Uhhhh you do not say ! Technology has awakened the " desire " to self - determination !! Wow !! The girls are beginning to ....THINK !! AND for THEMSELVES at that !! An AWAKENING !! WOW !! Getting caught up 2018 !! Lol lol
DW Docs, you should re-do a documentary on them, as on this one, the brides market did not take place (because of some stupid gangs). I would be interresting to see what a real market would be like.
This may be the only way I can travel outside the US for a long time, now. Stupid #CuckooVirus. Stupid governments. I just lost a boatload of dreams - including going to Scotland, Hungary, and Sweden where my family comes from - and the miserable lot of them just threw that in the trash compactor. It's good to have a substitute. One of the few good things YT has done these days.
My best friend who was Roma was sold at 10 years old she just disappeared one day from school and no one cared I went out looking for her and found out from some of her siblings the man took her to a different country. I still look for her on social media 14 years later but I don’t even know her last name or if she is alive. She wasn’t the fists girl to disappear a 8yo form a different family was also sold. I know these Roma are different from her family but it still disgusts me that a family would do that to their child. I really hope she is alive and well and maybe we will meet again.
The same thing happened to my friend who was 16, and I was 10 at the time. She was so scared and I didn't know what to do. I never saw her again. Many claim that it's just traditions, but if it causes so much pain it's not worth it
It's kinda funny that in some countries the husband pays the family for his bride, and in other cultures the family pays a husband to take the bride off their hands
In Middle East they pay for the bride gold dresses they buy or rent the apartment and furnished it and make the wedding party and the honey moon all of that to please the wife
Huge fan of the way the young guy decided his blue t-shirt with black words wasn’t good enough and that he needed another blue t-shirt with black words for the event
Oddly, I see more similarities than differences. Try to have a good family, the old generation thinks the young generation is too careless, drug abuse problems, male chauvinistic behavior, the old tradition crumbling down, and so on.
The documentary is beautiful and non judgemental. Please create more features like this one. I have been to Bulgaria many times to visit my parents - in -law, and this brought rosy memories back.
Since they also rebel against it, it tells you enough. It's perfectly ok to judge this. What do you think happens to those who don't agree with this? Do you think they have free will?
It is quite judgemental, as is the majority of Documentaries from DW, you just need to learn to read between the lines. Their western propaganda docummentaries are par excellence.
True !! But I think we forget also how temporary and meaningless most of the things we value is just bullsh**. Speaking from experience. Some nights when I ponder I realize how empty I'm in and out of life. For now I just have to deal with what I'm going through. These people might be poor but I'm sure they are much more content in their simple ways of life.
Ugh that’s all I have to say. As a child bride that was given away and mistreated and had to run away from a cheating abusive husband after following what my parents said I feel for these women. I’m now remarried to someone completely different and he loves me and takes care of me. I’ll never live for the approval of a man and I don’t want my daughters to live like that too.
Don’t feel sorry for our Roma woman there’s nothing to be sorry about ! Rom woman will only know one man and they very loyal and they are happy .. it’s not like the force their daughters to anyone the daughters chose who they want to merry with out their permission they won’t agree to the marriage .. you don’t see depressed Roma woman here 😂❤ .. but I’m glad your life changed 🙏 and god bless your good heart but for real our Roma woman and man loves our own customs traditions this is how it survived since very old ancient times to now days .. ❤
@@ferencfarkas2729 That's not what I saw in this film. I saw a girl who repeatedly said she wished her life was different, but had no efficacy or autonomy in her culture whatsoever. It's a way of forcing women into slavery and servitude. It's no different to selling a breeding cow, and it values them about as much.
I worked with a guy in India who’s marriage was arranged by his and his wife’s family. The way he explained it to me was that it makes you focus on your family more and a marriage isn’t just about two people liking each other. It’s how their family gets along with yours.
I think it’s important for husband and wife to like eachother. They may have different views and want to raise their children differently from one another. Lots of fighting isn’t good for a child, it will make them stressed. Even if the parents don’t fight, if they are cold to one another it can make the child feel bad. I’m not saying arranged marriage is bad but I think it’s still important for them to like eachother.
@@MONIKASINGH-dl8iw the increase in divorce has nothing to do with the decrease in arranged marriages. In the modern world we’ve learnt it’s important to be happy and safe. In the past couples were expected to stay together even if they hated each other as getting a divorce was considered bad. Divorce rights are higher but you will probably find that more couples are happier now.
@@rachelcookie321 You are delusional.... These documentaries are extremely biased... And in community culture you have duties and responsibilities towards families and focus is on the happiness of family......How can u hate each other if both are fulfilling their duties.... Views and wants are nonsense.....our families are happier anyways....Modern people are depressed.... They r born privileged and their ego is to the moons, they think they know everything about life which is far from reality. That's why they are depressed
You can tell its a joke, he says it with a smile on his face. It reminds me of mexican culture, the men might joke about their wives being big but its better than modern guys. Who will up and leave no matter what the girl looks like. Besides, rosie has very nice features , you can tell she was very pretty when she was young. Still is , tbh.
True but if she doesn't have a medical condition then she truly is as wide as a barn door and she knows it and doesn't give a damn about looking like one in public and no guy not even a noble person would want his healthy wife to quadruple in size, if you know one then please tell me and if you are one then you are the only one.
oh come on! you westerners or Europeans think your sentimental thoughts should apply to all other cultures. Most of these comments of "fat shaming" are applied as a form of friendly banter between family members and close friends. We don't take it to heart and get offended also the offender (in your perspectives) don't mean it in a bad way.
Why does Western media always have to present Bulgaria in the worst way possible?? That’s not at all what the reality looks like for the average Bulgarian(these are Roma gypsies and they’re a minority. So, their traditions have nothing to do with the centuries-old Bulgarian Christian traditions) Why don’t you make a documentary, for once, about all the ancient civilisations that have inhabited these lands or about the natural resorts that are protected by UNESCO, for example - basically something educational that will change the way Bulgaria is being perceived by the rest of the world?? I mean let’s face it, the reason why the Western world think so less of Eastern Europe is exactly because of such documentaries …
Family: buy new clothes for bridal market Boy: *picks the t-shirt with the exact same blue colour he is wearing but with slightly different print* i'm guessing his closet is full of blue shirts.
Well youtube not always show good stuff,but in this case it was good. But open your eyes, in a second you're watching this, in the next you're watching trash celebrity news.
This illuminates the struggle of young Roma against an age-old tradition. Their quest for love and self-determination is both inspiring and thought-provoking. Thanks to DW Documentary for sharing this compelling story of change and hope.
actually... it is not a forcing thing! there is many thing also 1. non of non-roma bulgarian would accept the roma (may there is excepts but very rare) 2. again it is not a forcing... they will meet for a few months before do anything and can say no... 3. the ''selling'' work as a trial... if the guy have serious intentions then will not sorry the money... 4. it is also mostly bulgarian roma thing... in rest of the world we dont do that for a long time... (of course there is some families but more like the 10%...)
Well my boyfriend once tried to complain that I always wear the same outfits lol but then he does it too, so I started to point this out to him and he realized that yeah he was an asshole for saying that. He doesn't care anymore, but I also made a point to change it up occasionally and so did he lol.. this is why communication is so important lol but yeah when they paid for a new Tshirt instead of a suit.....makes no sense
I know that this is an unusual method of finding love, to those of us in western countries anyway. But I really do hope that these two young people find partners that make them happy! Teni seems like a hard worker who is prepared to support his future wife and children. He also has much respect for his family. Maria seems to be very sweet and kind and she’d make a good wife and mother. Both of these young people have so much respect and I truly wish them the best!
Watching documentary and cultures of other people, I realized that I'm lucky enough with my job right now. Hope all the people that are having a hard time in their job will find success.
Its not about a job misi, its about how society is sustained , male and female getting married and reproducing and creating security for the old , ring any bells .
