My Wife Cheated on me with a Guy Our Son’s Age… and I Vanished from her life like Houdini after
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0:00 My Wife Cheated on me with a guy Our Son’s Age… and I Vansihed from her life like Houdini after 23 Years (u/Kermit_Defrogg)
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"For 23 years, I thought she was mine. But it turned out, it was just my turn." This one line really struck a chord.
I know I was like DAMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
Hits deep man
Going through it now, it’s been 9 months & life is so much better
This is how it is 100% of the time. No matter who she is. Loyalty is a rare trait these days.
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The fact that everyone is telling OP that he needs to be there is weird af. He doesn't need to do anything for her. He was there for her for 23 years and she decided it wasn't good enough and stepped out their marriage. He doesn't owe her a damn thing.
When not even Sue's parent told the OP to go there, you know that the gibberish those people are speaking is meaningless
Especially since the catalyst for her cheating was him being injured. The fact people expect him to be there for her after that is just ridiculous.
@@dylangerber5163 It isn't ridiculous, because they weren't the ones cheated on and had no idea what OP's mind was but I agree OP had every right to not visit the Ex-Wife
thats not what modern society has said for decades now, more and more openly, women cheating is healthy and natural and a good thing, men who get upset about cheating or who cheat, are misogynistic scum... the responses reflect this common view in western societyies... hell you can find whole articles about it..i have been given the lecture countless times, startted over 15 years ago now.... i kid not... the feminists were pissed a dumped my ex and ghosted her after she cheated on me, i got lectured by her mom and eldest sister who are like clones of eachother with an age gap.. how women cheating to find their happiness is good and healthy, i should support that, but if i ever cheated i would be a scumbag... i just... noped the fuck out... i dont get that mindset at all...
if you want to be with somebody, be with them, if you want to be with somebody else, be honest and let the person your with at the time know your moving on...
@@humanbeing3551 Its not that they were never cheated on, its that they don’t understand what’s going on in his headspace, he gave her 23 years of love, care, 2 children for her to hold dear and raise, and more importantly, loyalty. He was loyal to her for 23 years and she gave all that away to be in bed with some kid who was the same age as her son. To that, I say that the OP is not a jerk but instead an amazing father of two children and a great friend to all those he loves, except for POS and Sue of course.
Nina seems to be THE definition of letting someone go if you truly love them.
I don't know I get bar vibes from her😂😂 23 years and she didn't try to someone else?? She waited for his wife to fuck up?? Naaaah nobody's perfect and I'm happy for him.
I always hated that saying it still gives the person who fucked you over peace fuck that shit I hope they get the worst karma you do evil expect it to come back to you. They deserve to know pain
@@janatomlin1296There are further updates not included in this video. If I remember correctly, Nina is a single mother, her husband ran off back to the country he was born in. So no, she wasn't waiting for OP 23 years lol. She took a step back and moved on with her life, but when an opportunity presented itself and the time was right for both of them, she shot her shot.
Yeah, who tf is nina? Lol i missed that bit of info
@@jasonclements9022nina was his old friend from college i think. Basically the only female friend from his gang. She never hit on him while he was married. Good gal
This guy is a legend and I hope his next 23 years aren’t wasted.
It's disgusting that so many people wanted OP to go see his former wife in the hospital. She cheated on him and they expect him to go to her and say it's all better just because she supposedly tried to off herself. I doubt the suicide attempt was genuine and even if it was it shows how selfish she is. OP is the victim not his Ex. Seeing her would just upset him and won't help her since he doesn't want to see her at all. It's best for OP to stay away for his mental health and hers. If he is not around she'll rebuild her life without the false expectation that he will forgive her.
HAA 😂, couldn’t be me people seem to forget what Ex means and it means not my problem so the idea for me to have sympathy for a chick who happily gives the Cooch to anyone is like Asking Michael Jackson to not sing at a concert ….It’s blasphemous 💀💯
Yea, but she is the mother of his children. Its not only about them two brings a different question to table when is it too far considering their two kids.
@@shai2222 THANK YOU 🤣 I swear people forget niggas is no longer simps once a chick cross that line You lucky if that Nigga even say a word to you because most of them wouldn’t even have answered the phone when it comes to shorty, Shit that happened to me I ain’t even said nun I just hung the phone up 🤣🤣🤣💯
YES! Facts. I hate how this kind of stuff happens. I agree with everything you're saying, and personally I think she also did it to make herself the victim, not to mention try to get him back as you and this awesome dudes have said
@@iiroaarnio1511 so she wasn’t thinking about their kids when she broke their family apart. Stop the excuses
It never ceases to amaze me in these type stories how family and friends of the guilty party always try to make the OP out to be in the wrong after cutting out the cancer from their life.
