PHEww! MY LIFE AS A FIRST TIME MOM w/ A NEWBORN | Shalom Blac

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  • Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
  • A glimpse into what it is like for me as a first time mom with my baby boy. As a new mom I have to say I'm adjusting pretty good, but couldn't do it without the help of my wonderful family.
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Комментарии • 318

  • @meekyw.4010
    @meekyw.4010 9 месяцев назад +118

    Congratulations again Mama, the baby is beautiful!
    It is a blessing to have so much help, but you got it even when you're on your own. You got this!🙏🏽
    Don't forget to hold his wittle head when you're holding him. Don't let his head just dangle because he can't support it yet.😊
    You're doing so good as a first time Mommy.

  • @aquamom14
    @aquamom14 9 месяцев назад +42

    *I’ve been following you for 6 years and the growth I see in you is phenomenal. You must has come from an amazing women because your mommy instincts are amazing. Just remember to drink often I see you eating and not really drinking a water bottle (plastic)helps. You need the fluids for your 🥛 milk. Huge congrats to your sister on her job and you both on this new journey btw CELEBRATE EVERYTHING NOT FOR JUST THE FIRST BUT FOR THEM ALL. Mom of 3* ❤❤🌺

  • @mesha5276
    @mesha5276 9 месяцев назад +145

    Our babies are the same age - NOBODY EXPLAINED THE AMOUNT OF WORK!! Lol. Hat's off to you momma, he's beautiful & thriving!!😇💞

    • @choconethotcoco4717
      @choconethotcoco4717 9 месяцев назад +13

      Yeah they did, you just didn't listen. Sometimes when we want what we want everything else is just noise.

    • @PepperAnnT
      @PepperAnnT 9 месяцев назад +9

      Yes they do, most mothers warn other new mothers of the hard work. It’s not a secret, babies are hard.

    • @samantham9056
      @samantham9056 9 месяцев назад +1

      You are right, nothing like feeling it, experiencing it. You even forget, babies are such a blessing ❤

    • @joshie19922
      @joshie19922 9 месяцев назад

      Just keep a schedule and it will make it easier. Although hard I find it best to wake up earlier, shower bfast and just relax so it doesn’t feel like Ure playing catch up with baby trying to do all these things

  • @pdubstuff
    @pdubstuff 9 месяцев назад +24

    Lord, he is a spitting image of his daddy. Congratulations
    So adorable.

  • @twilli523
    @twilli523 9 месяцев назад +59

    you’re gonna be such a good mom shalom. garden looks so much like his dad! i wish yall the best🩷

    • @SHALOMBLAC
      @SHALOMBLAC  9 месяцев назад +12

      Thank you hun 💕

  • @momdukesandson9855
    @momdukesandson9855 9 месяцев назад +51

    Congratulations! Being a mother is such a blessing and a privilege! The baby looks just like his dad.

    • @yaelchavah5354
      @yaelchavah5354 9 месяцев назад

      No he doesn't, he looks like his mommy which is how it usually is. The first born if it's a girl, it looks like Dad and if a boy, looks like the mother.

    • @J30witdaswitchyy
      @J30witdaswitchyy 7 месяцев назад

      @@yaelchavah5354Wow i never knew this

  • @narsterling397
    @narsterling397 9 месяцев назад +45

    You look radiant and beautiful Shalom! Motherhood fits you well. You and Charlie look so calm and happy together with your son. Charlie is a great Dad, Fatherhood suits him well. Best wishes to you all ❤

  • @kimberlyroute5983
    @kimberlyroute5983 9 месяцев назад +36

    Baby looks like his daddy. Awwww. 😊

  • @tobiashaolu9755
    @tobiashaolu9755 9 месяцев назад +10

    This baby glow is... Your skin is looking sooooo clean. Congratulations momma❤

  • @celiag6756
    @celiag6756 9 месяцев назад +27

    Parenting does come naturally indeed, you are daddy are doing a great job with your bundle of joy. Happy belated birthday wishes to you and a heavenly peaceful resting to your mama in heaven 🙏🏾.

