Cuckolds, Capons, and Cotqueans | Doug Wilson | No Quarter November
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- It is not possible to smash the patriarchy without also smashing everything that it was holding up. And as we look around at the demolition job that is occurring throughout our culture, and the smoke that is rising up from the debris, the thought occurs to us that this may have been the point all along.
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@@kellygipson8354lol funny deadpan humor
Your remarks about Job's remarkable fatherly behavior has remained with me. I wonder how I, the father of 6 adult children, should practically "cover" my offspring. Some are true to the Lord Jesus, but others are miserably wayward. I love and admire the Job model.
"The Covenant Household" appears to be free with a Kindle Unlimited subscription, but not free to purchase.
It should be showing up now. I can see it $0.00.
@@Yesica1993 yes, it's $0.00 with Kindle Unlimited which is a separate subscription. There is not an option to "buy now" for $0.00.
I'm not sure what you're seeing, but I just bought it for $0. I don't have Prime or Kindle Unlimited or anything. The "buy now for 1 click" is to the right of the screen. @@Chief_Of_Sinners
Removing head coverings during worship was part of the "smash the patriarchy" movement...
Source? Not arguing, genuinely curious.
@@KingPoC47Read A Cover for Glory by Dale Partridge. Lays it all out.
Occult feminism - Rachel Wilson
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Dale Partridge: "A Cover for Glory: A Biblical Defense for Headcoverings"
You're not wrong.
“Manga Opus” is an incredibly underrated bar and not one I expected of someone of your generation, Pastor Doug.
Viva Noviembre!
5:20
"If your ministry could not withstand a bad case of the flu and a ginned-up and stampeding panic, then how will your ministry do when the heavens are rolled back like a scroll, and the mountains and islands are moved in their places?
Thank you! One of the things that left me stunned the past few years was how we instantly caved over Covid. It never entered my mind that churches would close! Maybe 1-2 Sundays. Maybe. But certainly not a FULL YEAR like my church did. (Even after I warned them on April 1, 2020 that our unscrupulous leaders might take advantage. Understatement of the century.) Then they banned unmuzzled people for one week short of a second year. I was effectively alone for TWO YEARS. I feel like I am just now barely coming out of shock. My life was destroyed. I lost all my friends. I am broken.
"But a handful of men, like Strider, became rangers in the north, and decided to contribute constructively anyway, illegally and off-budget. Don’t tell anybody."
That's why I adored him.
I had a similar experience. I found it paticularly annoying because I needed them more than ever and they closed thier doors. I feel I lost all of my spiritual progress from 8 years of being a Christian and developed and inflated sense of pride in my own understanding that I have had a hell of a time beating. Its doubly hard to be submissive to the church authority when they were wrong and refuse to admit they made a mistake.
Excuses are not proper to Christian. At the end of the day I know I need to suck it up and conquer my own faults, and that I dont currently have the right attitude.
At the same time I think the church NEEDS to learn from this, and making excuses is a terrible way for them to do that.
Covid was a major battle satan waged against the church, and the devil won a nearly flawless victory. he won against both the maskers and the anti maskers. very few Christian's made it out unscathed, and some were destroyed.
Why would you not wear a mask indoors and attend your church?? This feels like a self-inflicted isolation!
Because I could not, in good conscience, lie and say something worked when I knew it did not! How can I stand there worshiping Christ when I know that I am lying?! My main concern was lying in front of children, especially the ones that I knew very well* because I babysat them on a regular basis.) How could I go along with the lie and support THEM being muzzled as well, KNOWING the harm being done to them?
Masks limits oxygen intake. I got lightheaded one time in the laundromat. I was reading and suddenly the words on the page were going bright and turning from pink to blue and back again. I whipped up my head to look up, thinking the power was going out. Or maybe one of the lightbulbs. It took me quite a few moments to realize I was getting lightheaded. If I hadn't pulled it off, I likely would have fainted - something that (thankfully) has never happened to me. I think that was the last time I wore it in the laundromat. Ironically, they never threw me out or said anything or even gave me dirty looks. (That I saw.) I was more welcome in my laundromat than in my own beloved church.
Masks also block your lower vision field. (Especially dangerous to elderly or vision impaired people.)
Masks make it difficult or outright impossible for deaf/hard of hearing people to communicate.
Masks force you to breathe your own C02 waste.
Masks are especially harmful for young children. Besides limiting oxygen intake to their developing brains, it prevents them from seeing facial expressions. This hinders their ability to learn that visual part of communication and emotional connection with others. It hinders language learning because they can't see words being formed.