Fortunately,the parents of the ex-wife weren't like that,heck,even the father understood why OP didn't go
I had a stressful relationship not physical but there was some manipulation, I found out that sometime after a messing break my father-in-law told him that he was not surprised i had a break and was surprised it hadnt happened sooner.
@@deliraretrust me if the shoe was on the other foot there would be no pity for him.
@@georgeharvey3062 oh,ofc,it is always like that
Oh yes his mentally weak wife cheated on him and so slowly broke her to the point of suicide and people blame him for that?
Very similar stuff happened to me. After a 19 year marriage. I’m 43, and am 5’5” and about 165lbs. My estranged wife is 51, and is 5’9” 140lbs. We are both pretty fit. Anyways she was having an absolute mental health issue. Like paranoid thoughts, physical attacks against me for hours, believing I was a demon. It was bad. Anyways all I wanted was her to get a proper diagnosis and treatment. This didn’t go well. She thought I had this evil plan to destroy her. So she just did everything in her power to hurt and belittle me at every opportunity. She once told me she was going to find the tallest, biggest, and jacked guy she could find and F&$K him. Well a year later I found a video on her phone with a 47 yr old 6’6”, 240lb ex bodybuilder on the beach confessing his love to her. She was eating it up. She doesn’t even like this guy. He is very unattractive. He literally looks like the live action version of Shrek. She strictly got into this relationship to hurt me. Something I could never compete with. Genetics is a difficult thing. Anyways this was the one and only thing I could never forgive. I’m no contact for 6 months as of now. I feel exactly how he feels about his ex. If she was in a car accident or living under a bridge, she is no longer my responsibility or problem. This guy can deal with her borderline personality disorder. She is great at hiding it in public and maybe a few months in a relationship. As soon as I can no longer be reasonably blamed for her issues she will shift to whom she is closest too. That time is coming. I see the writing on the wall.
Better be alone than be with someone who makes you feel alone. All the best for you.
@@andreytcd 100%
Godspeed brother. I wish you safe travels.
@@LosSkywolfGTR Went out today with two friends of mine, had a great time with these girls today. Been no contact with my wife for over a year. The two girls are in their mid 20’s and I hang out with them often. So things are going very well.
That’s a fucking Narccist, I’m sorry u dint find out sooner
I feel so bad for the son... since he's been cheated on, the idea of his mom cheating on his dad hurts even more...
Also I'm glad Nina and OP got together!
yea... that cant have been easy
@@beebo-cat this can't
Sue's dad is a massive W
Thought I was the only one with a keen awareness of the father.
Nina too. She supported OP even though she liked him all the way back in High School.
When i have kids if i find out one of them cheated i would straight up disown them on the spot
Washing his hands of her while assuring his kids that he won't be upset if they are there for their mother indicates how good of a father he is. The s gesture indicates that she was not thinking of her children as much as he is.
Where the star from
@@1mol831 Hes been a member for 3 months
Yeah
We have 0 information on the kids' attitude towards her. They could have been cold and distant or out right hostile. If either she could have counted them as a loss. In the end, though, she is a selfish and incompetent c*nt.
I agree and like he was with her for 23 years which is 4 years older then the kid she slept with
Laughed out loud when he got the phone call near the end. Her actions has consequences, and she didnt want to face them. Then her own father calls just to say "Yo, just wanted to say. No hard feelings for not showing up."
Legendary.
Cheaters dont deserve a happy ending.
dude her trying to END her life because of HER cheating is just cringe bro, I cant. Call it insensitive, I dont care. Its her fault, the audacity is just off the charts cringe.
She made a mistake. She realized it. She felt guilty and regretted it. She made a mistake over the course of 23 years of marriage.
Whats so cringy about it? There is nothing cringy about suicide.
I understand the husband, but he goes too far at the end imo. Suicide is never calculated. The revenge plan felt too …cold.
@@Aneliuse Oh screw off. You're as disgusting as she is. Cheaters defend cheaters. You Westerners and your misandry. Your evil hypocritical behind would be tooting a different tune had the genders been reversed.
Bro where are you being insensitive tho it’s said “play stupid games, win stupid prizes”
I, for one, 100% RESPECT this man for him staying away from Sue in the end, and his friends are all AHs for making HIM out to be a villain as he needs to stay away for HIS mental health.
Dude played a long game, and props to HIM for winning a new life, and I think the EX is a huge TOXIC P.O.S. for trying to guilt trip him with a failed suicide attempt to try and use that as a way to worm her way back in.
