My mother passed away at 50.. she did not live long enough to have wrinkles or grandchildren. I am now 64 and have both and feel extremely blessed. I love getting the chance to get older.
I'm only 17 and I love your channel. Despite being so young, I want to instill the narrative of aging having a sense of beauty to it instead of what the media currently portrays at such an extreme. You are so beautiful, and I hope to be just like you one day. We often forget as the younger generation that all humans are one in the same. Probably because we are scared ourselves of growing old. But without acceptance, peace isn't possible. 💜💜💜✨️✨️✨️
At 68, I find meditation, walking, journaling, connecting (With God, family & friends) & a gratitude practice to be really important to me to live fully each day. Ty for these wonderful videos! 💕
Very inspirational! Almost 72, depressed, suffering with TMJ and eczema. Going to start today - talking to others, developing my purpose. You are like my new friend. Thank you for this video.
I had a stroke at 59 and was told that because I was in good physical shape my recovery was great. It makes you grateful to experience something so life challenging. Then I turned 60 and became very depressed. I've since snapped out of it and now at 62, I'm ready to take on life again and I don't forget that keeping fit can come in handy for many things, I enjoy the little things even more than I used to. Thank you Margaret😅
I always thought I would have my mother to teach me how to age gracefully,she did it so well. alas, she passed,so I REALLY appreciate your videos . I read this article and it said "60 is the youth of old age" talk about lol!
I’m 70 now….I’m finding the hardest thing to deal with is not working anymore… I retired 2years ago…..I feel useless, without purpose….logically I know that’s not true….I look after my grandkids and am not estranged from family…. Still, it’s a challenge to find purpose. Thanks so much for you’re show
Accept, own, face, adapt, quiet, find, decide and appreciate. Completely agree. Thanks, Margaret. I think about these things a lot and practice them. What I would add is MOVE your body. Whether dance, yoga, walking, whatever. That is what has improved for me in my sixties. Starting at almost 60 doing daily exercise. At 67 I’ve come to appreciate the benefits that I seldom sought in earlier years because of raising kids and working and school and putting everything else first. Now, I give myself a couple of hours a day to stretch, dance, bike and quiet my mind. I also teach face yoga which empowers others to love themselves as they are and put their best face forward through exercise and kindness, aging with compassion and strength.
Wow! Tracy your an inspiration!loved reading your comments.Acceptance I find is the key to all our circumstances in life. not easy, but rewarding when you have accomplished it. 💌😊💐
@@alicemitchell5101 Thanks, Alice! You’re very kind. I agree acceptance can be hard, but it doesn’t mean giving in and giving up. It’s just taking a clear, honest look at your life and yourself and accepting what is and moving forward. I find at this decade a lot of friends and family are struggling with debilitating disease or anatomical issues. I appreciate daily the things I can do, even if it’s just picking up something off the floor with ease or washing my hair or twisting a lid open. It can be gone in a moment. I try never to take the small things for granted.
I lost two friends this year at the age of 53 and 55 and they never got a chance to age. I feel so blessed to age and I want to embrace every phase the best I can. I know I say it a lot but … Wabi Sabi embracing the imperfections of life and in ourselves and aging a beautiful gift 🧡 I also think that you must be consistent with eating and health and caring for yourself to feel your best. Love everyone here and thank you Margaret 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa
Your such an inspiration Margaret! Thank you for all the ideas, tips to keep a grateful, thankful spirit. I wish you lived nearby, we could have a cuppa, as well as some fun laughing at the things that make us who we are. 💌💐
Simply love this inspirational message, Margaret. I rejoice over aging-I feel like this time in our lives is a wonderful opportunity to embrace our strength. We’ve made it this far and learned so many lessons! I would add one more piece of the puzzle: practice forgiveness. Don’t let the anger or regret weigh you down. Forgive others and yourself and move on ❤️
I am loving my 60's so much more than my 50's! I am much more laid back, happier and have so many less pressures now. And the things that use to keep me up at night no longer bother me. I am blessed by so many things, the good and the not so good~ both have taught me and continue to teach. I feel that this last third of my life is going to be very interesting! Thank you for another great topic!
At 75 I finally got rid of all my high heels shoes but still love wearing wedges. My mother always said to grow old gracefully and my husband says age is only a number and if you think young, you'll stay young at heart.