The father is talking shit about "the internet" and Facebook. Not knowing there is a world of possibilities in selling "custom handmade traditional roma copper pots"
As a Bulgarian (not Roma) I can say that once in 1990 I was offered to buy such a Roma wife. The "seller" was her brother with whom we were serving together our military service. The price was about 1500 DM, which later became 750 EUR. I usually don't like Roma women, but that one was really, really beautiful. But this was out of question - my family traditions don't permit such thing, so this never went further than a joke and exchanging some nice smiles.
good call, to make her happy you would first have to understand where she's coming from to know what she wants in life. And there is no happy marriage without a happy wife.
Thank you for this great documentary. I am originally from Afghanistan and I am aware of such traditions to have the family very involved in selecting a spouse for their children. I lived in Bulgaria for several years in Varna in the 90s and I met many Roma Bulgarians, who struggled with holding a job and making a living. Hope things are getting better for the younger Roma population.
It is e lie 😳 The Roma are a minority in Bulgaria and live in their own mini societies. Bulgarians and Roma have different origins, language, traditions, religions, customs. In Germany, as everywhere, there are also Roma, but you do not call them Germans.
Actually he is right. Wherever he goes they will remind him his bride. This also gives clue about why these pathetic traditions are still exist. They need to change their mindset to get rid of these idiotic traditions
It’s s pretty close knit community so probably everyone knows everyone and gossips a lot. Plus Bulgaria is a post soviet nation and clan is very heavily influenced by traditions and patriarchy. So other people matters. U can’t just be at home and mind your own business in these kind of environment
@@cooKieS_XP sadly but we are social creature. Thoughts of other people and specially our relation influence our life sad or well. İf we hear bad thing about ourselves it makes us unhappy. İt changes from people to people
Agreed. I get that their society makes that stuff matter, but at the same time you can teach your kids to do what is right for them while being aware of the cost of bucking tradition. As old ass adults, they’ve had enough life experience to see that tradition isn’t the best or only way to live. Just blindly forcing their kids to adhere to what public opinion says as though it is the gospel is sad and does no one good.
When your priority for your daughter is how rich her spouse is, rather than how he'll treat her, you know there's something seriously wrong. The same goes for guys whose priority is 1. virginity, and then physical looks. The first lasts a few seconds, and you wouldn't even know if they were or weren't, so it makes no difference. The second also fades fast, and is hardly going to ensure you're happy, even before it fades.
Used to live in Serbia for a while and i saw a lot of gypsies, so their culture is almost the same and from young age they are thought not to brake the tradition cos it will bring them bad luck in life and their god will abandon them in some way(do not know for sure sorry if im ignorant of the matter only my opinion on based what i have seen and been told), very superstitious people.
For real right... I’m sure life is better posting provocative photos on Instagram, blowing a guy in the nightclub parking lot and getting excited about how many people are following you on social media. That’s where the real happiness in life comes from.
Yeah, the concept is barbaric, but fortunately it looks less so in practice. If the girl's not interested it doesn't seem like she'd be forced to marry. As they said, she can run away at least. Realistically I would hope merely voicing her objection would be the end of the conversation.
It’s kind of the same thing in western cultures. If a man has money, it opens up an entirely new catalog of women to choose from. And even more so when it comes to reputation or prowess.. for example if a girl is the daughter of a doctor, she definitely won’t be marrying a poor man.. money means a lot. The only difference is the man isn’t paying her parents. The one he’ll be paying is his wife because she will use him for his money.
I've always head the "dating market" and the "sexual market," I wonder what their devorce rate is? With about 56% now in the west and so many kids not having both parents in the house... Perhaps we should learn rather than criticize.
Am I the only one who got disappointed from this documentary? Didn't get to see the bride market, didn't get to see how it's the afterwards. How is the offer and the wedding. Instead i get some social workers in another city and supermario on the roof. Pretty disappointed.
Harshajyoti Das fuckin a nailed it on the head. Oh people would talk, but if we had 6 sons it wouldn't be shit cuz we'd just cast that son the fuck out and call it a day here in wonderland
Lol, UC Berkeley and Antifa are what happens when children's happiness trumps everything. High divorce rates happen when personal happiness trumps social responsiblities and sensibilities. No one forces you to get married and they find happiness and purpose inside a system that works. Let em be, with the way feminism is going, I can see the next gen of men gettting dowries to give these "independent" women a shot.
'Traditions' are social rules that would have made sense at the time. If there are Traditions that have outlived their usefullness and is now in fact harmful, making people want to opt out their given environment, then perhaps its time for Traditions to at least evolve, if not done away with completely.
Thank you very, very much for adding English subtitles when the people are speaking in their language. I am completely blind and I cannot see the video at all. So I appreciate the voice overs so that I can hear the girls stories as they tell them. Thanks bunches. I wish more documentaries did this particularly those that deal with exotic customs where the people are non-English speakers. I really do appreciate the voice DVBBS. Thanks. I hope it inspires more.
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Thank a million Dw's authorities for making such types of documentary. I,m the regular viewers of DW documentary. Almost every next night I watch at least one or two documentary. It enhances my knowledge along with English learning
John Wayne you are impressed by the fact that he can tin a pot without safety equipment but those guys do far more impressive things like stealing high voltage wires while the electricity is still on and then they get chased by the polices and eventually when get caught up also get the shit beaten up out of them. And the same thing happens over and over again. So yeah those guys are crazy as hell. 🤣🤣
smokingcrack issaferthantidepods yeah my friends a Roma Gypsy and he and his family don't follow their culture. He and his family think it's bullshit I mean he acts just like an average American boy.
That's very shameful....no difference between an animal and human ...DIL KAHTA HSI CHAL UNSE MIL..UTHTE HAI KADAM RUK JAATE HAI..DIL HAMKO KABHI SAMJHATA HAI...HAM DIL KO KABHI SAMJHATE HAI......!
Ikr. In brazil is the same although opposite to what this video shows. Dark skinned girls choose men who are light skinned to have lighter skinned babies.
becasue none of us are ever happy with ourselves. I'm white and want to be browner while I have friends who's back groud are from india what want to be whiter. skin colour does not matter, is a pigment in the skin thats all. I just wish mine was not as white, especailly after winter and i put shorts on im sure I scare the hell out of people hahahahaha. When we are dead it wont matter anyway the soul's are all multi coloured. well thats my theory anyway.
Excellent portrayal of an old traditional population, their beliefs, struggles, compulsions & insecurities...Better we be non -judgemental & avoid our viewpoint on their customs....The diversity is what makes this world so beautiful....
it made me so sad when rosie said she would be embarrassed to wear a form fitting skirt :( she just wants to be comfortable in her body but her husband just has to fat shame her apparently
Nah, women in the East in general are pretty realistic about what looks good and what doesn't. They are not insecure like in the west and they can admit their faults. Men on the other hand are a different story lol..
@Kiran Kumar Tamarapalli Juding from your name, I am guessing you're Indian? Because if you are. We come from the same place and am pretty sure that joke won't fly around here. Perhaps you surround yourself with people who aren't a good influence on you. Maybe you expose yourself to media that effects your way of thinking. I don't know your story. But the way you think isn't very nice. Please work on what you think is humor. You might accidently hurt someone you care about one day. I hope you get over your internalized misogyny and I wish you well.
Pretty disgusted by all the "men" in the comments that not only think it's ok to buy and marry children, but also want to find this place to try it. Ya'll should be on a register!!!
Daddy wants to follow traditions, that's his decision. But to force it on his own child is control. And there's a good chance that the young man will do the same with his own child. Sad.
I agree with you on the control part. But if anyone would go out and escape such tradition(s) and culture. He or she will see how other people live and is the able to make comparisons.
@Tigray Adey If you like to be controlled then you are an obedient child and you stay an obedient kid as long as your parents are alive. So whatever your parents want you to do, you do it. And one day you become the same control freak as your parents were.
30 000 lev is what he said not euro, if you convert that into euro it'll be half the number and ye it's still a big sum. I'm having a feeling that they just boast and lie, typical of gypsy people.
they probably spend even more than that. usually their weddings last more than a fortnight. and yeah, the only thing they do is steal and sell drugs in Bulgaria. Oh and of course also breed 15 children for which they claim child support and then later unemployed with children support. Let me tell you, its great being a Bulgarian tax payer.
