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The intro is basically me after every exam when my friends are discussing their answers.
Lmao yess
So relatable! Lmfao 😂
Too right. And you pretend you picked the same answer as they haha.
I felt that hard😂😂
lol
I was wrong. I thought if I bought a bunch of charcoal grey shirts I’d get Matt’s biceps. Meh still worth it 🤷🏻♂️
omg😂😂
Try wearing them harder.
Matt D'Avella I’m making a video on this even more for sure now 😂
buy XS
@@mattdavella *Waits Faster*
"Self-D'Avellapment"
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Lol 😂
"I tried being wrong for 30 days"
It's all my life
Николай Лутошкин mood
The only thing I've ever been 100% right about is that I'll be wrong at least once a day every day for the rest of my life.
Sheldon Evans u are here!!!!
That's what my wife says hahahahaha I'llseemyselfout
Arent you the same guy who said he stopped procrastinating you clicked right away on Matt and pewdiepie vids
The only thing I’ve been consistently right is that AWALT and The Red Pill is truth!
You’re wrong about that
Best youtube channel ever; Matt you have inspired me to wake up daily at 4:30 am,take the coldest showers ever and run 2 miles a day. I have done it for 3 months, so thank you so much!
That's amazing man. Keep it up!!
That kind of discipline sounds so satisfying!
That even sounds scary, lol
Wow!
Jesus. That's some Jocko type shit.
Bob Ross: "'We don't make mistakes, we have happy accidents"
Matt: "The nickname my mom gave me when I was a kid"
😂 I'm WEAK
HAHAHAH
The best of th video
me too hahahah
Haha YES. First time I've guffawed at a video on this channel.
Sameeeeee I was like waittttt whaaaat??? I don’t think he realized what she said 😂😂😂😂
“The smartest man in the world is the one who can admit he doesn’t know it all”
"Even the masters have so much to learn" - some smart guy
socrates?
Exactly
That's by Sadhguru. Look him up. You're welcome.
So true! You should also learn something new everyday or at least try too.
"some people are happy with their jobs after college... I've met both of them!"
Subtle, Matt.
He got my subscription with that lmao, loved it.
Mistakes are always learning opportunities. But I can't lie, it hurts everytime.
It really does - often I find myself berating myself over what I get wrong. It can be hard to move on
Ugh yesssssss
So true!!!!! Mistakes and failures both are the best teachers but can't deny that it hurts everytime.
It doesn't hurt at all
I believe the hurt and pain are all worth it when it was the very reason why you changed and never do it again. Also, surround yourself with good people and honest ones who will correct you. Mind you, just because we know it already doesn't mean that we can't learn from it anymore.
Matt's such a minimalist, he doesn't even add Ads in his videos
Well ads are showing up in india!!!
@@muthulakshmisengottuvel9151 no
He actually has ads now in his videos, he also mentioned that he'll be adding ads, but he always outs them at the end --and this includes his branded videos.
As a viewer who loves Matt, and wants to support him but don't gave the extra money to help out, this us great.
I really hate intrusive ads in the middle or at the beginning before I even realize if I like the video or not. This way, I think Matt still lets us choose whether or not we want to watch the ad (supporting him in the process) or not.
it took 6 minutes for him to simply say "so yeah, I've bought some dumbbells"
Someone commented on another video saying "you should write a book or have a brand or something and call it 'Matt's Self D'Avellopement'"
Tagir Khairutdinov genius?
Yeah no that's brilliant.
"In fact, I've actually met both of them"
That was very clever
I KNOW!!! A+ material
The fact that he just glasses over that without any snicker is an obvious sign of several takes or Matt's complete lack of actual humor. Pure gold.
EXPLAIN!!!
Didn't see that coming
@@mohitnailwal6441 he means that there are only 2 people in this world who are happy with their jobs.
This is the mamba mentality: fall in love with the process, more than the results. Kobe forever #24
💜💛
I still rewatch your videos at least once a month, Matt. They're so well done!
“Matt’s biceps aren’t even that big”, now that my friends is an example of being wrong.
@@jimkalabert3480 that's a corona
Spoiler: They're really not.
He really put on a tie and drove around for some b-roll. Thats dedication
We've been locked inside for months. I'd dress up and drive for b-roll too. And I don't even have a camera or RUclips channel. 🤣
@@AaronGrosch29 thats a mood bro 😂
He probably even brought that shirt and that tie for this video, too :)
did anyone else spit out their tea at 'and I've met both of them'
Hi, thanks for your videos. I've learned many things because of your videos.
