Thanks so much Tolulope solutions.I will like you to do a video on family planning, Most people don't really have an understanding on how this works expecially for newly married or who whole are about to get married. Thank you.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Solution mama, I was just laughing through out the video... You came raw this time around, God continue to empower you and fill you with wisdom. I remember when I was pregnant my doctor asked me if I was having sex with my husband i said yes... She said I should continue that it will help in giving birth, thank you very much for sharing
Solutions mama! You really did justice to this! Exactly;That first trimester of sickness (Hyperemesis gravidarum )is no one’s mate😂😂😂. Asides that, sex can be continued 😁 And yes; having sex helped my walls for vaginal delivery for my first child. Baby came day after😂
I feel like the best part about sex in pregnancy is that I’m not scared of getting pregnant 🤰🏽😅😂 so it’s a do as you like situation, very liberating 🤣🤣🤣
I was very sick in my first trimester too but my husband was angry that I wasn't allowing us have sex. So, I just had to try to keep up. 14 weeks into my pregnancy, I started bleeding. Doctor said it was threatened abortion and I need to avoid sex. I had to tell the doctor to tell my husband himself. That was when my husband now agreed. Second trimester I became strong and we began to have good sex back.
Well said but there're still cases where some women experience severe downturn in their libido or lowered sex drive . This is as a result of different people with varying anatomy and hormones. They may not be Intentionally staying away but their hormone is out of wack. Something to bear in mind perhaps there's someone watching this and having self-guilt for not being sexually active during pregnancy. PS: it's not a disease condition but with varying anatomy/ hormones people experience different changes due to pregnancy. Such individuals usually return back to pre-pregnancy state once baby is born.
Thank you for this comment!! Many women actually struggle with decreased libido in pregnancy, it’s not they they don’t want to, they are just unable to
This is a profound angle but I think it will be best to have men in the video to speak for themselves. But I think she spoke a bit about that when she talked about attractiveness.
Yess o we're here... intimacy works for labour I had good intimacy with my husband in the morning of the precious day we welcomed our darling princess. #Intimacy is for marriage only. # fleesexualsins
Husband should handle his wife with care during this period , do it but just be gentle with her body and everything should be in moderation. Do what is convenient for both of you, both of you need to talk about it , pls. Thank you so much sis Tolulope.
Amen this is powerful thank you mama solutions God bless you the way I clicked on the video eh? 😂🥰this topic is very important sex is very important during pregnancy in marriage thank you for this topic ❤
Thank you so much for this topic. I would like to ask a question, i Just did my traditional marriage/bride price and remaining church wedding, Is It fornication if you've not done church wedding but your bride price has been paid?
It’s not fornication dear. The most important thing has been done which is seeking blessings from your parents. You can have sex after your traditional marriage if you want to.
Thank you so much, @tolulopesolutions ma😊. I'm always so blessed by seeing your videos. It's how complete the Bible is for me. Thank you so much, for sharing this and keeping me enlightened. I pray for more of God's love and sweetness in your marriage and home 😊. God bless you. I love you so much, ma🥰🥰
I clicked on this video immediately as I saw it and it was Worth it...Thanks mama Solution for the vlog.... I have a question to ask concerning sex while breastfeeding, I'm not married yet, but I've heard different stories of how breastfeeding moms get pregnant.... Unconsciously I'm overwhelmed with the fear of not being a victim of such What's your take on this ma?
Of a truth first year in marriage also ran me out of it.. I was like what the hell mistake have I done to myself? I would lie, I still face challenges to say, but I always bring it to the word. And I realized I needed to be more resilient and learn how to keep mute. I hope this makes sense. But I know what I'm talking about👌 Bible marriage is the goal👌💯
I didn’t bother watching this apart from the clip i saw on IG. but my own advise would be everybody should do what works for them and their spouses. Marriage is so much more than sex. Not having sex for a while would not tear down a strong marriage when both spouses are in agreement. Wahala for who nor get understanding husband. There’s people that don’t feel like it and their husbands understand. And that’s okay too. There’s people who have sex throughout pregnancy and that’s okay too. Let everybody do what works. There’s no manual to marriage. Having sex everyday isn’t what strengthens a marriage. Marriage wen go fail go fail.
Why comment when you didn't bother to watch the video what you just commented was so off point,in every topic there is context, without it there is no discourse all this short attention span is just sad.