@@howcomeseriously4401 Have you seen the Dave Chapelle schtick about "a whore's uniform"? Because fathers know how boys look at girls and we don't want boys looking at our daughters that way.
Medic83 dads are amazing superheroes for their daughters i love my dad soo much❤️❤️thanks to all fathers for everything may your family have a happy life 😊😊
It's uncanny how similar they still are to Indian culture! Arranged marriages, marrying within the community, similar family dynamics, flashy clothes, reputation being important, showing off relative wealth, etc. Even the whole thing where you can't wear the same fancy dress more than once lol
Being Indian, I can relate to many of these customs. Although the world is changing and young people will not continue with many of these traditions much longer. Modern women are career minded and have their own goals and aspirations.
@@preoximerias7366 i agree, although I am neither from North India nor from a lower caste. Pot and pan menders were a common profession among the poor. However, genetically these people are more Eastern European than Indian in features and appearance, probably from generations of intermarriages. Plus, Indian customs do not allow for flirting/ dating rituals and today's Indian woman is very independent and career minded.
@Azack I agree with you but humans distinguish from group to group based on wealth and education. I've lived in the US for past 50 years, they have an unspoken caste system too. So does every country on the planet. Wealthy people usually do not socialize with poorer people. People generally stay within their own social group. That's just the way of the world.
Their saying they want to uphold tradition can seem backwards and primitive until you realize that what they're really saying is that they want to maintain family relationships and community ties (I majored in cultural anthropology). The poorer the people, the more they have to rely on each other.
Does not matter. None of this matters when it comes to someone's life/feelings WHICH should be the source of any culture. To respect one another, not treat them like tools.
Possible but I might disagree with with your closing statement "the poorer the people, the more they have to rely on each other." I'm from a minority community - a pretty successful one at that - but the urge to maintain community ties in the garb of tradition, is just as strong! Nothing to do with relative wealth
Tin coating copper utensils is an ancient tradition in India too and the process is called Kalai. References are found in ancient Sanskrit texts as well as those from the Mughal Empire and the East Indian Company. People doing this work are called 'Kalai wala' or 'Kalai kara'. Around a decade ago the art nearly disappeared with nonstick utensils entering our kitchens, but now the tradition is being revived. The Roma people have for long been associated with the Banjara community in India and its fascinating to find their customs so similar to those still seen in Indian villages.
k h, nope. Giving a fair representation of what the people are saying is their job. So, this neutral tone is really unprofessional. They should try to come as close as possible to the person their are translating, just a different language. Or just skip the dubbing entirely. Do subtitles so we can hear the people talk like they do.
George Bush I guess you have a point there Mr. Bush... regarding where are the WHITE WOMEN? Especially due to the fact that as a child you were raised in the city of Compton in the Santa Fe Garden Apartments... I'm sure there wasn't a lot of so-called WHITE WOMEN available in your neighborhood at that time LOL.
I don't understand where the market really takes place. Documentary says August at Bachkovo Monastery (which is closer to Plovid than it is to Stara Zagora). Internet says the market is held in Stara Zagora on the first Saturday of Orthodox Christian Lent, this year 23rd of March 2024. Anyone can help with this?
These documentaries are very well done and informative. I feel as if I have travelled the corners of the world and met all matter of people of different colour and creed.
You don't want to raise your wife's confidence. Raising her confidence will mean she will think she can do better than you, and eventually cheat on you and divorce you.
I don't think any of the other girls got the memo Maria was talking about regarding "being as light skinned as possible". She looks like she was dipped in flour while the others look pretty and natural.
Marieda Parellio yes, i agree. She put too much powder on her face the don’t blend with her complexion. She looks 5 months pregnant because of her belly fat.
Jealousy is a disease... She's a young, educated & beautiful young lady... If that makes her happy, let her... You people that bash on these young guys & ladies, should be ashamed to say the least... Bullying at its ugliest... You were taught by the worst, hopefully you find help for that jealousy disease... Hope Maria found the love of her life & parents got the biggest Dowery ever!
@@bekkagarzia2900 educated and beautiful? she's going to wind up as a housewife who is forever controlled by her husband! and she lacks bilateral symmetry...it's just stating the obvious...not to mention the fact that you're promoting bride selling. I mean, wow, reread what you just wrote Becky with the bad hair.
@@ccinSFfruitloop that's their custom they do not sell their daughter it's called dowery in india it's the opposit women give money to the men every culture is different . The girl here is pretty ,beautiful hair but bad makeup that's all .not every woman wants to work ,not every woman wants to live like a westerner keep that in mind . For some cultures marriage is still important .
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Uhhhh you do not say ! Technology has awakened the
" desire " to self - determination !!
Wow !! The girls are beginning to ....THINK !! AND for THEMSELVES at that !! An AWAKENING !! WOW !! Getting caught up 2018 !! Lol lol
DW Docs, you should re-do a documentary on them, as on this one, the brides market did not take place (because of some stupid gangs). I would be interresting to see what a real market would be like.
During quarantine, I have travelled the world watching these documentaries.
I just started! So interesting tbh
Like wise here
This may be the only way I can travel outside the US for a long time, now. Stupid #CuckooVirus. Stupid governments. I just lost a boatload of dreams - including going to Scotland, Hungary, and Sweden where my family comes from - and the miserable lot of them just threw that in the trash compactor. It's good to have a substitute. One of the few good things YT has done these days.
I said this to my husband!
Jakarta 👍👍👍❤❤❤
I would never have been able to afford my wife no matter how hard I worked and saved, she's priceless.
Control is n I'm sorry I’m not sure what you mean?
Cute😢
thats the best thing i’ve heard a man say u have my respect
I want people like you in kg's
Ayyyye your wife is a lucky woman . God bless your relationship. 💗😍
I hate when they have audio over the people speaking. I wish they just used subtitles
exactly!!!
yeah you can't hear the tonality of their voices when there's a voice actor talking over them.. subtitles would be much better
I like it, it means that I can watch their facial expressions and what is going on rather than purely focus on the words their saying
ME TOO, IT'S SO FRUSTRATING!? 😠😠😠
@@Riverflower ooooh yeah that means sense
My best friend who was Roma was sold at 10 years old she just disappeared one day from school and no one cared I went out looking for her and found out from some of her siblings the man took her to a different country. I still look for her on social media 14 years later but I don’t even know her last name or if she is alive. She wasn’t the fists girl to disappear a 8yo form a different family was also sold. I know these Roma are different from her family but it still disgusts me that a family would do that to their child. I really hope she is alive and well and maybe we will meet again.
The same thing happened to my friend who was 16, and I was 10 at the time. She was so scared and I didn't know what to do. I never saw her again. Many claim that it's just traditions, but if it causes so much pain it's not worth it
She’s most likely alive, just married off with a lot of kids.
stop dramatizing
That's child abuse and so sad
@@ArksideGames sounds truthful to me, and not dramatizing.
It's kinda funny that in some countries the husband pays the family for his bride, and in other cultures the family pays a husband to take the bride off their hands
It is really disgusting
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only India they pay the groom I think
In Middle East they pay for the bride gold dresses they buy or rent the apartment and furnished it and make the wedding party and the honey moon all of that to please the wife
@@افكاروابداع-س7ج only to please the wife🙄 , not to make her life happy
"you're pretty enough. you'll find a husband lets go" LOOOOL
Bogus Bozo 😂😂😂😂😂😂
It kind of reminded me of My Bug Fat Greek Wedding.
Pretty .. one inch powder her face.
Bogus Bozo maybe this is a strategy to increase the population
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Huge fan of the way the young guy decided his blue t-shirt with black words wasn’t good enough and that he needed another blue t-shirt with black words for the event
🏆Best Comment Award🏆
hahaha but really though!
Well, see....he can't afford fancy clothes. He's got to work and save for a house, car, and a dowry on top of that. And he's only 17!
Medic83 so another colour of shirt or pattern wasn’t an option then....... 😆
@@hollyro4665 well, see.....uh....ummm,......yeah! Lmao
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Man, life sure is different all over the world.
It's wierd.
Oddly, I see more similarities than differences.
Try to have a good family, the old generation thinks the young generation is too careless, drug abuse problems, male chauvinistic behavior, the old tradition crumbling down, and so on.
