, without having to ask permission to spend your own money.
But that's just me.
And me. Only $55k out in my divorce. Prenup was thrown out. Get Church marriage; not government marriage
@@jamiegoodman2995 _Get Church marriage; not government marriage._
Not so fast there slim.
I am sure you are aware as many readers here are that some states are common law marriage states. If you live with a woman (usually two years) you are considered legally married and all the marriage laws of that state apply when that happens.
Men... Do yourselves a favor and just don't get married OR live together with any woman... and certainly don't get any of them pregnant.
You'll be a much happier man on so many levels.
You can buy a house, but have it held by a trust. That way it's not in your name and wouldn't be considered one of your assets.
That's what I did when I 'bought' my present home. It isn't one of my assets but is owned by the trust.
@@TwoWolves Smart man.
Another option would be to incorporate.
Either way works and gives you the results you want.
Thank you for this channel Erin! As I’m watching this video I’m having my coffee about to head to the lake and spend the day on the boat and feed my soul. Stay strong my brothers!!! Protect your peace!!!
Women hate 3 kinds of men.
Those that are out of their league and dump them or ignore them.
Those that below their league and give them attention
Those they have to settle for because they could not get the guy they wanted, aka second place prize simply because he was the second place prize.
It's a vvoman's job to convince a man that she's worthy of commitment 25:41
I knew all that when I was young.
I mean, I was a catch, but all women treated me badly and I didn't like it.
I couldn't understand why even unattractive women were so rude to men.
I assumed all women wanted to have kids, but when I found women responding badly to talk of love, marriage, or children, I had to realize many women didn't want children at all.
I couldn't take it for granted.
It's weird that women would be surprised that men would want to have children.
I thought their attitudes were all wrong and I was having to tell them that all the time.
They never handled it well, so I figured most women were very disrespectful of men.
They would be rude like that.
A woman called me boring, and I dumped her immediately.
When a woman greeted me at her party with: "What are you doing here," I told her she was a disgraceful hostess. (She went off in a huff and gathered a bunch of white knights to throw me out.)
That's typical of the bad attitudes I was always dealing with.
It wasn't possible to find a good woman who knew how to have a good time, without nagging and bad attitudes.
None, not one, knew right from wrong.
I wouldn't marry a woman with bad morals and ethics.
Or bad moods and bad attitudes.
Guys do care about a women’s history.
Very, VERY much. 😎
Because men care about history we try to warn the women we love. History is clear, men decide what society will tolerate, not women.
Men prefer to go Where No Man Has Gone Before !
@@TheRousler Boldly!
@@TheRouslerYes the Star Trek directive. When you find out her history you’re likely to hit warp speed to get out of there.
No need to apologize; excellent show tonight.
I’d say that more and more men are ignoring women too which is required but sad but the behavior of women needs to change and that will happen as more and more men say no to bad behavior.
Not enough.
History is clear, men change things, not women. Iran and Afghanistan are examples of it.
Yeah ignoring them is the key. If you say anything at all they will use your words against you. Just walk away and do your own thing. Leave them for the SIMP slaveminds.
That's not all women's fault, the legions of beta simps and white knights out there have led women to believe they can get away with bad behaviour. All that is happening now is the other men are dialling back on the simps behaviour and of course you are going to get women who don't like life outside of the simp economy.
These women sound like politicians. No wonder things are so bad…
lol. How can you tell when a politician is lying? When his or her lips are moving,
To the one that is looking for her "best friend" that is why your relationships fail. Friends come and go; even best friends. Marriage should transcend friendship. Couples who consider themselves as friends are setting themselves up for failure.
Women over 30 yes. They find a baita provider for children if she is running out of time. So marriage for children yes. Destroying the baita later for profit is just a bonus. She will always keep an eye out for her alpha...
women invented modern dating (1950s to today). I've always hated it. dating is not natural or helpful. I prefer courting.
