and some times we just don't realize the gravity of how bad being a rebound is. Its not our fault they pursued us and told us they were ready. But it is up to us to recognize the red flags of a person that is not ready
I was used by my recent ex as a rebound, after 1 month and 20 days we broke up, he said he still love his ex and that he's not yet ready for a new relationship, now he's with his ex and I was left alone hurting. 💔💔
Thank you a lot. I am currently going through this right now... Long story short, I found out yesterday that the person I was (and honestly, still am) in love with went back to her ex yesterday. While I feel I've done a lot of mental preparation to accept this possibility, I feel like it wasn't enough, or couldn't be enough. I do try to rationalise things and it grants me temporary asylum from the grief, but feelings of denial, rage, betrayal and utter sadness do inevitably manage to seep back in. Anyway, thanks again for the video. It has helped me regain some perspective, albeit perhaps only for a moment or two.
Thank you for this video. My ex broke up with me three days ago to go back to his ex-fiancé. I did some digging and found out that he was roughly out of the relationship for three months before we matched on hinge and probably had a few dates before me. There were a few yellow flags that I knew were going to come up eventually. However the big red flag that I dismissed was finding him and his exes engagement rings still in his car. But we all live and learn right. I’m starting my healing process today.
Ryan I need a hug. I lived with my girlfriend in the mental hospital, which deserves a short story of it's own. I don't have bpd, but she does, and my ability to bond and her inability to bond is like feeling a phantom limb of a limb that may not have been what I thought it was. Because of isolation, the pain became very sad and scary.
I'm so gald I found your channel. My ex told me that she was straight while breaking up with me and can't be with me in a lesbian relationship. Later she told me she is not over her ex bf and I was her rebound and she doesn't deserve to be loved by me. There are v. Few LGBTQ people who have a channels speaking about Dating.
My ex was married, we met and we had a relationship for 2 years and 3 months, I asked him a little bit about his past, he said he had been alone for a long time, he never wanted to talk about his relationships so I believed him, we broke up 10 months ago and after 2 months he got a new girlfriend, I was in shock, the guy who told me before me he spent a lot of time alone was in a new relationship, I think I am a rebound, he was trying to go over his ex wife and go over all his issues and insecurities, I don’t know if it makes any sense.
Hello my ex use me for to buy her lots of clothes and jewelry but when my money finish I ask her to give to me some time to save money from my work but she went back to the ex boyfriend so does that mean she make me rebound relationship???
George N that means she used u . Move on don’t look back . U deserve more than that . Learn how to love urself and don’t let no one walk all over u . God bless .
and some times we just don't realize the gravity of how bad being a rebound is. Its not our fault they pursued us and told us they were ready. But it is up to us to recognize the red flags of a person that is not ready
I was used by my recent ex as a rebound, after 1 month and 20 days we broke up, he said he still love his ex and that he's not yet ready for a new relationship, now he's with his ex and I was left alone hurting. 💔💔
Thank you a lot. I am currently going through this right now... Long story short, I found out yesterday that the person I was (and honestly, still am) in love with went back to her ex yesterday. While I feel I've done a lot of mental preparation to accept this possibility, I feel like it wasn't enough, or couldn't be enough. I do try to rationalise things and it grants me temporary asylum from the grief, but feelings of denial, rage, betrayal and utter sadness do inevitably manage to seep back in. Anyway, thanks again for the video. It has helped me regain some perspective, albeit perhaps only for a moment or two.
CarmenOfSpades how long were you guys dating for?
Thank you for this video. My ex broke up with me three days ago to go back to his ex-fiancé. I did some digging and found out that he was roughly out of the relationship for three months before we matched on hinge and probably had a few dates before me. There were a few yellow flags that I knew were going to come up eventually. However the big red flag that I dismissed was finding him and his exes engagement rings still in his car. But we all live and learn right. I’m starting my healing process today.
Thank you! I was the one who requested this video topic. I really appreciate it!
Ryan I need a hug. I lived with my girlfriend in the mental hospital, which deserves a short story of it's own. I don't have bpd, but she does, and my ability to bond and her inability to bond is like feeling a phantom limb of a limb that may not have been what I thought it was. Because of isolation, the pain became very sad and scary.
I'm so gald I found your channel. My ex told me that she was straight while breaking up with me and can't be with me in a lesbian relationship. Later she told me she is not over her ex bf and I was her rebound and she doesn't deserve to be loved by me.
There are v. Few LGBTQ people who have a channels speaking about Dating.
My ex was married, we met and we had a relationship for 2 years and 3 months, I asked him a little bit about his past, he said he had been alone for a long time, he never wanted to talk about his relationships so I believed him, we broke up 10 months ago and after 2 months he got a new girlfriend, I was in shock, the guy who told me before me he spent a lot of time alone was in a new relationship, I think I am a rebound, he was trying to go over his ex wife and go over all his issues and insecurities, I don’t know if it makes any sense.
This helped me in 2021. Thank you.
Thank you for this video... it definitely makes me feel a bit better. I hope I can get over this soon
Thanks for sharing your experience, it helped me.
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Thanks to the Rewired Soul for recommending you. I really really needed this video.
Hello my ex use me for to buy her lots of clothes and jewelry but when my money finish I ask her to give to me some time to save money from my work but she went back to the ex boyfriend so does that mean she make me rebound relationship???
George N that means she used u . Move on don’t look back . U deserve more than that . Learn how to love urself and don’t let no one walk all over u . God bless .
You got it buddy
Damn not only do you have great advice you're really cute too 🤩😘
Thank you! Thank you so much