@@brucesmith9144I wish someone had told me 40 years ago that you have spend time with a woman’s parents, especially her mother, to see what she will become in the future.
Spot on. It happened to me. She even brought the guy she ran off with to rub my nose in it. She wasn't content in destroying the family. She is a sick and twisted woman, thank god she's out of my life.
I figured that out when my wife, whom I loved dearly, had been cheating on me for months and when caught looked at me like I was nuts and then left, ending our marriage. That taught me two things (at least): 1) a man’s love has no value to a woman, and 2) a woman’s wedding vows become null and void the second she is unhappy for any reason.
A similar situation happened to me. Lived with a woman for a couple years, she pressured me to marry her. The usual crying emotional manipulation and withholding sex type behavior. Then within the first 6 months I caught her cheating on me purely by accident. I was walking by her computer and noticed it hadn't been fully shut down, it had an error and kinda froze. I noticed the lights on with a blank screen, so upon further investigation and to my complete surprise, her last message hadn't been sent and was still displayed on the screen. I was very damning, and totally blindsided me.... I played it cool at first and asked the preliminary questions, she had all the excuses ready to go. Then I showed her the message of her bragging to her girl friends about how good the sex was with the other guy while simultaneously mocking me. She was the victim right up until I shoved the evidence in her face. Then I saw her true face..... I realized I never even knew her.
@@prototype9904I am sorry that happened to you bro. In the world we live in you can not fully trust anyone and that goes more so for them. Many of them have no honor or integrity. Also, never fall in love with them. Care about them but never fall for them. You have to assume they are possibly cheating and be ready to drop them at any time. You may even have to occasionally remind yourself of these things. Also, you might have to see a few women to make sure you don't develop too many feelings for just one. Maybe after years if one proves herself you can just see her but make sure you never get too comfortable where she thinks she fully has you. Lastly, never forgive betrayal and never marry them. You can seriously be with them but never marry. At least until the laws are fair. You don't have to tell her any of this of course. Just some random thoughts.
Yup, divorced men are 9x higher suicide rate than general public. Another thing I wouldn't do, besides marriage, is ride a motorcycle, where you die 26x more than normal passenger vehicles.
In states that acknowledge NF divorce, a prenup is necessary, and you better make sure it's validated by the court, that it's legally enforceable before you sign on the marriage certificate.
As long as no-fault divorce exists, men should not get married EVER. A woman can divorce you just because she's unhappy and then take you to the cleaners. A woman that leaves just because she's unhappy should get NOTHING in the divorce.
That's what nearly all women do. Women are anxious to get married, because they know they will simply put in some time, ask for a divorce, and walk away with A LOT more than they did before they were married. There are four things you can count on from a woman. 1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy. 2. They will lie to you regularly. 3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to). 4. They will cheat on you. Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also. And let's be honest, the vast majority of women spend child support money they receive on themselves - not their kids.
The real problem is alimony/child support proportionate to the income of the man though, right? NF divorce is fine and all. AKA if someone's legit unhappy, they can leave, but going through family court as a guy is basically a death sentence. I'm also from Canada, so maybe I don't fully understand what NF divorce means.
@@CabbagePatchkid-r8ethey usually make those allegations anyway. They tell a cop he did those things, cop takes him away. And it begins the documentation process to smear hi. In court so she gets the kids. And as much alimony as she can wring the judge for. So no. It wouldn't reult in more. It would change nothing.
I have been divorced twice... My second ex told every lie in the book to try to ruin my life. She even got her dad to lie against me about something that he wasn't even there to see. I was accused of abuse other things and, because of it, I have not seen my daughter in 16 years.
I caught my ex girlfriend red handed cheating on me after being together for 5 years and been single ever since been 14 years now being single 💔😭 I have major trust issues now with women
After 28 years she filed for divorce turn my kids against me and wants more than half of everything. This is my first thanksgiving alone still moving forward.
Hang in there, man. It will get easier. It's pretty damn painful, but I promise you it gets easier. Just know that the vast majority of women are like this. There are four things you can count on from a woman. 1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy. 2. They will lie to you regularly. 3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to). 4. They will cheat on you. Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also. So, just know that the vast majority of men out there are either going through or will go through the same thing (if they choose to marry). It's a huge club, my friend.
Only thing i care about holidays is this: Can i stay home doing nothing sweet. If not its just some bullshit "holiday" that has zero meaning to me at all.
Before concluding that men are "just not smart" about their women, it is critical to acknowledge that society beats men over the head for years NEFORE marriage, with the idea that if he just "steps up to the plate" and handles responsibility "like a real man," that women will _naturally fall into place in their proper roles._ TONS of men who BELIEVED that skipped past the idea of GUARDING against their wives for *THAT* reason!
I personally advocate for men not dealing with women at all, for example, if a woman calls a plumber, don't even talk to her except to tell her to have her husband call. If women find that they can't get any services, NONE at all, then they will find out that they do need men.
NOT SMART. I like the underlying premise but it's not smart to say that to a prospective client. I would recommend simply telling them that you're 1 or 2 weeks out and the only way that you could possibly get to her is to shuffle the schedule and have a "rush fee" because of the overtime you'd have to pay. So simply charge them double or even triple to getbto them in 2 or 3 days. You make money, and they still experience the joys of independence and demonstrate they're strong and powerful.
I'm in the medical field and interact with females of all types. Quite a few females have told me that they felt like the house that their husband is working long hours to pay for actually feel like he has NO AUTHORITY, APPRECIATION, OR RESPECT IN HIS THERE. HE IS SIMPLY THE GUY WHO PAYS FOR EVERYTHING AND ANNOYS THEM OCCASIONALLY. They really feel like that. She and sometimes at least one kid will openly disrespect the man taking care of them and feeds them. It was sadly enlightening and disappointing.
Listening to women in a group is educational. The disrespect for men in general is astounding. Men are nothing but walking ATMs to them. They give each other hints and advice on how to make men's lives difficult, who the best divorce lawyers are and how hide money from them, among other things. Amazingly, any man listening nearby is invisible to them. They teach each other how to disrespect. Guys, Only fools marry. Walk away.
You nailed it there. I am 65, never been married and not happy about it. My story is too long to tell but yes, I've never met a woman I'd want to have children with! My one long term relationship back in the early 80's was a bust after 10 months because she started bragging about how she could take half my life from me after we got divorced. "We were only dating at the time!" Modern women are toxic to the core.
You're not alone unfortunately. It would be nice to be married and have a few kids, but the risk is way too high versus any reward one might get unless you're Giga Chad then that might be different. You're forced to take the lesser of two evils. I know a Giga Chad and this guy could pull down his pants in the middle of the living room floor and take a sh*t right there and they would still think he is the greatest thing since sliced bread. F*ng sucks.
It's been forty years now but it still bugs me. I never completed my college degree because I was too busy making sure she could get her Masters degree. Once she had that she told me she "changed her mind" and didn't want to be married anymore. Fortunately there were no kids and no substantial property involved so we could go through a dissolution. My youngest sister ran into her a few years ago and she said that leaving me was her greatest regret. Oh well…
That tells you, they never appreciate what you did for them, only when it no longer benefits them. I Belive women can never love you, only dogs and cats.
There are four things you can count on from a woman. 1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy. 2. They will lie to you regularly. 3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to). 4. They will cheat on you. Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also. And let's be honest, the vast majority of women spend child support money they receive on themselves - not their kids.
Been over 40 years since my wife left after I put her through medical school. I had an engineering degree before meeting her so I was already building my career, but all the promises of love and support ended with her graduation. I have not seen her in almost 40 years, and I actually think I am much better off. I wish we had had material like the young men have today.