Dating is courting , 1d1ot
What's the difference between dating and courting?
Dating is a very american centric thing...
Courting is for Emotional'Simps ...and Dating is for Sex'simps
Men need to focus on ANYTHING else than females ...it's for females to try to get a man but not giving ass, but choosing one as their champion and investing in them until they prove they are either their heroes or failures, then "lock them" with their puss or discard them totally ...not before and not later which is what we have currently which makes no sense. World is upside down...no surprise if all collapse.
@@imperator8657 Courting implies in presence of her family somehow, and dating is complete absence until last stage when "she wanna try to make it official" and invite you to meet her parents. That is not the way courting goes.
Another double standard about women you don't hear about is how a lot of women like to use empirical statements about men like "all men cheat" or "all men are abusive." However, if you're talking to a girl and you just use the phrase "most," not even saying all, sometimes just saying "a lot," they'll go on the defensive and be like, "I'm not like that," or "I don't do that."
Even worse if you criticize one specific woman (like a celebrity) they take it as an attack on all wimminz
I suspect that the "fetishizing virginity" line is often just ho-cope.
A used petri dish doesn't make a good coffee mug
Using the term fetish is a feminist technique for shaming male sexual procilivities of any sort
Yup. Its part of their manipulation game too.
No, there are men who do fetishize virginity, and it's weird.
my advice as a 65 year old man...go overseas to find a wife. They are traditional and want masculine men. You cannot marry a western woman.
WellmI’m 74 and have lived overseas for 35 years. You have to be prepared to adapt to different cultures and languages.
@@garyfrancis6193I'm 82. 26 years in Thailand. English only, no problem. Thai language uses tones. I have severe tinnitus and cannot here it correctly. Love the culture. Mostly avoid expats and live among the cheerful, helpful locals.
..hear it correctly.
@@kennethmcgurn3830 My respects Gary. Looks like you figured this out long time ago. I went to the Philippines back in 2010 myself. Am 55 now. I discovered it's better to move there if you can live away from the American plantation. I would just miss the land, rather than the cities. BTW, you're correct, the people over there are very courteous and cheerful. Especially out in the country & smaller towns.
@@garyfrancis6193 My respects. You're correct. It will take some time setting your roots and detaching from the fake plantation life of American cities. I would only miss the land and the country areas.
You women chose The Bear .
Go live in the woods with The Bear .
Grizzle Grizzle.
😂
These bears will soon see them coming. An easy meal, ha
Why? What did the bear do to deserve that?
Brilliant comment. Kudos.
Protect the bears!
Being an older gent and sort of studying human behaviors. There are bunches of reasons, maybe even hundreds. Why good men don't land a woman anymore.
Chad most certainly pours on the charm. Women are addicted to this 100% effort persona. Even though it always turns out to be fake. So, such places do attract the same men and women. How ever! Good men usually know they cannot compete with such Chads. Also, are not going to put in 100% effort. All because the risk out weights the effort. So, most good men are not in such places anymore. Most women don't want to look for good men. They mostly just want a certain lifestyle. Usually, another false image of Chad's.
With all that has happened over the years. Good men are usually looked over. Therefore, self-image and the strive to get ahead diminishes. With women acting the way they do with attitude. Society turning their back on men. What incentive does any man have these days.
No incentive. Without a good wife we aren't going to do squat. 😎
Absolutely none. And like a fatal dose of radiation, it will take time for society to manifest the fatal damage already done to it. Men having no incentive to strive is to society what all your bone marrow cells wiped out by exposure to lethal doses of radiation. In a word, it's fatal.
Dave., you're absolutely correct.
If you are always wrong it's not worth talking.
I've had women get mad because I talk too much, because they wish to control the narrative vs. both people being able to talk back and forth. Everyone has opinions and stories and histories to relate. When a lady has something to say I usually have a response, and they don't always appreciate that. Most of these gals just want to make a statement, not hold a conversation.
wife told me once they girls arent looking for suggestions, just a sounding/spring board. Your suppose to listen intently, show interest/compassion, and "behave" for lack of a better actionable term.