@@tessyezirim9723 na you sabi. You will be alright. I’m allowed to drop my opinion on a topic same way anybody is allowed to. All I spoke was facts. If you don’t like it, you can go outside to touch grass or cry in a corner. I don’t care. Plus this was almost 2 weeks ago. We’ve all moved on please. Bye bye
Since you didn’t watch, you might not have noticed that she read some scriptures and the HOLY BIBLE is the only manual to marriage. As marriage was not originated by either you or me
@@Mimi-hi5oo since you have moved on why then did you reply? 😂😂 I should go outside and touch,you should be telling yourself that now, you that cannot even process simple things with an attention span of a child, Na you. Gats touch grass true.
I heard someone saying that he stopped touching the wife because he felt that the thing will be touching the baby head when he sleeps with the wife😂😂😂😂
My husband and I have been apart for the most of my pregnancy but he will be with me soon and said he can’t wait to give our baby his first knocks on his head.😂😂😂 Sex in pregnancy will give the baby “kpom kpom kpom” on his head.
OMG. I am team till Labour Day, till last minute. We enjoy it like that 😉. And postpartum is as early as we get in the mood. Six weeks is a long time. Thank God for strength 🤣🤣🤣
Not me finishing the 'I just want to quickly say thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this video...' line only to be disappointed 😂😂😂 Love love this video❤❤
For someone who is going to be pregnant soon, this video is timely. Thanks for sharing ma’am ❤
Thanks so much Tolulope solutions.I will like you to do a video on family planning, Most people don't really have an understanding on how this works expecially for newly married or who whole are about to get married. Thank you.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Solution mama, I was just laughing through out the video... You came raw this time around, God continue to empower you and fill you with wisdom.
I remember when I was pregnant my doctor asked me if I was having sex with my husband i said yes... She said I should continue that it will help in giving birth, thank you very much for sharing
I’m not even married, why did I click on this video?😂😂
We are here together 😂
Learning for future purpose 😅
Me too. 😅 Let us gather still 😂
@@funmilayoomolade6981 righttttt😅
@@allgoodthingsaremine7058 😂😂let’s know now, so no excuses later
learning into our future😂😂😂
Thank you mama Solutions for the wisdom you share on this space ❤
Please lets hear what you have to say about family planning
I'm not even married but am really learning alot. Thank you Mama Tolu.
Congratulations on the Momcozy deal ma ☺️
Thank you for such a rich and insightful conversation 🙌🏾
Solutions mama!
You really did justice to this!
Exactly;That first trimester of sickness (Hyperemesis gravidarum )is no one’s mate😂😂😂.
Asides that, sex can be continued 😁
And yes; having sex helped my walls for vaginal delivery for my first child.
Baby came day after😂
I feel like the best part about sex in pregnancy is that I’m not scared of getting pregnant 🤰🏽😅😂 so it’s a do as you like situation, very liberating 🤣🤣🤣
You know this sis!!
😂😂😂
Omg😂😂😂
Very true
I am not married but I learn a lot from you, thank you ma
Thanks for sharing, helpful even for us the unmarried ones. Looking so good ! Love your top, hair, earrings, Infact the whole look is giving ❤😊
I was very sick in my first trimester too but my husband was angry that I wasn't allowing us have sex. So, I just had to try to keep up. 14 weeks into my pregnancy, I started bleeding. Doctor said it was threatened abortion and I need to avoid sex. I had to tell the doctor to tell my husband himself. That was when my husband now agreed. Second trimester I became strong and we began to have good sex back.
Well said but there're still cases where some women experience severe downturn in their libido or lowered sex drive . This is as a result of different people with varying anatomy and hormones. They may not be Intentionally staying away but their hormone is out of wack. Something to bear in mind perhaps there's someone watching this and having self-guilt for not being sexually active during pregnancy.
PS: it's not a disease condition but with varying anatomy/ hormones people experience different changes due to pregnancy. Such individuals usually return back to pre-pregnancy state once baby is born.
Amen to this!
Thank you for this comment!! Many women actually struggle with decreased libido in pregnancy, it’s not they they don’t want to, they are just unable to
Thanks for always sharing your opinion 🥰 your words of knowledge are on point ✅
So timely. Thank you mama Solutions.
You are so welcome!
Thank You very much Tolulope solutions. This is one of my favorite videos. Thanks for the momcosy advert too.