@@Allin7days but with the internet its all under threat
I consider myself very lucky because I was born in India and it doesn't happen in our country. Family is our greatest strength.
You thought their life was customary. , try looking up Minonites and their customs.
"Why is it taking so long? You are already pretty?"
OMG. Men all over the world use this.
because women all over the world take bloody ages to get ready!
@@amazingusername8925 ur username haah
It is due to the common factory settings
Exactly what came to my mind
But who would look at her face with a rack like that 😳
"The prettier the girl the better the reputation the more she costs"
I maybe wrong but that sounds like prostitution instead of a marriage for life
Sounds more like beauty is highly valued, and that's pretty much the same all over the world just the rituals are different I guess
@semantanijones I think the USA has it's hands full right now
Girls in western countries are basically prostitutes.. they just actively hide it.
@@brandnew4451 true! My heart and prayers go out to you guys
@@Saljarba87 I'm not from the US, but I'm sure they'll be needing it
The documentary is beautiful and non judgemental. Please create more features like this one. I have been to Bulgaria many times to visit my parents - in -law, and this brought rosy memories back.
Exactly. They tell the story as it is and it's up to you as the viewer to decide what you make of it all
Since they also rebel against it, it tells you enough. It's perfectly ok to judge this. What do you think happens to those who don't agree with this? Do you think they have free will?
It is quite judgemental, as is the majority of Documentaries from DW, you just need to learn to read between the lines. Their western propaganda docummentaries are par excellence.
The old man telling his wife that she's as big as a barn isn't being judgemental?
Some things should be judged.
I hate it when they do voice overs. I'd rather read the subtitles, it seems more authentic that way
Weslie RossMal omg I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONEEEE
Reading is harsher for the viewer, subtitles are not as good as voice overs, to reach wider market. You know nothing of making shows.
If they cant read,then they proberly wouldnt even be on youtube.
Still On Windows XP Really? My god... how stupid do you think people are?
These subtitles are dangerous lol Waaay off !!😂
We forget how lucky we are sometimes
Truly. Thank you for making me realize this. 💖💖💖💖
I can not beleave how these tribes of generations live so much differently and how strange it seems to be for all of us Americans
For being civilized?
True !! But I think we forget also how temporary and meaningless most of the things we value is just bullsh**.
Speaking from experience. Some nights when I ponder I realize how empty I'm in and out of life.
For now I just have to deal with what I'm going through.
These people might be poor but I'm sure they are much more content in their simple ways of life.
Absolutely Right
Can we just take a moment and appreciate how long her hair is
Ikr so beautiful
My drains are clogging just looking at all of them.
No.
It's beautiful... but not as glorious as her fathers Stalin-style moustache.
Humbleness is true righteousness he's got two mustaches on top one another it looks like. Epic😂
Ugh that’s all I have to say. As a child bride that was given away and mistreated and had to run away from a cheating abusive husband after following what my parents said I feel for these women. I’m now remarried to someone completely different and he loves me and takes care of me. I’ll never live for the approval of a man and I don’t want my daughters to live like that too.
Don’t feel sorry for our Roma woman there’s nothing to be sorry about ! Rom woman will only know one man and they very loyal and they are happy .. it’s not like the force their daughters to anyone the daughters chose who they want to merry with out their permission they won’t agree to the marriage .. you don’t see depressed Roma woman here 😂❤ .. but I’m glad your life changed 🙏 and god bless your good heart but for real our Roma woman and man loves our own customs traditions this is how it survived since very old ancient times to now days .. ❤
@@ferencfarkas2729 That's not what I saw in this film. I saw a girl who repeatedly said she wished her life was different, but had no efficacy or autonomy in her culture whatsoever. It's a way of forcing women into slavery and servitude. It's no different to selling a breeding cow, and it values them about as much.
@@bec5250I don't know about this clan but other roma clans, they have virginity auctions and it's completely optional.
I worked with a guy in India who’s marriage was arranged by his and his wife’s family.
The way he explained it to me was that it makes you focus on your family more and a marriage isn’t just about two people liking each other. It’s how their family gets along with yours.
Exectly but Nowadays Arrange Marriage is Rare and Divorce is no more Rare 😀
I think it’s important for husband and wife to like eachother. They may have different views and want to raise their children differently from one another. Lots of fighting isn’t good for a child, it will make them stressed. Even if the parents don’t fight, if they are cold to one another it can make the child feel bad. I’m not saying arranged marriage is bad but I think it’s still important for them to like eachother.
@@MONIKASINGH-dl8iw the increase in divorce has nothing to do with the decrease in arranged marriages. In the modern world we’ve learnt it’s important to be happy and safe. In the past couples were expected to stay together even if they hated each other as getting a divorce was considered bad. Divorce rights are higher but you will probably find that more couples are happier now.
@@rachelcookie321 You are delusional.... These documentaries are extremely biased... And in community culture you have duties and responsibilities towards families and focus is on the happiness of family......How can u hate each other if both are fulfilling their duties.... Views and wants are nonsense.....our families are happier anyways....Modern people are depressed.... They r born privileged and their ego is to the moons, they think they know everything about life which is far from reality. That's why they are depressed
@@miliaurora1038 lmao. What are you even talking about? Did you even read my comment properly?
He’s fat shaming Rosie, forgetting that he is fat too
Stormey Danielz HES a man that doesn’t matter
Yes, it goes both ways
Lmfao, the comments on here 😆😂
My ex asked me once,
"Does my bum look big in this?"
Now she's my ex. :-)
You can tell its a joke, he says it with a smile on his face. It reminds me of mexican culture, the men might joke about their wives being big but its better than modern guys. Who will up and leave no matter what the girl looks like. Besides, rosie has very nice features , you can tell she was very pretty when she was young. Still is , tbh.
The face of the wife when he fat shamed her shows how normal it is for her to be humiliated publicly.
True but if she doesn't have a medical condition then she truly is as wide as a barn door and she knows it and doesn't give a damn about looking like one in public and no guy not even a noble person would want his healthy wife to quadruple in size, if you know one then please tell me and if you are one then you are the only one.
It’s considered flattery outside the US. Imagine you never mention your wife’s butt, she would feel offended
@@naveenkumar-xc4cb he's exactly a looker either tho so not really one to talk
oh come on! you westerners or Europeans think your sentimental thoughts should apply to all other cultures. Most of these comments of "fat shaming" are applied as a form of friendly banter between family members and close friends. We don't take it to heart and get offended also the offender (in your perspectives) don't mean it in a bad way.
@@kholi9441 you said well
6:23 he’s such a great husband, generous with the complements and respect for his wife, in public no less.
🤣🤣🤣
Rightttt💀 like he isn't just as big
Why does Western media always have to present Bulgaria in the worst way possible?? That’s not at all what the reality looks like for the average Bulgarian(these are Roma gypsies and they’re a minority. So, their traditions have nothing to do with the centuries-old Bulgarian Christian traditions) Why don’t you make a documentary, for once, about all the ancient civilisations that have inhabited these lands or about the natural resorts that are protected by UNESCO, for example - basically something educational that will change the way Bulgaria is being perceived by the rest of the world?? I mean let’s face it, the reason why the Western world think so less of Eastern Europe is exactly because of such documentaries …
he was roasting her for the cameras
The young girl will look just like her in ten years 😂
The dude's moustache needs a documentary all of its own.
steal
I think it's got it's own zip code
It’s a jungle caterpillar, better call David Attenborough with the BBC.
It’s stained with spices, you can study earth’s atmospheric changes within his life time through that mustache.
@@eshoo8000 dude 😂😂😂
Family: buy new clothes for bridal market
Boy: *picks the t-shirt with the exact same blue colour he is wearing but with slightly different print*
i'm guessing his closet is full of blue shirts.
johnson sarah
XD
Seems legit.
johnson sarah Problem?
Actually that's what happens with me with lipsticks and black tops😆😆😆
His parents also wear lots of blue..
He wasn’t lying when he said he liked tradition 😅
power of youtube and suddenly i'm here watching a documentary. amazing.
omfgdelaney
So true.
Well youtube not always show good stuff,but in this case it was good.
