Does This Make Me Clingy? Revealing What Our Attachment Styles Say About Us!
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- Could it be true that our attachment styles were formed based on our early caregiving relationships? We want to know: When it comes to your significant other, what are some tell-tale signs of being overly clingy?
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I think I prefer the show without an audience!!!! The chats feel less performative and more intimate - like we’re just sitting in on a REAL girl chat.
Agree, at first I was like the audience would have gone crazy for their first episode but now...I'm loving it
Facts at first I was confused about the audience cause I missed it 😐 but now I understand it's way better and more intimate without an audience. More relatable topics and awareness plus it's covid so they have to be safe ❤ the less people the better
I totally agree.
I didn't even notice the Audience wasn't there.
very good observation
I'm loving the girl chats. This season feels cozy and personal.
That’s it! You hit the nail on the head. And it’s appropriate for the times.
Yessss I’m loving it!
Yes it does. I can't wait for the holiday decorations 😍😩 my girls will be slayed
@@melissalitus8879 yess gawd🙌🏽
@@r.ellis-brice facts 😊💯
I realized that I didn’t like the real over zoom but I love them in person like this
Same, I even stopped watching once they were on zoom.
Same, I stopped watching but I’m back
@@TheStarLaura lol me too!!
so true. Even looking at view count, the new videos that came out last week already have more views than the zoom season videos
Same🥰
I still can't believe that Jeannie is actually pregnant.
Right
Me too
I still don't shame
God works in mysterious ways honeyx
Jeannie is such a beautiful soul
I’m kinda sad Tamera isn’t here to talk about pregnancy with Jeannie! I would love to hear her commentary.
me toooo!!
Oh now that Tamera is off the show we want her to talk about motherhood! Lol 😝 I remember all the flack she got when she “wasn’t capable of talking about anything else!” I know this probably wasn’t you, per say, but your comment still makes me laugh.
Omg yes! Tamera is so good when it comes to having conversations about children.
This spoke to my heart! It would've become the most emotional season ever haha!
Ikr..I really liked her on the show ..she's been there since day 1.
I love Loni. She's looks at people with so much love in her eyes
Yes.... Very gracious!!
Loni actually softened with having a stable man in her life and Garcelle is a great fit with the rest of the cast.
It's a fake look...Loni has a jealous spirit. She doesn't like Jeanie at all.
She's so precious 😍🥺💖
@@marshaedwards7181 how do you know??? Did Loni or Jeannie told you that. Loni is a very real person. You just have a evil spirit
After 3 miscarriages I finally have my rainbow baby and no one can tell me I should not spoil my son with love he will always always know mama is there. He will know he is loved!
Amen. Congratulations beautiful Mama, God bless you and your baby.
Congrats and praying for you and your baby
Congratulations!
congrats ❤️❤️
You go mama🥰🥰🥰
Congratulations 🎊
The way loni is looking at the girls is with so much love.. especially how she looks at Jeannie its like she is so happy for her
But she wasn’t invited for the wedding
@@halimomoremoney1292 and?
MICHAELA Well if someone doesn’t see you as a friend and openly is saying it why waste your time on defending them. Loni herself said she was hurt about not being invited and the. jeannie said that she didn’t consider them friends or family and didn’t want to invite them to her wedding
@@halimomoremoney1292 I thought Jeannie said something in one of the episodes about having a separate wedding party or something for her other friends because she didn’t want to invite too many people 💀 but yh I get what you’re saying. I didn’t even know she said she didn’t consider them her friends.
Jeannie is really experiencing another perspective of love and I'm here for it. ❤
Obsessed with Jeannie's lipstick shade!!!
I keep staring at it too
Me too
Same
Yessss 😍
Me too…. Can they just plug it here for us 🥺🥺🥺🥺
“Not needing another person” isn’t healthy either. Extreme independence is just as unhealthy as being clingy. Humans were created to be interdependent.