Right 100 % agree she now is a total stranger now that he don't like so why would he visit her .she seems like a manipulate bitch who need sympathy from him
Totally agree and it's not only best for him but her too. She is desperately clinging to this relationship and if he went running it would have given her false hope of reconciliation or worse she would threaten suicide to make him run to her to keep him on the hook.
He owes her nothing her suffering is the consequences of her actions and trying to kill herself is the cowards way out.
The mental health part. That is key.
They way he got his revenge. I don't think her Suicide attempt was for show.
@@reptilesgamers00 I never said it was for show, but the fact that she's using it as a way to manipulate everyone to seem like the victim rather than the cheater and have everyone call him an AH for not visiting her, STILL makes her a TOXIC P.O.S.
Her attempt failed, so she's now crying WOE IS ME because he STILL keeping his distance, despite everyone saying she needs to talk to him. SHE doesn't get to decide that anymore.
She needs therapy, not using her attempt as a way to try and strong arm her way back into his life.
For those interested,there's more to this story. I believe OP posted it a while after everything you hear here. He does eventually relent and goes to see Sue in the hospital..but he absolutely does not take her back or forgive her. He was being guilted too much by the people around him and gives in to go see her. He still stands strong though and cuts Sue out his life. In their meeting, she finally realizes that it's truly over and her marriage is destroyed. I believe Sue's AP contacts her and even says he can't live without her and threatens suicide. She tells him to go ahead and do it, lol. The husband even goes and confronts her AP and the AP gets scared for his life...but he doesn't do anything..but he does get in touch with his parents and I think they got the binder too. He gets disowned by his family because they are very religious and can't fathom how their son destroyed a 23 year marriage. Last we are told, Sue's AP was living couch to couch after getting kicked out of his home by his parents. The husband starts a relationship with Nina and that's the end.
Wow
Still sad he was pressured into visiting that snake in the hospital, but aside from that its a W
@@connorrobinson6522 trust me, there were a LOT of people biting their nails hoping he didn't get roped back in...but our boy held strong...I believe his last words to Sue before he cut all contact were "the moment you see me walk out this door will be the last time you ever see my face or hear my voice"...he handled himself like boss.
@@GSP-76 good to know even when he was pressured to visit her in the hospital he didn't fall back into a relationship with her. Ended it calmly, professionally and most of all coldly. W OP
So my best bet is the religion the APs parents worship is Mormon. They tend to take promiscuity VERY seriously compared to other religions. Like I'd heard a story of mormon parents disowning their daughter because she slept with the entire Phoenix Sun's basketball team and bragged about it on the internet
Forget being a jerk, I respect the hell out of the OP for his scheming mind and his ability to hold everything in for so long. To wait almost a year to exact the perfect revenge? Absolute legend! Sue got what she deserves and as far as I'm concerned, the OP starting to date Nina is also not a jerk move, but a CHAD move since Nina sounds like an infinitely better person than Sue. I congratulate the OP for his win and wish him the best of lives. Here's some extra advice forbyhe OP -- If Sue tries to off herself again: just let her. Regardless if she's doing it to end things or just to get attention, it's her choice and the OP is and never will be at fault.
I actually had a little smirk on my face when he said she was going to be fired. Serves her right.
An ex slashed his wrist after I dumped him,
emailed me pictures and called me while I was in Australia, thinking I’d come running back. Oh I ran alright. AWAY. I never spoke to him again. I feel for OP, and he had zero obligation to “be at her side”. What the hell did her friends and family expect? They saw the binders! I’ll say what I said to my ex when he called me: “be well, but far away from me.”
Something similar happened to me.
A girl i studied with 2 years ago in college (she was and still is my best friend) that woman threatened me of killing herself because i didn't pay attention to her 💀 i said "lady i have a girlfriend, why tf would i pay more attention to you than i already do?" She broke down crying over the phone. Later that night she sent a picture of 3 bottles of pills i was shocked and that scared me so i went running to her dorm (i was in shorts no shirt and no shoes) opened her door gave her a big hug and a kiss on the forehead, calmed her down, we slept toguether on her couch (not in a sexual way, she slept hugging me and crying) a week later i told my gf (our relationship was failing at the time so we broke up and we are still friends) and started dating this girl the relationship lasted almost a year.
Edit: the relationship ended because she aborted "she wasn't ready to be a mother" so we broke up, it didn't destroy our friendship at all.
@@Jason_H_Martitinez Wtf? Neither of those "friendships" sound healthy...
@@dragonlord1225 yeah...
remember that being a slave yourself is worse than having someone suicide for their ego
@@Jason_H_Martitinez yeah she completely manipulated you and got you to leave the relationship you where happy with. You should have called the police instead.