  • @Kay-Dean
    @Kay-Dean 9 месяцев назад +47

    You got this #ShalomBlac ❤. The "parent" journey is not an easy one..... you'll never be fully prepared but its definitely worth it. Blessed to you and your little family❤

  • @ninajustice9535
    @ninajustice9535 9 месяцев назад +9

    The Color Purple WOW that a huge deal, maybe you can show off some of your own clothing line for the fashion. One of the most important jobs in the world, (being a mother) and your killing it, looking good Sis.

  • @bintiuseni
    @bintiuseni 9 месяцев назад +22

    I gave birth a week before you, I feel so related tho and watching your video encourages me to be active even though it’s not easy for a first time mom, God blesse you mama ❤

    • @SHALOMBLAC
      @SHALOMBLAC  9 месяцев назад +12

      Congratulations on your new bundle of joy, remember to take as much time as you need 💕

    • @bintiuseni
      @bintiuseni 9 месяцев назад

      @@SHALOMBLAC thank you so much 🙏🏽❤️

  • @sheenagriffith2635
    @sheenagriffith2635 9 месяцев назад +14

    Congratulations on your bundle of joy. He is so adorable also you Shalom have grown and matured so much over the years. You create such great content.

  • @wafo133
    @wafo133 9 месяцев назад +22

    Shalom, you look so happy 😊 you deserve all the good things that are coming your way💕 the clothing line will work out

    • @SHALOMBLAC
      @SHALOMBLAC  9 месяцев назад +6

      Yes! Thank you sis !

    • @SHALOMBLAC
      @SHALOMBLAC  9 месяцев назад +3

      Yes! Thank you sis !

  • @ayonabynum2401
    @ayonabynum2401 9 месяцев назад +17

    Oh Shalom- he's absolutely precious!! Such a happy baby!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @xyanthialinton2869
    @xyanthialinton2869 9 месяцев назад +2

    Baby looks like his dad. Your always working so you're going to want to work same way with your baby. Don't quit keep doing love your growth . God bless you with a child inspire of your health issue. Love u girl

  • @Gisellej80
    @Gisellej80 9 месяцев назад +22

    🎉❤ he is adorable. Thanks for sharing you are a great mom. God bless your household

  • @ijelleobiekwe3577
    @ijelleobiekwe3577 9 месяцев назад +14

    Omg you were beautiful before being a mom and even more now with the mommy glow, I love your earrings and the baby is precious!

  • @lynsiemll
    @lynsiemll 9 месяцев назад +26

    You're an amazing mom. Congratulations! Keep up the good work. ❤

  • @seena2004
    @seena2004 9 месяцев назад +2

    I appreciated ur bravery in u telling the truth about the money issue, your clothing brand, being a mom...
    May Allah guide u and protect ur child

  • @earlyfelicia
    @earlyfelicia 9 месяцев назад +9

    You gotta show me how to do my makeup. You are gorgeous do your thing. God bless you and your husband with that beautiful baby. Keep on doing positive things. Proud of you!

  • @ALLTHINGSARRIE
    @ALLTHINGSARRIE 9 месяцев назад +16

    Your baby is adoreable! That camera quality was AMAZING!

  • @nthabisengmthimkulu3996
    @nthabisengmthimkulu3996 9 месяцев назад +5

    That baby talk with Aunty too cute🤗Congratulations Mom and Dad you're doing a good job😍 God bless you🙏🙏

  • @rochelle81
    @rochelle81 9 месяцев назад +12

    Congratulations my friend. Beautiful baby and family. I love the photos so cute and creative ❤❤

  • @pearlthomas9614
    @pearlthomas9614 9 месяцев назад +8

    Hi my love welcome to motherhood great to see how you are glowing with your new bundle of joy what a wonderful blessings for you and charlie to enjoy warm hugs❤❤

  • @lneal2800
    @lneal2800 9 месяцев назад +13

    Congratulations❤ again Shalom sis!! So proud of you best mommy in the world!!❤ love my nephew❤