I’m 75 and am thankful for the strength I still have to overcome difficulties. In the last 2 years I had cancer and last summer Covid. I’m coming out of it and still on my feet. So grateful and am learning to make myself the priority. When I retired I had the sad feeling of not contributing enough. I have overcome that and enjoy whatever I want to do. Thank you for your wonderful work to encourage us. Love your videos and look forward to seeing them.❤️
I lost my only child when I was 40, my partner committed suicide the following year; I never got to have grandchildren, and yes I've learned to just love, myself and just how lucky I am. and grateful for the life I have; I keep myself busy and never think for one moment about aging, as every day, truly is a blessing... My love is clothes, designing jewelry, digital art, and abstract oil painting... and taking care of my health now that I'm ill. Now 66, Still love shopping, fashion, makeup, and generally feeling damn good about the way I look; When life hands you lemons, best make the sweetest lemonade... Your red sparkly beret; inspired me; Also, what's the highlighter that your using, I really love the tawny sheen; Thanks for your newsy video; I've just found you and now subscribed, Many thanks!
Hi Margaret: Yes, aging is tough, indeed, on many different levels. I do feel invisible on the outside, though I feel young on the inside. Accepting my age makes me think about mortality, so I don't think too much about a particular number. I'm trying hard, but, society makes it more difficult than it already is. I can't "deny" it anymore. It's a big challenge, much greater than any age bracket before. I'm grateful to be here, but, no one said it was easy. Thank you for a wonderful topic, and your suggestions on how to go forward. Stay safe and well! 🙏, Rosemarie 💖
I understand completely the aging is a challenge for a lot of women nowadays... wish we all lived close to each other so we could connect with coffee breaks and seeing each other in person..
I would love to interact with women in their 60s and early 70s that miss being young and how we can all help each other to maintain a sense of beauty and love and usefulness and connection, As we age... I am looking for wonderful smart loving women to connect with, I so miss the friendships...
I’m 47 ( in a month) and I have been struggling with almost being 50. I have never worried about my age until recently. I was always told I looked young for my age etc so I didn’t feel it. I’m so so grateful I found your video. You have me a lot of food for thought and I’m grateful I made it to 47 and some people don’t!
Thank you Margaret for your interesting talk. I appreciate the way you make major issues sound simple. I am 75 and I conduct groups for 60+, and I can confirm that you addressed the major issues that concern people after 60.
I needed to hear this so much right now. I'm 65 and although I don't have as much difficulty admitting my real age as some, as you were talking about having fallen I realized that I had been expecting myself to be 50 physically (below the neck activity). I'm not getting over infections near as fast as I did then and I fell the other day just climbing onto a chair (I'm ok - just achy). Other med problems have been around for a while (except achy days are newer), but I feel guilty enjoying sitting in my easy chair. Don't worry, I know the old maxim "use it or lose it" and won't be stopping all activity at all, Only not feeling guilty when I have to. As far as how I've improved with age - I don't go off "half cocked" at small things anymore. I'm learning more and more that when I get a worried thought that "it's not all about me" (may be a harder lesson for the "Me Generation"). Plus, I'm not quite as hung up on vanity as I was (even as an adult). Like you say "It is what it is".
As I turn 60, I’m presently so thankful for health and family, and community. While it seems strange to me, I’m comfortable at the same time. Thank you very much for your group and discussions about these things. I find them valuable in this world that puts so much emphasis on the temporary and the superficial aspects. Blessings.
I don't mind my age but I do try to realize I need to take care of myself differently. I enjoy having enough experience that I know what I like and don't like and can speak up for myself as I couldn't do that when I was younger. Too worried about someone not liking it. haha now it is myself who gets to do what "I" like! Also started a relationship that was unexpected but a blessing having a companion. Looking forward to retirement.
Great video ! 💕 Live your best life at any age…retired in Jan, 66 years old, single, no family near but my dog & I are living our best lives….yes, with some adjustments but I am grateful for every day.
Margaret, I turned 40 last week and recently started noticing signs of aging; it depressed yet fascinated me. There's something rather bizarre about watching my face and body change yet it's sad in the sense that it feels as though a whole person has died inside me and a brand new person, who I'm not familiar with, is emerging. It's bittersweet. Watching your video gave me hope, strength and confidence. Your wisdom, humour and vibrance are commendable. Thank you for being my new mentor. Lots of love all the way from Pakistan. 💚
Thank you for this - wow! I am getting better and better each day. Love your guiding through these times. I am 65 years and still loving my life. Even through the challenges. You inspire me to help other women along our journey.
Thank you for posting this! I'm going to be 54 in about a month and with all of the emphasis on looking good in our culture, it's very difficult to keep noticing signs of aging. Also, I've lost 42 pounds and a layer of fat has dissolved in my face! This is very relevant and practical advice.