You are not the jerk. You're divorced, you owe her absolutely nothing
@An evil geek online yes yes she does
Dude the first story actually made me tear up…I don’t know how anyone could throw away a relationship like for some guy at the office? I will never understand that.
This reminds me of a story I read a long time ago. This girl married a guy for ten years but her sex life wasn’t that great compared to her other partners. So she finally had enough and called her ex in tears and begs to come back to him. She lives with her ex in Tennessee and her Ed has a gf already and they have a threesome pretty much everyday. This story made me furious on how selfish the wife could be. You left a good man because you didn’t get good sex?? He devoted his life for you and you leave home for some better sex?? I can only imagine what the guy went through because the wife never filed for divorce or anything, maybe she did, idk. Never was mentioned I then story. But yeah, feel bad for that guy.
whores are going to be whores. and a traditional women will be a loyal traditional women till death do us part.
The guy in that story said his Ex came back after 10 yrs. Thinking they were still married. He crushed her hopes when he told her they were divorced.
Women are the true sex addicts. Guys can cope with bad sex, we can't cope with nothing. Meanwhile, women can't cope unless they're sent into Heaven every time.
This man is a genius, not a jerk and a example for all men
*people out there who are cheated on.
I’d say. Unless you would think different if it was reversed?
and women. and anyone with sentience and sapience
I wish I’d have had the courage and conviction as this guy in my own situation. It’s a lot different in a no fault state though. My ex could have banged the entire NY Giants football team and the outcome would be the same. It’s really sad how the courts in some states punish the husband for the wife’s indiscretions.
@@georgeharvey3062 Wait so in USA you have states where all divorces are no faults ? That's messed up ( You can get the no fault [ although it's more like settling out of court divorce, but using courts since you have settle in courts here in such cases anyway ], but if someone has reason for divorce it never is no fault unless they wish so )
@MellowLikesYou umm what clown world do you live in where a woman does not have 10000 options of help?
I've heard this whole story multiple times and its never lost its punch. I love it when people go all out like this.
How? The video is 24 minutes long and this comment was made 20 minutes ago while the video was uploaded 39 minutes ago. Even if you had 2x speed on, you wouldn't have enough time to watch it 3 times (2 times dosen't count as multiple according to the dictionary). Sorry if i'm being harsh.
@@RealWingGaster maybe he read the story on reddit and he already has seen it a week ago or something like that.
@@RealWingGaster maybe he has heard stories closely like this, as he says “people” not he or talking about the specific person in the story
@@flippant5138 He says "heard" and you READ stories, not listen to them so, no offense, but i'm still (technically) right. (I'm not trying to start drama, I swear. There's a whole subreddit, r/techincallythetruth, dedicated to this kind of stuff).
“That’s right I heard the story
Over and over again!”
My man went all out and designed a well-managed Hollywood-grade revenge set-up to destroy a person socially, mentally and emotionally. He has by far the most satisfying revenge story I have ever heard
As Dante once said, the lowest level of hell is reserved for traitors. OP is not a jerk. This was just proportionate retribution
Shout-out to Sue's dad being so respectful and understanding about OP's situation and choices
This is a nuclear option that I fully and wholeheartedly endorse and wish that more men would take rather than the violent past that we have chosen traditionally. This is exactly what a woman would do in the opposite situation. I'm super proud of OP and I gave him big fat kudos I mean Sue's own father understood why the op did what he did. That should tell you something
It's beeeeeta and like you said more like something a woman would do
@@vladafonin888 it's not beta. All is fair in Love and War. Sweep the leg Johnny. Actually if you think about it, it's sigma. It's not alpha. It's not beta. There's a whole new breed of us. The ones that go beast mode when we have to. And play Ninja when it's appropriate. The ones that use their brain and their Wiles over everything else. The ones that perfect body and mind and use the best of both of them. And they are always the last ones that you should underestimate
The man had 2 options: let it be and confrontation. He chose option 3 NUCLEAR REVENGE
@@vladafonin888 I'm guessing your response would be somewhere between "murder-suicide" and "torch her house". That'll change once you hit adulthood and start understanding what's realistic and what's not though, so hang tight! :)
@@tasteslikepennies2549 ha what da fuck dis sigma beta and alpha shit about like honestly if its based on wolfs its now scientifically wrong like mhh
I don't think he moved on fast, he basically spent an age getting everything ready to start the divorce. I just hope the bad experience doesn't affect any future relationships.
Its difficult to find a dedicated man like this who worships you and is so loyal but she ruined everything. She never deserved him.