Enjoyed watching this & how you backed it up with scripture 💯! Thanks mama Solutions!♥
You are very right solution Mama ❤
"... And its like gbas gbos" had me rolling😂😂
Thank you ma 😂🤲🏾
Just being honest here hehe 😂
Thank you for this helpful video❤️
Your hair is giving all it's supposed to give. Your hair always makes me consider locks. So beautiful 🥰💜
😊 thank you
Yeah, her is beautiful❤❤
Mine is locking ooh, for 3 months now
Please, can you talk about men who reject sex at first and get angry when their wife do the same not wanting to apologize all in the name of dignity
This is a profound angle but I think it will be best to have men in the video to speak for themselves. But I think she spoke a bit about that when she talked about attractiveness.
Yess o we're here... intimacy works for labour I had good intimacy with my husband in the morning of the precious day we welcomed our darling princess.
#Intimacy is for marriage only.
# fleesexualsins
Ooh lah lah! 😋
You go girl 💃
😂😂
Hi mama
Thank you for sharing ❤
Please what version did you read from?
The Message Translation
Thank you
Husband should handle his wife with care during this period , do it but just be gentle with her body and everything should be in moderation.
Do what is convenient for both of you, both of you need to talk about it , pls.
Thank you so much sis Tolulope.
This breast pump is a life saver 👌🏾
Pls so I need a powerful prayer point for daily basis🎉thanks in anticipation
I love your hair mama 😍😍😍😍
Thank u
God bless you so much for delicious food and gives you the wisdom to continue His work❤️❤️❤️
Thank you ma❤
Video so short.... thanks for doing this
Another banger o😂😂 the sex talk is.....gg...Can we talk about the glow that radiates from it both pregnancy & breastfeeding times😉🤭
Amen this is powerful thank you mama solutions God bless you the way I clicked on the video eh? 😂🥰this topic is very important sex is very important during pregnancy in marriage thank you for this topic ❤
“This was what got you here in the first place”😭😭😂😂😂😂
Me to myself: why are you watching? 😂
Me: it’s mama solutions 😌
Choosing to stay off wigs was from God… because what is this beauty of locs 😢I want it too.
Aww thank u
Thank you solutions for this video. In my own case, my doctor advised us to not get down there.
Thank you so much for this topic. I would like to ask a question, i Just did my traditional marriage/bride price and remaining church wedding, Is It fornication if you've not done church wedding but your bride price has been paid?
My dear is not a fornication because the most important one has been done. Some people only go to church for the blessing of marriage .
What would your home be based on, Traditions or the Lord?
It’s not fornication dear. The most important thing has been done which is seeking blessings from your parents. You can have sex after your traditional marriage if you want to.
Traditional marriage is as legit!
@@TolulopeSolutions thank you 😊😅
What version is your Bible ma’am? It’s spot on
It was the speed I used to click the video for me😂
😂😂
Same here
Me too.😆😄
Same here😂
Thank you very much ma❤
Thank you so much, @tolulopesolutions ma😊. I'm always so blessed by seeing your videos. It's how complete the Bible is for me. Thank you so much, for sharing this and keeping me enlightened. I pray for more of God's love and sweetness in your marriage and home 😊. God bless you. I love you so much, ma🥰🥰
Amen,Thank you Ma.
The Lord is our combined strength in Jesus name.❤❤
I clicked on this video immediately as I saw it and it was Worth it...Thanks mama Solution for the vlog....
I have a question to ask concerning sex while breastfeeding, I'm not married yet, but I've heard different stories of how breastfeeding moms get pregnant.... Unconsciously I'm overwhelmed with the fear of not being a victim of such
What's your take on this ma?
Family planning, ovulation tracker, withdrawal methods, condoms, all these helps. You just have to be intentional
Of a truth first year in marriage also ran me out of it.. I was like what the hell mistake have I done to myself? I would lie, I still face challenges to say, but I always bring it to the word. And I realized I needed to be more resilient and learn how to keep mute. I hope this makes sense.
But I know what I'm talking about👌
Bible marriage is the goal👌💯
Thank you mama❤❤❤
Lemme go and call hubby. From solutions “ having sex multiple time in the day is extra healthy ‘’
Una no the calm down oh 5 seconds there is already 10 comment
See me running to get a sit .. abeg no one should step on me.. cause im on this table
Its the "kpolokpolo" sound track for me.
Amen
I wanted to wait six weeks o but daddy wa needed amen!! I healed too so why not. This topic sweet my soul ooo❤❤❤
😂😂
Thank you for the enlightenment ma'am ❤❤
I didn’t bother watching this apart from the clip i saw on IG. but my own advise would be everybody should do what works for them and their spouses. Marriage is so much more than sex. Not having sex for a while would not tear down a strong marriage when both spouses are in agreement. Wahala for who nor get understanding husband. There’s people that don’t feel like it and their husbands understand. And that’s okay too. There’s people who have sex throughout pregnancy and that’s okay too. Let everybody do what works. There’s no manual to marriage. Having sex everyday isn’t what strengthens a marriage. Marriage wen go fail go fail.