I identify with Jeannie SO much with what she says about her independence but I'm fully aware, at least recently, that it's not that healthy
True, and I wasn't aware that it was unhealthy until my bf brought it up
I’ve been there too. A lot of women grow up being told we need to be independent, take care of ourselves, and not rely on anybody only to end up in relationships with men who want to feel needed and grow up being told to take care of their woman. There are songs marketed to women about being independent. It’s celebrated…until it’s not. Then it’s a problem. And a lot of us are so independent because we HAD to be.
I understand now though. We have to balance being able to take care of ourselves with allowing people to be there for us
Because we should be like this. I love you. I don't need you but I want you. That's healthy to me.
Yes definitely. I learned this late in life.
I'm sure Adrienne is guilty of that last one because her face was like I definitely call and check in with my husband while I'm out all the time 🤣🤣
Right. She got reeeaaal quiet lmao
looool, that face said it all
Lol yes, I had the same thought.
I died 🤣😭😭😭 I love her though
Yes I noticed too.
I’m loving this new season! They are talking about great things and are healing people.
Except for shoving the BS vax down people's throats 🙄🤦♀️
I absolutely agree 👍to it
Right!!!
I have been depressed for months. But if Adrienne had a baby, it would make my life. The way she talks, I KNOW she'd be a BOMB mom 😍
Right. I'm literally praying for this woman 😂🙏❤
@@danibaie if you ever wanna talk I’m here girl ❤️🥺
Hope God heals you from that depression
She did..... And she's so happy. And your wishes did come true.
I'm loving this season so far, the set and the glam. You LADIES nailed it💝💪🎉
This season seems very mature and honest.. love it!
Even the set up- the muted colours etc. such a mature vibe
I've been watching The Real since the beginning it's kinda refreshing watching how each person has grown since the start of the show, like how Adrienne was the wild young one with the dark tan, Jeannie was more reserved and polite and Loni was the comic relief/Frisky Auntie and now they are finally showing the real them or who they have really become
I love everything about jeannie 😭
Same
Me too. I really pray I can exude the amount of poise, grace, and intellect that she has. She’s incredible! I always look forward to her input on things.
She’s obviously not perfect but she’s damn near close to it. I just admire how she embraces her experiences and how she is constantly growing as a person. Truly someone I look up to 🥺
Shes my favorite bc her personality and beliefs are a lot like my own. Even though ade is latina i relate more to Jeannie
Have you ladies noticed that, your conversations FEEEL warmer and more REAL?
Like real girlfriends?
Adrienne felt like talking today lol
She will be a mom soon
😂😂😆😊
I love what love did to Jeannie❤❤
Same
I enjoy falling asleep to my husband's snores because I know that he's there. Such a great comfort.
Snoring isn't normal. He should get a sleep study test done. Sounds like he may benefit from a CPAP device.
@@rrtlife2167 it's a light snore, which I believe is fairly common (at least in my circle), but thank you for the insight
When there is a snore, it means there is either a blockage or narrowing in the airway. The tongue can also cause a snore. That can cause your oxygen to drop when sleeping. I'm graduating as a respiratory therapist in 2 months and worked in the sleep lab. I thought it was normal also until I had clinics in the sleep lab. Even a light snore can cause oxygen levels to drop. Some have mild to severe cases but you will not know for sure until you get a test. The home tests are less costly and some insurances cover it. Just spreading the knowledge.
@@rrtlife2167 I've personally never slept beside anyone (family or friend, consistent or slumber party) that doesn't at least have a slight snore. Good you're so passionate about your studies. Thanks
@@morganjames4176 I know what you mean lol. My mom visited me in uni for a week. And I couldn't sleep when she left. I missed hearing her breathe, my room became too quiet 😂
It's somebody about just knowing you've picked a man that has you and his best interest at heart 😊
I like the calls and the attention, my co-workers think my husband is crazy but I actually love 💕 all check up calls. I return the compliment too, life is short I need the people I love to hear me say it❤️❤️
I said the same thing! lol
I wish Adrienne would have shared the title of the book she was reading.