I don't get the joke 😭
@@ziyanbaloch8225 2:41
@@ziyanbaloch8225 he mentions at first "some people are happy .. " then he changes that to "both of them" ( means only 2 )😅.
I legit LOL'd and then instantly looked for this comment 😂
I’ve been going through a hard time with the quarantine and it’s really been making me think about what I’ve been doing for a living - and your videos _always_ come on and remind me that I still have a lot to work on. I’ve been making so many mistakes lately and I’ve been so hard on myself. It’s nice to be reminded that everyone makes mistakes and that I have to learn from each of them to lead a better life. Thank you for the video, Matt!
"When you're wrong, don't let it be such a bad thing." When we shame ourselves for falling short, we get nothing positive accomplished. It's more productive to be kind to yourself!
This is sooo important
Self-love.
@@Noname-rq1hr Right?!
@@marko6489 Amen.
Totally!! But weirdly so much harder to do. Humans are weird.
Leave it to Matt to make 8 minutes feel like an entire emotional documentary. This was absolutely stunning💛
Dude. Your videos are so amazing. Every time I watch I always learn something so relevant to my experience of self improvement. It's challenging when you go through a lull in your motivation. These videos always help me to regroup and get my shit together. Thank you!
The part where you talk about the job stuff hit home man! Great video. Thanks for the constant encouragement.
Matt has a white shirt, times are really changing
This is when you realize that things are really falling apart.
This is sad..
Ha ha! I thought the same thing.
😩
Its 2020, any anything is possible..
Just imagine a happy family where the youngest is affectionately called "Happy Accident".
Can Netflix give this guy a series?! His videos are brilliant and so well thought out, and he always does a ton of research. They are actually informative and motivational too like what. Most channels like this could never. I always recommend this channel to people who are feeling stuck during quarentine.
Also the Bob Ross feature I love it
Love this. Keep adjusting and trying things to find what works best for you.
If Matt was wrong, does that mean my life is a lie 😭😭
but for real, I respect that u admit when ur wrong
Yes
Hahahaha this got me!
Matt D'Avella doesn't make videos. He makes _art_
btw you're a huge inspiration!! I started a channel about self development thanks to you!!
Agreed!
I’m actually enjoying following your workout routine. Been doing it since you have released your video and everywhere I go. Easy to carry and exercise
Thank you for making this video just when I needed it the most. Perfect timing!
Great points about making mistakes and how they’re a crucial part of learning and growing. Also some really great points about motivation, and being critical of the reason as to why we do different things. Why do I stay at this job? Is it because of safety, and the fact that I’m generously, economically rewarded, or is it because I truly enjoy it?
Thanks for the amazing content, Matt!
Side note: If anyone is more interested, I have a video going live on my channel thursday, where I talk about instrinsic vs extrinsic motivation (Finding something truly meaningful vs being motivated by external reward), in relation to dealing with failure.
Hope everyone who reads this has a great day!
I was so pleased to hear you reference the 5 D’s. 😂 great video Matt!
Man. Big props to you for giving us all these beautiful lessons. You're one of my biggest inspirations. I've been wanting to start RUclips again for a long time now. Aside from the self improvement stuff, you also inspire me to create. And as I said, same goes for the self improvement stuff.
I had a manic episode these past few days and was about to fall on a depressive episode. Glad you posted this on the right time. I was literally giving up doing anything today. My morning started bad and I'm just glad I decided to check on RUclips. You just inspired me to continue on with my personal projects. As always, thank you, Matt! I really appreciate your content :)
“Living a life of purpose, of adventure” damn that sounds nice :’)
It’s honestly such a powerful feeling when you’re secure enough to admit your wrongs and ambitious enough to know you have the ability to improve
Love your videos. Thank you for always making me smile and giving viewers a light of hope!
This is literally the most solidly crafted RUclips video I’ve ever seen from the thumbnail and title to the continuity of the whole vid. Amazing filmwork!
"Mistakes are always forgivable, if one has the courage to admit them."- Bruce Lee
So true
Matt's cinematography continues to blow me away
This video was spot on Matt. My husband and I wait for your videos and take each word you say very seriously. We make notes and have long discussions on what you mention and then have profound epiphanies after. We are also minimalists now after incorporating a lot of changes in our lives and we still have a long way to go. We have deep gratitude to you for how you have transformed our lives in the past two years.
Matt I just want to thank you for creating art that brings value to my life. This video hits so close to home for me. Being an overworked banker myself every day feels like I'm watching from inside my head a really boring and really long movie just playing in a loop. Continue doing what you do!
Mistakes are a fact of life. It is the response to error that counts.