“Receptionist: How do you write women so well? Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.” ― Melvin Udall played by Jack Nicholson in AS GOOD AS IT GETS.
I'm 50 years and have never have been married and no children. I dodged a bullet. I think I can really understand how the men feel. I would never want to go through this. Be banging my head against the wall or completely lose it. Getting married and marrying the wrong women and then having to go through a divorce and dealing with the courts and the attorneys, this is simply not worth it by getting married at all. Paying child support or alimony. Men are simply better off just dating or being alone.
There are four things you can count on from a woman. 1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy. 2. They will lie to you regularly. 3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to). 4. They will cheat on you. Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also. And let's be honest, the vast majority of women spend child support money they receive on themselves - not their kids.
BS, I'm at over 30 yrs with an amazing woman. I'll never ever take her for granted, especially watching content like this and knowing what it's like out there. If you have a quality woman, make sure to appreciate her and treat her well. Always, always be improving yourself. Become the envy of her friends and you're golden.
As to marriage... A non Religious AMEN to that here too... I was THRILLED when she Finally told me she thought we should separate. . I knew it was Thank Gawd Coming, and it was all I could do not to jump up in the living room and Howler: YIPPIE n THANK YOU in the name of Barbara Eden - Finally !! " I'll write you a cheque baby, and you GET TO PACKING UP " Can you be out BY Tonight !??!! I actually . . just Calmly said while Trying HARD Not to Smile n Laugh - Ok U BET. Then i just Calmly went to my bar off the kitchen ~ turned on either the Doobies or the Eagles? ~ and i started to Casually Celebrate like i was all alone = as Per Usual, as she was ALWAYS Sleeping. I didn't even offer her a drink, or offer to talk about it < as she had already L.T. $$$crewed me for Enough of Everything except For XXX = me living 99% Celibate for Years. I've loonnng forgotten about all these made up holidays anymore - Xmas is obviously the easy one = only as To all the decor, music, lights n Sometimes some snow. < i could also easily do without snow TOO. " 35 VERY Happy Years Ago now for Me ! " . . a good thing with No Kids.
@@lovinsnotfun-eranymore5213 - I used to liken s x with my ex as a starving man in prison being fed barely enough to remain alive. *MAYBE* once a month, and even then her whole participation was simply physically being in the room, but she was never actually present. After a while the whole idea became repugnant to me, and I know that that was her goal. And in the divorce the judge gave her everything except my clothes. Because, you know, "for the good of the kids".
@@lovinsnotfun-eranymore5213 - - I used to liken s x with my ex as a starving man in prison being fed barely enough to remain alive. *MAYBE* once a month, and even then her whole participation was simply physically being in the room, but she was never actually present.
@@lovinsnotfun-eranymore5213 - After a while the whole idea became repugnant to me, and I know that that was her goal. And in the divorce the judge gave her everything except my clothes. Because, you know, "for the good of the kids".
As long as no fault divorce exists, alimony and child support are not regulated to reasonable levels then marriage simply isn’t an option for men. Marriage isn’t possible because of feminism.
"And the tyrant, in the first place, is a creature of a despot, and what is more, in his time women have a good time." -Socrates (Plato's Republic. In Book 8)
My ex mother in law tried to get my ex when she filed for divorce to fill a VPO on me. And i never laid a hand on that woman or even raised my voice at her. It was actually the other way around. Many marriages are destroyed because of in-laws especially the mother's. And it's mostly womens parents doing this. Not Mens. Our law makers need to change the laws. Where men can start taking these mother in law monsters to court for emotional distress. And take them to the cleaners.
Not to jinx us but just wait till "no fault divorce" becomes "reparations for failure to marry" or some bs. Like taxes on "unrealized capital gains" but for divorce.
Lost my job 3 months ago - been single 2.5 years - life is difficult but it's peaceful at least. After my last partner blindsided me and wanted to randomly end the relationship, I've given up on relationships and become celibate - I'm just focusing on finding a job and working towards buying a house.
well... 'behavioral sink' trajectory is sailed on. they'll get it with the iron armoured fist, eventually. but it's been too late for whiles hitherto already.
My ex-girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me because she asked why I don't talk badly about Trump, and all I said was "I just think differently". That was enough for her to scream and yell at me, I never raised my voice once, I tried speaking as calmly as I could, but then she was she's breaking up with me and to leave her place. I've given her so much of my time and love, I've done so many things for her, I cared about her deeply, yet it only took a disagreement on politics to lash out at me
Haha, well workers should get higher salary though distribute the money more, but if she was like the 2005 comment etc but its like no one is completely a bad person probably didnt break up cause of politics, really, etc but if she did she did
I am very sorry to hear that. Thank you for your service to our country! I don't think people realize how much work and commitment that takes. There are four things you can count on from a woman. 1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy. 2. They will lie to you regularly. 3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to). 4. They will cheat on you. Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also.
Got married at 31. Her parents were in the classic "wife wants divorce after husband retires and is in her house " scenario. Mom miscalculated. I watched my father in law endure the family he provided for switching sides to who they thought was going to come out better. Should have learned then.
My first thanksgiving after divorce is final, second after she kicked my out..3rd after she called it quits...i am at work on thanksgiving. I have no savings anymore, starting over from scratch. But I am thankfull for my kids.
There are four things you can count on from a woman. 1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy. 2. They will lie to you regularly. 3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to). 4. They will cheat on you. Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also. And let's be honest, the vast majority of women spend child support money they receive on themselves - not their kids.
A few years ago I had to leave because I called police when she attacked me, I left with nowhere to go with some clothes , I was blessed that I could stay at a friend's house until I could get back again
Average is a majority that use to be well centered and balanced. That majority of that average has crazily moved extremely left of the spectrum leaving the center empty and unbalanced catapulting the rest off with no chance of society recovering from the decay from feminism.
Eight years ago she walked out and blew up everything I’d spent 39 years building. Thanksgiving used to be a joyous time for me. Nowadays, it’s a hard time of year. Thankfully my parents are still around
Thanks for being an advocate and speaking out against what's wrong in society with alot of women of today. Means alot coming from a wise woman and not from a worldly woman that calls out the BS of the feminism and Jezebels.
Like you said, "TicTok is where women journal their THOTs." There is a movement (or more like a philosophy/ideology and just a reaction to current environments) called - MGTOW and more and more men each day are embracing it.
My ex wife literally drove me insane before she left, taking all our possessions and money with her when she left. What she doesn't know is I gladly gave her everything just to go away. Never again.
The court video hits hard on Thanksgiving. Broke my back and the wife is divorcing me. In a contested divorce to get as much as she can. She was a wonderful wife for 17 yrs.
@@FarfromEden So what is the end goal of all this? To tell men we should just be alone forever? I mean I guess I could survive it. It is better than dealing with a narcissistic psycho in your home that spends every waking moment siphoning up your energy and love until she drains you and leaves you high and dry(just went through this) but I mean...Is this really where we are? I don't want to just give up, even with all the pain I've endured.
Happy Thanksgiving! My mom just checked in with one of her childhood best friends. I asked how her kids were doing since they are around my age. She had 3 kids (2 girl 1 boy). They all got married and all got divorced. 1 boy and 1 girl had multiple kids. I would be so sad to be a parent and have all my kids end up in failed marriages. I'm glad they had some kids, but the poor kids won't have stable childhoods. Be sure to stay thankful for what you have while you have it. There's a lot of change coming next year, so keep in touch with all of your connections. Keep your network strong and add to it as you can. Stay together and stay warm everyone!