That suicide attempt definitely felt like it was her trying to manipulate her way into his life again.
I feel it's rather a failed attempt at s*icide. After all of this by the end of part 1 I already predicted she wouldn't be able to handle it and will commit or attempt s*icide. Just a gut fealing.
Ya i agree
Exactly my thoughts. Hence why I got trust issues 👌🏾
Ok, I know video was about the husband who got cheated on, but Nina just letting the guy she's had feelings for be happy with someone else and still supporting him is something.
Yeah, I'm actually happy for him and nina together, it's really sweet tbh
Truly so sad she had to wait for so long.
@@journeyoflife9159 eh, it's not like she was sitting locked up in a castle waiting for her prince to come save her. I'm sure she was living life up in the mean time lol. Not even saying this In a religious way but I have faith that things happen when they're supposed to happen
@@jerichojones2722 A prime example of "If you love someone, let them go. If they don't come back, they were never meant for you."
That's loyalty right there, if only every woman had this aspect
Damn this is the most satisfying nuclear revenge I have ever seen on RUclips. OP was not playing around.
The effort and endurance it took to curate all those evidences while keeping sane n holding the anger in..no surprise op is drained, checked out and 0 fks to give once he finished the "project". All justified! Salute!
NTA
OP has a right to be angry, saying that he "needs to be here for her either way" is honestly disgusting. 23 years of his life wasted because his wife was d'd down by some young guy. The people saying he needs to be there are toxic people for even saying that. This woman is absolutely disgusting, and the fact that she wanted forgiveness is honestly astounding to me.
You state some deep things Roblex dude. I respect that lol.
Some people don’t realize “forgiveness” doesn’t mean just moving on in the same way
@@ghostwhite1648it is funny that she did all this just to get some dick while her husband was sick. people are fucking disgusting sometimes
I feel like when Sue tried to end it and the people who left her contacted the OP about going to support her was wrong. The OP should have went right back at them saying something like “if I cheated and tried to end it would you want her to support me?” Sue was definitely the jerk
Alternatively, remind them that up until she tried to end it, they had abandoned her as well. They played a part in this too.
Let's not forget the time they abandoned her and then to shift the blame tried to force him to go there. :D These people were not a friends at all
I believe that in that case the society, in general, would tell him to do it properly and actually die because that's the kind of treatment we men get regardless. I know this will resonate with all the men who come across this.
Honestly it was sue’s choice and decision to try to do that. OP had nothing to do with sue’s life as soon as he last talked to her. I feel bad for the friends and family members though, they had to be worried and sad when sue overdosed. Honestly she’s an even worse mother than wife. What if it had actually ended her? She would’ve just left the life of her children just like that. She’s so selfish it makes me hurl
I agree
Mad respect for you been able to make this decision you're definitely not a jerk you're just doing what you had to. You deserve a good life with someone who truly respects you. So good luck with your future and have fun you you know you deserve it.
The fact that she kept on texting POS that she was afraid that the OP was cheating on her made me laugh
her trying to kill herself like that screams like those guys and girls that threaten to do so if someone won't date them. it's manipulative and the people trying to force him to go see her are messed up for thinking that's okay.
I agree, and the fact she asked her father if OP came to see her deffo makes it seem like she did it as a ploy to get him back
@@Bigfire253 I had a guy years ago try to pull this shit on me and I was like “Go ahead because that’s your choice and it would be your fault not mine. I have no obligation to date you.”
At the same time if she succeeded in killing herself, in a way he'll have some blood on his hands. OP definitely does not want her death on his conscience, directly or indirectly
@@ashlearhodeskim3112 most of the time, it is manipulation. There are, like anything else exceptions. Guy might do it and you'll never get that out of your head and never let that go. Most in that category liken that type of suicide as remaining ex as they picked up the gun and pulled the trigger themselves.
I'd call EMS on those threats
@@chrismc410 the guy that tried to do it to me was a guy I met online. I never met him, didn’t know anything about him. It he just started to obsess over me, was really creepy and clingy, I would be nice but turn him down. He would not leave me alone and when I asked him to that’s when he said he would end himself because “You are my last hope at love, without you I have nothing.” We didn’t even know each other other then being friends on Facebook, we only casually talked before that so it was like “how the hell did I become your love anything? I don’t know you, you don’t know me, so please just leave me alone.” I then unfriended and blocked. I don’t know what happened to him after that because I didn’t like being accused that my rejection of him would make him end his life and blame me for it. I was already someone fighting depression and anxiety. I didn’t deserve it.