*I have lost my relationship with all of those children that I babysat. These are children I held, fed, changed, bathed, soothed when they cried, and rocked/sang to sleep. I adored them like they were my own. They long ago forgot who I even am.
I have taken quite a bit of time to list and explain some of the reasons, in answer to your question. Please address the facts I have stated. Please explain why you apparently still support this harmful falsehood. Understand that people like me were broken, because of people like you. Know that. Thank you. @@aallen5256
"I found it paticularly annoying because I needed them more than ever and they closed thier doors."
Yep. I was dealing with my dementia ridden mother. It was hellish already. Dealing with it alone (as far as Christian support) AND being unwanted everywhere in my city INCLUDING my own church, was beyond unbearable. I honestly don't know how I survived. My biggest regret was going along with it for a while. I should have presented myself at the church doors and forced the issue. Not in a yelling/making a scene way, but just put them in a spot where they would have had to look me in the eyes and tell me to leave. (Which I would have done.) I was too much of a coward. It really didn't occur to me until a bit later. I will always be ashamed about that.
All of that said, do not allow bitterness to enter in. Don't give Satan that final victory. @@Greasy__Bear
@@Yesica1993 Its simply not true that masks limit oxygen. Dr Tom Lawton ran for 22 miles in a face mask to prove this - look it up! How do you think surgeons do 12 hour surgeries if face masks are in any way a danger?! That you became faint in the laundromat I can fully believe, but it won’t have been from you mask - but could have been psychosomatic if you’d been taken in a lot of news media that was making you stressed!
Goodness I love NQN
"little old ladies of both sexes"
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Having been born and raised in a Charismatic household, that Joyce Meyer reference hit like a brick through a window.
Was she a revered leader in your home?
"Contructive dominance" very nice phrase. Reminds me of the first commandment, "take dominion over the earth."
Let’s go!!!!
Hold your hats and enjoy the ride. Keep up the Godly work Doug!
Only they say something like "thmath". 🤣🤣 I didn't see that coming. 😂😂
Mike Tyson likes thith.
I found you through your lecture on That Hideous Strength. Keep up the great work
I needed this! Frankly, every man needs to hear this... NQ is off to a powerfully good start!
cot·quean ˈkät-ˌkwēn. 1. archaic : a coarse masculine woman. 2. archaic : a man who busies himself with women's work or affairs.
This is my first NQN!
Enjoy!
Mine too! 😁 It’s gonna be LIT! 🔥 (Literally and figuratively.)
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Absolutely No Quarter today
Now this is the kind of serious topic for which my old Bible study group gave me a hard looks. 👀
Amen and amen. May God's men pick up the battering ram of God's truth and burst open the gates of Hell. This message encourages myself to be hopeful that I might be instrumental, in some small way, of participating in that.
Excellent
I was one of those men who was willing to be masculine but got outlawed and exiled. The climb back up has been difficult without help, but in my case delayed marriage or vocation is not "failure to launch" or laziness, but the result of what you might call systemic oppression. Can't really give more detail without doxxing myself. Just providing anecdotal support for Dougs assertion regarding "Where are all the men?" We've been here. But us millennial bastards are only capable of so much success without help from older men. We can't lift ourselves up by our bootstraps. It's manly to persevere without help, but there is nothing unmanly about receiving help, such as discipleship and job opportunities. The older men are very ungenerous in this regard, so if they are perplexed why their daughters remain uncourted, it is largely a self inflicted injury. The church is supposed to help one another. The young men will be men, and slowly attain to some measure of security, status and influence, but it could've happened sooner. And the consequences are worse for society than for the young men, who can live on very little with contentment. Please hear me.
I can't speak to your specifics, since I don't know them. But I do know complaining is not going to help. Neither is bitterness.
Find some men/boys younger than you find ways to be a godly influence in their lives! If your church has none, find a mentorship program. Young men/boys are DESPERATE for good role models. But they don't just need "good" role models. They need godly ones. Read the Bible together. It doesn't have to be a deep study. And you don't have to know all the answers. Just read through the gospels for a while. Get to know Jesus together. Go have a cup of coffee and a talk. Pray for/with each other. For teens/younger boys, spend time with them. Get them away from screens for a while. Build their trust so they eventually feel like they have someone they can go to. Help them with homework. Most importantly, introduce them to God's Word. The possibilities are endless.