I’m 31 and I’m happy to be here. Love to see honest conversation about the process. There is so much anti-aging info out there but aging is inevitable.. I just want to prepare to handle it with as much grace as possible
Thank you for your wonderful videos Margaret. I always welcome your sage advice and your lovely smile! I would say that my attitude of gratitude has improved with age and I am blessed for that!
What has improved with age? I learned to listen to my body. I eat to be stronger. I take better care of myself. I now have two grandchildren so I have discovered love on another deeper level. Time is so precious now and so are friends.
I have outlived friends. I decided to start the bucket list. I'm enjoying working on my adventures. I worked and saved money to live in Mexico this winter. Next year is a Alaskan ferry trip up the inside passage. Then a fall trip to Spain. I work save money and go again. Life is short.
Love when you share your personal experiences. Would LOVE to see how you organize your living space, if not too invasive🌺. Love your positivity…contagious!
Yep too many people die young.I am just happy to still be here. Biggest thing I have learned with age is to say no to what does not make you happy and spend more time with those that matter most in your life. Make every day count and take time each day to do something just for you and treat people with kindness. Learn to forgive and do not hold grudges. Keep healthy and happy. X
Falling is definitely a wake up call. I am 71 and I have fallen twice this year. Never thought this would happen to me! I realize that I just have to be more mindful of how and where I walk.
I am grateful for the 68 years that I have lived. It has been wonderful time to be alive. Thankfully, I retired years ago and can enjoy a relaxed time with a lot less stress.
For me, the isolation from family and the deprivation of accomplishment from no longer working are the most negatively impacting. I really miss being connected to those I believed would always be "my" people who have now drifted away. And I miss the usefulness and productivity of working. Right now I don't know how to resolve these challenges. I hope I can find a way.
Thank you for sharing this video. I loved your last question. In answer to it, The things that have improved as I’ve aged: The ability to set healthy boundaries. Ability to kindly say no when I need to. Ability to know myself better and how to take care of my emotional, physical, spiritual etc. health in a more positive way. Soooo many things like this! I would never go back to my teens and twenties! Forties are great so far, and I look forward to all the growth and possibilities ahead. We have so much to be grateful for💕
Oh yes, and JOURNAL! It helps to get clear, plan and sometimes just vent frustrations. So helpful. What really helps me get out of the doldrums when they show is a pair of earphones and my workout music playlist on Spotify. Just hearing upbeat music that I love enhances all the household chores. Turn it up, ladies! And keep smiling. ❤️😁
I am 35, and it was almost at the start of Covid that my depression began about aging. I am in the last phase of my Ph.D., and I have to finish my thesis as soon as possible. I am doing functional workouts three times a week and trying to run on the weekends, BUT, I am still not happy. I am afraid of losing my parents. Six years ago, I immigrated to Canada, and last year when I visited my whole family, I noticed most of them had gotten older, though it wasn’t clear on Skype. One day, when I talked about this with my friend, she told me, 'You've also gotten older to them; it's not just them!' And I thought, 'Yes,' I am getting older while my feelings are still like those of an 18-year-old girl. I completely understand my granny when she used to say, 'I feel so young,' and as a kid, I couldn't understand what she meant. Now, I completely agree. I need not think about aging because it really stops me from enjoying life. Thanks for this great video and all the great comments. Being an adult human is really a hard task.
Thank you for your inspiration! Great video. 63 here and really just noticing the changes sneaking up on me in the last year and a half. Love your positive videos!
Communications! none! when I talk to my children, face to face, I get no reactions, no answers. When I text I sometimes get something back but if they dont want to talk about it, nothing. I go visit with their family, the grand kids are online, the parents on their phone and me? well I'll wash the floors! what else do you want me to do? I can go home and be on my phone! no communications, no conversations, I am on my own more then when I am alone.
I chose not to have kids or marry, and every one said I would regret it , well I am 66yrs old and guess what I haven't yet. I am so sorry that your family don't appreciate you they will when you are no longer here.
Great video! I just turned 60 six months ago & loving it! I’m thankful & grateful for each & every day of my life. I accept the many changes in my body but my spirit is young & strong. I’m so ready to experience more adventures in this life’s journey. Thank you for your advice on aging beautifully.💗👍🏽
PTL Margaret…beautiful necklace; attitude, yes we matter and have a lot to contribute. It’s not for the faint of heart, it’s our gift of time. I am taking one day at a time, step by step and moment to moment💯❤️🌹!
