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I cant talk about it enough that being half naked and posting sexual content does not mean you are confident and its body positivity. The most confident and sexiest people dont need to show their body to attract people
Who thinks the people you describe are sexy and confident?
@@irinasp3723Most people …
@@lamiadavud mmmkey. This is backwards. People who are confident don't feel urge to show their body. It doesn't mean they are sexy. Most people consider sexy attractive people, they don't have to be balf naked all the time but their body is desirable for sure
@@irinasp3723 as this world comes to its end your worried about this nonsense
@@mikepiccolo32 who said I'm worried 😁
The part about voice intonations was so interesting and something I’ve never considered before. I’ve noticed that whenever I’m speaking from the middle of my voice (not to high/sweet but also not intense/aggressive) my husband seems so much more receptive to me. I would absolutely be interested in a video that expounds further on this concept. 🎉 Thank you for all the great videos. I always look forward to them 💕
Yes, I'm going to be more aware of my tone now too.
A friend taught me that if you're with someone and they're really angry/stressed, if you speak more gently/slowly it should soften the energy.
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@@Froglet1968 yes, got me out of a lot of fights lol,
As a man, I can hear exactly what you’re talking about. Even if it doesn’t compute as to why that girl talk babababdidididibabadi rhythm and over the top predictable annunciation that makes us wonder if it’s your mind that dictates the 60 idiosyncrasies of feelings you’re sounding out or it’s the inflections that are dictating your thoughts and feelings 😆
Just keep doing what you’re doing you’re on
On it*
She’s good. What she said about standing in your shoes filling your space that’s something that has only naturally occurred to me on psychedelics, and I am very hot on psychedelics, but I have never been able to keep it stepping into yourself. That’s so cool that she said it and that way because, that’s exactly how I thought it. Just being at a great show with my brain being tickled. She’s a sentient one..: …giving out game changers in gift wrap.
😙
I could watch a 6 hour video of you just talking about this topic. No breaks.
Why?
Lol 😂
Need a glass of water. You sound parched .
Is there nothing this lady doesn't know 😅🙌
So true.
Hahaha
Ummm- Of course there are things she doesn’t know- she’s a human- not a walking encyclopedia.
Literally !
Same here,safe&sorry,hot&idiot 🛐
I love that you don’t caricaturise femininity and remind women that it’s an energy and not just flowy pink dresses and low voices. A lot of femininity coaches online somehow portray a certain rigid ‘ look ‘.
I don't know why, but I started to cry when you mentioned the voice thing. Something you said opened a very deep hurt inside of me that I wasn't aware existed. When you started to pretend to talk fast, it was like seeing myself in a mirror for the first time and understanding myself. I never connected this behaviour with my childhood. But every thing you said hit home, that is exactly my childhood, always having to fight to be seen, to be heard. Thank you for taking the time in your busy mama life to make this video, it really has helped me. I am enjoying your weekly Spotify podcast as well. Thank you.
Wow you put this perfectly, totally relate
Same thing😢😮
It happened to me too ..
I thought to be the only one in the world to have experienced this...I'm glad to know that I am not alone in this journey, neither you 🎉🎉
You’re the big sister archetype young women need in a world that’s trying to make aware and sell them all of the things they aren’t. I so wish I knew you in my teens/early 20s.
I agree
"If you are going to be hang the value of your attractiness on current trends you will never feel hot and sexy. " This is on point, now I realize the trend now it is to have big lips, not that is bad, but it is a reminder that beauty or charm is inside of you and connecting with yourself. Thank you!
Years ago at work, there was this guy, 15 years younger than me ta boot, who kept coming on to me. One day, I was hot, literally hot, and I said out loud "I'm so hot" (fanning myself) and he says "yeah you are!!" My ego was riding high that day!
So… did anything happen between you 2??
I recently discovered your channel, and its like finding the soul sister i never had. Thank you for all that u share❤
“ Put self knowledge before skimpy clothes “ ❤❤❤❤
Good reminder to interact at your own natural pace with others, I've found my pace is slower than most, and a lot of people seem impatient and end up prematurely judging and misinterpreting my intentions and the message that i had started to convey. I've learned that trying to force a conversation further after that point in that moment does not "fix" it. I'm thinking long term now as in maybe future will show my message more clearly, or not. Quick impatient interactions and quick-to-judge people are not a good fit for me and I'm now much more accepting of whatever they decide to think.