But open your eyes, in a second you're watching this, in the next you're watching trash celebrity news.
This illuminates the struggle of young Roma against an age-old tradition. Their quest for love and self-determination is both inspiring and thought-provoking. Thanks to DW Documentary for sharing this compelling story of change and hope.
actually... it is not a forcing thing! there is many thing also
1. non of non-roma bulgarian would accept the roma (may there is excepts but very rare)
2. again it is not a forcing... they will meet for a few months before do anything and can say no...
3. the ''selling'' work as a trial... if the guy have serious intentions then will not sorry the money...
4. it is also mostly bulgarian roma thing... in rest of the world we dont do that for a long time... (of course there is some families but more like the 10%...)
Subtitles would be much better than voiceover...
No subs r awful
Iron Man you can put subtitles
@Mr X she actually speak Bulgarian very well
exactly
Voice-over is so much better especially for how conversational this documentary is.
The girls do their best to get all dolled up meanwhile the guys look like they just partied at the Jersey shore. 🙄
Lmao
Right. The guys are like, well I guess I'll throw on this t shirt
Well my boyfriend once tried to complain that I always wear the same outfits lol but then he does it too, so I started to point this out to him and he realized that yeah he was an asshole for saying that. He doesn't care anymore, but I also made a point to change it up occasionally and so did he lol.. this is why communication is so important lol but yeah when they paid for a new Tshirt instead of a suit.....makes no sense
Facts
Shoutout new Jersey Lmaoo
I cannot decide whether they are rich or poor..
I was thinking the same thing LOL
guessing middle class lmao
There is no middle class in bulgaria. They are poor. P.S. the translation is weird
Milen Shopov translation was very good. I’m guessing you’re from there ?
daydr3am3r And he’s driving a Mercedes. I’d hate to be him whenever it’s time to get an oil change. Maintenance is expensive!
I know that this is an unusual method of finding love, to those of us in western countries anyway. But I really do hope that these two young people find partners that make them happy! Teni seems like a hard worker who is prepared to support his future wife and children. He also has much respect for his family. Maria seems to be very sweet and kind and she’d make a good wife and mother. Both of these young people have so much respect and I truly wish them the best!
Hi Betty.😊
He was raised to be like this: 6:23 So no... I dont think so..
their way is better than in western country
Hello friend
Khaled weak in his study in his life?
Almost every family has an uncle who is always motivated like that mustache guy.
😹😹
Yes perhaps a distant relative of Joseph Stalin.
Like in India
Yeah that’s essentially what they are.. Indian influenced
I actually do have an uncle that has a mustache and a hustle like a boss. Lobstering and a few more side hustles I won’t mention.
Watching documentary and cultures of other people, I realized that I'm lucky enough with my job right now. Hope all the people that are having a hard time in their job will find success.
Hello
I didn't realize how badly I wanted someone to just wish me luck instead of badgering me for not already finding something. Thank you, Mara.
Thats fine. But having a job doesnt mean youre lucky at all..
@@davidrogger3943 this is youtube, not an asian dating site
Its not about a job misi, its about how society is sustained , male and female getting married and reproducing and creating security for the old , ring any bells .
The father is talking shit about "the internet" and Facebook. Not knowing there is a world of possibilities in selling "custom handmade traditional roma copper pots"
Haha yeah
Pfff and who would buy that? Europeans who meet Roma people in the streets every week certainly wouldn't.
@@mikaelb.2070 I guess you’re unaware of “hipsters”
@@mikaelb.2070 sell internationally...why limit to the small community when you can sell to the world!
@@mikaelb.2070 Europeans who meet gypsies* in the streets every week
As a Bulgarian (not Roma) I can say that once in 1990 I was offered to buy such a Roma wife. The "seller" was her brother with whom we were serving together our military service. The price was about 1500 DM, which later became 750 EUR. I usually don't like Roma women, but that one was really, really beautiful.
But this was out of question - my family traditions don't permit such thing, so this never went further than a joke and exchanging some nice smiles.
You did the right thing. I am a man and respect your decision.
Is there any difference between Roma and Bulgarian?
@@anasnadeem7545 Quite big differences. Language, religion, traditions, etc.
good call, to make her happy you would first have to understand where she's coming from to know what she wants in life. And there is no happy marriage without a happy wife.
I'm still looking for a husband. I'm 42 and still single
When parents care more about their reputations than their children’s feelings .
Usually they have around 5 children so there is little to no room for feelings. ;d More kids = more money to the family via child support.
this happens a lot in the world unfortunately
Who cares about the feelings. Reputation will help your child keep their place in the community, feelings won’t.
@@ManiaBeats I’m not sure if you’re being sarcastic or not. Keep their place of being miserable and stuck ?
@@Mamuမးမုၣ် yeah I know right.. 🤔
I know this is not related to the video but I couldn't stop staring at her hair! It is absolutely gorgeous!
Agree she really has fantastic hair.... agree...!
Tama Shes gorgeous all around!
Agree I wish there was more like her
And not even a single spot of bald spot
Ryt
If I made that "Barn door" comment to my wife, especially on camera, I am cetain my corpse would still be missing.
Are you saying she'd eat your corpse?
their culture is completely different than ours. it is not that offensive to her ....
@@mf5531 it was meant as a insult thought
😂
@@charmransom3900 are you a mind reader?
Thank you for this great documentary. I am originally from Afghanistan and I am aware of such traditions to have the family very involved in selecting a spouse for their children. I lived in Bulgaria for several years in Varna in the 90s and I met many Roma Bulgarians, who struggled with holding a job and making a living. Hope things are getting better for the younger Roma population.
It's only getting worse with Roma Bulgarians
@@antoand3364 Hopefully
It's actually even worse. In many countries of Central and Western Europe Romani people are using their children for child prostitution.
If my husband told me I were as wide as a barn door, I’d be in prison for homicide.
Are you?
Hell yeah!
@@bren-xmotorsports55 she is
The prison better have a bigger barn door then.
He was just stating the truth, although a wee bit hyperbolic
“Stop making up!” -mustache man 2018.
Sniper Blue. 😂😁😂😂 understatement of the year
Yeah makeup too light. At least her neck matches
We have many mustache mans in bulgaria
Why hasn’t anyone talked about his mustache?
yes Melissa Gallosa, im also thinking about his mustache, its hard to eat with that kind of mustache.
I think it's glorious.
He looks like a fat walrus with that mustache!
@@TheDonna1959 😆😆😆🤣🤣😂😂😂😆
TheDonna1959 oh gosh 😂😂😂 i wouldn’t mind his mustache tho if only he didn’t insult his wife!
Watching this documentary is like traveling the world, knowing their culture, life etc. Thankyou DW DOCU.
It is e lie 😳 The Roma are a minority in Bulgaria and live in their own mini societies. Bulgarians and Roma have different origins, language, traditions, religions, customs. In Germany, as everywhere, there are also Roma, but you do not call them Germans.
He has the Lorax moustache
S SS I'm done 😂😂😂😂😂 Fml u guys r so funny!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂
S SS I was looking for this comment!🤣🤣🤣
Hahahahaha
Nah janes dad from tarzan
I’m from Bulgaria and I didn’t even know that goes on. It is worth mentioning that they are gypsies and have a different culture.
But is it open sex before is common practice in Bulgarian culture? ??
@@gulabsinghsingh7248 nahhh man I don't even know where you got that from xD
Gulabsingh Singh please try again.
Same. I'm from Bulgaria and the gypsies have completely different cultures. Now people will be blaming the whole country for these absurd practices.
neve the less, they are Bulgarians.
I nearly punched my screen when the father was saying "people will think that" "People will say this". Why live for other people
That is how life is there...