I truly love this !! I am 60 and have lost a lot of the weight I had gained over the years and couldn’t get rid of back then , sometimes I have good days and sometimes I have to take a minute to stand up, but once I see my makeup I’m happy lol tfs your wise thoughts with us very well said and put together Margaret!!!!! Thank you!!
Thank you for this video ! My personal problem about aging is, apart from having difficulties walking down stairs, is that I feel much younger than my age (76). I have my wrinkles and have decided to let my hair grow without colouring it so I can make chignons etc. (my grandmother had hair right down to her bottom - plaited and made into a bun, she was so beautiful !!!). I would say that loneliness is a problem, although I have my son and his wife living with me for 4 years. But I'm a solitary person and joining clubs for seniors is not my thing (just like my father) - that's my problem - lol
All of my adult life I have been grateful each year- for each birthday. Aging is a privilege as I see it, as I lost my parents very young. I am carrying the torch for them, but I must say that since turning 60 last year I have definitely seen a difference in my body. :-D It's ok though because I am accepting this aging body more and more as time moves on. This video was very powerful in sovereignty and self acceptance. Excellent
What a wonderful video! You are a great role model of aging with grace. You're a lovely person inside and out, and I really appreciate and enjoy your videos. ❤
Thank you for sharing this video! I've been hiding of how old I am for years now. I look young with my age and sometimes people would not believe that I am 40 years old. I really wish that I was younger coz I have so much things that I want to do. I have a very difficult childhood thats probably the reason why I'm very immature. I just dont know how to accept it and deal with the pain. I have been seeking professional help as well, just to help me with depression. It started when I'm trying to fit in with people at work coz some of my co worker wont believe that I was that old coz i dont look like it. I know lying and dodging age related question is bad and I know that I cant hide forever. Hope everyone can relate to my current problems and possibly help me with advise on what to do. Thanks!
At 75, I have been able to accept many things, and survived many things. But my face and my hair are a real challenge for me. Don't mean to sound petty, but that is the toughest part of aging now. Survived cancer, joint replacement, heart problems, and yet this bothers me so. Why is that?
so it is time to enroll in benefits at work. I work for insurance company. They justified their pitiful offerings (dental and vision are so NOT worth it; you pay more than you get!) by saying they have a lot of older workers who are more expensive to cover. Last time they said that, they laid off older workers. I almost hope I am on the list! so disgusted. "Do more with less, this isn't a 40 hour job (no kidding! most of us are working 60-80!), we are family", bs. so the point? It is REALLY important to value yourself, as the world clearly doesn't value you. But if you have in your heart you are worth what you really are worth? who cares! Be happy, ladies! 😜
I am currently fed up with older men approaching me as if they have a chance to date me. I believe they are extremely entitled and they should pursue women their age or older.
me watching this at 16 bc I already feel like im too old and closer to death, idk I kinda of feel like all the dreams that I have are over, bc I should have started when I was younger, now everything seems impossible to reach bc of my age.
My mother passed away at 50.. she did not live long enough to have wrinkles or grandchildren. I am now 64 and have both and feel extremely blessed. I love getting the chance to get older.
Amen!! Love this! I lost two friends this year at 53 and 55. I feel grateful to age. 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa
I have outlived both my parents by several decades. I know what you mean.
I'm only 17 and I love your channel. Despite being so young, I want to instill the narrative of aging having a sense of beauty to it instead of what the media currently portrays at such an extreme. You are so beautiful, and I hope to be just like you one day. We often forget as the younger generation that all humans are one in the same. Probably because we are scared ourselves of growing old. But without acceptance, peace isn't possible. 💜💜💜✨️✨️✨️
you are wise beyond your years ❤ if this is your mentality as a teenager, you are going to have a fantastic life👍👏
At 68, I find meditation, walking, journaling, connecting (With God, family & friends) & a gratitude practice to be really important to me to live fully each day. Ty for these wonderful videos! 💕
I’m 42 and dealing with this…. Beauty standards are so unrealistic now a days. I’m having a really hard time lately. Feeling so depressed. 😢
Me too
Very inspirational! Almost 72, depressed, suffering with TMJ and eczema. Going to start today - talking to others, developing my purpose. You are like my new friend.
Thank you for this video.
I had a stroke at 59 and was told that because I was in good physical shape my recovery was great. It makes you grateful to experience something so life challenging. Then I turned 60 and became very depressed. I've since snapped out of it and now at 62, I'm ready to take on life again and I don't forget that keeping fit can come in handy for many things, I enjoy the little things even more than I used to. Thank you Margaret😅
I always thought I would have my mother to teach me how to age gracefully,she did it so well. alas, she passed,so I REALLY appreciate your videos . I read this article and it said "60 is the youth of old age" talk about lol!