Fact
That's the most intelligent thing I've heard in ages. We want to fix the issues in the this habitat we call home. Women must come back to their senses.
Iran and Afghanistan men got tired of the direction things were going and resulted in patriarchies.
Implying women are acting out of character.
I think that's right. Don't see how dating is a problem for women. The men have to impress the women and the women decide if the date continues. Most men, apart from the top 5%, on first dates do not ask women for sex. Most men are told on a regular basis is that you are not good enough. How is that difficult? Women can fall into traps if they consistently go for the top 5%.
Clicking with someone in conversation? Most of them are so bad at it I just unmatched them on the apps.
I think the duality of women is kind of showing now. Constantly afraid yet watching crime shows all the time and getting off on it.
Tyranny of the weak...revenge fantasy. The desire to themselves commit such crimes and get away without consequences
I had an Aunt that said, if a woman doesn't want you, when youre kind and honest, its not nor never you....she decided she wants 2nd best and a slave
If you don't want to be treated like that DON'T WEAR THE UNIFORM!
Indeed, if they act, walk, talk and look like hos, they ARE hos.
“Soul of a woman was created below” Spoken from experience!
The Average men is invisible.
But is that really that bad?
No Wife, No Kids, No crazy Bills, No Need to buy a Minivan, no vacations worth $8000 because you had to go to Disney Land.
You are FREE! It is so peaceful.
I Get the peace part and expenses but it would be kinda Nice to be able to pass on the bloodline and have a kids to teatch value’s, moral’s and having in the back of your’e mind before you die that you made a mark.
@@Steve19055modern kids are worst than modern women.
@@windyacresway sounds like a “you” problem if your kids are that way. You’re the parent, after all.
Sounds boring as hell. Free to do what? Sit around and play video games, watch movies or read a book? Been doing that in various ratios my whole life. Doing that for the rest of it sounds like the embodiment of boredom to me.
You are right.and when those high value men or the chad's use them or turn them down for serious relations they get angry and bitter then attack and bash all men.
How do we reverse this
@@JJ-vp3bd there may be a few but that will turn around before it is too late,some will turn around once it is too late,and some will be er turn around,if men want to have a real traditional wife now a days.The man needs to loom i. Other countries with family values that fits with his,but even thier be careful as to bringing the woman back to the man's country,she may be indoctrinated like the ones already here.Sad to say but with the laws,the courts,and society the way it is currently it is like a disease.
What's sad is the men they want aren't the 'best' men. If judged solely by lust, they might be the hottest looking, most exciting to be with, or richest, but very rarely make the best husband, father, or caring partner. How great is a guy who is just going to pump and dump them. It's just woman allowing themselves to be run entirely by hedonism and short term emotional rushes, due to society erasing all standards, norms, and responsibilities on them.
Absolutely! Top-tier comment.
Now you know why chastity belts and burkas were invented. Ancient men already learned these lessons. We need to relearn them.
@@jasonweishaupt1828 Christians today are too stubborn. there so scared of being like the muslims, that they wont take action against who they need too.
Best comment.
@@jasonweishaupt1828
1. Chastity belts actually weren’t much of a thing. That was something largely made up by Victorians following the skewed view of the Enlightenment that the medieval era sucked (parts of it did, though the ways claimed by these people didn’t actually match reality).
2. Burkas are stupid and, more importantly, justified by the logic that men can’t control themselves when seeing women.
You’re really just showing your ignorance here.
Yup, when that *man* started complaining about men who care about body count, the four words that came to my mind were these: SIMP, SIMP!, SIMP!!!!, SIMP!!!!!!.
He might be LGBT, or a woman posing as a guy. Or just a simp and if so DANG he deserves what he gets
Mary Him: The Case for Settling for Mr Good Enough by Lori Gottlieb
what women are realizing is that men are becoming tired of pump and dump.