I'm 52, dated plenty of women in my past, and have been married and divorced in 2000. After going back into the dating scene after my divorce for a while, I found that women, especially a bit younger than me, are not interested in a true committed relationship! I found they just want either sex or someone to support them and pay their bills! They have no self respect and many are so lazy! I've now after years of searching,and finding the same problems, have absolutely checked out of even looking anymore! I've been single for 25 years and actually enjoy it! I rather be single than with a person that's not a fit for me ever again!!
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
What disgusts me in the dating scene is that it's considered an "ick" for a man to be distrustful of women. Yet the same women are encouraged to be distrustful of men AND EXPECT MEN TO BE OK WITH BEING TREATED WITH DISTRUST, even though she would never do the same for him.
I got divorced after she left me for my friend, my son was 4 months old, 1. No one cares, u gotta care for yourself and 2. Never buy roses, its emotional abuse to spoil your wife as per why she did it. 10 years single and not looking back
In caring about others, we find purpose. It's called "love". Some people have bought into lies, instead. The mask of true exploitation: Feminism told women that the career (consumerism and the production/extraction of monetary value) was the true meaning of life. A husband?! A family?! All of that is a detriment! That stuff is about them; not you! Even your children are ruining your life, just by existing! They're costing you what really matters! Now get out there! Go to your dumb job, to make stupid money, so you can pay ridiculous bills! That's what living is all about! Be miserable and pretend you're not!
My ex-wife fell victim to FACEBOOK FOMO AND JONES ' SYNDROME. I made mistakes but I overlooked some character flaws that I GAVE A PASS for loving an imperfect person. CLASSIC turn 40 and not happy anymore. Then spread lies to save face and cosign leaving. Shoulda known better...
We don't hate women... we hate evil people. 💯 if a woman like you was the face of feminism... men would follow till the ends of the earth. We'd accept any change you felt was needed. Because we trust your faith 👑💯
Even with all the negativity in this world, thank you for your message. It is raining outside and you know, as an agnostic I do thank whatever higher power that might be out there for the rain.
Been married and divorced twice. No kids. Will probably never have kids at this point. I’ve made my peace with that because there is literally no upside to dealing with modern dating/relationships. The article you read just confirms what we already knew. No one gives a shyte about men’s struggles and we are only loved on the condition that we provide something. The moment we are viewed as “no longer useful” we are discarded without pity or remorse.
Very sweet of you, thank you for the kind words. I thought about you yesterday. I was just hoping you were ok. You feel like family to me. Your always looking out for us. I know I've learned a lot from you. Can't believe how naive I was. Just had no idea about women, and how they can be just as bad as any man if not worse. I've spent most of my life by myself. Even when I was married I drove a truck for 1/3 of it, and then spent years taking shifts to watch my step son for 24/7 care. I can say I've gotten used to it. It is nice sometimes, but I always have a longing for a woman. I think that's just in a mans biology. I can't wait to move so I can get a puppy. I really need a companion. I think that would help me move on and get out more. The only time I'm getting out is to work or fix someones car and the basic needs. All my socializing is right here. I can't tell you how much I appreciate being able to get on here and vent and tell my story. It's my safe space. Listening to you just helps calm the nerves. No matter if your mad or happy, I just love to see and hear you. Ok, I don't want to get to mushy :) It is crazy that these women get on tiktok and completely roast themselves. I swear if I meet a woman and she has a tiktok account I'm going to run for the hills. The amount of hate and misinformation on there is disturbing to say the least. LOL Leave your husband after you have been together for years it's liberating and empowering. You know, after I thought about some things. I think if your having troubles in a relationship, just take a break from each other for awhile. Don't go and cheat, just go and be by yourself for a min. That will help you appreciate each other again. Sounds good doesn't it? That's probably a good solution, but with all the social media and dating apps, women will never be alone. The temptation to move on is to great and easy. Happy late Thanksgiving Erin! Hi Lola! Love you guys, God bless.
I got the #redpill when I was just 8 years old, I'm 42 now and I'm still #MGTOW and happy with my life, the older I get the more I think I made the right choices in my life.
" I Have Always LoVed Seeing n LOOKING AT Horses " I've never been religious. SAD to Hear that the Stallion died after - but I'm absolutely Jubilant to Hear that it killed that cat = n saved the mother and it's young foul !!!!
Hi Erin, hope ya had a great Thanksgiving too. I did. My daughter and I enjoyed the day at my son's home this year. Men have no safety net and have no choice but to be good just to get along in this world to stay off the streets. The women, well they play the victim card and the SA card........
"How irreparably changed my life has become. It's always the last day of summer and I've been left out in the cold with no door to get back in. I'll grant you I've had more than my share of poignant moments. Life passes most people by while they're making grand plans for it. Throughout my lifetime, I've left pieces of my heart here and there. And now, there's almost not enough to stay alive. But I force a smile, knowing that my ambition far exceeded my talent. There are no more white horses or pretty ladies at my door." ~ George (Blow)
I am the guy who failed at society. I am at the edge, observing the inside. Like standing at a defiled pool, refusing to take a swim. I am unemployed and broke. Never had a gf. I live by myself in a small apartment. I have many interests - psychology, philosophy, health science - but dont want to contribute to this rotten capitalistic system. I am just done with it all. And Erin you are completely spot on that nobody genuinely cares about men's well-being, except their mothers. Men who fall off the boat may just suffer, drown and die. What a tragedy...
Hang in there. Get through the near term and you may find a reason to keep going. I highly advise people to get into some sort of regular endurance training. Not only are the endorphin and dopamine hits great. Your mental will also lift as you see and feel physical changes.
Great Video !!! Love your shirt!!! I am beyond repair... Men need to have the scales fall from their eyes and deal with reality instead of fantasy. Find out what the really wealthy do to protect their assets, before, you make a stupid commitment.. If the relationship eventually ends ,you may be able to tell her : Sorry Honey... You married a pauper.. All the assets I have access to, are owned by third parties, I have nothing. If this is done right by good lawyers, before hand it's pretty effective..
Those women are so self centered and selfish. Nice outtro by the way. As much as you're thankful to have us all be a part in your life, we are thankful you are just as much a part in ours. Bless your heart.
I went before a female judge. she berated me from the moment I walked into the court room, threatened to jail me every time I tried to speak. I was representing myself because I didn't the money for an attorney thanks to the woman that cleaned out our bank account, took everything except for my clothes. Like many men today I'll never take the chance to marry again, even the courts are against you. Women expect everything including their own happiness from men. If a woman choses to be unhappy there is nothing a man can to do to change it.
I’m noticing that the women who prioritize their own happiness aren’t happy at all. Perhaps complaining about everyone being unworthy makes them happy on the inside. She shouldn’t worry; men are removing ourselves from society at large. Many men will make the best of loneliness instead of being seen as a burden or a threat at large.
As a divorce attorney, I agree that you really can't say that female Judges will always favor the wife in divorce cases. A high percentage of them immediately recognize female bullshit and rule accordingly. This Judge is behaving consistent with my experience. Divorce cases are tough on Judges. It is rare that they see evidence other than the testimony of the parties and everything becomes a "he said vs. she said" scenario. But every now and then the husband can present evidence like the forged documents the Judge talks about in this clip, which the women then denies ever having actually signed, which makes her twice the liar. The Judge has now learned that the woman is a liar, and that will give the Judge perfect guidance as to who wins the "he said vs. she said" battle. The guy may not be presenting 100% truth, but the Judge will now believe him, anyway, because she won't believe anything the women says. Imagine the frustration of being a Family Court Judge and never having absolute certainty about who is telling the truth in divorce cases. When you do get affirmation of who the decent spouse is, woe be it unto the lying one.