You want to be a leader? Then take the initiative and LEAD.
Too true. Sadly all they care about is trying to retire early
Yeah brother, know that you're in good company and that the larger the headwind, the more strong you will become even if you don't see it yet. I am an older man who became Christian late in life, just as my career was peaking, then came the exile. I was no longer part of the club, but God lifted me up. I know He will see us both through, a day at a time. I will pray for you and for other men like you. Stay the course. Our Lord is crafting your way.
I've been unable to distinguish between "Christian church congregations" and the World for 30 years. The leaders (with few or no exceptions) are unable to distinguish between wisdom and folly, and between their worshipping the upper middle class "shiny toys" are indistinguishable from The World. Just ask their ex-wife or mistress.
Are you actually saying fathers of daughters should help you attract their daughters to you, because you can’t on your own?!
I'd never heard of a cotquean before. I'm glad I looked it up, though, because it perfectly describes an influencer I followed for a while. He seemed like a nice guy but I found it pretty weird when he told his followers that a wife should never have to ask her husband to fix anything around the house, he should fix things before she notices the problem. I didn't understand how that would work until he later mentioned he only works at his job 20 hours per week. I didn't have an articulable understanding of biblical masculinity at the time but that was pretty clearly not the model men have been called to. Now I know why it made me uneasy and how I ought to order my priorities (read: loves).
You speak a truth that is incomprehensible by the world, and most especially by this current demonic playground of a world. But as it is the case in all such scenarios, only the grace and mercy of the Father and the Word of Christ and the power of the Holy Spirit shall prevail against such unassailable battlements and foes, and this manifested through stalwart men that God Himself shall raise up . May He raise up such an army in this very dark day.
You say November and I say Yesvember
I needed this. Thanks. Masculinity. It is a thankless job. But, okay. Forward.
Wit, Wisdom, and Wow! All came fast and furious. A delight to run and keep up. Shared with my friends. ❤
@2:40 "Recognized or not, all of us spend our time dealing with the permanent things right alongside the evanescent things."
_evanescent_ Hmmm... had to look that one up: "liable to vanish or pass away like vapor..."
Popcorn ready! Let's go!
Boomers sell of the country and then wonder where it went.😂
“Only they say “smatheth” 😊😂😊😂😊😂😊😂
Every man should find massive blessings herein. Sadly, few would recognize it. Too few 😢
Gee whiz Doug, I had to watch this at 0.75 time almost from the start. Your ideas fly by like 97mph fastballs high and inside! Slow down just a tad so we can take in every morsel even as we pause for notetaking.
Ha! Yes, I usually have to listen a second time. Or more. It helps to read the written version at Blog & Mablog. (The best blog name in the history of the universe. I can never get over it!)
It was, almost, divinely inspired. Lol
I have a chuckle about it every time I read Revelation!@@ricksanborn6667
He called it… I have watched the trailer 3 times… 😂
Patriarchy is inevitable
Make the patriarchy great again
So why do you continue to whine?
@@Yesica1993what did i do to make you my enemy? I gave a very thoughtful and reasoned bit of advice to those asking "Where the men are" and willing to take responsibility for their part. You are not helping things by running around scolding men. It's not your place. Scripture forbids you from it, so I don't understand why you managed to come to the conclusion that this was the right thing to do.
@@cosmictreason2242 Islam is correct about females like her!!!!!
Imagine having to come home to that?
@@StanlyTPT nah I'll never say Islam is correct. Not going that far
It's about time we had a "scorched earth moment" on the subject of Christian masculinity!
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I can't say 'manga opus' is the pun I expected to hear from Wilson.
He's adorable! He's never allowed to get old and die. Never, ever.
I mean, he already got old. @@Yesica1993
Nooooo! I don't believe it! @@robertlewis6915
Fantastic way to start things off.
Amen
For Froto....
A. E. L. N. A.
'Strider, ranger of the North!...' Yes!
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Thankyou strider
1:17
"The problem has been a dearth of biblical masculinity, and the solution is naturally going to require a restoration of biblical masculinity. More on this anon, as we boomers like to put it. Yea, verily."
This GenXer agrees 110 percent!
Plot twist: I'm a woman. I cannot abide weak, wimpy men.
As always, thank you.
Well, who raised this generation of weak zoomer men? It was predominantly Single mothers. Gen X-ers are the parents of gen Z, Boomers are the parents of Millennials. A lot of gen Z got influenced by Millennials whom the boomers raised.