I’m 70 now….I’m finding the hardest thing to deal with is not working anymore… I retired 2years ago…..I feel useless, without purpose….logically I know that’s not true….I look after my grandkids and am not estranged from family…. Still, it’s a challenge to find purpose. Thanks so much for you’re show
Accept, own, face, adapt, quiet, find, decide and appreciate. Completely agree. Thanks, Margaret. I think about these things a lot and practice them. What I would add is MOVE your body. Whether dance, yoga, walking, whatever. That is what has improved for me in my sixties. Starting at almost 60 doing daily exercise. At 67 I’ve come to appreciate the benefits that I seldom sought in earlier years because of raising kids and working and school and putting everything else first. Now, I give myself a couple of hours a day to stretch, dance, bike and quiet my mind. I also teach face yoga which empowers others to love themselves as they are and put their best face forward through exercise and kindness, aging with compassion and strength.
Wow! Tracy your an inspiration!loved reading your comments.Acceptance I find is the key to all our circumstances in life. not easy, but rewarding when you have accomplished it. 💌😊💐
@@alicemitchell5101 Thanks, Alice! You’re very kind. I agree acceptance can be hard, but it doesn’t mean giving in and giving up. It’s just taking a clear, honest look at your life and yourself and accepting what is and moving forward. I find at this decade a lot of friends and family are struggling with debilitating disease or anatomical issues. I appreciate daily the things I can do, even if it’s just picking up something off the floor with ease or washing my hair or twisting a lid open. It can be gone in a moment. I try never to take the small things for granted.
I lost two friends this year at the age of 53 and 55 and they never got a chance to age. I feel so blessed to age and I want to embrace every phase the best I can. I know I say it a lot but …
Wabi Sabi embracing the imperfections of life and in ourselves and aging a beautiful gift 🧡
I also think that you must be consistent with eating and health and caring for yourself to feel your best. Love everyone here and thank you Margaret 🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa
So beautifully said. We GET to age, yay!!
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Thank You for your kind response Shawn. Have a blessed rest of your day 🧡🙌🏻🍑Lisa
Your such an inspiration Margaret! Thank you for all the ideas, tips to keep a grateful, thankful spirit. I wish you lived nearby, we could have a cuppa, as well as some fun laughing at the things that make us who we are. 💌💐
Simply love this inspirational message, Margaret. I rejoice over aging-I feel like this time in our lives is a wonderful opportunity to embrace our strength. We’ve made it this far and learned so many lessons! I would add one more piece of the puzzle: practice forgiveness. Don’t let the anger or regret weigh you down. Forgive others and yourself and move on ❤️
Wonderful topic especially as you get older the fear is mount up and sometimes they are overwhelming
I am loving my 60's so much more than my 50's! I am much more laid back, happier and have so many less pressures now. And the things that use to keep me up at night no longer bother me. I am blessed by so many things, the good and the not so good~ both have taught me and continue to teach. I feel that this last third of my life is going to be very interesting! Thank you for another great topic!
At 75 I finally got rid of all my high heels shoes but still love wearing wedges. My mother always said to grow old gracefully and my husband says age is only a number and if you think young, you'll stay young at heart.
I’m 75 and am thankful for the strength I still have to overcome difficulties. In the last 2 years I had cancer and last summer Covid. I’m coming out of it and still on my feet. So grateful and am learning to make myself the priority. When I retired I had the sad feeling of not contributing enough. I have overcome that and enjoy whatever I want to do.
Thank you for your wonderful work to encourage us. Love your videos and look forward to seeing them.❤️
Thank you Margaret, this is one of your very best - which is saying a lot because they're all good!
I lost my only child when I was 40, my partner committed suicide the following year; I never got to have grandchildren, and yes I've learned to just love, myself and just how lucky I am. and grateful for the life I have; I keep myself busy and never think for one moment about aging, as every day, truly is a blessing... My love is clothes, designing jewelry, digital art, and abstract oil painting... and taking care of my health now that I'm ill. Now 66, Still love shopping, fashion, makeup, and generally feeling damn good about the way I look;
When life hands you lemons, best make the sweetest lemonade...
Your red sparkly beret; inspired me;
Also, what's the highlighter that your using, I really love the tawny sheen;
Thanks for your newsy video; I've just found you and now subscribed, Many thanks!