See my earlier comment and try telling me that again. Judges have their hands tied The first judge I went before was male allowed me to speak, even said I was right. but god forbid he'll set a precedent.
@@stephencline1884 I did a word search for your name and found no earlier comment. Maybe I didn't get all 703 comments on my screen before searching. Most of the time, when I am confronted by a man who blasts the divorce court system, I find that they did not hire a lawyer to represent them in their divorce. I'll agree the system is "biased" to the degree that women generally still earn less than men and still spend a lot of time having and raising the kids. The goal of the court system is to split the wealth built during the marriage 50-50. That will most of the time result in the man thinking that what he earned is being given to the ex-wife at his expense. I'll also agree that the system gives custody to the mother way too often, and that the party who obtains custody is likely to also get the marital home, which is the only home the kids may have ever lived in. The Judge is supposed to offset that allocation by giving the man an equal-value asset. In most cases, that will be his retirement program, which is not really much use to him. He will have to wait decades to access it. People outside of the legal system typically don't realize that retirement assets are divisible in a divorce. Also, alimony is payable to either spouse in a long-term marriage, but men typically make more money than women, so they are the ones who are typically ordered to pay it.
Hello Erin, on a lighter note, I have to admit I smile and enjoy the times when you get annoyed and mimick the funny voices etc. It makes me laugh, which is no bad thing. At times, I think I caught a glimpse of your heart, which is a beautiful thing indeed. I imagine very many people will take inspiration from your message and be lifted, as I am. It's clear that everything you impart is heartfelt and sincere. Simply, thank you.
I thank you for what you are doing for us men. About 5 yrs living on my own and what I do to deal with this period of my life well when im sad I just eat a nice steak and all my problems are gone 😂
Having only heard what you say in only the second vid ive seen of yours. And from a woman is something i never would have expected. I went into your 1st vid i saw with high hopes but , had low expectarions. Im so glad i was wrong to pre judge. Ive seen so many guys do vids like this and you are better. And to hear it from a woman and the way you say it , makes me reailze im more of a man than ive been lead to believe. Thanks!!! Subscribed.
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You never met your wife until you’ve met her in court.
Or her mother. If she’s crazy, that’s what you’re getting with her daughter.
I'm about to find out.
@@brucesmith9144I wish someone had told me 40 years ago that you have spend time with a woman’s parents, especially her mother, to see what she will become in the future.
Spot on. It happened to me.
She even brought the guy she ran off with to rub my nose in it.
She wasn't content in destroying the family. She is a sick and twisted woman, thank god she's out of my life.
@@kylecurryyt i should have seen that too
I figured that out when my wife, whom I loved dearly, had been cheating on me for months and when caught looked at me like I was nuts and then left, ending our marriage. That taught me two things (at least): 1) a man’s love has no value to a woman, and 2) a woman’s wedding vows become null and void the second she is unhappy for any reason.
A similar situation happened to me. Lived with a woman for a couple years, she pressured me to marry her. The usual crying emotional manipulation and withholding sex type behavior. Then within the first 6 months I caught her cheating on me purely by accident. I was walking by her computer and noticed it hadn't been fully shut down, it had an error and kinda froze. I noticed the lights on with a blank screen, so upon further investigation and to my complete surprise, her last message hadn't been sent and was still displayed on the screen. I was very damning, and totally blindsided me.... I played it cool at first and asked the preliminary questions, she had all the excuses ready to go. Then I showed her the message of her bragging to her girl friends about how good the sex was with the other guy while simultaneously mocking me. She was the victim right up until I shoved the evidence in her face. Then I saw her true face..... I realized I never even knew her.
@@prototype9904I am sorry that happened to you bro. In the world we live in you can not fully trust anyone and that goes more so for them. Many of them have no honor or integrity. Also, never fall in love with them. Care about them but never fall for them. You have to assume they are possibly cheating and be ready to drop them at any time. You may even have to occasionally remind yourself of these things. Also, you might have to see a few women to make sure you don't develop too many feelings for just one. Maybe after years if one proves herself you can just see her but make sure you never get too comfortable where she thinks she fully has you. Lastly, never forgive betrayal and never marry them. You can seriously be with them but never marry. At least until the laws are fair. You don't have to tell her any of this of course. Just some random thoughts.
@@dantestanley4927 Thanks for the reply m8, definitely some good points to consider
Who. Is used when the relative pronoun refers to the subject of the sentence.
The vows are just words she uses to get you to sign a contract that she profits from.
"Family" court and no-fault divorce is why marriage rates are at historic lows. There is nothing but stress and loss for men in most divorces.
Yup, divorced men are 9x higher suicide rate than general public. Another thing I wouldn't do, besides marriage, is ride a motorcycle, where you die 26x more than normal passenger vehicles.
Absolutely Spot On!!
You think with a name like "No fault divorce", there would be no faults. Seems to be a play on words.
Men aren't freaking out over getting rid of no fault divorce.
Because divorce isn't part of their marriage plans.
In states that acknowledge NF divorce, a prenup is necessary, and you better make sure it's validated by the court, that it's legally enforceable before you sign on the marriage certificate.
As long as no-fault divorce exists, men should not get married EVER.
A woman can divorce you just because she's unhappy and then take you to the cleaners.
A woman that leaves just because she's unhappy should get NOTHING in the divorce.
That's what nearly all women do. Women are anxious to get married, because they know they will simply put in some time, ask for a divorce, and walk away with A LOT more than they did before they were married.
There are four things you can count on from a woman.
1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy.
2. They will lie to you regularly.
3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to).
4. They will cheat on you.
Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also. And let's be honest, the vast majority of women spend child support money they receive on themselves - not their kids.
Yup.
The real problem is alimony/child support proportionate to the income of the man though, right?
NF divorce is fine and all. AKA if someone's legit unhappy, they can leave, but going through family court as a guy is basically a death sentence.
I'm also from Canada, so maybe I don't fully understand what NF divorce means.
The thing is, if no fault divorce went away, you'd have a lot more false SA or DA allegations
@@CabbagePatchkid-r8ethey usually make those allegations anyway. They tell a cop he did those things, cop takes him away. And it begins the documentation process to smear hi. In court so she gets the kids. And as much alimony as she can wring the judge for. So no. It wouldn't reult in more. It would change nothing.
I have been divorced twice... My second ex told every lie in the book to try to ruin my life. She even got her dad to lie against me about something that he wasn't even there to see. I was accused of abuse other things and, because of it, I have not seen my daughter in 16 years.
It’s the modern women’s play book
That's the norm.
Just don’t get married again.
Stay strong Bro
Didn't you learn from the first time. There is a reason the Bible states you can't marry a second time until that partner has passed on.
I caught my ex girlfriend red handed cheating on me after being together for 5 years and been single ever since been 14 years now being single 💔😭 I have major trust issues now with women
Same here my ex take off 2 deeds without me knowing about it
Dont we all.. she was the love of my life, and she threw it all away on our anniversary. Never again.
Alot of women cheat its disgusting as fuck
@victorramsey5575 same here it's not worth it anymore
Messed up thing is, she would have got on with her life after and the guy she slept with, your life was turned upside down and you cant trust again
After 28 years she filed for divorce turn my kids against me and wants more than half of everything. This is my first thanksgiving alone still moving forward.
Stay strong bro….it does get easier….I know, I’ve been there…..it is so peaceful now
Hang in there, man. It will get easier. It's pretty damn painful, but I promise you it gets easier. Just know that the vast majority of women are like this.