And Matt, you've been wrong, that's why you're right now 😊🙌
Also, I'm so inspired by you, I started my channel on self-improvement and it's really helping a lot of people.
Thank you 😊
@@YashBhatter I came across your channel earlier and subbed after watching one video.
You're going to make it big one day! 😁
@@AnuragSharma-dm4bu wtf are you talking about lol
“Omg that was so funny that was the nickname that my mom gave me when I was a kid”
I was like you mom called you Bob Ross?? until I realized he meant Happy Accidents😂
This is such an awesome piece Matt! Loving your work all the way from South Africa! You are inspiring!
Matt, following you since the minimalist documentation. keep up the awesome work, love you dude!
If you're going to fail, fail fast and fail well. Own your mistakes and learn from them. You'll be better off in the end.
“I’ve actually met both of them” 😂 that was slick
That's so true a acknowledgment of wrongdoings and enjoying the process is key. Interesting video.
Hey Matt, I randomly came across your channel and spent a good amount of my 4th of July watching your videos. Your content is inspiring and your vision makes your videos enjoyable to watch. Thanks for the motivation! Looking forward to more of your videos!
When my husband and I finally found a way to exercise consistently it was when we made it harder NOT TO EXERCISE. We made home automation where we had to go downstairs to turn them off in the morning and a ton of other things!
That, however, came after many many "wrong" attempts. :)
Thanks for some great content!
Before watching the video: "I was wrong 😢"
After watching the video: "I am wrong 😊"
Nishant Tilve truth!!!!!!
So true
I really didn’t know how much I needed this video. Thank you 🙏🏾
Great words of wisdom, Matt - thanks for the encouragement! It's not easy admitting when you're wrong, and it's not easy letting others see your mistakes/flaws. But honestly, those are often the things I find most valuable when I'm learning/ watching youtube videos: seeing the mistakes others have made. Oftentimes that's the most encouraging to me - to see that others also make mistakes. Thanks!
Admitting you were wrong is such an underrated task.
So true
Ego tester
When your so early, that Gary is even minimalist with his hearts
*you’re
Sorry to be a dick
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Vertical Shelf You’re not sorry.
Friday you’re not wrong.
Who’s Gary?
Thanks for the video Matt. Glad to see you consistently uploading. I appreciate your work.
I love this video 😭 you touched on two things that I really struggle with; the gym and career / job. I really believed that you just had to find one thing and stick to it and if I don't then I'm the problem and I force myself through it. I didn't realise that I should rather take a step back, realise I was wrong about what I thought would make me happy and help towards my goals and then rethink and plan everything. We always have a choice.
Thank you for this. 😅
0:26 - My face making my 6am coffee
If in doubt, have someone throw wrenches at you. “If you can dodge a wrench, you can dodge a ball”
Lol
You are absolutely right! I could possibly be wrong. Great tips. As always love your videos.
Love the storyline you build to send the message.
Underrated quotes: "I listen to them while im at home, while im at home and also while im at home...", "Now go forth and be wrong".
me: bored af at home
yt: matt D'avella posted a new video
me: "happy noises"
As always, great video. Many of the things you say resonate, and after some time I was lucky enough to bump into teaching. This is my thing, and have surprised myself several times telling people: "I've found it, this is it!"
Thank you :)
I think the last time I watched your RUclips channel was the cold shower challenge for 30 days; and I stumbled on your channel again! The nostalgia is realll. And so is the growth! Love seeing channels that I watched over a year ago, grow so big over 12 months.
The inner machinations of Matt's mind are an enigma whenever he's making his morning coffee.
2:45 that joke was inserted so deftly I almost missed it haha amazing 👏
This video is exactly what I was needing today 💕 thanks, Matt!
This was all I needed to hear today Matt! I genuinely love your videos and feel inspired by you
Your composition, framing and transitions = storytelling goals
5:44 BRO WHAT 😂😂😂
Creativity is thru the roof. Thanks for the inspiration and great vids!!
This hit home hard and couldn't be more perfectly timed. Thank you Matt.
5:45 "That's what my mom used to tell me" ☠️ Im dead 😂😂😂
oops
Your content has changed my life and helped me become so much more productive and inspired - please keep it coming!!!
I really enjoyed this video, so often I feel like some guy whose interested in improving himself but never puts in the work to do so, but this just felt like such a simple and easy way to improve life by being able to admit when you're wrong, not letting it affecting you so personally and shifting your mindset to a more positive approach to failure. Thank you Matt!
2:12 "And if you haven't found it yet, keep looking".