  • @anesit
    @anesit 9 месяцев назад +21

    Congratulations mommy ❤❤well deserved 🎉

  • @thegfamily7511
    @thegfamily7511 9 месяцев назад +12

    He's to adorable you got this parenting isn't easy job I'm a mom of a 3 year old soon to be a mom of two little boys I'm so excited and nervous at the same time I'm due in three more weeks

  • @janesvarietyfood
    @janesvarietyfood 9 месяцев назад +9

    Well done Shalom, you are an amazing mum and Charley is a good Dad 🙏🥰❤️❤️❤️🎉🎉🥰🌹🌹🌹🌹🤗🤗🤗🤗😍😍

  • @nathalieolivianja-kwa8653
    @nathalieolivianja-kwa8653 9 месяцев назад +5

    🎉🎉🎉🎉 congratulations to you and Charlie my fellow Brit 😊😊you guys have done amazingly. Your baby wants to talk already that was so sweet to watch. ❤❤❤ awww he is so cute 😊😊😊 I am so happy for you. Motherhood suits you just like a glove ❤

  • @Tangi_k
    @Tangi_k 9 месяцев назад +2

    You’re the first RUclipsr I’ve consistently watched for a really long time . I literally wait for you to upload like I’m waiting on the next episode of my favorite show ! Love this for you 🥹❤️ you’re a whole mommy now wow!

  • @leoneymitchell
    @leoneymitchell 9 месяцев назад +7

    Congrats on all thet God is blessing you and your family with. Thx Hank you for sharing your thoughts and expirences. I personally have enjoyed every moment. God bless your wonderful family 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

  • @patriciat5697
    @patriciat5697 9 месяцев назад +7

    You do what's best for you. You know your own mental health ❤

  • @brendasimanga
    @brendasimanga 9 месяцев назад +2

    the way Gs dad smiles and looks at you both omg 😢thats touching he looks proud 😢

  • @juanalanders3782
    @juanalanders3782 9 месяцев назад +4

    What a cutie. Looking just like his dad. 😍🥰🙏🏽❤️

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 9 месяцев назад +8

    Still can't believe your a mom ❤ God bless

    • @SHALOMBLAC
      @SHALOMBLAC  9 месяцев назад +3

      Lol, me too, sometimes

  • @simplyme922
    @simplyme922 9 месяцев назад +17

    Shalom. Warner Bros is a VERY Big Deal. How often do you get to work to with a major movie house?? If there's still time, invest a few hours to watch The Color Purple for background, research and inspiration. Not only is it a moving, thoughtful movie, there is a spectacular fashion moment at the end. This type of assignment can elevate your business to even greater.

  • @BossLadyLexi
    @BossLadyLexi 9 месяцев назад +2

    I just love watching you as a young new mother raising your first newborn 👶🏻 it makes me want a new baby, but trust me, I’m done at 57. It’s my time to enjoy my life now 😂I look forward to seeing your journey and raising your first newborn son 👶🏻 I had my first child at 27 and my second baby at 35.

  • @divaccsexyredpeach3175
    @divaccsexyredpeach3175 9 месяцев назад +9

    Love how you are blossoming into motherhood. So beautiful always watching your journey and seeing your talents ❤. Best to you and family

  • @BuckleBunny
    @BuckleBunny 9 месяцев назад +4

    You HAVE to watch the original before you watch the new one! Its a must!!!!

    • @SHALOMBLAC
      @SHALOMBLAC  9 месяцев назад +4

      I'm definitely doing thatb

  • @pauladuncan1729
    @pauladuncan1729 9 месяцев назад +3

    Yes it's going to be different now getting yourself ready and having a newborn. But I know that you know that it's all worth it with your beautiful baby boy! He is sooooooo adorable!!! He has your eyes beautiful Mommy! Amazing parents!!!

  • @yvonnetengen158
    @yvonnetengen158 9 месяцев назад +5

    Congratulations! He looks just like his daddy!

  • @kayniamonrose676
    @kayniamonrose676 9 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations Shalom.
    Motherhood fits you well.
    In the beginning of the video your sister mentioned about your baby's hair falling out..there is definitely a solution to that..washing your baby's hair every day or every 2 days would avoid it from falling out.
    Otherwise, white stuff starts to grow in your baby's hair causing the hair to break off.