Chad isn't tired of it, and wimminz haven't realized anything about what men want/need 🙄
give brad pitt a call, I hear he's single now🤣🤣🤣
Those who say bodycount doesn't matter usually have the highest count and it tell men you're an expert in breakups.
Your peaceful to listen to. Thank you for the solace🎉
Yeah, Miss Eden is cool. She's one of the few women I've respect for.
I was invisible in my teens and early 20's.
But I filled out over the years with the gym, squash, athletics.
6ft, blond.
Then as my career took off... CFO by 28, I was suddenly attractive to women. I ticked the boxes !
But I never forgot my teenage experiences. I saw what women look for. Its mainly wealth and status. Looks and personality are secondary. Shallow.
Someone said it...men have to build themselves up and enter the race. Women just wait at the winning line.
If a woman is fixated upon talking about nothing but negative shit in an angry mindset, I will try and sway convertion into more positive directions, if it doesn't work and she is still fixed.... I am pretty much done.
You really hit the nail on the head this is exactly what's going on
Charlie Daniels said, "Poor girls want to marry. Rich girls want to flirt." As a rule, Charlie was generally right. Considering the economies of the world, most women are in the rich girl category.
Being single is not the end of the world. I have much more time to spend with God while being single.
We sure could use Charlie Daniels': "In America" song these days. Lady Liberty is stumbling again
Maybe it's because you were blessed with the gift of singleness. 😎
@@ModelJames13 Singleness is a gift. Constraining libido and guarding one's heart are also gifts.
Saddle Tramp is a great song. Taz was incredible piano player too.
@@bc6352ill have to check it out, thanks for the suggestion
I now have my women pay for my stuff now. Drizzle Drizzle . I insist that the toilet seat stay up all the time... None of the 50 50 and the steat stays down.
In planning for the future, in what case does no one look at the past? It's literally all you got to predict the future.
"Past performance does not guarantee future results." - Every solicitation for any investment program (scheme) ever.
You're not wrong, by the way.
Women: Forever searching for the purple squirrel...
Seek out a fly tying shop purple squirrel should be near the pine squirrel skins
funny one !
Women: Forever ruining men's lives. 😎
Those exist, BTW. Look up Indian Rainbow Squirrels. They're GIGANTIC and awesome.
@@BenLWolf
But American women will mostly be alone due to their delusional standards, so good job on missing the point.
Thank you for your insights and sincere compassion 🙏
just close your legs? I agree, I have been celibate for over 20 yrs, not b/c I didn't have chances, I feel that it is important to be faithful for the woman I may meet in the future. That is the way I was raised.
My wife asked me to be her friend the night we first met. I denied her completely. Friends don't make babies.
As somone who also lives with a longterm condition I wish you well 🙏, life can be hard, stay strong. 💪
Men have learned that anything he says can and will be held against him if he isn't parroting the woman's opinion..
Thank you for your channel, I've been enjoying listening to you.
Thank you so much for making these videos when you can. As a male, I've never felt so understood, seen, and cared about than I have while watching your videos and listening to what you have to say. All too often, I find myself thinking "That's exactly right. She totally understands." In this crazy, upside-down world where it seems society always tries to tell us how bad we are because we're men, it's reassuring to see that not everyone has bought into this and that there are women who will speak out for men-and on top of that, call out women on their entitlement and aversion to accountability.
You mentioned that you also think about those of us who don't comment. As someone who doesn't comment much, I want you to know that I'm grateful for you and appreciate what you're doing here on this channel.
We care about your history. We aren't doing the guy friends crap. We're not doing the girls' trips or girls' nights out to bars/clubs. We're not signing a contract that can/often ruin our lives. We're not taking anything other than femininity and submission.
If we don't get these simple demands met. I repeat SIMPLE. Then we'll go our own way. The gym, vacations, chilling with the boys, and focusing on our career.