Hi Margaret: Yes, aging is tough, indeed, on many different levels. I do feel invisible on the outside, though I feel young on the inside. Accepting my age makes me think about mortality, so I don't think too much about a particular number. I'm trying hard, but, society makes it more difficult than it already is. I can't "deny" it anymore. It's a big challenge, much greater than any age bracket before. I'm grateful to be here, but, no one said it was easy. Thank you for a wonderful topic, and your suggestions on how to go forward. Stay safe and well! 🙏, Rosemarie 💖
I understand completely the aging is a challenge for a lot of women nowadays... wish we all lived close to each other so we could connect with coffee breaks and seeing each other in person..
I would love to interact with women in their 60s and early 70s that miss being young and how we can all help each other to maintain a sense of beauty and love and usefulness and connection, As we age... I am looking for wonderful smart loving women to connect with, I so miss the friendships...
I’m 47 ( in a month) and I have been struggling with almost being 50. I have never worried about my age until recently. I was always told I looked young for my age etc so I didn’t feel it. I’m so so grateful I found your video. You have me a lot of food for thought and I’m grateful I made it to 47 and some people don’t!
Loved this video, and thank you for sharing! I'm a 59 year old man, with a 54 year old wife who is aging much more graceful than myself 😀😀
Thank you Margaret for your interesting talk. I appreciate the way you make major issues sound simple. I am 75 and I conduct groups for 60+, and I can confirm that you addressed the major issues that concern people after 60.
I needed to hear this so much right now. I'm 65 and although I don't have as much difficulty admitting my real age as some, as you were talking about having fallen I realized that I had been expecting myself to be 50 physically (below the neck activity). I'm not getting over infections near as fast as I did then and I fell the other day just climbing onto a chair (I'm ok - just achy). Other med problems have been around for a while (except achy days are newer), but I feel guilty enjoying sitting in my easy chair. Don't worry, I know the old maxim "use it or lose it" and won't be stopping all activity at all, Only not feeling guilty when I have to.
As far as how I've improved with age - I don't go off "half cocked" at small things anymore. I'm learning more and more that when I get a worried thought that "it's not all about me" (may be a harder lesson for the "Me Generation"). Plus, I'm not quite as hung up on vanity as I was (even as an adult). Like you say "It is what it is".
As I turn 60, I’m presently so thankful for health and family, and community. While it seems strange to me, I’m comfortable at the same time. Thank you very much for your group and discussions about these things. I find them valuable in this world that puts so much emphasis on the temporary and the superficial aspects. Blessings.
I don't mind my age but I do try to realize I need to take care of myself differently. I enjoy having enough experience that I know what I like and don't like and can speak up for myself as I couldn't do that when I was younger. Too worried about someone not liking it. haha now it is myself who gets to do what "I" like! Also started a relationship that was unexpected but a blessing having a companion. Looking forward to retirement.
Thank you for the beautiful and insightful advice. I’ll be 60 in a few weeks. ☺️🙏🏼
Happy birthday soon! Life gets better & better! 💕
Great video ! 💕 Live your best life at any age…retired in Jan, 66 years old, single, no family near but my dog & I are living our best lives….yes, with some adjustments but I am grateful for every day.
Margaret, I turned 40 last week and recently started noticing signs of aging; it depressed yet fascinated me. There's something rather bizarre about watching my face and body change yet it's sad in the sense that it feels as though a whole person has died inside me and a brand new person, who I'm not familiar with, is emerging. It's bittersweet. Watching your video gave me hope, strength and confidence. Your wisdom, humour and vibrance are commendable. Thank you for being my new mentor. Lots of love all the way from Pakistan. 💚
Thank you for this - wow! I am getting better and better each day. Love your guiding through these times. I am 65 years and still loving my life. Even through the challenges. You inspire me to help other women along our journey.
Thank you for posting this! I'm going to be 54 in about a month and with all of the emphasis on looking good in our culture, it's very difficult to keep noticing signs of aging. Also, I've lost 42 pounds and a layer of fat has dissolved in my face! This is very relevant and practical advice.
My therapist used to suggest that I shift from how I look to how I feel. That practice makes a huge difference in how I feel about myself! 💕
I’m 31 and I’m happy to be here. Love to see honest conversation about the process. There is so much anti-aging info out there but aging is inevitable.. I just want to prepare to handle it with as much grace as possible
I am 67 and living every day fully. Thanks for the videos.
Love 60 & Me! Thank you Margaret.
Enjoy listening to you
Thank you for your wonderful videos Margaret. I always welcome your sage advice and your lovely smile! I would say that my attitude of gratitude has improved with age and I am blessed for that!