And? So what's the solution? Just keep blaming the previous generation? If you keep going back far enough, you end up with Adam & Eve. We can't go backwards. We can only start where we are, stop it at that point, and then move forward.@@PhthaloGreenskin
What is biblical masculinity lol? What does that even mean, how can a book be manly?
This is an in-house discussion between followers of Christ. Take your mocking elsewhere. Thank you.@@UgliestManOnEarth-69
Unless you're a legimitately religious virgin who chose to remain faithful to her God and future husband, you don't deserve a strong man.
If I had a dollar for every 25+ year old female who decided to get run through by Chad, Tyrone, and Jaun while pursuing career and lucre over family...only to "come to Jesus" later on when she realized she'd be an unwanted, old maid if she didn't "settle" and find a guy to have kids with, claiming she'd been "forgiven" and "changed" and that she was just as good as the day she decided to sell her purity for passing pleasure and cheap validation, I'd be a very rich man.
So, have you been a good girl or are you a hag who's "been redeemed"?
Docile pin cushions.
I know, right? Painful both literally (or, more accurately, physically) and figuratively!
((Pours bourbon)) ((giggles))
What kind?!
The problem is you talk fancy but I have a hard time understanding your points or what you are trying to say. Need to speak more plain.
1) Wake up to the destruction going on all around us.
2) Act like a (biblical) man.
The fact that this is difficult for any adult to understand is part of the problem.
@@Yesica1993 Thanks.
Not trying to dunk on you, bud, but this might be one of the problems with American society as a whole, and Evangelical society in particular. Folks in the past could formulate arguments and communicate them in insightful and compelling ways. The state of education in the last century has done away with a lot of that, and it's time that Christians reclaim that ability. We're going to need it after this cultural revolution comes crashing down.
@@rockycomet4587 You're not as smart as you think you are.
@@rockycomet4587 You ARE dunking. I've known many decent, dedicated Christians who couldn't follow Doug through two sentences.
That's not his audience. We still don't have to belittle somebody for not understanding. Hang out with some of those guys for awhile and you'll find plenty of wisdom and likely some physical skills you don't have.
One body.
"Theology That Bites Back".
Goldfish
Scripture reading (Bible) today spoke of exile in Babylon, a striking similarity awaited those ancient brethren who had difficulty adhering to God's plans. His wisdom prevails, best get with the program
The Jordan, Euphrates, Bow and EL-bow are all rivers 🙌 ALLELUIA 🙌 A-men' 🌹
So this video starts with an ad for LGBT, which seems ironic but probably isn't.
How then were the patriarchy, the alpha male types exiled in the first place? Can betas, gammas and women do this? How does that not make them the dominant ones? If a biblically masculine man is exiled by the weaker Greeks and feminists, then were they really masculine to begin with?
What happened to the "Greatest Generation" of men? Did they simply retire and defer to their hippe kids? How did they end up with hippie kids?
I don't see a path to recovery here as I'm not sure once they go John Galt they will come back and the rest of us who want to but are unable to are vastly outnumbered. If I were such a man and asked to return, I would know that it would be as an expendable fixer that would be purged again once everything was back in order and decide accordingly.
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Misunderstanding of masculinity. The fact that it takes a whole society to exile a man tells you something about strength and weakness. Find my comment for answers to the rest
@@aallen5256that is a damn lie. They push stuff on you regardless
@@cosmictreason2242 nope, that would be to the benefit of no one. Adverts are tailored, targeted and based on what you watch + info like your age which is accessible from your google account (google own RUclips).
@@cosmictreason2242 how much of a society does it take to exile a woman?? Lmao. Your arguments get sillier all the time!
Please keep talking and I'll keep praying people hear.
What is the AELM (or N)A (or from transcript the ALNA?)
Dr Jordan Peterson likes this
Comes out swinging at the bell 🙌
That's remarkably accurate.
B-b-but Doug...where are the pyrotechnics?
I guess that flamethrower business made people excited for more. But until Elon or some dang person creates a real BFG, the flamethrower is all you get.
6:23 "Thmathed!" 😂
Holy Hannah.
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Excellent content but you need to work on timing and pacing in your speach. Slow down and breath between sentences. God Bless you my brother...
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Clever and inspiring, but you’ll have to get your boys off porn and alcohol first.
No genuine follower of Christ does that filth. I'm so tired of hearing this, as though all Christians do pr0n.