I kept wanting to call POS “point of sale” instead of “piece of sh*t” for some reason throughout this story 😂 Beautiful revenge!
sue's dad is a legend. never had this much respect for someone i don't know
Thanks for the timestamp in the description. Otherwise I wouldn't have known where to start.
the father of that woman, 100% respect, a true man. As far as i can see he really understands what it feels like to be cheated by your love
and mainly he understands what love you can build up over 23 years of marriage
I honestly cant even feel sorry for the ex wife. My dad cheated on my mom for Years. Had extra kids, cheated with her friends, even my own grandmother told her "hes no good". Even got to the point a genuine hit man approached my mom and offered to unalive him because he rubbed his girlfriend the wrong way.
Well jokes on him cause my mom got the last laugh and hes been in jail since 2007, but that's a whole other story.
That took wild turns. Go to a sub Reddit and say the whole story. I’d love to know more
sounds like your mom isn't that good at picking men imo
Need whole story.
Damn. I need the whole story.
Sorry to whatever happened to you guys but I am so intrigued by the story
This man pulled the biggest "Bravo-6 Going dark" I have ever heard.
Absolutely Justified!!
I fucken love this guy. Not to seem insensitive, but I absolutely love the way he reacted. He was acting calm and composed while he was around her and like a spy, he was gathering information to form a figurative atom bomb to drop like the ball on new years. And this truly does bring a smile to my face.
It’s not insensitive trust me bro These lame ass Niggas just be simpin to much. She dug her grave so I don’t give a fuck what she does with herself, she should’ve thought about that before Fuckin a little boy 💀
It does suck that if he hadn’t done that, the divorce and maybe even her behavior, would’ve went in a completely different direction.
@@TrayTerra although it is her fault, and because of that, she deserves all the consequences harsh or not
@@coiusub7577 accountability is a beautiful thing.
@@TrayTerra Indeed
To quote Harvey Dent: You either die a hero. Or live long enough to see yourself become the villain.
To quote Arthur Dent: I'd far rather be happy than right any day.
...Probably why so many people become villains though... >_>
@@rollanddev Haven't heard a quote from Arthur Dent in a while. Must be a Thursday.
He’s not a jerk, he’s a legend
The true hero of this story is Nina. Nina best girl. She knows exactly what’s important when loving another unconditionally.
I’m really happy for them both.
Also the Ex trying to commit suicide sucks but he still owes her nothing, all he did was give hard facts to everyone about what she did and it’s on her that those facts were damning for how aweful she has been to a man that’s been married to her for 23 years of his life.
Also Nina coming up with the plan to make her think he might be cheating on her with Nina herself is the same sort of 5d chess games he was doing. Their made for each other 😂
Huge respect to this man, the emotional burden of this whole scene from the start to finish was just insane yet he handled it professionally and smart, like a true man would.
I say this entire fiasco was completely justified. This man had given her so much of his life resources and love yet she just dropped it like it had no value. That is the truest form of disrespect and I say good on him for finishing it all together, better for him
you dropped this king
I wish the best of luck to the OP, Nina, and Sue's father.
I fully respect OP's decision to cut her off completely, for me cheating is the ultimate deal breaker because even if you forgive the person you will never trust them again. I've only been cheated on once in my lifetime and when I found out he was cheating he was dead to me after that, didn't care to hear his forgiveness or excuses I just walked away and never looked back.
just remember if story was flipped around and he did what she did no one would come help the guy if he tried to kill himself just tells you how things are treated by sociality
EXACTLY. SPOT ON
ya true they said like let him die is not your fault he did that it means me people wanted op to see her is not his fault she took the stupid way
This man is amazing Omg this needs to be a Netflix short series. Chefs kiss
Oh and sue father like him to
Kermit Defrogg is the kind of guy I am willing to bet my life whenever I get cheated on, and I do not regret that choice.
this guy is truely justified. If anyone was in this situation and had the chance to do the same they would. He also did it in a way that wasn't just a knock out drag out fight, he did it so cleanly that it's all on her, so yeah, he did it the best and cleanest way he could. All of this started because of her being selfish, so if she blames anyone she should blame herself. Plus it sounds like she was self centered from the start, so her planning to self unalive as a way to get him back is not far fetched at all
This happens all too often, it's literally almost impossible to have a faithful partner.
This guys voice is so calming, and perfect for listening to while I'm playing video games!
That quick recap was epic
When a person cheats either they feel immediately guilty, stops the affair on the spot or few weeks later or they choose to keep the affair a secret. In that case, their brain turns into psychopath mode with often a dose of sadism toward their official SO : they don't care about SO's feelings and sometime they find pleasure in their suffering.