Your words are so wise👍🌻
Another wonderful video, Margaret. I turned 65 in February, and I am just so thrilled to be the age I am!
I'm 28 and love your videos!!
You said, “calm your mind”, “quiet your mind”, then the commercials popped up! Crazy timing. Best from Ottawa Canada 🇨🇦
What has improved with age? I learned to listen to my body. I eat to be stronger. I take better care of myself. I now have two grandchildren so I have discovered love on another deeper level. Time is so precious now and so are friends.
Margaret.....you and all of your videos are delightful. I'm glad I found you! 💟🌹
I have outlived friends. I decided to start the bucket list. I'm enjoying working on my adventures. I worked and saved money to live in Mexico this winter. Next year is a Alaskan ferry trip up the inside passage. Then a fall trip to Spain. I work save money and go again. Life is short.
Love when you share your personal experiences. Would LOVE to see how you organize your living space, if not too invasive🌺. Love your positivity…contagious!
Yep too many people die young.I am just happy to still be here. Biggest thing I have learned with age is to say no to what does not make you happy and spend more time with those that matter most in your life.
Make every day count and take time each day to do something just for you and treat people with kindness.
Learn to forgive and do not hold grudges. Keep healthy and happy. X
Falling is definitely a wake up call. I am 71 and I have fallen twice this year. Never thought this would happen to me! I realize that I just have to be more mindful of how and where I walk.
I am grateful for the 68 years that I have lived. It has been wonderful time to be alive. Thankfully, I retired years ago and can enjoy a relaxed time with a lot less stress.
For me, the isolation from family and the deprivation of accomplishment from no longer working are the most negatively impacting. I really miss being connected to those I believed would always be "my" people who have now drifted away. And I miss the usefulness and productivity of working. Right now I don't know how to resolve these challenges. I hope I can find a way.
Thank you for sharing this video. I loved your last question. In answer to it, The things that have improved as I’ve aged:
The ability to set healthy boundaries.
Ability to kindly say no when I need to.
Ability to know myself better and how to take care of my emotional, physical, spiritual etc. health in a more positive way.
Soooo many things like this! I would never go back to my teens and twenties! Forties are great so far, and I look forward to all the growth and possibilities ahead. We have so much to be grateful for💕
Totally Loved this video! You are my hero always!
Oh yes, and JOURNAL! It helps to get clear, plan and sometimes just vent frustrations. So helpful. What really helps me get out of the doldrums when they show is a pair of earphones and my workout music playlist on Spotify. Just hearing upbeat music that I love enhances all the household chores. Turn it up, ladies! And keep smiling. ❤️😁
@Sixty and Me I guess I am destined to check out WhatsApp since this is my third invitation this week😄. Thanks, Margaret.
Thanks Margaret this video was great very informative
Inspiring article & great advice.
I am 35, and it was almost at the start of Covid that my depression began about aging. I am in the last phase of my Ph.D., and I have to finish my thesis as soon as possible. I am doing functional workouts three times a week and trying to run on the weekends, BUT, I am still not happy. I am afraid of losing my parents. Six years ago, I immigrated to Canada, and last year when I visited my whole family, I noticed most of them had gotten older, though it wasn’t clear on Skype. One day, when I talked about this with my friend, she told me, 'You've also gotten older to them; it's not just them!' And I thought, 'Yes,' I am getting older while my feelings are still like those of an 18-year-old girl. I completely understand my granny when she used to say, 'I feel so young,' and as a kid, I couldn't understand what she meant. Now, I completely agree. I need not think about aging because it really stops me from enjoying life. Thanks for this great video and all the great comments. Being an adult human is really a hard task.
Thank you.
Thank you for your inspiration! Great video. 63 here and really just noticing the changes sneaking up on me in the last year and a half. Love your positive videos!
You are so welcome!
Communications! none! when I talk to my children, face to face, I get no reactions, no answers. When I text I sometimes get something back but if they dont want to talk about it, nothing. I go visit with their family, the grand kids are online, the parents on their phone and me? well I'll wash the floors! what else do you want me to do? I can go home and be on my phone! no communications, no conversations, I am on my own more then when I am alone.
I chose not to have kids or marry, and every one said I would regret it , well I am 66yrs old and guess what I haven't yet. I am so sorry that your family don't appreciate you they will when you are no longer here.
This was good for us guys too! Thanks!