There are four things you can count on from a woman.
1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy.
2. They will lie to you regularly.
3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to).
4. They will cheat on you.
Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also.
So, just know that the vast majority of men out there are either going through or will go through the same thing (if they choose to marry). It's a huge club, my friend.
Gotcha
That's horrible, but you have the strength to move forward and prove yourself to be the better person.
I don't think most men care about holidays. I didn't know it was Thanksgiving until I tried to go to the store at 8:00 p.m. tonight
Right lol. 💯. I forgot until I got hungry on that day and went to a supermarket. Wow, all this turkey and chicken on sale.
Youre right they wouldnt care but their wifey sure does 😂
Only thing i care about holidays is this: Can i stay home doing nothing sweet. If not its just some bullshit "holiday" that has zero meaning to me at all.
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😅 Yep, I forget holidays and my birthday as well. 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😅
I don't know when the superbowl is until the appetizers specials start showing up in the aisles
Before concluding that men are "just not smart" about their women, it is critical to acknowledge that society beats men over the head for years NEFORE marriage, with the idea that if he just "steps up to the plate" and handles responsibility "like a real man," that women will _naturally fall into place in their proper roles._ TONS of men who BELIEVED that skipped past the idea of GUARDING against their wives for *THAT* reason!
I personally advocate for men not dealing with women at all, for example, if a woman calls a plumber, don't even talk to her except to tell her to have her husband call.
If women find that they can't get any services, NONE at all, then they will find out that they do need men.
Hmmmm...
Unfortunately if you do that they can sue you for discrimination. Not saying i don't like the idea.
NOT SMART. I like the underlying premise but it's not smart to say that to a prospective client.
I would recommend simply telling them that you're 1 or 2 weeks out and the only way that you could possibly get to her is to shuffle the schedule and have a "rush fee" because of the overtime you'd have to pay.
So simply charge them double or even triple to getbto them in 2 or 3 days.
You make money, and they still experience the joys of independence and demonstrate they're strong and powerful.
❤ Exactly.
I'm in the medical field and interact with females of all types. Quite a few females have told me that they felt like the house that their husband is working long hours to pay for actually feel like he has NO AUTHORITY, APPRECIATION, OR RESPECT IN HIS THERE. HE IS SIMPLY THE GUY WHO PAYS FOR EVERYTHING AND ANNOYS THEM OCCASIONALLY. They really feel like that. She and sometimes at least one kid will openly disrespect the man taking care of them and feeds them. It was sadly enlightening and disappointing.
Listening to women in a group is educational. The disrespect for men in general is astounding. Men are nothing but walking ATMs to them. They give each other hints and advice on how to make men's lives difficult, who the best divorce lawyers are and how hide money from them, among other things. Amazingly, any man listening nearby is invisible to them. They teach each other how to disrespect. Guys, Only fools marry. Walk away.
Evil
Waouw...
That is beyond ordinary female nature, that's a toxic sociopathic human being @AnonforYeshua77777
The children are only reflecting on the way she is treating him.
You nailed it there. I am 65, never been married and not happy about it. My story is too long to tell but yes, I've never met a woman I'd want to have children with! My one long term relationship back in the early 80's was a bust after 10 months because she started bragging about how she could take half my life from me after we got divorced. "We were only dating at the time!" Modern women are toxic to the core.
Thank God you were only dating at the time. You dodged a bullet.
😂..dodged a bullet there!
You're not alone unfortunately. It would be nice to be married and have a few kids, but the risk is way too high versus any reward one might get unless you're Giga Chad then that might be different. You're forced to take the lesser of two evils. I know a Giga Chad and this guy could pull down his pants in the middle of the living room floor and take a sh*t right there and they would still think he is the greatest thing since sliced bread. F*ng sucks.
@@rebelandboltman and good thing she belted it out for all to hear.
They only love themselves and what you can do for them.
It's been forty years now but it still bugs me.
I never completed my college degree because I was too busy making sure she could get her Masters degree. Once she had that she told me she "changed her mind" and didn't want to be married anymore.
Fortunately there were no kids and no substantial property involved so we could go through a dissolution.
My youngest sister ran into her a few years ago and she said that leaving me was her greatest regret. Oh well…
It fucked up, women chase their happiness at the expense of everything else in some cases even their own family
That tells you, they never appreciate what you did for them, only when it no longer benefits them. I Belive women can never love you, only dogs and cats.
There are four things you can count on from a woman.
1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy.
2. They will lie to you regularly.
3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to).
4. They will cheat on you.
Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also. And let's be honest, the vast majority of women spend child support money they receive on themselves - not their kids.
@hdcvo2570 that's not all women, no need to generalize.
Been over 40 years since my wife left after I put her through medical school. I had an engineering degree before meeting her so I was already building my career, but all the promises of love and support ended with her graduation. I have not seen her in almost 40 years, and I actually think I am much better off. I wish we had had material like the young men have today.
First Thanksgiving in my life when I spent it alone... even when I was in the Army deployed during holidays I wasn't alone...
It is what it is.
Your not alone we always have each other's back and will always love each other our bond is real Jesus Christ is the only other you need
I hear you. You are not the only one. Especially with holidays. Thanks for your service.
Being alone is much easier than living with someone that makes you feel alone.
Never alone Brother!!
I feel you. My wife left six months ago with our 6week old daughter.
“Receptionist: How do you write women so well?
Melvin Udall: I think of a man, and I take away reason and accountability.”
― Melvin Udall played by Jack Nicholson in AS GOOD AS IT GETS.
BullsEye
My favorite movie quote of all time
I'm 50 years and have never have been married and no children. I dodged a bullet. I think I can really understand how the men feel. I would never want to go through this. Be banging my head against the wall or completely lose it. Getting married and marrying the wrong women and then having to go through a divorce and dealing with the courts and the attorneys, this is simply not worth it by getting married at all. Paying child support or alimony. Men are simply better off just dating or being alone.
There is no right woman.
There are four things you can count on from a woman.
1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy.
2. They will lie to you regularly.
3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to).
4. They will cheat on you.
Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also. And let's be honest, the vast majority of women spend child support money they receive on themselves - not their kids.
BS, I'm at over 30 yrs with an amazing woman. I'll never ever take her for granted, especially watching content like this and knowing what it's like out there.
If you have a quality woman, make sure to appreciate her and treat her well. Always, always be improving yourself. Become the envy of her friends and you're golden.
@@ronh1850 met a good woman online. over 50 and no kids and no baggage. I'm thankful for her 7 years. They are out there but hard to find.
@@ronh1850lf ... you're lucky ...
I'm by myself today on Thanksgiving.
But I was never more alone than when I was married.
As to marriage... A non Religious AMEN to that here too... I was THRILLED when she Finally told me she thought we should separate. . I knew it was Thank Gawd Coming, and it was all I could do not to jump up in the living room and Howler: YIPPIE n THANK YOU in the name of Barbara Eden - Finally !! " I'll write you a cheque baby, and you GET TO PACKING UP " Can you be out BY Tonight !??!! I actually . . just Calmly said while Trying HARD Not to Smile n Laugh - Ok U BET. Then i just Calmly went to my bar off the kitchen ~ turned on either the Doobies or the Eagles? ~ and i started to Casually Celebrate like i was all alone = as Per Usual, as she was ALWAYS Sleeping. I didn't even offer her a drink, or offer to talk about it < as she had already L.T. $$$crewed me for Enough of Everything except For XXX = me living 99% Celibate for Years. I've loonnng forgotten about all these made up holidays anymore - Xmas is obviously the easy one = only as To all the decor, music, lights n Sometimes some snow. < i could also easily do without snow TOO. " 35 VERY Happy Years Ago now for Me ! " . . a good thing with No Kids.