  • @derintheoddone
    @derintheoddone 9 месяцев назад +7

    Awww see you being the best mom🥺

  • @mzd3260
    @mzd3260 9 месяцев назад +1

    Baby Garden is the splitting image of his father. Your two handsome guys. You are blessed 💞

  • @mistress_ofdune
    @mistress_ofdune 9 месяцев назад +5

    Congratulations!! The pumpkin photo shoot was so precious😊

  • @ItsMyLifeDaralynn
    @ItsMyLifeDaralynn 9 месяцев назад +1

    Go mama! Baby in the bassinet in the bathroom. I'll never forget those days... Gos bless you and your family Shalom. I'm so happy you have help.

  • @ladebright8901
    @ladebright8901 9 месяцев назад +5

    Shalom is just a real naija babe is her singing Nigeria song for me😊

  • @Q................
    @Q................ 9 месяцев назад +7

    All I can say is awwww I'm so happy for you...look at you guys!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😘

  • @nastasiasmith-williams6629
    @nastasiasmith-williams6629 9 месяцев назад +8

    Congratulations 🎉and blessings to you and the family ❤

  • @utubechannel3846
    @utubechannel3846 9 месяцев назад +5

    Congratulations momma and poppa.... Such a sweet baby and both of you are looking just so beautiful and handsome and baby is looking like poppy! Shalom, your man is correct in the pronunciation of Bjorn. I love it when we take the time to learn how to pronounce words correctly because it adds to your repertoire of vocabulary and makes you more credible when you speak. A I to of people mispronounce words and don't take the time to learn the correct pronunciation and it makes them look less intelligent. I always look words up on the internet when I don't know how to pronounce them and practice saying them. All you have to do is type the word in the search engine and it will come up .... the definition and how to pronounce it, or, you can type in "pronunciation of ______(whatever word it is that you want to know). Being beautiful, smart and well spoken makes you more of a powerhouse woman and couple. Because you are incredibly beautiful and well dressed and have that cute African accent, people will definitely take note how well you speak. It matters. I hope you take this in love and not become annoyed.

  • @bluetinsel7099
    @bluetinsel7099 9 месяцев назад +1

    There are non-alcoholic beers that may help with milk production. The alcohol in normal beer can dry up the milk, but the nonalcoholic beer is grain juice and it can help with milk. Also a PeriSteam HydroTherapist can help with postpartum care and sometimes that can help with milk production.
    The Baby Bjorne would use a y sound for the j.

  • @thekohh
    @thekohh 3 месяца назад

    This is so so beautiful honestly ❤❤❤ so happy for you shalom

  • @CaliforniaDreamin.
    @CaliforniaDreamin. 9 месяцев назад +15

    Your baby is so cute!!! ❤

  • @fragrancedeparadiso443
    @fragrancedeparadiso443 6 месяцев назад

    Love you guys so much, and thank You JESUS for all the blessings and those to come

  • @faithhealingandself-care8972
    @faithhealingandself-care8972 9 месяцев назад +30

    Shalom, please be careful with letting everyone hold your baby, he could get whooping cough or COVID, please make sure people have had their shots. Also, allow him to sleep on satin sheets to reduce hair loss in the back of his head.

    • @elizabethirvin9954
      @elizabethirvin9954 7 месяцев назад +4

      Had their shots ?? Okay Karen

    • @plutosprincess
      @plutosprincess 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@elizabethirvin9954how is she a Karen? Seems like reasonable advice

  • @nca4794
    @nca4794 9 месяцев назад +1

    So many great things happening for you, and it's beautiful to see. Congratulations to you two on your beautiful baby boy, and congrats on the Warner Brothers/Color Purple collab. I'm so happy and excited for you.❤

  • @dolled-upjen3606
    @dolled-upjen3606 9 месяцев назад

    Congratulations mama. Motherhood is life changing

  • @Q................
    @Q................ 9 месяцев назад +2

    Your mom's anniversary your birthday your first child......a very special year! ❤