I feel you got some inspiration from Steve Jobs Philosophy, is this right? Btw this is not a criticism, just curious to know because it sounds like that famous speech from Steve.
I hate treadmills and I hate running because it makes my knees hurt but as a teen I loved bike riding. So now I wake up every morning and I ride the exercise bike for half an hour to knockout my cardio. To make things fun, I dance with my upper body while cycling with my lower and I enjoy myself so much more while I do it.
I’m not a dancer & I barely have rhythm but I’ve fallen in love with the feelings of escapism associated with doing the exercise. This is what keeps me wanting to come back everyday and exercise more. There’s something really special about putting in a pair of earphones, turning on some great music, and blocking out the rest of the world for a short while. It’s almost like meditation. I’ve learned that sometimes you just have to do what makes you happiest and not worry about what anyone thinks. Stronger legs, a toned midsection, and feeling a sense of happiness when I look in the mirror each morning is mere icing on the cake! Thanks Matt
Matt "we-don't-make-mistakes-we-have-happy-accidents" D'Avella
😂😂
This is honestly such an important lesson right now. Thanks for the video Matt!
Your videos are so inspirational. Thank you!!
Well low self confidence has helped me admit even the mistakes I've not even committed
3:50 I feel and fear what this guy was talking about. As someone who is young and just entering the work force, I'm often scapegoated and guilt tripped, mostly by older people who are confident in their "wisdom", and I'm pressured and pushed to give into this "wisdom".
So I'm constantly torn between thinking I'm foolish and believing in myself and being capable of anything other than following instructions from others.
mikah ong Hang in there. I’m still reaping the hazards of being scapegoated, guilt tripped, and taking bad “wisdom” when I was probably your age 15 years ago. Trust yourself and do what you need to do to get through it. I know you can!
This is incredibly relevant to my personal experience right now, thanks for putting into words what I needed to hear at the moment.
This is so good. One of the best videos I’ve seen and comes at a perfect time!
Do you reckon matt films his "getting out of bed" and "making coffee" shots in bulk, or specially for each video?
Bulk
Literally Everyone: Minimalist with a non minimalistic muscles.OMG those biceps😍
Just because he lives a minimalistic lifestyle doen't mean his gains are!!!
@@ricey6667 Yes, admiring his gains😜
Absolutely love the quality you provide to your viewers in matter of video and content . I appreciate your effort of minimalism and planning to be a minimalist in my life ahead . Thank you , Matt . 💙
I love your upbeat "I was wrong" at the end!
Matt - from a tiny, minuscule creator, trying to find her way - *you are such a gigantic, huge inspiration!* 🎥😊👍🏻
None better to learn from!
Absolutely right!
Look and learn! 👍🏻😊
We’ve all got to start somewhere - Matt would have been tiny at one point!
The five D's: "Dodge, duck, dip, dive and dodge"
Okay, the four D's 😂
Matt, thanks for illustrating the growth that comes from accepting mistakes. This is very helpful for me to self analyze and accept the dark side of my identity that I normally dismiss.Thank you for all you content my guy
this is one of the best videos on youtube and desperately needed by everyone right now. i try to embody this mindset in my everyday life and tbh, it saddens me when i see that other people don't realize how great change can be. it's incredibly freeing and a vital step towards inner peace.
When it’s an 8 minute video posted 3 minutes ago, so you know that everyone is watching at the same time and no one has finished it 😏
"Yes, there are some people who are happy with their jobs. In fact, I've actually met both of them. But the overwhelming amount of people that I talk to work for a paycheck and that's it." You might be seeing selection bias, here. You live in the worlds of creative arts and self-help. Those who find you and talk to you may often be, by definition, the kind of people who are discontent with traditional and looking for the creative, new, better, and life-giving. But those who are already happy with their mainstream work would likely not intersect with you. Thoughts on this?
I think it was a subtle comment on how many people never try to get out of the jobs they don't like because of fear to admit the mistake they had made.
I think the word "happy" is the wrong word in this case because happiness comes and goes. It's whether the person is comfortable/satisfied with the job or not. If the person feels uncomfortable for a long time with the job then the person will eventually quit or be fired (lack of motivation or focus will be noticed by your employer, manager, or whoever).
I was kind of thinking about this the other day! The people who are happy with mainstream work doesn’t see the creative work as their career but they see it as a hobby.
Hey bro! Just wanted to stop through and say thank you for
all the great content. I been following you for a while now and absorbed your knowledge
to help me make sense of some pretty fu**ed up situations I myself have been through.
I been so inspired I created my on RUclips channel. Keep up the awesome work!
This creativity and video quality just blows my mind.