I can’t get enough of your videos. You’ve helped me beyond measure. Personally I have tried to put my focus on “evolutionary beauty” vs following trends. For example, naturally healthy long hair and nails, reducing BMI, confifence, skin care, lash serums, self love, Inner peace and leaning into my femininity .
Love how your videos are so straightforward and I hear nothing but your voice, no distracting music whatsoever, thanks much:)
Thank you so much for talking about being in touch with your own body and being on your own journey...so many women have been taught to put others first and detach from the inherent knowledge our bodies hold. And we can't fully emBODY our power and worth if we don't connect with our own bodies. Love everything you said 🙏🏻☺️
“You with your tiny little tushy” had me dying! 😂
SAME😂😂😂
most helpful youtube video I've listened to regarding secure confidence and how to communicate an attractive personality rather than obsessing about looks as the only redeemable characteristic. It's refreshing as I've hear almost no other person on youtube phrase it in this way.
Thank you and I'm for sure becoming a new sub :)
Definitely one of my favorites of yours so far!! This one went surprisingly deep and really resonated with me. Thank you again and again ❤
Girrrrl! You are on fire 🔥 thank you for such INCREDIBLE reminders! Biggest message for me is “take up your space” love it! Thank you! 🙏🏼❤️
“That’s just a level of openness I’m not even sure anyone should strive for” 😂
THANK YOU! I had good self confidence and sense of self & discovered my boyfriend was cheating in different ways with different women. My spirit's crushed and I feel absolutely disgusting and without value. I'm having to dig really deep here to build myself back up. People like you are helping x
Gosh, it’s actually amazing that you felt great about yourself before, and that is probably your baseline! Anyone would be filled with feelings of disgust at having been cheated on, but probably, discussed isn’t yours, and isn’t about yourself, it’s just a general discussed that will take a while to wear off as you leave that whole experience behind. Maybe you could purposely think of cleansing yourself like when you take a shower, or are in the breeze and get sunshine, or anything that might help you feel like you were clearing away those memories. I hope you feel better soon! And back to yourself!
@@nakitanash2189 thank you so much for your kind comment. It’s so sad, weird and wrong that the person betrayed feels deep shame and embarrassment when that’s what the person who cheated should feel, along with guilt. I hope one day it happens to them and they spare the person they hurt a thought. Damage is done though. There were red flags, but if you have no evidence, are trusting and they tell you what they want you to hear it’ll take a while to be sure.
I’m just grateful I wasn’t married or with children, that must be horrific. Big hand squeeze to anyone who is going through this right now or suffering the aftermath xxxx
You are not alone. We need to be brave and get in control of our lives, heal and let life surprise us. We deserve the best. Much love to you darling.
@@silvanacoria6915 thank you x
@@polkadolt I think precisely, we feel what the other should have felt, and that's why I feel it isnt disgust with ourselves but of the wrongdoing we have to slough off to get back to ourselves.
I feel this so much! And also remember be yourself and confident in who you are that is super attractive - I am naturally loud and strong personality girl and that works way better for me than trying to tone myself down for other people :) cause that is also something some people love and others don’t! So who like that will gravitate towards you
Finally someone said this major thing, the voice intonation. For the longest time I felt alone in this one, because no one seemed to agree with this fact. The part about true hottness ("the inner value power") needs to be spread more ❤
I can listen to this woman all day ❤❤❤❤
I actually do 🙃🙌
Margarita, you’re a total badass & so so right 😍 I literally have a story that proves your body type & attitude advice. I started out modelling when I was 11 in the age of heroin chic. I was 5’9, 36-22-36, a double D cup size 10 blonde with a “classically timeless beauty face”. Basically all I ever heard was “fabulous face, shame about the body”…now I look back at pics & omg I looked like a blonde Jessica Rabbit 😅 I was under constant pressure to lose weight. Every agency in Sydney wanted to sign me….if I could shave an inch or two off my hips & go down to a small C cup. At 15 a very famous agency told me “you’re face is incredible, but you’re far too busty, but don’t worry, when you drop some more kilos they’ll go down”. At that point I was over exercising & at the start of an ED. When I explained that I’d already lost a fair bit of weight but it didn’t come off my bust, they flippantly replied “Oh well, you’ll need to get a breast reduction, you’ll be laughed at at anything over a B cup in Paris”. I WAS 15 😳 Another major agency said they could get me work (after I’d starved myself to a busty size 8) but that I had too much of a “sexy pinup calendar girl look” for high fashion…& I wasn’t keen on doing sexy lingerie, skimpy bikini/topless stuff for surf mags, men’s mags & catalogues. I was utterly miserable, had bulimiarexia, my hair & skin dried out, I looked gaunt in the face & had taken to living on Diet Coke, water & took up smoking as I’d seen all the girls at castings do (I was too naive to realise there were also amphetamines helping some).