Stay strong, boys. Hold the line.
I appreciate you and what you are doing here. my luv to you and yours b safe
When you complain say what you plan to do about it.
53 y/o single due to death of spouse.
Built like a 20 y/o marine and enjoy ignoring females that look like trouble .
They usually do a double take and stare way too long.
I enjoy ignoring those types.
6:14 - the article passive aggressively makes the assumption that men are dangerous as if it is a given like water being wet.
I think I'm in love with your heart, sincerity and honesty. Those attributes are so inspiring, encouraging and empowering. I've only viewed a couple of your videos and can tell you have a very special mission through your messages and insight. I hope you find whatever you are in need of to not just manage your MS but to warrior through so that it only makes your resolve stronger and your spirit lighter. All the best to you dear muse.❤
How about the old fashioned courting ritual? Two people looking for a partner to share life with? Oh, but that's so 20th Century!
I prefer the way it was in the Bible.
Sadly, he father would never choose the men, she actually likes. She wants a broke bum male model, who does not want he"r rather then a good man who can actually love her! She chasing clout, rather than an actual man!
@@ModelJames13 We all do, but most vvonnen hate and reject God's ways! They love the world's and SaTan's ways of stroking their ego!
Actually the social pressure made women behave that way. WWI and WWII both caused women to realize what was most important. The other pressure is when men get tired of it and decide to change society like in Iran and Afghanistan.
Oh, many trash and fairytale........ Where's is flying Pizza monster????
To say back, and we are grateful for you.
They are all struggeling because they are dating the same dude.
It was refreshing to see a woman actually talking about bodycount and think the way most men think. I have some friends that look at me like im a wierdo for saying that im not interested in a girl who’s been with the whole town before me. I suppose its kinda double standard but at the same time i think it shows character. How many women will be in a relationship with someone who slept with her best friend?
Either way, when the women grows up to their 30 40 + and the new 20’s shows up the older men will go for the 20 year old’s. Thats just how it has become.
Hi, I am a man from Europe! Grandma told me never to rely on women. Me and my friends can cook (we hate processed food), doe the laundry, ironing and so on. We go fishing, play soccer, go to the pub..Who needs those women? It´s just a waste of time! If we want s+x, there is an old profession if you now what I mean.-))
The easy solution to "Way too many men are dangerous, how can we go on a date when they might kill/rape us."
We had a historical solution to that, because we recognized that IS a risk. (Low as it may be, you can still reduce it.) ESCORT. Women didn't go on a date without an escort!
Different cultures had different ways they went about it.
I fill my soul by watching you smile and do these videos. 😘😉
I'm glad to see that you know the truth about relationships!
Thanks for sharing. I’m a Christian as well and deal with a chronic condition and it can help me to make videos as well about topics that might be of value to others.
I'm actually not opposed to a woman saying "you're boring" just to up an leave, it's better than wasting time. Maybe it could be delivered better but hey it's fine.
The idea of one person being your "Everything" is some Disney BS
Disney and the Churches....
So we have 5 children and 5 baby fathers is is good. No marriage, just I don't know my real dad, but you can be sleeping with your sister or brother because you don't know who is your real dad.
"It's hard to tell what men are after."
I always told women, for one thing, it doesn't matter that much as long as you don't allow sex before marriage.
What were women after?
I knew they weren't being honest when they had a question like that and they wouldn't ask.
"You wonder what a man wants? Ask him. Aren't you supposed to be working on communication."
I had to anticipate and just tell women I was after love.
It terrified them.
If I were after sex, it wouldn't have bothered them as much.
Talking about being after love would get a response like I was a rapist or a stalker.
Again, hatred and aversion with no communication.
They don't like the feeling that a man is trying to take control of the terms of the relationship in any way.
They expect to take him by the nose and lead him around and to name all the terms and conditions of the relationship themselves.
It's a feminist thing.
If a man says up front what he wants, she unravels and rattles to pieces, spewing offense.