Yes o. Marriage wey go fail go fail.
Why comment when you didn't bother to watch the video what you just commented was so off point,in every topic there is context, without it there is no discourse all this short attention span is just sad.
@@tessyezirim9723 na you sabi. You will be alright. I’m allowed to drop my opinion on a topic same way anybody is allowed to. All I spoke was facts. If you don’t like it, you can go outside to touch grass or cry in a corner. I don’t care. Plus this was almost 2 weeks ago. We’ve all moved on please. Bye bye
Since you didn’t watch, you might not have noticed that she read some scriptures and the HOLY BIBLE is the only manual to marriage. As marriage was not originated by either you or me
@@Mimi-hi5oo since you have moved on why then did you reply? 😂😂 I should go outside and touch,you should be telling yourself that now, you that cannot even process simple things with an attention span of a child, Na you. Gats touch grass true.
Thank you my Solutions I love this topic so sweet❤❤❤Marriage is so sweet let's enjoy sex in every season😂❤❤❤❤❤
Can i get an Amen 😅
Hmmm
Thanks mama
Weldone sis😊 this is for me😂 cus I tell my hubby am tired all the time 😂
Why do i keep clicking on marital talk, coming from a single to stupor somebody like me 😢 😅😅. God when ?
Great video… please what version of bible did you read the Corinthians text from. Thank you 🙏
MSG
@@TolulopeSolutions thank you ma 🙏
Please which Bible, version are reading from?, kindly inform, thanks.
The message translation
As much as I am enjoying this video and it’s honest information about Sex, the locs!!! What!!!
Aww thank u
There are about 5 people who declared that they were first to comment. I officially refute their claims and declare myself the first to comment 😅
My belly😂😂
Taking notes for when I get married 😂
The thing about sex helping to induce Labour is scientifically true even though I can’t practically confirm
I heard someone saying that he stopped touching the wife because he felt that the thing will be touching the baby head when he sleeps with the wife😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂ha
😂😂😂😂lolo you are here!
My husband and I have been apart for the most of my pregnancy but he will be with me soon and said he can’t wait to give our baby his first knocks on his head.😂😂😂
Sex in pregnancy will give the baby “kpom kpom kpom” on his head.
Mama Solutions please what version or translation of the bible is this? Thank you 😊
1 Corinthians 7 (MSG) The message translation 😁
Please which Bible version are you reading
Sex in pregnancy is a banger 😂
Thanks for sharing solution mama
Literally😂😂
Notification gang ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Please can I know the version of the bible you use?
MSG
Thank you so much Ma'am
Hmmmm Look at the brighter Side. 😂
Mama🥰🥰🥰
Sex while pregnant is a real sport.
My husband sef was scared
Yeah, Oxytocin is released during sex and this same oxytocin helps with labour. Makes labour faster.
I started watching since you began RUclips and till now, I'm like "I can't mistakenly leave this channel".
Thank you mama
Wow❤❤❤❤❤❤
Mama please what is the version of your bible??
@tolulopesolutions Have wanted to ask too
The message bible
The speed I use in clicking surprise me saf eiiii🤩🥰🥰
E do be like that sometimes 😂
@@TolulopeSolutions 🤩
OMG.
I am team till Labour Day, till last minute. We enjoy it like that 😉.
And postpartum is as early as we get in the mood.
Six weeks is a long time.
Thank God for strength 🤣🤣🤣
Love it!!
❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
Please put the part of the scripture for people who don’t know can easily reference it.
The sex part for married couples in the Bible
Must have been an oversight.
1 Corinthians 7:4
We are here😅
Ma, how do i get access to your premarital class?
@Tolulope Solutions
First to like sha😂🥺
First here💕💕💕
Not me finishing the 'I just want to quickly say thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this video...' line only to be disappointed 😂😂😂
Love love this video❤❤
Awww❤
While on this topic, are there any sex positions that are not recommended for Christians?
😂😂😂😂
None that I am aware of!
😂😂😂😂😂
First here ❤️
I haven’t finished the video, but what translation of the Bible did you just read?
1 Corinthians 7 (MSG) The message translation 😁
First !!!! ❤❤
First here💃💃
First person here 😅
First to comment ooo 🥳
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