The fact that OP made her believe he was having an affair too was the only way to reconnect her with her ability to see the pain she was making him go through. Never cheat, but let them know you can have your side peace anytime... that make them behave !
If you need to make your SO behave through manipulation and threats, then you might as well just find someone else.
I wouldn't want to be with someone who "wants" to cheat on me but is only held back by the "reminders" that I can cheat as well. What a hellish way to live.
On another note, I agree completely with your statement of cheaters who keep it a secret turning into psychopaths and enjoying the suffering of their SO.
@@namelessbrat7197 bro, in that specific case, the OP new her SO was already cheating...
But anyway, love is a seduction game... seduction means in every senses manipulation... if you think that there should never be a dose of manipulation in a relationship, you are not living among humans... or, you are lucky enough and have never been hurt.
Honestly, the OP did not exaggerate. 23 years all gone, sure if they were only together for like 1 year it would be pretty mean but 23 years? The guy handled this way better than anyone ever could. The people that wanted him to visit her in the hospital have no idea what it must have felt like for him, I'm so glad you have your sons, friends, mother and even Nina.
Dude you have done it perfectly. God Bless you brother.
Glorious. Keep on your path King. 🤜🏽🤛🏽
Long story short he is an absolute legend and the ex wife's dad is an absolute bro frickin g man.
Letting people know that your partner cheated and then letting them get mad at her or fire her is just proof that other people agree with you.
Good shit brotha! You handled that well.
When he said „She was the UGLY DUCKling“ I completely lost it 😂😂
This guy needs a god damn REVENGE AWARD, He's the DEFINITION of a Perfect Revenge.
Did he though? All he did was expose her.
@@ajjtheamazing5615he fucked up her life , job and everything she worked towards in my eyes this is the best revenge
The person who shared the first story I thought was a good person. He said he blew her back out! DO YOU KNOW WHAT THAT FUCKING MEANS, IT IS SO INNAPROPRIATE! I don't like it when people share their sex life, it's disgusting.
More like a cringe award for that childishness.
@Triforcebro nah she deserved it , it's not cringe , they spent over 20 years together and she cheated on him when he was injured
"I put in my raycons" *_raycon sponsorship flashbacks_*
this story was mentioned by the very great compilations youtuber, Be Amazed.
He explained it shorter, but the suspense and thrill here is much more awesome.
IIRC, there was a follow-up story where OP was worried for 17 and had him in therapy: the kid had developed pretty much a psychotic hatred for his mother, and no matter how much the OP pleaded with him to forgive her (for 17's sake) because she's still his mother, he was just becoming more bitter and hateful towards her.
Yupp, I posted above somewhere how I disagree with how OP handled this. He made his kids hide knowledge of affair to keep collecting belongings and because she was a bad spouse and cheated, he pitted the children against her which is sooooo harmful for them. OP was so hellbent on revenge he became a bad father.
Still asking when is another dawn of the black hearts with her face is coming up
I personally don't think the op's the jerk. One of my favorite quotes applies perfectly here " You reap what you sow"
His speech sounds like the final speech of fnaf6😂😂
I respect you man that story was sad, but she deserved it
The 17 year old is gonna have a hard time trusting his mom ever again. His girlfriend cheated on him,he was heartbroken but when his mom cheating that broke the camel's back i feel rlly sorry for him.
Yes, I agree. He may never trust a woman again. I see a young man thrusting himself into his work and never being in a long term relationship. It’s quite sad what 4th wave feminism has brought.
Nothing quite like fostering a healthy relationship with women than the woman that should be the example of what he can expect out of women and relationships with them his mother turning out to also be a cheating ho.
his mom? women in general. it was a double tap for him. happened within 6 months at 17. he's totally fucked mentally i'd imagine.
gg wp. dude needs to get into therapy asap.
@@37exposures I mean when one of your first girlfriends or possibly the first one end up cheating on you and it turns out your mom is a cheater too. What have you learned? No woman can be trusted.
That's going to be very hard to overcome.
@@InDeathWeLove yep. horrible.
imo there are good people out there. not everyone is a liar. the OP was right when he said he didn't know her and that's why he's so bitter.
im actually surprised OP didn't take a paternity test.
My guy did better than 90% of cases like this. The chance of something going wrong is ENORMOUS, props to him but if he took all that time to divide a plan to become rich without her in his life to better himself, I wouldn't doubt he would have succeeded with that mindset of his.
Definitely not the jerk as someone who has been cheated on as well.I fully understand the feeling and the frustration it causes not including the trust issues it causes as well.