Anybody know the book??
I think we're not talking about how some of these conversations could be hard for Adrienne knowing that she wanted to get pregnant all along and jeanie who didnt, got pregnant. Not that jeanie is wrong for talking about her pregnancy or anything but sometimes I feel like every video I watch is about baby j and what jeanie would do and I think I applaud Adrienne for how strong she is and how happy she is for jeanie. I pray she gets what she wants soon. Jeanie's pregnancy is very beautiful news and I'm glad they're celebrating it.
This conversation was so good! I almost wanted it to be longer. It was very insightful. I'm loving this new season. And enjoying hearing each of their perspectives. ❤🙂
I wish Loni could have finished her thoughts being that she rarely talks about her James. lol
EXACTLY BUT THAT LITTLE CHILD IS SO ANNOYING JESUS CHRIST
Loni killing it this season already ❤️her looks have been on point. All the ladies look great
That pregnancy looks good on Jeannie. Enjoy the journey Mama Bear☺️, it comes with a lot of mixed emotions, body changes, but embrace it all❤️🌹
Communicate your love language and needs in relationships so your partner can cater to you the way you like
Facts I love that! I am single but I know for sure once I get in a relationship I will express my love language and expectations 😌
I am 23 years old and I am Clingy when it comes to my mom I always like to be close to her most of the time
🤍
I’m loving the purple on Adrienne!!! It’s her color!!!
I freaking love Adrienne lmao. She’s always been so funny subtly but she feels so much more comfortable in her own skin around this group of girls. I love her.
Great convo, Loni is hilarious, Adrienne makes so much sense and did a great job facilitating that convo, can so relate to Jeannie and G.
I loved this conversation, they brought up so many different points and scenarios that I wouldn’t havr thought of when thinking of the word “clingy”.
Jeannie, that's called avoidant. It's not good. It's an insecure attachment style. I know because I have it, and I work against it everyday. The most insiduous part of it is ignoring yourself, like not acknowledging when you feel pain, to yourself.
as an only child and an introvert, i’m not used to being around people and talking to people everyday. so when i met my boyfriend, it was draining at first to talk to one person consistently everyday, which is why I wasn’t really open to dating in the first place. I love being alone, and I love being quiet and keeping to myself.
My boyfriend is the opposite, grew up as the youngest of 4 kids and has a lot of cousins. He would call me constantly throughout the day (still does) but I realized that that is his love language. We’re long distance and we don’t get to see each other as often as we’d like. His love language is physical touch and quality time, he shows it by talking on the phone with me all day because we can’t physically be in each other’s presence. I found it kind of clingy at first, but now I can’t fall asleep at night without hearing him snore on the phone.
We all need our alone time, space and togetherness.
Love A's look & Jeannie's look! A's is soft , sweet/romantic and Jeannie's is dark/bronzed but warm 🙌🏾
I loved that they touched on the baby being spoiled thing. I try to tell my husband this regarding our newborn all the time. He needs to trust that we will meet his needs.
I agree with Adrienne. I notice that my daughter is extremely loving to those who are close to her but she is also extremely independent.
I love that Adrienne is preparing herself well for having a baby. A great testament to her faith of knowing her blessing is coming. She just needs to prepare. God bless her with the fruit if the womb 💜
I’m loving this season too much.. it was hard during the pandemic especially with a new member but I think you all are finally fully acquainted and it shows. Love this! I’m tuning in every day from now on! Love what Garcille brings to the table.. I thought she was Too real for “ the real “ at first, ( in a good way) but now IM IN LOVE!
The colours Adrienne is wearing (clothes and makeup- especially that purple) look amaaazing on her!!! Also loving khaki green on Jeannie!
Excellent conversation always!!! great team imagine women supporting and listening to each other’s point of view and learning ! More more more
Jeannie is having a baby!!! Hallelujah!!!! God is so good! I'm so happy for you my sis!