Eventually I started getting depressed & was having panic attacks, & my doctor put me on antidepressants. My mood was way better in a couple of months but despite fighting it, I began gaining weight. At some point I decided I’d rather quit modelling than go back to torturing my naturally curvy body into a shape that was unattainable. It was about 8 months later I saw an ad for a plus size models. I had “ballooned” (in my mind) to a size 12-14. I interviewed at the plus size agency & suddenly my face & body were “perfect” even if I wanted to gain a little more weight. I immediately began being sent to go sees at fashion mags & getting booked, & suddenly I was doing quality fashion, tv, print, catalogue, runway…everything I thought was beyond me!
Now here’s where it’s interesting….at a size 8-10 guys would check me out on the street & in bars, but my dating life sucked. The few guys I dated got bored (because I was always mentally counting calories & was miserable) & ghosted or they treated me like crap, just wanting to hit it & quit it. I hated myself, why should I expect anyone to adore me?
After I blossomed out of depression & into plus size modelling & was basically applauded & rewarded for my size 14 body, I was suddenly fighting guys off with a stick!! 😂 The one’s I did date treated me like a princess (I also got a couple of proposals 😛) & I didn’t even have to TRY to attract guys…I just kept doing what I loved & they found me.
Even when later down the track I went up a couple of sizes, it never lessened male interest.
The only times in my life I’ve attracted toxic men is when I have a depression relapse & am vulnerable & well…GRATEFUL someone wants me. Perfect bait for narcissists 😒
But no matter who you are, what you look like, what size you wear, what you have or haven’t achieved…. As long as you’re authentically YOU, as long as you believe & treat yourself like you value & respect yourself, and that validation comes from inside you & not solely from external influences, there will be people who dig you. Accept yourself and your right to take up space, to speak your mind & to receive ❤️
Sorry for the essay Margarita, I’m just passionate about this topic 😛
❤❤❤❤❤❤I loved this thank you for sharing. From another busty gorgeous too curvy sexy to model. I should have went to plus size
Love your story and it's absolutely on point! I wish this was taught to us at a younger age ❤
I am so happy I found your channel! I am literally binge watching your videos!! I could go on & on about the validity of each & every word of all of them. Thank you so much for helping me realize that I am enough, I am beautiful, & I am worthy of every kind of loving & caring relationship & if it doesn't serve my higher greater purpose, it is ok to let go ! 🥰
The last part about taking up space chickened instantly. Great point made!!!! This is so true! Thanks for the wisdom ❤❤❤
i just want you to know that i love your videos. You have really helped me with your self improvement/ feminine energy videos. Really appreciate your content ♥️♥️
LOVE THESE MINDSETS & CONCEPTS!!! THANK YOU!!!
You are the sister I always wished I had. Your advice is so practical and helpful!
Women need also to 'watch' who they are 'attracting'. If they 'attract' a covert naracistic, then they have got themselves into a very very dangerous relationship. The naracist only loves themselves. You need to attract a truly honest caring male who has real empathy and genuinely loves the women he is with. Be cautious in 'selecting' your partner.
Yeah my now ex is a covert narcissist. 🙂
Kiana Sade we all care 😂
@@kianas1616 yes covert naracistic males are simply evil selfish abusers who are totally in love with themselves and their own image. They 'use' their 'friends' to fill their emptiness inside. They are actors on a stage who act to their own script. They mimic emotions of empathy etc etc but everything about them is a total lie. You need to keep your boundaries as high as possible and only have necessary contact and give yes and no answers to everything they say. You can never trust a naracist.
