Stop SHAMING Yourself! w/ Dr. Gerry Crete

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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

Комментарии • 39

  • @MovedByBeauty
    @MovedByBeauty 11 месяцев назад +8

    This transforms the whole healing process. ❤

  • @patrickturner91
    @patrickturner91 11 месяцев назад +60

    First! Now you gotta pray for me.

    • @danguard8543
      @danguard8543 11 месяцев назад +3

      Quick! Tell me your special patron saint!?

    • @ludwigvanbeethoven8164
      @ludwigvanbeethoven8164 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@danguard8543 padre pio

    • @nolancavanaugh406
      @nolancavanaugh406 11 месяцев назад

      I’ll throw up some gang signs for the Lord! Pray for me also

  • @theSimpleCatholicMan
    @theSimpleCatholicMan 11 месяцев назад +21

    I started taking my faith seriously during Covid, It was obvious that they tried to cut us off from the Eucharist, and clearly, it was with nefarious intent.
    I never knew the Catechism, so I had to start from scratch, and 1 of the first things I eradicated was this.
    Only though the Miraculous Medal was this possible, the holy mother made this doable.
    Remember, we can do nothing without grace, and we must ask for these graces, or we will never achieve anything in the spiritual life.

    • @whenpiratesattack
      @whenpiratesattack 11 месяцев назад

      How can a medal do anything?

    • @theSimpleCatholicMan
      @theSimpleCatholicMan 11 месяцев назад

      @@whenpiratesattack Try it

    • @vanessabernal8339
      @vanessabernal8339 11 месяцев назад +1

      im not sure if their intent was to cut us from the Eucharist, i would be careful of making such claims, even if it’s true, we need to be careful of slander and only speak for that of which we have evidence for. God bless you ❤

    • @theSimpleCatholicMan
      @theSimpleCatholicMan 11 месяцев назад +1

      @vanessabernal8339 Well if I can go to a tool store and buy tools, yet my salvation is of no concern?
      "We wrestle against principalities and powers"
      Plus because of the lack of reverence now showen to the Eucharist, God allowed it through his permissible will.

    • @vanessabernal8339
      @vanessabernal8339 11 месяцев назад

      @@theSimpleCatholicMan in the words of Padre Pio Padre Pio: “pray, hope, and don't worry”
      we need to concern ourselves with what we are doing, are we in a state of grace, instead of assigning blame to that which we have no control of. don’t you think God is merciful to understand why you couldn’t receive Him during covid-19? your salvation in that regards is not a risk because it’s not something you freely chose but was imposed on you.
      the devil uses people to get them to do his bidding, but our anger shouldn’t be directed to our human brethren who are made in the image and likeness of God. we need to be more charitable if we ever have any hope of reaching the lost.

  • @Donutearthpodcast
    @Donutearthpodcast 11 месяцев назад +1

    This is so accurate!!!

  • @regiumcroatiumrexbh6003
    @regiumcroatiumrexbh6003 11 месяцев назад +2

  • @AlbornozVEVO
    @AlbornozVEVO 11 месяцев назад +4

    if you consider that p0rn and masturbation are corruptions of a deeper good, then shame fades away when you realize that beneath your desire for those lies a desire for the good.
    this is why brute repression is not sustainable. it is better with redirection towards what is actually beneficial. habits never simply disappear, they are always replaced with other (hopefully, better) ones.

  • @nope24601
    @nope24601 11 месяцев назад

    And if the part that wants intimacy is an abomination?

  • @MrMezorrillac
    @MrMezorrillac 11 месяцев назад +1

    he should have a son and name him Conc

  • @zaviusfirerave
    @zaviusfirerave 11 месяцев назад +1

    The need for intimacy doesn't seem universal since in his book Dr. Stringer never even showed any case with this need. Instead, it's childhood trauma and stress. Besides, how do you even get your intimacy needs met? Doesn't being a porn addict give one no right to intimacy? Getting married and having sexual partner doesn't even cure the addiction either

    • @springwood1331
      @springwood1331 21 день назад

      I disagree the whole idea of sex being required for intimacy in a relationship, though many people seem to believe it is.

  • @kraljgrimiz
    @kraljgrimiz 11 месяцев назад

    I'm now in a place of void. I dont even have any desire to sin..i can't get pass not knowing why do some people get to believing and trying their best to overcome the slavery of sin and than others don't, how is that posible for such creation to come from God?
    Why do i want too.quot porn and my friend doesn't? Why do i have strenght to do it or better say why do i let Jesus take the sin and someone else hasn't got that strenggt and that desicion. Why? How is that his fault. Free will? What is that exactly? And how is it conceptualized?
    God bless you all brothers. Stay strong in Jesus in our Lord , even though you sometimes dont have the ground under your feet you know how too walk. And I am doing that, walking on the thin air of my faith.