Great video! I just turned 60 six months ago & loving it! I’m thankful & grateful for each & every day of my life. I accept the many changes in my body but my spirit is young & strong. I’m so ready to experience more adventures in this life’s journey. Thank you for your advice on aging beautifully.💗👍🏽
PTL Margaret…beautiful necklace; attitude, yes we matter and have a lot to contribute. It’s not for the faint of heart, it’s our gift of time. I am taking one day at a time, step by step and moment to moment💯❤️🌹!
Thanks for this! ❤️
I truly love this !! I am 60 and have lost a lot of the weight I had gained over the years and couldn’t get rid of back then , sometimes I have good days and sometimes I have to take a minute to stand up, but once I see my makeup I’m happy lol tfs your wise thoughts with us very well said and put together Margaret!!!!! Thank you!!
Thank you for this video ! My personal problem about aging is, apart from having difficulties walking down stairs, is that I feel much younger than my age (76). I have my wrinkles and have decided to let my hair grow without colouring it so I can make chignons etc. (my grandmother had hair right down to her bottom - plaited and made into a bun, she was so beautiful !!!).
I would say that loneliness is a problem, although I have my son and his wife living with me for 4 years. But I'm a solitary person and joining clubs for seniors is not my thing (just like my father) - that's my problem - lol
Beautiful.
All of my adult life I have been grateful each year- for each birthday. Aging is a privilege as I see it, as I lost my parents very young. I am carrying the torch for them, but I must say that since turning 60 last year I have definitely seen a difference in my body. :-D It's ok though because I am accepting this aging body more and more as time moves on. This video was very powerful in sovereignty and self acceptance. Excellent
What a wonderful video! You are a great role model of aging with grace. You're a lovely person inside and out, and I really appreciate and enjoy your videos. ❤
Thank you for sharing this video! I've been hiding of how old I am for years now. I look young with my age and sometimes people would not believe that I am 40 years old. I really wish that I was younger coz I have so much things that I want to do. I have a very difficult childhood thats probably the reason why I'm very immature. I just dont know how to accept it and deal with the pain. I have been seeking professional help as well, just to help me with depression. It started when I'm trying to fit in with people at work coz some of my co worker wont believe that I was that old coz i dont look like it. I know lying and dodging age related question is bad and I know that I cant hide forever. Hope everyone can relate to my current problems and possibly help me with advise on what to do. Thanks!
Thank you Margaret, a much needed and appreciated topic!
I remember, not fondly, my intro to the mimeograph machine and the teletype 😒
I currently have 14 projects lined up in various levels of completion. No time to get bored!!!
Also that doesn’t include cross stitch projects. Plus we are helping our daughter move into her first house, post divorce.
forgot to say what has improved! Patience. definitely patience. where things would once irritate, I now find hilarious. way more fun now, lol.
Wonderful video! Thank you!!
Wonderful. Thank you.
Thanks so much ❤️
I certainly have more free time. At 73.
Hardest part, knowing more of my amazing life is now behind me instead of in front of me. What’s improved? ME ❤
At 75, I have been able to accept many things, and survived many things. But my face and my hair are a real challenge for me. Don't mean to sound petty, but that is the toughest part of aging now. Survived cancer, joint replacement, heart problems, and yet this bothers me so. Why is that?
Hard making new friends!
Love to You
so it is time to enroll in benefits at work. I work for insurance company. They justified their pitiful offerings (dental and vision are so NOT worth it; you pay more than you get!) by saying they have a lot of older workers who are more expensive to cover. Last time they said that, they laid off older workers. I almost hope I am on the list! so disgusted. "Do more with less, this isn't a 40 hour job (no kidding! most of us are working 60-80!), we are family", bs.
so the point? It is REALLY important to value yourself, as the world clearly doesn't value you. But if you have in your heart you are worth what you really are worth? who cares! Be happy, ladies! 😜
Ok, now I kind of feel guilty about having panic attacks after turning 35...
I love your colourfu lnecklace
Turning 60 never bothered me but when my “little” sister turned 60, THEN I felt old! 😂
You are such an inspiration even to old women (85) like me. Thanks for your sharing your right mind. 😋
Meant "thank youfor sharing your encouragement"😇
I am currently fed up with older men approaching me as if they have a chance to date me. I believe they are extremely entitled and they should pursue women their age or older.
26 now I'm feeling bad 😞
me watching this at 16 bc I already feel like im too old and closer to death, idk I kinda of feel like all the dreams that I have are over, bc I should have started when I was younger, now everything seems impossible to reach bc of my age.
Oops colourful necklace.
Very cheerful.
No one should ask another person How much money they have \ or their age. I have said that to a person who asked my age, it is personal information.