Actually he is right. Wherever he goes they will remind him his bride. This also gives clue about why these pathetic traditions are still exist. They need to change their mindset to get rid of these idiotic traditions
It’s s pretty close knit community so probably everyone knows everyone and gossips a lot. Plus Bulgaria is a post soviet nation and clan is very heavily influenced by traditions and patriarchy. So other people matters. U can’t just be at home and mind your own business in these kind of environment
@@cooKieS_XP sadly but we are social creature. Thoughts of other people and specially our relation influence our life sad or well. İf we hear bad thing about ourselves it makes us unhappy. İt changes from people to people
Agreed. I get that their society makes that stuff matter, but at the same time you can teach your kids to do what is right for them while being aware of the cost of bucking tradition. As old ass adults, they’ve had enough life experience to see that tradition isn’t the best or only way to live. Just blindly forcing their kids to adhere to what public opinion says as though it is the gospel is sad and does no one good.
I love this documentary!!! Great, educational, enertaining, fascinating!!! DW Rules!!!🙌
When your priority for your daughter is how rich her spouse is, rather than how he'll treat her, you know there's something seriously wrong.
The same goes for guys whose priority is 1. virginity, and then physical looks. The first lasts a few seconds, and you wouldn't even know if they were or weren't, so it makes no difference. The second also fades fast, and is hardly going to ensure you're happy, even before it fades.
Thank you. Your comment is the only one of its kind, and so true.
edit : idk why i wrote this when i wrote this i might hav been pissed... i don't say women shld judge only on money or looks...
Oh please what about the opposite ? You cant make claims without saying things about women gold digging or cheating...
@@saleh.hashmi thats so inaccurate just cos u got a bad experience with one person doesnt mean everyone is the same
@@unicornbandits1788 It's not his experiences, it's his primitive culture.
People that respect tradition above common sense makes me feels irritated.
lmao jokes on u cs common sense is individual unique based
I love you. Unless your idea of common sense is different than mine. :P
Used to live in Serbia for a while and i saw a lot of gypsies, so their culture is almost the same and from young age they are thought not to brake the tradition cos it will bring them bad luck in life and their god will abandon them in some way(do not know for sure sorry if im ignorant of the matter only my opinion on based what i have seen and been told), very superstitious people.
For real right... I’m sure life is better posting provocative photos on Instagram, blowing a guy in the nightclub parking lot and getting excited about how many people are following you on social media. That’s where the real happiness in life comes from.
@@joedirte8355 There are extremes on both sides of the argument.
“You’re pretty enough! You’ll find a husband for sure.” I mean lmao, this just had me feeling so many mixed emotions. 🤣😂
Hello
im age55 skinny and a house owner,,never married as women in uk want to swop there men all the time,not marrage
Lol
This tradition is so bad because any girl or women should have very well treating family..... sold or buy is so sad to know....
@@minstrelofMir great job
I hope you married soon
As a Bulgarian, I just want to say that this isn`t the reality in rest of the country :D However, many people admire this marriage market
I love it ❤
That’s so cool I wish I could go their that family looks awesome I’d bid on one of the girls if she liked me when she saw me and I her
Why is nobody talking about that moustache?? That Moustache is godly.
hahah really ??! I just saw you comment and brushed laughing, really a great notice!
one hell of a womb broom
Ahahahaha!!!
I think about all the food stuck in there.
@@theravyshow2570 hes storing it in there for the winter.
Just the word BRIDE MARKET sends shivers down my spine.
Yeah, the concept is barbaric, but fortunately it looks less so in practice. If the girl's not interested it doesn't seem like she'd be forced to marry. As they said, she can run away at least. Realistically I would hope merely voicing her objection would be the end of the conversation.
It’s kind of the same thing in western cultures. If a man has money, it opens up an entirely new catalog of women to choose from. And even more so when it comes to reputation or prowess.. for example if a girl is the daughter of a doctor, she definitely won’t be marrying a poor man.. money means a lot. The only difference is the man isn’t paying her parents. The one he’ll be paying is his wife because she will use him for his money.
Seriously I feel bad making it look like women are a commodity it sucks
Yeah it’s super gross
I've always head the "dating market" and the "sexual market," I wonder what their devorce rate is? With about 56% now in the west and so many kids not having both parents in the house... Perhaps we should learn rather than criticize.
Am I the only one who got disappointed from this documentary? Didn't get to see the bride market, didn't get to see how it's the afterwards. How is the offer and the wedding. Instead i get some social workers in another city and supermario on the roof. Pretty disappointed.
Kiki do you love me? Wanna riding?
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Micky Calebro it’s vegana
@@gaminggirlgg5327 it's not his fault.. pewdiepotty effect🤣
Check out VICE . There is documentary of your interest. It shows where the market takes place.
Ive been watching this documentary every year and it never gets boring
i have been seeing documentary video for 20days, i hope i will watch a lot of documentary video it's so amazing
I'd like to know how are they doing now
When "what other people think" matters more to you than your children's happiness.
Harshajyoti Das fuckin a nailed it on the head. Oh people would talk, but if we had 6 sons it wouldn't be shit cuz we'd just cast that son the fuck out and call it a day here in wonderland
Coming at ya with a You are so right. Vlad would take a year studying a ditch.
not the full story, in fact they do this sometimes to give the daughter a better chance at a life by marrying into money.
India in a sentence.
Lol, UC Berkeley and Antifa are what happens when children's happiness trumps everything. High divorce rates happen when personal happiness trumps social responsiblities and sensibilities. No one forces you to get married and they find happiness and purpose inside a system that works. Let em be, with the way feminism is going, I can see the next gen of men gettting dowries to give these "independent" women a shot.
Have to say that these documentaries baffle me again and again. Unbelievable that so many different people exist around the world.
Yet some civilised cultures cross all limits to civilise the different cultures and ruin the beauty of diversity.
It's weird to think the world has a lot of other people that I won't understand
“Your as wide as a barn door!”
That wife has the patience of a saint.
he was stating a fact..there are no lies in their relationship.
That is a compliment for her! The bigger wife is the result of wealth of the husband.
Blazenka Tkalcevic such an opposite fo the man searching for girlfriend in the other country
> That wife has the patience of a saint.
As all decent women should.
I'd cut his mistache while sleeping😂
'Traditions' are social rules that would have made sense at the time. If there are Traditions that have outlived their usefullness and is now in fact harmful, making people want to opt out their given environment, then perhaps its time for Traditions to at least evolve, if not done away with completely.
This female voice over is making me uncomfortable.
that voice is usually from educational material, made me cringe too!
They could have literally used subtitles instead like .... I definitely agree with you. Shit is making me cringe.
why? is it because she is too expensive??? (do you get my reference)(I hate myself)
The Fathers moustache makes me uncomfortable but you have to respect tradition and customs of these metalurgist gypsies.
these pretzels are making me thirsty
as a Bulgarian I enjoyed the documentary, but I enjoyed the comment section more :D
Do you practice the same culture
@@pinkipromise pretty sure he is a bulgarian as he said not a gypsie(roma) so no
Completely agree💚
so tell us - is this video mistake or is it true?
Thank you very, very much for adding English subtitles when the people are speaking in their language. I am completely blind and I cannot see the video at all. So I appreciate the voice overs so that I can hear the girls stories as they tell them. Thanks bunches. I wish more documentaries did this particularly those that deal with exotic customs where the people are non-English speakers. I really do appreciate the voice DVBBS. Thanks. I hope it inspires more.
Same.
Oh Great! .
Just asking for the info out of curiosity.
How do you type this message then?
Pоl Кноl are use the dictation program in Siri to type my messages. It is easier than using the on screen keyboard, as there is no home row for me to rest my hands on. The computer keyboard is still better for that. Only I use my portable devices so often I hardly ever use my computer.
Siri is not good at taking dictation, so please pardon any typos.☺️
How did you lose your sight?
You are an inspiration Ms. Thea..
I feel so sorry for the women being paraded at the bride market, being required to look "as light-skinned as possible." It's humiliating.
Thank a million Dw's authorities for making such types of documentary.
I,m the regular viewers of DW documentary.
Almost every next night I watch at least one or two documentary.
It enhances my knowledge along with English learning
Thanks a lot for being a long time subscriber! We're glad you like our films. :-)
To see that guy tinning a pot with no safety equipment is amazing. People in the states pay thousands of dollars for a complete copper pot set.
John Wayne time?
Greg Solis-Reyes 16:10 I think
The guy's playing with acid and flames like it's NUTHING.