  • @keeganmcintosh7353
    @keeganmcintosh7353 11 месяцев назад +13

    Shame is usually what draws us to masturbation as well

    • @keeganmcintosh7353
      @keeganmcintosh7353 11 месяцев назад

      @@alepine1986 You’ve changed my life. Thank you 🙏🏽

    • @JohnCenaFan6298
      @JohnCenaFan6298 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@alepine1986 which is procreative sex in accordance to th natural law yh

    • @Alfred-ky1ch
      @Alfred-ky1ch 11 месяцев назад +5

      I would like someone to pray for me.
      I’ve been fighting with this evil thing for months and tried nearly everything but it doesn’t work.
      I think main cause of this addiction for me is anxiety(low self esteem,inner voice) and lack of discipline.
      I would appreciate if someone would pray for me🙏.

    • @keeganmcintosh7353
      @keeganmcintosh7353 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@Alfred-ky1ch will do bro!

  • @JohnCena-mt2eu
    @JohnCena-mt2eu 11 месяцев назад +9

    Isaiah 64:6 - "All of us have become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous acts are like filthy rags." If even our righteous deeds are like filthy rags, how much more disgusting are our sins in the eyes of God? I think shame IS the right approach when it comes to serious sexual sin.

    • @emjayscat5947
      @emjayscat5947 11 месяцев назад

      we CANT SEE YOU John

    • @bearistotle2820
      @bearistotle2820 11 месяцев назад +1

      Did you watch the video?

    • @Paladin1976
      @Paladin1976 10 месяцев назад

      It is not. Shame doesn't help to overcome this issue.

  • @wahterr6281
    @wahterr6281 11 месяцев назад

    Currently trying to stop watching porn for lent - the rest of my life.

  • @SimplementeGabriela
    @SimplementeGabriela 11 месяцев назад +5

    Now, is it smart to put the website name and the thumbnail? Come on!! There are teens and children around! I hope you change it quick! May the Lord have Mercy on us all!

    • @JoeyG-o8r
      @JoeyG-o8r 11 месяцев назад +22

      This video is geared towards folks who are already struggling. Most of Fradd's channel is for adults.
      Also, not for nothing, the teens and children already know about the 'hub...

    • @TinKufrin
      @TinKufrin 11 месяцев назад

      You're right. It's a terrible thing to put the website on the thumbnail.

  • @dijahsyoutubechannel
    @dijahsyoutubechannel 11 месяцев назад

    don’t shame yourself, just lie to yourself instead!

  • @NINJED1
    @NINJED1 11 месяцев назад +1

    I couldnt relate to this.. for me porn or nudity has always
    Been entirely sentmental to those who indulge in getting
    “their needs met” both physically and intimately by who
    they are attracted to without the strings of friendship
    attached.. the touching myself part is the fantasy that
    I am the one in the video who is free to celebrate my
    eroticism with this hotty or perfect body.. so its less
    about what im thinking psychologically and more so
    like idolitory.. otherwise I wouldnt be so picky for the
    quality of the photography or the narrative comedy
    that goes into the build up narrative patter writing to
    give context to the eroticism. So pornography to be
    honest for me is less how I feel personally about my
    insecurities or guilt in my past trauma or something
    deep.. its shallow its meaningless but in my opinion
    it should be entirely illegal. Its prostitution and its
    disrespectful to marriage and basic principles of
    the human potential.. makes sexual context more
    of an objective or competition to win over someone
    rather than to “join together” its awful the consequence
    to our youth that teenagers (18&19) get put through.

  • @ShimobeSama
    @ShimobeSama 11 месяцев назад +1

    This is very Buddhist (by which I do not mean "demonic"), to turn inward and contemplate, meditate, and ask questions instead. Eastern Orthodoxy has a much more developed system of meditation than the other Christian branches with Hesychasm, etc., although Catholicism has quietism and things like that. Meditating to understand oneself and discern the will of God is essentially what Buddhists and Daoists have been doing in the East since before the Bible existed, and to simply dismiss it as demonic is some total low-IQ BS I keep seeing people do. Thinking and asking questions is "demonic" just because another religion taught it. This kind of thinking is the root of Trump Derangement Syndrome, anti-Semitism, and other forms of actual demonic possession.