I don't believe in no sex before marriage think it's dumb. For one to be good or even decent at it have go have alittle experience. More importantly what about the people who just don't want marriage? Not just because of the bs laws and divorce courts but just in general it's not something they want? Should they never get the pleasure of sex? Lastly, the whole idea if sex being some big emotional spiritual thing is just stupid. It's sex. It's pleasurable and feels good in a multitude of ways. Connection emotionally and spiritually comes from other ways. Other acts of kindness and support and thoughtfulness. I guess you could say that wanting to please someone physically and make them feel good and/or better can be a form of care and connection. When u feel good physically it's easier to feel better in other ways, even if only temporarily. So I guess pleasure can be a form of comfort but beyond that it's just a physical fun and pleasurable thing and people read too much into it and put too much behind it that now it's a whole big mess.
@@viper-the-great
Please remove “the great” from your screenname, because that gibberish looks even sillier with a moniker like that. Frankly, your argument is just plain dumb. You get good by doing it WITH YOUR SPOUSE. Is your IQ so low that you can’t grasp that concept? More critically, neither of you being experienced means that you’re not making comparisons and thus looking at the experience in a skewed manner. This also reduces emotional damage from dating if things don’t work out.
Funny how this whole thing between men and women got so complicated! I am 65 years old, being with my wife for many years. At the time, I was discerning who I wanted, a nurse, an empathic, sympathic and nurturing woman who had many qualities to share with me for our whole life together. I remembered one night, when me and my friend were looking for woman in nursing. He found his love that night and mine later on. But, together we are a team, a pair that share good and bad moments together and during our journey, we exclude any ideas of separation or divorce but to work on our difficulties when they were arising. You cannot succeed in a relationship if one or the other does not put everything she or he got to keep the boat afloat! You must have in mind a type of woman or man and stick to it, until you find your dream wife or husband!
Great job, Erin! Love your channel and content. (Subbed long ago!)
God bless you lady with an angelic grace...
Women can GET relationships with men out of their league - as part of a large harem! While normal men just get left out unless they are willing to put in insane amounts of effort.
Most of us would rather sit back and have good lives by ourselves than deal with that much stress.
In the dating market, if you are a male, you have no intrinsic value in your life but what you bring to the table and how much you can produce. If you are a female, your value is not measured by those who are willing to sleep with you but by those who are willing to have a relationship with you. Traditionally, marriage functioned because sexual relations equated to marriage for women, compelling women to accept men with the best qualities, leading to accurate level matching.
I wonder why the marriage rate started to plummet after the sexual revolution.
I can't tell you much I despise the "use'em, abuse'em and lose'em" type of guys. Girls call them chads and I guess half the girls out there want them. Unbelievable.
These more quiet men are likely less superficial and fake and likely waiting for the woman to shut up.
May heaven bless this woman
So much truth 👏🏼👏🏼
Ladies get back in your place. This is a war you can’t and shall not win!
GOD I wished women understood..we do not care. We are interviewing you, you never were selecting us.
Thanks for your insights.
Finding myself unexpectedly single after more than 20 years of marriage, I’ve tried meeting someone but it’s a struggle. Modern women, even in the age group I’m in, do seem incredibly superficial. I’m neither particularly physically attractive , tall or outgoing. Highly educated, white collar professional job, well travelled, can hold a conversation etc...given how often I hear the whining “ where are all the good men?” Women basically never give me the time of day due to my unassuming appearance, never had a like on a dating app or any interest from a woman when I’ve tried social events. I’m as “ good” a man as they’re likely to find but just not impress their friends, so I remain invisible.😏
One of the Problems, or the misunderstanding is, all those „Women“, or most of the Videos who are in the Net, are still on an Emotional level of a Child.
Those „Women“, are Biological Mature or Adult, but Emotionally they are Children. And with this Generation it got worse.
I was hoping for a bedtime story.... ohh well maybe next time.