  • @princesskf5157
    @princesskf5157 9 месяцев назад

    Congratulations on your bundle of joy. I have followed you for some years now. You have taught me a lot and I have seen you blossom into a beautiful Blessed mother. You have accomplished so much. I'm looking forward to seeing you win more and more 🎉🥳👏❤️ The best is yet to come keep shinning Shalom 🎉❤💎✨

  • @VenessaA.Crusoe
    @VenessaA.Crusoe 9 месяцев назад +1

    those lactation cookies are amazing... eat chocolate, oatmeal , and try to pump every two hours, even if he's not drinking ,, stored it but pump every two hours.. that happened to me and I was crying but I was consistent and I overproduce a lot of milk ... had a whole fridge filled with milk... donated them to babies in the NICU in New York ... great job mom

  • @nastasiasmith-williams6629
    @nastasiasmith-williams6629 9 месяцев назад +2

    The camera works AWESOME, definitely a must have

  • @hopeimani_
    @hopeimani_ 9 месяцев назад +8

    Congrats on your new journey of motherhood!! Could you please share outfit links for the look you wore to the baby event? Loving it, especially the jeans 😍

  • @patriciat5697
    @patriciat5697 9 месяцев назад +7

    Congratulations, Mum and dad. You are both blessed with a beautiful son.

  • @ijelleobiekwe3577
    @ijelleobiekwe3577 9 месяцев назад +1

    On the part that you asked if you were talking too much, you weren't I enjoyed listening to you and wow this video is so heartwarming, the baby is super cute, he's a handsome little one.

  • @artmonarchia9096
    @artmonarchia9096 9 месяцев назад

    2023, Congratulations with your new baby. The camera is awesome the sound and quality is really good.

  • @bekesibiya
    @bekesibiya 9 месяцев назад +4

    Every moment is special.❤

  • @sophiaacorlor6510
    @sophiaacorlor6510 9 месяцев назад +9

    Congrats Shalom❤❤❤

  • @patriciashackelfordboggshamp30
    @patriciashackelfordboggshamp30 9 месяцев назад +3

    ❤🎉congrats and I am so happy for you and your family ❤..I have been following you since 2018..much love from Miami Florida

  • @5pemza67
    @5pemza67 9 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations dear, am happy for you!❤

  • @oraleejenkins6447
    @oraleejenkins6447 9 месяцев назад +10

    He is adorable ❤

  • @missbrown5284
    @missbrown5284 9 месяцев назад

    This my girl I love her she is so beautiful congratulations on being a mother again ❤❤❤

  • @AmandaSimpson-
    @AmandaSimpson- 9 месяцев назад +9

    Please allow Charlie to do his bit as a father, fathers need their bonding time too, It’s super important. X

    • @user-hp2rt2cj9q
      @user-hp2rt2cj9q 9 месяцев назад +1

      She needs to bond with the baby more, their bond is off..

  • @theresaodawa5329
    @theresaodawa5329 6 месяцев назад

    Congrats my girl Shalom namesake of my lil sis! Happy for u and baby God bless

  • @Aka4life16
    @Aka4life16 9 месяцев назад +2

    Congrats to you and Charlie on Baby Garden’s arrival! Jus curious, will you be sharing a story time about how y’all came up with his name? I’d definitely tune in. ☺️

  • @SimisolaJohnson-js9ny
    @SimisolaJohnson-js9ny 9 месяцев назад

    Congratulations to you sis ❤❤❤🎉 may ur Joy never know sadness 🙏

  • @Jazeerakiko
    @Jazeerakiko 9 месяцев назад

    It’s pretty so beautiful and good being a mother or parents. I love the way you talk no matter how long it sounds beautiful 😍
    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @suzyqsuzyq
    @suzyqsuzyq 9 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful! be sure to always support his HEAD, and back.