@@lovinsnotfun-eranymore5213 - I used to liken s x with my ex as a starving man in prison being fed barely enough to remain alive.
*MAYBE* once a month, and even then her whole participation was simply physically being in the room, but she was never actually present.
After a while the whole idea became repugnant to me, and I know that that was her goal.
And in the divorce the judge gave her everything except my clothes. Because, you know, "for the good of the kids".
@@lovinsnotfun-eranymore5213 - I see that my response has been deleted.
Imagine that.
@@lovinsnotfun-eranymore5213 -
- I used to liken s x with my ex as a starving man in prison being fed barely enough to remain alive.
*MAYBE* once a month, and even then her whole participation was simply physically being in the room, but she was never actually present.
@@lovinsnotfun-eranymore5213 -
After a while the whole idea became repugnant to me, and I know that that was her goal.
And in the divorce the judge gave her everything except my clothes. Because, you know, "for the good of the kids".
My last gf was 7 years ago, when I was 35, its looking like I will be single for the rest of my God given life.
I know how you feel. I'm in that same position and feel that same realization setting in.
If that lady couldn't even control her attitude with a judge just imagine what it was like being married to her
As long as no fault divorce exists, alimony and child support are not regulated to reasonable levels then marriage simply isn’t an option for men. Marriage isn’t possible because of feminism.
Can't be trusted, can't be held accountable legally or otherwise, can't be criticized, who in their right mind wants anything to do with that??
"And the tyrant, in the first place, is a creature of a despot, and what is more, in his time women have a good time."
-Socrates (Plato's Republic. In Book 8)
Women are easily possessed
Beware of mother-in-laws with tentacles equipped with hooks, claws, and beaks; for that matter anyone…
Erin you look lovely today.I hope all is well.Happy Thanksgiving to you and lola🦃🎉👋🤗
Ain't THAT the truth!
my problem was the mother in law wouldn't keep her nose out of my family.
@ same here.
My ex mother in law tried to get my ex when she filed for divorce to fill a VPO on me. And i never laid a hand on that woman or even raised my voice at her. It was actually the other way around. Many marriages are destroyed because of in-laws especially the mother's. And it's mostly womens parents doing this. Not Mens. Our law makers need to change the laws. Where men can start taking these mother in law monsters to court for emotional distress. And take them to the cleaners.
If a man never marries then he will never have to be divorced.
...and will likely be happier with a more lucrative retirement. Seriously.
No Woman No Cry. Bob Marley
Not to jinx us but just wait till "no fault divorce" becomes "reparations for failure to marry" or some bs. Like taxes on "unrealized capital gains" but for divorce.
Lost my job 3 months ago - been single 2.5 years - life is difficult but it's peaceful at least. After my last partner blindsided me and wanted to randomly end the relationship, I've given up on relationships and become celibate - I'm just focusing on finding a job and working towards buying a house.
Sorry about your experience. Take care.
I feel you. I've had some bad experiences with dating and I've given up on it over 10 years ago. Been celibate ever since. Good luck on finding a job.
These women do realize their pride and arrogance in being cruel to men will be their greatest downfall right? Or am I wrong here?
nah they don't "feel" that haha
You're not wrong.
well... 'behavioral sink' trajectory is sailed on. they'll get it with the iron armoured fist, eventually. but it's been too late for whiles hitherto already.
It will end in tears. Though they know it not!
in the old days it was "you break it you bought it" for men but for women it went on either their father's or husband's tab.
My ex-girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me because she asked why I don't talk badly about Trump, and all I said was "I just think differently". That was enough for her to scream and yell at me, I never raised my voice once, I tried speaking as calmly as I could, but then she was she's breaking up with me and to leave her place. I've given her so much of my time and love, I've done so many things for her, I cared about her deeply, yet it only took a disagreement on politics to lash out at me
Haha, well workers should get higher salary though distribute the money more, but if she was like the 2005 comment etc but its like no one is completely a bad person probably didnt break up cause of politics, really, etc but if she did she did
Don't date liberals. Or even be friends with them tbh.
You’re slow . Why would you move into a woman’s house? First rule of manhood . I hope you pick yourself up
Dodged the bullet on that one dude. you got out lucky
@@ps123fan WTF are you trying to say? You write like an insane person, you make no legible sense.
Thanksgiving 1992, right after desert storm. My now ex asked for a divorce, leaving me a single parent. Good times!
I am very sorry to hear that. Thank you for your service to our country! I don't think people realize how much work and commitment that takes.
There are four things you can count on from a woman.
1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy.
2. They will lie to you regularly.
3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to).
4. They will cheat on you.
Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also.
Still hung up about that hag all these years later 😂
Got married at 31. Her parents were in the classic "wife wants divorce after husband retires and is in her house " scenario. Mom miscalculated. I watched my father in law endure the family he provided for switching sides to who they thought was going to come out better. Should have learned then.
To win is to lose. This is beyond debate. Any man with eyes to see and ears to hear knows this.
Woe unto the man who doesn't look before he leaps.
Thanks for stepping up to be a woman providing much needed support and understanding that many men need. 👍
My first thanksgiving after divorce is final, second after she kicked my out..3rd after she called it quits...i am at work on thanksgiving. I have no savings anymore, starting over from scratch. But I am thankfull for my kids.
❤ I am so sorry
There are four things you can count on from a woman.
1. Women have no interest in your happiness. They are only interested in what can be done to make them happy.
2. They will lie to you regularly.
3. They will manipulate you (or at least attempt to).
4. They will cheat on you.
Most women are attention whores, and they are always looking for greener grass, married or not. Marriage has no meaning to women. The only reason marriage makes them happy is that they know they will eventually be able to divorce you and walk away with assets they didn't have when they were married. And if they have kids, then women know they can put the men they divorce on the hook for child support also. And let's be honest, the vast majority of women spend child support money they receive on themselves - not their kids.
thats the risk a man takes
Given time she'll turn your kids against you too.
A few years ago I had to leave because I called police when she attacked me, I left with nowhere to go with some clothes , I was blessed that I could stay at a friend's house until I could get back again
Average women have changed so much it’s scary, I say that as a woman who has watched things become what they are now.
Average is a majority that use to be well centered and balanced. That majority of that average has crazily moved extremely left of the spectrum leaving the center empty and unbalanced catapulting the rest off with no chance of society recovering from the decay from feminism.
You think the devil give women power for no reason?
Younger women are covered in tattoos addiction to social media drugs entitled attitude's
Eight years ago she walked out and blew up everything I’d spent 39 years building. Thanksgiving used to be a joyous time for me. Nowadays, it’s a hard time of year. Thankfully my parents are still around
The holidays are a sensitive time of year. Especially, when you work hard and not much fruit is born, and no one seems to care. It's rough.
Andrew, you matter, you have a value many won’t ever understand. I’m someone who cares about you, praying for you now
@Steve-iq2ux Thank You.
👍🏽🙏🏾💪🏾🫡
"Men are done because they KNOW women do not care about them." This pretty much sums it up, well this does too 20:20.
I just discovered a new person who likes common sense. Just subscribed
Thanks for being an advocate and speaking out against what's wrong in society with alot of women of today. Means alot coming from a wise woman and not from a worldly woman that calls out the BS of the feminism and Jezebels.
You seem like such a kind soul.
Textbook example of having the right to remain silent but not having the ability to remain silent.
Like you said, "TicTok is where women journal their THOTs."