Thank you for this video. It's just like a forest full of different trees. All the trees are slightly different but each one is beautiful individually because each tree knows their own beauty! It comes from the inside and radiates that energy outwards 💗
This is the first time when I'm watching your videos and literally I can easily feel your confidence!!!❤
Hi I found your channel through your anxious attachment videos, started branching out to your other videos and landed on this one... I'm a tarot reader and have been trying to see each suit as a life lesson (coins: you have to provide home and food for yourself before you provide for others, swords: you need to experience pain before you can understand other people's pain and know empathy, cups: you have to love yourself first before you can love others or receive love from others) and I have been having so much trouble figuring out what the lesson of the wands would be. I knew it had something to do with desire and sexuality but I was only scratching the surface. And this video was the answer!!! and it's blowing my mind lol you prob had no idea you were teaching me tarot through this video but you did and I appreciate it so much. Thank youuuuu
Thank you so much for this video! You’re advice was so helpful & encouraging! Much love
I’ve listened to several of your videos. You make total sense. Thank you!
Outstanding! Another "best"! I love these topics. You're making an impact on new generations that need to hear this! Thank you Thank you. 😊
I love your vibe! strong, assertive, beautiful, confident and smart!
Omg I'm so happy to find your videos especially on self concept ❤️
Margarita thank you so much for your videos. Your anxious / avoidant ones have been so helpful, so down to earth, and such a good and clear summary of how to handle some of the differences between these attachment styles.
I would really appreciate if you could make an in-depth video on what/ HOW exactly to voice your needs, hurts, and concerns to an avoidant partner. I know you've touched on this a bit already but it would be so helpful to have it super in-depth. Like, what if you've voiced your needs multiple times, and the other person isn't showing up? How do you continue to stay calm and not be angry or volatile or accusatory with them? And what are the exact sentence structures to use (examples are very helpful) to know exactly what to say and how to say it, so as not to trigger them, and rather to inspire them, but still get your needs and meaning across very clearly.
Love the ending❤ concise and to the point
I love your brand of femininity, it’s real and it’s true😘
Ma'am I m very much consoled ! I needed this
Hi Margarita, I have been following your videos for a while. Today I just want to thank you from my heart, You are really changing peoples lives. The way you explain the things it just connects so effortlessly. I am currently going through a bad phase of heart break in my life and listening to you and your life story I have got a bit of confidence inside myself that yes I can also overcome it. Your videos on attachment styles and getting detached has changed my perception on looking at things. Although it hearts still to not get the attention and love from the lady that you desire I think I will be fine soon if I continue working on myself and putting myself on priority. I sinceley want to thank you for reaching me out through your videos when I desperately needed them. Whenever I start feeling low , I think of you and I get that sudden boost of confidence and self esteem inside me. Love you so much... 💕💕
So much great insight. I devour your content. You're like a sister or a best friend who wants the best for you.
I am a 20-year-old bisexual Brazilian man, and I am TAKING NOTES! What you said about seduction being related to self-knowledge and being comfortable in your own body is SO VERY true. I will be enrolling in yoga classes, doing fasts, and eating healthier thanks to this video. Thank you for the video, it helped A LOT! Love from Brazil 🤍🇧🇷
Gosh I love you girl ❤ you are needed in this world especially for anyone who is working on anxious attachment and confidence ❤❤❤thank you …
Thank you so much for this!
You’re so awesome 👏🏻 love and agree with every bit!
You remind me of Scarlett Johansson so much for some reason!
Very helpful video by the way. Thank you!
Omg all of this is so on point
Tiny little tush energy lmao. I actually needed to hear this! I love her
“Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”
_ 1 Corinthians 6:19-20
“Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness-with good works.”
_ 1 Timothy 2:9-10
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
_ Romans 12:2
“Do not let your adorning be external-the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear- but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands,”
_ 1 Peter 3:3-5
“Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.”
_ Proverbs 11:22
“You shall not make any cuts on your body for the dead or tattoo yourselves: I am the Lord.”
_ Leviticus 19:28
In our hot girl era Goddesses ♥️✨🌹👑
I love your sense of humor because its relatable and real
Great video... very real and very true. You say what needs to be said.