How can a patriarchy among men work when they do not repent of belief in an egalitarian Triarchy of a three part Monad?
Begone heretic
@@cosmictreason2242 Heretic? How so? I reject that pseudo Athanasian (Augustinian Catholic) creed you Augustinian protestants love so much. The Father is "the only True GOD" according to "the only Begotten God". Out of respect for Him who was Begotten, I must disagree as you all have trouble understanding the Substantially Divine Triad.
@@JoshuaLeibrant-dr3xv sorry bud, the scripture forces us to believe the Trinity as explained in the definition of Chalcedon. You are outside of the faith and have not the Son nor the Father
@@cosmictreason2242 chalcedon doesn't say the Son is a part of a manifold deity. It affirms "we Believe in one GOD the Father....AND One Lord Jesus Christ. It doesn't say "we believe in one GOD the Trinity"
@@JoshuaLeibrant-dr3xv you are ignorant of the fact that "Lord" is translated from Yahweh, and the phrasing is a restatement of the shema, including Jesus in the shema
After listening to all the gibberish he has spouted here, I am most interested in the following questions.
"Who sent real men into exile and when?"
"Where is this exile for real men and what are they doing there?"
"Why did these real men allow themselves to be exiled in the first place and can't come back on their own?"
If you can find my comment, i explain in quite a bit of detail. To answer your point 3 beyond what i said there: i burned bridges [redacted] by sharing the gospel and got blackballed
@@cosmictreason2242 I am very sorry to hear that! I read your post below, but it is so non-specific that I can't say much about it.
Being masculine can mean different things to different people. If you meant being a servant to your community and chivalrous to women, then I'm very shocked that you were punished for those noble expressions of masculinity!
There are, of course, other distorted expressions of masculinity that are often propagated on the Internet and in Christian circles as well.
You say that you were punished for sharing the gospel. In secular circles this is to be expected, but if it happened in Christian circles, it would be shocking, insofar as you preached the gospel correctly.
You complain about the behavior of older men. I can't say much about that because I don't know the specific case.
@@SchwarzaufWeissundsoweren't you asking "why can't they come back on their own?" The reason is that you can't be a community by yourself
Gibberish
Okay. If it is beyond you, just admit it 🤷♂️
@@toolegittoquit_001 The chemistry of the origin of life debate by Davin Farina and James Tour was beyond me, but I recognize gibberish when I hear it. :D
Maybe you're right, what Douglas Wilson is spouting is probably not gibberish, but worse.
But to make sure it's not just assertions, I'll tell you what bothers me most about him and his disciples.
- We could start with the fact that Douglas Wilson misunderstands the Bible in such a gross way that I'm not sure if it's even intentional, because I don't think he's that stupid.
- But we could also talk about the fact that he always wants to be an edgelord who throws "truth bombs". But the things he's saying are not edgy but just sick and that the truth is usually missing from his truth bombs.
- We could talk in general about his foul language, which is completely unworthy of a servant of the Lord Jesus Christ.
- In general, I'm also not impressed by people like him and his disciples who have super sensitive nipples when it comes to perceived oppression towards them, but who at the same time argue for systems that really take away all rights from other people and objectify them.
I can back up each of these points with very specific examples. If you want to talk about it, feel free to pick one of them.
Wow, the emotionally infantile men here are something else! I fully agree that current American society is crappy to men. I loathe that. I loathe "feminism." But biblical masculinity means you don't wallow in it. You biblically ACT. But when you give specific suggestions on how to start doing that, it's clear many of them don't want to act. They just want to forever complain and blame everyone else. Again, there are some genuine points to be made about how crappy the culture currently is to men. I acknowledge that all the time. But focusing ONLY on the problems and REFUSING to take even the smallest steps forward is not biblical masculinity.
tl;dr -
Life is hard. Grow up!
This is unfeminine
I find that ironic
@@cosmictreason2242 “This is unfeminine”... You are a much kinder man than I. After reading a few of her comments, I understood she’s just an undermining, belittling usurper. Where’s her husband who should be correcting & disciplining her for acting with a modern female spirit? Cheers
@@StanlyTPT based on this comment section, it's hard to argue with you. I really thought this was one of the people "on our side," though. Maybe i just remembered wrong and confused one of the friendly commenters with one of the revilers. That makes a lot more sense of the attitude
Your handle should be jezabella...
@@cosmictreason2242 she wasn’t necessarily talking about you when she said “emotionally infantile men”, but you sure seem triggered by it!!
A double double and Doug