There is a movement (or more like a philosophy/ideology and just a reaction to current environments) called -
MGTOW and more and more men each day are embracing it.
Completely agree. I have bought a sailboat and am leaving the coast. I'll just be a refugee.
I had a judge actively call my ex her “sister” and was a self proclaimed feminist author. The divorce industrial complex is an 8 figure racket.
My ex wife literally drove me insane before she left, taking all our possessions and money with her when she left. What she doesn't know is I gladly gave her everything just to go away. Never again.
The court video hits hard on Thanksgiving. Broke my back and the wife is divorcing me. In a contested divorce to get as much as she can.
She was a wonderful wife for 17 yrs.
I’m sorry to hear that. 🙏
I’m so sorry!!
@@FarfromEden So what is the end goal of all this? To tell men we should just be alone forever? I mean I guess I could survive it. It is better than dealing with a narcissistic psycho in your home that spends every waking moment siphoning up your energy and love until she drains you and leaves you high and dry(just went through this) but I mean...Is this really where we are? I don't want to just give up, even with all the pain I've endured.
@@unafflictedgamingin one word, change. She recognizes that the present situation is not stable and seeks to balance it before society collapses.
@@unafflictedgaming Then don't, good luck to you
Happy Thanksgiving!
My mom just checked in with one of her childhood best friends. I asked how her kids were doing since they are around my age. She had 3 kids (2 girl 1 boy). They all got married and all got divorced. 1 boy and 1 girl had multiple kids. I would be so sad to be a parent and have all my kids end up in failed marriages. I'm glad they had some kids, but the poor kids won't have stable childhoods. Be sure to stay thankful for what you have while you have it. There's a lot of change coming next year, so keep in touch with all of your connections. Keep your network strong and add to it as you can. Stay together and stay warm everyone!
Thank you, Erin. For taking some of your time today to look out for all of us who ate missing our kid's.
I'm 52, dated plenty of women in my past, and have been married and divorced in 2000. After going back into the dating scene after my divorce for a while, I found that women, especially a bit younger than me, are not interested in a true committed relationship! I found they just want either sex or someone to support them and pay their bills! They have no self respect and many are so lazy! I've now after years of searching,and finding the same problems, have absolutely checked out of even looking anymore! I've been single for 25 years and actually enjoy it! I rather be single than with a person that's not a fit for me ever again!!
God Bless You and family and Lola. Good show Erin. 30,000 and growing.
Challenges in relationships are natural, but a path forward always exists. My marriage faced serious challenges, but with the right support, my wife and I resolved our issues and reinforced our bond. Solutions are within reach if you’re committed to the effort and working together. Don’t lose hope-answers are possible.
I’m going through significant issues in my relationship and can't bear to lose her. I miss and love my partner profoundly and am committed to doing whatever it takes to have her back. I would be very thankful for any advice or direction you might offer.
Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
I promise you will not regret it
@@BruceKnapp-n4q Know, or find out what the _real_ issues are, decide if they are valid.
The judge is perfect proof of what i am saying. I have encounter her exact kind for my entire 51 years.
You are the first woman who's giving me hope . 🥺🥺. Thank you for raising your voice for us. It means lot to us. 🥺🥺
Hope for what exactly?
lol exactly
@@kojoefante hope on humanity, hope to get in relationship
What disgusts me in the dating scene is that it's considered an "ick" for a man to be distrustful of women. Yet the same women are encouraged to be distrustful of men AND EXPECT MEN TO BE OK WITH BEING TREATED WITH DISTRUST, even though she would never do the same for him.
there's no point in dealing with 'ickish' cræp in particular as mere kind of irrelevant xx.ine concerns. they spew whatever anyway. JOMO on all alike.
Women saying "ick" is a supreme ...well whats a good name...ICK!!
I got divorced after she left me for my friend, my son was 4 months old, 1. No one cares, u gotta care for yourself and 2. Never buy roses, its emotional abuse to spoil your wife as per why she did it. 10 years single and not looking back
In caring about others, we find purpose. It's called "love".
Some people have bought into lies, instead.
The mask of true exploitation: Feminism told women that the career (consumerism and the production/extraction of monetary value) was the true meaning of life.
A husband?! A family?! All of that is a detriment! That stuff is about them; not you! Even your children are ruining your life, just by existing! They're costing you what really matters!
Now get out there! Go to your dumb job, to make stupid money, so you can pay ridiculous bills! That's what living is all about!
Be miserable and pretend you're not!
My ex-wife fell victim to FACEBOOK FOMO AND JONES ' SYNDROME. I made mistakes but I overlooked some character flaws that I GAVE A PASS for loving an imperfect person. CLASSIC turn 40 and not happy anymore. Then spread lies to save face and cosign leaving. Shoulda known better...
You should have known better
She didn't fall victim to anything. She is a bad person. Stop symping .
Refreshing to hear a woman defending men! We certainly need some of that (my first Christmas alone btw).
Thanks for your content, much appreciated!
I knew it. The writter of the article is a communnist. Everything they wrote was complete and utter bs.
We don't hate women... we hate evil people. 💯 if a woman like you was the face of feminism... men would follow till the ends of the earth. We'd accept any change you felt was needed. Because we trust your faith 👑💯
Don’t simp
Not simping... i appreciate the way she looks at the world... normal ... 💯@alexbroughton2874
it happened friends we have to take the pain and anger and use it to keep moving forward because nobody is coming to save us
Even with all the negativity in this world, thank you for your message.
It is raining outside and you know, as an agnostic I do thank whatever higher power that might be out there for the rain.
Thank you Erin, and Lola too ofcourse ❤😎😎👍👍 happy thanksgiving ❤😎👍🐶
Been married and divorced twice. No kids. Will probably never have kids at this point. I’ve made my peace with that because there is literally no upside to dealing with modern dating/relationships.
The article you read just confirms what we already knew. No one gives a shyte about men’s struggles and we are only loved on the condition that we provide something. The moment we are viewed as “no longer useful” we are discarded without pity or remorse.
Thank You Aaron and God Bless You. I’m in the middle of a divorce right now. Your show has opened my eyes to a lot. Keep up the good work.
*Erin
Very sweet of you, thank you for the kind words. I thought about you yesterday. I was just hoping you were ok. You feel like family to me. Your always looking out for us. I know I've learned a lot from you. Can't believe how naive I was. Just had no idea about women, and how they can be just as bad as any man if not worse. I've spent most of my life by myself. Even when I was married I drove a truck for 1/3 of it, and then spent years taking shifts to watch my step son for 24/7 care. I can say I've gotten used to it. It is nice sometimes, but I always have a longing for a woman. I think that's just in a mans biology. I can't wait to move so I can get a puppy. I really need a companion. I think that would help me move on and get out more. The only time I'm getting out is to work or fix someones car and the basic needs. All my socializing is right here. I can't tell you how much I appreciate being able to get on here and vent and tell my story. It's my safe space. Listening to you just helps calm the nerves. No matter if your mad or happy, I just love to see and hear you. Ok, I don't want to get to mushy :)
It is crazy that these women get on tiktok and completely roast themselves. I swear if I meet a woman and she has a tiktok account I'm going to run for the hills. The amount of hate and misinformation on there is disturbing to say the least. LOL Leave your husband after you have been together for years it's liberating and empowering. You know, after I thought about some things. I think if your having troubles in a relationship, just take a break from each other for awhile. Don't go and cheat, just go and be by yourself for a min. That will help you appreciate each other again. Sounds good doesn't it? That's probably a good solution, but with all the social media and dating apps, women will never be alone. The temptation to move on is to great and easy.