John Wayne you are impressed by the fact that he can tin a pot without safety equipment but those guys do far more impressive things like stealing high voltage wires while the electricity is still on and then they get chased by the polices and eventually when get caught up also get the shit beaten up out of them. And the same thing happens over and over again. So yeah those guys are crazy as hell. 🤣🤣
John Wayne no we don’t we use stainless steel we can’t afford that shit
If women truly want to continue with tradition that’s their choice.. but forcing them to do it isn’t right
smokingcrack issaferthantidepods thats easier said then done, especially in such a closed off traditional patriarchal society.
smokingcrack issaferthantidepods yeah my friends a Roma Gypsy and he and his family don't follow their culture. He and his family think it's bullshit I mean he acts just like an average American boy.
Still tradition
Im from bulgaria and were they come from its strickt but were im from we can do what ever we want
youtubelover 5 because he lives in America where are culture is different
It's interesting learning about different cultures. Every culture is unique and beautiful in it's own way
That's very shameful....no difference between an animal and human ...DIL KAHTA HSI CHAL UNSE MIL..UTHTE HAI KADAM RUK JAATE HAI..DIL HAMKO KABHI SAMJHATA HAI...HAM DIL KO KABHI SAMJHATE HAI......!
lol, you must come from a very very backward place to find such ridiculous tradition any good
Well it’s nőt too common in our culture… it’s just bukgarian things!
I would've preferred subtitles rather than the lifeless voice-overs.
Stalini Naufahu these people are half I iliterate I prefer vo
I can't read. So the voice over serves me well
I know. So darn weird. I would have preferred to read what they were saying.
I kind of like the voice-overs, they're relaxing
Samee 😂🤦♀️
My goodness she’s pretty with gorgeous brown hair but someone please tell me, why all the white powder 😩
Tyonna Scott fr she started looking like a ghost 💀
Geishas are pretty
Tyonna Scott many cultures want to look lighter and more Caucasian.
Ikr.
In brazil is the same although opposite to what this video shows.
Dark skinned girls choose men who are light skinned to have lighter skinned babies.
becasue none of us are ever happy with ourselves. I'm white and want to be browner while I have friends who's back groud are from india what want to be whiter. skin colour does not matter, is a pigment in the skin thats all. I just wish mine was not as white, especailly after winter and i put shorts on im sure I scare the hell out of people hahahahaha. When we are dead it wont matter anyway the soul's are all multi coloured. well thats my theory anyway.
that older man's mustache deserves an award.
Cheryl Ametewee i was waiting for it to fa ll off
I want to marry a Bulgarian girl
I wonder if he's heard of Yosemite Sam.
well said. you also
Nikki Floyd with the kind of work he does as far as messing with those chemicals and smoking at that. I don't think it'll stay on long!
That was so interesting . Hope to see more documentaries of different cultural groups that still live by the old traditions!
The prettier the girl the more she costs...
Some of us wouldn't cost a thing😂😂😂😂😂
njoro umenimaliza lkn sasa mbona unashout
Lol
😂😂😂😂😂
I wonder what are the beauty standards for them. I mean how can u decide which one is prettier which is not, it all de0ends on the beholder, no?
Oh! Self burn!! That's rare.
"you're as wide as a barn door" I would have high fived him in the face for that 😂
My jaw dropped when i saw that part🤬
That was savage hahaha this dude loves roasting people.
Savage lol
high fived in the face. I love you all day long!
he would KO you and whole village would come to help him kick your teeth out
The title is misleading, I though they were selling like in supermarket or auction. Seems more like a date gathering with wealth in the equation.
dts i don’t see it “misleading 🙂
Excellent portrayal of an old traditional population, their beliefs, struggles, compulsions & insecurities...Better we be non -judgemental & avoid our viewpoint on their customs....The diversity is what makes this world so beautiful....
Easy for a man to say!
“Just look what happens on this Facebook, a woman already has three children and then she runs to another man and falls in love with him” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
link
@Nshsls Snshshsj , it was mentioned in the video.. what link are you asking for ? lol
@@jimmymisle910
🤣🤣😂
Hi. Im curious why thats funny to you, would you mind explaining? I'm a guy with 3 kids whom the woman ran to another man.
Unfortunately. it is reality nowadays.
it made me so sad when rosie said she would be embarrassed to wear a form fitting skirt :( she just wants to be comfortable in her body but her husband just has to fat shame her apparently
Nah, women in the East in general are pretty realistic about what looks good and what doesn't. They are not insecure like in the west and they can admit their faults. Men on the other hand are a different story lol..
And I'm sure she got fat giving him all those babies, and he's on camera running his fat mouth.
@Kiran Kumar Tamarapalli You have kind of a twisted view on marriage. I feel bad for you significant other.
@Kiran Kumar Tamarapalli Even if you have a sarcastic sense of humor, that is a very poor choice for a joke :/
@Kiran Kumar Tamarapalli Juding from your name, I am guessing you're Indian? Because if you are. We come from the same place and am pretty sure that joke won't fly around here.
Perhaps you surround yourself with people who aren't a good influence on you. Maybe you expose yourself to media that effects your way of thinking. I don't know your story. But the way you think isn't very nice.
Please work on what you think is humor. You might accidently hurt someone you care about one day.
I hope you get over your internalized misogyny and I wish you well.
Struggling to feed his family..still drives mercedes
they don't have/pay can insurance over there at least not much.
Ohh I see...and here in my country we gotta pay import tax as well for a Mercedes...
Yeah and ironically amobg these low budget families you'll find mercedeses and the newest smartphones
@@fatihal488 100% 😅
@@fatihal488 Its called thrift. You won't find any credit cards here.
Pretty disgusted by all the "men" in the comments that not only think it's ok to buy and marry children, but also want to find this place to try it. Ya'll should be on a register!!!
true
It should also be okay for women to buy a husband for only $10,000. Plus he has to be at least 18
Daddy wants to follow traditions, that's his decision. But to force it on his own child is control. And there's a good chance that the young man will do the same with his own child. Sad.
I agree with you on the control part. But if anyone would go out and escape such tradition(s) and culture. He or she will see how other people live and is the able to make comparisons.
That's how you keep these abusive cultures going.
@Tigray Adey If you like to be controlled then you are an obedient child and you stay an obedient kid as long as your parents are alive. So whatever your parents want you to do, you do it. And one day you become the same control freak as your parents were.
Failing to accept change will cause change to force them to change
$30,000 for a bride when you don't have a stove?
H Pyle but they don't say what 30,000 is worth in $
rivahkillah if its euros, it’s worth more lmao
30 000 lev is what he said not euro, if you convert that into euro it'll be half the number and ye it's still a big sum. I'm having a feeling that they just boast and lie, typical of gypsy people.
There are many ways to keep warm
they probably spend even more than that. usually their weddings last more than a fortnight. and yeah, the only thing they do is steal and sell drugs in Bulgaria. Oh and of course also breed 15 children for which they claim child support and then later unemployed with children support. Let me tell you, its great being a Bulgarian tax payer.
Would it be embarrassing if noone will buy you? 🙁🙁🙁
dyaki Aqui dont think anyone will like me
rsr somebody will..dont lose hope.. 😉😉
Yes, and they’ll probably be abused by their parents aswell
dyaki Aqui lol 😝
That is not necessary, nor do i find it funny. Just Bulgarians know
You’re one of the quality vlogging channels worth following.
LMBO!!!! “Enough makeup!” Dads will be dads worldwide. Lol
*sigh* I have to tell my daughters this all the time. Lol
Why dad has to stop daughter from doing make-up I don’t understand
@@howcomeseriously4401 Have you seen the Dave Chapelle schtick about "a whore's uniform"?
Because fathers know how boys look at girls and we don't want boys looking at our daughters that way.
Medic83 dads are amazing superheroes for their daughters i love my dad soo much❤️❤️thanks to all fathers for everything may your family have a happy life 😊😊
🤣😂🤣😂 facts
It's uncanny how similar they still are to Indian culture! Arranged marriages, marrying within the community, similar family dynamics, flashy clothes, reputation being important, showing off relative wealth, etc. Even the whole thing where you can't wear the same fancy dress more than once lol
They are from India.