It's so nice to see Jeanie so happy, loving her energy💕
Physical touch is a love language for both me and my partner. We are that "reach a toe out to touch while sleeping" type. We crave cuddles, back rubs, hugs, etc. Because we match in that way, we work really well.
We're also pretty clingy emotionally too, but again, it works for us. It used to drive him crazy when I would text him if he was late coming home - he'd say things like "I said I'm on my way, traffic was bad" or he stopped at the store or whatever. I did it cause I missed him. Now, its reversed, and I love teasing him and reminding him that he couldn't understand why I did it, lol. That doesn't mean we don't have alone time - we both get plenty of that, we spend time doing our own things at home almost every day, we even get a chance to be completely away from each other (depending on work schedules) throughout the week.
I love Adrienne colour combo so much. I'm inspired to design a nail design like it.
I always find myself being clingy to my husband and I have to remind myself that I don’t need to be like that, it does stem from when we were children. It’s very hard to be your own person sometimes.
I’m seriously loving this season!! I thought the Real was on its way out, but they’ve brought it alll the way back to basics this season!!😍 the set, the wardrobe, the topics & even the way they’re vibing with each other is everything..not feeling like they have to do/say things for audience approval. Honestly even just being more kind & complimentary of one another rather than throwing subtle shade or digs for laughs. Best squad & vibe so far IMO
What’s the name of the book Adrienne is reading ? Sounds like a good book to read !
Right! I really wanna know
rightttt!! Im so curious haha
I thought it was called im on the treadmill on my kindle and I actually googled it 😂😭🤦🏻♀️
I think she’s talking about Attached by Amir Levine! :)
I wanna know too!
I love Garcelle as the new co host & the energy is different with them altogether.
I like that she's different to Tamera and it doesn't feel like a complete replacement for her but instead she just adds her own special energy & she blends well with the rest of the ladies.
Love this new season.
Loni is always happy for people success or progress... I love her mannn ❤
The loving look Loni is giving is just Awwwwww
Ok… I’m gonna go somewhere different with this but I think there’s a difference in showcasing interest and taking a person serious when you like them versus completely being a obsessive and can’t take no for a answer ! I think there are people that like put all their energy into someone and then when they notice they may be coming off strong… they back off a little bit but still show that they are interested bit by bit & I like that ! It’s the people that don’t know they’re overbearing and overwhelm you to the point where they start asking where we’re you and wondering like “ why haven’t you texted me 45 mins ago “ like stage 5 clingers are too much for me lol I’m ok with those who can take social cues and common sense… but the people that are completely oblivious and can’t pick up on whether or not someone is uncomfortable with said clingy actions!
I can agree with that but I also think real conversation can help that situation. Sometimes ppl react or do things based on their past relationship (not saying it's right) but it does happen. If a guy is calling you too much it could be because he is clingy or it could be because that was the expectation/requirement of his last relationship. Just saying...have a conversation and see if certain behaviors change.
Love these ladies! They are all so compatible! 💕💕💕💕
To echo the comments, I LOVE these girl chats. I had stopped watching when everyone was Zooming in. This feels so personal and like I'm at happy hour with them. AND I think there was some training, because no one is talking over people, and they're all intentional about each person answering the question. The Real is back!
Love this season! Feels more natural, love the dynamic too :)
I can't wait for A's wish to come true, i love her so much and pray for the best 😊 extremely happy for Jeannie, i watched these ladies since season 1 😭 I'm emotional rn
I love the face Loni is making when Jeannie us talking about her pregnancy
I love how coordinated their outfits are without being too matchy-matchy
Great topic ladies, loving this new season! Keep them coming!😍😍
Jeanne I'm very proud of you..you have came a long way.. you deserve the best. I'm very happy for you also..
LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS NEW SEASON!!! You ladies look amazing, keep it up! 🖤
Wow! The girls look so extra bomb this season! Garcelle has fit in perfectly! Good job producers! I was so doubtful when Tamera left, but with this group I have a desire to keep watching!