My blood boiled when it was mentioned how Sue supposedly could not live without the OP's support, and thinking that she should have thought about that and the 23 years of marriage before she considered having an infidelity with someone close to her oldest son's age. I have zero empathy towards the unfaithful.
OP is NOT the jerk.
disagree
@@koenigkorczak what
@@koenigkorczak what, didnt you listen at all?
@@elkku2934 obviously, not XD
@@thegalaxyofadventuresstudios I found his actions ridiculously extreme and cruel. unnecessary. asshole move. I don't have to agree with the rest of you.
S1: The only thing I hope is that Nina isn’t a rebound. The rest is just a great story. He has no obligation to see her or deal with her after she attempted suicide. Not his problem. Her family and friends can help her, but it’s ridiculous to expect him to respond. He should consider therapy though…he needs to get rid of the hatred so his future can be truly happy with her a fading memory.
Well considerinf he said that he thought he would never get remarried until nina told him how she feels i doubt it but she still could be a rebound idk
I literally have no words.This is Badass
L for the wife she couldn't handle the guilt so she tried to kill herself I think the revenge was justified I didn't think it went too far. I just hope the OP finds love in his life and wife learns that she is the jerk and she needs to accept that
This is a messed up comment.
@@IamtheSpy2005Its messed up because Thatgirlunicorn is speaking the truth?
@@Frightmarelordofthenightmares Messed up because the wife tried to commit sewer slide? Yes.
@@IamtheSpy2005 It's Suicide not Sewer Slide. Also yeah I agree its messed up she tried to commit Suicide because of the consequences of her own actions.
@@IamtheSpy2005 Stats are clear: women 'attempt' suicide, but per year in the US, out of 720,000 attempt there was less than 10,000 'success', mem are 5 times more likely to reach their goal.
Iow she was trying once again to be selfishly manipulative.. the only messed-up thing is that she succeeded
I wish I had that mental capacity to plan and enact something like this, but I know I'd just shut down, cry and yell about it XD
RESPECT FOR HER DAD BEING REASONABLE
Wait so even with the amount of evidence, the lying and unfaithfulness by HER, somehow u still would have to play ~600$ for her because SHE got HERSELF unemployed???? The stupidest shi ever....
Agreed.
Now I think I can this whole revenge story. I think there was one last update. On his last update, he went further saying he actually saw his ex-wife and talked one last time. She was such in disarray when they talked, however he didn't want to express anything to her.
Damn. This is what you call a nuclear revenge. Just wow.
Her question, "did OP come to see me?" reveals her intention for the s attempt. Just more manipulation. Not the AH.
Op did what I wish I could have done to my ex wife who cheated on me not 2 months after we got married, but not with one man, but three, when I found out we were already divorced, and she was pregnant, not my kid, but that's a story for another day, the op did something so amazing that it was beautiful, I hope he and his lady friend can settle down and possibly start another family, if he hasn't been snipped or she has any complications, they deserve each other.
AMEN. Same here, with my ex-wife
Not married but I pledge my hand up to you my fellow brother
Ew
I hope she pays for her actions
The fact that she was so hopeful that he came to visit her shows her attempt was absolutely a set up.
This man is a hero. He must be protected at all costs
Loved this story! a little long but worth it!
I aspire to handle the worst life has to throw at me as well as this man here. What an absolute unit of a man.
The op and the narrator described it perfectly. She literally oded just to try to get the attention she want getting. When she found out it didn’t work on OP she shutdown, because her plan didn’t work. I wouldn’t be surprised if that was her first question when she woke. It’s such a selfish way to make yourself feel better by making everyone else feel bad for you. My wife had odes before we met and she did it because she felt she wasn’t needed in the world. But this is such a twisted way to getting people to feel bad for you.
“Operation shinobe ghost” though is crazy😂
I respect this man with every fiber of my being. If I was in this situation and genius enough to do all this, I wouldn't think twice before beginning ;)
Sad thing is that there are good loyal people out there but these scumbags give the rest of us trust issues
Yes, there are. The problem is there are far to many just like Sue. I had a similar situation but my marriage was 28 years in with 4 children. I understand his pain. Frankly he got off easy. In no fault states the penalty of marrying a woman like Sue is quite severe. This may have caused her desperate attempt. Had she lived in a no fault state her situation would have been quite possibly much better…financially and her state of mind much clearer.
@@georgeharvey3062 The only bad thing in this story is that she missed
I was hoping for a happy ending where the wife didn't survive. But if the OP has made peace with everything, I'm happy for him
Reality is often disappointing - 🤓
Same
If this is the story i think it is rhe wife did die
@@teddybear6403 wait what?
What a shame
Nice functional writing essay it was entertaining