When she calls me naughty for not subscribing 😅 yes mummy
Incredible as always.
Love your content & personality. Keep on going. ❤
Wow so grateful for all this wisdom and knowledge ❤🙌🏽🙏
Makes good sense. Thanks!
I love the way you articulate your thoughts!!! Binging on all of your videos. Thank you Margarita !
“Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”
_ 1 Corinthians 6:19-20
“Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness-with good works.”
_ 1 Timothy 2:9-10
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
_ Romans 12:2
“Do not let your adorning be external-the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear- but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands,”
_ 1 Peter 3:3-5
“Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.”
_ Proverbs 11:22
“You shall not make any cuts on your body for the dead or tattoo yourselves: I am the Lord.”
_ Leviticus 19:28
Love your content Margarita!❤
Yes. 💜Staying in my own lane, respecting and loving my vehicle is the way to go. I feel like a fun ride.
Been watching your vids from way back when your Hermes bag got damaged in your wardrobe 😂 have to say I absolutely love this new style and content of videos 🙌🏼💖
Literally loveeeee your videos. 🤍
The voice tones you mentioned was very interesting I’d love to learn more
Just found this channel and I’m binge watching ❤ Such cool concepts, realizations and AHA moments! Thanks for sharing so much, Margarita!
“Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.”
_ 1 Corinthians 6:19-20
“Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness-with good works.”
_ 1 Timothy 2:9-10
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
_ Romans 12:2
“Do not let your adorning be external-the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear- but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands,”
_ 1 Peter 3:3-5
“Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman without discretion.”
_ Proverbs 11:22
“You shall not make any cuts on your body for the dead or tattoo yourselves: I am the Lord.”
_ Leviticus 19:28
This is super helpful. Thank you!
This was beautiful to listen to
Love your energy. ❤
STRAIGHT UP SUBSCRIBED
Thank you Ms.
Appreciate your videos, and this one speaks to the larger conversation around commodifying women's sexuality and body type vs. the essence of owning your own sensuality, seductiveness because your type of lover is always around despite the era we are in.
Thank yous for helping❤ and bloody hell you’re funny 😂
spill the teeaa!!☕
ngl the part about the voice really astonished me..I need to get into this, thanks! great video everything was on point I really agree with what youve said
I have put this on repeat every night and morning because this is SO GOOD❤❤❤
great video and thanks for opening up my mind ❤
so happy i found out about this channel ❤
Excellent video. Especially the section about beauty trends - I was thinking on this that if you pin your feelings about your market value on what is currently seen as attractive, at some point in our lives, either now or when it changes again, we're going to believe we're wrong and no longer attractive and feel like we have to change our bodies, which obviously is the point of the trends from a capitalist beauty industry perspective.
Food for thought about our voices too. I stutter sometimes, and more often recently, which I realised is since the end of a 9 year relationship with my child's father. I wonder if it's because I really want to feel heard, when it felt like he didn't hear me, so I'm trying to get it all out. I'm going to slow down
I love listening to you. I can already feel myself becoming a better, more secure and stable version of myself. Who knew confidence was so much about relaxing and just being who you are :))
i needed this. ♥️
Super great advice
Loved this. Thank you
Agreed with mahir
Amazing as ever ❤
Go girl thats beautiful nothing beats everything like knowing and loving your inner self.
Okay you got me in the very first video ive watched of yours! Ive had you pop up on my feed for ages and i finally clicked on your video 🥰😘
Good job, girl, I’m subscribed
Thank you so much from 🇬🇭 Ghana
Always delighted to see a new upload from Margarita!
You are
Absolutely right
Love this ❤ thank you for your videos, Margarita ✨
There's so many things I can improve in. I want to work on speaking more slowly and giving myself permission to take up space when I'm speaking. I tend to rush and fumble and over my words
Actually very true insight
Thank you so much for this! This is so insightful and useful, and you are so pretty 😊 New subbie over here! 🙋♀
even as a guy I find this quite useful, you make a lot of good points
Healthy self image and confidence
Apparently, the RUclips algorithm wanted me to see this.💖
Great video. Confidence is seductive.✨
I love your channel!!!❤
Dude i love you ❤❤❤
I’m learning so much from you. Thank you for your knowledge 😊