That's because Roma are of Indian decent
@@sugandspice9397 i know, that's what I said "how similar they STILL are". They kept a lot of their culture over the centuries.
i am from Morocco and we pretty much have almost the same traditions
Still better because whole India is not the same now...at least we Indians don't have to go to a fair to get sold.
Being Indian, I can relate to many of these customs. Although the world is changing and young people will not continue with many of these traditions much longer. Modern women are career minded and have their own goals and aspirations.
Considering the Roma are descendants of ancient lower caste North Indians who migrated into Europe, makes sense how you can relate.
@@preoximerias7366 i agree, although I am neither from North India nor from a lower caste. Pot and pan menders were a common profession among the poor. However, genetically these people are more Eastern European than Indian in features and appearance, probably from generations of intermarriages. Plus, Indian customs do not allow for flirting/ dating rituals and today's Indian woman is very independent and career minded.
@@sunilthomas2923 I'd say half were mixed while the other half looked distinctively South Asian/Indian in that Roma town.
@@sunilthomas2923 they look like modern north indians to me.
@Azack I agree with you but humans distinguish from group to group based on wealth and education. I've lived in the US for past 50 years, they have an unspoken caste system too. So does every country on the planet. Wealthy people usually do not socialize with poorer people. People generally stay within their own social group. That's just the way of the world.
I have suddenly fallen in love with Documentaries
They keep most of my time busy
Their saying they want to uphold tradition can seem backwards and primitive until you realize that what they're really saying is that they want to maintain family relationships and community ties (I majored in cultural anthropology). The poorer the people, the more they have to rely on each other.
Hmm. Interesting.
Does not matter.
None of this matters when it comes to someone's life/feelings WHICH should be the source of any culture.
To respect one another, not treat them like tools.
Possible but I might disagree with with your closing statement "the poorer the people, the more they have to rely on each other."
I'm from a minority community - a pretty successful one at that - but the urge to maintain community ties in the garb of tradition, is just as strong! Nothing to do with relative wealth
@@vpawa being a close knitted community isn't the same as being reliant on your community
The more you maintain the primitive traditions and isolation of the clan, the poorer you will also stay.
Meanwhile, in America it's common to find single mothers in their early twenties with three kids by three different dads.
Juan Valdez Three kids for four different dads would be something.
And.....a mild mental disorder, lots of tattoos, 50 piercings, a drug problem, a weight problem, and a script for anti depressant meds...
Try getting a date before you make a comment like that Juan.
I swear I made that comment before I checked out your page. Good luck with dating American girls.
Quit lying to these geeks, you've never been within three feet of a girl.
Tin coating copper utensils is an ancient tradition in India too and the process is called Kalai. References are found in ancient Sanskrit texts as well as those from the Mughal Empire and the East Indian Company. People doing this work are called 'Kalai wala' or 'Kalai kara'. Around a decade ago the art nearly disappeared with nonstick utensils entering our kitchens, but now the tradition is being revived.
The Roma people have for long been associated with the Banjara community in India and its fascinating to find their customs so similar to those still seen in Indian villages.
Even the word "Kalaidzhi" sounds similar to "Kalai wala"! Nice analogy, Madam
Kalai is a Hindi word used to signify a process applied to copper vessels. Kalaidzhis do just that.
Yes, and in some Slavic languages ''kalaj'' means tin :D
Wow this comment section is a knowledge gaining one...😊
@@mumijevi in Bulgarian it does. Thats why we call them kalaidzhi
DW....thanks for these wonderful documentaries...
Why are the translators always so unmotivated
Liam Hathaway ikr !!!
they should keep it neutral it is part of their job
k h If the person they are translating is yelling then they should put emphasis on that.
k h, nope. Giving a fair representation of what the people are saying is their job. So, this neutral tone is really unprofessional. They should try to come as close as possible to the person their are translating, just a different language.
Or just skip the dubbing entirely. Do subtitles so we can hear the people talk like they do.
Better than the shitty american documentaries where they go *FWOOOSHHHHH* WAS HE THE MURDERER? -erer -erer -erer *BAM BAM BAMMMMMMMMMMMMM*
"Wife, you're as wide as a barn door."
Said no husband ever...except this guy.
@anonymous no they dont , ive never heard this saying in Britain
@anonymous i live west
My dad would!
@anonymous yea
Sasharie you are NOT British darlin
“Everyone wants a wife with a lighter complexion because that is more beautiful” disappointed but not surprised 😔
If you think selling off a woman is stupid. U should most definitely know that saying fair skin is considered beautiful is also stupid
Its5:53 A.M factz every tone is beautiful
Naturally. Problem? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Lol where the white women at?
George Bush I guess you have a point there Mr. Bush... regarding where are the WHITE WOMEN? Especially due to the fact that as a child you were raised in the city of Compton in the Santa Fe Garden Apartments... I'm sure there wasn't a lot of so-called WHITE WOMEN available in your neighborhood at that time LOL.
I don't understand where the market really takes place. Documentary says August at Bachkovo Monastery (which is closer to Plovid than it is to Stara Zagora). Internet says the market is held in Stara Zagora on the first Saturday of Orthodox Christian Lent, this year 23rd of March 2024. Anyone can help with this?
These documentaries are very well done and informative. I feel as if I have travelled the corners of the world and met all matter of people of different colour and creed.
I hate how they put a price on young womens beauty
its the same in modern setting, just that the men dont say it out
I think they should at least include things like the young woman's ability to take care of a house, cook, and take care of children.
Qwert Yuiop hope you're joking
It's the same in the USA, you pay one way or another. No woman comes for free no matter how "modern" you think society will become.
those are implied qualities what she was raised to fulfill or maybe she gets returned to her father which would bring shame upon the family
Lmaooooo "ur as wide as a barn door" how to raise your wife's confidence 101
doesn't seem she cared a damn about it.
so you want him to lie???
Random _ User always look who’s talking
Lmfaoooo
You don't want to raise your wife's confidence. Raising her confidence will mean she will think she can do better than you, and eventually cheat on you and divorce you.
Uncle has the honest bluntness you only get from old men.
Roma's father: " 10k euros and you can take my daughter"
Les from pawn star: "I'll give you 80 euros"
more like "i can only do 20"
I'll call in an expert to take a look
GOLDENSPIKE3000 lmao , how about " well she is going to sit on the shelf for awhile , or it's a tight market for Bulgarian wives right now
GOLDENSPIKE3000 LOL
GOLDENSPIKE3000 and then will take her to an auction will sell to €100000 coz she is virgin.
I don't think any of the other girls got the memo Maria was talking about regarding "being as light skinned as possible". She looks like she was dipped in flour while the others look pretty and natural.
Marieda Parellio yes, i agree. She put too much powder on her face the don’t blend with her complexion. She looks 5 months pregnant because of her belly fat.
Jealousy is a disease... She's a young, educated & beautiful young lady... If that makes her happy, let her... You people that bash on these young guys & ladies, should be ashamed to say the least... Bullying at its ugliest... You were taught by the worst, hopefully you find help for that jealousy disease... Hope Maria found the love of her life & parents got the biggest Dowery ever!
I don't understand why someone with a pretty face needs to cake on makeup. Natural is way more beautiful.
@@bekkagarzia2900 educated and beautiful? she's going to wind up as a housewife who is forever controlled by her husband! and she lacks bilateral symmetry...it's just stating the obvious...not to mention the fact that you're promoting bride selling. I mean, wow, reread what you just wrote Becky with the bad hair.
@@ccinSFfruitloop that's their custom they do not sell their daughter it's called dowery in india it's the opposit women give money to the men every culture is different . The girl here is pretty ,beautiful hair but bad makeup that's all .not every woman wants to work ,not every woman wants to live like a westerner keep that in mind . For some cultures marriage is still important .
They live totally different than us, i know a few families of them and have documented their lives. They sure know how to hustle !
The fuck is wrong with you? This is sickening!
@@shuvadeepdey2574 why do indian men like you ask these stupid questions?
Where are you from Tsetsi dear?? You are so beautiful 😍
Didn't you comment in another video cows are safer than women in India??? I remember because I always remember an arrogant women commenting.
This whole thread is a riot lmao