Loni be throwing James and Tam's Adam under the bus with her reads 🤣
I’m here for this chat!
I thoroughly enjoy seeing Jeannie happy.
I’m 100% with Miss Love here! I’m good by my own but I need to know u ARE there! 🤍
I love how everything is set up this season. It looks so cozy and you feel like you just at home talking to your girlfriends. Plus I love that you can tell they genuinely are friends and like each other and thats makes it even better ❤️
I am loving these topics more n more. Garcelle brings the perfect balance to this show. The real finally got it right with their cohosts selection.
I went through what Garcelle went through with a clingy lover and I was done. So annoying
Yooooo the content this season is GIVING
The make-up, hair, and clothes. The best look for Loni! 👍
I don’t check in with my husband for permission, I want to be considerate and ask him if he will have something to do while I’m gone. If he will be okay while I’m away, not because either of us is needy, but because we love each other and he would do the same for me. He always ask me if he can do things so I can find something to do while he’s away. We’ve both been in a bad place mentally and we both know that so we are always trying to be considerate of one another. I’ve never thought being considerate or trying to cherish someone was “clingy” or “needy”.
I agree! ☺
I agree with Loni! I need to know my husband is in the other room, but do enjoy being alone as well. These girl chats are giving me LIFE! Jeannie is looking so precious with her bump...
That last part that Jeannie added wasn't for Ade she gotta ask Izzzzzzy🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was like that when I was pregnant but I was like that for my child. "Do you think he's going to smile I hope he smiles alot"! He smiles and laughs a whole lot💙
I really love the energy and vibe of this group of ladies. I think each past group have brought something unique and interesting to the table, but THIS group has found a really harmonious positive relaxed energy and it is really enticing to watch.
I love love love this season, it’s so wholesome 💗💗💗
i think Adrienne should get a little extra comfort during this time because she’s been trying to get pregnant for years and in that same time, Genie who never wanted kids until recently got pregnant with the quickness at age 42… and nobody knows how Adrienne may feel just saying (but i know she’s happy for genie)
Jeannie
Oh I missed the show
I absolutely love how Adrienne encourages Jeannie and is genuinely happy for her! Can’t wait until Adriennes turn 🥰🥰
Loni be grinning... admirably at Jeannie🙂
The purple eyeshadow
😍
And Jeannie looks so comfortable
woaaaah wait jeanie is having a baby????? i remember she said she didn’t want to have kids, in her previous marriage
Never say never. She found her other half
😁😁I thought I was the last one to hear but no, I am not.😃
I was wondering myself too, is she 🤷🏾♀️😊, congrats to her if she Is😊🎉.
You are still there🙄
I love you Jeanie ❤️❤️
One of Jeannie Mia's top love languages might be physical touch.
I miss Tam💔 I love how real the season has been tho especially w Jeannie opening up ab her pregnancy journey 👶🏽✨
I'm not clingy but I do need to feel loved, like anyone else!!! I need my space tho lol
Loving this season soo much!
I love the real.hard to watch because Adrienne talks over everyone and talks more when you want to hear the other ladies opinions
Jeannie seems so happy!!!💖💖💖
I'm not a clingy person and I don't like to deal with a clingy person. And that part about a person checking in with their spouse every hour on the hour or more is irritating . Yall might as well should have stayed home with each other . Because you can't even enjoy your friends without checking in or them calling you all the time .
OO! BLONDE ADRIENNE IS BACK 😗😗 loving the vibes. And this girl chat style is pretty cool 😍
Love these girl ! Good group I feel like I’m sitting with my girls chatting ! Love this
the book adrianne is referring to is. "what happened to you?"
Idk I like checking in on my man even when I'm on a girls' trip. I be missing him, and I can be a homebody, so most of the time I'm ready to be back home and be in his arms after 2 days. 🤷🏾♀️