Happy late Thanksgiving Erin! Hi Lola! Love you guys, God bless.
I got the #redpill when I was just 8 years old, I'm 42 now and I'm still #MGTOW and happy with my life, the older I get the more I think I made the right choices in my life.
I hope everyone is doing well and had a happy Thanksgiving. Take care
Wow just ran across this on the feed but I have to say it's amazing to see a woman validating these things!
My ex was very proud of what she did to me.
No doubt, bro, no doubt
Just like the soulless ghouls they are.
Wow!
The story about the stallion resonated SO much.
And I'm not even religious as a 'retired' catholic.
Hope you have a great day!
" I Have Always LoVed Seeing n LOOKING AT Horses " I've never been religious. SAD to Hear that the Stallion died after - but I'm absolutely Jubilant to Hear that it killed that cat = n saved the mother and it's young foul !!!!
Hi Erin, hope ya had a great Thanksgiving too. I did. My daughter and I enjoyed the day at my son's home this year. Men have no safety net and have no choice but to be good just to get along in this world to stay off the streets. The women, well they play the victim card and the SA card........
You are the sweetest kindest person I've ever encountered.
"How irreparably changed my life has become. It's always the last day of summer and I've been left out in the cold with no door to get back in. I'll grant you I've had more than my share of poignant moments. Life passes most people by while they're making grand plans for it. Throughout my lifetime, I've left pieces of my heart here and there. And now, there's almost not enough to stay alive. But I force a smile, knowing that my ambition far exceeded my talent. There are no more white horses or pretty ladies at my door." ~ George (Blow)
I am the guy who failed at society. I am at the edge, observing the inside. Like standing at a defiled pool, refusing to take a swim.
I am unemployed and broke. Never had a gf. I live by myself in a small apartment. I have many interests - psychology, philosophy, health science - but dont want to contribute to this rotten capitalistic system. I am just done with it all.
And Erin you are completely spot on that nobody genuinely cares about men's well-being, except their mothers. Men who fall off the boat may just suffer, drown and die. What a tragedy...
Hang in there. Get through the near term and you may find a reason to keep going.
I highly advise people to get into some sort of regular endurance training.
Not only are the endorphin and dopamine hits great.
Your mental will also lift as you see and feel physical changes.
Great Video !!! Love your shirt!!! I am beyond repair... Men need to have the scales fall from their eyes and deal with reality instead of fantasy. Find out what the really wealthy do to protect their assets, before, you make a stupid commitment.. If the relationship eventually ends ,you may be able to tell her : Sorry Honey... You married a pauper.. All the assets I have access to, are owned by third parties, I have nothing. If this is done right by good lawyers, before hand it's pretty effective..
Thank you for that.
You remind me of the quote: The two most important days in your life are the day you were born, and the day you found out why.
Those women are so self centered and selfish. Nice outtro by the way. As much as you're thankful to have us all be a part in your life, we are thankful you are just as much a part in ours. Bless your heart.
God bless erin. U r one decent human being. Thanks
I went before a female judge. she berated me from the moment I walked into the court room, threatened to jail me every time I tried to speak. I was representing myself because I didn't the money for an attorney thanks to the woman that cleaned out our bank account, took everything except for my clothes. Like many men today I'll never take the chance to marry again, even the courts are against you. Women expect everything including their own happiness from men. If a woman choses to be unhappy there is nothing a man can to do to change it.
Just caught this Thanksgiving Day video. Good job, Erin. Thank you. 🙂🤍
I'm so glad I've never been married or had a gf. I'm one of those guys who dropped off the face of the earth.
Look nice today Erin, hope you're feeling better! 👋 From L.A.
Thank you for doing what you do. You are making a difference. I appreciate you.
You're a real one for sure. Im gonna give you that
I’m noticing that the women who prioritize their own happiness aren’t happy at all. Perhaps complaining about everyone being unworthy makes them happy on the inside. She shouldn’t worry; men are removing ourselves from society at large. Many men will make the best of loneliness instead of being seen as a burden or a threat at large.
Truly grateful for you, you’re light in this dark world
As a divorce attorney, I agree that you really can't say that female Judges will always favor the wife in divorce cases. A high percentage of them immediately recognize female bullshit and rule accordingly. This Judge is behaving consistent with my experience. Divorce cases are tough on Judges. It is rare that they see evidence other than the testimony of the parties and everything becomes a "he said vs. she said" scenario. But every now and then the husband can present evidence like the forged documents the Judge talks about in this clip, which the women then denies ever having actually signed, which makes her twice the liar. The Judge has now learned that the woman is a liar, and that will give the Judge perfect guidance as to who wins the "he said vs. she said" battle. The guy may not be presenting 100% truth, but the Judge will now believe him, anyway, because she won't believe anything the women says. Imagine the frustration of being a Family Court Judge and never having absolute certainty about who is telling the truth in divorce cases. When you do get affirmation of who the decent spouse is, woe be it unto the lying one.
See my earlier comment and try telling me that again. Judges have their hands tied The first judge I went before was male allowed me to speak, even said I was right. but god forbid he'll set a precedent.
@@stephencline1884 I did a word search for your name and found no earlier comment. Maybe I didn't get all 703 comments on my screen before searching.
Most of the time, when I am confronted by a man who blasts the divorce court system, I find that they did not hire a lawyer to represent them in their divorce.
I'll agree the system is "biased" to the degree that women generally still earn less than men and still spend a lot of time having and raising the kids. The goal of the court system is to split the wealth built during the marriage 50-50. That will most of the time result in the man thinking that what he earned is being given to the ex-wife at his expense. I'll also agree that the system gives custody to the mother way too often, and that the party who obtains custody is likely to also get the marital home, which is the only home the kids may have ever lived in. The Judge is supposed to offset that allocation by giving the man an equal-value asset. In most cases, that will be his retirement program, which is not really much use to him. He will have to wait decades to access it. People outside of the legal system typically don't realize that retirement assets are divisible in a divorce. Also, alimony is payable to either spouse in a long-term marriage, but men typically make more money than women, so they are the ones who are typically ordered to pay it.
And I am grateful to you and for your channel.
Hello Erin, on a lighter note, I have to admit I smile and enjoy the times when you get annoyed and mimick the funny voices etc. It makes me laugh, which is no bad thing.
At times, I think I caught a glimpse of your heart, which is a beautiful thing indeed.
I imagine very many people will take inspiration from your message and be lifted, as I am. It's clear that everything you impart is heartfelt and sincere.
Simply, thank you.
And we are thankful for you Erin.
I thank you for what you are doing for us men. About 5 yrs living on my own and what I do to deal with this period of my life well when im sad I just eat a nice steak and all my problems are gone 😂
No matter what choice you take, you will end up in a van down by the river. Rather than going through divorce to get there, just choose peace.
Having only heard what you say in only the second vid ive seen of yours. And from a woman is something i never would have expected.
I went into your 1st vid i saw with high hopes but , had low expectarions.
Im so glad i was wrong to pre judge.
Ive seen so many guys do vids like this and you are better.
And to hear it from a woman and the way you say it , makes me reailze im more of a man than ive been lead to believe.
Thanks!!!
Subscribed.
Thank you for another excellent talk.
Thank you, Erin. Happy Thanksgiving. God bless 🙏
Thank you Eve. This is one of your best videos. Please keep up the good work. 😊
I didn't realize I was being emotionally abused until I watched the Amber Jonny Depp trial then the light bulb came on
Smh. Men have been programmed for over a hundred years
Why would you waste your fucking time on that fucking garbage?
It took that crap to show you better?
this lady knows well about men's perspective i hope more women become like her 👍