  • @MyInspiredLifeTRJ
    @MyInspiredLifeTRJ 9 месяцев назад +3

    So beautiful you are amazing your baby is so cute. My kids ate grown and I want meatly as glam as you
    Blessings to you and your family

  • @lucitacassius.5398
    @lucitacassius.5398 9 месяцев назад +1

    Congratulations on your new baby the baby looks lots like the dad don't give up on your dreams go life with your business and you will definitely in prove ❤

  • @curshellel
    @curshellel 9 месяцев назад

    Your family is so freaking beautiful im so happy for you

  • @passiontashan5519
    @passiontashan5519 9 месяцев назад

    Little man isn't even a year yet and he is already an Arsenal fan(The jerseys) ... That's how you know he's always going to make the right choices in life ❤😅

  • @blackgalrealness
    @blackgalrealness 9 месяцев назад

    This is so beautiful to watch! Sending all the love to you and your family 🤍

  • @TheLoveweaver
    @TheLoveweaver 9 месяцев назад

    His nursery is adorable!😍😍😍

  • @lisadawson2652
    @lisadawson2652 9 месяцев назад +5

    You are incredibly talented I do agree that u should take time to learn more about clothing learn the theory and language of garments I hope 🤞🏾 to see a children’s line from u because I know it will come naturally for u even a father son line would be incredible I pray 🙏🏾 what ever direction you begin to take will make u stronger and I’m here for it ❤congratulations 🎉 on all of your achievements and upcoming projects🥰

  • @everythingbrentina4736
    @everythingbrentina4736 9 месяцев назад +4

    Hey love! Happy belated Birthday 🥳

  • @keneilwenkwane438
    @keneilwenkwane438 9 месяцев назад +2

    Very beautiful!! I love how under control you are ❤️ you make it look easy ! Maybe cover baby boo when you do maybe up .. their lil lungs are unfamiliar 🫶🏾

  • @Jewel36yrold
    @Jewel36yrold 9 месяцев назад +8

    Congratulations again on your handsome little man❤🎉👏🏽👏🏽🥳

  • @1413naomie
    @1413naomie 9 месяцев назад

    You are smashing motherhood ❤ and that small camera has such a great quality 😍

  • @kiilunkulu5747
    @kiilunkulu5747 9 месяцев назад

    OMG! He looks just like Papa Charlie! 🥹😍🥰

  • @yourfavpersuasion9385
    @yourfavpersuasion9385 9 месяцев назад

    omg he is so cuteee!! ooo lifestyle content i am here for !

  • @janellec3169
    @janellec3169 9 месяцев назад +1

    Scorpio gang!🎉 You have the same birthday as my sister, and I’m a November Scorpio 🎉
    Baby is beautiful!❤

  • @amarizboldwarrior
    @amarizboldwarrior 9 месяцев назад +1

    9:41❤ baby boy so cute !

  • @Debra-OK1955
    @Debra-OK1955 9 месяцев назад +2

    Your name just naturally sounds like a clothing line 👍🏽

  • @empressjoolz
    @empressjoolz 9 месяцев назад

    Congratulations Goddess blk becoming a new mum. Plz 🙏🏾 enjoy 😉 every precious moment and cherrish like no other. Blessings ❤😌🇯🇲🇨🇦😍

  • @babygurlpoppieworld
    @babygurlpoppieworld 9 месяцев назад

    Business and entrepreneurship is a challenge within itself so I completely understand ideas come with thought so it’s going to come with you believe me 💯💯

  • @brycemadre
    @brycemadre 9 месяцев назад +1

    Not me looking at you as if you see my face listening to you state you’ve never seen the film…OMG tell me you have now!

  • @shantellove4133
    @shantellove4133 9 месяцев назад +9

    blessings to everyone, if you haven't yet repented and accepted Christ Jesus as your Lord and Savior, please do so before it's too late m, it's not God's will for none to perish.Acts 2vs 38 John 3vs 16 Romans 10 vs 13

  • @dorisakombelwa6183
    @dorisakombelwa6183 9 месяцев назад +1

    We bath babies at least once a day. 2 weeks is a long time. Bath him at least once a day in summer. That's when babies sleep well and they feel relaxed. I celebrated everything with my babies but as a Christian not Halloween 😔